Ep5: Building Self Confidence & Breaking Free of Insecurities | 2 Steps Back 'The Podcast'

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  • @marivicgabrielakatsuka8922
    @marivicgabrielakatsuka8922 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Our mind is like a garden. Our thoughts are the seeds . We can grow flowers or we can grow weeds.

    • @dandelion1282
      @dandelion1282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What weed? Marijuana? That's good

    • @zowyneni
      @zowyneni 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      +1 po sa weed 👌

    • @Tara-jn6vt
      @Tara-jn6vt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said. The analogy of our mind to being a garden is the law of karma as taught by Buddha. Our mind is like a field or a garden. With every action, be it mental, verbal or physical, we are planting "seeds" or potentialities within the field of our mind. These potentialities one day will ripen into its appropriate fruit - meaning, engaging in positive actions (mental, physical or verbal) will result to experiences of happiness in our future lives, while engaging in negative actions will give rise to experiences of suffering. In short, you reap what you sow. This is the law of karma which is as certain and absolute as the law of gravity. It is the truth, whether you like it or not. Hence, we need to control all of our actions of body, speech and mind. And therefore, the practice of correct meditation is essential.

    • @vielparale4398
      @vielparale4398 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      love this

  • @numerojulio
    @numerojulio 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    This is by far, one of your realest and strikingly moving episodes from your series. Thank you both for opening your most sincere selves to the public and for delivering such a fearless message for everyone to learn from. More of this please!

    • @gladnessregoya4711
      @gladnessregoya4711 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You have a great words to say & this is the most eloquent

  • @PurpleYum16
    @PurpleYum16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Very empowering 💜
    I highly recommend Catriona Gray's vlog/podcast with Nicole Cordoves to the younger generation and anyone seeking inspiring content. Both are incredibly articulate and have a rich vocab, sharing extensive experiences that resonate with listeners/viewers. Their discussions are not only relevant and thoughtful but also empowering, relatable, and grounded in reality.

  • @whoisellia
    @whoisellia หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I stumbled upon this video randomly as it showed up in my TH-cam algorithm. This podcast is definitely a personal favorite as someone who has struggled with embracing how they look and perceive themselves. I've always wanted to join beauty pageants as a self-reassurance that I was enough. I was told to join our school pageant because they knew I had the capability to speak in front of an audience eloquently and told me that I was what they looked for: 'beauty and brain'. When I was offered to, I suddenly got the news that I was rejected due to height requirements by replacing me with no notice when I was almost the same height as one of the candidates that joined during the screening day. I always thought that they had rejected me as I was not a pageant material. Everyone looked mestiza, they were thin, and very tall, in which I was the exact opposite of the three (but sure, I was tall enough). When I was in that room, I felt so lost that I had to ask myself all over again if it was this way that I can seek validation and to reassure myself that I was beautiful enough which is why I resonated so much with Ms. Nicole when she talked about oneself anchoring towards intelligence rather than being the pretty one. I personally think that intelligence is what makes someone beautiful. A beautiful outside definitely comes from a beautiful inside and I had to learn it the hard way. Thank you so much for this podcast, Ms. Catriona and Nicole! This podcast means so much to me as it has slowly regained the confidence I knew I had in me but I chose to suppress it because of society's standards 🤍

    • @NicoleCordoves
      @NicoleCordoves หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing this with all of us here 🩷 and I’m so happy to hear that you realized that you are beyond the box beauty standards closes us in.

  • @simplehauls966
    @simplehauls966 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It’s like listening to two big sisters that I never had. Thank you for this. You ignited courage in my heart and the vibe is just overall so light and positive.🥰

  • @jabi2789
    @jabi2789 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I teared up when Cat shared about her experience with her body being criticized kase I'm literally going through the exact same and am also on the journey of loving myself and affirming myself that I don't need to fit the society's version of sexy or beautiful. Thank you so much for this episode. Hearing this from you--my fav Ms. Universe--gave me a lot of validation.

  • @niaonofre6347
    @niaonofre6347 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As an extremely insecure 28 year old na panganay. I really appreciate that there is a podcast like these ones you ladies put out. I never had a guide to navigate adulting as a girl growing up, but Im glad I found this nooow. Thank you for being so generous!! ❤

  • @iangayle1129
    @iangayle1129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    First I must say that confidence is a feeling or belief that one can have faith in one self or rely on someone or something. It is a deep sense of trust knowing something will be okay.

  • @jhentrajano5187
    @jhentrajano5187 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how these girls speak what every young girls like me needed to hear. Please make more videos like these where we feel like we're with you, catching up and talking about life❤

  • @matricamaecentino7757
    @matricamaecentino7757 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    love Nicole's vulnerability and balanced by the subtle personality of Cat ❤❤❤

  • @AndreagraceBumatay
    @AndreagraceBumatay หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think I found my new favorite 🥰✨ sobrang relate ako don sa part na, "I allowed myself to think of myself in that way".

  • @gabbyalejandro
    @gabbyalejandro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Juskoo! Bat ganyan si Cat sobrang galing! Parang lumunok ng ChatGPT plus nung bata pa siya 😂

  • @camelealullmiranda6931
    @camelealullmiranda6931 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sending hugs to both of you, Catriona and Nicole. This is heartwarming, especially as a local beauty queen. God bless this podcast for sharing real conversations and the genuine sincerity in sharing your stories and wisdom with us. Thank you for paving the way.

    • @NicoleCordoves
      @NicoleCordoves หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for spending time with us ❤

  • @PG-ys7zu
    @PG-ys7zu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love all the episodes but this is the best so far!!!!! MADE ME CRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @shainahgalutan8216
    @shainahgalutan8216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "mah new fave episode!!" -me on every episode lol🤭

    • @JCDeGuia
      @JCDeGuia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SAME!HAHA

  • @iambear8390
    @iambear8390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ang cute nyo! Every episode is so fun and I get to learn a lot! I've got a bunch of new words and phrases too! You guys are awesome Queens!🤍

  • @joelcortez681
    @joelcortez681 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    For me, comptence build confidence not anyone or anybodys praises. You have develop skills thst will reaply allow you to do your best because you know better.

  • @jenme2390
    @jenme2390 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I also anchor myself on being intelligent, Nicole!☺One of my favorite things about myself.

  • @simplytelling7638
    @simplytelling7638 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the topics mentioned, I'm interested in Cat's "breadwinner" days as it is something a lot can relate by, like how she managed.

  • @carlossantostv
    @carlossantostv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Epiphany moment watching this video. Thanks Cat and Nicole! You girls are so brilliant and beautiful! ❤❤

  • @annamariea8038
    @annamariea8038 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so rich conversation. I loved watching & listening to your stories, Cat & Nicole. You are both so pretty, brilliant, real and very uplifting. Plus, grabe tawa ko sa mga punch line nyo like yung mga reactions at tawa nyong dalawa. Grabe! Huhuhaha love you both nakakawala ng lungkot watching you girls😍🥹💗🫶

    • @NicoleCordoves
      @NicoleCordoves หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you po 🥹🥹🥹

  • @micahdeleon7820
    @micahdeleon7820 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so nice. I feel like I have virtual ate thru Cat and Nicole. Cheering me on to take that next step. To be bold and confident ❤ 😊 so much love for you too. Keep going. Thank you for reminding that there is freedom in acknowledging our insecurities and that it is liberating as well. Cheers!!

  • @AwjayTV
    @AwjayTV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    one of my fave podcast hhaha enjoy na makinig full of lessons pa

  • @justrandomkat
    @justrandomkat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really sacrificed my sleep to watch this episode 'coz you got me on the first 5 minutes. Both of you are so beautiful inside and out. Nakakainspire kayo. I like how you just speak your minds with confidence. God bless you both. ❤

  • @aungoosak802
    @aungoosak802 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really glad that you made this episode during what you have faced in London as I was worried about you...Queen.... By the way, could you please make the future episodes with more English as I really want to deeply understand about some specific topic but when you and Nicole speak in Tagalog, I would lost sometimes😭😭😭 Love you Queen...😍😍

  • @yourvirtualcollab
    @yourvirtualcollab 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just watched your episode and you guys are great! Love your vibes :) Thanks for this episode :) You are inspiring 🤩

  • @christianalfonso3395
    @christianalfonso3395 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ang o.a ko kasi I got worried bakit walang episode last Saturday! It's my habit na every saturday to listen to the both of you! Love u Nicole and my Queen Cat!! Thank u for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @chesukesu
    @chesukesu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This made my day,Love you both queens! 👑💖

  • @BelleAme114
    @BelleAme114 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is beautiful topic. I've enjoyed watching nicole, she so funny.💕

  • @ricamaem.moncada2616
    @ricamaem.moncada2616 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, ladies! You inspire me a lot 🤗

  • @RusellevonVerdadero
    @RusellevonVerdadero หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please do more content in your podcast. It's empowering! Lovelots😘

  • @pichielim
    @pichielim 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I felt as is this was God speaking through you guys here. Tysm ❤

  • @vernamarieeslit255
    @vernamarieeslit255 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember growing up, the scarcity of compliment is zero to none...that one day 2 girls at school told me I was pretty and instead of thanking them I CRIED!! because I don't believe them and i thought they are being sarcastic and just being a bully LOLOL. Back then I just don't know how to handle it because my own parents or family doesn't compliment me hahaha!

  • @johnpauldelima9922
    @johnpauldelima9922 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Of all the episodes, this one is my favorite! ❤

  • @ralphdavidlao2114
    @ralphdavidlao2114 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love watching both of you tackling wholesome topics. Excuse me muna Queen Cat, but hi to Nicole. I love your squirtle socks. I want one! 😁😁

  • @sheanneguna8017
    @sheanneguna8017 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make more of these! 🥹🙏🙏 I love your podcast. This is my favorite one🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @geraldquanico3250
    @geraldquanico3250 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Now, I am really interested to know your journeys in making your best circles. Another exemplary podcast!

    • @PG-ys7zu
      @PG-ys7zu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AGREE losing and gaining friends and having friends for life

  • @rigorkerr2990
    @rigorkerr2990 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hello Nicole and Cat! I met you both in 2018 during Nicole’s personality development workshop.
    If you may, I want you to discuss what were your fears before turning 30 and what were your realizations after turning 30?
    ❤❤❤

  • @bianca4196
    @bianca4196 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being in my mid 20’s im loving this 🥹

  • @TeacherShanti23
    @TeacherShanti23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love how eloquently and articulately you both express yourselves. I’ve learned so much from your conversation. Truly, ‘beauty from within exuding out.’ 🫶🏻

  • @pnutbutterjan
    @pnutbutterjan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AHHHH so excited for this!

  • @MarcusAntoniusPotter
    @MarcusAntoniusPotter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re our favorite queens’ favorite kweens!!! Super worth waiting for this episode!!!!🎉❤

  • @beerms45
    @beerms45 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Damn, this is the content from beauty queens that we need. I somehow relate to Nicole's story (except maganda talaga sya kahit feeling nya acquired taste sya hahahaha)--I am always told na at least matalino ka or people can't have it all so okay lang yan. I am like ano masama sa gusto ko din maging maganda on top of being matalino hahaha but seriously, growing up with flaws--acne scars, darker underarms, chestne/bacne--really shrunk my person. I feel like I could have been more if I was not as affected as I was (still am) by people's perception about my physical appearance pero I just remind myself na lang na I am beautiful in my own way and that my body is my vessel of life. Naka-jackpot din sa partner na super affirmative when my self-criticizing self emerges its head. LOL. I love this episode SM, Cat and Nicole!! 🥺
    PS: YOU are beautiful. Feel free to go back to this comment multiple times if you need some reminding. 🌻

  • @purplechef1102
    @purplechef1102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grabeeee! So many lessons talaga. ❤ Lagi ako excited sa new episodes. iloveyou Queen Cat and Ms. Nicole! 🥰

  • @michaelmendoza4825
    @michaelmendoza4825 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful conversation indeed, God bless you 2. ❤

  • @princenico6434
    @princenico6434 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been waiting for this ❤❤

  • @frankietatad1885
    @frankietatad1885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm interested to hear your thoughts about the following topics (1) Adulthood - How can you tell that you have reached the peak of your career (2) Contentment - Is their such thing as financial freedom before senior years/retirement? (3) What keeps you motivated when the world is evolving so fast? (4) How to keep relevant in the world - doing podcast must be one. (4) Dealing Pinoy toxic culture (too broad but this may include the traditional/laid back beliefs of your parents or society itself).

  • @korinazapanta8455
    @korinazapanta8455 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ill add you to my new favorites

  • @susan_1993
    @susan_1993 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sobrang dami kong tawa kay Nicole hahaha napaka totoo nya. You're a great tandem. More pls lagi ko kayo inaabangan ni Cat😊

  • @JoyKBCallado
    @JoyKBCallado 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤❤❤

  • @lykagrecia3046
    @lykagrecia3046 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this 🥹🫂
    Badly needed this reminder.. going through this struggles.. 🫶🏻🙈
    Perfect timing just pop out from YT algorithm.
    -Love from Sorsogon ❤

  • @nancysumaoangplan2819
    @nancysumaoangplan2819 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ang sarap kausap mga ganitong tao, nagpapakatotoo. Beauty queens na cool na cool ❤️❤️👏👏

  • @jeon-aimie
    @jeon-aimie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    21:30 this part really hits me. We should allow ourselves to feel pretty, wag natin ipagkait yun sa sarili natin.

    • @NicoleCordoves
      @NicoleCordoves 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are worthy 🫶🏼

  • @jamesaaronmanarang
    @jamesaaronmanarang 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excited here!!❤️🇵🇭

  • @cdp1253
    @cdp1253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a fun and helpful video, thanks for sharing! ❤

  • @aselmanimtim7712
    @aselmanimtim7712 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grabe Nicole, we experienced the same thing. NOW WE ARE BEAUTIFUL AND INTELLIGENT!

  • @yo_andersen608
    @yo_andersen608 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really love listening to them

  • @lakwatsera17
    @lakwatsera17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fave duo ❤❤❤

  • @Issa-uv4hg
    @Issa-uv4hg หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please keep creating more vids🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @jamellesantos9419
    @jamellesantos9419 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤This is a very inspiring episode.

  • @matricamaecentino7757
    @matricamaecentino7757 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hahaha my Nicole said " CHIKI TALAGA kayo!! ahahaha labet

    • @NicoleCordoves
      @NicoleCordoves 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi mamuahhhh!! 😂🙈🙈

  • @xaiii26
    @xaiii26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ang comforting ng episode na to huhu pls imgonnacrystawppp

  • @gwynethannemina
    @gwynethannemina 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Relate so much in this episode! ❤

  • @ivanmagnusmartinez78
    @ivanmagnusmartinez78 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this ✨

  • @seanrafio6912
    @seanrafio6912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nicole and her Squirtle socks 💙💙💙

  • @roycabalce7733
    @roycabalce7733 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes this is Roy, one of your subscribers. I find your videos entertaining and at the same time empowering. I can see how profound you are in your insights about life in general. So, I'd like to ask a question, something that was not yet asked in pageants. I'd like to know what do you think about religiosity vs. spirituality. Do you think they are the sane or different? what is your definition about religiosity and spirituality ? You nay site sine examples to elaborate, Thanks in advance for answering the question.

  • @mattymoncayo
    @mattymoncayo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you two!

  • @NicLlave
    @NicLlave 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THAT WAY OF "I LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE?."

  • @ellengamboa3180
    @ellengamboa3180 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss the live chat ...I miss you Queens. Beautiful episode

  • @chrysant5868
    @chrysant5868 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    fruitful podcast! would gladly support the merch idea!

  • @osiewatches
    @osiewatches 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to hear your financial tips or anything related to finances as kuripot queens hahaha

  • @ishitagairola9217
    @ishitagairola9217 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey, love watching your podcasts!! But it gets a bit tough when u don't speak in English, can you please provide subtitles for those parts if possible?? Love you!

  • @ellengamboa3180
    @ellengamboa3180 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True si Queen Nicole palagi ko sinasabi sa kanya mas maganda sya pag walang make-up . Beautiful inside and out. Yun Pikunin talaga hahaha

  • @galerights8983
    @galerights8983 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Ate Cath and Nicole! Papano pala if extemporaneous speaking yung pinaghahandaan? How do we practice for that?

  • @robertomonicoignacio
    @robertomonicoignacio 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It reminds me of your fan's question in the Build Series interview back on Januaty 9, 2019.

  • @Ms_KathYT
    @Ms_KathYT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ cat

  • @karlynminoso5819
    @karlynminoso5819 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nahahawa ako sa tawa si Cat
    Pero naiiyak ako sa kwento 😂😅

  • @JCVillanueva23
    @JCVillanueva23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Catriona ❤❤❤

  • @korinazapanta8455
    @korinazapanta8455 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    umami hahahaha

  • @jasphelsibal1570
    @jasphelsibal1570 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to go to your youtube kasi di ko alam kung si cat ba nagsasalita or si nicole sa audio HAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @sheiskyle6539
    @sheiskyle6539 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    aiyeee.... ❤❤❤

  • @prince_denss
    @prince_denss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jhayzarate1770
    @jhayzarate1770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Iloveit❤

  • @micsstory5808
    @micsstory5808 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    may bago nnmn akong inaabangan.. hehe

  • @logbi1616
    @logbi1616 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Living the dream nicole lol

  • @12stem2e-boocmarlon6
    @12stem2e-boocmarlon6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kayeco4005
    @kayeco4005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gusto ko yung acquired beauty!

  • @Portbocanegra
    @Portbocanegra 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😮😮😮

  • @sheenablossom4740
    @sheenablossom4740 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hahah I agree!!!!

  • @Khadija-k2d4d
    @Khadija-k2d4d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like that catriona clothes

  • @curiouszity
    @curiouszity 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ako din po, ung teeth ko, kaya nagpabraces ako. Pero tinawag dn ako horse teeth nung nag OJT ako. And I remember 1st year high school ako nung nalaman ko na may two types of nose pla, pango at matangos at sinabhan ako ng friend ko na ang cute mo sna kaso ang pango mo. Haha shocks nawala ako nun sa present time nung kausap ako and naconscious ako.

  • @rovelynenclona1015
    @rovelynenclona1015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @texwinter7330
    @texwinter7330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cat, will ur wedding with Sam happen?

  • @denlester7797
    @denlester7797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my comfort

  • @Watanabefamily-lj3my
    @Watanabefamily-lj3my 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are u in pinas?

  • @ApriljoyGac-ang
    @ApriljoyGac-ang หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤hello po

  • @mamagotthis.6587
    @mamagotthis.6587 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Suggestion: do an episode speaking in Tagalog 😀

  • @claudiokabanata3325
    @claudiokabanata3325 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    35:37 Si Ate Chonas ata yan trainer na yan😅

  • @JohnreyAbelanio
    @JohnreyAbelanio หลายเดือนก่อน

    I realized the 2 women who body shamed cat got their karmas, I got illed and & other had a marital problem

  • @NicLlave
    @NicLlave 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MY ALLAIANCE