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  • @muslimah6326
    @muslimah6326 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I love the term Jannah friends! May Allah grant us righteous friends and make us a righteous friend

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right !? & Ameen Ameen ❤️

  • @farukmukhtar
    @farukmukhtar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    if you are not losing friends then you are not growing thats how i see it,not that i dont like my friends or people but some relationships are not just worth chasing and life is about growth, anything that hinders akhlaq is not just worth it to me.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%

    • @neymarzam9297
      @neymarzam9297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤mashaAllah u said

  • @neymarzam9297
    @neymarzam9297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I swear I know this will sound all crazy but wallahi...what ur going through the duas u hope for I hope for ...sometimes u need ur Muslim sis around who are righteous ❤. I love you sis ur amazing wallahi

  • @khadijahbrown151
    @khadijahbrown151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    assalamu alikum sis! i’ve been going through the same thing since i reverted. i’m not necessarily lonely but i am alone. i’ve been praying for quite some time for righteous friends but i fell off of making that dua. this is a reminder for me to get back to it. i’ve never been a social butterfly or had a bunch of friends. but now i pretty much have no friends and i moved across the country a few months. i definitely understand everything you’ve said sister

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Waleykum Salam, I totally get you may Allah swt grant you what your heart desires. Keep making dua💕 you’ve got me too

    • @khadijahbrown151
      @khadijahbrown151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@meiiilin ameen may allah swt grant you that in so much more! i hope to be one of your jannah friends in'sha'allah lol

    • @WhatTheFWAFA14
      @WhatTheFWAFA14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Keep me in your duas as well please. I’m a revert, moving away from family & left a haram relationship Alhumdulilah. May we all get genuine halal relationships!

    • @WhatTheFWAFA14
      @WhatTheFWAFA14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Keep me in your duas as well please. I’m a revert, moving away from family & left a haram relationship Alhumdulilah. May we all get genuine halal relationships!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @WhatTheFWAFA14 Ameen, may you be rewarded for your efforts

  • @ForeverBeauty591
    @ForeverBeauty591 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Oh wow Subhan’Allah, I resonate with this so much. After graduating from uni I’ve been in this seclusion phase. I just want sisters who send me halaqah’s and say WERE GOING! sisters who say let’s study some hadiths together or a surah together. Genuinely sometimes I feel like I’m the only one who wants this. But I’m going to be consistent with this dua so thank you. And I pray for whoever reads this and is going through the same thing, I ask Allah to bless you with the best of friends. Sisters who want Jannah for you as much as they want it for themselves. Sisters who’ll make dua and pray for you without you even asking. Sisters who’ll become aunties to your kiddiessss. May Allah grant us all these righteous sisters in our lives ameen. Don’t ever give up on your duas girls never ever. May Allah bless you all with so much happiness and barakah in your lives. Keep striving for good and good will come to you too ❤️❤️

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Allahumma ameen, may Allah swt grant all the good your heart desires too ❤️

  • @neymarzam9297
    @neymarzam9297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I feel blessed to have found u ..Allah made that possible

  • @linababikir
    @linababikir 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Allah isolate us so we can reach to him, talk to him and complain to him. He's our protector from this dunya and to him we shall return. May Allah swt grant me a righteous friend like u who reminds me of Islam with her peace, calmness and character.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely & Ameen ya rabb, I’m honoured but may Allah swt make it so that I am indeed better than what you think of me❤️ Jazakallahu khair

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video has been such a beautiful reminder, have lost so many and I should not be sad and reflect within as I seek closeness to Allah!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May Allah bring you your people Ameen ❤️

  • @BigBroSadiq
    @BigBroSadiq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i used to want a lot of friends coming into islam 16 years ago. honestly friends come and go. it's been my experiences many Muslims suffer from the same illness shaytan has that's jealousy and envy especially when you teach islam or people take to you or you aspire to be better and not engage in things allah hates like backbiting and gossip or you begin telling your friends they shouldn't be engaging in certain things. so i began focusing on my family more and being with my mother and father and calling them to islam and alhumdulillah they are practicing Muslims now, i achieved things that i couldn't achieve when i had a bunch of friends. (by Allahs permission) so sometimes friends will slow you down and distract you from reaching your potential especially when they see you have high motivations and goals. it hurts alot being friends with people and after 5,6 years you see they're true colors and its extremely hard to empty your heart of anger or resentment towards them once they wronged you so sometimes it's better to be alone and save yourself from anguish and pain. so it's important we don't be naive and think every practicing good seeming Muslim is going to be a good friend I always tell people shaytans rank was so high he was the only jinn with the angels in jennah but he was still not safe from envy and jealousy he had towards Adam which ruined his iman and Will land him in jehannam forever. another thing to do is seek pious spouses to go through lifes ups and downs with you. there's a concept in islam called zuhd a concept that involved seclusion lack of socializing in which one would use to grow tremendously and be close to Allah many of the scholars of the sunnah practiced it. may Allah make it easy and help your channel to grow and benefit you and others ameen.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Something to think about this comment, may Allah reward you

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Where do you liveee, let's go! I want these things to! Thanks for the reminder sis, drinking matcha as a write this. I'm alone too with no one currently around me in my position or shoes and about to move far from family to pursue career goals, Alhumdulilah the right people shall make their way into our lives!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha period! I live in London, maybe message me on TikTok or email me

  • @WhatTheFWAFA14
    @WhatTheFWAFA14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm going to remember to start saying asalam alaikum, as a revert I'm not in the happen, but nor do my Muslim friends greet me this way, this is such a good habit I will start because it sets the tone for the convo in such a beautiful way and whenever I greet strangers with it in the past it has made great uber drive convos lol, so please keep making these helpful videos for us, I will continue sharing good influence videos with others!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In sha Allah I will & yeah I agree it really does set the tone of the conversation

  • @afranaurahanoyshi5946
    @afranaurahanoyshi5946 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Assalamu Alaikum sister, Ive been thinking of this seclusion phase as a time when Allah wants me to grow closer to the Deen, to increase HIS remembrance in my life so that I understand how much I am in need of HIS help (as I get distracted by worldly things easily 😓). I really appreciate your videos as they help me a lot in terms of my Imaan. Pleease share tips on how to remain consistent, overcome anxiety and so on. Sending prayers and love and may Allah help you meet the righteous friends soon In sha Allah 🌼

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Waleykum Salam & that’s exactly how we should look at it, the seclusion makes us better when the focus is Allah & thank you ☺️ Ameen ya rabb 💕

  • @asmuslim23
    @asmuslim23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Subhan’Allah, Alhamdulillah wa La illaha illalaah wal Allahu Akbar❤️ Being alone means you grow stronger and teaches you to be dependent on Allah swt so that’s a WIN! You are capable of everything when you know yourself so inshallah you find what you’re looking for…May Allah swt grant you wellbeing in the Dunya and Akhirah. Ameen.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re absolutely right, Ameen ya rabb & for you too ❤️

  • @AissaDiallo-md1qq
    @AissaDiallo-md1qq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You never miss it’s like you live in my head 😅😩

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha I’m glad we can all relate

  • @saratijani3192
    @saratijani3192 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Back at it again with another video speaking to my soul, may Allah reward you tremendously I truly love you for the sake of Allah

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ameen sis ilym 🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @naminamii4403
    @naminamii4403 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, I can definitely relate to every single word in the video. May Allah grant us all Jennah-friends!

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameen 💓💓

  • @Aaysha-Humeyra
    @Aaysha-Humeyra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Assalamu aleikum namesake.... I'm also in search of meaningful relationships for the sake of Allah. I'm so much alone. I make Dua.... sometimes i just sit and let my heart cry out. I just hope something good will come out of this.

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Waleykum Salam, it definitely will. Use this time to get even closer to Allah

  • @mameanta5608
    @mameanta5608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The news paper cleaning mirror 😅something I do as well

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg really I actually it was just my family 😂 my mum put me on I haven’t turned back

    • @mameanta5608
      @mameanta5608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@meiiilin it’s the best, same my mom put me on too😭🥹

  • @izaaaaaarah1270
    @izaaaaaarah1270 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hey girl, i live 20 mins outside of london, if you wanna grab matcha or go mosque together or even hangout let’s do it. i only have insta though not tiktok

    • @meiiilin
      @meiiilin  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Salam sis, just seeing this yess I’d love to message me 🫶🏾