I was just telling my coworker this today,- just… ignore them lol. I find it that, the more I literally don’t care to talk to a guy : he tries to find me everyyyywhere. Detach detach- DETACH.
My bf does it every time I get busy, but when things turn the opposite (in w/c I'm the one looking for him) he gets detached and I feel like he doesn't want me anymore. He's a cat lover, and i figured that's why he prefers me to be unbothered so he'll be the one who chases and "worships"
@@jboopsie she’s hella funny the type of humor she has just proves that she has really HIGH IQ… Pretty, smart and funny af I wouldn’t see why any man wouldn’t fall for her! That woman is a genius.
I have always told my homegirls men always come back around just to see if they can, they enjoy knowing they can have you again if they wanted to but it’s not necessarily because they WANT you.
Mhm that’s why once u eff up once u’re no longer my type. Ain’t no second chances. You get to experience me as me once. After that u get u a reflection of u.
I love it... I got men that hate me bcs they are obsessed bcs I dont care/ or trip out like the average untrained female would w/o this game/self-control.
Lol...Michael Jordans' current wife was a waitress when they met. Bob Johnson (BET owner) currrent wife was a hotel desk clerk when mett. Ladies, these women kept their eyes and ears open.
yup,Kris Jenner was a 19/21 year old flight attendant when she met Robert Kardashian Sr & Sonja Morgan ( real housewives of NY) met her ex husband ( heir of Morgan & Chase bank) at a restaurant she was waitressing at.
@@CS-pl1re everything she said to… did my hair.. ignored him, let him chase me, more than usual, makeup, lashes, let go of emotions, removed sex since April… I’m 26 and he is 26. Excited to see what will happen with a 40yr old.
@@blessedbeautysolutions1951 me and my bf still in contact though I removed sex from our relationship because it's really painful for me I can't withstand it he said he understands but am yet to see
Spot on. He said “I had a panic attack when I realized I messed everything up. No one else will ever love me the way you did. It makes me sick to think about you with someone else” 💀
I needed this 👏🏽👏🏽 this man played me horribly and now wants to spin the block. Oh he’s sorry, oh he didn’t know what he had, oh now he loves me. Pls. SPARE ME. When I loved him he didn’t want it - oh well. NEXT.
This is so true. Me and my ex had an argument and he took his car and told me to never text him again. I went on bout my lil biz and he texted me two weeks later. I text him "grass is always greener on the other side." He said that I got jokes. Yeah and I have an even bigger one....never text him bk again.Shera you are so right. I was doing pilates when that fool texted. Shera you are really glowing in this video. Thanks for all you do.❤
This happened to me and my bf. There was a rough patch where I felt ignored and needy and begged for his attention. once I started focusing on myself he came running back. I'm afraid of putting my heart into it again and getting myself into that negative state again..
So I have a POT, he kinda just fell in my lap. He's my 90 yr old clients son, he's 70 lol! He's so lonely, talks my ear off, has expressed a liking to me & gave me a $500 check out of nowhere because he knew I was having car trouble. I'm trying to get on the will 💯🤞🏾💀⚰️😂🤣😅🤣😅😂
*That's so true Shera. My ex said himself no one ever loved him like I did. He still checks up on me trying to see if I'm dating someone else. I laugh and ask how he's been. Nice try buddy*
Really? Not his own mother ever loved him? How does he know what love is to give or receive from someone else ? Especially, if he never receives it from any other woman and including his mother? I'm just saying.
Guys get so annoyed when I set a legit timer on my phone for their allotted time with me,(when it goes off they are like what’s that? And I’m like ope gotta go. It’s a good way for me to stay on top of my priorities and keep on schedule. 😂
MY GIRL! that's right. listen up, ladies. Shera, I had men try to use me when I went to their house. They ask me to come to the kitchen and chop some onions or wash the dishes.
Excellent video. I find that by doing things i like.. i really love my time to myself and a man actually becomes a burden.... on my own.. i can eat whatever.. watch whatever... freedom is so liberating💜
@@KurosakiLuvar01😂 get married and live in separate houses. My aunt and her husband do that and he still does everything for her. Living with a partner isn't for everyone
This is how I feel too, they ruin my Saturday night with their presence when I can be at home eating what I want in my pyjamas listening to music and reading- in peace
My ex ( now divorcing) husband asked me rhetorically what I bought to the table... My reply " I am the f*cking table" I was. And now I'm serving myself.
I always say that it was a waste of my time if I have to work n pay my own bills wtf I’m wasting time on you for?!. I’m busy baby. Take these bills off my hands then maybe we can talk bc I’ll have time for you.
You are so correct! I've been trying to get rid of constant phone messages for about two years. I know it's because the person is a narcissist not because he loves me even though he constantly says "I LOVE YOU" It's annoying, move on because I have.
Hun Narcissist don't have feelings they don't become bug a boos lol..Narcissist normally have many women on rotation & they fail to beg for anyone their Ego won't let them. So ur X may be an Asshole but not the text book version of a narc..ive dated one they are cold as ice & don't show no emotion once the relationship ends. They are so arrogant that they rather see u beg 4the relationship it makes them feel good but a Real Narcissistic person will rather let Hell freeze over b4 they beg 4anything or anyone they replace asap
@@69Fabulosity you are correct. He had no feelings but for himself. I had to tell him to ask how other people were and not make life all about him. He was a flirt and attracted women who he always said they flirted with him. When I asked him about women he looked at, he told me I was jealous and denied looking at anyone. Very tedious relationship
@@begonebegone7825 Narcissist are very self absorbed and arrogant. They Never admit when they are wrong. Ive had a rich one who would seduce women with $ didn't Matter if we went to dinner he would tip the waitress over 300 & give his business card so he could get another chick while he was with me & deny it saying he was only being generous. I like shera but she makes rich guys look like simps & many are far from that they are cunning & control freaks bc they hold all the 💰 & if u don't like something they can easily kick u 2the curb & get another woman with the snap of their fingers bc so many women are thirsty for a rich man & they know it.
This is something I keep trying to get some of the guys at work to get tht when a woman is done, she’s done. Like I don’t think most me really get this. They think they can come around and talk a woman who is done with you, into you when she’s done. It’s bc a woman moves on emotionally. And when tht happens, cut your loses bc it will NEVER ever be the same. So don’t force a woman who is done with you to stay with you bc it would be the most painful thing u can put yourself thru as a man. I think man has a hard time comprehending when this happens bc they keep remembering the times when the woman give a ish about them. And now she doesn’t. I think their ego, delusion can’t afford it but it’s really over
This is actually true, a man that I no longer want, it's been almost 6 years till date he begs me to give him a chance, he has never been in any relationship after me ( hook ups only) his legitimate words were I CAN'T REPLACE YOU, YOU WERE ONCE IN LIFE TIME. I am like yeah I know 😌
It works…lol. Reached out mentioned “that” when the day came didn’t respond 😂 Getting paragraphs for the last three days. Eye contact with an older man at the bar during happy hour with his work friends. He noticed after the second glance/smile and they started discussing how much they made from closing a business deal. I was walking out and he proceeded to get up and stop me as I walked out the door. My dress covered everything except a thigh slit. Ladies she knows what she talking about!!
I’m 20 mins in and I was recommended this video… when i tell you I’m laughing 😂😂🤣😭 you’re so funny lol but telling the truth as well. I love your aesthetic and you come off as a beautiful, intelligent, KEPT WOMAN and that’s the vibeeeee 💫💜💜💜
I’m only 5 minutes in so far, and although I LOVE every single look our MUVA Shera serves us with; I’m loving this pinup curl look. I appreciate you giving us more of your authentic self in addition to all your excellent advice. It is greatly appreciated!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I wear my natural hair more than anything, but I definitely have 2 wigs now up from zero (40 years young). I appreciate the time it saves and the versatility, but ultimately I always look better with my own hair (natural but straightened or roller set).
A man was supposed to call me yesterday but he didn't. When he did call, he asked if I was angry or disappointed in him. I said "I am niether angry nor disappointed. I just don't like that you don't keep your own words. I'm watching you depleting your points, in my books that's - 1 point for you. " Was I wrong? I felt like I would have to be emotionally invested or possessive of him if I were angry or disappointed. But at the same time, I feel like what I said makes him getaway easily for his action and I'm rewarding bad behavior.
Maybe try not answering until he texts you with an offer worth your while and then if he ask if you’re upset just say no I was busy I hadn’t noticed….be completely unbothered
LOL We get done after wasting time for sure but I would also add equal parts of ENERGY ... especially when they disregard my energy and time ... it's Def done for me
Amen Sis...bcuz we can do bad all by ourselves..and we're not down for that sh##. Shera you said it...we women do SO much for nothing...already. It's time we acknowledge our worth and expect and demand our sprinkle's!
YES!! what I choose to do with my time is MY CHOICE!! I’d rather play in traffic than deal with these men that have no accountability, goals or money 😂😂 boy bye - getchu a pickmeisha or barbrara the builder tf
You Want all my time but not willing to compensate me for it! Pshh boy bye’ I’d rather spend it on myself n doing things that’s going to be beneficial to me. Tf.
Any man I’ve pretended to show no interest to has chased me, any man I have obsessed over left me heart broken
Wow! It’s crazy how you put that, but 💯💯💯
Straight up! 💯
This !!! The weirdest thing 🥴
Insane
"If he wants you...he will come get you"
No truer statement than this
period!
Yup
Simple and true 🤷🏻♀️
@@BillionaireDubaii ppññ00
I was just telling my coworker this today,- just… ignore them lol. I find it that, the more I literally don’t care to talk to a guy : he tries to find me everyyyywhere. Detach detach- DETACH.
I am so detached im actually afraid if I can even ever connect. I just dgaf about them.
@@swiitdoll Right! It’s like once you do it- it’s kinda hard to go back lol
That’s a guy who has no respect for himself, a simp . A man who knows his value don’t pursue a woman who ignores and rejects him
Same!
My bf does it every time I get busy, but when things turn the opposite (in w/c I'm the one looking for him) he gets detached and I feel like he doesn't want me anymore. He's a cat lover, and i figured that's why he prefers me to be unbothered so he'll be the one who chases and "worships"
If you're not benefitting me, I DON'T care what you're doing, which is power... Straight facts.
CORRECT!
Facts!! 🔥🔥💯😩‼️
How you know a dude is lying?
Shera: if his lips are moving.
😂😂
😂🤣😅
That was hilarious 😂🤣
@@jboopsie she’s hella funny the type of humor she has just proves that she has really HIGH IQ…
Pretty, smart and funny af I wouldn’t see why any man wouldn’t fall for her! That woman is a genius.
@@BlacKWidoW70s 💯💯‼️
😂🤣
Ladies men will chase you for years ‼️ please don’t be out here chasing men ‼️
sure do, I gave in after 5/6 years & still got played.Always follow your instincts!
@@vturner that’s why you make then spend lots of money up front
@@itsHappening-ry2ef 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I had a guy who I met off OkCupid a couple times in 2011 still show up in my inbox up to this day. And no, I never slept with him
Yaasss! Maturity is sexy in Both men and women, Never worry about getting old
"You won't even notice your being stalked because you ain't even looking for a stalker" 🤣🤣🤣
😂😭😝
“I’m not bringing nothing to the table I’m not a waitress” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What a gem!
I know that‘s right🤣🤣🤣🤣
😁😁😁😁
Yes mamm 💅👏👏👏😅
😂 i love this woman
Never let anyone or anything WASTE your precious time …. ready or not.
Yeah
I have always told my homegirls men always come back around just to see if they can, they enjoy knowing they can have you again if they wanted to but it’s not necessarily because they WANT you.
Mhm that’s why once u eff up once u’re no longer my type. Ain’t no second chances. You get to experience me as me once. After that u get u a reflection of u.
This!!!!! @@RawestHuniVisualDiaries
"If I'm not the guest of honor, don't invite me." - That's the sermon, the benediction and the eulogy.
🤣😘
Amenz! 🙏
Period
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I wanna like this a hunnid times 😂
“You’ve become a sociopath now, no emotions, how will this end? Probably without a lot of drama.” SHERA 😅 this is why you’re the queen
I love it... I got men that hate me bcs they are obsessed bcs I dont care/ or trip out like the average untrained female would w/o this game/self-control.
she isn't sociopath, she is equilibrium and satsified in herself, creates as she desires, she is busy in enjoying her life!
Beautiful shades ❤❤❤
😂 men loves when u overreact. It boost their egos. And when u don’t …they get sacred and taken back
@@heartstarottm9245 😂 girlll ! That was loud hehehe 🤭 me in my early 20s. Once I hit 24 , I started blocking.
Lol...Michael Jordans' current wife was a waitress when they met. Bob Johnson (BET owner) currrent wife was a hotel desk clerk when mett. Ladies, these women kept their eyes and ears open.
Yes they did lol and played the game!
Always work / be in places where you can meet people worth meeting! ❤
yup,Kris Jenner was a 19/21 year old flight attendant when she met Robert Kardashian Sr & Sonja Morgan ( real housewives of NY) met her ex husband ( heir of Morgan & Chase bank) at a restaurant she was waitressing at.
Matt Damon wife was a bartender when he met her
Started watching you a week now and my rent is already paid 😅😅😅. Thank you!!!!!
sprinkle sprinkle! 🎉
What did you do ?
@@CS-pl1re everything she said to… did my hair.. ignored him, let him chase me, more than usual, makeup, lashes, let go of emotions, removed sex since April… I’m 26 and he is 26. Excited to see what will happen with a 40yr old.
Also I said, ‘It’s so hard paying these bills all by myself.’
@@blessedbeautysolutions1951 me and my bf still in contact though I removed sex from our relationship because it's really painful for me I can't withstand it he said he understands but am yet to see
Truth! This is happening now... I wholeheartedly don't gaf and he just keeps trying and trying 😂. So stupid. They start caring when you don't! NEXT!
Yes
I swear I stopped trying to understand men completely 😅😅I can’t
What do I bring to the table: my presence, sir. The honor of being with me when I could’ve done a million other things than being with you.
Spot on. He said “I had a panic attack when I realized I messed everything up. No one else will ever love me the way you did. It makes me sick to think about you with someone else” 💀
Sounds like my ex lol 😆 …they made their bed now wanna cry smh
same ! His friend told me he was mad because I wouldn’t let him come back, he was planning on getting me pregnant !!
Don't fall for it
@@vturneromg 😳😳
i hope you moved on he sounds herendous 💀
“If I’m not your Guest of Honor, then don’t invite me. I got stuff to do. Don’t waste my time. I got important things to do.”
I needed this 👏🏽👏🏽 this man played me horribly and now wants to spin the block. Oh he’s sorry, oh he didn’t know what he had, oh now he loves me. Pls. SPARE ME. When I loved him he didn’t want it - oh well. NEXT.
Girl I feel this!!!
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Girl when men spin the block just ask them for money 😂
Been through that a lot smh
This is so true. Me and my ex had an argument and he took his car and told me to never text him again. I went on bout my lil biz and he texted me two weeks later. I text him "grass is always greener on the other side." He said that I got jokes. Yeah and I have an even bigger one....never text him bk again.Shera you are so right. I was doing pilates when that fool texted. Shera you are really glowing in this video. Thanks for all you do.❤
How hard is pilates? I've never done I but always was wanting to try.
@@blueseptember2174 some parts are easy it's challenging go with beginners lol
This always happens while you're doing your goddess self care. The dusties energetically feel you pulling away. Ladies it's real!!!!!! Be well
Been following you since I was like 20 I’m 27 now and married but I still love watching your videos 💕 your like the big sister I never had .
Wish I found her earlier just found her this year at 25 🥺
Did you apply her advice?
@@isabelcastano1855 I did I had a sugar daddy when I was younger but now I’m married with another man who is also successful.
@@wanjikuk7662 found her last year at 32 😂😂
It's 31 for me
If he wants you he will come get you. ❤
Once a woman is done, it’s OVA ! 💯
Yep I'm done caring... I will not be ignored! A year and a half invested... He threw it away. Next!!!
Your ability to come up with simple solutions on the spot in seconds in shocking....and theyre GOOD solutions 😨
This happened to me and my bf. There was a rough patch where I felt ignored and needy and begged for his attention. once I started focusing on myself he came running back. I'm afraid of putting my heart into it again and getting myself into that negative state again..
Never give your heart to a man.
Don't do it
Thank you. Y’all are both correct.
Any updates?
@@chai-2866I stopped talking to him and although I am still grieving, I’m glad to have my mental sanity.
So I have a POT, he kinda just fell in my lap. He's my 90 yr old clients son, he's 70 lol! He's so lonely, talks my ear off, has expressed a liking to me & gave me a $500 check out of nowhere because he knew I was having car trouble. I'm trying to get on the will 💯🤞🏾💀⚰️😂🤣😅🤣😅😂
😭😭😭
Oh lord! 😂
Yess I love this!!
Lmaoo not tryna get on the will 😂😂
Faaaaaaactssss 😂😝
*That's so true Shera. My ex said himself no one ever loved him like I did. He still checks up on me trying to see if I'm dating someone else. I laugh and ask how he's been. Nice try buddy*
Really? Not his own mother ever loved him? How does he know what love is to give or receive from someone else ? Especially, if he never receives it from any other woman and including his mother? I'm just saying.
Why do I keep attracting dudes who want me to chase THEM 🤦🏽♀️ I detach and they drop off
They’re feminine, just like most men nowadays.
Guys get so annoyed when I set a legit timer on my phone for their allotted time with me,(when it goes off they are like what’s that? And I’m like ope gotta go. It’s a good way for me to stay on top of my priorities and keep on schedule. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 never thought of a timer but this is so cool and funny at the same time! 👍👍👍🤣🤣
I am dead 🤣🤣🤣 definitely doing this
😂 you go girl
Haha will have to try this one ☝️💜✨🌸🙏🏽📿🔮🧘🏽♀️🎇🥰🐝🥳
I LOVE YOUR SUNGLASSES SHERA ITS BRINGING GODDESS ENERGY ✨⚡️💜🙏🏽🌸🧘🏽♀️🔮📿🪐👽🎇🚀🥰🛸☝️🥳🔮📿🧘🏽♀️👇🏽💜💜💜💜💜
Yes I've married 2xs and never had to chase a man your right a man knows how to pursue what he wants
MY GIRL! that's right. listen up, ladies. Shera, I had men try to use me when I went to their house. They ask me to come to the kitchen and chop some onions or wash the dishes.
I did some lite cleaning at someone's house once, I do absolutely nothing now
Excellent video. I find that by doing things i like.. i really love my time to myself and a man actually becomes a burden.... on my own.. i can eat whatever.. watch whatever... freedom is so liberating💜
They do become a burden like a job....like when you going home oh wait we live together now dang.
That’s one of the reasons I don’t want to be married. I’ve been single my entire life a husband would annoy me but I want his money. 😭
@@KurosakiLuvar01😂 get married and live in separate houses. My aunt and her husband do that and he still does everything for her. Living with a partner isn't for everyone
@@yazmynebright5892I just said the other day, a bf is a damn job and we
must be compensated.
This is how I feel too, they ruin my Saturday night with their presence when I can be at home eating what I want in my pyjamas listening to music and reading- in peace
My ex ( now divorcing) husband asked me rhetorically what I bought to the table... My reply " I am the f*cking table" I was. And now I'm serving myself.
I always say that it was a waste of my time if I have to work n pay my own bills wtf I’m wasting time on you for?!. I’m busy baby. Take these bills off my hands then maybe we can talk bc I’ll have time for you.
Exactly! ❤️💫🌍
Yessss!
This is my biggest problem when I like a guy I give the attention which I guess is a turn off or they just don't like me.
This lady is absolutely exquisite 💐 Truly in her feminine energy 😍
You are so correct! I've been trying to get rid of constant phone messages for about two years. I know it's because the person is a narcissist not because he loves me even though he constantly says "I LOVE YOU" It's annoying, move on because I have.
Hun Narcissist don't have feelings they don't become bug a boos lol..Narcissist normally have many women on rotation & they fail to beg for anyone their Ego won't let them. So ur X may be an Asshole but not the text book version of a narc..ive dated one they are cold as ice & don't show no emotion once the relationship ends. They are so arrogant that they rather see u beg 4the relationship it makes them feel good but a Real Narcissistic person will rather let Hell freeze over b4 they beg 4anything or anyone they replace asap
@@69Fabulosity you are correct. He had no feelings but for himself. I had to tell him to ask how other people were and not make life all about him. He was a flirt and attracted women who he always said they flirted with him. When I asked him about women he looked at, he told me I was jealous and denied looking at anyone. Very tedious relationship
@@begonebegone7825 Narcissist are very self absorbed and arrogant. They Never admit when they are wrong. Ive had a rich one who would seduce women with $ didn't Matter if we went to dinner he would tip the waitress over 300 & give his business card so he could get another chick while he was with me & deny it saying he was only being generous. I like shera but she makes rich guys look like simps & many are far from that they are cunning & control freaks bc they hold all the 💰 & if u don't like something they can easily kick u 2the curb & get another woman with the snap of their fingers bc so many women are thirsty for a rich man & they know it.
I be blocking them !!! No time to even think BLOCKED LOL
@@lifewithkashmeere I have to pay for blocking. His phone calls are blocked but I can't block phone messages.
This is something I keep trying to get some of the guys at work to get tht when a woman is done, she’s done. Like I don’t think most me really get this. They think they can come around and talk a woman who is done with you, into you when she’s done. It’s bc a woman moves on emotionally. And when tht happens, cut your loses bc it will NEVER ever be the same. So don’t force a woman who is done with you to stay with you bc it would be the most painful thing u can put yourself thru as a man. I think man has a hard time comprehending when this happens bc they keep remembering the times when the woman give a ish about them. And now she doesn’t. I think their ego, delusion can’t afford it but it’s really over
"If I'm not your guest of honor, don't invite me." I so love this🥰Thanks for that gem SheRa!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is actually true, a man that I no longer want, it's been almost 6 years till date he begs me to give him a chance, he has never been in any relationship after me ( hook ups only) his legitimate words were I CAN'T REPLACE YOU, YOU WERE ONCE IN LIFE TIME. I am like yeah I know 😌
Manifesting this for me!!! Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
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Ladies, I'm sure gas has gone up but if affording gas is an issue, get you another one.
“I don’t know what I was thinking when I said ‘I do’, but I’m doing something else, sprinkle sprinkle” 😭this is going to be my motto.
Right, 20 years, I hVe to blame myself how I let these last 😢4 years didn't go right
I love you Shera...you are just beautiful and politically correct in every regard.
These rules are the only protection available....HONESTLY!!
Haha mmkkkkmpk k kk
Kknnkkium
facts.
Shera is killing me with the logic 😭😭 people definitely only have control issues it’s usually not because they miss you 🤣 just bursted my ego bubble 🫧
She’s so witty and hilarious 😂💕💕💕
This is soo true my ex of 3 years ago keep calling trying get back in meanwhile he got a woman 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Block him or change your number
Does she know?
😂 he wants u as a side chick
@@eveheart2876that will never happen girl
@@j-tenn226prob not but who cares I don’t want that dusty😂😂😂
only teacher i need on all aspects of life
Period sis !!! All this makes more and more sense to me the older I get.
How do u know if a dude is lying?? if his lips are moving 🤣😂😂😂 Thank you Shera
*"If I'm not the guest of honor, don't invite me"*
It works…lol. Reached out mentioned “that” when the day came didn’t respond 😂 Getting paragraphs for the last three days. Eye contact with an older man at the bar during happy hour with his work friends. He noticed after the second glance/smile and they started discussing how much they made from closing a business deal. I was walking out and he proceeded to get up and stop me as I walked out the door. My dress covered everything except a thigh slit. Ladies she knows what she talking about!!
True,this happens even in marriages.
Thank you for always awakening me and enabling me to prioritize what benefits me the most!
A rich dusty negged me yesterday, I laughed as I walked away!
Where do they get off being rich, dusty and that narcissistic? I dealt with it before myself lol.
Girl ! Dealing with one now. DONE
@@chiobabe2180 the rich ones dangle their income or assets as carrots 🙄 yeah, we're not dumb. 😂
Just wanted to say I💜💜💜YOU Sis‼️Listened to another woman yesterday due to a Ted Talk & was like awwwh hell nawwwh! I gotta get my Shera fix! 💁🏾♀️
Lol for real, the mainstream shit don’t resonate with me anymore lol
This came right on time!!!! This exact subject
I know 😆
I thought the same… DETACH DETACH DETACH 🤣
she said get you a costume and jump up and down im dead 💀💀😹😹
Detachment is my religion 🥰
Once I become indifferent and cold, that’s it.. I can’t even stop me from being that way with you if I tried…
Smh
I’m 20 mins in and I was recommended this video… when i tell you I’m laughing 😂😂🤣😭 you’re so funny lol but telling the truth as well. I love your aesthetic and you come off as a beautiful, intelligent, KEPT WOMAN and that’s the vibeeeee 💫💜💜💜
You giving straight facts 💯
I love it" if I'm not the guest of honor then don't bring me",yes ma'am
I’m only 5 minutes in so far, and although I LOVE every single look our MUVA Shera serves us with; I’m loving this pinup curl look. I appreciate you giving us more of your authentic self in addition to all your excellent advice. It is greatly appreciated!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I wear my natural hair more than anything, but I definitely have 2 wigs now up from zero (40 years young). I appreciate the time it saves and the versatility, but ultimately I always look better with my own hair (natural but straightened or roller set).
“It’s your life you can change it anytime”
Thank you Shera you’ve helped me a ton these past two years
Follow her and youlll be happy af I agree she helped me as well
Thank you Shera, you’re a mastermind.
No matter how many videos you make, I still learn something new. ✨💖🥂
Its a TRUE man's nature to go after the woman he wants.
Don’t even want you to make the time, stay where you at.
A man was supposed to call me yesterday but he didn't. When he did call, he asked if I was angry or disappointed in him. I said "I am niether angry nor disappointed. I just don't like that you don't keep your own words. I'm watching you depleting your points, in my books that's - 1 point for you. "
Was I wrong? I felt like I would have to be emotionally invested or possessive of him if I were angry or disappointed. But at the same time, I feel like what I said makes him getaway easily for his action and I'm rewarding bad behavior.
Maybe try not answering until he texts you with an offer worth your while and then if he ask if you’re upset just say no I was busy I hadn’t noticed….be completely unbothered
If a guy calls you last minute, don't answer. Or calls you after his stipulated timr
@@yogib1442 truth. Taking notes.
I just love you... you are absolutely correct and keep me laughing.
It’s giving BOSS BISH!! Love you Shera ❤️
😆🤣 I'm over here hollering. You need to be in a movie. Also, a book with your funniest quotes. 🤣
LOL We get done after wasting time for sure but I would also add equal parts of ENERGY ... especially when they disregard my energy and time ... it's Def done for me
This so real, the best thing is to say “what do you bring, you must bring so much to ask me upfront like that”
Shera is the queen of being unbothered.😂☠️ I love it. Lol
Amen Sis...bcuz we can do bad all by ourselves..and we're not down for that sh##. Shera you said it...we women do SO much for nothing...already. It's time we acknowledge our worth and expect and demand our sprinkle's!
GORGEOUS AND A GENIUS! ⚡️⚡️⚡️
SPRINKLE SPRINKLE ⭐️⭐️⭐️💜
You Give The Absolute BEST Advice!!!
YES!! what I choose to do with my time is MY CHOICE!! I’d rather play in traffic than deal with these men that have no accountability, goals or money 😂😂 boy bye - getchu a pickmeisha or barbrara the builder tf
Lol exactly
😁 That’s going to be my new perspective lol I loved that “ Play in traffic”
@@carmenr9251 😂
Fab, fab, and just fab.....
Breathe life back into it constantly 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks!
They won't make time for ya if they are ignoring you. And most men are doing just that: They are ignoring you.
"Get you a costume and do cartwheels" 😂
You Want all my time but not willing to compensate me for it! Pshh boy bye’ I’d rather spend it on myself n doing things that’s going to be beneficial to me. Tf.
You keep it real! *sprinkle sprinkle!!
Rehabilitate my bank account 😂😂
@SheRaSeven is a National Treasure, may even be an International Treasure. I'm obviously a fan and a student. Thank you! ❤️🌹
Bro Shera is so funny I love her 😂
I will say one thing: Paying them no mind gets you nowhere...they will leave. I have witnessed this
Exactly
Let them leave.
Shera you are saving womens lives
This woman is so funny 😂 sprinkle sprinkle 👏🏼👏🏼
This came at the perfect time. Thank you ❤️
I’m only 40 minutes in and laughed through most of this bc yesssss to all of it hahaaha
You are 'The wise one's and I love your sense of humour. Hilarious.
I am the guest of honour. Perfect 🤩
This message was right on time
Good content. Love it!
First of All I will never put my entire life in the hands of a man…then she points to her brain.