My brother. Your timing is impeccable. I’ve listened to you nearly daily for over 3 years now (not apart of the discord yet…) today I’ve finally begin making attempts to get myself out of the rut that I’ve been aware I was/am in. I turned 24 last week and I’ve never felt so old in my damn life. Outrageously driven but I’ve been sinking it into the wrong things lately, and it feels like I’ve pissed 3 years away. Video games and weed. I refuse to believe that time has flown so quickly… currently reconstructing my life. Can’t wait to listen to this 40 minute lecture tonight. Much love bro.
I'm kinda in the same boat brother. Almost 28 and nothing to show for it. I moved to a different state for my girlfriend and basically wasted the last year working for her family. I've now just made the decision that leaving in 2 months no matter what happens. Hang in there brother and say true to your beliefs and goals
Same here. Spent my whole teens playing baseball and walked away from it 2 years ago and i feel lost now. Im 22 and im missing my purpose and drive because sports was that for me growing up and now its gone. I do know that i want to be fulfilled and wealthy…
My man, join the High Thumos Brotherhood - nothing has helped motivate me to level up like that community. It sounds like what you need at this time in your life.
That’s probably why they said they gotta grind because they realize they haven’t been. I don’t know am I taking this wrong?😂😂like “anyone who says “dude I gotta go to the store” is not at the store” you get what I’m saying😂😂
really started thinking about my life's purpose and what path I should take, and this video really resonated with me and made me realize I need to get my priorities straight. Thank you bro
they get us with the music, sit down and analyze song to song and you'll start seeing patterns of sexuality in almost every song. some hyper sexualized, and others are more covert, but that plays apart on our subconscious, that along with drugs, violence, etc etc, is all propagated through "art"
Brother!!!! I swear God sent this video my way today. Thank you so much for this! I needed it. I used to watch your videos years ago and then just out of the blue you came into my recommended after years of not seeing you. I just got into a nasty fight with my girl. We just had a son and you helped me see a lot of my mistakes. I havnt been a good leader, I havnt been a good example. I’ve been quick to anger. It’s all changing now. You helped me recognize. Great philosophy man and thank you!
If your reading this, you are in the right place right now. This is what you need in order to become better, dont just become better for yourself, become better for your family, friend and community.
Exactly what I just really realized within myself. Had been obsessed with getting laid and girls over the last 3 years. Got a lot of success and that gave me confidence, but over time I became addicted to their validation. Like a year ago I was dating a girl I was in love with, and she ghosted me after 6 months. Just now I realized that I wasn’t happy with myself and I didn’t have a purpose in my life. I was needy. No wonder she wasn’t attracted to me. Hurt a lot, but learned a lot. On my grind now, and for the first time in 3 years I’m feeling relaxed without a woman in my life.
There little more enjoyable than sitting around with fellow men enjoying a cigar -- a tradition that has stood the test of time. It really lends well to a nice social atmosphere -- the buzz knocks the edge off, lets everyone slow down and enjoy the present.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 923 subs and > 700 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I’m always been very weird when it came to dating and the opposite sex. I’d see my friends be like you mentioned “obsessed” and I would be the complete opposite utterly unimpressed even disgusted by almost every girl I interacted with. Some would just take longer than others to get there. It’s probably prevented me from having sex and dating but i honestly don’t care cuz I know those relationships just wouldn’t last with the way that I am. I’m just very particular and conservative and most women seem to just tell on themselves at some point whether it’s 5 mins to 5 weeks. It always came down to them showing their true morals and values. It would always turn me off or make me feel disgusted in some way
you dont have much testosterone, you need zinc. if your hormones were healthy you'd be ravenous for women at times. i made the mistake of thinking i was "different" for not wanting girls while friends did. No, it was all hormonal.
Obessing about pussy, and complaining about life.. and more often than not, complaining about not getting pussy. That definitely sums up the mentality of most guys. That dude that gave you the cigar sounds awesome. Keep up the great vids man, God Bless
you are right. i often crave having a family and being a father. im 23. i would love to be able to do that but with this culture of women its like chasing a fairytale. so lately, the way ive come to cope with this by pretending i already have the ideal woman God has given me. I already have those options, because in fact i do (i just dont have myself right in God's eyes to be deserving of that now) It helps me move past the craving to be validated. Because like you said, there are greater things to be built in this life. curiosity for sure fuels that genuine state of mind we had as children
It's not a fairytale brother, I just turned 33 this past week, and I use to have those same desires as a young man, the best advice I can give you is at your age take advantage of the fire, energy you have Learn, develop, yourself and mind. Get in fantastic physical shape, have a career and eventually you will attract a good woman to be the mother of your seed. Even if it means you find her in another country that's not been corrupted by this woke agenda. Trust me with 2 beautiful children and a wife who allows me to lead because I've learned leadership qualities. It happened for me and it can happen for you!
"That's why they listen to Taylor Swift... Taylor Swift is garbage." - Quote of the day. Man I love these types of videos, you really do speak the truth Elisha. Amid darkness, the sun shall rise!
I like this style of long format talk videos and this video definitely resonates as someone who overthinks getting girls and being a virgin at near 30.
This is your best video. I grew up as the iGeneration. Watched Jordan Peterson on his come up. All the other gurus. This is by far the most "based" i have seen.
After I started reading philosophy out of college and data analytics with my job my curiosity in the world and people is on a whole new level. I truly believe once you give up obsessing over consuming as much media as possible, you can really start living. The issue I have now is filling up my time after work with meaningful activities.
Hey Eli, I’ve been a long time lurker and have loved your content it has helped me immensely. I just went through a break up with my first long term girlfriend and she was my first love. Boy am I struggling to get back on the path. I messed up a lot throughout the relationship I was way too emotional at times and put this girl on a pedestal since the day I met her for the last 2 years. I just latched on so hard to the first girl to show me serious interest. She moved in with me after only 9 months of dating and now that she left I feel I have completely lost my sense of self, my frame and my direction in my life. It’s like I morphed my entire personality with hers. I was 23 when we met and now I just turned 25 and I’m more lost then ever before. I want to grow and learn how to not make these mistakes again. It’s been 2 months and I still obsess over her more than I should. I want get her out of my head and to move on. Any tips on things I can do to push through the daily pains and emptiness I feel? All feedback will be greatly appreciated.
Time bro. I’m sure sometimes she’ll pop in ur head. When it happens just brush it off or think bout it 2-3 secondes than go on with your life. Moving forward is essential to the rest of it. Fact is woman always have a rebound within 1-5 days… yes they have an abundance of guys ready to go buy em flowers n crap. It’s not an easy journey at 25 to re make your personality but there was a time she wasn’t there and something someone told me is *If you can get her, you can get a way hotter girl* it holds truth, just heal n push that gas and no brakes…(if u cry… cry for min but don’t you fucking dwell in that sadness… it will tear you down thought by thought.) it’s a process bro 2 years could take 4-8 months healing and loving yourself cause when she leaves you ask urself all the negative and you look at yourself as a disgusting thing and you resent the fact you lost someone who for those time together may have cared bout you immensely… but time changes, and so did her feelings, you could blame yourself all you want but there’s no need to fall into this redpill,blackpill and bluepill crap. Life sometimes seems like you been on a ride and not one of the funs one. Prolly a lil kids one you go with your family lil kids and shit. Cause dealing with woman will be that exact feeling cause you either hate em or not. Wtv it is best of luck. Know that your are one of many men to go through some like this.. just dont fall and never be able to get back up.
Im 30 and i play a lot of video games, it makes me more relaxed, i get the adventure feeling from this games, i play adventure games that i can learn something from it, not just for fun, yes its fun but i get some wisdom i think ? why i repeat old games and play again even newest games, and its not the situation that i dont like my life, i love my life and the way it is, its like i love to play games, makes me somehow live life on another level, its like in reality i can use some things i learned in games, and so, but im playing too much, like 6-7 hours a day, i have a job, i work just in weekends, so 5 days from the week im kinda free and can play. But why i am so happy when i play games, i play survival games, because i love survival and nature, but why i play so much, and i didnt think of it, but im 30, no girlfriend, i speak to girls but no luck, i have a job, im happy with my job and my life, all i want a girlfriend, but doesnt matter that, why i play so much ? for example SKYRIM, i play not just for the story, its beautifull, i play for the music, its way to good the music, and thats why i play sometimes a game, for story and music, not the grinding and such, kinda makes me better when i listen to that music, or something like that, i love peacefull games too, but i really want a real life too, i dont really know why i spend so much time on games, and i watch those videos that are the best, really makes me be better and get better at me, at my life, but i keep resetting and going to play games....maybe someone can leave me a hint, what im doing wrong, maybe the owner of the channel will say something, i really dont expect something, but i guess i need help, even if i like so much playing, i feel sometimes that lifes goes without me, i am 30 and i look like 16, health problems, but yes, thats the reason i dont have a girlfriend at 30...maybe i could get some advice from you guys maybe not, who knows really
I stopped dating a bit ago. It was a great move. I’ve focused on myself and my intellect, developing a solid operating system. understanding and Touching base with spirituality. This is highly recommended.
It's because cigarettes are meant to be their quickly smoked version, meanwhile cigars purpose is a prolonged pleasure time. Also nicotine content in cigars is way higher
Elisha, what are your favourite brands of cigars? I noticed you had a few different ones in other videos. Couldn't quite read the band. Im picking some up next week to share with a few friends, any suggestions you have would be much appreciated.
This is not part of the video but you gave me the single greatest book recommendation Ive ever gotten: "The Name of the Wind" by Patrick Rothfuss. Kvothe is a fricking G
"Steal a hobo's Playboy magazine..." Pure Gold, thank you sir. In a decade or two we'll hear the Gen-z guys and gals saying "I only survived by dodging the firehose of broadband cornofilth that was aimed at me 24-7..."
Dude this might be my favorite video from you, great stuff. Only problem is I feel like I can't respond with my real pic 😂 Not that I want to say anything bad, but it'd be too personal. Anyway bravo, really good topics.
I agree with your philosophy. Often, the harder you try to get women when you’re in a rut, the less you succeed. They can sense the desperation, and it repels them. Once you don’t care anymore it becomes easy.
"Because the knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of Heaven has been given to you, but not to them. Whoever has will be given more and they will have abundance. Even what they have will be taken from them, this is why I speak to them in parables. Those seeing, they do not see though hearing, they do not hear or understand." -Matthew 13 verse 10 He will come to find you when it is your time, it was written. You nor anyone in this comment section has nothing to worry about. Jesus Christ loves you.
If you don't know what to do, get into an apprenticeship program for a trade. Electrical, elevator mechanic, plumber, welder, equipment operator..whatever. Pick a trade and get in there.
I'll tell you what, ever since reading The Game, I have found almost no impression on me in people getting "a lot of women." That book, powerfully, showed me how empty that was, but beyond empty, how it wasn't even that impressive.
This is a great video, and is exactly where I'm at right now. I don't put people on a pedestal like I used to, friends or women. I'm getting a new job soon, how can I be more social? I have friends on my phone I can text and call and I go to the gym. What can I do on the weekends to meet more people? Especially without spending hella money
@@ElishaLongI just turned 34 Elisha do you feel old ? Getting laid I'm Incel never bin laid last time a had good conversation with a women probably my mother ?
Someone needs to enlighten me on these Cigars man. I feel like there were too many Propaganda about smoking. Some of them are surely bad but is it really? Should I also start smoking a cigar? I heard it also increases testosterone.
You should do some research and come to a conclusion for yourself. Then you can try a cigar and see if you like it. If so try it at a cigar lounge or with a friend.
@@DiggingDeepVlogwhat did you smoke, cigars? Also how often did you smoke? I think a cigar every now and then is fine, possibly even beneficial, especially if it gets you out and gives you a good chance to talk with your boys or other like minded men. However, if it's one of those things that you have one and you need more and more to the point it's everyday and sometimes multiple times a day then you need to quit as it is doing you no good at all. My 2 cents anyway.
Some of the stuff about women cheating is in fact true. My dad was and still is a manly man, he was around other men all the time in the manliest job there is (firefighter), and my mom still cheated. Women like attention, makes them FEEL special…even when where they’re getting it from shouldn’t.
Deer creek wrangler school Is Elisha in 30years
😂
😂 Hell yea Brother ! (Hulk Holland voice)
My brother. Your timing is impeccable. I’ve listened to you nearly daily for over 3 years now (not apart of the discord yet…) today I’ve finally begin making attempts to get myself out of the rut that I’ve been aware I was/am in. I turned 24 last week and I’ve never felt so old in my damn life. Outrageously driven but I’ve been sinking it into the wrong things lately, and it feels like I’ve pissed 3 years away. Video games and weed. I refuse to believe that time has flown so quickly… currently reconstructing my life. Can’t wait to listen to this 40 minute lecture tonight. Much love bro.
Narrow your focus to a plan and a solid purpose, you will naturally not engage in these habits anymore.
I'm kinda in the same boat brother. Almost 28 and nothing to show for it. I moved to a different state for my girlfriend and basically wasted the last year working for her family. I've now just made the decision that leaving in 2 months no matter what happens. Hang in there brother and say true to your beliefs and goals
Same here. Spent my whole teens playing baseball and walked away from it 2 years ago and i feel lost now. Im 22 and im missing my purpose and drive because sports was that for me growing up and now its gone. I do know that i want to be fulfilled and wealthy…
My man, join the High Thumos Brotherhood - nothing has helped motivate me to level up like that community. It sounds like what you need at this time in your life.
What is your strategy man? Like what are you actually going to do?
“Anyone who says “dude I gotta grind” is not grinding” lmao gold
That’s probably why they said they gotta grind because they realize they haven’t been. I don’t know am I taking this wrong?😂😂like “anyone who says “dude I gotta go to the store” is not at the store” you get what I’m saying😂😂
Speak for yourself alex hormozi gymlaunch copycat
Anyone who’s actually grinding doesn’t have time to talk about it.
no lies
well ... yeah ... that's why they even say that to begin with
Life is insanely short. Keep that in mind.
Yes and no you can prob expect to live to 78 at least depending factors lifestyle .not acounting from accidents and other forces
@@Amnigagghhell no dude. tomorrow is never guaranteed
really started thinking about my life's purpose and what path I should take, and this video really resonated with me and made me realize I need to get my priorities straight. Thank you bro
they get us with the music, sit down and analyze song to song and you'll start seeing patterns of sexuality in almost every song. some hyper sexualized, and others are more covert, but that plays apart on our subconscious, that along with drugs, violence, etc etc, is all propagated through "art"
These videos just keep getting better. This one came at the right time too. Thanks for doing what you do man
Brother!!!! I swear God sent this video my way today. Thank you so much for this! I needed it.
I used to watch your videos years ago and then just out of the blue you came into my recommended after years of not seeing you.
I just got into a nasty fight with my girl. We just had a son and you helped me see a lot of my mistakes. I havnt been a good leader, I havnt been a good example. I’ve been quick to anger. It’s all changing now. You helped me recognize. Great philosophy man and thank you!
If your reading this, you are in the right place right now. This is what you need in order to become better, dont just become better for yourself, become better for your family, friend and community.
Exactly what I just really realized within myself. Had been obsessed with getting laid and girls over the last 3 years. Got a lot of success and that gave me confidence, but over time I became addicted to their validation. Like a year ago I was dating a girl I was in love with, and she ghosted me after 6 months. Just now I realized that I wasn’t happy with myself and I didn’t have a purpose in my life. I was needy. No wonder she wasn’t attracted to me. Hurt a lot, but learned a lot. On my grind now, and for the first time in 3 years I’m feeling relaxed without a woman in my life.
There little more enjoyable than sitting around with fellow men enjoying a cigar -- a tradition that has stood the test of time. It really lends well to a nice social atmosphere -- the buzz knocks the edge off, lets everyone slow down and enjoy the present.
39 min video to wind down in the evening? Perfect.
I seem to come and go here every so often but every time I come back I feel more grounded. Thanks Eli.
This is one of the greatest talks I ever heard. Listened to this on my tv last night and you are wise beyond your years. God bless!
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 923 subs and > 700 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I’m always been very weird when it came to dating and the opposite sex. I’d see my friends be like you mentioned “obsessed” and I would be the complete opposite utterly unimpressed even disgusted by almost every girl I interacted with. Some would just take longer than others to get there. It’s probably prevented me from having sex and dating but i honestly don’t care cuz I know those relationships just wouldn’t last with the way that I am. I’m just very particular and conservative and most women seem to just tell on themselves at some point whether it’s 5 mins to 5 weeks. It always came down to them showing their true morals and values. It would always turn me off or make me feel disgusted in some way
you dont have much testosterone, you need zinc. if your hormones were healthy you'd be ravenous for women at times. i made the mistake of thinking i was "different" for not wanting girls while friends did. No, it was all hormonal.
I love your optimism Elisha. It’s one of your greatest characteristics. Big big love homie
Appreciate you
Obessing about pussy, and complaining about life.. and more often than not, complaining about not getting pussy. That definitely sums up the mentality of most guys. That dude that gave you the cigar sounds awesome. Keep up the great vids man, God Bless
love your real conversations bro. thank you for posting man it helps alot
Thank you for talking while enjoying a cigar. I appreciate you.
you are right. i often crave having a family and being a father. im 23. i would love to be able to do that but with this culture of women its like chasing a fairytale. so lately, the way ive come to cope with this by pretending i already have the ideal woman God has given me. I already have those options, because in fact i do (i just dont have myself right in God's eyes to be deserving of that now) It helps me move past the craving to be validated. Because like you said, there are greater things to be built in this life. curiosity for sure fuels that genuine state of mind we had as children
It's not a fairytale brother, I just turned 33 this past week, and I use to have those same desires as a young man, the best advice I can give you is at your age take advantage of the fire, energy you have Learn, develop, yourself and mind. Get in fantastic physical shape, have a career and eventually you will attract a good woman to be the mother of your seed. Even if it means you find her in another country that's not been corrupted by this woke agenda. Trust me with 2 beautiful children and a wife who allows me to lead because I've learned leadership qualities. It happened for me and it can happen for you!
I have been going through same .that depression thing is very true . Great video .
Wow I am so surprised you have never left the US. Travel is amazing my friend.
"That's why they listen to Taylor Swift... Taylor Swift is garbage." - Quote of the day.
Man I love these types of videos, you really do speak the truth Elisha. Amid darkness, the sun shall rise!
This video came in so clutch, appreciate it
Great insights again. I play tennis and chess and the reason why they are good as they are about competition.
Every young guy needs to see this video. Liquid gold.
You're wise my guy. I really enjoyed your perspective. Thank you
Love this, glad YT offered this algorithm gem.
This is the best bro philosopher I’ve ever heard. Subbed
I like this style of long format talk videos and this video definitely resonates as someone who overthinks getting girls and being a virgin at near 30.
Great video bro. I never listen to other guys, but you are built different.
This is your best video. I grew up as the iGeneration. Watched Jordan Peterson on his come up. All the other gurus. This is by far the most "based" i have seen.
After I started reading philosophy out of college and data analytics with my job my curiosity in the world and people is on a whole new level. I truly believe once you give up obsessing over consuming as much media as possible, you can really start living. The issue I have now is filling up my time after work with meaningful activities.
FOMO retention
What are you supposed to fill the empty gap with
I will never understand people that don't know what to do with free time. I will never have enough.
thank you Elisha for existing
So good to see your face brother. Know that I’m killing it in New York City. Love you man
I am 35 and it's like you are talking to me... brother
Really needed this! Never seen you before. Followed brother 🤘
Appreciate it brother. Have a great weekend.
Hey Eli, I’ve been a long time lurker and have loved your content it has helped me immensely. I just went through a break up with my first long term girlfriend and she was my first love. Boy am I struggling to get back on the path. I messed up a lot throughout the relationship I was way too emotional at times and put this girl on a pedestal since the day I met her for the last 2 years. I just latched on so hard to the first girl to show me serious interest. She moved in with me after only 9 months of dating and now that she left I feel I have completely lost my sense of self, my frame and my direction in my life. It’s like I morphed my entire personality with hers. I was 23 when we met and now I just turned 25 and I’m more lost then ever before. I want to grow and learn how to not make these mistakes again. It’s been 2 months and I still obsess over her more than I should. I want get her out of my head and to move on. Any tips on things I can do to push through the daily pains and emptiness I feel? All feedback will be greatly appreciated.
Go outside, and do something new
Time bro. I’m sure sometimes she’ll pop in ur head. When it happens just brush it off or think bout it 2-3 secondes than go on with your life. Moving forward is essential to the rest of it. Fact is woman always have a rebound within 1-5 days… yes they have an abundance of guys ready to go buy em flowers n crap. It’s not an easy journey at 25 to re make your personality but there was a time she wasn’t there and something someone told me is *If you can get her, you can get a way hotter girl* it holds truth, just heal n push that gas and no brakes…(if u cry… cry for min but don’t you fucking dwell in that sadness… it will tear you down thought by thought.) it’s a process bro 2 years could take 4-8 months healing and loving yourself cause when she leaves you ask urself all the negative and you look at yourself as a disgusting thing and you resent the fact you lost someone who for those time together may have cared bout you immensely… but time changes, and so did her feelings, you could blame yourself all you want but there’s no need to fall into this redpill,blackpill and bluepill crap. Life sometimes seems like you been on a ride and not one of the funs one. Prolly a lil kids one you go with your family lil kids and shit. Cause dealing with woman will be that exact feeling cause you either hate em or not. Wtv it is best of luck. Know that your are one of many men to go through some like this.. just dont fall and never be able to get back up.
@kamran_ read it
Im 30 and i play a lot of video games, it makes me more relaxed, i get the adventure feeling from this games, i play adventure games that i can learn something from it, not just for fun, yes its fun but i get some wisdom i think ? why i repeat old games and play again even newest games, and its not the situation that i dont like my life, i love my life and the way it is, its like i love to play games, makes me somehow live life on another level, its like in reality i can use some things i learned in games, and so, but im playing too much, like 6-7 hours a day, i have a job, i work just in weekends, so 5 days from the week im kinda free and can play. But why i am so happy when i play games, i play survival games, because i love survival and nature, but why i play so much, and i didnt think of it, but im 30, no girlfriend, i speak to girls but no luck, i have a job, im happy with my job and my life, all i want a girlfriend, but doesnt matter that, why i play so much ? for example SKYRIM, i play not just for the story, its beautifull, i play for the music, its way to good the music, and thats why i play sometimes a game, for story and music, not the grinding and such, kinda makes me better when i listen to that music, or something like that, i love peacefull games too, but i really want a real life too, i dont really know why i spend so much time on games, and i watch those videos that are the best, really makes me be better and get better at me, at my life, but i keep resetting and going to play games....maybe someone can leave me a hint, what im doing wrong, maybe the owner of the channel will say something, i really dont expect something, but i guess i need help, even if i like so much playing, i feel sometimes that lifes goes without me, i am 30 and i look like 16, health problems, but yes, thats the reason i dont have a girlfriend at 30...maybe i could get some advice from you guys maybe not, who knows really
I stopped dating a bit ago. It was a great move. I’ve focused on myself and my intellect, developing a solid operating system.
understanding and Touching base with spirituality.
This is highly recommended.
thank you so much for this video filled with wisdom
Always take what you are given/gifts. Always. I learned this the hard way. Fucked up on this many many times
I hope you turn our life around and achieve your goals.
Excellent video Elisha, have a great week
You too brother. Let's get it
I never smoke, but I'd love to have a cigar with you in that nice back yard, man.
Hi, I've been finding the content recently really valuable and overall like this style of content. Keep up the great work
Elisha the wholesome guru, I love your content brother and keep the thumos high
Something about cigars really calm me and clear my mind. Never experienced the same calm with cigarettes.
It's because cigarettes are meant to be their quickly smoked version, meanwhile cigars purpose is a prolonged pleasure time. Also nicotine content in cigars is way higher
Cure for depression is gym,laughter, and food
When you are a kid, you steal from the hobo. As a man, you make him watch.
No offense but wtf does that mean
Awesome video man and like the ideas that you brought up.
Thanks man. Any topics on your mind you'd like to discuss?
Most guys don’t know what they’re hustling for - very good point! So easy to get trapped in the hustle culture loop
Elisha, what are your favourite brands of cigars? I noticed you had a few different ones in other videos. Couldn't quite read the band. Im picking some up next week to share with a few friends, any suggestions you have would be much appreciated.
What's up brother. Anything by Oliva is great. Oliva Serie V is one of my favorites.
Thank you brother
Loving these talks dude
i laughed so hard when you said ''your dad did it, dude.'' lol so true
“Man's maturity: to have regained the seriousness that he had as a child at play"
this is so real, damn.
Java by Drew Estate is my fav daily smoke
one of your best ones forsure
Thanks man. What topics did you like?
This is not part of the video but you gave me the single greatest book recommendation Ive ever gotten: "The Name of the Wind" by Patrick Rothfuss.
Kvothe is a fricking G
Amazing book. Elisha also put me on the way of kings, you should totally check it out if you enjoy the name of the wind
I replace the cigar with a watermelon rum Swisher sweet blunt with purple Hindu Kush inside
Nice
Junkie
Lmao
W
@@Robin-ub7ydweeds a plant as well bud
Best TH-cam channel
"Steal a hobo's Playboy magazine..." Pure Gold, thank you sir. In a decade or two we'll hear the Gen-z guys and gals saying "I only survived by dodging the firehose of broadband cornofilth that was aimed at me 24-7..."
Bros got that pimp backyard now
For the algorithm, you deserve it.
Damn I needed this video
Life changing video 💯🔥
Dude this might be my favorite video from you, great stuff. Only problem is I feel like I can't respond with my real pic 😂 Not that I want to say anything bad, but it'd be too personal. Anyway bravo, really good topics.
Thankyou for this video bro
love these videos thanks :)
I agree with your philosophy. Often, the harder you try to get women when you’re in a rut, the less you succeed. They can sense the desperation, and it repels them. Once you don’t care anymore it becomes easy.
"Because the knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of Heaven has been given to you, but not to them. Whoever has will be given more and they will have abundance. Even what they have will be taken from them, this is why I speak to them in parables. Those seeing, they do not see though hearing, they do not hear or understand." -Matthew 13 verse 10
He will come to find you when it is your time, it was written. You nor anyone in this comment section has nothing to worry about. Jesus Christ loves you.
It resonates with me.
I hate the idea of dating apps and pick up lines shit feels so artificial
Because it is.
In nature you just go to the women and do you know what.
The west is screwed.
Good talk 👍👊
How do I figure what to work on? Never had any longterm job. I seem really stuck. What do I focus on?
Go outside and try shit out. Become change and that is how you change.
Why don't you get a job?
If you don't know what to do, get into an apprenticeship program for a trade. Electrical, elevator mechanic, plumber, welder, equipment operator..whatever. Pick a trade and get in there.
@@ElishaLonghe said he did. He should go into online sales easy to make 80 k at least
Pokémon emerald 😂😂😂 too accurate!!!!
I played the living F out of that game bro
I’ve never had a bad conversation smoking a stogie
Another banger of a vid
I'll tell you what, ever since reading The Game, I have found almost no impression on me in people getting "a lot of women." That book, powerfully, showed me how empty that was, but beyond empty, how it wasn't even that impressive.
THE MONTE CRISTOS ARE GOATED
I smoke those when I make achievements
The only fulfilling thing that is really worth doing in life Learning and Teaching
Nice vid Eli!
but how do i change my mindset? if its too graved in my head
you changed my opinion on cigars
This is a great video, and is exactly where I'm at right now. I don't put people on a pedestal like I used to, friends or women. I'm getting a new job soon, how can I be more social? I have friends on my phone I can text and call and I go to the gym. What can I do on the weekends to meet more people? Especially without spending hella money
Theyll find you
Search up meetups in your city
Smoking my favorite Cigar! My g
Great stick. I really like Oliva Serie V
@@ElishaLong haven’t tried it yet, thanks for the recommendation brotha
@@ElishaLongI just turned 34 Elisha do you feel old ? Getting laid I'm Incel never bin laid last time a had good conversation with a women probably my mother ?
Damn bro I thought you said Kabul 😅
Good stuff
We don’t heat Cuba anymore. You can definitely get Cuban cigars everywhere in Florida
Great video man appreciate it 👍
Someone needs to enlighten me on these Cigars man. I feel like there were too many Propaganda about smoking. Some of them are surely bad but is it really? Should I also start smoking a cigar? I heard it also increases testosterone.
I’ve smoked 20+ years stay as far away as you can. If you want breathing problems, lung infections, lung cancer, any type of cancer go right ahead
You should do some research and come to a conclusion for yourself. Then you can try a cigar and see if you like it. If so try it at a cigar lounge or with a friend.
@@ElishaLong I think you should tear that smelly breath stank 💩 in the trash but that’s just me
@@DiggingDeepVlogwhat did you smoke, cigars? Also how often did you smoke?
I think a cigar every now and then is fine, possibly even beneficial, especially if it gets you out and gives you a good chance to talk with your boys or other like minded men. However, if it's one of those things that you have one and you need more and more to the point it's everyday and sometimes multiple times a day then you need to quit as it is doing you no good at all. My 2 cents anyway.
@@DiggingDeepVlogYou smoked cigs
got me in the mood for a nice Dominican cigar
Oliva’s are always a solid choice. Cheers
Good cigars are awesome.
Sudden influx of cigar haters lmao NGMI
Nothing like a nice fat cigar on your birthday. I don't smoke anymore, only vape, but, just like alcohol, it's nice to enjoy it once a year.
Some of the stuff about women cheating is in fact true. My dad was and still is a manly man, he was around other men all the time in the manliest job there is (firefighter), and my mom still cheated. Women like attention, makes them FEEL special…even when where they’re getting it from shouldn’t.