'The Bachelor': Ashley I, Jared Haibon, Jade & Tanner Tolbert Weigh In On Cassie's Shocking Exit!

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  • @hugskissesxoxoashley9925
    @hugskissesxoxoashley9925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Loved this group! Ashley + Jared + Jade + Tanner = YES YES YES 🥳🥳🥳

    • @googleuser9753
      @googleuser9753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HugsKissesXOXO Ashley & baby lol

  • @stacyjean7160
    @stacyjean7160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I don't think Cassie is into Colton and the dad probably saw that. I'm pretty sure him going to Portugal was a plan to rescue Cassie and take the fall for her leaving. That way, Cassie would get the least amount of backlash. I know that this is far fetched but Cassie is literally a CHILD. Her dad is probably used to saving her from these type of situations.

    • @laurenlooloobearh8789
      @laurenlooloobearh8789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Stacy Jean I agree, I think she has a lot of growing up to do. I know some 23 year olds that are very mature but I agree with the group saying she acts the youngest out of all the women 😬

    • @zarahilluminate
      @zarahilluminate 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nailed it!!!!!

    • @beautytesttube2568
      @beautytesttube2568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My thoughts exactly. I was thinking the no-dad-blessing-thing would be her excuse to get out of it reputation unharmed even before the dad showed up. Even at the home town date I was convinced that she meticulously instructed her dad beforehand to say no and help out so she'd improve her bachelorette chances.

    • @pollyannaprinciple5860
      @pollyannaprinciple5860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stacy Jean. Exactly what I was thinking. What a kind father. I hope Cassie is going to remember him on his birthday and Father's Day for bailing her out like this.

    • @coconutsciencegirl9232
      @coconutsciencegirl9232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Given her past reality show experience I really think that might be true. Lol

  • @seanmccarthy9110
    @seanmccarthy9110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    cassie obviously wanted to be the bachelorette and thought he would pick someone else by not saying she loved him but when things got too serious and went to far she had to leave

  • @lolabuns9753
    @lolabuns9753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Jade is so pretty. She's natural and gorgeous

    • @rychiee
      @rychiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. I would love to see Ashley without her makeup. I have a feeling she is also gorgeous even with less makeup. These recent makeup trends make women look like drag queens - no offense to drag queens.

  • @angieeemmmarie
    @angieeemmmarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Also, Hannah getting Bachelorette would be amazing and a major slap in the face to Caelynn. 😂 I love it.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I heard she got it

    • @Mollycrimey
      @Mollycrimey 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nooo Hannah G!!

    • @coconutsciencegirl9232
      @coconutsciencegirl9232 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want Hannah B too. I think she is most deserving. Caelynn has been auditioning since day one for bachelorette. Down to her leaving! Her crying was even the audition! Acting like she really cared and still does when she never really gave a crap either way

  • @amandaluise92
    @amandaluise92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I think when Cassie was defending her character two episodes ago, she meant she was ready for marriage not to be married to Colton. She was never sure about Colton. I think she was really confused and was honest about it the whole time. She never said she loved him or that he was the one, which would be so easy to do.

  • @bettersecret1499
    @bettersecret1499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    'oh baby', Jared and Ashley are so cuteee

  • @ilovepotatoesforever9818
    @ilovepotatoesforever9818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tanner and Jade as parents is really what I watched during this interview. So many sweet moments of them with their daughter. The way that Tanner reaches down to acknowledge his daughter and rub her head and back and look right at her...what a priceless subtext to the conversation about taking advice from parents...little girls growing up with daddy’s love...so precious!

  • @karenmanning5915
    @karenmanning5915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was just great to watch. The four of you are so clearly good friends. It's so nice!

  • @cecin7042
    @cecin7042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Ashley, Jared, Tanner and Jade should always make the recaps.
    Cassie went to the bachelor for fame and when she's starting to notice that Colton would pick her she freak out. She didn't look sad on the break up she smile to the camera and when Colton was shaking she smile to. She makes a lot of excuses and Colton said the right thing and she still wanna go. If they get back together i don't think it will last. Caelynn wanting to be the bachelorette but we all see her true colors thank god they are not picking her.

  • @gracieg8125
    @gracieg8125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    At 1:10........😹... when Tanner talked about Tayshia trying to take Colton’s V-card but got “Deeeenied”. ahahaha hahaha . 😹I love these four together.

    • @tthompson7609
      @tthompson7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gracie G that was fucking annoying. I love Tayshia lol

  • @cassieherlihy1278
    @cassieherlihy1278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Jared saying "she'll be fine in paradise" about Hannah G. Haha 😂

    • @Mollycrimey
      @Mollycrimey 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cassie Herlihy she’s going to be bachelorette

    • @Loveturmoiltoolkit
      @Loveturmoiltoolkit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Molly Crimey what makes you say that?

    • @Mollycrimey
      @Mollycrimey 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allison Cloud she would be the best imo 😍 but I do think next episode will probably set her up to be the next bachelorette

    • @Loveturmoiltoolkit
      @Loveturmoiltoolkit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Molly Crimey rumor has it that the other Hannah is actually gonna be the bachelorette... which really bums me out.

  • @juliearnone1421
    @juliearnone1421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I really thought Cassie was trying to recreate a Becca-like situation (think about the long drawn out drama), but with a different spin on it. I really do think she is not in love with Colton and didn't seem upset at all with the breakup. Come on!!! At one point, when she was breaking his heart and they were hugging, she smiled right at the camera with a smirk on her face. She wanted to be Bachelorette, I'm sorry; I agree. Colton was not pressing for an engagement at all so what would be the issue? LOL I hope he can find the love he deserves.

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is nothing similar about it. Becca was the one broken-hearted so people were rooting for her. Here, Colton is the broken hearted one. If she wanted to be the bachelorette she wouldn’t have broken his heart like that. Each time Colton told her he wanted a future with her she felt more pressured. He offered to give her more time but made it clear where he wanted this to go. This, combined with her dad’s input, made her so confused that if she had stayed it would have been really ugly. She did the only thing she could do to escape the pressure.

    • @juliearnone1421
      @juliearnone1421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@57andstillkicking I'm not saying that it was exactly the same like Becca in what happened. I'm talking simply about the production of it--it was an intense, long, almost drawn out 20 minutes of someone getting their heart broken. And Colton made it clear if she stayed, he would adjust his expectations. I think she wanted to be perceived as doing "the selfless, right thing." Personally, I'm not exactly torn up about any of these girls leaving. I have rbeen rooting for Hannah G, the whole time and poor thing didn't even get a date! LOL

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Julie Arnone
      Yes, it was completely unedited with no music the way it was when Arie broke up with Becca.

  • @cassieherlihy1278
    @cassieherlihy1278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Agree with Tanner! Her dad influenced her.. also modern dating isnt what it used to be and he never took that into consideration..

    • @jessicaadaora9109
      @jessicaadaora9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      See I heard something different from her dad he was talking about an ENGAGEMENT not simply a relationship, he is under the impression if she gets to the end she will be engaged and what he is saying is you have to have no doubts about getting engaged because it’s not a next step in a relationship in itself an engagement is an intention to get married and you shouldn’t have doubts when entering into a marriage, so I one hundred percent agreed with all he said. And he was right, the rest especially when Colton said ok we don’t have to get engaged let’s just see where this goes, that’s what her dad wanted, but she didn’t want that, she just wasn’t into him.

  • @1Road2Success
    @1Road2Success 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As much as I’m pulling for Colton... I also feel really bad for Taisha and Hannah G! Last night’s episode had to have been excruciating! Especially that part about when he’s on other dates he’s always thinking about her!

    • @keylockwood9487
      @keylockwood9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would you want them to be with someone that doesn't want to be with them?

    • @1Road2Success
      @1Road2Success 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Key Lockwood Not that I wanted them to be with him, but I’m sure it was still painful for them to see someone they were so in love with fully committed to someone else (especially Hannah G).

  • @samanthaangert5382
    @samanthaangert5382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Stop bringing 22 and 23 year olds on the show! They're not ready to get married.

    • @jenniferford2067
      @jenniferford2067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Samantha Angert most people going on a reality show aren’t ready to get married. I’m not sure any of the older women are more mature. In real life plenty of women are ready to get married at 23 or under.

    • @Absgail1
      @Absgail1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don’t think age has to do with it. Yes, more women who are younger might not be ready for marriage, but it doesnt mean every every 22/23 year old isn’t ready. My sister was married at 22. And I know many girls married between 21-23.

    • @haileymathison8488
      @haileymathison8488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I got married at 19 now I'm 24..... as are all my friends in utah everyone gets married that young haha so this I'd hilarious to me

    • @Absgail1
      @Absgail1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hailey Mathison Yeah so sick of the stigma surrounding age on this show.

    • @samanthaangert5382
      @samanthaangert5382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey we can agree to disagree but I'm going off of what I saw on the show. You can't tell me that there wasn't a difference in maturity in Demi who was 23 and the older girls. Of course I know every girl is different though.

  • @Nandie27
    @Nandie27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm with Ashley...I don't want see Colton with Cassie !

  • @bettersecret1499
    @bettersecret1499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I think she is into him, Jared style. She is scared and she will change her mind
    Edit wow I wrote this at the beginning of the video, before they said it too! :)

    • @tulip5210
      @tulip5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME

    • @franciscasarmento3149
      @franciscasarmento3149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly. This is what I think as well. I think that she likes colton but with the dad coming to Portugal she got really confused. Ashley and Jared should be the last to judge

    • @courtneyhaddock3875
      @courtneyhaddock3875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are together now so you are right

    • @skyz6239
      @skyz6239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jared style hahahah nice

    • @coconutsciencegirl9232
      @coconutsciencegirl9232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let’s talk about Jared and Ashley! He for sure rejected her 1000 times before finally saying he loved her! He dumped her. He said he wasn’t “there” with her on the feelings. Now they are married.

  • @carolineoslund
    @carolineoslund 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Colton's reaction to Cassie last night reminded me of Desiree and Brooks!!

    • @katiespaulding4843
      @katiespaulding4843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Caroline Oslund yes!!!

    • @aidahnamulindwa5102
      @aidahnamulindwa5102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cried so hard when Desiree was dumped by Brooks. But I'm happy his dumping created a way for Chris and that was her perfect match

    • @QueenNamaste
      @QueenNamaste 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameeeee!! I remember watching that break up and remember thinking... how could she pick someone else after that?

    • @Loveturmoiltoolkit
      @Loveturmoiltoolkit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was the exact same thing! I’m surprised more people aren’t comparing the two, but probably because it was so long ago. Des was in love with Brooks and would have picked him too

    • @mc10333
      @mc10333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% I keep comparing this situation with Desiree and Brooks! She also dumped Drew immediately after Brooks left, similar to Colton dumping the other girls. At least she accepted that he really wasn’t changing his mind and let him leave.

  • @tulip5210
    @tulip5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I agree with Jade, I think people are putting too much weight into what katie said and that situation that its influencing how their seeing things. I relate a lot to cassie here, I don't think she is just there to be a bachellorrette. If anyone was it was caelynn, and Cassie is being dragged down with her. She never directly said to him she was ready for marriage, she said she was here for him. That is not the wrong reason.
    Cassie wanted him to pick the other girls, and wanted to be harsh and assertive of her feelings with him, because if she isn't even if she stays she will continue to feel that scatteredness. She needed to leave no matter what since she started that.

  • @viqi4646
    @viqi4646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the addition of Ashley and Jared to the mix. They are totally made for TV.

  • @gdesiree29
    @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I agree with everything they said .
    I think too that tayshia got shut down. She looked disappointed and embarrassed
    I want Ashely's dress

  • @blueshoes915
    @blueshoes915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Cassie is an adult. Regardless of how young she comes across, she is an adult. Her dad should have let her make her own adult decision and let her make her own mistakes to learn from. He seemed extremely controlling to me and it scared me a little.

    • @mainstream180
      @mainstream180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She did make her own decision, though it was a decision clouded by her expectations to have a "perfect relationship" just like her parents. No relationship is perfect and you don't always know from day one that someone is your soul mate or an epic love. But ultimately she did make her own decision and If I'm being honest I was quite happy to see her leave; she has allot of growing up to do before she should get married. Aside from that I feel really bad for Hannah and Tayshia as they deserve far better. I'm kind of hoping Colton ends the season alone as his choices are proving that he too isn't ready for marriage.

  • @loveolicity4542
    @loveolicity4542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Can we always have this group?!?

  • @rebeckavaughn804
    @rebeckavaughn804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Hannah B will make a great bachelorette. I liked her from the beginning.

  • @lfc1265
    @lfc1265 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I so disagree that she was “trying” to become The Bachelorette. Now, with Caelynn, it was obvious. Very obvious. I think Cassie is a genuine girl. I believe she truly was young and confused, had this image in her head that she wanted the love her parents always talked about, and was worried it wasn’t that with Colton. She felt she was staying true to herself and her family by leaving. I think she genuinely likes Colton and I do think she’ll come back to him. Colton would be an amazing husband- so faithful and dedicated to his wife and children- plus taking care of all his CF babies. Cassie knows that. I hope they last!!!

  • @Desireestewartx
    @Desireestewartx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Here is my theory. Cassie went onto the show, not looking for love but to promote herself. Keep in mind she is an ACTRESS, and has been in tv shows. When her and Colton broke up, she seemed super insensitive and honestly like she never cared for him. She didn’t expect to make it this far, and it was made super clear when Colton even offered to wait and she wouldn’t take it.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She also stared into the camera....while in Coltons arms... lol.. creepy

    • @gdesiree29
      @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But then I heard she comes back. Ugh idk lol

  • @SevenThunderful
    @SevenThunderful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nice insider insights. Keep up the commentary. Even if Colton "wins" Cassie's heart, I think they are doomed. He had a lot of great women who were into him, that he kicked to the curb, starting with Tia in paradise. In fact the pattern appears to be that if a woman really likes Colton, Colton doesn't like her. He likes the chase.

  • @eyewristchin
    @eyewristchin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL the best part of this entire thing is at 9:30 where Jared goes "That might be my --- HELLO BABY!! HELLO! ITS A BABYYY!"

  • @stacyjean7160
    @stacyjean7160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I think Hannah B being the next bachelorette will be good TV. Homegirl is unpredictable and I don't think she's ready for marriage either. She'll be the female version of Colton.

    • @Malaiya_
      @Malaiya_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sway Kid exactly she’s definitely not the best pick

    • @rychiee
      @rychiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The common theme with Bachelorettes is that they are normally intelligent, interesting, articulate women. Hannah B is surely genuine but that's about it. This might be my first season not watching the Bachelorette if she is chosen.

  • @madelinesmith1363
    @madelinesmith1363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maybe I'm being naive but I saw the chemistry between cassie and colton... I think yes cassie is young, but i can totally relate to overthinking and holding your family's opinion in higher regard than your own. It was almost like: well my dad says I'm not in love with you so, guess I'm not??

  • @brittanymatlock2020
    @brittanymatlock2020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I don’t like how they are assuming that Cassie wanted to be the bachelorette is the reason she is leaving or that she should have left before. They know how hard the experience is and Cassie was very confused.

    • @tulip5210
      @tulip5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @fearlesstay13
      @fearlesstay13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      agree!! people hating on her is really sad noone knows what shes going through

    • @gdesiree29
      @gdesiree29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. I believe though that Caelynn wanted to be the bachelorette

    • @soniaacheampong343
      @soniaacheampong343 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed !!

    • @Malaiya_
      @Malaiya_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haley she knew what she was doing

  • @bartrese
    @bartrese 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don’t know why they think Colton is such a great bachelor. He seems like a nice guy but he just came across as very inexperienced and not very mature in regards to relationships. Hence why he picked someone who was not into him. Nothing against Hannah B but I’m entirely not into her as the bachelorette. She is just incredibly juvenile to me, though she does seem very sweet. But, I will say I don’t really care for anyone enough to the bachelorette. This is the first season ever where I literally feel invested in no one except for Colton himself.

  • @kathyvictoria6059
    @kathyvictoria6059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved all of them talking about the episode last night. I hope they end up doing a lot more. Or even just on Ashley’s podcasts

  • @albataliephillips4271
    @albataliephillips4271 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly the best recap. I love how you guys have experienced this before and so can give us a different perspective. I agree with everything.

  • @MrDrProfessorSir962
    @MrDrProfessorSir962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven’t seen a single episode. But this episode has me in tears. They Both seem sweet and Colton really seems heart broken wow.

  • @KAG-qw4lv
    @KAG-qw4lv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LMAO Ashley @ "OK you guys, Want to plug anything?" You crack me up

  • @Ray.0.0
    @Ray.0.0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As soon as the door opened and she saw her dad I was like yup thats her alibi

  • @clairemarshel408
    @clairemarshel408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I enjoyed this interview. These 4 go well together. Ashley is good. Great job!

  • @barbararivera1540
    @barbararivera1540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are my favorite!! Jared, Ashley, jade emmy, and tanner.
    It was hilarious how tanner threw that book and emmy picked it up for him

  • @NickiLovesPie
    @NickiLovesPie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    On the Caelynn/Cassie stuff, there's one thing I think most people weren't getting. The other girls were really saying separate things about each of them, which was revealed in the Kirpa-Cassie fight and in some of the Caelynn-Colton conversation. They were saying that 1) Cassie wasn't ready to be engaged and 2) Caelynn was there to be Bachelorette. Not that both were there for Bachelorette.
    I don't think Cassie cared about Bachelorette. This isn't how Bachelorette's play for that role - they come off as really sweet, unproblematic, likable, and of course READY for a commitment and always "blindsided" by the bachelor who cuts them. Caelynn kept saying how ready she was, how she was heartbroken, how she wanted love, how she hoped there was someone out there for her. THAT'S a Bachelorette campaign. Everything she said in hometowns and in the women tell all was definitely her trying to gain the sympathy points she would need for that role. Cassie was doing the opposite. She didn't wanna rush it, she basically was like I'm not ready/won't be ready for this on time for the show's format --- meaning she's never gonna want to do this franchise at all ever again. It was the same thing with Elyse's departure and why it meant she won't ever get the gig -- when you can't handle the show's format and fast-paced environment, you're not gonna be on it in the future.
    I'm in the minority where I think Cassie did like Colton, I just think she (like most of us) couldn't fall in love with someone in just a few weeks. She saw potential with him but didn't want to rush into it and pretend she was in love in such a short time. I actually think that's not so bad, she's not putting up a front anymore like they have them do to sell the perfect love story.
    The only thing that was really annoying was the stuff with her dad -- it's cool for you to be close to your family but I think they've clearly led her to believe that she needs their approval for everything and that really f'ed her up here more than anything. At some point you just have to grow up and if you need your parents permission for everything, you're definitely not ready to be married. But she really should just take Colton up on that offer to date outside of the show's get-engaged-in-the-end format. It's basically what she said she wanted but when he said it she acted like it was too good to be true and took off instead of considering it.
    Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

  • @skyz6239
    @skyz6239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love these guys together, v cute/genuine friend group and that baby girl is adorable!! also agreed with everything they said about cassie and colton

  • @karenzhang1020
    @karenzhang1020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don’t think Hanna B is a “ under dog”. From the beginning I thought she is the most authentic person in the group, she is the only one who has shown her real self, now I still think so. Great job picking Hanna B, the Bachelorette is gonna be fun to watch. 😁

  • @survivinglife101
    @survivinglife101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how straight forward Jared is

  • @sonalidesai5892
    @sonalidesai5892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's ironic Ashley doesn't want to see Cassie and Colton together but like their situation is pretty close to her and Jared...

  • @Darlenem222
    @Darlenem222 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the four together, it's like watching you have a get together at your house. So fun to listen to all the comments.

  • @Em-jc3fg
    @Em-jc3fg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m screaming at my phone right now... i really don’t think cassie wanted to be the bachelorette because you could see how real she was about getting engaged so quick. i know she signed up for the show but it must of been harder then she expected

  • @kevinkirkland7273
    @kevinkirkland7273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s such a hard thing about this show. Me being 21 surrounded by beautiful women all over, but that’s way too fast for me to confess my love to someone and get down on one knee.

  • @wt30001
    @wt30001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ashleigh your man is so fine. And smart.

  • @sveinunglidsheim5828
    @sveinunglidsheim5828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The thing is; Cassie started to compare her fathers experience with her own. "I need to be certain". So didn`t take the risk. And maybe she would if she was encouraged to have self confidence in that crazy situation.....Instead her father convinced her to _not_ take the risk. Is that how love works....?

  • @katrinacaza8949
    @katrinacaza8949 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this conversation!!!! I cannot wait until "after the final rose" I want to see how cassie explains herself

  • @pisakhaphahulrat9705
    @pisakhaphahulrat9705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This girl Cassie may be immature at times but she's far from dumb. She fought to stay after the drama with Kirpa, so she's planning something. Her ex gave her his blessing to come on the show, and is probably in on her plans. She's the only one who hasn't said she's falling for him, so kudos to her. Poor Colton is head over heels though. Perhaps Cassie did this to help her little sister's acting career? We shall find out soon, I am guessing.

  • @tulip5210
    @tulip5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am happy that hannah b got chosen, I do still want to see hannah G in the bachelor franchise still..

    • @Elllafella234
      @Elllafella234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tulop she could be in paradise we will see ... 🙊

    • @LifeOfLiz
      @LifeOfLiz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have to be honest tho I think Hannah G is kinda boring, you don't see much substance with her or emotion so I don't think her season would of been interesting enough.

  • @laurenlooloobearh8789
    @laurenlooloobearh8789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your guys insight, I enjoy hearing the way they broke it down!

  • @shellimetcalf6363
    @shellimetcalf6363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't read all the comments here, so i am unsure as to whether or not someone already brought THIS POINT up ...... WHEN Cassie's DAD TOLD HER THAT BOTH HE & HER MOTHER KNEW - WITHOUT ANY DOUBT - FROM THE VERY BEGINNING WHEN THEY MET THAT THEY WERE "THE ONES" FOR EACH OTHER, CASSIE NOW BELIEVES THIS IS HOW IT IS SUPPOSE TO HAPPEN FOR HER. SHE EVEN TRIED TO TELL HER DAD THAT SHE WAS UNSURE IF SHE WOULD EVER KNOW FOR SURE IMMEDIATELY LIKE THAT... BUT HE ASSURED HER THAT SHE WOULD. NO!!! NOT NECESSARILY! IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY FOR EVERY PERSON!! I WISH CASSIE COULD OF HAD SOMEONE ELSE TALKING IN HER EAR, SHARING THEIR SUCCESSFUL EXPERIENCE, THEIR TRUTH. CASSIE'S DAD ISN'T THE ONLY AUTHORITY ON LOVE OR WHAT A HEALTHY, CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE LOOKS LIKE!! I HAVE BEEN HAPPILY MARRIED FOR NEARLY 25 YEARS ... MY HUBBY AND I DIDN'T 100% KNOW INSTANTLY. WE KNEW WE CLICKED, WERE ATTRACTED & LOVED TO HANG OUT, ETC... BUT WE TOOK TIME DEVELOPING A FRIENDSHIP & GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER IN DEPTH. THE LOVE NATURALLY GREW THE MORE TIME WE SPENT TOGETHER! SOON ENOUGH WE REALIZED THAT WE COULDN'T IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT EACH OTHER & HAD NO DESIRE TO BE WITH ANYONE ELSE ROMANTICALLY. WE THEN UNDOUBTEDLY KNEW WE WANTED TO BE MARRIED. SURE YOU FEEL CRAZY GIDDY ABOUT THE PERSON FEELINGS- WISE, ESPECIALLY IN THE BEGINNING, BUT THERE IS SO MUCH MORE DEPTH TO CHOOSING YOUR FOREVER PERSON. AGAIN, I THINK DAD MESSED WITH HER HEAD & CONSEQUENTLY, HER JOURNEY TOWARD FIGURING THIS OUT ON HER OWN. PERSONALLY, I BELIEVE AS CASSIE WAS GETTING TO KNOW HIM BETTER, SHE WAS STARTING TO FALL FOR COLTON. SHE JUST NEEDED MORE TIME WITH HIM!! THE ONLY THING CAUSING HER TO SECOND GUESS THINGS WITH COLTON IS HER DAD'S CLAIM THAT SHE SHOULD ALREADY KNOW WITHOUT ANY DOUBT. SHE SAID HERSELF THAT' SHE DIDN'T HAVE ANY RED FLAGS!! I THINK DAD PLANTED THE DOUBT. IT IS ABSOLUTELY OKAY & NORMAL NOT TO KNOW IMMEDIATELY!! THE POOR GIRL REPEATEDLY RHETORICALLY ASKED COLTON (AS HE TRIED TO ASSURE HER THAT "IT'S OKAY TO NOT KNOW YET") "BUT IS IT REALLY OKAY?!?" YESSS, GIRL!! IT'S OKAY TO LET YOUR LOVE GROW AS YOU GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER!! WHILE THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT FALL & KNOW IMMEDIATELY, THERE ARE EQUALLY PLENTY (if not more!) COUPLES THAT REALIZE IT ALONG THE JOURNEY.

  • @savannahreinhardt3306
    @savannahreinhardt3306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone is also bashing Hannah B who fell in love and expressed her feelings. They are bashing Cassie for being indecisive and Hannah B for being very sure. Like seriously people this show isn’t easy!

  • @nehaltenany1
    @nehaltenany1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I personally loved how honest Cassie was - some girls just do it for the show and she was like I'm not ready, I don't know if I can get there and I need to leave. Like it's very easy to get wrapped up in the show experience and say I love you but she was very honest, props to you girl.

    • @simplytanya
      @simplytanya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      An episode or two before she said she was ready when other ppl were calling her out, she should’ve left then and there

  • @veroad3818
    @veroad3818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I think Cassie didnt even want to try... why fighting so much to stay on the show if she didnt “love him” she didnt need to get engaged.... just say hey need more time I like you I want to try this and see where it goes because dont think I am ready for a proposal (which I totally understand) but not even... she was never that into him....

    • @SummerLuver333
      @SummerLuver333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She said she needed more time multiple times

    • @veroad3818
      @veroad3818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      adriana yeah but then she said “I need to leave” why leave? Colton said I dont need an engament I will give u more time... I just dont understand her thinking other than she was not than into him after all

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vero AD
      She didn’t know if she would get there and him giving her more time would still mean she has to eventually get there. There was no way out of the pressure except to leave.

    • @veroad3818
      @veroad3818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carole Beth get there at all? or get there by the end of the show? why did she fight so much to stay 2 weeks ago then? #noexcuse

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vero AD
      I think get there at all. She was always open and excited to see where this led, until Colton told her he didn’t get her Dad’s blessing. You could see her entire being get crushed. She was counting on her family seeing what she did. Then with her dad coming and telling her she should know immediately if Colton was the one, she felt if she didn’t know right then, it was wrong. No matter how much time Colton gave her, she believed that if she didn’t feel it right then, he wasn’t her soul mate.

  • @amandatidey5751
    @amandatidey5751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would love it if Cassies dad actually told production he wanted to come to give Colton his blessing..but in reality Cassie had asked him off-camera to give her an excuse to leave but would still make her look good enough to become the Bachelorette..I watch too much drama.

  • @Lexi-M
    @Lexi-M 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The cold hard fact here is that Cassie did not have strong enough of feelings for Colton to continue casually dating after the show. Period. She was in a reality tv show before the bachelor and she saw it as a good business opportunity. As a means for exposure/fame/money. She didn’t ever take into consideration what would happen if she got this far into the show and when she realized how serious it was getting she found a way out.

    • @Lexi-M
      @Lexi-M 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only way this isn’t the case is if she changes her mind and wants to be with him. But if they don’t end up together, she clearly did it all for fame.

  • @cheerextremeladies
    @cheerextremeladies 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ahhh the title completely spoiled it for those of us who haven’t watched yet

  • @vissy02
    @vissy02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think though - it’s worth pointing out - that Cassie’s dad - said “if we noticed that you were all in... this would be a very different experience for us”
    I think he knows his daughter. And they could tell something was off. And I really think this could have gone a different way - if she was further along in her feelings and less conflicted. I think he would have moved toward that “open ended / I trust you to make the right decision” type of permission... and it could have gone on to be a more typical... albeit still dramatic... finale... 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @samlunoza1244
    @samlunoza1244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maybe they'll become good friends like Jared and Ashley did and she'll realize she truly loves him!

  • @agnettalucia
    @agnettalucia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this now, and Colton handled things the way Peter should have. More respect 1 year later

  • @whatevenisausername
    @whatevenisausername 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t think Cassie is gone just yet. I’ve seen her in the promos that we’ve never seen on screen before. She never posted a goodbye bachelor or my journey is over post. The ring box is empty because it’s the butterfly he kept from day 1.

  • @keylockwood9487
    @keylockwood9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love the men's take on this. I think they are spot on!

  • @tulip5210
    @tulip5210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    How did she NOT look torn up? She did seem torn up to me I don't know what you all are talking about.

  • @benj1827
    @benj1827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    that child roaming is so cute n so normal😃

  • @margaretdriedger6241
    @margaretdriedger6241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As much as I like Hannah B she’s a loose cannon and exactly what producers want for the bachelorette!

  • @sillygoosesurvivor
    @sillygoosesurvivor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk if this is all an act, then Cassie should be an Oscar winner cuz her emotions about everything that went down seemed so incredibly raw and real. I believe her

  • @itzelzaragoza1967
    @itzelzaragoza1967 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god Jared talking to Emmy is soooooo cute!!😍😍

  • @naomiferreira8255
    @naomiferreira8255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent analysis guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @liz1552
    @liz1552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please be Hannah B! Love her.

  • @dellarena1
    @dellarena1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Jared throwing Cassie under the bus?! for being indecisive? #TeamCassie

  • @CcC-wi4bb
    @CcC-wi4bb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was SO WONDERING WHAT HAPPENED with the footage of HANNAH BEAST in the black halter top going into the hotel room with COLTON & walking angrily outside.... THANX for letting us know that she dropped in on Hannah G's hometown,,,that had to be produced too (How would she know where to go?) BUT they did not air it for some reason...maybe they still will next week but it may have to do with the CAELYNN DRAMA & they made it clear they want to drop that on WTA last night.
    She could have dished the dirt on Caelynn & so he let her go... or MAYBE she stood up for caelynn and it may be her bachelorette audition... ;-) Ibet we will see it sometime...thanx for spilling that tea, I was wondering......................................

  • @fionasnow5235
    @fionasnow5235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like Cassie can't really think for herself. If her dad was all for the relationship, I think she would have been for it too. I think she relies on other peoples thought because she is so young and inexperienced to actually know what she wants.

  • @chihuahuamartin24
    @chihuahuamartin24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have an amazing friend I’ll introduce him to! AAANDD we all are in Colorado!!!!

  • @courtneymulkey7733
    @courtneymulkey7733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like she’s really immature for her age. She seeks her dads approval so much and he got in her head. It almost felt like he was telling her she wasn’t ready and her reaction was like okay I’ll leave, pretty much.

  • @tthompson7609
    @tthompson7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a 23 year old guy and I have to say Tayshia is my favorite from the whole season. She is way to good for Colton and his immaturity

  • @haileymathison8488
    @haileymathison8488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It seemed like to me that Cassie felt rushed to fall in love with Colton which freaked her out as it got closer and closer. When her and Kurpa had that fight she might have had feelings for him they just didnt progress over the next couple weeks. She probably thought she could get there but then her family put more doubts in her head. She got scared and tried to leave. A lot of people do that. When he told her he would stop the entire show and be with her that added guilt and even more pressure. She probably thought it was best that he goes with somebody who was already in love with him. I didnt see anything wrong with what happened. She was being honest just like he was. You cant over analyze everything she does saying oh she didnt like him because she kissed him awkwardly. Some people are just awkward and you never know what people feel. I have a completely different perspective than everybody I guess.

  • @clg6373
    @clg6373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one has mentioned that when Colton choose Cassie instead of Caelyn after hometowns, I thought Cassie looked shocked then. I think she should have declined the rose that day. Thinking this may have played out differently if she had been honest then.

  • @Em-jc3fg
    @Em-jc3fg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ashley i love you but “she didn’t even seem upset when she got into the car” she was literally sobbing.

  • @montourigirl
    @montourigirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You know, it's kinda ironic that most of the girls just fall in love with the whole idea. Perhaps, this was one of the more honest moments of how people would actually feel in these circumstances

  • @sabrinagalindo1855
    @sabrinagalindo1855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite people to recap!

  • @imariprieto1820
    @imariprieto1820 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    IVE BEEN WAITING ALL MORNING FOR THIS

  • @zhanesakarii1099
    @zhanesakarii1099 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so excited about Hannah B!!

  • @laurenlowery1207
    @laurenlowery1207 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hannah B for the next bachelorette!!!! Yessss!!!!!
    And no I don’t think Cassie is into Colton at all she squirms when he tried to kiss her which is definitely not natural. I hate this for Colton. She definitely does not deserve it!

  • @jenessafairbourn3887
    @jenessafairbourn3887 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all should have plugged your TH-cam channel! I love it so much ❤️

  • @sabrinat3439
    @sabrinat3439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d love to see the age range of guys they give Hannah B for her season. Because she is so young would they give her young guys as well?

  • @AngeLEyes8100
    @AngeLEyes8100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I like Cassie. But she act like a little girl. She had an ex boyfriend for years. She acts like a lil girl with her daddy & cuddled him like she cuddles Colton.
    It was creepy. She acts like a little girl but I do like her.

    • @skyz6239
      @skyz6239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lol i love how ur whole comment is against cassie but u end off by saying u like her hahhaha

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She stared into the camera.. lol.. dat was creepy..

    • @keylockwood9487
      @keylockwood9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think her parents never allowed her to think for herself when she was growing up, and because of this she second guesses herself constantly and thinks how she feels is wrong. I think she always loved him but her Dad made her second guess herself.

  • @nelidaflores4523
    @nelidaflores4523 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ya’ll took all the words out my mouth!

  • @kbrson
    @kbrson 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What podcast is Katie going to be on and when?!?

  • @hannahvonrothkirch538
    @hannahvonrothkirch538 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is Ashley’s dress from??

  • @Sammy-eb7me
    @Sammy-eb7me 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this whole group is so cute

  • @taylorbittner826
    @taylorbittner826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Emmy and jades hug 😻😻

  • @kjaime7030
    @kjaime7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If Hannah B is the next Bachelorette, I'm NOT watching a single episode. I wanted her gone by week 2. I like Hannah G, though we don't know her well.

    • @bsvlogs3753
      @bsvlogs3753 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      K Jamie i’m sorry but Hannah G is so boring! she’s really sweet but her season would be the worst :/ Hannah B was truly herself the entire time and would be so funny and great as the bachelorette

    • @rychiee
      @rychiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I agree - why are we in the minority??? Just being yourself doesn't isn't everything if you are an obnoxious dim wit.

    • @kjaime7030
      @kjaime7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bsvlogs3753 Well, I think Colton is really boring, but this season has been interesting. I bet anything that Hannah G is more interesting than what we've been shown. NOBODY can be more boring than Arie... And now my vote is for Elyse. She left way too early, but why does the Bachelorette have to be someone from top five? New blood would do the franchise so well, I think. And Hannah B will remain tainted for me about her dispute with Caelynn (I'm talking all the way back to their pageant days). I don't want a Bachelor or Bachelorette who can't handle conflict gracefully. Period. I'm never going to forget that it was Hannah B who brought up Caelyn's pre-show behavior to Colton. That's unacceptable to me. And we're oddly not shown the footage of her visiting Colton's hotel the night of his hometown visit with Caelyn... What the hell was that all about?

    • @bsvlogs3753
      @bsvlogs3753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      K Jamie i do agree that Elyse would be the best choice but i honestly don’t see them doing that unfortunately. yeah it sucked that Hannah B. talked about Caelynn but you know it was probably very encouraged by producers and such....

    • @kjaime7030
      @kjaime7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bsvlogs3753 Yeah, it's clear they know who they want based on fan chatter--much the same way it was clear from the start that Colton would be their Bachelor choice (which turned out to be a good choice, but not for the right reasons). They are clearly paintin her in a more positive light now and even withhheld the footage they originally were going to show about her visiting him during his hometown visit with Caelynn...

  • @kjaime7030
    @kjaime7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all are SO wrong. Even in a conversation to a producer, Cassie wouldn't say, as a throw-away line, "There are no red flags," if she wasn't really into Colton and trying to get there with him. There is literally NO incentive for her to toss that line in the mix if she wasn't thinking down that path of, "Could he be the one for me?" I think there hasn't been anyone more honest on any season of the whole franchise except Cassie ever (except maybe Ashley I when talking about how into Jared she was.... And she was trying to do the right thing to extract herself so that he could have his fantasy moment of an engagement at the end, thanks in part to her Dad's "God is more important than this" and "If you don't feel it right away, then he's not right for you," both of which is BS. If she wanted the Bachelorette, the wise thing to do would be to not have been so torn now and to have done the evening dinner and then told him at the overnight she still wasn't there and then maintained that to the end so he would pick the other woman over her. But no, before he even reveals how he's in love with her and she's it for him, she already had the plan to just remove herself from the show. For you to say that "she's not ready" is all about her being 23 or whatever, is so wrong because all she's saying is EXACTLY what he's already told several women--"I don't know if i can get there." When you've said that's so sweet and honest of him. And I CAN'T BELIEVE you think she's not that into him when it's been clear when it's just the two of them that they have some of the best chemistry we've seen on this show, and which is extremely rare for two people to have. Ashley, you've been biased against Cassie for weeks, and you've gotten Jared in your corner.

  • @jenniferford2067
    @jenniferford2067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also, being ready for marriage doesn’t mean ready to marry Colten.

  • @CcC-wi4bb
    @CcC-wi4bb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh YEAH!!!! Hannah BEAST for bachelorette!!!! That may very well be the best season yet!!!

  • @Shayne_T
    @Shayne_T 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cassie stayed there knowing she didn't want to be with him, that makes me her very wrong.. Jared needs to stop defending her.