@@clarke4400it’s took a easier choice to just not go to jail…… It shouldn’t be a easy story to tell it’s jail jail rules and politics no other options so if you not with the shit stay yo ass on the outs!!
@@THEREALQYUI can’t believe I just read this. 😂😂 Are you aware that the percentage of people in prison wrongfully convicted is between 4-6 percent? Not saying he was innocent but are we really justifying Sexual assault as a grown man? Roles reversed you would have not made this comment. Which lead me to believe you must be the dude who did it or have done it to someone.
@@clarke4400naw he pretty much set himself up talking bout he was chilling in dude cell why lol it's prison drinking an shit then he laughed bout it in the beginning if you watch the beginning he liked that shit lol
@@DarkAngel-cj6sx I think he/she means the square never has to deal with being graped in prison. The ones acting tough are the ones who have to deal with the animals in prison.
This is one of the WORST interviewers I’ve ever seen. You continually overtalk, interrupt, blurt out, and ask incoherent and compound questions. Let the interviewee tell their story. You are only there to direct it. Learn to listen and really take this job seriously. You seem unprepared for this interview and it came off incredibly insensitive.
I know he doesn’t know how to ask questions. He just says a bunch of words and it’s so hard to understand. What part of he didn’t tell no one doesnt he understand? That was a traumatizing experience and he’s just sitting there stuttering and asking the most out of pocket questions.
We men, we speak like that lol 💪🏾😭✅ its always something you probably could have done better, hence the guilt you feel 🤌🏾 that new world sassy shit is for gays and girls bruv ...
Facts! Felt the same way the questions were so stupid insensitive and ignorant they made it hard for him to tell his story ffsake it was frustrating listening to there dumb questions
@@agmcroom2374 I was telling my girl, if they gave a better interview they wouldn’t have to interrupt him. Ask how he Felt as a young boy in prison. Who he first met, let’s see how he was groomed, who introduced you to the guy who aped you. Nah, it seem like they was more interested in the ape and. It the story. They got the dude g street news who tell them Louisiana prison stories and I wanna know if his story anime of g street stories
This is the reason why so many men out here in the streets are now homeless and messed up on drugs with severe mental health issues. It breaks my heart!
Weird how people wanna call the victim of a rape a bitch but wont call the RAPIST a bitch. 😮 He coulda shoulda woulda but didnt i get it, however, the fact that a grown man has to worry about another grown man sexually approaching him is the most fucked up part. and everyone co-signing rape here probably would take part in the act. Respect to the victims.
Devante The Rxpist DARVO Jordan Castle over in the Houma/New Orleans area with his darkly scarred and well worn out entrance to his built-in kangaroo pouch/to-go box from riding all the trains in jail for violating us women and females IS a bitch. It looked like someone put both of their Fists in their without lube.
Many years ago, I was placed in jail and 4 dudes yelled out to me from down the hall licking their tongues and one said aloud 'Our King Pin going to looovve you!' I cried out to God as I laid down and that next morning God removed over 70 people from that side to another part of the jail. The inmates were freaking out, what are they doing? they don't do this, they don't do this but every 6 months? why are they doing this? It's not time! When I realize what God was doing, I knew he was going to remove all of them and as I saw them pass by as their names were called out, dozens of inmates walked by me then finally the very last one called was the 'King Pin' who I never saw but he knew who I was as he passed by and turned his head toward me licking his tongue at me. All Praises To The Most High God. Power belongs to God alone.
I served over 21 years in California prison for second degree murder and attempt on the police who killed my associate. I feel that someone should have handled this for him. Some people did not grow up like animals and are not part of that life. Even while I was in prison I had a problem with predators. If criminals are not safe from these individuals why would you want them back out around your family. It hurts just to imagine what this man went through mentally. Also, it takes a lot of courage to speak on something like this. Hopefully his story helps some young person to change their ways. May God help and bless him.
Actually That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
Prison nurse here-For all the people who claiming this doesn’t happen to real gangsters and so forth…Lies. Rap3 can happen to anyone in prison. I work at a high level prison in Georgia. Idc how big/small, short/tall you are…you can be got. I’ve cared for men who were rap3d. The shame and embarrassment of men who come to the nurse station and deny rap3 when you can clearly see the evidence all on their clothing is the most saddest thing to ever witness. Anyway, keep having this belief that it couldn’t happen to you… FYI-In prison there’s no real rules to the game. Everyone is free-game…especially when you have life in prison.
this comment isn’t being honest… been locked up and about some of the things mentioned is true it’s a bit misleading. You always keep your head on swivel and stay militant you would survive. Trust and believe true soldiers of the Most high know how devils operate.
A lot of "MEN" have been violated as children, this doesn't just happen in jail!! I pray for my black men. I love you and pray for your healing babes ❤
@@vperez2598 I say that alllllll the time! ‘They’ knew what they doin’ to our community by mass incarceratin’ Blk boys & Men for non-violent crimes that they wld give Wyte boys & Men “Warnings” & slaps on the wrist for.
Interviewer, please fix your questioning regarding this matter. Rape/SA is no joke be it a man or woman. Clearly this man was outmatched and intoxicated. Whether he fought or not, he was victimized and it’s not his fault. He was taken advantage of and the questions are insensitive to the matter. Please do better.
It’s not about being sensitive I had no issues with this interview he did good answering the questions and they commended him for being able to tell his story.
It looks more like he got taken advantage of by a punk. Because i hear from ex cons that you should never let your guard down for nobody in prison. That man brought him to his cell enticed him with the liquor and waited for a moment. I feel for dude because you can tell he doesnt have a evil bone in his body. It takes a lot A LOT of courage as a man to admit this, so prayers out to him to heal.
This. Unfortunately he was probably too square to realize prison culture/politics. 100% got befriended and groomed by a punk. It's crazy you always have to view everyone with a side eye behind them walls, but it's the reality of an institution lined with nothing but criminals.
@@No_Hookshot They become experts at identifying people who are green. They sit there ALL day trying to read people. They are ALWAYS looking for a victim.
Vernon you are a bold soldier to tell your story on a platform like this for all to hear, thank you so much for having the courage and the strength to tell your truth
If you ever asked a women if she felt responsible for a sa committed against them, you would probably be shut down and demonetized. This line of questioning is disgusting and unprofessional.
Like you said he's not a woman 😴🤷🏾♂️💯 also, stop acting like nobody never felt guilt after being raped 🥴🤷🏾♂️💯 " why the girls can wear make up but when we do it it's bad " type shit ... That's not masculine energy p 🤧 I bet you he won't skip chest day, commit crime, drink hooch wit significantly larger jail dudes, hang out in dudes cells when you have your own, etc 🥱 bro square ASF tho, it's almost depressing to me 🙆🏾♂️
As a woman who has been a victim of this harsh reality, for some reason it breaks me hearing men go through this. Salute to this young man because it's so many other men who are victims and are taking it to the grave with them.
I second that! This is so heart breaking! The media loves to promote young men to throw their lives away and they don’t show that the young men are the targets! Generally in every category!
@@rashadzellner1298well think abt it like this, both situations is f’d up for women and men but a woman’s anatomy is literally made for penetration and will cater to that penetration even if they don’t want it… (yes women getting taken advantage of still get wet and pleasured when it’s unwanted from what I’ve heard from a lot of women) a man however isn’t made to get a 🍆stuck in him and no matter how much they work they way in them yams it’s unnatural so in a way a man being assaulted the same way as a woman is physically much worse… but like I said both are equally degrading and messed up..
That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
This is heartbreaking 💔 when he said he didn’t have the heart to retaliate that made me cry. I pray he heal to the fullest and God restores his mind and he never have to tell and relive this awful story again😢
It's extremely rare these days outside of maybe Alabama. It happens but rarely unless you put yourself in that situation and maybe we're already doing some weird things to begin with
@@robbycole7047 still doesn't change the fact the interviewer could have a better job and it's obviously that others in the comments feel the exact same as myself
Y’all niggas soft as hell. You bet here mad about an interviewer. You would’ve never heard this man’s story if it wasn’t for the interviewer. Stfu and enjoy the content
He braver than a lot of “tough guys” that go in to prison and come home. A lot of dudes wouldn’t dare talk about this or tell everything that go on in there.
Katt Williams said it best, “Rape is not funny no matter who it happens to.” He may have laughed at his own pain-or it could’ve been a trauma response. I appreciate him sharing his story and experience. I have no judgements. ❤
Listen brother what happened, happened I know for sure u didn't want that to happen but it happened but keep this in mined an always remember this what happened to u can happen to most but u coming out and talking about what happened to u in front of the world shows u still a man!! A lot 9f people talked like it would or couldn't happen to them when it most definitely could an has happen but u was man enough to speak to the world about it which most so called men would take that shut to the grave!!! People talk but like ur situation if some big buff dude dude that can really fight run down on them they wouldn't be able to do anything in that moment or I. Some cases would have let that shit just happen!!! So on a greater note peace to u an I respect u 1,000 straight like that....
I respect the heck out of him for not only being able to tell his story, but also being able to acknowledge that he doesn't have the heart to put work so to speak. I'll never understand why so many people today always want to try and act all hard and tough, as if nothing can or would happen to them. Anyone can get got. And besides, why would you even want to be in unnecessary situations anyway? That's ridiculous.
@@DagenLucasThat’s still no excuse, Show some compassion, That’s the problem an that’s why Men never get the sympathy we deserve when things like this happen.
Its crazy yall in the comments saying take this down and we dont need to hear this, but if it was a woman yall would have all the sympathy in the world. Thats whats wrong with our culture now.
I'm sorry this occurred to you. I think it's very brave of you to openly talk about this. There are so many men out here who were victimized as a child in the juvenile facilities. They don't talk or tell anyone about the incident(s). They keep it to themselves & never talk to anyone about it. Thats the issue right there. Folks think that if you get violated, you just come out with an attitude ready to kill the person who violated you. That's tv. This man is not a killer. Even after his violation. I hate that many men go thru this.
This happened to most men who go to prison. But they ain’t gone say nothing, they just gone act weird. That’s why they say soon as somebody goes to prison you can’t kick it wit em no mo. Because they not the same person you knew them from before they went to the penitentiary.
@baileybutterfly320 No it's a literal question.. Especially for a street person .. Also puts perspective for ppl that are unaware that this can happen.
@@dionc3680facts like my nigga how you ain’t see that coming you? You blind and don’t have no street smarts and trusting anybody was the first sign you a goofy in that life be a civilian if you this slow y’all please!!!
Some of the main ones laughing wouldn't last a day in prison. This doesn't just happen in prison either. A lot of you wouldn't even put up much of a fight.
This is why drunkenness is one of the most irresponsible sins. Believe it or not, any man can get taken advantage of when he's drunk out of his mind. No matter how big, tough, or strong you think you are.
@@chefxhyrule242 💯 especially getting drunk or high in prison. I'm staying sober all the time in that place that's full of evil. I even heard a crazy story about a guy getting raped at a bar by some homosexual guys in San Francisco. All because he thought they were cool, he let his guard down and got drunk around them. This world is full of wickedness. You can't trust anyone.
Man I just did my first week in county jail back in March at 31 years old.A homeless man jumped in front of my truck,I l panicked and fled the scene for 10 minutes but went back.That was 2022 the DA didn’t pick up the case til March of 2024 That one week gave me what I needed to change and that’s just county jail it was rough.I wasn’t raped but I did have to fight My paperwork was good so I thought I’d be left alone but dudes in there take everything so literal it’s crazy. Im not a tough guy but I didn’t lose the fight and after that they left me alone. Idk how dudes go back or are able to do years at a time. The system is built for people to fail yes but being a square is your best bet.Going to work a 9-5 or working for yourself is gangsta.Taking care of yourself and family is gangsta. Jail is for losers man the streets are cool to people who want to be something they aren’t it isn’t until it’s time to be that then it’s too late. Stay safe be smart man
@@Nick19328 Excellent news that you seen your worth! Jail is not meant for dogs or cats… Especially Humans! May God continues to Bless and Protect you in Jesus’ name Amen and Amen.
This was deep... I commend this man for speaking his truth. Its very difficult for men to come out and express this type of brutality. Sending him blessings and love 💜 Ty real life 🥰
@@theredd7365he *WAS* a criminal..prison is supposed to be about reformation and release decent humans back to the public. *YOU* are apart of the problem! Dog eat dog mentality is the reason why he was assaulted at a young, fragile age! Many people are falsely accused as well and tried as adults or given unfair amount of time and quickly become a victim of the prison system! Also, many men become gay for the stay to avoid being assaulted and come out with diseases and life changing secrets! Hope none of those outcomes happen to you or your loved ones.
I think these men need to remember that a prison daddy will always come across as your friend at first but they ALWAYS have an ulterior motive! I pray he heals ❤
I was a dentist at Allenwood , PA at the medium and the USP. All potential parents that do not have the intellectual technology to do all possible to shape their son’s minds to be studious and avoid prison should refrain from having kids. We have lost too many young men to this system. This is where they would like to see each and everyone of us end up!
You are right. I would honestly say about 70% of parents new and old aren’t mentally, emotionally and financially equipped to have and maintain successful parenting
Facts! This is why my son walk on the side walk because his father and I made sure he never had a chance to walk in the streets. He played every sport available and he would be so tired by time we got home there were no time to hang out. I love my baby for being a provider for his family the legal way!!
“They” who is they? I guess white people right? When black folks stop all the racism is when peace will happen from within. It’s too bad it’s 2024 and you are still oppressed by self. It’s always a good excuse though.
A Vernon don’t feel bad, when my son’s mother told people how to rape me in my sleep, they had gay people rape in me in prison too, I never got stabbed in prison, but I was rape in prison to, just like you! They did me, while I was sleeping, so I feel your pain, and I understand what you are going through, this rape stuff will be with you the rest of your life, those rapes will never go away, god bless you! And I hope you pull through with it, I know when a man gets rape he feels very disrespected, and feels very violated, and when I got rape Vernon, I feel like killing my self, but if I kill my self, I will go to hell, that’s why I never took my life Vernon
People that make fun of this type of stuff is the reason why communities never improve. I swear on my dead brother I had no undesired contact with a male during my time in jail, but there should still be protections in there to slim the chances up from that happening. Whether incarceration or free there’s always people out there plotting like that.
Nigga this ain’t commendable. He can laugh bc he wasn’t graped. He was in a relationship wit dude and his car found out and made him put in work or get violated
😢As a survivor of Grape , I understand how difficult it is to talk about it😮❤May God continue to help you in this season of life. ❤One Love, All Lives 😊Ms Tee
I appreciate the fact that you were able to conduct this interview but I wish the questions were more trauma informed. I think he wanted to share his story but you can clearly tell he was very triggered by some of these questions. The questions sound accusatory towards him at times… he is a survivor and it would have been nice to highlight that aspect…so many can identify with his story but don’t have the words or the comfort to share what he did.
@@amuntz7101 I hate to say it but I feel like his story would’ve been more emotionally appropriate on a woman’s platform. Too many males are still in denial or might fux around find out because they believe all the gangsters in prison are sleeping with female guards 🙄
Man I physically cannot ever watch that movie again because of that trauma.... it needs to be shown to the wanna be tough ones out here. There's always someone tougher.
These guys cut off the guy being interviewed wayyy too much. Didn’t just let the man simply talk. Anddd there was way too many people interviewing him. There was like 3-4 guys asking him questions. An interview should only be 1 on 1. And let the person being interviewed TALK.. smh
4:14 RealLyfe: After this happen like what was going threw your mind, was you hurt, where you like, did you think like, could you just walk us threw like what goes threw a man's mind Vernon: My A**hole was hurting 😵💫😰😢 - Much healing prayers & blessings to this Man no matter who you are from Man to Woman nobody deserves r*** - its easy to get rid of physical pain but its never easy to heal mental 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You guys truly ask the best questions! How did you feel getting raped . What do you think the rapist was thinking about while raping you. Tell me about the sensation of being stabbed.
Bet it had a lot to do with the fact he didn't have that dawg in him when he needed to be at folks throat. Yeah you risk getting more time but what's worse the trauma of being victimized or 10yrs added to your sentence?
It take a real man to come out and speak about this. Nothing to be ashamed of some people can't help the fact that they just don't have much fight or aggression in them.
8:00 ts. - I’ve never I my 51 years of living heard a man say “cause I ain’t got the heart for that” in such a soft,whispery, defeated,hopeless, helpless,exhausted fashion !! GOD be with you my man. 🙏
i aint gon liee that made me feel bad for buddy... cuz that could never be me.... if a mf cut me off on the road i need my get back... i couldnt imagine that defeated feeling
I'm happy I don't see comments making fun of this man. This happens to men and young boys more than people want to admit, but due to fear of being embarrassed and FURTHER humiliated, it goes unreported. Being taken advantage is not your fault, doesn't make you weak or less of a person. It's the weirdo that's harboring weird desires to force themselves on you that's a whole weirdo!
I’m glad I’m not the only one that sees it but then on other channels they beat their chest talking about their 🍑 warriors..so everyone pitching and no catching 🧐 either way, they gey af!
So sad. They are probably triggered men who are also victims of the same thing. So I understand the overly offended and defensive people, it's a tough exterior to appear less vulnerable
We have to speaking with our young black men about this. Because this is what the system wants, to keep us from loving each other and multiplying with your women.
No disrespect to this dude at all. He isn't built for war. It's a different 🌎 behind those walls. A man is a man, no matter the size. If ur unable to be a man then ur food (prey).
Alot of people are dealing with this exact same trauma, most don't speak on it for whatever reason. I understand 1st hand being violated, the victim loses much more than the perpetrator gained. I hope he is able to move forward with his life as he is "free" from the system now.
It dont even matter if you can fight or not, this happens when you let people walk over you in jail. If you dont show your heart in there, they will take advantage of you in any way possible.
TAKE THIS DOWNNN!!!!!! HOW DARE YOU EXPLOIT THIS MAN , YOU COULDVE JUST HELPED HIM!!! YOU WILL PAY FOR THIS ... THE UNIVERSE WILL PURGE YOUR ENTIRE EXISTENCE 👁🙏 REMEMBER I TOLD YOU THAT
😢😢😢😭😭😭 thi hurts my soul...i cant stand bullies or people that prey on others! As a former C/O u can see the ones they will try , the prison/jail politics...never saw this happen but heard stories...
Prison rape does not happen as often as people think, it's actually a rare occurrence. This situation was a set-up, by this guy being too trusting & gullible, especially getting drunk in jail..🤦
@@baileybutterfly320nobody’s blaming him. We’re just talking bout the things you can control. You should always have your antennas up for this exact reason
He didn’t retaliate back the first time it happened , then every predator was clapping them cheeks and he let them. His own race stabbed him making him leave the unit .. aka HE GOT TURNT OUT *
I love you Vernon. You are one of the strongest men i never met. If you want to share your story use your own platform. Tell it how you choose. I respect you sooo much and wish i had a man like you around. So much wisdom
The people asking him questions have absolutely no compassion. Just throwing questions like they scared he would end the interview. It’s very rare you have someone admit what happened in prison so we wanted to hear it all. I know pray for his full recovery and healing from that horrible experience. God bless you sir. Thank you for sharing your story. I have family members who have been in prison and this is very informative. Again thank you!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you king for sharing your story. You are meant to tell your story to reach people to think about the choices they make. I pray you continue to heal from the trauma yiu have endured while serving your time in prison. ❤❤❤❤❤
The other dude still trying to take advantage of him because he trying to grab some free money. He's part of the story but i know when somebody's trying to advantage. I advise Vernon to make some money on his own and leave ol boy out if that's the case
Facts.This is Vernon's story.He's the one who has his manhood on the line.All other dude can probably say is it was his idea.But fuck that I'm with u.I wouldn't give him shit!
My people are like the Roman during the Gladiator Times. We love to see our fellow people struggling and in pain. I hope 🤞🏾 one day we all can overcome our childish ways and trauma built responses. ❤
My heart goes out to this man he was still a baby at 22. Confident in his manhood for sure. Some of you in these comments not so much. Write your book sir!
@1judauhn grown in age not experience. You gotta actually raise your kids that thrown out at 21 usually don't end well.. Your comment slone tells me yoy prob was brought up on surviv not love. Thsts unfortunate. Leave your opinion as I did no need to argue mine thoygh fr. 😭
It took alot of courage for him to tell this story. I pray for his success.
I agree
@@clarke4400it’s took a easier choice to just not go to jail……
It shouldn’t be a easy story to tell it’s jail jail rules and politics no other options so if you not with the shit stay yo ass on the outs!!
@@THEREALQYUI can’t believe I just read this. 😂😂 Are you aware that the percentage of people in prison wrongfully convicted is between 4-6 percent? Not saying he was innocent but are we really justifying Sexual assault as a grown man? Roles reversed you would have not made this comment. Which lead me to believe you must be the dude who did it or have done it to someone.
@@clarke4400naw he pretty much set himself up talking bout he was chilling in dude cell why lol it's prison drinking an shit then he laughed bout it in the beginning if you watch the beginning he liked that shit lol
@@drelocs2878exactly he probably was that person because who would respond like that to someone like this he definitely is giving predator
It’s not until you get older that you’ll realize being a square was actually the real flex!
Can you explain what you mean? Being a square is a real flex?
Faaaacts. Not everyone realizes that even when they get older
@@DarkAngel-cj6sx I think he/she means the square never has to deal with being graped in prison. The ones acting tough are the ones who have to deal with the animals in prison.
Square here
being a square isn’t a flex 🤣
This is one of the WORST interviewers I’ve ever seen. You continually overtalk, interrupt, blurt out, and ask incoherent and compound questions. Let the interviewee tell their story. You are only there to direct it. Learn to listen and really take this job seriously. You seem unprepared for this interview and it came off incredibly insensitive.
This dude always screw up interviews they need to get rid of him I hope he isn’t the channel owner. He needs more media training.
I know he doesn’t know how to ask questions. He just says a bunch of words and it’s so hard to understand.
What part of he didn’t tell no one doesnt he understand? That was a traumatizing experience and he’s just sitting there stuttering and asking the most out of pocket questions.
Omg I agree I thought it was just me
There's literally 2 people interviewing him, that's too overwhelming
@@georgecarl6040 and they’re asking stupid questions and can’t get a thought out properly
Asking a rape victim "Do you feel guilt".
What a dumb fucking question.
Right.. You are absolutely right!
@@UnCreativeDeconstructionism indeed
😂😂😂 that shit was crazy
Mf go ask did you feel like any of this was your fault
We men, we speak like that lol 💪🏾😭✅ its always something you probably could have done better, hence the guilt you feel 🤌🏾 that new world sassy shit is for gays and girls bruv ...
The real tragedy is the brother being interviewed by a horrible interviewer.
Facts! Felt the same way the questions were so stupid insensitive and ignorant they made it hard for him to tell his story ffsake it was frustrating listening to there dumb questions
Yeah these dudes are horrible interviewers, all
They got going for them is good production and interesting guest
@@agmcroom2374 I was telling my girl, if they gave a better interview they wouldn’t have to interrupt him. Ask how he
Felt as a young boy in prison. Who he first met, let’s see how he was groomed, who introduced you to the guy who aped you. Nah, it seem like they was more interested in the ape and. It the story. They got the dude g street news who tell them Louisiana prison stories and I wanna know if his story anime of g street stories
Facts
I was thinking the same thing
This is the reason why so many men out here in the streets are now homeless and messed up on drugs with severe mental health issues. It breaks my heart!
Yes it's so messed up
Wrong. MOST men out in here streets were NOT raped in prison. GTFO.
Some, if not most are just lowlifes.
I agree😢
That's bad it's not right that should never happen to any straight men. This is heartbroken ,this is a violation,
Homie broke the first golden rule he was too friendly
Facts 💯
Exactly smh
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Yes zir 💯
He admitted straight up he didnt have the heart to retaliate and predators can pick up on that...
Weird how people wanna call the victim of a rape a bitch but wont call the RAPIST a bitch.
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He coulda shoulda woulda but didnt i get it,
however, the fact that a grown man has to worry about another grown man sexually approaching him is the most fucked up part. and everyone co-signing rape here probably would take part in the act.
Respect to the victims.
Yeah people are fucked up. You know exactly where their mind and their spirit is by their comments.
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Naw the rapist is a bitch, hoe and all the words below
The victim usually becomes feminine. Thats a bitch
Devante The Rxpist DARVO Jordan Castle over in the Houma/New Orleans area with his darkly scarred and well worn out entrance to his built-in kangaroo pouch/to-go box from riding all the trains in jail for violating us women and females IS a bitch. It looked like someone put both of their Fists in their without lube.
Many years ago, I was placed in jail and 4 dudes yelled out to me from down the hall licking their tongues and one said aloud 'Our King Pin going to looovve you!' I cried out to God as I laid down and that next morning God removed over 70 people from that side to another part of the jail. The inmates were freaking out, what are they doing? they don't do this, they don't do this but every 6 months? why are they doing this? It's not time! When I realize what God was doing, I knew he was going to remove all of them and as I saw them pass by as their names were called out, dozens of inmates walked by me then finally the very last one called was the 'King Pin' who I never saw but he knew who I was as he passed by and turned his head toward me licking his tongue at me. All Praises To The Most High God. Power belongs to God alone.
They were going to give you problems. Did you have that dawg in you to end their lives?
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Love friend I'm glad the lord protected u. I hope u doing well fam
you bet not ever go back to Cell Block One - K Dott
Yo u were just lucky asf you were supposed to took care of that right then on the spot.
I served over 21 years in California prison for second degree murder and attempt on the police who killed my associate. I feel that someone should have handled this for him.
Some people did not grow up like animals and are not part of that life. Even while I was in prison I had a problem with predators. If criminals are not safe from these individuals why would you want them back out around your family. It hurts just to imagine what this man went through mentally. Also, it takes a lot of courage to speak on something like this. Hopefully his story helps some young person to change their ways. May God help and bless him.
Why would they do it for him and he denied it happened?
I agree
@@JohnDoe-gc1ktthey did do it for him they got him the pic🤷🏽♂️
@@EastsideFleet23 huh?
Bitch quit lying
This is awful.
Actually That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
Very
Traumatizing.
I no right
Who is Vernon
Prison nurse here-For all the people who claiming this doesn’t happen to real gangsters and so forth…Lies. Rap3 can happen to anyone in prison. I work at a high level prison in Georgia. Idc how big/small, short/tall you are…you can be got. I’ve cared for men who were rap3d. The shame and embarrassment of men who come to the nurse station and deny rap3 when you can clearly see the evidence all on their clothing is the most saddest thing to ever witness. Anyway, keep having this belief that it couldn’t happen to you…
FYI-In prison there’s no real rules to the game. Everyone is free-game…especially when you have life in prison.
Exactly 💯
this comment isn’t being honest… been locked up and about some of the things mentioned is true it’s a bit misleading. You always keep your head on swivel and stay militant you would survive. Trust and believe true soldiers of the Most high know how devils operate.
Man you gotta stay in shape and if you gotta get down on someone it might. Come to that.
Tell em Nursingfolyfe1716!
They don't want the REAL truth!
Thank you for educating those who feel it can't happen to real gangsters
A lot of "MEN" have been violated as children, this doesn't just happen in jail!! I pray for my black men. I love you and pray for your healing babes ❤
@@Truthteller-z44 especially by some uncle or cousin that just got out! Where is the reformation?
@@vperez2598 I say that alllllll the time! ‘They’ knew what they doin’ to our community by mass incarceratin’ Blk boys & Men for non-violent crimes that they wld give Wyte boys & Men “Warnings” & slaps on the wrist for.
I’m tired of yall trying to put that on all black men. All black men are not the same. All of our experiences are not the same
Shid not me it's a knife in ever kitchen we don't play this shit
Facts raise awareness
Interviewer, please fix your questioning regarding this matter. Rape/SA is no joke be it a man or woman. Clearly this man was outmatched and intoxicated. Whether he fought or not, he was victimized and it’s not his fault. He was taken advantage of and the questions are insensitive to the matter. Please do better.
It’s not about being sensitive I had no issues with this interview he did good answering the questions and they commended him for being able to tell his story.
Facts
This is sad😢
@@nawfslimeverybody saying the same shit then your weird ass say this because you want to be different 😂
Omg, prison is not the place to be intoxicated in. It's full of demons in there.
It looks more like he got taken advantage of by a punk. Because i hear from ex cons that you should never let your guard down for nobody in prison. That man brought him to his cell enticed him with the liquor and waited for a moment. I feel for dude because you can tell he doesnt have a evil bone in his body. It takes a lot A LOT of courage as a man to admit this, so prayers out to him to heal.
This. Unfortunately he was probably too square to realize prison culture/politics. 100% got befriended and groomed by a punk. It's crazy you always have to view everyone with a side eye behind them walls, but it's the reality of an institution lined with nothing but criminals.
Most likely yeah it was a punk
He wanted that D...u can tell how he telling his story
@@No_Hookshot They become experts at identifying people who are green. They sit there ALL day trying to read people. They are ALWAYS looking for a victim.
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Vernon you are a bold soldier to tell your story on a platform like this for all to hear, thank you so much for having the courage and the strength to tell your truth
Who is he though? This is so sad.
@@Mcmilliomay another victim of the system.
If you ever asked a women if she felt responsible for a sa committed against them, you would probably be shut down and demonetized. This line of questioning is disgusting and unprofessional.
Yeah they gotta work on that. Unfortunately Male SA isn't taking as serious, that includes Mental Health
I totally agree with your comment this was so sad and disgusting. 🙂↕️🥹
@@jeremybrown9611because of other men like the interviewer
They should be asked
Like you said he's not a woman 😴🤷🏾♂️💯 also, stop acting like nobody never felt guilt after being raped 🥴🤷🏾♂️💯 " why the girls can wear make up but when we do it it's bad " type shit ... That's not masculine energy p 🤧 I bet you he won't skip chest day, commit crime, drink hooch wit significantly larger jail dudes, hang out in dudes cells when you have your own, etc 🥱 bro square ASF tho, it's almost depressing to me 🙆🏾♂️
As a woman who has been a victim of this harsh reality, for some reason it breaks me hearing men go through this. Salute to this young man because it's so many other men who are victims and are taking it to the grave with them.
Men deal with things differently. They hold it in. They are ashamed.
I second that! This is so heart breaking! The media loves to promote young men to throw their lives away and they don’t show that the young men are the targets! Generally in every category!
For some reason? 😂 wtf
You aren't lying. The offender is often the person you trust
@@rashadzellner1298well think abt it like this, both situations is f’d up for women and men but a woman’s anatomy is literally made for penetration and will cater to that penetration even if they don’t want it… (yes women getting taken advantage of still get wet and pleasured when it’s unwanted from what I’ve heard from a lot of women) a man however isn’t made to get a 🍆stuck in him and no matter how much they work they way in them yams it’s unnatural so in a way a man being assaulted the same way as a woman is physically much worse… but like I said both are equally degrading and messed up..
u can tell he uncomfortable about it and traumatized
No shit you don't say!!!
@@Lefty216 SYBAU 🧏
That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
Why tf he talking about it is my question
The interviewer are very insensitive
This is heartbreaking 💔 when he said he didn’t have the heart to retaliate that made me cry. I pray he heal to the fullest and God restores his mind and he never have to tell and relive this awful story again😢
This the story the gangsters don’t tell.
They too gangsta🤣🤣
This don’t happen to gangstas tho why would u chill with a nikka you don’t know
Cuz this typa shii don't happen to GanGstas..
@@MikeGadson-mw8mpyou would be surprised
It's extremely rare these days outside of maybe Alabama. It happens but rarely unless you put yourself in that situation and maybe we're already doing some weird things to begin with
The fact that he's willing to share his story is powerful. Sending healing to this brother and middle finger to the interviewer
You crying about the interviewer like he took the man's cheeks this guy is weak asf and should have never broke the law.
@@robbycole7047 still doesn't change the fact the interviewer could have a better job and it's obviously that others in the comments feel the exact same as myself
@@robbycole7047it don’t matter how weak this dude is. The interviewer is pure dogshit 😂😂
@@robbycole7047so you Say he's guilty😒
Y’all niggas soft as hell. You bet here mad about an interviewer. You would’ve never heard this man’s story if it wasn’t for the interviewer. Stfu and enjoy the content
He braver than a lot of “tough guys” that go in to prison and come home. A lot of dudes wouldn’t dare talk about this or tell everything that go on in there.
Katt Williams said it best, “Rape is not funny no matter who it happens to.” He may have laughed at his own pain-or it could’ve been a trauma response. I appreciate him sharing his story and experience. I have no judgements. ❤
I don't think he mentally he's over it. He's been violated.
yea smh it’s heartbreaking 💔 🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
@@Trinppingand that’s funny????!!! 🤨🤨
@@TrinppingLame asl, you’ll be the first one on yo knees without even putting up a fight..
This is not funny at all whatsoever..I did some fed time and you have to know how to move in those places not a game at all 😢
Most definitely not a joke 😢
Facts💯
So basically you’re saying “ gangsterism = 🌈 “
It is funny nigga thought he was gangsta till he got thrown in a cage and got his ass took
@@392DirtBallDudes like you are what’s wrong with us.
Respect to him for even doing this interview
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Listen brother what happened, happened I know for sure u didn't want that to happen but it happened but keep this in mined an always remember this what happened to u can happen to most but u coming out and talking about what happened to u in front of the world shows u still a man!! A lot 9f people talked like it would or couldn't happen to them when it most definitely could an has happen but u was man enough to speak to the world about it which most so called men would take that shut to the grave!!! People talk but like ur situation if some big buff dude dude that can really fight run down on them they wouldn't be able to do anything in that moment or I. Some cases would have let that shit just happen!!! So on a greater note peace to u an I respect u 1,000 straight like that....
I respect the heck out of him for not only being able to tell his story, but also being able to acknowledge that he doesn't have the heart to put work so to speak. I'll never understand why so many people today always want to try and act all hard and tough, as if nothing can or would happen to them. Anyone can get got. And besides, why would you even want to be in unnecessary situations anyway? That's ridiculous.
Wow what an incredibly insensitive interviewer
Fr
They never do good interviews tho smh
We are men, we ask the right and direct questions. He can say “I don’t wanna talk about it”
???
@@DagenLucasThat’s still no excuse, Show some compassion, That’s the problem an that’s why Men never get the sympathy we deserve when things like this happen.
The fact he can talk about it openly is amazing
Its crazy yall in the comments saying take this down and we dont need to hear this, but if it was a woman yall would have all the sympathy in the world. Thats whats wrong with our culture now.
Exactly
Facts!
💯 the majority of the blk community only likes to hear about things that don’t matter, but when it comes to something serious, it’s crickets. Smh
This is a Life lesson learned hopefully these young men realize it can and will be you behind those bars!
So true!❤❤❤
I'm sorry this occurred to you. I think it's very brave of you to openly talk about this. There are so many men out here who were victimized as a child in the juvenile facilities. They don't talk or tell anyone about the incident(s). They keep it to themselves & never talk to anyone about it. Thats the issue right there. Folks think that if you get violated, you just come out with an attitude ready to kill the person who violated you. That's tv. This man is not a killer. Even after his violation. I hate that many men go thru this.
Hope this brother found peace in his life.🙏
At least he’s honest. Stay out the system man.
This happened to most men who go to prison. But they ain’t gone say nothing, they just gone act weird. That’s why they say soon as somebody goes to prison you can’t kick it wit em no mo. Because they not the same person you knew them from before they went to the penitentiary.
@@VegasNights702no it fuckin don’t stop spreading bullshit…
@@VegasNights702you ain’t never been to prison how the fuck would you know…
@@VegasNights702yo ass lying like hell. Stop spreading false information. You might’ve been a victim, but most men aren’t.
@@GeeskigeezuzI guess that hit home for you, it’s the truth, no matter if you never been to prison.
This has to be the WORST INTERVIEWER EVER!!!!! Dude just go get a 9-5 😂😂😂😂 this is not for you
LMAO
IM DEAD LMAO
There’s 3-4 interviewers. All asking questions at once.. they all suck.. smh
I’ve made this comment multiple times but these people running this channel have absolutely NO INTEGRITY
Starting the interview with “how did you not see it coming” is crazy
Yes victims blaming
@@baileybutterfly320I don't think that's what this comment is talking about 🤷
@baileybutterfly320
No it's a literal question.. Especially for a street person ..
Also puts perspective for ppl that are unaware that this can happen.
@@dionc3680facts like my nigga how you ain’t see that coming you?
You blind and don’t have no street smarts and trusting anybody was the first sign you a goofy in that life be a civilian if you this slow y’all please!!!
😂😂😂😂
Some of the main ones laughing wouldn't last a day in prison. This doesn't just happen in prison either. A lot of you wouldn't even put up much of a fight.
I don't find it funny and I don't understand why anybody would.
Stay outta jail simple
I definitely wouldn't put up a fight,, anything over 9inches is painful if you don't have enough lub
Not funny at all!
Sound like you've been the booty bandit before 😂
These young niggas need to hear this. I HOPE they are LISTENING
4real...
EXACTLY! They're on here crying take it down because they know all their tuff talk is just talk.
They're not. Too busy listening to the wrong things from the wrong people.
We heard this before Cho buster ahh up
These yns don’t care bout none of this I promise u
This is why drunkenness is one of the most irresponsible sins. Believe it or not, any man can get taken advantage of when he's drunk out of his mind. No matter how big, tough, or strong you think you are.
It’s insane to me that anyone will get drunk or high knowing how evil people are
@@chefxhyrule242 💯 especially getting drunk or high in prison. I'm staying sober all the time in that place that's full of evil. I even heard a crazy story about a guy getting raped at a bar by some homosexual guys in San Francisco. All because he thought they were cool, he let his guard down and got drunk around them. This world is full of wickedness. You can't trust anyone.
Man I just did my first week in county jail back in March at 31 years old.A homeless man jumped in front of my truck,I l panicked and fled the scene for 10 minutes but went back.That was 2022 the DA didn’t pick up the case til March of 2024
That one week gave me what I needed to change and that’s just county jail it was rough.I wasn’t raped but I did have to fight My paperwork was good so I thought I’d be left alone but dudes in there take everything so literal it’s crazy. Im not a tough guy but I didn’t lose the fight and after that they left me alone. Idk how dudes go back or are able to do years at a time. The system is built for people to fail yes but being a square is your best bet.Going to work a 9-5 or working for yourself is gangsta.Taking care of yourself and family is gangsta. Jail is for losers man the streets are cool to people who want to be something they aren’t it isn’t until it’s time to be that then it’s too late. Stay safe be smart man
@@Nick19328Salute to you! Spoken like a real one 💯
@@Nick19328 Excellent news that you seen your worth! Jail is not meant for dogs or cats… Especially Humans! May God continues to Bless and Protect you in Jesus’ name Amen and Amen.
I wish your comment was pinned to the top! The realest thing said in the comments thus far.
What happen to the homeless dude?
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Vernon needs a more serious/safe space to talk about the subject. Unapologetically, he deserves a better interviewer!
This was deep... I commend this man for speaking his truth. Its very difficult for men to come out and express this type of brutality. Sending him blessings and love 💜 Ty real life 🥰
He a criminal lmao who soft with no pistol
@@theredd7365he *WAS* a criminal..prison is supposed to be about reformation and release decent humans back to the public. *YOU* are apart of the problem! Dog eat dog mentality is the reason why he was assaulted at a young, fragile age! Many people are falsely accused as well and tried as adults or given unfair amount of time and quickly become a victim of the prison system! Also, many men become gay for the stay to avoid being assaulted and come out with diseases and life changing secrets! Hope none of those outcomes happen to you or your loved ones.
I think these men need to remember that a prison daddy will always come across as your friend at first but they ALWAYS have an ulterior motive! I pray he heals ❤
Life can be so CRUEL. Trauma is REAL.
As a former foster youth/now male who was raped too, I am sorry you went through that experience! I hope your recovery is/has been successful!
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Sorry to hear that
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Percy why was you weak? Why didn't you fight back!
I was a dentist at Allenwood , PA at the medium and the USP. All potential parents that do not have the intellectual technology to do all possible to shape their son’s minds to be studious and avoid prison should refrain from having kids. We have lost too many young men to this system. This is where they would like to see each and everyone of us end up!
You are right. I would honestly say about 70% of parents new and old aren’t mentally, emotionally and financially equipped to have and maintain successful parenting
Facts! This is why my son walk on the side walk because his father and I made sure he never had a chance to walk in the streets. He played every sport available and he would be so tired by time we got home there were no time to hang out. I love my baby for being a provider for his family the legal way!!
❤❤@@BeautifulSoul-zk6lo
“They” who is they? I guess white people right? When black folks stop all the racism is when peace will happen from within. It’s too bad it’s 2024 and you are still oppressed by self. It’s always a good excuse though.
A Vernon don’t feel bad, when my son’s mother told people how to rape me in my sleep, they had gay people rape in me in prison too, I never got stabbed in prison, but I was rape in prison to, just like you! They did me, while I was sleeping, so I feel your pain, and I understand what you are going through, this rape stuff will be with you the rest of your life, those rapes will never go away, god bless you! And I hope you pull through with it, I know when a man gets rape he feels very disrespected, and feels very violated, and when I got rape Vernon, I feel like killing my self, but if I kill my self, I will go to hell, that’s why I never took my life Vernon
I'm sorry that happened to you brother
You're a strong individual really ❤❤❤ I pray life gets better for you day by day🙂↕️ Take care.
People that make fun of this type of stuff is the reason why communities never improve. I swear on my dead brother I had no undesired contact with a male during my time in jail, but there should still be protections in there to slim the chances up from that happening. Whether incarceration or free there’s always people out there plotting like that.
Damn, what happened to your son's mother??? She sounds like an evil woman.
That’s horrible bro. Stay strong!
"the FIRST time" is crazy work
Salute to him for sharing his story though. Respect.
Yeah, when he said "The first time?", I was like "Damn, poor dude's been through it"
The questions were crazy. One of them asked, "how did you feel after"? He said, "my booty hurt". That was foul.
I said the same shit 😂😂
I said WOAH!!!!
He talking about going to the hold.
For this brother to be able to talk about this openly and to even be able to laugh talking about this is commendable.
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Nigga this ain’t commendable. He can laugh bc he wasn’t graped. He was in a relationship wit dude and his car found out and made him put in work or get violated
These are not questions you ask a victim
If he saw himself as a victim he would not be strong enough to share his truth.
@@biggieshortyThis makes no sense . Horrible interviewer.
@@biggieshorty he's a victim whether or not he sees himself as such.
They’re trying to get the full story tf up how they supposed to ask him, this was a good interview
sensitive mind frame
You can hear the hurt and pain in his voice as he tells his story.
“How did you not see it coming?” is nasty work for an opening question
Facts 😂😂😂
You can be inexperienced at interviewing and STILL find a better way to format that question.
Dude was outta pocket.
Right he was on the unit looking for sign the dumbest thing I ever heard …. He was a naive kid was never around these type of ppl
💀💀i prefer dont watch the interview
The Country bumpkin was holding 12 inches how did he not see it coming!!! Vernon said he's chon chon was hurting, it must of been bad 😔
😢As a survivor of Grape , I understand how difficult it is to talk about it😮❤May God continue to help you in this season of life. ❤One Love, All Lives 😊Ms Tee
😂 just gotta make it about you huh?
@@kingdaddyteamworkmakethedr1396 No sir, just commenting like everyone else, Stay blessed 😇 Real talk, no chaser, Ms. Tee
It's not about you. You 304 love to be victims
The side of prison they don't talk about to these young folks smh 🤦🏽♀️ blessings and healing to this man.
It doesn’t happen that much
@@glock4014 it still happens
@@dsecret4915it's rare but mainly still happen to whyte boys tho
@@dsecret4915yea where it’s allowed
@glock4014 bruh yes it does. Depends where u at
Who tf is interviewing 3-5 different mfs??
They are the worst interviewers I’ve ever seen… they ask all of the wrong questions.
What should they ask
They are awful! Anyone get a podcast. The interviewer is stuttering, over talking, interrupting and etc.
@@rayecoone5889he needs to take Speech 101 at the jr college.
Then stfu and start a podcast
@@rayecoone5889verbiage is key. His verbiage is garbage.
“How did you not see this coming”?
Should’ve said,
“did you see any signs of this happening?”
I appreciate the fact that you were able to conduct this interview but I wish the questions were more trauma informed. I think he wanted to share his story but you can clearly tell he was very triggered by some of these questions. The questions sound accusatory towards him at times… he is a survivor and it would have been nice to highlight that aspect…so many can identify with his story but don’t have the words or the comfort to share what he did.
@@amuntz7101 I hate to say it but I feel like his story would’ve been more emotionally appropriate on a woman’s platform. Too many males are still in denial or might fux around find out because they believe all the gangsters in prison are sleeping with female guards 🙄
Men are not like women. We don't sugar coat stuff
The movie lockdown had me traumatized, and I knew I couldn’t go there 😢
Rns. That and American me
On god 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Exactly that part 💯🎯
One of the coldest scenes in history
Man I physically cannot ever watch that movie again because of that trauma.... it needs to be shown to the wanna be tough ones out here. There's always someone tougher.
Damn sad to hear but this guy is the example of a real man being honest with your self, respect!
I lost respect for this podcast after this interview. These guys do not understand interview etiquette.
That’s a personal problem.. this is a good video for people to watch and learn and hopefully it helps them not to want to go to jail
@@sxtsxt6714 interview was trash!
Facts
These guys cut off the guy being interviewed wayyy too much. Didn’t just let the man simply talk. Anddd there was way too many people interviewing him. There was like 3-4 guys asking him questions. An interview should only be 1 on 1. And let the person being interviewed TALK.. smh
4:14
RealLyfe: After this happen like what was going threw your mind, was you hurt, where you like, did you think like, could you just walk us threw like what goes threw a man's mind
Vernon: My A**hole was hurting
😵💫😰😢 - Much healing prayers & blessings to this Man no matter who you are from Man to Woman nobody deserves r*** - its easy to get rid of physical pain but its never easy to heal mental 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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@@Jaycincoooh🥲
To go through all this and still have the courage to sit infront of the world without hiding your face forces respect.
Damn, that's messed up. This man brave as hell for sharing this with the world.
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... Batman himself couldn't get this info out of me. But shout out to him for telling his truth
😂😂😂😂naw fareal
HIS BOOTY HURT😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🥶🥶🥶🥶😭😭😭
@@Trinppingu wrong shi aint funny
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Drake watching this like.......😳
To have people never to been to jail prison asked these question is crazy let the man talk !!
You guys truly ask the best questions! How did you feel getting raped . What do you think the rapist was thinking about while raping you. Tell me about the sensation of being stabbed.
Brother went through hell the entire 25yr bid and never had not 1 solid friend in there the whole ride!
Bet it had a lot to do with the fact he didn't have that dawg in him when he needed to be at folks throat. Yeah you risk getting more time but what's worse the trauma of being victimized or 10yrs added to your sentence?
@@tanO9lives Exactly he left the dawg outside the gate and needed to been a full pit once he went through the gates!
Yet still he’s a ray of light. Reminds me of Forrest Gump
@@cartomancycarmen that’s what you think unfortunately
"As far as you want to take it" and "how did you not see it coming" is crazy work.
Wow
It take a real man to come out and speak about this. Nothing to be ashamed of some people can't help the fact that they just don't have much fight or aggression in them.
Bros a sweet bitch with no heart nigga ran all through his sentence sounds like he ain't stand his ground once it's sounds
That boy would have left earth that same hour.
Why what you going to do brave heart!
I'm glad they didn't ask him about the other times. I noticed he said, "The 1st time?" He relives it each time he talks about it. 😢
Yes, he’s still traumatized
After that first time he was suppose to turn into a monster
He prolly gay fuck u mean more than once
@@marvelous1204able💯 by him not retaliating he sent out a invitation to everyone.
@@That_one_introvert. exactly
Shit pissed me off i pray for homie hope he find the strength ,to get pass this mentality he really strong for being able to tell his story.
Thank you very much for sharing your story, my brother. It’s very hard and difficult to even listen to our story. The evil that people do.
8:00 ts.
- I’ve never I my 51 years of living heard a man say “cause I ain’t got the heart for that” in such a soft,whispery, defeated,hopeless,
helpless,exhausted fashion !!
GOD be with you my man. 🙏
i aint gon liee that made me feel bad for buddy... cuz that could never be me.... if a mf cut me off on the road i need my get back... i couldnt imagine that defeated feeling
it also shows why hes easy prey. he has no heart.
I'm happy I don't see comments making fun of this man. This happens to men and young boys more than people want to admit, but due to fear of being embarrassed and FURTHER humiliated, it goes unreported. Being taken advantage is not your fault, doesn't make you weak or less of a person. It's the weirdo that's harboring weird desires to force themselves on you that's a whole weirdo!
Salute to this MAN. Takes a gargantuan amount of courage to tell a story like this 😢
🤦🏾♀️ Some of the most suspect dudes in these comments OMG
Ikr. All these overly gangster people with no compassion
I’m glad I’m not the only one that sees it but then on other channels they beat their chest talking about their 🍑 warriors..so everyone pitching and no catching 🧐 either way, they gey af!
So sad. They are probably triggered men who are also victims of the same thing. So I understand the overly offended and defensive people, it's a tough exterior to appear less vulnerable
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We have to speaking with our young black men about this. Because this is what the system wants, to keep us from loving each other and multiplying with your women.
they want to homosexualize our black youth,,they want other black men to Buck Break each other
No disrespect to this dude at all. He isn't built for war. It's a different 🌎 behind those walls. A man is a man, no matter the size. If ur unable to be a man then ur food (prey).
You do not seem to have learn anything from this interview ! Instead of trying to build yourself for War, why not avoid that war to begin with?
@@BoringDad1272not possible
You are not warrior, wild animals.
@@williamsshakesaspear4714I agree. We're literally born into a silent war as black people and into an even larger one as a collective
There are no real men in prison. They ain't paying the bills there.
I don’t mean to be a jerk but the people doing the interview aren’t mature enough to conduct interviews regarding this kind of subject matter .
Alot of people are dealing with this exact same trauma, most don't speak on it for whatever reason. I understand 1st hand being violated, the victim loses much more than the perpetrator gained. I hope he is able to move forward with his life as he is "free" from the system now.
Sound like bro wasn't built for no jail. Sound like he ain't even want to fight back.
Exactly
He probably enjoyed giving himself to that man
It dont even matter if you can fight or not, this happens when you let people walk over you in jail. If you dont show your heart in there, they will take advantage of you in any way possible.
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Vlad over here speed dialing this dude for a interview
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TAKE THIS DOWNNN!!!!!! HOW DARE YOU EXPLOIT THIS MAN , YOU COULDVE JUST HELPED HIM!!! YOU WILL PAY FOR THIS ... THE UNIVERSE WILL PURGE YOUR ENTIRE EXISTENCE 👁🙏 REMEMBER I TOLD YOU THAT
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😢😢😢😭😭😭 thi hurts my soul...i cant stand bullies or people that prey on others! As a former C/O u can see the ones they will try , the prison/jail politics...never saw this happen but heard stories...
Prison rape does not happen as often as people think, it's actually a rare occurrence. This situation was a set-up, by this guy being too trusting & gullible, especially getting drunk in jail..🤦
Facts. There are so many homosexuals that rape doesn’t happen often. Unless you are sweet or weak. People know who to try
It depends on what prison or type if prison you go to. It's rare in some places and prevalent in others.
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Stop blaming him! This can happen outside in the REAL WORLD. It happened to me from a so called friend.
@@baileybutterfly320nobody’s blaming him. We’re just talking bout the things you can control. You should always have your antennas up for this exact reason
He is so strong for sharing his story. A lot of men don’t speak up.
He didn’t retaliate back the first time it happened , then every predator was clapping them cheeks and he let them. His own race stabbed him making him leave the unit .. aka HE GOT TURNT OUT *
I feel so bad for him but he is very courageous for being honest and telling his story❤
I respect this guy was telling his story because there are plenty of men that will not do that who was in that position
I love you Vernon. You are one of the strongest men i never met. If you want to share your story use your own platform. Tell it how you choose. I respect you sooo much and wish i had a man like you around. So much wisdom
The people asking him questions have absolutely no compassion. Just throwing questions like they scared he would end the interview. It’s very rare you have someone admit what happened in prison so we wanted to hear it all. I know pray for his full recovery and healing from that horrible experience. God bless you sir. Thank you for sharing your story. I have family members who have been in prison and this is very informative. Again thank you!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Very true. Someone they know could have gone through the same thing.
I respect him as a straight man because he was took advantage of as a you man. He not gay because he never consented to it
But he still soft in a way 🤦🤦
@@marvel1101Soft doesn't equal gay. Grow up.
@@marvel1101thats the worst part . Men can rape you, dude with no gun or knife i guarantee a group of 4 men would have there way with you.
@@marvel1101that could have happened to you too 🤷🏽♂️
@@marvel1101he harder than you
Sending Veron prayers for understanding and complete healing his way. God bless
Thank you king for sharing your story. You are meant to tell your story to reach people to think about the choices they make. I pray you continue to heal from the trauma yiu have endured while serving your time in prison. ❤❤❤❤❤
The other dude still trying to take advantage of him because he trying to grab some free money. He's part of the story but i know when somebody's trying to advantage. I advise Vernon to make some money on his own and leave ol boy out if that's the case
Facts.This is Vernon's story.He's the one who has his manhood on the line.All other dude can probably say is it was his idea.But fuck that I'm with u.I wouldn't give him shit!
My people are like the Roman during the Gladiator Times. We love to see our fellow people struggling and in pain. I hope 🤞🏾 one day we all can overcome our childish ways and trauma built responses. ❤
My heart goes out to this man he was still a baby at 22. Confident in his manhood for sure. Some of you in these comments not so much. Write your book sir!
22 years old that was a grown ass man
True. He wouldn't survive in Florida prison.
He was 21.
@@dreamchasahh lol not so much indeed 🙄
@1judauhn grown in age not experience. You gotta actually raise your kids that thrown out at 21 usually don't end well.. Your comment slone tells me yoy prob was brought up on surviv not love. Thsts unfortunate. Leave your opinion as I did no need to argue mine thoygh fr. 😭
How do you ask a victim of sexual assault “what do you think was going through his head “? Crazy asf