Raising children as a widower.Titus Wairati chose not to remarry and shares his story.-PART 1

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  • In this video,we discuss the challenges of raising children as a single father.We speak to Titus Wairati.
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  • @joyofthelord7921
    @joyofthelord7921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I saw my self in that man's story. I married the same year 2001 and my husband went to dance with the angels in 2009. My son was 9years and my daughter was 1and half years. Up to date , I am the mother and father to my children. God has been faithful to us and we are growing stronger day by day. Some decisions are made by God's favour

  • @agneswanjihia1383
    @agneswanjihia1383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Even my dad he refuse to remary just to raise me after my mum died,now is 11th yrs I thank God 🙏. I salute my dad.

  • @essiemofficial1002
    @essiemofficial1002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mine is different we divorced with my alcoholic husband I promised not to get married until my last born is 18yrs. I am still not married my first daughter has finished her masters degree In Manchester university she is working,the last born is 19yrs doing her 2nd year doing public relations in Birmingham university in UK we are fine and we thank God for this journey, I have worked around the clock with no help from any man until now is not easy but it’s possible

  • @nyawiramuriithi6964
    @nyawiramuriithi6964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My dad also refused to remarry and chose our happiness.

  • @josephinemukundi
    @josephinemukundi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THIS IS A GREAT GUY IN OUR TIMES.....putting down his life for his kids.......what a lesson!......

  • @joygakuru6459
    @joygakuru6459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Titus is such a blessing to very many people. I always whisper a word to my God to always grant him knowledge and wisdom to serve his people with more diligence. Many people like me have always found a reason to long for another day in our lives. For you Ann wa Muratha may the ALmighty always bless your going out and coming in. #njungwa ya wamuratha irotuura

  • @wangucox1958
    @wangucox1958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dreams are valid Anne . I am testimony. Wanted to be s nurse as a young girl . Mum said no eti nursing job will make my life hard as a woman so I gave up on it . At age of 45yrs the call to be nurse was still there . I joined uniy and became a nurse at age 48 . I am a proud nurse today. Thinking God for all

  • @judymbuthia3558
    @judymbuthia3558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Titus is a very good motivational speaker. He mentored my son through his final year in primary school in the school's motivational sessions. I also got a chance to attend his motivational sessions in a parent's school forum. May God bless him.

  • @scolagym7167
    @scolagym7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After my mum's death....my dad remarried almost immediately....me and my siblings went through hell...we were very young...we were mistreated...I don't visit the place I was born...I don't call it home...May God bless men who choose to raise their kids and prioritise them

  • @cikujohn6204
    @cikujohn6204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This Is one of the best shows full of wisdom, love,self discipline, I salute you titus your the best father in the world wonderful may God Glory continue to be with you and children

  • @wanjiru2556
    @wanjiru2556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Being a righteous man makes all the difference! This cannot be done by flesh and blood.

  • @janekinyenje7230
    @janekinyenje7230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It takes a lot of sacrifice and God's intervention &dedication

  • @paturathirii138
    @paturathirii138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It depends on how you related with the spouse.If the relationship was sore one may decide to have a break with marriage.If it was good you may lack a replacement.

  • @marygatheru3899
    @marygatheru3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless Titus for giving your children first priority. You are going far together with your Doctors

  • @tabithagithengu2729
    @tabithagithengu2729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I chose the same cz it will never be the same I feel especially with kids involved.

  • @irenebobosky
    @irenebobosky ปีที่แล้ว

    That is a sign of true love..God bless him.
    He is a very good motivational speaker who can encourage many with this story.

  • @johnrerai8219
    @johnrerai8219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow Titus! Long time. We went to the same church in the 90s till 2004 then left. Pole 4 what happened but Iam proud 4 standing up as strong father. Wamuratha asante 4 this inspiring story. Mbarikiwe sana.

  • @wanjikukiamukawa6314
    @wanjikukiamukawa6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waah salute man, it'ss not easy to raise children on your own as a man it takes God's Grace

  • @gladyst7183
    @gladyst7183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blessed man of God some men are forward thinking men and love their children 🙌🏼📖🙏🛐🛐🛐

  • @lucydebra1178
    @lucydebra1178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Titus...you are such..a blessing...may God....continue..blessing you as you continue..raising your children.....

  • @dmn1449
    @dmn1449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It has taken the hand of God in your life and you are truly a blessing to your kids. A hero 👏

  • @teresamaina3180
    @teresamaina3180 ปีที่แล้ว

    Titus ni waajambu na sana sana mchaa Mungu sana you are a Hilo dad and let me assure you God will give you the right wife believe me . Don't continue praying our God is real.

  • @janekarigi-officialvideo9000
    @janekarigi-officialvideo9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One in a million,well-done and God bless you mightily.

    • @josephinekamau2162
      @josephinekamau2162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mens pretends! in everything it's just a decision!
      God bless you for respecting
      Your wife in grave ad loving your children.
      One in million.God will reward you.Amen

  • @naominjeri5577
    @naominjeri5577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knw him kabisa kabisa and he's a very strong man, he's speaking the truth his kids wamesoma the same primary sch na wangu, we worship in the same church... Kudos Titus

  • @firstviolin596
    @firstviolin596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wamuratha I wish you can flash the pictures of the characters not in this interview so that we see them, makes the story more vivid

  • @nancykariuki7914
    @nancykariuki7914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great words of wisdom,very encouraging,those kids are blessed to have such a daddy,God is always faithful.

    • @marypeter4008
      @marypeter4008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this..he is a real man..may God continue to bless him and his 2 children...my uncle aliama the Same..my auntie died in 1993 aka machaa na 11 children the lastborn was only 3 months old ...hakuwahi oa till his death..alikufa of cancer in 2019 at the age of 87 yrs..he respected his children and his late wife and said that he will never remarry..may God continue resting his soul in peace.

  • @ritamacharia0000
    @ritamacharia0000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This man is so amazing.....he used to be a leader in my former church and my Sunday wouldn't have been complete without hearing him make announcements. He always have a smile for all and a word of lifting someone who's so down.long life Titus

  • @jessicakangai1132
    @jessicakangai1132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Titus is really blessed it requires alot of discipline and above all God's mercy and favour

  • @felistafrancis1162
    @felistafrancis1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much appreciated and thanks Wamuratha for the show

  • @alicewanjiru1792
    @alicewanjiru1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks be to God for the far He has brought you as a mentor to your gracious angels. You are a role model to many.
    May the good Lord bless you and enlarge your territories.
    May your Children grow strong as Christians with Values for the greater glory of God

  • @vivianwanini9169
    @vivianwanini9169 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ata pia sisi wamama..tuko some of us tuliachwa na wazee wetu, nasi eti walikufa wako hai na tumewalea watoto wetu wame grow bila kuji changanya hadi wa leo. It's a matter of making a decision, and God anakua faithful kwako unatomboa. Nashukulu Mungu for this far. it's not easy, but with God in us, everything is possible 🙏

  • @hezekiahgichia1220
    @hezekiahgichia1220 ปีที่แล้ว

    Strong man. Did not get pressure from the church? Today church is number one to pester men to remarry quickly

  • @esskey4915
    @esskey4915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inspiring!! A great role model. God bless him. Great show wamuratha.

  • @rosewangui123
    @rosewangui123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    -waaaaoo what's a good one well done dad may the good Lord always strength u and protect ur kid's 🙏

  • @marydanofficial
    @marydanofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a wonderful man 🙏🏽surely the fear of God is the beginning of the knowledge.

  • @teresiakimani8353
    @teresiakimani8353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Titus you made the best decision. God bless you

  • @annancy9917
    @annancy9917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maya Nimo matigari ma Jehovah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Who said that sex is the only happiness? The only true happiness is to follow the will of God. God bless you sir!! May Jesus Christ protect your faith and actions. This are true actions that James talks about in James 2:14-26. The devil himself believes and trembles but the difference is actions. This are the actions, crucifying the body and its passions. Tell them sir, let them know.

  • @Ylis2020
    @Ylis2020 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is my family,he looks like my first cousin Ngeruro Kinyuru.
    Anne is my first cousin...

  • @millicentgitonga9192
    @millicentgitonga9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is my Sacco chairman, yes he is a great speaker and with alot of humour. Don't know much about his life but I know he is a widower n for sure he describes his children as Dr. Good job Titus, that's agreat prophecy for your children n they will surely go far coz of the ppwer of the tongue.

  • @loisengithinji7801
    @loisengithinji7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its always good too let you ears 👂 hear something thing's you will indeed get 1or2 thing's to pick

  • @mercymungai812
    @mercymungai812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waaah!! What a man!!! Man of Valor, may God bless him abundantly. That is so amazing.

  • @estherkamande6963
    @estherkamande6963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wish my dad can listen to this n put my siblings first. 😭😭😭😭

    • @angelic4640
      @angelic4640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Give him my number I'm a psychologist 0722654452

    • @susanw8926
      @susanw8926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it's better to balance everything n we think,see, handle things differently so.....kuwa mpole kwake

  • @malekihanan9508
    @malekihanan9508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know a guy how is also a father/mother of two kids for 14yrs after they divorced,sometimes it's good to put your kids first.

  • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes
    @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wamuratha, I love you sana. I remember those days from ACK Kangemi Church, haki tumetoka far. Ni thaa cia Ngai maa, wa-maitu rathimwo muno

  • @virginiaabdalla4586
    @virginiaabdalla4586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wamuratha its a very good strory pia mimi am a widow naniko na story

  • @nyambunjorogeofficial7718
    @nyambunjorogeofficial7718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ndîkuo chibi,,how I like listening to this great man

  • @marthamwangi6847
    @marthamwangi6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love wamuratha show always following u from 🇺🇸l love the ppl u bring to your show.

  • @peterngahu3441
    @peterngahu3441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First priority to kids is there even me I like being close to the give advice when am there being open in everything

  • @paulinegitobu3921
    @paulinegitobu3921 ปีที่แล้ว

    U are a hero man of God

  • @edithwambui2474
    @edithwambui2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aki Kwan sisi tulipewa baba anakaa aje 😭😭😭my mum passed away na babangu mwezi haukuisha babangu akaoa 😭😭mwenye aliletwa aki alichocha babangu hadi tukafukuzwa home 😭😭I hate my daddy with all my heart

    • @quinnchee3309
      @quinnchee3309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      One month? That’s a really short time to meet, know each other, and get married. Unless she was his mistress long before your mom died.

    • @edithwambui2474
      @edithwambui2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uyo waliishi na yeye lakini mungu siku moja atakuja

    • @janekchannel5074
      @janekchannel5074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pole sana mum n take heart, I can feel ur pain cos I left my children n came to find for them green pastures bt what they went through only God knows 😭😭😭they even took drugs without my knowledge n I blame him for all bt there's God in heaven

    • @esthernjuguna2006
      @esthernjuguna2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Edith , forgive your father and forget and God will cover you with his blessing

    • @kerrykerry602
      @kerrykerry602 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pole girl

  • @susanmwangi9131
    @susanmwangi9131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's very strong ati itua ni mundu wituagira thanks Anne for bringing this Man

  • @joycenganga3221
    @joycenganga3221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's one in a million

  • @faithkoi2193
    @faithkoi2193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the program but improve on the Sound...it's very low.

  • @salomekinuthia2742
    @salomekinuthia2742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are one in a million. God bless you.

  • @peninakariuki2078
    @peninakariuki2078 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Titus ur such wonderful man....may God bless u

  • @shirogitari8477
    @shirogitari8477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching .......and thanks mum for making sure everyone has no reason to give up in life .blessed man he is .

  • @wanjiruruth5118
    @wanjiruruth5118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very wise man.

  • @marykibui5152
    @marykibui5152 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iam not a widow but I divorced with my husband 2017,I choose to stay single to raise my kids.

  • @wangarizipp6679
    @wangarizipp6679 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    From our mountains, kinyona❤ God bless you Titus 🙌🏿

  • @janewwavet5935
    @janewwavet5935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise God for being a stout catholic

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can't wait part two it's sweet story

  • @rahabmaina3374
    @rahabmaina3374 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you sio rahisi kulea watoto pekee yako nakujinyima juu yao ..wimurathime

  • @Trotterstradinglimited
    @Trotterstradinglimited 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a serious man! It takes sacrifice and self denial to live as such.

  • @samuelmuthiora7489
    @samuelmuthiora7489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This I can relate

  • @esthermuthoni8104
    @esthermuthoni8104 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting story

  • @catherinekariukk2562
    @catherinekariukk2562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is one of his kind, God bless you

  • @wamaithamary3463
    @wamaithamary3463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow what a great man one in a million

  • @nancypaul916
    @nancypaul916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Muthuri ucio niararhimwo niwabata muno

  • @sweetheart6813
    @sweetheart6813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He can make it with your principal but t i know there's challenges na ndio mingi,

  • @jynvicta2514
    @jynvicta2514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking good together

    • @franklinkibaara4307
      @franklinkibaara4307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I salute Titus.
      He's by all means a great inspiration. In one way or onother, I'm more less like him, but totally unlucky.
      My wife passed on in 2013, and I decided not to remarry until my two children were independent.
      The girl was joining college after "O" levels and the boy was in std seven.
      It started with my daughter who became totally unruly and started demanding her mother's money, which after some time I decided to give her the money and she fled.
      I was left with my son, who was otherwise a very good boy until F2.
      He started being the same, and was master of all drama in school.
      I struggled with him and through God's grace he finished F4.
      Now hes 1st year at KU, and very unruly, insults me all the time and now demanding his mother's share as well.
      As we speak, they're on holidays and not at home, and keeps on harassing me for money.
      Should I decline.....insults.
      I took him for drug test sometime back, and he tested positive for 3 drugs.
      I've tried to engage all types of councillors to no avail.
      I need help.

  • @marymata8977
    @marymata8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Part 2 pls

  • @simonwanjiku2466
    @simonwanjiku2466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done sir

  • @annmuchemi1925
    @annmuchemi1925 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    keep up Titus you are one in many

  • @lizfrank7669
    @lizfrank7669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes wamuratha

  • @juneestherwambui256
    @juneestherwambui256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wamuratha...you are very smart

  • @estherwambuies1782
    @estherwambuies1782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Narikorwo baba noaigue uhoro tauyu amenye kuri athuri mendete ciana cio

  • @mumspencernleah8037
    @mumspencernleah8037 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow wow what's wisdom

  • @wamaithamary3463
    @wamaithamary3463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait for part two

  • @thatayangoma5200
    @thatayangoma5200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guku njugwa ndigitira ndikuo chibi🙄🙄🙄...heheee mummy ni njui nduri watute 🤣🤣🤣Kee njikare thii njigwe ici 👈

  • @janekuria9893
    @janekuria9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pole titus. From the same place kinyona

  • @felixmugwe2768
    @felixmugwe2768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice insights

  • @wanyamuthimookariuki2012
    @wanyamuthimookariuki2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aatii waariitaa! Ok...

    • @wm4701
      @wm4701 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wairatì 😊

  • @margaretirungu2080
    @margaretirungu2080 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ata mimi incase of death or divorce'.siwezi olewa tena.i say never

  • @Sylvia20-cl7
    @Sylvia20-cl7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Barakoa??!?

  • @keziahthuku2184
    @keziahthuku2184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ngai urotura unyitirire muthuri uyu. Arotura aiganitwo ni wega waku Ngai wa iguru.

  • @meshmusyoka6449
    @meshmusyoka6449 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tgl

  • @eunicemacharia4692
    @eunicemacharia4692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Matua moothe makoragwo mokoini ma mundu

  • @flochege946
    @flochege946 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baba yetu kaa angechagua kutulea sisi kaa huyu mwanaume hatungepitia mapito ambayo tumepitia

  • @esthernjeri7369
    @esthernjeri7369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wamuratha aria uhoro wa divination, niwoingihite muno ma

    • @rebeccawamala8978
      @rebeccawamala8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Light a candle proverb great !!! Then having great faith in himself. One unique man.be blessed for loving ur family dearly ❤

  • @maryhebrew9480
    @maryhebrew9480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣Nii riu ni mathabu nguiraga mum,

  • @nellyirunguirungu8664
    @nellyirunguirungu8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ucio muthuri niwa mwanya muno

  • @hellenmatheru2820
    @hellenmatheru2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gútirí múthuri single,tiga maheni

    • @wm4701
      @wm4701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nikuri no tiaingi

    • @nellyirunguirungu8664
      @nellyirunguirungu8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nikuri nii onanikuri njui ne twana twiri na aturite iyumitie niundu wa ciana ciake

    • @malekihanan9508
      @malekihanan9508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nikurî 1/10,najua mmoja tameka 14yrs na watoto wake after kuachana

  • @annmugure5106
    @annmugure5106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tareke njigue uhoro ucio

  • @mdung2058
    @mdung2058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why can't this man just come out clean and say that he left the wife for a side chic whom he married after the wife's death na akatesa watoto?
    Let him tell us that they were even not together with the wife when she died.
    It's sad that the kids and the wife's relatives watch him lying on TV and now on youtube.
    Pretence and all lies

    • @fndutakamau
      @fndutakamau 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww do you know him?😟

    • @wanjiruwakuria7134
      @wanjiruwakuria7134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ala...Aallaaaa....

    • @ceciliawanjiru9075
      @ceciliawanjiru9075 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳😳😳😳😳

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know him from church but v never heard his story,nimeona story kaa tatu za watu nina jua kwa hizi youtube and they are full of lies,if its true what yv said then aache kupoteza watu

    • @muthonipurity9608
      @muthonipurity9608 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so much inspired this is a great man truthful to his children....may God help me raise my children truthful and as their mentor

  • @samuelmuthiora7489
    @samuelmuthiora7489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This I can relate