ONE YEAR AFTER MOVING TO NIGERIA| THE TRUTH ABOUT LIVING IN LAGOS | AFRICA

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  • @TOLANIBAJ
    @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Hey subbies, new video up & thanks alot for your patience.
    I know this video has been requested for some time now but I finally got the chance to create.
    Leave comments guys! Very important 💜 xoxo

    • @suzettelawes2104
      @suzettelawes2104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Toland Baj you were quite entertaining and truthful in your commentary. I've always marvled at Nigerians and how proud they are. You have quenched my curiosity as to how they treat women, its sad that we have( black women as a whole) to behave dominant in order to protect our feminity. Keep your head up and I wish you all the best O....

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you✨✨

    • @Ladyromford
      @Ladyromford 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lagos is difficult that’s why many of us in Nigeria hate the place ..... I really hate Lagos

    • @_iamblobi
      @_iamblobi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U are so truthful girl😌😌

    • @ichfaria
      @ichfaria 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I JUST LOOOOOVVVEEEE UUUUUU HAHHHHAHAHAHAAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @queenbee7698
    @queenbee7698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "At the end of the day I have a passport" No lies no pride just true talk. Go girl

  • @adaobiee9461
    @adaobiee9461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I can’t allow this people to stress me because i have a passport !!!! That’s the biggest flex

  • @ldmaze517
    @ldmaze517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    For anyone planning on making a Trip to Nigeria it is important that you know someone there, just like she said. I lived in Port Harcourt a little over a Year. When i get off the plane everyone has their hand out asking for money. No lie i'm not even exaggerating. I'm coming all the way from Cali and I tell them it's not easy for Black Folks in California and I'm definitely not Rich. Even when I was leaving they were asking for money like i was Bank of America... The roads are not great in Nigeria. Also the Electricity is not steady. I went 30 days without Electricity in Port Harcourt, but in Lagos the Electricity seem to stay on longer there. I mean it will stay on for 12 hours straight and cut off for about an hour or two and come right back on for like 8 hours. Port Harcourt, the longest it ever stayed on straight out there was 6 Hours then it will go off for about 2 to 3 days before it comes back on... Also you have to negotiate everything just about in Nigeria. The only thing i like is how the food is Fresh and the food is good and healthy as well. Because of the Humidity you will lose weight easily especially eating their food. Also they do not cook their BEEF real tender they like it tough and well done, like you will lose a tooth biting down on their Beef and Goat meat.. Well if you want to know more just ask. Because the Poverty is Great in Nigeria.

  • @frankokanlawon6405
    @frankokanlawon6405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Brave young lady, I'm so proud to see someone like my own daughter behaves kudos to her

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you☺️

  • @BukkyOh
    @BukkyOh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this so accurate. The move is defo not easy and having a plan and people to support you is so imperative.

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @YEMTHEGEM
    @YEMTHEGEM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Deff need the story time! Great video “and that’s on period” and I loveeeee your intro man!

  • @TownHeroine
    @TownHeroine ปีที่แล้ว

    Most helpful I've seen, thank you!

  • @FolukeXO
    @FolukeXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Legit you have to be on the brink of rudeness and being very harsh to be heard and respected as a woman. I’m glad you were promoting to keep morals in tact as that has gone out the window for a lot of girls!

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      FolukeXO most definitely! Thanks girl

    • @donotreplydumbpeople3866
      @donotreplydumbpeople3866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      As a man let me defend nigerian women.: Most of the girls does not have her resources, for example, you have to feed your mom and brothers and morals does not help on that issue, lets not forget the country that we are talking about, you can have morals when you have resources to defend yourself

    • @sesayida
      @sesayida 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      do not reply dumb people bull shit moral has nothing to do with wealth . It’s innate . Either u got it or you don’t

    • @pointofgrace3002
      @pointofgrace3002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      do not reply dumb people Don’t think so BUT. It ALMOST seem as if you’re defending amorality in your defense of Nigerian women. Are you saying that the women have to feed their relatives and the nation has no resource so......morals can legitimately take a back seat. Almost sounds like pimp talk. It’s good not to judge a woman for trying to survive any way she can. But with so many agreed,can the man now see the woman as a resource? .When do MOST Nigerian, African and/or Globally men of African decent take full responsibility for the state of the black woman and children? ALL sub Saharan African rulers are black men from the villages to the presidents. The Global state of the African and the diaspora is abysmal. Why are there no resources? The white man has taken care of his woman and children by any means necessary. This is a good defense of the Nigerian woman or any African woman but she will need MUCH MOOORE than explanations here.

    • @TopG_KnightofOne
      @TopG_KnightofOne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pointofgrace3002 Men are the protectors of the community but you cannot take full responsibility for grown people. I'm not from Africa but that's just facts. Because Black women here in America are realizing the downfalls of being masculine, and not appreciating men by the high babymama stats and low marriage rates. To sum it all up basically you can't expect people to protect you from your own bad decisions accountability is part of being a adult

  • @markfarris1575
    @markfarris1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your honesty on living in Nigeria. Your experience is valuable to us. And your very beautiful don’t wait to long🤗

  • @suzzet3964
    @suzzet3964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Pls let's support her on BBN by voting for her🙏 I just love her vibe 😘

    • @blessedchild3923
      @blessedchild3923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is BBN a good thing to join? BB9ja is porn hubs

    • @oghoghosamson481
      @oghoghosamson481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blessedchild3923 stop saying wat you don't know. How many sex scenes have u seen on Bb9ja?

    • @michaelo9357
      @michaelo9357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blessedchild3923 LMAO

    • @blessedchild3923
      @blessedchild3923 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oghogho Samson you’re still sleeping when will you wake up? Chaiiiiiiii

  • @scottola2497
    @scottola2497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Abuja is actually a better first place mover to Nigeria than Lagos for Africans in diaspora.

    • @sylviasworld9397
      @sylviasworld9397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agreed, they can always take long weekends in Lagos for the vibe and the scene. Unless they are coming from a stressful places like NY etc it my be too steep of a learning curve. I'm biased though.

    • @4real4real43
      @4real4real43 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Abuja is the the best, extremely expensive, I lived there!

    • @amiliarek7521
      @amiliarek7521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes I agree that Abuja is a actually better place to move to first

    • @adamwagner1987
      @adamwagner1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My gf is there right now and hates it.. got mugged and is expensive in spots

    • @adeola1919
      @adeola1919 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I no get family for there o

  • @mariama.a6740
    @mariama.a6740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    I think this video is more for people who wish to move or live in Lagos not Nigeria as a whole. I see a lot of generalisations. You dont have to behave crazy to live in Nigeria except for lagos.
    Most Nigerian generally see lagosians as crazy people. As a Nigerian living in Nigeria, I cant stand Lagos. Its too stressful and crazy.
    I remember when I was preparing for a professional exam and some colleagues came from lagos and they were asking if they had to wake up at 4am to be at the venue for the exams, those of us living in Abuja had to explain to them that Abuja is not like that. I cant imagine leaving home at 4am to be at a functon that was slated for 10am. That is the definition of crazy and no wonder most Lagosians are crazy.
    For anyone who has lived abroad and wishes to live in Nigeria, Abuja is the place for you. Some people suggest Jos too but I cant say much about it, because I have not lived there.

    • @tobiB74
      @tobiB74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very Accurate Comment

    • @jessicaoladele
      @jessicaoladele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly...I've lived in Nigeria all my life and haven't experienced half of what she was talking about

    • @alinaegbunike3517
      @alinaegbunike3517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lol 🤣🤣🤣This comment got me rolling. But it's true, Lagos is crazy. The 4am part is very sadly accurate. Even when my cousin cousin from Abuja came for visit and we had to go somewhere and catch the bus....home girl was walking to slowly and taking her time. I'm like girl, I don't know where you think you are, but this is Lagos you have to hurry up😂😂😂. So sad and crazy at the same time.

    • @ndukwechinenyedivine7131
      @ndukwechinenyedivine7131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@alinaegbunike3517 thank you for explaining well..i have lived in Nigeria all my life and haven't experienced many of the things she said..it should be captioned moving to Lagos.

    • @bigmcpro166
      @bigmcpro166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree with you! I can't even stand the hassles in Lagos....

  • @dammyqb
    @dammyqb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really really enjoyed this video and I love how you are so straight to the point! 💕💕

  • @feliciaokoro2872
    @feliciaokoro2872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Neat!!! Totally different from the norms. You just got yourself a new subscriber. Cheers😊

  • @TORIMONGER
    @TORIMONGER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Lagos is particularly rough. I have suffered in that place. You really need a good support system and an inner circle that truly love you. Most people just want something .Even with all their smiles it ends up being about them. There is no kindness.

    • @omokaroojiire
      @omokaroojiire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Most large cities are like that!!!

    • @armama2713
      @armama2713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The biggest truth

    • @theresaanthony3088
      @theresaanthony3088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So TRUE

    • @Yorubaddie
      @Yorubaddie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then move somewhere else

    • @TORIMONGER
      @TORIMONGER 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yorubaddie very good advice.

  • @anjola_d
    @anjola_d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yaaaay! Love finding fellow Nigerian, lagos based youtubers. Love the content. Subscribed! Xx

  • @CFord-zb7hz
    @CFord-zb7hz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re an entire mood. I love you already. 💎

  • @ManirBuhariAbbakarAssada
    @ManirBuhariAbbakarAssada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! ... You 've said it all ... Thanks. I am a "BIG" fan of your Vlog.

  • @misstee7955
    @misstee7955 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You hit the nail on the head with this one!!

  • @theultimaterelaxationqueen7591
    @theultimaterelaxationqueen7591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Queen I love your channel, PERIODT‼️

  • @andoniades
    @andoniades 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This vid had wayyy more and better details about living in Nigeria than most other "Living in Nigeria" vids.
    Ty

  • @bolatitolawal.1714
    @bolatitolawal.1714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh you are so on point. I have experienced every bit of this!!!

  • @NoBody-pd2lj
    @NoBody-pd2lj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you! I am American and I been there twice and thought I was the crazy one or maybe just "typical arrogant American." Because I use logic and speak up against things that don't make any sense and against rudeness. Lagos Nigeria boggles the mind. I feel sane now after listening to you speak on the nonsense.

  • @lala_tee
    @lala_tee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it! Thanks for the tips❤️

  • @bernardetteamago5712
    @bernardetteamago5712 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how honest you are.

  • @lalamurray3689
    @lalamurray3689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m an American but hope to visit Nigeria soon. You were very important with a fun personality and you look fye! Subscribed

  • @annan4368
    @annan4368 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was entertaining x
    Great video as always

  • @deecee4310
    @deecee4310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Tolani came across your VLOG by accident and I loved it, one of the best I’ve seen, I suppose it’s because I live in the West and I’m seriously thinking of starting a business there next year... So my dear keep saying it how it is. People like me find your advice invaluable

  • @suleimanuusaini3
    @suleimanuusaini3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    You nailed it 100%. This is a good description of life in Lagos. To be honest, even some of us in Nigeria can't live in Lagos. The life is too rough for me. I was born and grew up in Jos, Plateau state. I can't stand the hustle and bustle of Lagos life. I will rather live in Jos or Abuja.

    • @sandraokafor9532
      @sandraokafor9532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We're together in this, was born and brought up in Jos also. That lagos was an entire different country for me when I stayed there. It's easier if you're wealthy.

    • @suleimanuusaini3
      @suleimanuusaini3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@sandraokafor9532 absolutely. And the mistake a lot of people make is when they visit Lagos from the abroad and have bitter experiences, they will generalise and say 'Nigeria is this and that' forgetting Lagos though the commercial capital of the country, is not a representative of a country of 36 states with 200+ million people, with different cultures and ways of living. My simple advice is if you are moving from abroad to Nigeria and don't like the stress and hustle and bustle of a cosmopolitan city, Lagos is definitely not the best place for you because you will be frustrated 😤.

    • @suleimanuusaini3
      @suleimanuusaini3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sandraokafor9532 🤣🤣 @ Lagos is a different country. This so true.

    • @sandraokafor9532
      @sandraokafor9532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suleimanuusaini3 😂😂😂 very true. There are so many better places.

    • @teeteeme5752
      @teeteeme5752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too...I lived in delta state but had holidays in Lagos...

  • @estherkumuyi
    @estherkumuyi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Damn girl. Lol. You have mastered Nigeria. I am glad you are doing well 💓

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you😃

    • @austin2k994
      @austin2k994 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TOLANIBAJ what happened to ur American accent 🤣🤣🤣

    • @mediaiweb
      @mediaiweb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sabrina Accent won't get you anywhere in Lagos, u gotta switch up to Nigerian accent to boost your network and blend in, save money or else u getting finessed and fleeced overpriced, and blocked out here quick. Chiraq knows how to get with the program Gdup. Ma goo ra e man. You ever noticed why banky W switched? boya lomo. you ever wonder why sauce kid sinzu didn't make it in the music business with an accent during every interview? u ever wonder why iceberg slim didn't make it? boyalomo. jara ee man . gotta understand how to get to the bag with ease.

  • @TheOlaideoluwole
    @TheOlaideoluwole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    She is literally speaking fact, I’m a Nigerian and I grew up in Lagos but I’m sorry, a lot of people is not normal. You just have to be crazy to survive there. I can’t go back to Lagos cause Lagos lifestyle is toxic and very bad for your mental health 😢 BUT ! If you lived in Lagos and apply the life anywhere in the world. Bruh you will survive 👌

    • @Goonztz
      @Goonztz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wdym by it’s toxic? I’m just curious

    • @xtopherokenz8403
      @xtopherokenz8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True the are better places in Nigeria like Enugu Calabar Abuja this places are where people that come from abroad can easily adapt Lagos is not one of them.

    • @TheOlaideoluwole
      @TheOlaideoluwole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      xtopher okenz i agrée if I ever need to move to Nigeria. Lagos is not one a place I’ll settle for. Maybe IB, Abuja, or other places. 😄

    • @TheOlaideoluwole
      @TheOlaideoluwole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kez i mean toxic by, “people just be psycho with each other for some reason” I can’t deal 😅

    • @FOH45
      @FOH45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      definitely psycho..... lived in lagos all my life gotta be crazy to survive and extremely nuts to drive.😂

  • @attorneymom35
    @attorneymom35 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your the kewlest! Moving to Lagos Aug 3. Hope we meet. Love your honesty ❤.

  • @DamnDarro
    @DamnDarro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring I can’t wait to visit

  • @nubianprincess766
    @nubianprincess766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been debating moving back now for the past year but I’m very hesitant..thanks for this video

  • @amberice7383
    @amberice7383 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm cracking up girl. Love the video.

  • @daughterofmosthigh8074
    @daughterofmosthigh8074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video! I wish you all the best my beautiful sister! May God bless you and continue to uphold your faith and moral values!!! I love this vid!!!

  • @Kreetique
    @Kreetique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes to the storytime ✋🏾✋🏾✋🏾

  • @madameclark3453
    @madameclark3453 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was insightful, thank you for your candor

  • @lovelyricos
    @lovelyricos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video. This is exactly what it is. Have plans to move back but maybe in 2- 3 years from now

  • @Empresstmaisreal
    @Empresstmaisreal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m moving back with my husband I love it but yet understand the struggle you sound so much like me so I must be crazy but my family that I love is there God bless sister

  • @bume.e7280
    @bume.e7280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tolani! Love your chat mehn 😍😍

  • @dawrightleo13
    @dawrightleo13 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LMAO I really enjoyed this video. You're gonna go far girl!

  • @rubakannan3749
    @rubakannan3749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nigerian people are very peaceful and courageous people. I like them

  • @ifeola2001
    @ifeola2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very enlightening. Bless you daughter. Wish you well

  • @adebolababatunde7156
    @adebolababatunde7156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love Tolanibaj, kudos to you girl more wins and please more story time. I can't wait to see you back on TH-cam. I can relate to so many things you say love you and positive vibes all the way 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ajumamojekwu3698
    @ajumamojekwu3698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tolani. You have said it all. I just love your boldness.

  • @adeleyebalikis6495
    @adeleyebalikis6495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tolanibaj!! you over nailed this. You see that speaking up part 🤛 I also just got fired for same reason.

  • @fredapam5447
    @fredapam5447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this!!!!

  • @mayowadesmond3998
    @mayowadesmond3998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    We need to embrace what we have and make it better,God bless Africa.

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 ปีที่แล้ว

      God is not blessing witchcraft, ritualism and polygamy.

  • @Cgeapekp
    @Cgeapekp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    True words - just subscribed! 🤩

  • @efuntolaogubola2868
    @efuntolaogubola2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your views and observations about Nigeria cos its spots on

  • @amdalatoo6388
    @amdalatoo6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not sure how this got recommended to me but I'm so happy I watched it. I just love your energy... I'm going to subscribe so you can get this TH-cam money keep living your best life sis 🥰

  • @Themimii
    @Themimii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for your insight, I’m planning to move to Nigeria after my degree.

  • @chan2009ify
    @chan2009ify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this video, you kept it 100 and was raw with what you mentioned, you also helped me learn things that I didn't know about Nigeria. To conclude, Nigeria is not for the weak or the faint hearted, especially those who are considering relocating. Lower your expectations and always be alert and observant.

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome & thanks for watching 💕

    • @sylviasworld9397
      @sylviasworld9397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nigeria is 36 states though, so some states may be a much softer landing. It's like moving to NY with all the hustling people that need that grit to make it.

  • @christinaadebowale
    @christinaadebowale 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the first video of you I watched and I LIKE YOUUUUU!!! New subbieeee

  • @JR-qk9zm
    @JR-qk9zm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re gorgeous and spot on sis!!

  • @bolatitolawal.1714
    @bolatitolawal.1714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best. Thank you dear I lived in the California for 35 moved back 2014 it's been hellish but things are just getting better

  • @chikagosaine
    @chikagosaine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Absolutely informative. You are interesting. I still consider entering the industry. I am from Chicago. I look forward to life in Nigeria, my father's birthplace. I am subscribed and shall live vicariously through you, for now

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you😁

    • @FOH45
      @FOH45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ohhh u best learn well... yawa dey here😂

  • @callmiigaga
    @callmiigaga 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hella courage!!!! I'm so proud of u baby girl.

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you love💜

  • @fatimaakinsan7047
    @fatimaakinsan7047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love you and respect you. You nailed it. I'm trying to move back to Nigeria too. One thing you said that makes me happy is having my passport at anytime I can move back to where I belong if its too messy for me..I'm a warrior but age is not on my side.. I know I can do it..Thanks .❤❤❤

  • @Tubefish07
    @Tubefish07 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hushpuppi needs you! Brilliant! Cheers mates!!

  • @PretieKitty
    @PretieKitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yasss gurl, I love me some of you!!!

  • @oluwasayoogundimu3371
    @oluwasayoogundimu3371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your energy, you remind me of a classmate I was gaga about in school, same energy and confidence. I just realized why I like you this much from the bbn show, besides looking like another friend in some way

  • @MissYimika
    @MissYimika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I loved this video! Im planning on moving back this year roro permitting ! Hope to meet you :)

    • @thebaddest3452
      @thebaddest3452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How much u recommend saving?

    • @MissYimika
      @MissYimika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Baddest it depends how much you earn and what you expect your lifestyle to be like when you get there for me I would say 7-10 k

  • @geoking.3079
    @geoking.3079 ปีที่แล้ว

    Straight Talk my Girl🌹🌄🎼Bigups.🌲.

  • @King_v900
    @King_v900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I think your topic should have been life in Lagos, not life in Nigeria. Truth be told everybody is mad in lag. But life is very different in the north.
    And as an Uber driver I bet you’ll love life in the FCT

  • @EstherAivinhenyi
    @EstherAivinhenyi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    TOLANI 💖💖 the HONESTY Keep Doing You!! The TRUTH is BITTER but it must be SPOKEN! GO GIRL!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @rachelnichole131
    @rachelnichole131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omgggg I love the way you talk, your beautiful and funny lmaoooo ima subscribe! 🤣🤣❤️

  • @hilda_unlimited
    @hilda_unlimited 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I admire your courage, luckily for you , your moving back to Nigeria has paid off, we now know you from Big brother as a celebrity, may God direct our steps to greatness

  • @kemsisrael8109
    @kemsisrael8109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Nice video but I have to call you out on the statement, “home grown Nigerian women have mastered the art of finessing their way to get money from men” or something like that. I think that’s hasty generalization, because there’re legit women here who don’t depend on a man for shit. So I feel like you should correct that next time. Again, nice video 👍🏽

    • @masterpiecefunmi5774
      @masterpiecefunmi5774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Very hasty generalisation. And the she said something about women can't really live the way they want without living off men 😡... like I've never live off men and I was born and brought up in Lagos.

    • @kenrow3604
      @kenrow3604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She is speaking from her wealth of experience. We all know how showbiz and movie/song industry is which she is more familiar with. Not like she did not have a few experiences in Nigerian corporate however it shows that it is very minimal, anyway, what can you see within a year?

    • @kemsisrael8109
      @kemsisrael8109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My reply is also MY OPINION and it’s very valid!

    • @ginsu_pd
      @ginsu_pd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But that's exactly it, it's generalization it doesn't actually mean absolute fact

  • @victoriaojarimoni1360
    @victoriaojarimoni1360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You my dear are saying the fact, love your sincerity

  • @lolaola5584
    @lolaola5584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time watching. Your take is spot on and I could relate because I also moved back from the U.S. Just subscribed and will be watching.

  • @Lizorlose
    @Lizorlose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo energy is 🔥

  • @christianatola9089
    @christianatola9089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really like this girl. Very real!
    I don’t live in Nigeria, but she’s describing a lot Nigerians.
    USERS
    Whether it’s an Man or Woman, they just love getting things they didn’t work for.
    Only a few are deeply good hearted.

  • @HolySpiritInspired
    @HolySpiritInspired 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this is one of your best videos

  • @youniquelyyetty3035
    @youniquelyyetty3035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #truth truth truth I loved watching this. How have we not hung out yet. I moved October 2018. No lies in this video😍

  • @tochifatima
    @tochifatima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lmfao I-
    this was so good to watch. I resonate so heavy on the "some people just want to misunderstand you on purpose"
    this was so good aaah

  • @kaydenpat
    @kaydenpat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are hilarious. Really love your sense of humor.

  • @simone4233
    @simone4233 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative. I'm inquiring about dual citizenship. I have traveled for the past 3 years and I believe I will be fine to live there. I found my church home, my husband and his family are very supportive. I need to be able to travel back and forth, as well as my husband. Thank God for your platform. Its needed 🙏🏽

  • @abigailr.7487
    @abigailr.7487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was so helpful thank you !!

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome ✨✨

  • @bananaberry90
    @bananaberry90 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your honesty

  • @dbyrd5848
    @dbyrd5848 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time watching love the info you provide I want to visit Nigeria soooo bad, and one day I

  • @omowumibello7088
    @omowumibello7088 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice one sis! I don't usually subscribe and like but I did for u😘

  • @jayaustin1939
    @jayaustin1939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Just two points: Lagos is NOT Nigeria but IN Nigeria and Lagos lifestyle is hardly for normal people anyway.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had two of my Nigerian friends say to me “You would have to make me the Lagos State Governor for me to live in Lagos “

    • @missnlahi
      @missnlahi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol at not for normal people. It does tend to bring the crazy out of me too.

  • @ginsu_pd
    @ginsu_pd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally someone I can relate to. I am considering moving to Nigeria and I am in the music industry myself

  • @honeydrop
    @honeydrop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really tried not to subscribe 😂😂😂 I did already. I love this 😁😁😁😁

  • @doyinremiafonja1253
    @doyinremiafonja1253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Tolani! You aced this! I returned a few years ago with 4 children and came back to the states after 18 months!

    • @Kelachivlogs
      @Kelachivlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ahh Y na ? was It the stress?

    • @FOH45
      @FOH45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kelachivlogs is there anything else? 😂

  • @omoolatv1693
    @omoolatv1693 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very right in every statement you've mentioned....... I like you cos you are blunt in your talking and real that's what it's.

  • @henrietify2369
    @henrietify2369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂 I love how you talk and you are real

  • @D.Dee_
    @D.Dee_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this 👏👏👏

  • @MjDiaries
    @MjDiaries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very Apt 😄🙌🏾

  • @bmbm1378
    @bmbm1378 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video thank you

  • @LadyWhiggy
    @LadyWhiggy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your personality!!! ❤❤❤ Very smart woman!

  • @Hausa_language_tutor_online
    @Hausa_language_tutor_online 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video, inspired me to start a channel on hausa language

  • @TapchinE
    @TapchinE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I subscribed the moment you said "subscribe"🤩😅😅

  • @creatingcalm_
    @creatingcalm_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    As someone who visited Nigeria (alone) lol all of this is extremely accurate even down to the mannerism and is defiantly helpful to anyone who wants to visit.

    • @TOLANIBAJ
      @TOLANIBAJ  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks girl💕

    • @Middle-Eastt
      @Middle-Eastt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nigeria has 36 states and Lagos is just 1, the characteristics of Nigerians can't be judge by a visit to Lagos.The characters in Lagos is multi-national,people from all over black nations dwells in Lagos,there are so many cool city and states in Nigeria,is all about choice.

  • @ife511
    @ife511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao love your videos. Love the outfit and makeup 💜

  • @NymaMargaret
    @NymaMargaret 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Nne, you couldn't be more right, I fight everyday because I'm vocal and it makes them feel insecure

  • @trooper190
    @trooper190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative as well as comical.