Ditch Or Date: He Still Lives With His Ex-Wife!

It took a couple dates for him to let her know he's still living with his ex-wife! He says it's not a big deal...is it? #DitchOrDate?
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[@trishrafuse6299]

My ex-husband and I lived together in the same house shared everything but the bedroom for 6 months. He dated his 2nd ex-wife the whole time. It was rough but after 6 months I was ready for him to go

[@heathermillard6841]

Check the situation out at the house. It's not a red flag. Just make sure things really are as he says. In these hard times people have to do things that way sometimes.

[@skymoore212]

It’s different, but… the divorce being so cordial should be a good sign

[@nikkihayes9236]

THAT is a level of trust and maturity that I do NOT have within me. I say HECK NOOOOOOO!!!😤🚫🚫🚫

[@valuba]

It would not bother me. I'm cautious in any brand new relationship. This would be something I'd make my own mind up about once I'd seen how it works.
I am friends with ex's I had amicable breaks with.Not all of course for different reasons, I've had them come and stay and would share with some if needed and we were good house mate fits.
I would be suss about meeting someone who dumps all ex's completely. I would not trust their sincerity somehow.
I'd wonder if they were a bit shallow or had a huge us and them male female thing.
Boring.

[@n.c.4829]

I think that's a big nope for the same reasons Moe described.

[@Plooky1969]

He’s bringing her in through the back where there isn’t a Ring camera, while wife is away!

[@e.l.h9541]

She should talk to the x wife.

[@catt8401]

Definitely make sure he's actually single lol

[@xkayla5x]

He lives with his ex wife and kid and there’s no plan for that to end.. lives in a separate part of the house ? But other than that he’s perfect. Don’t know what to do 😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@Kala683]

I'm in exactly same situation and I hate it. Find out about it two months after dating

[@xkayla5x]

@@Kala683literally same! I called it off, was heartbreaking for us both. Still not fully recovered from it and see him every day at work he said his situation isn’t for everyone and I replied I don’t think it’s for anyone. No future for us :( the worst isn’t it

[@SCordova19]

I totally understand where he’s coming from but it sounds messy and like he’s not in a place to date. I don’t think anyone would be able to have a relationship under these circumstances.