This Is It S01E06 "Clash Of The Muendas"
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2024
- In this episode, Tee is under a lot of pressure and stress from work. He is a ticking bomb, irked about Dede's recent laziness in the home. He finally explodes and Dede sees a side of him she has never seen.
This Is it Series follows the first year journey of the young clueless, newlyweds, Dede and Tomide. Join us every Tuesday 10:00am (Nigerian Time) right here on LowlaDeeTV.
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Who else is seeing this series for the upteen time even after 7 years
Lowladee.. please bring this kinda series again....here watching in 2024
I love this episode. Tee and Dede have the young professional type of love. It is not about feminism or tradition or whatever. They had an understanding where everyone could fend for himself or fend for the other if they could. You look after your family and loved ones because you love them. You care about if they have eaten or if their environment is clean because you love them not because you are a woman and it is your role. Tee's mum and Dede's dad rightfully explained that to them. Dede is no longer alone and no longer has to fend just for herself and she learned that. When you love people they become part of your worries just as they become your joy. Tee didnt become a master. He didnt gain a mum or slave but he has the right to expect someone who claims to love him to take care of him. It takes time to adjust from being alone to being together. The comments here worry me. By getting married, you do not acquire a carer and a woman does not cease to exist as a separate being please. The things people do for each other in a marriage they do out of love not out of compulsion or duty.
Very well said
Thank you for such a brilliant comment! Individual expectations need to be discussed before weddings, for sure!
Jennee Rinay i swear to God
you made so much sense
im just here like 👏👏👏👏 tell em
If I could like this comment a thousand times!
l would never advice any one to start watching this series at night from episode one to ten trust me you stay awake whole night l love and love it so much
this was so me yesterday and i just keep repeating it looooooove love it
peace 444 This is actually me right now loooool 😂😂
+KezzyBabie lol just found this show today and I'm up at 5:45 AM watching
peace 444 unfortunately am doing that now.cant believe am so late
Aunty LOWLADEE should release a great series as this. Can’t believe after so many years I still can’t get over this series❤️
I think the problem was not the food or the house but the fact that he was having a hard time at work and she wasn't sensitive to it. I guess she's not clairvoyant either sha. Communication is key sha.
4 years later and this is still my favourite show♥️
Me too
Me too, I just started watching again
@@ifediran. me too!
Same here
Me too. Currently watching like it is my first time
Y'all I'm so in love with this show that I'm watching in 2024😭😂😂
I love that bith parents are helping. some are just wreckers smh!
Thank u for respecting the timeLowla !!!!! I always can't wait for Tuesdays!!
Hey Netflix! You really need Lowladee to give you a worthy African movie series. Great cast, actors and awesome storyline with no plot holes!😍
Dede is an only child and young. That's the point of the show focusing on their journey as newlyweds. The oneness isn't instant. Each day, you grow as one. You learn to learn one another, you learn your give and takes, etc.
He almost cried while yelling 😭😭
I legit can't count how many times I've seen the videos in this series since it came out.
It never stops being so good and insightful.
Here to make some noise for Lowladee again in 2023. If Jesus tarries to come, 2024, we come back again for more noise. ✌🏾
🎉🎉🎉
Literally the best episode for me, why hasnt it reached 1M views ahghgh. Its so so real 4years of watching and more. 😎😎
Aw this is so sweet. He bought her a laptop. Their in laws are just the definition of how in laws should be. Some couples can't talk to their parents about stuffs like this because they know they will take wrong sides and fuel the matter some more making it worse. Thanks for this beautiful series!
This is a good series.
The issues of married life for young newly married couple.
I have never heard these issues discussed.
Who is here again in 2022 I love this movie
Me
I am 😅
We are here ooo
We gather here
Me 😩
Here in 2024, I had to google the movie because I couldn’t remember the title, I so love, love this series.
I knew Nick is a good actor, but I honestly didn't know he's this good. I hope you get to read this, you've improved even more from your shuga days. Keep up the good work. And the rest too (no shade lol) Really enjoying the show. Love and love.
I’m a career woman and as a doctor, it doesn’t make any lady less if she cleans and cooks for her home.
It doesn't make her more either.
Thank youu
@@melaniesein7042 Exactly! And it doesn't make him less to do those things. A grown man that cannot feed himself should be embarrassed, lol. He's acting like he's a helpless toddler, smh. Not attractive.
Kedei Inah that's why many marriages are crashing these days.Our mothers were never like this.Hard workers yet made out time to take care of every member of the family.But today women are more concerned about pulling ranks and competing with men.Even the western world women championing feminism still cook and care for their home.
Thank you!!!!
I think this is my favourite episode. I know Dee Dee didn't like seeing him angry but it made him seem more human and less perfect. These things happen, I'm just so glad they were able to sort it out in a really mature manner.
Omotolani Olusoga Ikr! She needed to step up!
That fridge is literally empty😂😂
How saad
Lollzz .....😂Cookies??? Girl!!! he just came back frm work!! Cookies aint d solution..he needs Pounded yam and egusi!!! with kpomo and cowleg! 😊😀 #re-watching#
Each Episode comes with a new lesson. This piece only gets better and teaches great lessons as to how a man can patiently tolerate his wife's excesses and how a woman should do same too. Great Series!! Keep Soaring!!!
I wish the relationship between My dad and I was this cool. 😔
When Nick kissed her at the end, I got maaaaaadddd! It's supposed to be me Nick! Me!!😭😫😫
Aunty, calm down o😂😂
Maze natoka kisii napenda
🤣🤣
😆😆😆
Bibi hahahaha...im with u sis.I know the feeling
This episode really brought out people’s feminist side...
Been through the comment section, saw some good comments and not so good ones too..
My opinion, we both are human and we need support everytime considering he’s a good man same with the wife, she should try to be understanding too
When her dad came around she asked ‘are u sure ure bot hungry?? But the husband came home frm work and said he’ll be fine without food but she went ‘ok’
Yall better not come for me cos speech is free hence my opinion.... They’re cute Couple infact couple goals
AS a woman how would you feel if your husband pushes his sole responsibilities such as making financial provision,security for the home on your shoulders,he doesn't buy or give you gifts,no Brazilian hair, no latest feminine clothings,? So why should a good and reasonable woman push the responsibilities of good food for the family on the man.
The way Nick Mutuma talks to the women in his life especially when he is showing gratitude.. Cheeeeei!!!!!! Watched this in 2016 and I am still here binge watching
A hungry man is an angry man lol😂 as if he wanted to cry
😂😂😂
Ryttttt 😂😂💔
a man that knows how to apologize * round of applause *
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Why should anyone get a commendation for being human?
"Tee, you yelling at me" 😂 the nerve!
Aina Elifas
ikr
😅😅🤣🤣We have seen worse.
She sounded like a toddler 😅😅😅
I watched this series years ago when it was still new! I anticipated season 2 and saw it all. I enjoyed it as they’re young and growing together. But now!!!! Being young and engaged ! I had to come back to watch this because there’s so much to learn from this regardless!!!!!! Thank you For this opportunity and reference! ❤️
Same! I’m now married and grown and it just brings so much memories 😢 😊
Yeee Nick shouting at Dede😨😨, made me jump out of my skin🙊😆😆
srhsk7 me to damn
Lmaoooo Tee was so hungry it distablized him.
These parents advices are actually honest and good ones. Most of the time parents are busy defending their child even when they're wrong.
Tee "being angry" loved it😳😳
Words of wisdom from both parents. Catering to your husband NEVER gets OLD FASHIONED and to LOVE and RESPECT your wife is a beautiful thing...understanding is the KEY word...be sensitive to your significant other.
Dede no try at all. I get she’s working from home but taking out 30 minutes of her time to cook for her husband is not a bad thing.
I they can plan another international movie again like this with these actors wow this was owsome ba dear I it my best ever I can't get fade of watching it
I come back to this show every 6 months.....
Me too
Me foo
Sameee
You know I have this on my laptop, used to have it on my phone, still use my data to watch this on you tube... Abeg what is the nature of my wahala mbok? 😂😂
You gerrit!!! Maybe every 2 months for me
i dont know im addicted. no one told me about this show before now. stumbled on it and i cant stop watching
fay Samuel Story of my life.
Me too.I'm binge watching after being directed here today after watching Nick's interview with Larry on The trend from last year
Same here
Tee was gonna cry😭😭😭😭
monica wamuhu and I felt sorry for him.😕😑😢
I guess this was what she meant in the 1st episode when she said she was not ready for marriage, not wife material yet.
yeah exactly
Back again 5years in a row. I need an intervention.
Same here
I love these parents, their support. Typically you shouldn't be confiding in them like that but these parents are uniquely supportive and unbiased.
Now that's the dad of the year.. So timely and comforting huh.
I would be mad too. You can work from home and still clean and cook. She tried it.
God,I can't tell you how much I love this. . ...I HV finished it but m watching allova again.its so cool....I just want wat they have even better....I'll try as much as possible to get married by 23...hope I meet someone as cool as Tee.Good work on this one guys
This Tee guy is so handsome, can't get my eyes off him...thumbs up to him and Dee Dee
This series is great!! It touches on many relevant relationship issues...please hurry with season 2😍😍😍
An all time addiction..I'm a hopeless romantic and i see myself in Dede..kudos to LowlaDee
so have just found out of this series today and managed to watch all the episodes,...and here i am joining the team..." i can't wait for tueaday"..nice show
#subscribed
Jaytee Mueni thank you for subscribing!! we are happy you are joining us!
Them feminists didn't complain when he said he'd be debiting her account every month regardless of whether she's working or not
Crediting*
I wish I had the kind of relationship dede and her dad had. So jelly
The face she made when she threw away the trash😂😂
When Tee came home from work and saw the fridge empty, nothing on the stove or in the microwave and the trash overflowing, he should have taken out the trash and immediately went out to eat by himself. She was home all day and did nothing around the house? NOTHING!! Stuff like this is one of the reasons why side-pieces (or the clean-up woman) exist. I understand that Tee was upset and hungry and let Dede know of his frustrations, but I would have blown up at her. I would have done the work myself and then made up in my mind never to come home hungry. What women don't want is someone else doing there job for them. I totally agree with him giving them some space by going to visit his mom. I agree with the advice given by the parents, but that is no excuse for not taking care of home. Great episode and I look forward to the next one.
I love your thinking
Who is here again in 2023?
Mehnnn Nick Mutuma is a superb actor wow 👏👏👏
lol i get mad like that too when im hungry
I'm here after somemany years I watch it I can't forget the movie
Best episode
God knows how many times I've rewatched it😂
LowlaDee... Best production ever 😍
how ive become addicted to this show within such a short time :-) also, could Dede's friends appear in more scenes? Love them!!!
the scene with the garbage overflowing just was where I drew the line... she shouldn't make it reach to that point.
Love the show :)
ooh how Daddy loves her daughter
...love the series 😍
2019 who’s here ? I’ll be getting married in two months. Love this séries and taking notes 📝
Congratulations!
Congrats 🍾
Congratulations
Awww. That nice. How was your wedding
NICK MUTUMA kudos this is nice work good story line. I want more of this.
Wow 6:10 - 7:30 felt very realistic. 2 things tho:
1. I know its not the woman's SOLE responsibility (lol don't come for me pls) to cook and clean but she was clearly 'insensitive' because obviously she must have been eating while working at home - plus it went on for just too long!
2. As important as communication is in a marriage, its very easy to relapse and think/expect your partner to be a mind reader sometimes - He should have just talked to her.
3. Staying the night without settling just prolongs matters lol heck he even travelled without discussing it (I could never do that lol) - but hey we will always be human beings.
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lol
U r so on point, Miss Tlash. Couples shud try not 2 push each other 2 dia limits by being selfish n insensitive sometimes.
you are wise
👍🏽
Love this,,, i keep repeating it🙈🙈cant get over Nick yoooh ,, dude is handsome nd fresh shame
Please how do i get cast as Nick Mutuma's full time bae? This guy has scattered my head o
Essence of Mae guilty as charged🙋🙋
He is very handsome
Essence of Mae.Nobody hates good things.
I so much love this...wow De de and Tee are just so real to be just casts...
He is married with a kid
This was me and hubby 2 months ago! just one month after our wedding lol!
I'm in love with this series O.M.G its just wow,and got me addicted, I can watch over and over again..
please add subtitles for mama Tee... Otherwise, couldn't wait for this episode. Watching for the umpteenth time
The series is da bomb, very educatin different from our normal "parents invading on there children marriage "Plzz wen is d nxt episode cmin up
tee😍😍soo cute and such a gentleman 😋😂am celeb crushing
We are two .....ooooo
The way I love this show eh.. this is my 4th time watching the complete show
My 5th time watching it now..smh for myself 😂
6th or 7th I've lost count
I like the scence when her daddy came to her place and buy her brazzer 😁😁😁 so funny and sweet.
Here in 2024
I love the parents of this show they are so nice,cool & they give the best advice
My mom talks exactly the same way about the DISCO club. 😂😂
😂 😂 Oh i want my man to yell at me like that.. 😇
Bien
Lmao women are weirdos😂😂😂
Me too🤣🤣
I don't it when my man yells at me abeg😂😢
Great advice from Dad. And mom. They are indeed great parents.
C.C Dove it’s actually horrible advise
I can't get tired of this serie
Me too🥺🥺
I love this series watching it again for I don't know how many times 2023
Well dsame here❤
I’m here again. God when? I’m still yet to find love like this🥺🥺
My dear
Cooking is no big deal ... I don’t mind cooking at all for my man . I actually enjoy cooking for him n am happy when he eats ... If it’s tough cooking everyday jux prepare different dishes over the weekend and store it in the freezer that’s all .. so if u don’t want to cook now , u the woman urself what will u eat?
Thank you o please help us to talk to women practicing fake and unreasonable feminism.
It's the advice from the in-laws for me in this episode. 👌🏽
OH YES....
If all in-laws could give such unbiased advice to their married kids….
I want in-laws like this 🥺
OK let's all stop with the feminist and other comments. Dede should just take a day off and cook a big batch of food and freeze so That at least Tee would microwave it. And how come he has only one suit(ever heard of backup). And Tee felt like Dede's behavior would go on until she was done setting up her business
Susanna maine @I tell you .I mean she is working from home so she should at least make time to cook. This was bad
@@virtuouswomen3418 yh ikr
Exactly!
2022 and I am here again
2023 and I'm still here ❤🎉
There is no excuse for dede. she works from home she hasnt even started her business fully yet. why wount you make food for your husband. even the bin is full. thats just been lazy to call for pizza or eat indomine. for your husband like really??. get your ass up from the bed and make something put it in the microwave. see how the fridge is soo empty. shows she dosnt even do the groceries. when you start having kids unko???
Totally agree.
That's not even the part that made me vexed, she still ask for things! Woman if you don't wanna cook and all. And you wanna work be able to buy yourself your work tools too!!!!
I wonder o
Correct
Spoilt brat
Dede is just like a normal person . We sometimes need time for ourselves. Team work is really important.
Yes. I agree. But she should also provide for her family
I love the fact that themes are touched upon. Always something new to learn. Great job, Lowladee.
Firstly, I would like to openly acknowledge my ignorance on the matters of a marriage household as a current resident of Singleville. So married people please forgive me.
But sister-girl is trying ALL of Nick's AND MY life with her distraction from her husband and her home!!!! The hell...?!?!?!
Text her next time he needs food??? Girrrrllll, if you don't getcho your cute self off that bed and go fix this man a plate...!!!
Tried it!!!
Just started watching this. I've been hooked 👏🏻
OMG the suitcase on the bed? I cringe... but awww loving this so mush.. I'm taking notes.
Dede's attitude is one of the reasons why people mock feminism.
Audrey Irek ????
I agree @Audrey .
I think most women just take the word and run with it with little or no understanding.
tee is a real real gentleman for keeping on loving his wife .
I can watch this scene over and over.. very nice. learnt alot.
I really like this show. I wish that this was shown in the states. Thank goodness for TH-cam!