More like they complain when he gets there and they can’t hop on board. Most women want to wait at the finish line and pick the winner. But seeing the gf puts a stop to their hypergamy.
@@Profitglutton90 They can only do that if they're trophies. BW don't want to put in the work to be trophies, yet they still want to wait at the finish line to be picked. Make it make sense.
Let da communitah 🔥.. They wanna keep going after Pookie while the nerd gets scooped up by Kelly and Maria, let em..when they realize why no man will marry them, the light bulb will come on
Kyle Hamilton was born in Greece, grew up in Russia and went to private catholic school in suburbs of Atlanta. You talk about him like he grew up in Marietta or something. The fact he chose to have a white GF has nothing to do with black girls dissing him or calling him a lame! People date the people in their circle...
His Mom is from South Korea, why aren’t the Korean women outraged as well? He doesn’t relate to the American black women that are looking for scammers, rappers, drug dealers and petty hustlers.
People calling her a gold digger are wrong. Dude is 6'4, handsome, NFL athlete that went to notre dame. I am pretty sure guys like that get the top shelf women. Sadly for black women, none of them made the cut. The competition at that level is REAL.
BW are mad because they can't compete as gold diggers. They need to be mad at their mamas for failing to teach them femininity. Boss chicks don't get alphas... they get betas and Pookies.
Story time: I grew up in a predominantly white area in Illinois, but there was always a good mix of black and non white people too. I played basketball pretty much my entire life. From freshman year in high school all the way up to D1 at SIU it was the white girls that went out their way to show interest in me. I met two white girls named Cindy and Sarah in my biology class freshman year. They went out there way to be cool with me before they even knew I played basketball. Once tryouts came and went, and then the season started, guess who would show up to my games with signs and t-shirts? Cindy and Sarah. Who would bring cupcakes to my locker?? Other white girls. The black girls that I had more interest in never wanted to do that. Even the black girls that had crushes on me would rather go to Bellwood and Maywood to hang with black boys that were headed down the wrong path. People act like these white girls just show up on draft day, but in reality they've been there showing support from day 1. Unfortunately, a lot of black women won't wait for you to get out or practice, games etc. A lot of them want the street/ hood dudes/ wannabes. I know countless basketball and football players that could tell the same story as mine. Black women (not all) need to compete for the black men going somewhere in life like they compete for the thugs. Otherwise they need to shut up when you see a non black woman on their arm.
I was raised in an all whyte school with maybe 20 black students. Don’t be delusional Whyte girls know where the bag may potentially be at. They smell it a mile away. My best friend was a whyte girl and she admitted to me a blak girl that she only dates black athletes cause they are mostl likely to end up professional. I’m a black girl who dated whyte and blk boys at the time. I’m no fool when it comes to whyte people. Date who you date but my husband said I’m the nicest black girl he has ever met . All the whyte girls he dated started off nice but ended up crazy. So black girls might be mean in the beginning but we take damn good care of our men when they doing their part. Cook clean take care of the home. I have yet to know a mean black wife with a Husband that treats her good. Black or white
@@michelleloving525 what does that have to do with this comment? You are completely missing his point. His point is that If BW want NFL athletes, they need to compete. And they need to compete through showing the same level of interest these other women will. A BW finds it strange to wear a t-shirt of one of these guys, or to bring him cupcakes. That’s his point. He never said that the women aren’t doing what’s best for them, that’s what women are supposed to do. BW are the group who don’t do this the most, with the rate y’all pick criminals
@@michelleloving525 the fact you keep spelling white that way is weird. The fact that white women can smell the bag is not the point. The point is they do the things to have their white ass on Tv siting next to him while he gets drafted. They play their part and play their role, and not try to match his shine or share spotlight. We want Savannah James , not Ayiesha Curry.
I'm glad you're putting this out there. At the end of the day, you can't shoot the messenger, because the writing was already on the wall. Shahrazad Ali, and other well spoken people warned our woman not to go the route they're going.
What is the writing on the wall saying, because this guy went to Notre Dam if I am not mistaken. He chose the woman in his eye sight, and you better believe she made sure she got in his eye sight. Some men have a type, and no matter how perfect or unproblematic some black women are it will not deter a man who chooses white women as his preference. That dude got white girl latte all over his face. Who is really surprised he’s with a white woman.
To all the BW crying and complaining, where were you at when these black men were in college? When he was in the library every day? WHERE WERE YOU AT?! BW were in the clubs, shaking their asses for men that aren’t S#%* today! You wasted your youth on Pookie and Ray Ray and now you’re mad that Pointdexter made it and is with other groups of women that valued and appreciated him back when he didn’t have anything and was on his way up while BW ignored him. You should be mad at your DAMN selves!
Thank you. Took the words right out my mouth. While he was busting his ass on the field and the library, his white girlfriend/fiance was there by his side. While the black women was going after the pro aspects and rappers
That's true... yt woman move with a purpose to find a husband. They start scouting around junior year in high school (many of the yt girls back when I was in HS ended up marrying right after school or getting engaged in college). Meanwhile, blk women only wanted to party and turn up or join sororities for clout. In HS the blk girls talked about going to college parties, what they wanted to study, and joining a sorority. Marriage was not on her mind. A vast majority of the blk girls I grew up with or experienced simply wanted to get away from their mothers because they were tired of living with their mother's. However, in college both YT women and blk women were equally getting ran through, but the YT women definitely had an endgame to get married. Sadly, the blk women were just getting ran through.
BW been ran thru since slavery, and BM were conditioned to be bucks and step n fetchin… ain’t nothing changed but snow loving devils like yourself uplift the white man’s seed and praise him for his accomplishments
🐯 Tiger Woods 🐯 2.0. I hope he is not foolish enough to trade in a Leviticus 21:13 Tesla for 13 Box Chevy Waffle 🧇 House chicks by believing quantity trumps quality.
I saw his first press conference when he was being introduced to the Organization. Reporters asked him about the handshake and he said they made it up on his junior year of high school. Also, they started dating each other during Sophomore year of high school. She been with this guy for a while and most likely before he was noticed as a great athlete. Good for him!!! 👍🏿
She was with him before he was noticed? Come on now don’t lie to yourself like that. He’s in college playing football. Any athlete in college has the potential to go pro. It don’t take a mastermind to realize to try to get on as early as possible. He liked her enough to get at her, and she wasn’t slow enough to regret him. Simple.
@@tyroneramirez5577 he was always athletic even in high school. Athletes for the most part are prized possession. Most girls want an athlete, so to snag one early you know to have that “whatever you like” mentality. She was not slow. She followed him to his college choice of Notre Dam. She was not about to take the chances of another white woman stealing her man. The fear of a black woman taking him from her is so far from her mind.
Tyrone Ramirez that handshake isn’t even in the white community. So he didn’t make up anything. He’s mixed once they start having children that child would be practically white. I hope his black parent is proud. Her or she successful wean themselves out.
@@nadia4999 well much respect for her for putting in that work early as possible. If black women want these men they need to put in work too. Becky is running circles over them to pursue these black athletes.
ODJ, that breakdown of her being willing to learn a handshake with her man was on point. I went to a PWI, but hung out the black students and couples enough. I don't remember seeing 1 black couple with a handshake.
the big issues that i have seen, is that black women believes that black men would only choose black women regardless how thry treat them. but when black men realize or are being appreciated, they tend to lean on that. and to my opinion, it is not a black thing(it's a man thing), they tend to go with the women that appreciates them. plain and simple
The woman (color optional) that gives a Man the GFE (girlfriend experience) NOW is showing him what he will get as a wife LATER. Peace, Femininity, Submission & Loyalty will WIN every time. 👍🏾💯🇺🇸
@@melanatedFTM i believe that a man needs are very simple. But women over all want and expect more from a man. i am saying this because as a Hispanic, i am looking for a woman that appreciates me regardless of race. i want to feel wanted and appreciated as a man, not as a object that brings security in their lives.
@@rainiselena4572 well you are entitle to your opinion. but i made my comment on experience and numbers i researched on the community. your facts may differ from mine but i stand with what i said and at the end of the day is not about color nor race, it's about woman and man thing. i dont know where you from, but i seen this personally
Only if black men would do the same with black woman. You all will financially used black women and when you become successful, then you push that same black woman aside. I'd seen it happen so many times. And, that's why black women are done with you all. Btw, white men are more in control of the economy. The majority of U.S. businesses are small, relatively new and owned by white American men.
It's what Kevin said it was: 1. Fit 2. Feminine 3. Friendly 4. Cooperative & 5.Submissive The Man's words live on even in his death. And we will keep them living on.
Yeah it's not even a racial thing. I live in an area that is predominantly white and there are a ton of white girls around here who have serious attitude problems. No man wants to come home to a ungrateful wife he's got to fight with every night.
It's like some women don't get it how do you think that woman got that man not by being loud rude masculine ungrateful horrible attitude yeah I can guarantee you that she's giving you all the blueprint but y'all don't want to follow directions ✌️
Kyle Hamilton high school 98% Europeans😂😭nigga never been Black women entire life listen him can’t get Black women no personality Heard talk knew he from European populated schools Same Patrick Mahomes they square listen Mahomes no black women be him see him as Square
She got that “type” of man simply by being a white woman with blonde hair. She got that type of man because she probably comes from an already well to do family, so he paired up with someone he felt more compatible with. She has no reason to be loud when everyone holds her as “classic beauty.” She has no reason to be masculine, because from a little girl she had a daddy who showed her that a man is supposed to take care of you. Must I continue with the “blueprint”
@@nadia4999 there y'all go with that b******* and I have nothing to do with her race it's called knowing your roll that's something some black women don't understand until then guess what y'all going to be in last place and constantly making up excuses I seen plenty of black women get with you professional athletes you know why because they were fit feminine and they knew they roll the one on that I'm a queen bullshit
I say this all the time to women. How the hell an a woman of any race that's not black can come to America and get a brother with means? And these girls have no fat ass and tits! How. Because they give them that feeling that addicts get from shooting up! That feeling no ther can give. That's why they losing.
This topic is stale at this point but... With Black Women often times its about your glass being half empty. With White women they see glass half full.
They possess Godly Character; by which they truly walk by faith vs foolishly waiting at the finish line with an out of commission, used juice 🧃 box that nobody in their right mind; except for Will Smith, Kanye West, and Scottie Pippen, is really foolish enough to desire to pay full price for a used and abused defunct virtuous portal.
@@KtotheG So, you are saying that white women are "feminine" and black are "masculine" and therefore we should collectively go after white women as black men ?
@@chrisman3431 😁... I like trolling Bee Dubs. Generally, BW are not very feminine and a good bit of WW aren't feminine, either.. but regardless of race, feminine women tend to prefer to be the pretty one in the relationship. Since Bee Dubs are so masculine, they prefer men to be better looking than them. I know you seen it, when you view various couples. Or just by paying attention to females. I know you see the ones who are hyper focused on "male beauty" as opposed to the ones who focus more on character, ambition and personality. The differences between those two types of females are as clear as day.
@@KtotheG Truest words i’ve read in any thread on this subject. It’s a lot of brothas that can’t blame mom for the turmoil they experienced either because BW is God like young pharaoh n all them hotep hustler say
@@TiburonCap Yup, but they have no problem blaming dad, though. The issue I have with that is that mama doesn't submit to dad, so how can dad be responsible? The man is only responsible and accountable to the woman in a PATRIARCHY. We don't have a patriarchy and these fefails don't want that system of rule or governance. We have a de facto matriarchy actually. They wanted the power and the authority over the home and the community, which they assumed via help from the government, but they want none of the accountability and responsibility that goes with it... I say BULLSHIT. This is why I continue to remind them that we're a matriarchy and not a patriarchy. But they don't want to deal with facts, just feelings.
@@leroygreen5263 Mothers in the hood taught them to be 304s, too. I was around them as a boy and I heard it and saw it. I watched older BW discourage femininity out of little girls and admonish them for being "too nice" to boys or for "smiling in their faces." I literally witnessed it on my big wheel and tricycles. I heard them tell their daughters and other little girls to make sure you get some money out of a boy if he likes you. What is that other than 304 training? They didn't mold them to be wives. They didn't teach them manners or etiquette nor how to cook and properly dress like a lady. My mom, on the other hand, was a little bit better, because she taught my sister how to cook, clean, sit with a dress/skirt on, curtsey, use manners and act like a lady. Hood chicks didn't get that training, other than preparation for the track, OF, IG and the strip clubs. I spent time in the hood and suburbs, so I got to observe both worlds.
Back in the day I was struggling. Just out of college and trying to start my career. Being young, of course I wanted to find a woman. NONE of the Black women I was interested in gave me a shot. The one who took a chance was a White woman. Not only did she stick with me thru HARD times, she’s still with me. And that was 35 years ago. Along the way, I’ve run into several Black women who have issues. Didn’t want me then - but mad now that I’ve made it and my wifey is White. They had their chance.
right. it's all about how a woman treats you. you cannot expect a good husband to just be assigned to you, you have to be a good partner yourself or you miss out. a lot of people just expect to show up when the hard work is done to participate in the rewards. that is not realistic even if it sometimes happens. yo u mostly need to invest on the ground floor to be there when the guy comes into his own! good post!
First of all, the kid is a fantastic player, who has All-Pro potential. The kid went to Notre Dame, white women love ballplayers. It was easy for him to find her, or for her to find him
@@KtotheG My point is, Young Miami from the City Girls never had a snowballs chance in hell. It's no women like her at Notre Dame, so why are they mad?🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lol
You nailed it Sir Oshay when you said: "authority figure." Too many of OUR women refuse to accept their place either within the marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. 👍👌
BM could help them by ignoring their asses. Stop entertaining their shaming tactics and bad faith arguments. Ridicule them if you must, but ignoring them is best, especially if they aren't servicing you.
@One shot deal I know, and it's mainly due to single motherhood. I guess because I never believed in divorce, I never saw my single mom as a victim, because she initiated it and filed for it. And also because she was so abusive and selfish, I never worshipped her nor sympathized with her all that much. She chose our situation. Plus, I was born an independent thinker who always resisted bullshit that never made sense, no matter who said it. I couldn't be emasculated nor made into a "son-husband." But apparently, a lot of these dudes fell prey to that conditioning. It's really sad. It's the reason why they worship these fefails and follow them as thought leaders. Plus, when you consider that today's pro-black theology consists mainly of BW worship, a lot of brothers simply get hoodwinked. Feminism and the idea of female superiority never made sense to me logically... or maybe I'm just too big of a chauvinist? Or maybe I studied how matriarchies have never been successful at any point in world history? Either way, I know that the current paradigm in Black America is dysfunctional and toxic. It's not working and if we really want to see a change, we as men cannot continue to let the other half manipulate and dominate us, because that's what it is when you let them control your mind. It's complete domination and subjection.
OSHAY! This video hits THE NAIL ON THE HEAD! I’ve dated MANY Black women but the one woman that helped me the most with my career was a WHITE WOMAN. It didn’t work out between us but I will NEVER forget her.
@@scrbroadcast it means that why do you expect him to pick a bw when his mother’s not? Bw expect mixed dudes to still pick bw even if their mother isn’t black
Gotta call you out for one thing Oshay. Can we stop acting like all black athletes are from the "hood". Kyle is most definitely not from the hood. He was born in Greece where his dad played pro basketball, grew up in the suburbs of atlanta, attended a predominately white private high school then went to a predominately white college. I guarantee you he spent more time around white people growing up than he did black people. Also the kid has been a star player since pop warner I guarantee you no one thought he was lame
Your the first person who made any sense. He was more than likely going to be with a white girl because he wasn’t was raised in a black environment. Also every girl in that photo was white. Why were they even there, it was like a fan club almost.
" he is just with her because he can't handle a strong @*@&^# woman" " he is a sell out" " he is weak" " he is an educated lame" " she will let him walk all over her" just a few from their play book lol
You mean he refuses to deal with a strong @*@&^# fool! strong @*@&^# woman is another term for Combative, Masculine, Chaotic, Crazy, and displaying Manic behavior at all times! No peace in the house or in the relationship, who the hell wants to deal with that?...Nobody! strong @*@&^# woman" is another way to condone a black woman's crazy A** behavior, and she only does this to black men!
It’s difficult to reject a loving and kind attractive woman who has been there when struggling in college. It’s a wonderful feeling to feel that level of respect.
Two human beings met, got along, and get into a relationship. That's about all I see in it period. The more people comingle the more color becomes irrelevant when it comes to attraction. Men are men and women are women. The color doesn't matter as much as what your experiences are, where and how your were raised. The reason we are seeing more interracial relationships is because there are more opportunities for them to happen now days. More minorities are going to school, becoming professionals and being exposed to more people period. I love it. Date who you want and fall in love with who you want. That makes for a great society. It's really that simple.
Wrong. Interracial marriages have remained literally the same for all races and genders except for black men and white woman. Black men are driving interracial relationships up the roof.
I advocate that single mothers give up custody... several years ago, they had these big give up your guns movements in the hood in order to curb violence... we need to do that with single mothers and tell them to give up their kids, either to the fathers, or willing families who will adopt them. Fuck what anyone says, but they are horrible parents. People are angry and it's because of the abuse and how they were raised.
@@KtotheG or and this is just me thinking out the box..stop getting pregnant as a single woman and stop getting a single woman pregnant!...there is a this thing called birth control that if used properly will halt the need for someone else raising another person's responsibility
We done. In a couple generations most FBA will be 1/4th black and the American government won’t feel obligated to give us reparations. WS wins. That’s the endgame unless us black men change the system in the next 100 years.
Gonna be like Mexico. There are mestizo(mixed) people walking around that just mix with the white/Spanish population. A lot of those “white” looking Mexicans have significant native DNA. SWP called it a long time ago. There will be a beige class and they’ll be a lot more diverse. Athletes, entertainers, professionals whatever they want as they will have less cultural baggage or pull to ONLY be what’s respected in the streets. Ultimately they’re be more free 🤷🏾♂️
Note to black women. As well as being attractive. The more feminine you are the more playful you are, the more accepting you are, the more all around fun you are, the more submissive you are, the better your chances are at securing a black man(or any man for that matter)
dude...my husband is swiss...and he complains about white women all the time...my mother in law is rude to her husband...yall is tripping. my husband and i have fun...he helps me do my hair...stop playing with black women and saying we are not playful.
@@navyvet8544 not a problem. We are on it.. been a major reduction in children without marriage and more focus on success in the trades and business. Trying to wipe the femamine habits from single mom raised men currently. What other focus do you see necessary
@@vanderumd11 i am telling you white woman are not playful...what is that not clicking? i am a female...who had white friends and no, that is a lie from hell... i agree that white females are feminine but not playful at all. Black people in general are more playful and fun across the diaspora...that white woman may be responding to her husbands energy but you guys are really trying place white woman in this pedestal that they are not...white woman in spirit are generally arrogant.
May the best woman WIN regardless of her color I'm a 53 year old black man grew up in a suburbs went to an all white high school learning about the white culture I was living in the mothers of that culture . Teaches their daughters how to groom themselves how to position themselves in life to find them a good man basically she teaches her daughters how to compete for companionship something that the single black mothers don't do this is why one out of every four black women will ever get married
Kevin Samuels says it best…Fit/Feminine/Friendly/Cooperative & SUBMISSIVE. Those Ladies (color optional but usually White is what you see) get the Prize (the Man w/The Bag)
They won't get married but they will get knocked up that way, they can secure the bag from their real husband the Government. Section8 housing, food stamps (Oh wait EBT cards) maybe some vocational training somewhere, free health and childcare. Who can beat that and she doesn't have to have that pesky black man around, telling her what to do all the time.
His own kind ? She's human he's human. Love has NO colors, no boundaries. As long as they are happy I'm happy for them. We need to stop this race shit. There is only One race the human race.
Great video!! And I've been saying it for years I tell all my buddies look at NFL and NBA drafts and tell me who do you see with the athletes? Mostly WW
Man, you're killing it lately bruh. What a lot of BW dont understand, is that a lot of (Educated Black men) dont date white women because they are white. We search, look, and are often denied for the most asinine reasons, and you grow tight with women that show consistent love, care, and respect, it's that simple. As Oshay stated, these women present as feminine, cooperative, AND trustworthy. White female athletes have always been interested in black male athletes, you can tell she plays sports and digs the sports culture i.e. the handshake, this makes her a catch in my eyes.
BW are the ones who are color-struck. Don't let them gaslight you or make guilty projections. They get very specific with their physical requirements... all the way down to the beard design and the iris color.
Like KS said, BW still haven't realized after all this time that men will go down in the looks category to go up in the submissive and feminine catergory. But get the bag, be a boss b****, and have a hot girl summer "Sis". AND Roe v Wade just got overturned smh it's about to get SO real outchea (Rick Flair voice) WOOOOOOOO!
I've never had an issue with people that are in interracial relationships. The only time I have a problem is when a person chooses to inclusively date outside their race while bad mouthing men and women of their race. Example a black man that dates only white women and boast that he does so because black women have bad tempers and attitudes when we all know that does not apply to all black women. Other than that Love whoever you want to love and be with whoever makes you happy.
@Yellow Ranger I think you either misread my comment or didn't understand it. I'm saying I don't like when Blk men use the stereotype excuses that black women have bad tempers and attitudes as an justification for dating outside of their race. I'm not saying they d but that is often said by some.
By 2050 half of the worlds population will by bi-racial; by which CNN will have hard trying to keep racism a mainstream topic when the facts, data, and statistics will no longer support. As a result, the only ones who will be crying wolf will be the uneducated, criminals, and mother of bastard children out of wedlock who will find it hard to keep a job because of not having a stable home environment to raise her kids; has Roe vs Wade will not be there for her to erase her Hot Girl Summer Living My Best Life sexcapades. 😂
Matt From Tinder it's called the one drop rule see the community claims anyone that's half like Colin Kaepernick because they wanted to be accepted by everybody
Chinese general, military strategist Sun Tzu said "Know the enemy and know yourself in a hundred battles you will never be in peril." This is why I sometimes visit Chrissie & Cynthia G channel to gage how Black women are currently thinking. I'm about to go there now cause I know they are both crying and whining about this particular matter
They aren't and prey on self-loathing Black men talking about submissive white women when she's only with the brothas just to get money of him and use her whiteness to get stuff if the Black dude isn't a bum. Basically those Black dudes are submissive to white women and don't or can't see it.
Bro you 2000 % right, I gave up on sisters a long time ago, after seeing all the hell my uncles, brothers, and friends went threw, I bounced, not that I'm more attracted to other race women, they just treat you different, imbnot attracted to white women at all, simply because of all the racist hell there race have and still to this day putting our people threw, black women is all about the bag, no love in their hearts, they love what you can do for them, and that is the main reason why brothers go to other races, I'm more attracted to Latino women because they appreciate you, they don't leave you when your down on your luck, they help you get back non your feet, sisters need a lot of therapy, they act more like the man in a relationship, and brothers ain't haven't that, you have a few Will Smiths and Kanye's but most brothers are going with the women who respects and treat them right. All you see on Facebook and these social media platforms is these fake ass sisters who don't want to be wife's are mothers, jesabels.
I feel sorry for the boys who are being raised in those single mother households... smh... I can only imagine the pain and torture they're experiencing.
YOU PROBABLY HAD 1 BAD EXPERIENCE WITH A BW THEN YOU WROTE US ALL OFF, GTFOH, I REMEBER THE NIGERIAN BLACK MAN THAT DISSED US BW IT WAS HIS BLONDE ONLY FANS GF THAT TOOK HIS LIFE
@@slinkiegirl2001 wow same could be said for both black men and women both get murdered what about those women who got killed by those online killers that got set up on the date.
You hit the nail right on the head The Counselor Ace. For black women, it's all about the bag because their mothers failed them growing up as girl's, oftentimes they had no Male authority in their homes. On some occasions when there was a male authority in their homes, he was emaculated and dominated by big her mother. Post slavery we never received any mental health care so as a result, the black women only know how to be chaotic, masculine, and combative. She only behaves this way towards the black man, all other men she's on her best behavior.
Yall have to admit and you too oshay that handshake they got was cool and if you notice she didn't slip up or make a mistake like it's something they been doing ...I like my women always black but I happy for them...let them be mad they didn't compete for him so ummm..yea 🤷♂️...lol also if you look at the handshake the speed she moved compared to him like she was leading it ..I won't be surprised if she the one made it up 🤣🤣🤣
I was always a athlete in school football/basketball and I honestly have dated numerous races but I aint NEVER AND NEVER WILL turn my back on my beautiful black queens! ✊🏾
@@antoniojames3617 What I'm talking about is....get yourself a White woman (not ones that the White boys don't want)...a FINE one. get with her for a year or two if you can handle her...then let everyone on here know how the relationship was.
@@johnhammond3556 🤣🤣 Had those before and quite frankly for me, that aint my thang brother... If I might toot my own horn for a second ALL the women I date are top tier and it aint a white woman fine enough to make me leave sisters alone. I just feel like they can't relate to where I'm from is all I'm sayin 🤷🏾♂️
BW failed to latch onto a guy as he was working towards his goal. She wasn't there to support and nurture him. Now that it's revealed that him and the white girl were together since high school and she just didn't pop up when his time to hit the big leagues arrived. She deserves to be with him, she put in the time and effort, what type of men were the bw chasing after if they were in the same schools that he attended and why didn't they see the potential in him to be in a relationship with him. They can't get mad at him, let them be angry with themselves for not being able to see him as a worthwhile future mate instead of running after the bad boys. He probably got dissed and turned down by a lot of bw before the ww got with him.
White women can spot potential. Black women want the finished product. At this point I have no sympathy for Shaniqua. Umar Johnson is right on this topic.
Once you leave survival mode you cant stay where people are in that mode. That's why they say everybody cant go. When you leave your options are limited as a black woman or man. But everyone you left behind is judging you off unhealthy emotions which is why you left in the first place.
This is more proof that brothers are starting to see that black women are their true enemies. I mean they grew up seeing it with their own eyes. They are starting to accept the reality that they are living in. Let momma and grandma get mad. Focus on your happiness.
Just saw a video about the black high school student who lost her college scholarship for posing on social media with guns in her prom photo. That in a nutshell is why people outside the hood do not want them lol.
@@TheRawledawg A lot of Hesse kid’s favorite music artists are really on that ratchet and thug lifestyle tip. Look at the most popular artists from Lil Durk to the City Girls. A lot of these rappers have died from gun violence as well. This is the result of glorifying a violent and corrupt lifestyle.
White high school people do it for prom all the time and it’s called the right to bear arms. Black people are so hard on each other while subconsciously giving white people a pass. So much inner work to do. We even see each other as thugs. The media has done such a good job at painting all black people as bad that even black people try to stay away from each other.
@@tjandcj123 No. This is what’s wrong with your argument: she is underage and not licensed to carry a firearm in public. If she is not a legal adult, she doesn’t have the full set of rights than an adult American citizen has. Whether right or wrong, she is seen as the property of her parents or legal guardian. We also live in a climate where we have had many school shootings. The media isn’t the root issue for our community. That’s a deflection tactic. It’s not working. If anything, we are not hard enough on one another. All of the excuse making and pandering are ultimately a sign of a lack of personal responsibility. That’s the real reason why we can’t really fit into mainstream society. This is what happens when you allow women to dominate a community.
@@brandnew9834 so why are black men letting their women dominate the community. I have never heard another race of men say “this is what happens when you let women dominate the community “ Take your place as a leader and as a man. I don’t understand how black men blame women for everything that’s wrong with them
Frankly many black men are tired of the masculine energy most black women bring to a relationship. Also black men are tired of being told that they are the problem in our communities, and are tired of seeing 80% of black women today wanting to head single parent households. 51% of black men are single and childless, and 33% are married. That means these black women are pretty much getting pregnant by the same 16% of men. Women have 9 different contraception choices while men have two. If a women gets pregnant today that means she wants to. Worse, black women have standardized themselves out of the market with unrealistic ideals, are overweight and obese, and are making style and fashion choices that are unappealing to many if not most black men.
Well, it can't be said any better than that! Many black women think that black men shouldn't have any other choices in life, but to deal with their Masculine, chaotic, combative behavior. Now let us be honest this guy may not even make the team, just because your drafted doesn't mean you're on the team. Being on the team does not become official until you actually sign the contract and if he gets cut somewhere down the line, how is this white girl going to feel about him them? Still, who wants to deal with crazy 24/7/ 365?...Nobody!
@@michelleloving525 And there you have it. Black women cheered when Serena Williams married a white man, but continue to vilify black men who date and marry out. BW are very comfortable listing and demanding their standards, but when a black man such as Cam Newton lists his standards he is SIGN-ed (shame, insults, guilt, and BW's need to be right), called gay, some kind of "ist", some sort of "obic", or is called toxic. That is the insecurity of BW's.
Kyle Hamilton is mixed bro, his Father is Black his Mother is Korean. I come from mixed family too, and i married a mixed Chinese women, same as my Mum. Its only a big deal in America because Americans are infatuated with race. You most likely find a lot white dudes are attracted to women of color. Shit they love those latina's
As a black, single, college educated woman with no kids I'm disgusted at the comments about bw. The generalizations are ridiculous. At this point I'm going to need BM to realize that we grew up with the same disadvantages, stereotypes, and single parent homes. I myself grew up a in two parent home with both of my biological parents, but it was full of familial dysfunction due to my dad's infidelity. My dad is 63 and says himself that he still does not know why he did half the things he did in his marriage. People need to understand alot of bw are masculine because we do have to take care of ourselves, protect ourselves, perform twice as hard to be noticed professionally. BM deal with their set of issues as well. We all came from the same disadvantaged culture. Making it despite all odds. Marry who you want. Pick your preference. But do not compare me to non-black woman that never had to live in fear or work twice as hard due to white privilege. If you never had to struggle or work hard or combat stereotypes on a daily I guess it's easy to walk around fun, fit, and friendly. Yall marry your preference but when she stabs you to death and the all white jury decides she is innocent due to self defense and/or insanity keep that same energy. Willie Lynch did a good job on us colored folks. We the only race of people drinking the kool-aid that got us divided and against each other whether it's gender, skin tone, class, education, status, hair texture. It's like if you black it's best we blame each other and pick at each other. Let's continue the divide, because at this point black people don't know what coming together look like. Uplift them good ol' white folks after they pappas done raped the bw and massay bucked our black men. Yall all ignorant and dumb. Oshay I'm disgusted with you on this one.
As a black man married to a black woman, I don't really disagree with O'Shea Duke Jackson on this one. The funny thing about all this is that black woman is a hole don't want to be submissive. And if they see a white woman hooking up with a black man they flip out. I seen my wife do it almost everyday. Hell, I have to remind her that she did in fact marry a black man LOL. The problem is that they are their emotions.
@@jermainethigpen2531 sir and I can say as whole that black men are disrespectful, unfaithful, and absentee fathers. Then you'll have BM say give us something to respect well sirs give BW something to submit to. You are missing the point I personally don't care if someone chooses to date a non black women but don't categorize as a whole. The same way BM tell BW choose better well then BM need to choose better if that means dating outside their race so be it. However, don't say it's because all black women are this or that. When as whole it's slim pickings for educated BW that are self sufficient to began with unless BW date down. You say are married to a BW then sir please ensure if you have children then teach your sons how to be men that can grow up and be good husbands. Teach your daughters how to be good women that can grow up to be wives. My whole case and point is there is alot of blaming between BM and BW when many of us did not grow up in environments that showed us or taught what healthy relationships look like between men and women. I see alot videos geared towards women doing the work. But when you follow and listen to married black men that are life coaches such as RC Blake and Tony Gaskins they say all the time these men are not showing up to do the work on themselves when many of them grew up in the same broken homes. I have literally had man come in my home and tell me "the average will come in here and feel not needed." I asked "why?" This man told because I got everything. He made analysis that I had no need for a man based on observation of how I lived and how I kept my home. Sir... I'm seeing it too much with my single friends that are well rounded with no kids. I don't hang out with rude, loud, ghetto women that are loose. Many BW are leveling up, doing the work on ourselves and out here trying live right, but unfortunately with most men that don't know who they are and are still struggling past the age of 35 to figure out they can't deal. I'm patient and kind to the men I've dated. Many of them had to come back and say I'm sorry...take me back but the bus moved on sir. My health and emotional well being will not tolerate a grown boy. At this point I tell black men and women go date where you are appreciated and not tolerated. Because I see there is no hope for us a whole. RIP black family.
no, it's not black race is literally in existence in America. The African immigrants marry each other. The African Americans are fucking fighting on youtube and Twitter and IG comments when the world is against us. We are also against each other.
"But black men treat white women differently." That's because white women tend to treat US differently. And by differently I mean in much higher regard and reverence than YOU, black women.
According to what I have read, they went to high school together and have been a couple since then. She didn't appear in his life and scoop him up once it was clear he was going to be in the NFL.
A white girl learns a cute handshake and she gets so much praise….. the type shit black men are impressed by… and all the theatrics and “ look at me I did something black guys” I’m just….
You completely missed the point. They’ve been together for years, since he was in high school. She did what it took to secure him THEN. The bottom line is that if BW want to compete for a few hundred NFL and NBA athletes, do what it takes
As a Black Woman, I am tired of many Black Women putting Brothers down for who is dating. If they spends time stepping out of Peep that they don't know business, maybe they can find a man of their own? It's always the BBL's, weave, ghetto attitude, no class or Social Graces, and having babies, you will.be forever single and miserable alone with a Yorkshire, Poodle as your companion
Phyllis ......I Appreciate You For Caring For The BM, If You Keep The Positive Attitude And Energy, You Will Be Successful In Finding A Good Man!!!!!!!
Well said. Along with that, people want to broaden their horizons. Who doesn’t like something different. I grew up in an all black neighborhood. I was smart, came from a disciplined family, and wasn’t a thug. I didn’t smoke, drink, or do drugs. In black women’s eyes, I was no fun. Needless to say, I did well in life, had a brand new house at 23, never got married, nor had kids. I travelled, partied, and had fun. I stopped dating black women years ago. My lifestyle didn’t put me in situations where there were many black women. Growing up where I did, black girls liked guys that were hard. I was raised to be successful, not hard. I dated black women, because that was all I knew. As I broadened my horizons, other races came into play. I wasn’t expected to be hard, just me. Nothing against my sisters, sometimes life just takes you in different directions. My circle of friends don’t consist of blacks only, like when I grew up. I like women who treat me well, and like me for who I am. I don’t limit myself to any race.
Also, Patrick Mahomes wife and his own brother stay embarrassing him. So, she wasn’t a good example. Also she almost became a Low Value Woman because she was on baby mama status for minute.
You didn't just say "baby mama" did you? What, you 10. There is a name for both the mother and the child that is born out of wedlock,; it's not "baby mama". You want to be taken seriously? Quit talking like an infant.
These men have the right to choose whomever they want to date and or marry. Are there really people out there that think and say things like "your own kind" ... implying that someone's "kind" is solely based on race and not the hundreds of other factors that make people compatible with eachother? So utterly ridiculous.
Between the ages of 18-30 (a woman's physical prime to the wall) BW meet plenty of good brothers. For whatever reason they want nothing to do with them (too nice, not enough swag, not hood, nerdy, under 6'2, lame, boring, etc.)🙄 Fast forward to the wrong side of 30, three kids by Pookie, Ray Ray and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair, after gaining 100 pounds and finding God, all of a sudden, the guys they wanted nothing to do with are the ones they're praying to be sent their way.🙄 If these brothers weren't good enough to have you at your best, what makes them good enough to have you in your decline when you no longer have market value and nothing beneficial to offer?🤔 #SYSBM
Are we sensing a theme here??? Sistas have no one to be mad at but their damn selves.. Dont get mad cause she was willing to compete and won.. BW have made it crystal clear they dont feel they should have to compete... The guys who are considered lame,nerdy, corny by Sistas can go over to other communities amd have to fight them off with a stick.. Hes 6'4, athletic, intelligent cause anyone who knows knows that Notre Dame is one of the HARDEST schools in the country to get into.. Right along with Stanford.. And she got him while in college?? Where have we heard this before class???? Kevin by got damn Samuels..." If you dont want to compete for black men, Becky and Marisol WILL!!" Trae Young, Kyle Hamilton, Treylon Burks, RG3..... Oh Winter is Coming for the ABW....WINTER...IS...COMING
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq time, distance, and marriage statistics. BM and BW live and grow up together in most cases. Additionally, over 80% of BM are marrying BW. BW can't get mad when they're most BM's first pick, yet a lot of BW aren't acting the part compared to other races of women.
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq I figured you misunderstood my comment earlier and now its clear that you did. We are saying the same thing and I was agreeing with you.
Maybe we should all let go of the primitive idea that just because you're the same shade as someone they belong to you. I find it weird that we have an obsessive need to own each other just because we are the same skin color. I assume people worried about who people date that doesn't look like them seem to have insecurity issues
There was a study that showed that Black Men and Women dated White Women and Men(and vice versa) for the same reason: they got treated better by their respective partners.
The disconnect on both sides of the black community is horrible and the level of disrespect is horrible bw birth bm. I do not see other races be on a platform and bring disrespect instead of only judging by looks and color and a woman you can run over try to understand the point of view. It’s a shame black people stood together to fight for rights and then be separated like this
Black women did that through the 50s and 60s disrespecting and disconnected from black men, if we're gonna talk about the disconnect at least acknowledge the FACT that black women started this disconnect.
That young man will be an instant millionaire. White women know how to get these guys while black women running around talking about I'm a boss chick I'm strong and independent lmao. Keep with that bs pookie and ray ray gon get cha.
I am hispanic and we don not have our men disrespecting us like this. Even if they are into women of other ethnicities. I also see a lot blame going to the black women but remember that black women birth black men. This is very sad and i see it only getting worse
You don't want to compete for someone actually going somewhere but complain when he gets there without you. That's on you, not him.
Women who believe they don't have to compete for men are kidding themselves. Especially since most women want the same men lol
More like they complain when he gets there and they can’t hop on board. Most women want to wait at the finish line and pick the winner. But seeing the gf puts a stop to their hypergamy.
@@Profitglutton90 They can only do that if they're trophies. BW don't want to put in the work to be trophies, yet they still want to wait at the finish line to be picked. Make it make sense.
Facts
@@Profitglutton90 No lies detected.
Happy for him. No hate here. I wish them nothing but the best. I hope they stay clear from all this negativity and focus on them.
My thoughts exactly
U 💘 someone color doesn't matter
Our community needs to realize that that nerd or geek is what you want not the drug dealer.
Big facts
Let da communitah 🔥.. They wanna keep going after Pookie while the nerd gets scooped up by Kelly and Maria, let em..when they realize why no man will marry them, the light bulb will come on
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq y'all get bottom shelf or ran through Becky and maria not top quality Becky and maria. We are not winning.
@@georgebateman557 what's bottom self becky? lol bw look like ru paul nowadays when it was suppose to be a joke.
Yeah but the drug dealer is cool.
"His own kind"?? Give me a break, he fell in love with another human being.. Quit making everything about race..
Thank you.
Thank you!!!! Life is not that serious
@@The__Nation life not that serious? Lmao
“His own kind”…good luck finding more half Japanese half black girls. It’s pretty rare in the south, south bend,and or Baltimore lol
Walls are walls, my friend 😅😂😆
Kyle Hamilton was born in Greece, grew up in Russia and went to private catholic school in suburbs of Atlanta. You talk about him like he grew up in Marietta or something. The fact he chose to have a white GF has nothing to do with black girls dissing him or calling him a lame! People date the people in their circle...
Thank you! It’s hilarious at this point.
Yea he didn't do any research on this topic
Right. As a Notre Dame fan that has enjoyed following Hamilton through the years I was a little annoyed by that.
thank you. absolutely correct
His Mom is from South Korea, why aren’t the Korean women outraged as well?
He doesn’t relate to the American black women that are looking for scammers, rappers, drug dealers and petty hustlers.
People calling her a gold digger are wrong. Dude is 6'4, handsome, NFL athlete that went to notre dame. I am pretty sure guys like that get the top shelf women. Sadly for black women, none of them made the cut. The competition at that level is REAL.
😂😂 damn you are now the uncle with the belt 💥💥 nephew what you say💥 👍🏽😎
BW called him lame, corny etc
BW are mad because they can't compete as gold diggers. They need to be mad at their mamas for failing to teach them femininity. Boss chicks don't get alphas... they get betas and Pookies.
@@johnh8705 and that’s the issue calling niggas lame and corny but complain when they go to women that actually want them.
Heck maybe some did, but he didn't want them or vice versa. Just cause a guy is with a WW doesn't mean he don't find BW worth dating.
BW 🤡 be putting down the “pick-me’s” While White and Latina women be PICKING 🙌🏽
@Introverted Wow 🤩 you just told us the kinda BM you hanging with. You only have yourself to blame.
@Introverted Stop playing the victim! Everyone has a cross to bare 🤬
Story time: I grew up in a predominantly white area in Illinois, but there was always a good mix of black and non white people too. I played basketball pretty much my entire life. From freshman year in high school all the way up to D1 at SIU it was the white girls that went out their way to show interest in me. I met two white girls named Cindy and Sarah in my biology class freshman year. They went out there way to be cool with me before they even knew I played basketball. Once tryouts came and went, and then the season started, guess who would show up to my games with signs and t-shirts? Cindy and Sarah. Who would bring cupcakes to my locker?? Other white girls. The black girls that I had more interest in never wanted to do that. Even the black girls that had crushes on me would rather go to Bellwood and Maywood to hang with black boys that were headed down the wrong path. People act like these white girls just show up on draft day, but in reality they've been there showing support from day 1. Unfortunately, a lot of black women won't wait for you to get out or practice, games etc. A lot of them want the street/ hood dudes/ wannabes. I know countless basketball and football players that could tell the same story as mine. Black women (not all) need to compete for the black men going somewhere in life like they compete for the thugs. Otherwise they need to shut up when you see a non black woman on their arm.
Facts
I was raised in an all whyte school with maybe 20 black students. Don’t be delusional Whyte girls know where the bag may potentially be at. They smell it a mile away. My best friend was a whyte girl and she admitted to me a blak girl that she only dates black athletes cause they are mostl likely to end up professional. I’m a black girl who dated whyte and blk boys at the time. I’m no fool when it comes to whyte people. Date who you date but my husband said I’m the nicest black girl he has ever met . All the whyte girls he dated started off nice but ended up crazy. So black girls might be mean in the beginning but we take damn good care of our men when they doing their part. Cook clean take care of the home. I have yet to know a mean black wife with a Husband that treats her good. Black or white
Truth Is Truth
@@michelleloving525 what does that have to do with this comment?
You are completely missing his point.
His point is that If BW want NFL athletes, they need to compete. And they need to compete through showing the same level of interest these other women will. A BW finds it strange to wear a t-shirt of one of these guys, or to bring him cupcakes. That’s his point.
He never said that the women aren’t doing what’s best for them, that’s what women are supposed to do. BW are the group who don’t do this the most, with the rate y’all pick criminals
@@michelleloving525 the fact you keep spelling white that way is weird. The fact that white women can smell the bag is not the point. The point is they do the things to have their white ass on Tv siting next to him while he gets drafted. They play their part and play their role, and not try to match his shine or share spotlight. We want Savannah James , not Ayiesha Curry.
Being friendly and nice and cooperative goes a long way
I'm glad you're putting this out there. At the end of the day, you can't shoot the messenger, because the writing was already on the wall. Shahrazad Ali, and other well spoken people warned our woman not to go the route they're going.
A long as time ago, in they still won’t listen.
@@xXAtiqXx then let them fall. Get ya popcorn. 🍿 🍿
What is the writing on the wall saying, because this guy went to Notre Dam if I am not mistaken. He chose the woman in his eye sight, and you better believe she made sure she got in his eye sight. Some men have a type, and no matter how perfect or unproblematic some black women are it will not deter a man who chooses white women as his preference. That dude got white girl latte all over his face. Who is really surprised he’s with a white woman.
PREACH......Peace
@@nadia4999 I'm not surprised at all
To all the BW crying and complaining, where were you at when these black men were in college? When he was in the library every day? WHERE WERE YOU AT?! BW were in the clubs, shaking their asses for men that aren’t S#%* today! You wasted your youth on Pookie and Ray Ray and now you’re mad that Pointdexter made it and is with other groups of women that valued and appreciated him back when he didn’t have anything and was on his way up while BW ignored him. You should be mad at your DAMN selves!
Thank you. Took the words right out my mouth. While he was busting his ass on the field and the library, his white girlfriend/fiance was there by his side. While the black women was going after the pro aspects and rappers
Question is why are the Weave Walkers complaining, I thought they where supposed to be "divesting"⁉️🤣🤣🤣🤣
They were talking shit about him or standing in the corner not coming up to him shooting her shot.
Couldn't have said it better myself
Say it again Preacher!!!
That's true... yt woman move with a purpose to find a husband. They start scouting around junior year in high school (many of the yt girls back when I was in HS ended up marrying right after school or getting engaged in college). Meanwhile, blk women only wanted to party and turn up or join sororities for clout. In HS the blk girls talked about going to college parties, what they wanted to study, and joining a sorority. Marriage was not on her mind. A vast majority of the blk girls I grew up with or experienced simply wanted to get away from their mothers because they were tired of living with their mother's.
However, in college both YT women and blk women were equally getting ran through, but the YT women definitely had an endgame to get married. Sadly, the blk women were just getting ran through.
BW been ran thru since slavery, and BM were conditioned to be bucks and step n fetchin… ain’t nothing changed but snow loving devils like yourself uplift the white man’s seed and praise him for his accomplishments
Daddy didn't marry a black woman (Asian mother) and so I don't expect him to either
Good point
And you know Asian mothers dont duck around when it comes to their sons.. How much you wanna bet mom vetted the F outta her
🐯 Tiger Woods 🐯 2.0. I hope he is not foolish enough to trade in a Leviticus 21:13 Tesla for 13 Box Chevy Waffle 🧇 House chicks by believing quantity trumps quality.
Like daddy like son. He is not with a Asian chick as well
@@imlistening3689 that's right damn
I saw his first press conference when he was being introduced to the Organization. Reporters asked him about the handshake and he said they made it up on his junior year of high school. Also, they started dating each other during Sophomore year of high school. She been with this guy for a while and most likely before he was noticed as a great athlete. Good for him!!! 👍🏿
She was with him before he was noticed? Come on now don’t lie to yourself like that. He’s in college playing football. Any athlete in college has the potential to go pro. It don’t take a mastermind to realize to try to get on as early as possible. He liked her enough to get at her, and she wasn’t slow enough to regret him. Simple.
@@nadia4999 He said they started dating when he was Sophomore in HIGH SCHOOL. It was before he was even a college athlete.
@@tyroneramirez5577 he was always athletic even in high school. Athletes for the most part are prized possession. Most girls want an athlete, so to snag one early you know to have that “whatever you like” mentality. She was not slow. She followed him to his college choice of Notre Dam. She was not about to take the chances of another white woman stealing her man. The fear of a black woman taking him from her is so far from her mind.
Tyrone Ramirez that handshake isn’t even in the white community. So he didn’t make up anything. He’s mixed once they start having children that child would be practically white. I hope his black parent is proud. Her or she successful wean themselves out.
@@nadia4999 well much respect for her for putting in that work early as possible. If black women want these men they need to put in work too. Becky is running circles over them to pursue these black athletes.
"This is the kind of blonde, that a lot of black guys are scared to be around cause you might get arrested..." You're hilarious!!😁😁
Lol. The type of blonde...if the skin is white period...
ODJ, that breakdown of her being willing to learn a handshake with her man was on point.
I went to a PWI, but hung out the black students and couples enough.
I don't remember seeing 1 black couple with a handshake.
That handshake represents friendship first and romantic love second which makes the strongest of bonds.
you known that was ghetto behaviour right
You put a whole lot of value in a handshake... I don't recall seeing women like her caping for Black men in crisis.
@@tipsims5997 I don't recall seeing Black !Women caping for Black men in crisis either.
@@tipsims5997 y’all don’t either en mass sunshine
The photo of the white girlfriend staring at the grandma is so hilarious. If checkmate was a face expression 🤣😆
the big issues that i have seen, is that black women believes that black men would only choose black women regardless how thry treat them. but when black men realize or are being appreciated, they tend to lean on that. and to my opinion, it is not a black thing(it's a man thing), they tend to go with the women that appreciates them. plain and simple
The woman (color optional) that gives a Man the GFE (girlfriend experience) NOW is showing him what he will get as a wife LATER. Peace, Femininity, Submission & Loyalty will WIN every time. 👍🏾💯🇺🇸
No tf we don’t. It’s 2022. Everyone knows what bm preference. And I didn’t even see anyone mad. Like
@@melanatedFTM i believe that a man needs are very simple. But women over all want and expect more from a man. i am saying this because as a Hispanic, i am looking for a woman that appreciates me regardless of race. i want to feel wanted and appreciated as a man, not as a object that brings security in their lives.
@@rainiselena4572 You must not be on Twitter or Instagram then. Thousands upon thousands of bw hating in the comments section. Stay salty
@@rainiselena4572 well you are entitle to your opinion. but i made my comment on experience and numbers i researched on the community. your facts may differ from mine but i stand with what i said and at the end of the day is not about color nor race, it's about woman and man thing. i dont know where you from, but i seen this personally
One thing I notice is that they support them before they make it big. They see potential in brothers when they are trying to come up.
So did LeBron James' wife
Only if black men would do the same with black woman. You all will financially used black women and when you become successful, then you push that same black woman aside. I'd seen it happen so many times. And, that's why black women are done with you all. Btw, white men are more in control of the economy. The majority of U.S. businesses are small, relatively new and owned by white American men.
It's what Kevin said it was: 1. Fit 2. Feminine 3. Friendly 4. Cooperative & 5.Submissive
The Man's words live on even in his death. And we will keep them living on.
Word up
Basically date everyone that's not black but still uplifting black men. 😂. Breed yourselves out 😂.
Yeah it's not even a racial thing. I live in an area that is predominantly white and there are a ton of white girls around here who have serious attitude problems. No man wants to come home to a ungrateful wife he's got to fight with every night.
@@OrionGuided Facts!
@@lindavelo3103 No! Date black women that fit those criteria, and the ones that don’t will weed themselves out
It's like some women don't get it how do you think that woman got that man not by being loud rude masculine ungrateful horrible attitude yeah I can guarantee you that she's giving you all the blueprint but y'all don't want to follow directions ✌️
Kyle Hamilton high school 98% Europeans😂😭nigga never been Black women entire life listen him can’t get Black women no personality Heard talk knew he from European populated schools Same Patrick Mahomes they square listen Mahomes no black women be him see him as Square
She got that “type” of man simply by being a white woman with blonde hair. She got that type of man because she probably comes from an already well to do family, so he paired up with someone he felt more compatible with. She has no reason to be loud when everyone holds her as “classic beauty.” She has no reason to be masculine, because from a little girl she had a daddy who showed her that a man is supposed to take care of you. Must I continue with the “blueprint”
@@nadia4999 there y'all go with that b******* and I have nothing to do with her race it's called knowing your roll that's something some black women don't understand until then guess what y'all going to be in last place and constantly making up excuses I seen plenty of black women get with you professional athletes you know why because they were fit feminine and they knew they roll the one on that I'm a queen bullshit
So true.
I say this all the time to women. How the hell an a woman of any race that's not black can come to America and get a brother with means? And these girls have no fat ass and tits! How. Because they give them that feeling that addicts get from shooting up! That feeling no ther can give. That's why they losing.
This topic is stale at this point but...
With Black Women often times its about your glass being half empty. With White women they see glass half full.
Solid Point! 👍🏾
They possess Godly Character; by which they truly walk by faith vs foolishly waiting at the finish line with an out of commission, used juice 🧃 box that nobody in their right mind; except for Will Smith, Kanye West, and Scottie Pippen, is really foolish enough to desire to pay full price for a used and abused defunct virtuous portal.
BW care more about looks and swag. Feminine women actually want to be prettier than their men, not Bee Dubs.
@@KtotheG So, you are saying that white women are "feminine" and black are "masculine" and therefore we should collectively go after white women as black men ?
@@chrisman3431 😁... I like trolling Bee Dubs. Generally, BW are not very feminine and a good bit of WW aren't feminine, either.. but regardless of race, feminine women tend to prefer to be the pretty one in the relationship. Since Bee Dubs are so masculine, they prefer men to be better looking than them. I know you seen it, when you view various couples. Or just by paying attention to females. I know you see the ones who are hyper focused on "male beauty" as opposed to the ones who focus more on character, ambition and personality. The differences between those two types of females are as clear as day.
Nun wrong with dating whoever submits and doesn’t give u headaches. Older BW are to blame for the younger Bw not being able to see potential in men.
They don't want to blame their mothers, dawg... they'd rather perish alone before they did that... mama can do no wrong. smh
@@KtotheG Truest words i’ve read in any thread on this subject. It’s a lot of brothas that can’t blame mom for the turmoil they experienced either because BW is God like young pharaoh n all them hotep hustler say
They teach young bw to be independent. I use to here some older women say get your degree house and car. Don’t worry about a man.
@@TiburonCap Yup, but they have no problem blaming dad, though. The issue I have with that is that mama doesn't submit to dad, so how can dad be responsible? The man is only responsible and accountable to the woman in a PATRIARCHY. We don't have a patriarchy and these fefails don't want that system of rule or governance. We have a de facto matriarchy actually. They wanted the power and the authority over the home and the community, which they assumed via help from the government, but they want none of the accountability and responsibility that goes with it... I say BULLSHIT. This is why I continue to remind them that we're a matriarchy and not a patriarchy. But they don't want to deal with facts, just feelings.
@@leroygreen5263 Mothers in the hood taught them to be 304s, too. I was around them as a boy and I heard it and saw it. I watched older BW discourage femininity out of little girls and admonish them for being "too nice" to boys or for "smiling in their faces." I literally witnessed it on my big wheel and tricycles. I heard them tell their daughters and other little girls to make sure you get some money out of a boy if he likes you. What is that other than 304 training? They didn't mold them to be wives. They didn't teach them manners or etiquette nor how to cook and properly dress like a lady. My mom, on the other hand, was a little bit better, because she taught my sister how to cook, clean, sit with a dress/skirt on, curtsey, use manners and act like a lady. Hood chicks didn't get that training, other than preparation for the track, OF, IG and the strip clubs. I spent time in the hood and suburbs, so I got to observe both worlds.
Back in the day I was struggling. Just out of college and trying to start my career. Being young, of course I wanted to find a woman. NONE of the Black women I was interested in gave me a shot. The one who took a chance was a White woman. Not only did she stick with me thru HARD times, she’s still with me. And that was 35 years ago. Along the way, I’ve run into several Black women who have issues. Didn’t want me then - but mad now that I’ve made it and my wifey is White. They had their chance.
God bless you and your wife. Sounds like you are a great team.
right. it's all about how a woman treats you. you cannot expect a good husband to just be assigned to you, you have to be a good partner yourself or you miss out.
a lot of people just expect to show up when the hard work is done to participate in the rewards. that is not realistic even if it sometimes happens. yo u mostly need to invest on the ground floor to be there when the guy comes into his own!
good post!
As a ravens fan, I wish him nothing but the best. GO RAVENS!
I must throw salt... as a Steelers fan🧂🧂🧂🤣🤣🤣
Looking forward to 2022 season!
Go #Ravens
Well put. What you value will eventually reward you…
Bottom line!!!
Hamilton has to beat out Chuck Clark for the starting Strong Safety position. Should be very interesting battle.
First of all, the kid is a fantastic player, who has All-Pro potential. The kid went to Notre Dame, white women love ballplayers. It was easy for him to find her, or for her to find him
They actually go to the games, watch them, cheer and know the rules...
@@KtotheG My point is, Young Miami from the City Girls never had a snowballs chance in hell. It's no women like her at Notre Dame, so why are they mad?🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lol
Wat o said u saying it. Lol.
Facts! Look at the playoffs and see the QB wives. They are very supportive.
@@Muk310 they've actually been together since sophomore year of high school. They didn't meet at Notre Dame
You nailed it Sir Oshay when you said: "authority figure." Too many of OUR women refuse to accept their place either within the marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. 👍👌
BM could help them by ignoring their asses. Stop entertaining their shaming tactics and bad faith arguments. Ridicule them if you must, but ignoring them is best, especially if they aren't servicing you.
@@KtotheG Well stated bruh! 👏 ✌️
Technically, they’re not Our women. No one inherently belongs to anyone.
not my women.
@One shot deal I know, and it's mainly due to single motherhood. I guess because I never believed in divorce, I never saw my single mom as a victim, because she initiated it and filed for it. And also because she was so abusive and selfish, I never worshipped her nor sympathized with her all that much. She chose our situation. Plus, I was born an independent thinker who always resisted bullshit that never made sense, no matter who said it. I couldn't be emasculated nor made into a "son-husband." But apparently, a lot of these dudes fell prey to that conditioning. It's really sad. It's the reason why they worship these fefails and follow them as thought leaders. Plus, when you consider that today's pro-black theology consists mainly of BW worship, a lot of brothers simply get hoodwinked. Feminism and the idea of female superiority never made sense to me logically... or maybe I'm just too big of a chauvinist? Or maybe I studied how matriarchies have never been successful at any point in world history? Either way, I know that the current paradigm in Black America is dysfunctional and toxic. It's not working and if we really want to see a change, we as men cannot continue to let the other half manipulate and dominate us, because that's what it is when you let them control your mind. It's complete domination and subjection.
I bet she is submissive and didn’t want to wait at the finish line.
OSHAY! This video hits THE NAIL ON THE HEAD! I’ve dated MANY Black women but the one woman that helped me the most with my career was a WHITE WOMAN. It didn’t work out between us but I will NEVER forget her.
Kyle Hamilton is the best safety prospect I've seen in YEARS and will do absolute wonders in Baltimore. He can do whatever he wants.
Really, Mr. Any Given Sunday?
Yup ....we here in Baltimore love the pick , thanks 👍
Kyle Hamilton is biracial. American Black and South Korean.
Facts that’s true
Playing devil's advocate... What does that matter? He's still seen as a black man.
Lol at first, I thought he was half black/half Samoan like Dwayne Johnson.
@@scrbroadcast what does what "hes seen as" have to do with his DNA?
@@scrbroadcast it means that why do you expect him to pick a bw when his mother’s not? Bw expect mixed dudes to still pick bw even if their mother isn’t black
Gotta call you out for one thing Oshay. Can we stop acting like all black athletes are from the "hood". Kyle is most definitely not from the hood. He was born in Greece where his dad played pro basketball, grew up in the suburbs of atlanta, attended a predominately white private high school then went to a predominately white college. I guarantee you he spent more time around white people growing up than he did black people. Also the kid has been a star player since pop warner I guarantee you no one thought he was lame
I mean the kid is also biracial. So, he pretty much assimilated into white culture. And his kids are going to be white too
Your the first person who made any sense. He was more than likely going to be with a white girl because he wasn’t was raised in a black environment. Also every girl in that photo was white. Why were they even there, it was like a fan club almost.
That narrative wouldn't draw the eyes this does.
@@chrisman3431 Please tell the people. Like ray Charles could of seen that.
@@nadia4999 And Stevie Wonder too but Shaquille O'Neal think Stevie can see lol 🤣
" he is just with her because he can't handle a strong @*@&^# woman" " he is a sell out" " he is weak" " he is an educated lame" " she will let him walk all over her" just a few from their play book lol
That playbook got tattered and faded pages. (Useless at best)
You mean he refuses to deal with a strong @*@&^# fool!
strong @*@&^# woman is another term for Combative, Masculine, Chaotic, Crazy, and displaying Manic behavior at all times!
No peace in the house or in the relationship, who the hell wants to deal with that?...Nobody!
strong @*@&^# woman" is another way to condone a black woman's crazy A** behavior, and she only does this to black men!
I handle money, I handle dogs,I handle business, and I handle a lot of things but a woman I don't handle that get your ass in line or get out
You forgot small D energy and his momma black...even though his momma white lol
@@leonblack7637 lol
It’s difficult to reject a loving and kind attractive woman who has been there when struggling in college. It’s a wonderful feeling to feel that level of respect.
Two human beings met, got along, and get into a relationship. That's about all I see in it period. The more people comingle the more color becomes irrelevant when it comes to attraction. Men are men and women are women. The color doesn't matter as much as what your experiences are, where and how your were raised. The reason we are seeing more interracial relationships is because there are more opportunities for them to happen now days. More minorities are going to school, becoming professionals and being exposed to more people period. I love it. Date who you want and fall in love with who you want. That makes for a great society. It's really that simple.
Exactly!! They met, fell in love. What's the issue here. Smh
Wrong. Interracial marriages have remained literally the same for all races and genders except for black men and white woman. Black men are driving interracial relationships up the roof.
something needs to start happening fast in the black community because what's going on now is unsustainable
I advocate that single mothers give up custody... several years ago, they had these big give up your guns movements in the hood in order to curb violence... we need to do that with single mothers and tell them to give up their kids, either to the fathers, or willing families who will adopt them. Fuck what anyone says, but they are horrible parents. People are angry and it's because of the abuse and how they were raised.
@@KtotheG or and this is just me thinking out the box..stop getting pregnant as a single woman and stop getting a single woman pregnant!...there is a this thing called birth control that if used properly will halt the need for someone else raising another person's responsibility
Its over, popped!
We done. In a couple generations most FBA will be 1/4th black and the American government won’t feel obligated to give us reparations.
WS wins. That’s the endgame unless us black men change the system in the next 100 years.
Gonna be like Mexico. There are mestizo(mixed) people walking around that just mix with the white/Spanish population. A lot of those “white” looking Mexicans have significant native DNA. SWP called it a long time ago. There will be a beige class and they’ll be a lot more diverse. Athletes, entertainers, professionals whatever they want as they will have less cultural baggage or pull to ONLY be what’s respected in the streets. Ultimately they’re be more free 🤷🏾♂️
Note to black women. As well as being attractive. The more feminine you are the more playful you are, the more accepting you are, the more all around fun you are, the more submissive you are, the better your chances are at securing a black man(or any man for that matter)
dude...my husband is swiss...and he complains about white women all the time...my mother in law is rude to her husband...yall is tripping. my husband and i have fun...he helps me do my hair...stop playing with black women and saying we are not playful.
Note to black men, be more accountable for your actions.
@@nondumisogasser7155 .. he was saying the majority, what is not clicking.
@@navyvet8544 not a problem. We are on it.. been a major reduction in children without marriage and more focus on success in the trades and business. Trying to wipe the femamine habits from single mom raised men currently. What other focus do you see necessary
@@vanderumd11 i am telling you white woman are not playful...what is that not clicking? i am a female...who had white friends and no, that is a lie from hell... i agree that white females are feminine but not playful at all. Black people in general are more playful and fun across the diaspora...that white woman may be responding to her husbands energy but you guys are really trying place white woman in this pedestal that they are not...white woman in spirit are generally arrogant.
May the best woman WIN regardless of her color I'm a 53 year old black man grew up in a suburbs went to an all white high school learning about the white culture I was living in the mothers of that culture . Teaches their daughters how to groom themselves how to position themselves in life to find them a good man basically she teaches her daughters how to compete for companionship something that the single black mothers don't do this is why one out of every four black women will ever get married
Kevin Samuels says it best…Fit/Feminine/Friendly/Cooperative & SUBMISSIVE.
Those Ladies (color optional but usually White is what you see) get the Prize (the Man w/The Bag)
Single mothers teach their daughters how to be pros-ti-tutes.
They won't get married but they will get knocked up that way, they can secure the bag from their real husband the Government.
Section8 housing, food stamps (Oh wait EBT cards) maybe some vocational training somewhere, free health and childcare.
Who can beat that and she doesn't have to have that pesky black man around, telling her what to do all the time.
@@TheTruthcometh Bruce Hornsby said right somethings will never change lamo
Or if they do get married it's going to be to a pokie or ray ray.
His own kind ? She's human he's human. Love has NO colors, no boundaries. As long as they are happy I'm happy for them. We need to stop this race shit. There is only One race the human race.
For real this dude sounds racist as shit
Long as dude happy that's all that's matter, you mad get over it 😂🤣😂 I love it.
Great video!! And I've been saying it for years I tell all my buddies look at NFL and NBA drafts and tell me who do you see with the athletes? Mostly WW
It's not about color. Once BW realize that, they might be able to compete.
If there's something wrong with that next question
No. Most bm athletes are with bw. They just focus on and highlight the bm with ww.
There is definitely some truth to that
@@markquinn1216 He is just highlighting this to get y'all to comment. He knew that a black couple wouldn't draw any attention.
Man, you're killing it lately bruh. What a lot of BW dont understand, is that a lot of (Educated Black men) dont date white women because they are white. We search, look, and are often denied for the most asinine reasons, and you grow tight with women that show consistent love, care, and respect, it's that simple. As Oshay stated, these women present as feminine, cooperative, AND trustworthy. White female athletes have always been interested in black male athletes, you can tell she plays sports and digs the sports culture i.e. the handshake, this makes her a catch in my eyes.
Agreed
Agree
BW are the ones who are color-struck. Don't let them gaslight you or make guilty projections. They get very specific with their physical requirements... all the way down to the beard design and the iris color.
Facts
@@KtotheG 💯💯💯
Go Irish! Kids a stud! Loved watching him @ Notre Dame. His dad is black and his mom is Asian. Who cares let him do what he wants
I'm a USC fan but this young man is special. I hope and pray he stays healthy and have a long NFL career.
I saw that at the draft.
@@TheOlmonroe1 Hopefully USC can turn it around with the new coach and restore this rivalry to its former prestige
@@marvl6472 That's what BW love to say so they can't be upset.
@@jacquesthebeux7212 Looking forward to the upcoming season. Good luck to ND with their new coach.
It's called freedom. It's called love. Deal with it.
Omg thank you!.
The same people that cry about racism also cry when races mix 😂😂 make up your minds
I think some people are mad because it's not them up there 🤣
shit ima dude and I'm mad I'm not up there lmao
People really are not that upset, but it is entertaining and something to just talk about.
Like KS said, BW still haven't realized after all this time that men will go down in the looks category to go up in the submissive and feminine catergory. But get the bag, be a boss b****, and have a hot girl summer "Sis". AND Roe v Wade just got overturned smh it's about to get SO real outchea (Rick Flair voice) WOOOOOOOO!
I'm glad Roe v Wade was overturned... I was never for it anyway.
You see this girls?? ONLY feminime fit cooperative lady that can get a HVM -kevin samuels
Wishing this attractive young couple much happiness and many blessings.
I've never had an issue with people that are in interracial relationships. The only time I have a problem is when a person chooses to inclusively date outside their race while bad mouthing men and women of their race. Example a black man that dates only white women and boast that he does so because black women have bad tempers and attitudes when we all know that does not apply to all black women. Other than that Love whoever you want to love and be with whoever makes you happy.
@Yellow Ranger I think you either misread my comment or didn't understand it. I'm saying I don't like when Blk men use the stereotype excuses that black women have bad tempers and attitudes as an justification for dating outside of their race. I'm not saying they d but that is often said by some.
Cute couple! I definitely think interracial dating is going to increase in the black community in the next couple years.
By 2050 half of the worlds population will by bi-racial; by which CNN will have hard trying to keep racism a mainstream topic when the facts, data, and statistics will no longer support.
As a result, the only ones who will be crying wolf will be the uneducated, criminals, and mother of bastard children out of wedlock who will find it hard to keep a job because of not having a stable home environment to raise her kids; has Roe vs Wade will not be there for her to erase her Hot Girl Summer Living My Best Life sexcapades. 😂
Too late it already has
@@65May2 True but it's going to increase. Especially on the bw side.
Agree 100%
@@groovy777 Doubt it. Unless bw change their attitudes they will continue to be the least desired. Nobody wants to deal with them long term
ODJ you hear bout the Atlanta lady who shot a teenager with her 3 kids in the back seat while road raging??!!!
Matt From Tinder it's called the one drop rule see the community claims anyone that's half like Colin Kaepernick because they wanted to be accepted by everybody
Why? 🤔
yep
Violence in Bee Dubs is increasing... ever since the pandemic started, I see their face on the news daily.
Straight hood booger.
Chinese general, military strategist Sun Tzu said "Know the enemy and know yourself in a hundred battles you will never be in peril." This is why I sometimes visit Chrissie & Cynthia G channel to gage how Black women are currently thinking. I'm about to go there now cause I know they are both crying and whining about this particular matter
Biracial men are so handsome.
Many biracial men are indeed handsome, especially this Kyle Hamilton person.
@@icecreamcake1457
Yes, I cannot breath from those yellow men approaching me all the time in public.
@@icecreamcake1457 Sure he is. He knows his worth as a biracial man and he went with the pinnacle of beauty.
They're also very intelligent and aware. He knows a bw would drag his image through the mud.
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v
I'm sure someone will pray for you.
They didn't want him when he was trading those Pokemon after practice 😂
Yep 👍🏽 😂
I’m happy for him. He made the right choice. In the NFL or any sector of the community, get you a submissive wife if you want to be successful.
Who said all WW are submissive?
@ Amo Dog9 how do you know she is submissive? You folks with your Becky worshiping is ridiculous.
@@kind2423 only the one he got...lol
They aren't and prey on self-loathing Black men talking about submissive white women when she's only with the brothas just to get money of him and use her whiteness to get stuff if the Black dude isn't a bum. Basically those Black dudes are submissive to white women and don't or can't see it.
and someone pleasant enough to bring around your teammates, coaches, events, and wont embarass you or your fam
Bro you 2000 % right, I gave up on sisters a long time ago, after seeing all the hell my uncles, brothers, and friends went threw, I bounced, not that I'm more attracted to other race women, they just treat you different, imbnot attracted to white women at all, simply because of all the racist hell there race have and still to this day putting our people threw, black women is all about the bag, no love in their hearts, they love what you can do for them, and that is the main reason why brothers go to other races, I'm more attracted to Latino women because they appreciate you, they don't leave you when your down on your luck, they help you get back non your feet, sisters need a lot of therapy, they act more like the man in a relationship, and brothers ain't haven't that, you have a few Will Smiths and Kanye's but most brothers are going with the women who respects and treat them right. All you see on Facebook and these social media platforms is these fake ass sisters who don't want to be wife's are mothers, jesabels.
I feel sorry for the boys who are being raised in those single mother households... smh... I can only imagine the pain and torture they're experiencing.
YOU PROBABLY HAD 1 BAD EXPERIENCE WITH A BW THEN YOU WROTE US ALL OFF, GTFOH, I REMEBER THE NIGERIAN BLACK MAN THAT DISSED US BW IT WAS HIS BLONDE ONLY FANS GF THAT TOOK HIS LIFE
@@slinkiegirl2001 wow same could be said for both black men and women both get murdered what about those women who got killed by those online killers that got set up on the date.
You hit the nail right on the head The Counselor Ace.
For black women, it's all about the bag because their mothers failed them growing up as girl's, oftentimes they had no Male authority in their homes.
On some occasions when there was a male authority in their homes, he was emaculated and dominated by big her mother.
Post slavery we never received any mental health care so as a result, the black women only know how to be chaotic, masculine, and combative.
She only behaves this way towards the black man, all other men she's on her best behavior.
@@slinkiegirl2001 you big mad 🤭
Yall have to admit and you too oshay that handshake they got was cool and if you notice she didn't slip up or make a mistake like it's something they been doing ...I like my women always black but I happy for them...let them be mad they didn't compete for him so ummm..yea 🤷♂️...lol also if you look at the handshake the speed she moved compared to him like she was leading it ..I won't be surprised if she the one made it up 🤣🤣🤣
she probably did lol. I can dig it
@@LegendRonk lol
I was always a athlete in school football/basketball and I honestly have dated numerous races but I aint NEVER AND NEVER WILL turn my back on my beautiful black queens! ✊🏾
Maybe you need to treat yourself one day then come back here and let us know how it was.
@@johnhammond3556 huh!?... What u talkin bout Willis!?
@@antoniojames3617 What I'm talking about is....get yourself a White woman (not ones that the White boys don't want)...a FINE one. get with her for a year or two if you can handle her...then let everyone on here know how the relationship was.
@@johnhammond3556 🤣🤣 Had those before and quite frankly for me, that aint my thang brother... If I might toot my own horn for a second ALL the women I date are top tier and it aint a white woman fine enough to make me leave sisters alone. I just feel like they can't relate to where I'm from is all I'm sayin 🤷🏾♂️
@@antoniojames3617 To each his/her own.
BW failed to latch onto a guy as he was working towards his goal. She wasn't there to support and nurture him. Now that it's revealed that him and the white girl were together since high school and she just didn't pop up when his time to hit the big leagues arrived. She deserves to be with him, she put in the time and effort, what type of men were the bw chasing after if they were in the same schools that he attended and why didn't they see the potential in him to be in a relationship with him. They can't get mad at him, let them be angry with themselves for not being able to see him as a worthwhile future mate instead of running after the bad boys. He probably got dissed and turned down by a lot of bw before the ww got with him.
you can't get angry at someones preference
Agreed ! But only they can have a preference. You know they have no accountability 😂😂😂
@@Tag6488 exactly
White women can spot potential. Black women want the finished product. At this point I have no sympathy for Shaniqua. Umar Johnson is right on this topic.
Once you leave survival mode you cant stay where people are in that mode. That's why they say everybody cant go. When you leave your options are limited as a black woman or man. But everyone you left behind is judging you off unhealthy emotions which is why you left in the first place.
This is more proof that brothers are starting to see that black women are their true enemies. I mean they grew up seeing it with their own eyes. They are starting to accept the reality that they are living in. Let momma and grandma get mad. Focus on your happiness.
his half Korean. His momma is Korean and they don't play with their sons.
Just saw a video about the black high school student who lost her college scholarship for posing on social media with guns in her prom photo. That in a nutshell is why people outside the hood do not want them lol.
I saw that plus other prom pics of kids posing with guns. What the HELL is up with that? Who was the clown that said that was a good idea?
@@TheRawledawg A lot of Hesse kid’s favorite music artists are really on that ratchet and thug lifestyle tip. Look at the most popular artists from Lil Durk to the City Girls. A lot of these rappers have died from gun violence as well. This is the result of glorifying a violent and corrupt lifestyle.
White high school people do it for prom all the time and it’s called the right to bear arms. Black people are so hard on each other while subconsciously giving white people a pass. So much inner work to do. We even see each other as thugs. The media has done such a good job at painting all black people as bad that even black people try to stay away from each other.
@@tjandcj123 No. This is what’s wrong with your argument: she is underage and not licensed to carry a firearm in public. If she is not a legal adult, she doesn’t have the full set of rights than an adult American citizen has. Whether right or wrong, she is seen as the property of her parents or legal guardian. We also live in a climate where we have had many school shootings. The media isn’t the root issue for our community. That’s a deflection tactic. It’s not working. If anything, we are not hard enough on one another. All of the excuse making and pandering are ultimately a sign of a lack of personal responsibility. That’s the real reason why we can’t really fit into mainstream society. This is what happens when you allow women to dominate a community.
@@brandnew9834 so why are black men letting their women dominate the community. I have never heard another race of men say “this is what happens when you let women dominate the community “ Take your place as a leader and as a man. I don’t understand how black men blame women for everything that’s wrong with them
Frankly many black men are tired of the masculine energy most black women bring to a relationship. Also black men are tired of being told that they are the problem in our communities, and are tired of seeing 80% of black women today wanting to head single parent households. 51% of black men are single and childless, and 33% are married. That means these black women are pretty much getting pregnant by the same 16% of men. Women have 9 different contraception choices while men have two. If a women gets pregnant today that means she wants to. Worse, black women have standardized themselves out of the market with unrealistic ideals, are overweight and obese, and are making style and fashion choices that are unappealing to many if not most black men.
Well, it can't be said any better than that!
Many black women think that black men shouldn't have any other choices in life, but to deal with their Masculine, chaotic, combative behavior.
Now let us be honest this guy may not even make the team, just because your drafted doesn't mean you're on the team. Being on the team does not become official until you actually sign the contract and if he gets cut somewhere down the line, how is this white girl going to feel about him them?
Still, who wants to deal with crazy 24/7/ 365?...Nobody!
Go get Becky take them all we want all their men anyway. Bw are increasingly date wm
@@TheTruthcometh Right. I refuse to wake up every day to a female headache..
Well said, brother. Well said.
@@michelleloving525 And there you have it. Black women cheered when Serena Williams married a white man, but continue to vilify black men who date and marry out. BW are very comfortable listing and demanding their standards, but when a black man such as Cam Newton lists his standards he is SIGN-ed (shame, insults, guilt, and BW's need to be right), called gay, some kind of "ist", some sort of "obic", or is called toxic. That is the insecurity of BW's.
No tattoos and no weave! How great that is! I’m happy for them.
Kyle Hamilton is mixed bro, his Father is Black his Mother is Korean. I come from mixed family too, and i married a mixed Chinese women, same as my Mum. Its only a big deal in America because Americans are infatuated with race. You most likely find a lot white dudes are attracted to women of color. Shit they love those latina's
We most certainly have greater issues in the black community than this stagnant conversation.
As a black, single, college educated woman with no kids I'm disgusted at the comments about bw. The generalizations are ridiculous. At this point I'm going to need BM to realize that we grew up with the same disadvantages, stereotypes, and single parent homes. I myself grew up a in two parent home with both of my biological parents, but it was full of familial dysfunction due to my dad's infidelity. My dad is 63 and says himself that he still does not know why he did half the things he did in his marriage. People need to understand alot of bw are masculine because we do have to take care of ourselves, protect ourselves, perform twice as hard to be noticed professionally. BM deal with their set of issues as well. We all came from the same disadvantaged culture. Making it despite all odds. Marry who you want. Pick your preference. But do not compare me to non-black woman that never had to live in fear or work twice as hard due to white privilege. If you never had to struggle or work hard or combat stereotypes on a daily I guess it's easy to walk around fun, fit, and friendly. Yall marry your preference but when she stabs you to death and the all white jury decides she is innocent due to self defense and/or insanity keep that same energy. Willie Lynch did a good job on us colored folks. We the only race of people drinking the kool-aid that got us divided and against each other whether it's gender, skin tone, class, education, status, hair texture. It's like if you black it's best we blame each other and pick at each other. Let's continue the divide, because at this point black people don't know what coming together look like. Uplift them good ol' white folks after they pappas done raped the bw and massay bucked our black men. Yall all ignorant and dumb. Oshay I'm disgusted with you on this one.
Stop making excuses that's why y'all are losing
@@jermaineburgess3767 No we all losing collectively as a race. Most are missing the picture. So I digress...
As a black man married to a black woman, I don't really disagree with O'Shea Duke Jackson on this one. The funny thing about all this is that black woman is a hole don't want to be submissive. And if they see a white woman hooking up with a black man they flip out. I seen my wife do it almost everyday. Hell, I have to remind her that she did in fact marry a black man LOL. The problem is that they are their emotions.
@@jermainethigpen2531 sir and I can say as whole that black men are disrespectful, unfaithful, and absentee fathers. Then you'll have BM say give us something to respect well sirs give BW something to submit to. You are missing the point I personally don't care if someone chooses to date a non black women but don't categorize as a whole. The same way BM tell BW choose better well then BM need to choose better if that means dating outside their race so be it. However, don't say it's because all black women are this or that. When as whole it's slim pickings for educated BW that are self sufficient to began with unless BW date down. You say are married to a BW then sir please ensure if you have children then teach your sons how to be men that can grow up and be good husbands. Teach your daughters how to be good women that can grow up to be wives. My whole case and point is there is alot of blaming between BM and BW when many of us did not grow up in environments that showed us or taught what healthy relationships look like between men and women. I see alot videos geared towards women doing the work. But when you follow and listen to married black men that are life coaches such as RC Blake and Tony Gaskins they say all the time these men are not showing up to do the work on themselves when many of them grew up in the same broken homes. I have literally had man come in my home and tell me "the average will come in here and feel not needed." I asked "why?" This man told because I got everything. He made analysis that I had no need for a man based on observation of how I lived and how I kept my home. Sir... I'm seeing it too much with my single friends that are well rounded with no kids. I don't hang out with rude, loud, ghetto women that are loose. Many BW are leveling up, doing the work on ourselves and out here trying live right, but unfortunately with most men that don't know who they are and are still struggling past the age of 35 to figure out they can't deal. I'm patient and kind to the men I've dated. Many of them had to come back and say I'm sorry...take me back but the bus moved on sir. My health and emotional well being will not tolerate a grown boy. At this point I tell black men and women go date where you are appreciated and not tolerated. Because I see there is no hope for us a whole. RIP black family.
no, it's not black race is literally in existence in America.
The African immigrants marry each other.
The African Americans are fucking fighting on youtube and Twitter and IG comments when the world is against us. We are also against each other.
These young boys just want the finer things in life🙂
"But black men treat white women differently." That's because white women tend to treat US differently. And by differently I mean in much higher regard and reverence than YOU, black women.
IF YOU SAY SO
@@slinkiegirl2001 I did say so, dummy.
@@slinkiegirl2001 NO HE SAID SO
Some of us don't have to "Zoom to Thailand" to find happiness!
According to what I have read, they went to high school together and have been a couple since then. She didn't appear in his life and scoop him up once it was clear he was going to be in the NFL.
People really are pressed about this. The younger generation is not going to stop interracially co-mingaling. It's only going to increase.
A white girl learns a cute handshake and she gets so much praise….. the type shit black men are impressed by… and all the theatrics and “ look at me I did something black guys” I’m just….
granted a " cute handshake" is praised anywhere it shows you have a bond .
th-cam.com/video/I0jgcyfC2r8/w-d-xo.html < example.
Blk invented that hand shake thing. They can share it with who they want.
You completely missed the point. They’ve been together for years, since he was in high school.
She did what it took to secure him THEN. The bottom line is that if BW want to compete for a few hundred NFL and NBA athletes, do what it takes
Blk men invented*
Men are done with female drama and the women of Tik Tok are freaking out. :)
THESE DUDES COME FROM SWIRLING FAMILIES,,,,DADDY SWIRL SO THE SON WILL SWIRL AS WELL!!!!
Black people spend way to much worrying about who these dudes choose to lay pipe to. People y’all don’t even know.
Exactly. These dudes aren’t gonna stop dating who they want because a bunch of strangers don’t agree with their dating choices. Blk ppl are pathetic..
If she's holding you down keep her around!!
Date whoever makes you happy regardless of race!!
As a Black Woman, I am tired of many Black Women putting Brothers down for who is dating. If they spends time stepping out of Peep that they don't know business, maybe they can find a man of their own? It's always the BBL's, weave, ghetto attitude, no class or Social Graces, and having babies, you will.be forever single and miserable alone with a Yorkshire, Poodle as your companion
Exactly Well Said, You are marriage material. But alot of females don't think this way its very rare in the black community.
Phyllis ......I Appreciate You For Caring For The BM, If You Keep The Positive Attitude And Energy, You Will Be Successful In Finding A Good Man!!!!!!!
@Introverted are you a black woman?
@@underconstruction6432 Yes
@Introverted I've been called worse by better!
Well said. Along with that, people want to broaden their horizons. Who doesn’t like something different. I grew up in an all black neighborhood. I was smart, came from a disciplined family, and wasn’t a thug. I didn’t smoke, drink, or do drugs. In black women’s eyes, I was no fun. Needless to say, I did well in life, had a brand new house at 23, never got married, nor had kids. I travelled, partied, and had fun. I stopped dating black women years ago. My lifestyle didn’t put me in situations where there were many black women. Growing up where I did, black girls liked guys that were hard. I was raised to be successful, not hard. I dated black women, because that was all I knew. As I broadened my horizons, other races came into play. I wasn’t expected to be hard, just me. Nothing against my sisters, sometimes life just takes you in different directions. My circle of friends don’t consist of blacks only, like when I grew up. I like women who treat me well, and like me for who I am. I don’t limit myself to any race.
Kyle Hamilton is Black/Asian biracial but you don't see Asian people talking that "Why don't he date someone who look like his mama?" garbage.
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Sandals? 🤔
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Honestly I don't really care I never looked at race if they want to date somebody go go ahead and do it I don't see the problem with this
Also, Patrick Mahomes wife and his own brother stay embarrassing him. So, she wasn’t a good example. Also she almost became a Low Value Woman because she was on baby mama status for minute.
You didn't just say "baby mama" did you? What, you 10. There is a name for both the mother and the child that is born out of wedlock,; it's not "baby mama".
You want to be taken seriously? Quit talking like an infant.
Excellent couple 🎉
Passport Bros are winning 🎉🎉🎉
He's half black and half Korean...and born in Greece and lived in Russia😊
These men have the right to choose whomever they want to date and or marry. Are there really people out there that think and say things like "your own kind" ... implying that someone's "kind" is solely based on race and not the hundreds of other factors that make people compatible with eachother? So utterly ridiculous.
Dude,, you should be giving lectures around the country on this type of topic..you nail it. Hat off to brother...
Nailed what? His racism
Black woman are not mad.
They're pissed
REALLY?!? His own kind? This is just laughable.
Kyle and this young lady are high school sweethearts..
Between the ages of 18-30 (a woman's physical prime to the wall) BW meet plenty of good brothers. For whatever reason they want nothing to do with them (too nice, not enough swag, not hood, nerdy, under 6'2, lame, boring, etc.)🙄
Fast forward to the wrong side of 30, three kids by Pookie, Ray Ray and Dontayveus with the waves in his hair, after gaining 100 pounds and finding God, all of a sudden, the guys they wanted nothing to do with are the ones they're praying to be sent their way.🙄
If these brothers weren't good enough to have you at your best, what makes them good enough to have you in your decline when you no longer have market value and nothing beneficial to offer?🤔
#SYSBM
Hallelujah!!!!!!
Are we sensing a theme here??? Sistas have no one to be mad at but their damn selves.. Dont get mad cause she was willing to compete and won.. BW have made it crystal clear they dont feel they should have to compete... The guys who are considered lame,nerdy, corny by Sistas can go over to other communities amd have to fight them off with a stick.. Hes 6'4, athletic, intelligent cause anyone who knows knows that Notre Dame is one of the HARDEST schools in the country to get into.. Right along with Stanford.. And she got him while in college?? Where have we heard this before class???? Kevin by got damn Samuels..." If you dont want to compete for black men, Becky and Marisol WILL!!" Trae Young, Kyle Hamilton, Treylon Burks, RG3..... Oh Winter is Coming for the ABW....WINTER...IS...COMING
crazy because BW actually have a huge advantage, but rarely follow through lmao
@@C33b3310 Lol wheres the advantage at? Cause I dont see it
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq time, distance, and marriage statistics. BM and BW live and grow up together in most cases. Additionally, over 80% of BM are marrying BW. BW can't get mad when they're most BM's first pick, yet a lot of BW aren't acting the part compared to other races of women.
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq I figured you misunderstood my comment earlier and now its clear that you did.
We are saying the same thing and I was agreeing with you.
@@C33b3310oh, now I understand. My apologies... Were saying the same things just in a different form
Maybe we should all let go of the primitive idea that just because you're the same shade as someone they belong to you. I find it weird that we have an obsessive need to own each other just because we are the same skin color. I assume people worried about who people date that doesn't look like them seem to have insecurity issues
You do know that women are not watching the drafts and know nothing about this.
Keep playing dumb
Grandma thinking DEVIL
There was a study that showed that Black Men and Women dated White Women and Men(and vice versa) for the same reason: they got treated better by their respective partners.
The disconnect on both sides of the black community is horrible and the level of disrespect is horrible bw birth bm. I do not see other races be on a platform and bring disrespect instead of only judging by looks and color and a woman you can run over try to understand the point of view. It’s a shame black people stood together to fight for rights and then be separated like this
It's the women's fault what happened in the 60's that got the community this way
Black women did that through the 50s and 60s disrespecting and disconnected from black men, if we're gonna talk about the disconnect at least acknowledge the FACT that black women started this disconnect.
That young man will be an instant millionaire. White women know how to get these guys while black women running around talking about I'm a boss chick I'm strong and independent lmao. Keep with that bs pookie and ray ray gon get cha.
This has been the plan all along.
I am hispanic and we don not have our men disrespecting us like this. Even if they are into women of other ethnicities. I also see a lot blame going to the black women but remember that black women birth black men. This is very sad and i see it only getting worse