I think your cousin was only helping you to get visa to better your life in the beginning. You just fell for him too hard thinking he is your real husband but he was only helping you and your family and doing his dad a favor. Lady, it was only one sided love the first time. Don’t hold too much grudge against him now. Appreciate that he is now into you.
Girl, you have issues. Your cousin never lied to you to begin with. You knew the truth. Your husband/cousin should drop you. You have unreasonable grudge.
You just need to appreciate the fact that u didn’t end up with an old ass grandpa. Your cousin was truthful to u from the beginning, u shouldn’t hold grudges or be mad about it. Your situation is pretty lucky compare to some of the young Hmong Laos girls who came marry in America
Lady, you have no right to hold grudges.. you should be thankful that he brought you to the US. He told you from the start that he had a girl friend already and only marrying you to bring you to America so your life would be better. You should be THANKFUL! You should be proud that he was a faithful man to his ex. That means he will be a faithful man to you as well.
Luag tej laus ib txwm hais tias “ ntawv txijnkawm “ no ces yog li no ntag! Yog ntawv txij nkawm tiag ces txawm yuav muaj teeb meem cuam tshuam li cas los yeej yuav muaj txoj hau kev los sib tau xwb. Koj mas tsis txhob hais txog txoj kev tu siab, cia li zoo siab thiab ua tsaug rau koj txoj hmoo xwb os . Koj yeej yog tus neeg muaj hmoo koj thiaj tau tus neeg uas koj nyiam nyiam thiab xav tsis txog tias yuav muaj hnub koj tau nws.
This woman is unreasonable. She married another girl's bf on paper and loved him secretly. She loved him and wanted him for years. Now he finally turn around to love her and she's holding grudges. Unreasonable and petty. I don't feel sorry for her bc she was never misled or lied to. She always known from the beginning and wanted things her way only, but when she finally got what she wants, she still piss about it. She needs to learn how to let go and appreciate. I mean, it's not like she's still a single woman. She already married once and have kids too. So i think it's fair.
I understand why you're mad at him. Lol. he told you straight up in the beginning that he's only helping his parents bring you to the USA and he doesn't love you. This lady is so unreasonable.
I understand ur cousin married you to get out of poverty in Laos. However, you two are first cousin….the blood line is too close. For me it will be weird!
Hey sister, The past is the past but this sounds like he has clear conscience and a heart that is prepared to love only you. Sometimes life comes back to us in a full circle and for some reason it's better the second time around as we grow older and have a better understanding of life. Keep moving forward, keep loving the life you have and enjoy today for what it is. The past is just that, a learning lesson that has prepared you for today. Remember, without pain and struggles, there can be no understanding of love and life. Don't be afraid to love him. As long as you're happy, appreciate the life you have and leave the past in the past.
Ua cas Tus Nkauj Hmoob nplog no mas tsis puab appreciate li os! At least he still brought her to the US and he was honest with her in the beginning. He never played her throughout the whole time. She should be grateful for everything he did because he never did her wrong!
Um, she should be thanking this man for giving her the opportunity to come to America. He didn't lead you on, he didn't lie to her. He has always been honest with you. He doesn't owe you anything. Get over YOURSELF, lady. You have no right o hold this over his head and hold grudges. Its not his fault you had a crush on him and fell in Love with him, that's on you. He brought his girlfriend around, he told you he was only "marrying" you because his parents wanted him to help you.
She knows she wants him. She's just playing Hmong Thaib TEb mind games. SO typical. SHe's just playing hard to get to be dominant in their relationship. Waiting for her moment to snatch him up.
It’s really sad from the beginning of this relationship. She fell in love with him from the moment she saw him and later found out he only married her out of duty. For him it’s duty because he’s already in a relationship, for her he’s the only person she knew in a foreign land. People forget we can’t control who we fall in love with or that it could happen instantly “love at first sight”. This couple went through a lot of pain before fate brought them together. We forget they were brought up two worlds apart, she’s raised through the old Hmong traditions and he’s raised in the modern western ways. They’re both from two different world and see the world completely different. Glad to see they are together. Wishing you both many years of happiness together.
No he wasn't the only person, his whole family was her family too. He didn't keep the fact that he was marrying her to uphold his duty to his dad a secret, he was outright honest with her but she was the one holding onto hope for him.
Kj yuav tsum tsi tusiab rau nws. Kj tus nus npaws no muaj lub siab zoo thiaj li tos kj tuaj lawm. Vim kj muaj hmoo heev tias nws kam ua ntau ntawd yuav koj. Tej zaum kj totaub yuav kev thaum pib lawm. Nws yeej tsi tau haistias nws yuav kj tiag22. Tsuas yog yuav kom kj tau tuaj meka xwb. Kj twb muaj 5 tug menyuam yog nws tseem kam yuav kj ces tiam neej no kj muaj hmoo heev linos . Kam tsij Ua zoo mus xwb Txho xa ntau yam.
Ok. Sorry but he should had left you back in laos to marry someone older than your dad. Don’t know how many times I rolled my eyes listening to how you’re “mad” or hurt about what he supposedly did to you. Wake up already and just appreciate what you have now. You clearly knew from the beginning that he was not into you! - ungrateful.
Don't hold too much grudge towards him. He was truthful to you from the beginning. I know you loved him. But now that you 2 are finally together, treasure the NOW and love each other fully.
Sister aww.. your husband didn't know you, he just married you cause of his parents and your parents. You should understand that you accept the married and came to America. Now you two be back together, Blessing your family be happy.
Zoo kawg yuav zaum ob thiaj kav ntev os koj txhob tu siab rau yav ta vim nw tsi tau tham koj nw yuav tsi tau koj yog kuv lo tej zaum yuav ua li nw thiab yog nw yuam nw lub siab yuav koj ntshe nw yuav tsi hlub koj vim nw lub siab yeej muaj tu nw hlub lawm,yuav zaum 2 thiab li txhaej xav thiaj hlub ntev os sister aw
Don't be sad sister. It was an honest truth what he did for you. Your husband sounds like a very honest true man. Just be thankful that God brought him to you. Things happened for a reason so that you both can meet again and marry and appreciate each other.
You have no right to tu siab knowing your situation to the US already from the beginning. You're the one who kept holding onto a glimpse of hope thinking he was kidding.
Tus me viv ncaus aw, tus ko yog koj tus nus npaw nws yeej hais rau koj tias nws yuav koj kom tos tau koj tuaj es thiaj tau zoo tsis tau nyob nplog teb xwb koj tsis tsimnyog tu siab rau nws hlo li os. Cov menyuam nyob tebchaws no yog lawv tsis nyiam leejtwg lawv yeej qhia ncaj2. Tiag2 mas neb yog nus muag xwb twb tsis tsimnyog sib yuav li os. Ntawm kuv mas yeej yuav tsis taus kuv tus nus li os. Neb txawm tsis yog ib lub xeem los neb yog 2 nug muag yug xwb, roj ntshav sib txheeb dhau lawm os. Xu2 siab es! Tabsis nej sib yeem lawm ces tsis xu siab rau nej xwb
I mean, u really can't fault him for not choosing u in the beginning bc he was already in a relationship and he already had a gf. He was hers back then. Now he's yours. Now u got yur chance to start fresh with him and now he chooses u on his own. U should be happy and shouldn't hold grudges against him.
Tseem muaj tej tug txiv neej npwb tag npaum li no thiab. Ua cas yuav ntse cas tsis ntse kom kawg yuav ruam cas tsis ruam kom txaus hlub koj niag nus npaws ko tseem tseem ruam tiag.
U just mislead yourself. He was honest with you, you were never his wife to begin with. He was only helping you to get you to the USA. You can’t blame him, he was honest with you all along. Ins you who hurt your own feelings for falling for him even when he told you he has a girlfriend and will stay loyal to her.
koj twb tau qhov koj ntsaw lawm es pheej chim. nws tsis tau dag koj! nws yeej hlub koj li tus muam kawg li thiaj li paj koj. nws rov lo hlub koj ntxiv ua nws tus hlub. txhob hais hais tej lus kom tsam nws chim siab es nes mus lawm mog.
Qhov phem tshaj yog koj tus txiv tiag tau ua tsheb sib tsoo thiab tuag lawm. Qhov no ua rau koj tau txom nyem heev rau lub caij koj tseem tab tom suab ib plab me nyuam. Qhov zoo tshaj ho yog koj tus nus npaws tau ua txiv cuav tos tau koj tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej muaj zoo opportunity raws li ob tog niam txiv siab tshaw lawm.
Koj xav tias luag tos koj tuaj es koj tseem yuav kom luag muab tus neeg luag hlub tso tseg no koj xav tias nws nrog nws tus poj niam nkag hauv txaj twb mob mob koj nplab es yog koj ho xav li cas no yog luag ho muab luag tus hluas nkauj tso mus es yuav koj no ho yuav mob liag tus hluas nkauj npaum li cas no os niag poj ruam koj tsis tau taub whov uas nws twb hais tias nws yuav koj dag xwb tsis yog yuav tiag no cia nws mam khaws koj los so taw tom wab xwb nas niag pog hmoob nplog rua
Tus me sister.. Yog Nws lam ua TXUJ hlub koj Thaum ntej ces ntshe neb twb aib nrauj lawm os.. koj yuav tsum Zoo siab es txhob chim chim rau Yav yag los. Nws twb qhia koj tias lam Ua TXUJ ua cuav vauv Kom koj tAu Tuaj Nyob rooj Teb no xwb es koj chim ua ab tsi ma…
Your cousin will be a faithful and loving husband to you now, as he was to his girlfriend at the time he married you in name only so you can come to the United States. Just thank the lucky star you have a second chances with him
Niag poj ruam awiii tsis ntsim nyog koj hais koj tej lus ruam ruam li ko rau nws li os tsuav yog nes rov los yuav koj ces tshe twb yog hmoov zoo kawg tshe tsam nws twb tsis rov los khaws niag pog hmoob nplog li ko nawj niag pog hmoob nplog awiii
Koj thiaj yuav xwb os. Yog tu siab npaum koj hais ko tiag ces yeej tsis yuav li os. Hais li nws tus pojniam hais ces nws yog neeg siab me os. Koj ruam koj thiaj yuav.
Koj paub tsawg, nws tus pojniam es yuav tej lub tsheb rau niamtais yawmtxiv tabsis yog nws yuav ib qho rau pog thiab yawg ces tsev tawg...Saturday thiab Sunday ces nyob tom in-law tas li.
Cas xuv siab ua luaj na? Koj yeej paub puag thaum xub tias nws PAB YAUV koj dim lub neej pluag xwb as, ua cas koj tseem muaj lub khib npaum ko thiab no? My God, thaum nws yuav nws tus pojniam es koj twb paub tias yog hu ua "nyab" no ne, twb this yog "niam yau" ne, koj mas txaj muag dhuas lawm os.
This lady is unreasonable. He told you from the get-go that he was doing his dad a favor and that he does not love you then. Just because he married you on paper so he can bring you over, did not mean that he was committed to you. Times changed lady, get with the program.
Sister awwww kuv xav hais tias nws yeej nyiam thiab hlub koj kawg tsuas yog thaum pib nws tsis tso nws ob lub qhov muag thiab lub siab rau koj xwb. I am sure if he lay eyes on you, he would had fall for you. Thaum pib neb yeej dag loj heev li. Cannot believe you guys would go that far. Anyway....you end up together so it's good.
I wouldn’t remarry this brother lol He treated you like nothing… and it was easy to let you go. But then again, there’s 2nd chances in life. Good lucky 🍀 to neb 🥰
I think your cousin was only helping you to get visa to better your life in the beginning. You just fell for him too hard thinking he is your real husband but he was only helping you and your family and doing his dad a favor. Lady, it was only one sided love the first time. Don’t hold too much grudge against him now. Appreciate that he is now into you.
Girl, you have issues. Your cousin never lied to you to begin with. You knew the truth. Your husband/cousin should drop you. You have unreasonable grudge.
That’s what I was gonna say
Agree lol.
Right. I actually feel bad for the gf back then bc she had to let her bf go fake married another woman. I don't think i could do that.
@@maryly09 I totally agree! I can’t imagine letting my bf marrying another woman.. if it was me, I wouldn’t even allow it.
You just need to appreciate the fact that u didn’t end up with an old ass grandpa. Your cousin was truthful to u from the beginning, u shouldn’t hold grudges or be mad about it. Your situation is pretty lucky compare to some of the young Hmong Laos girls who came marry in America
Mloog thaum ntej kuv pab kj mob siab tu siab li kj thiab os tab si mloog mu mloog lo kuv kuj nrog kj zoo siab heev li os me viv ncaus aw
Neb yeej yg ntawv txij nkawm tiag2 kj txhb tu siab rau nw
Lady, you have no right to hold grudges.. you should be thankful that he brought you to the US. He told you from the start that he had a girl friend already and only marrying you to bring you to America so your life would be better. You should be THANKFUL! You should be proud that he was a faithful man to his ex. That means he will be a faithful man to you as well.
Luag tej laus ib txwm hais tias “ ntawv txijnkawm “ no ces yog li no ntag! Yog ntawv txij nkawm tiag ces txawm yuav muaj teeb meem cuam tshuam li cas los yeej yuav muaj txoj hau kev los sib tau xwb. Koj mas tsis txhob hais txog txoj kev tu siab, cia li zoo siab thiab ua tsaug rau koj txoj hmoo xwb os . Koj yeej yog tus neeg muaj hmoo koj thiaj tau tus neeg uas koj nyiam nyiam thiab xav tsis txog tias yuav muaj hnub koj tau nws.
Cute story. 🥰
This woman is unreasonable. She married another girl's bf on paper and loved him secretly. She loved him and wanted him for years. Now he finally turn around to love her and she's holding grudges. Unreasonable and petty. I don't feel sorry for her bc she was never misled or lied to. She always known from the beginning and wanted things her way only, but when she finally got what she wants, she still piss about it. She needs to learn how to let go and appreciate. I mean, it's not like she's still a single woman. She already married once and have kids too. So i think it's fair.
I agree.
Kj tus txiv ua yog lawm ua yam zoo rau tus nwg hlub
Zaj neej neeg no cas hais tau mob siab ua luaj li os yom.
I understand why you're mad at him. Lol. he told you straight up in the beginning that he's only helping his parents bring you to the USA and he doesn't love you. This lady is so unreasonable.
Zoo kaws
Wow muaj tej zaj neej neeg txawv kawg li no thiab lob hai tau zoo kawg niam ntsuab teev
Rov sib yuav tiag2 lawm ces thov kom sib2 hlub xwb os mog👏👏
Ua li ca nej tej neej yuav txawv uas luaj lol zoo siab neb rov tau lo si sau nyob uake dua
I understand ur cousin married you to get out of poverty in Laos. However, you two are first cousin….the blood line is too close. For me it will be weird!
Nasty for me. Ew.
Neb thiaj yog ntawv niam txiv
Giving a 2nd chance will be successful from lessons from from the beginning. Wish you both great life ahead.
Hey sister,
The past is the past but this sounds like he has clear conscience and a heart that is prepared to love only you. Sometimes life comes back to us in a full circle and for some reason it's better the second time around as we grow older and have a better understanding of life. Keep moving forward, keep loving the life you have and enjoy today for what it is. The past is just that, a learning lesson that has prepared you for today. Remember, without pain and struggles, there can be no understanding of love and life. Don't be afraid to love him. As long as you're happy, appreciate the life you have and leave the past in the past.
Nrog koj zoo siab os
Neb daim ntawv thiaj yog ntawv txij nkawm os
Ua cas Tus Nkauj Hmoob nplog no mas tsis puab appreciate li os! At least he still brought her to the US and he was honest with her in the beginning. He never played her throughout the whole time. She should be grateful for everything he did because he never did her wrong!
She was in love with him from the beginning, probably hoping he changed his once she arrives in the USA.
Um, she should be thanking this man for giving her the opportunity to come to America. He didn't lead you on, he didn't lie to her. He has always been honest with you. He doesn't owe you anything. Get over YOURSELF, lady. You have no right o hold this over his head and hold grudges. Its not his fault you had a crush on him and fell in Love with him, that's on you. He brought his girlfriend around, he told you he was only "marrying" you because his parents wanted him to help you.
She knows she wants him. She's just playing Hmong Thaib TEb mind games. SO typical. SHe's just playing hard to get to be dominant in their relationship. Waiting for her moment to snatch him up.
Txhob tus siab vivncaus, twb yog nws yog ib tus neeg mloog lus heev es thiaj tos tau koj tuaj mog. Kav tsij ua nws tsaug xwb.
Koj tus nus npaws pab koj tuam choj tuaj rau meskas no ces twb zoo kawg lawm. Zoo 2 nws tseem yuav koj ces yog muaj hmoo.
Wowwwzaj no yog ib zaj mob siab tgtg li o
Wow, koj tus nus npaw yog ib tus mi nyuam hmoob meskas siab zoo tiag tiag li os tus muam. Koj txoj koob hmoov los txog lawm vim nws xam maj txo nws lub hwj chim los rub koj tawm ntawm txoj kev poob qab tuaj. Nws twb tsis nrog koj pw thaum koj nyuam qhuav tuaj. Nws yeej pab koj tiag tiag li xwb.
Nws tsuas pab koj xwb.. yog qhov zoo nws tsis txhob tos koj tuaj yuav zoo dua!
I like your story and love both of you too. You two should love each other million times more
This lady is crazy 😆 🤣
Kj tus txiv ua cuav xwb vim kj tsis yog tus nwg hlub
Rov hlub zaum ob seb pua kav ib txis os mog txob tu siab
Koj yuav tsum txaus siab rau koj tus mus npaws siab zoo heev es nws tos koj tuaj. Txhob muab lub txim pov rau koj tus nus npawg. Vim nws qhia ncaj rau koj thaum pib lawm. Cov txiv neej coj li koj tus nus npawg thiaj yog neeg ncaj nceeg. Koj muaj koj nyob rau nws tus poj Niam qhov chaws meb koj yeej tsi xav koj yus txiv txhob los yuav koj tim nplog thiab tiag. Nws tus Niam loj lub siab loj thiaj cia nws tos koj tuaj. Kuv tus Niam Pog tshiab coj nws tus tub coj mus yuav nws tus Niam hluas kwvtij ib tus ntxhais es Niam Pog hais tiag cov nyab hmoob npog ceeb yeej heev no.
It’s really sad from the beginning of this relationship. She fell in love with him from the moment she saw him and later found out he only married her out of duty. For him it’s duty because he’s already in a relationship, for her he’s the only person she knew in a foreign land. People forget we can’t control who we fall in love with or that it could happen instantly “love at first sight”. This couple went through a lot of pain before fate brought them together. We forget they were brought up two worlds apart, she’s raised through the old Hmong traditions and he’s raised in the modern western ways. They’re both from two different world and see the world completely different. Glad to see they are together. Wishing you both many years of happiness together.
No he wasn't the only person, his whole family was her family too. He didn't keep the fact that he was marrying her to uphold his duty to his dad a secret, he was outright honest with her but she was the one holding onto hope for him.
Oh muaj lub maib no thiab phem sib xws yom
Wow...happy ending
Awww so sweet!!
Tus vivncaus aw… koj txhob tu siab abs is zoo siab uas nws muaj feem coj tau koj tuaj rau tebchaws vammeej. Qhov Thaum pib yog vim koj nyiqg hlub nws xwb es nws twb ncajncees qhia koj tias nws ua kom pab tau koj xwb. Nws yog ib tug txivneej ncajncees rau nws txojkev hlub. Cov txivneej zoo lino muaj tsawg. Tsis tsimnyog qhov koj pheej tu siab thiab rau txim rau nws.
Tos lawv hais tias ruam tsis muaj ruam os. Lawv siab dawb paug pab kom koj tuaj tau meskas xwb, es koj cia li yuav mus suav txim rau lawv. Npaum no xyoo es koj yuav mus suav txim rau lawv. Ruam tshaj ruam lawm os.
Her voice is weird today
He seems to be a Dedicated man and so therefore he will be that dedicated to you as well.
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Beautiful story if you listen to the whole thing, good for you guys
Kj yuav tsum tsi tusiab rau nws. Kj tus nus npaws no muaj lub siab zoo thiaj li tos kj tuaj lawm. Vim kj muaj hmoo heev tias nws kam ua ntau ntawd yuav koj. Tej zaum kj totaub yuav kev thaum pib lawm. Nws yeej tsi tau haistias nws yuav kj tiag22. Tsuas yog yuav kom kj tau tuaj meka xwb. Kj twb muaj 5 tug menyuam yog nws tseem kam yuav kj ces tiam neej no kj muaj hmoo heev linos . Kam tsij Ua zoo mus xwb Txho xa ntau yam.
Ok. Sorry but he should had left you back in laos to marry someone older than your dad. Don’t know how many times I rolled my eyes listening to how you’re “mad” or hurt about what he supposedly did to you. Wake up already and just appreciate what you have now. You clearly knew from the beginning that he was not into you! - ungrateful.
Don't hold too much grudge towards him. He was truthful to you from the beginning. I know you loved him. But now that you 2 are finally together, treasure the NOW and love each other fully.
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I don’t understand why you holding grudges against him. You finally got him like you always wanted.
Congratulations on your business!!
Neb Yuav yog ntawm Niam txiv os es txhob tu tu siab os Niam laus. Be happy. People make mistakes, no one is perfect.
You’re lucky your cousin/husband now was an honest man. Good luck to you both.
Zoo siab ntsog neb
You shouldn’t be mad or sad at your so now called husband. He’s a faithful person and do the right thing. You should appreciate him.
Ca kj g to taub li o nw yeej hai tia nw tsua to kj xwb no ne, ca kj g to taub, tsua nw kam to kj mu lm ce hmoov zoo heev lm o,
Sister aww.. your husband didn't know you, he just married you cause of his parents and your parents. You should understand that you accept the married and came to America. Now you two be back together, Blessing your family be happy.
Happy for you both. Love each other . Bless you both
Kuv tsis nkag siab tiab ua cas koj pheem chim rau nwb na? Nwb twb tsis tau dag koj na. Koj yeej paub tias nwb tshua ua pab rau koj xwb. Koj txoj kev hlub thaum twg yog koj hlub nwb xwb koj yeej paub tias nwb nuaj hluas nkauj. Yog koj yog nwb tus hluas nkauj thaum twg koj puas xav koj nwb hlub koj xwb mam? Koj mam chim tau ruam dhau. Yog kuv yog koj tus txiv mam kuv yeej tsis yuav koj li yuav ua kom koj ntsaw kuv mus tham tiag neeg no xwb os.
Zoo kawg yuav zaum ob thiaj kav ntev os koj txhob tu siab rau yav ta vim nw tsi tau tham koj nw yuav tsi tau koj yog kuv lo tej zaum yuav ua li nw thiab yog nw yuam nw lub siab yuav koj ntshe nw yuav tsi hlub koj vim nw lub siab yeej muaj tu nw hlub lawm,yuav zaum 2 thiab li txhaej xav thiaj hlub ntev os sister aw
Don't be sad sister. It was an honest truth what he did for you. Your husband sounds like a very honest true man. Just be thankful that God brought him to you. Things happened for a reason so that you both can meet again and marry and appreciate each other.
You have no right to tu siab knowing your situation to the US already from the beginning. You're the one who kept holding onto a glimpse of hope thinking he was kidding.
I can feel the lady too..second best sucks..but i can understand him too. Bummer but both sides are allow to feel the way they do
Tus me viv ncaus aw, tus ko yog koj tus nus npaw nws yeej hais rau koj tias nws yuav koj kom tos tau koj tuaj es thiaj tau zoo tsis tau nyob nplog teb xwb koj tsis tsimnyog tu siab rau nws hlo li os. Cov menyuam nyob tebchaws no yog lawv tsis nyiam leejtwg lawv yeej qhia ncaj2. Tiag2 mas neb yog nus muag xwb twb tsis tsimnyog sib yuav li os. Ntawm kuv mas yeej yuav tsis taus kuv tus nus li os. Neb txawm tsis yog ib lub xeem los neb yog 2 nug muag yug xwb, roj ntshav sib txheeb dhau lawm os. Xu2 siab es! Tabsis nej sib yeem lawm ces tsis xu siab rau nej xwb
I mean, u really can't fault him for not choosing u in the beginning bc he was already in a relationship and he already had a gf. He was hers back then. Now he's yours. Now u got yur chance to start fresh with him and now he chooses u on his own. U should be happy and shouldn't hold grudges against him.
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Tseem muaj tej tug txiv neej npwb tag npaum li no thiab. Ua cas yuav ntse cas tsis ntse kom kawg yuav ruam cas tsis ruam kom txaus hlub koj niag nus npaws ko tseem tseem ruam tiag.
U just mislead yourself. He was honest with you, you were never his wife to begin with. He was only helping you to get you to the USA. You can’t blame him, he was honest with you all along. Ins you who hurt your own feelings for falling for him even when he told you he has a girlfriend and will stay loyal to her.
Too much incest...please stop this process..for all hmong people....
So ua cas koj tseem chim rau nws abtsis thiab. Nws tws qhiab koj thaum pib lawm nes. Nws yog ib tug txiv neej zoo tshab plaws. Nws siab ncaj ncees. Txuaj txuaj Hmoob mekas laus thiab lis tsis muas siab ncaj ncees, tiamsis tus txiv no Hluas Hluas paub xav es muas siab zoo kawg. Tsis paub koj pheej chim koj abtsis lis os.
Hmong Laos’ mindset is completely different from Hmong Americans.
Man,,,I pog no vwm tiag tiag. Kojbtus nus npaws twb qhia koj ncaj ncaj rau koj thaum pib tia nws tsis hlub koj tsua pab tos koj xwb. Vim nws twb muaj 1 tug zoo lawm no ne. Koj tseem chim ua phem rau nws. Neeg tsis txawj xav li. Koj twb nyiam nyiam nws ne nws rov los yuav koj ces kav tsij nrawm nroo xwb mas
Time has a way of telling us what matter. It was meant to be. Happy for you both!
He’s a honest faithful man. U shouldn’t punish him for staying true to his ex at that time. Just be grateful that he is now urs.
Pp
Neog neb zoo siab uas thaum kawg neb rov los sub tau. Tej zaum koj niag txiv ko yeej tiam ntawv los yuav poj nrauj thiab pol ntsuam.
Haub yau hais txog cov pog phim nyum vais no xwb ces muab tua ua ntej lawm os tsis tas nkim sij hawm los mloog li
koj twb tau qhov koj ntsaw lawm es pheej chim. nws tsis tau dag koj! nws yeej hlub koj li tus muam kawg li thiaj li paj koj. nws rov lo hlub koj ntxiv ua nws tus hlub. txhob hais hais tej lus kom tsam nws chim siab es nes mus lawm mog.
Eiwww!
Yeej ua txhua yam kom tuam choj tau tuaj miskas tiag ov yom. Lawv kam hla hlo tus lawv hlub mus tuam choj rau pog tuaj los pog tseem muaj lub npau qees thiab. Erh, yog cia nyob twj ywm tim nplog es thaub txhob hla hlo thaub niag hluas nkauj mus yuav tuaj tej zaum nkawv nkawm nkauj nraug los ua niam txiv kuj tsis sib nrauj.
Yog kuv yog thaub niag hluas nkauj thaum ntawd ces twb muab thaub veg lawm. Cas tseem los yuav thaub thiab ne, ua niam yau xwb na? Hnub thaub lees mus yuav poj hmoob nolog ces twb yog hnub kawg rau lawm pob. Tseem kam los khaws hmoob nplog qub txiv yuav thiab, ho.
Oh yo! Poj niam hmoob nplog aww koj lub hlwb xav li ko thiaj li ua peb cov hluas nkauj hmoob meskas no tsis kam peb cov hluas nraug pab lawv cov mua nyob tebchaws nplog os pog nrua!! Koj tus nus npaws hais yog lawm os!!! Thaum neb sib yuav KOJ twb paub tias vim kev txom nyeb thiab sib pab xwb nas es nkoj tus nws npaws thiaj yuav koj nas pog nrua
I don’t like this one story
Qhov phem tshaj yog koj tus txiv tiag tau ua tsheb sib tsoo thiab tuag lawm. Qhov no ua rau koj tau txom nyem heev rau lub caij koj tseem tab tom suab ib plab me nyuam. Qhov zoo tshaj ho yog koj tus nus npaws tau ua txiv cuav tos tau koj tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej muaj zoo opportunity raws li ob tog niam txiv siab tshaw lawm.
Zaj no tsis muaj lawb dabtsi.
Koj xav tias luag tos koj tuaj es koj tseem yuav kom luag muab tus neeg luag hlub tso tseg no koj xav tias nws nrog nws tus poj niam nkag hauv txaj twb mob mob koj nplab es yog koj ho xav li cas no yog luag ho muab luag tus hluas nkauj tso mus es yuav koj no ho yuav mob liag tus hluas nkauj npaum li cas no os niag poj ruam koj tsis tau taub whov uas nws twb hais tias nws yuav koj dag xwb tsis yog yuav tiag no cia nws mam khaws koj los so taw tom wab xwb nas niag pog hmoob nplog rua
I'm never fond of these incestrous stories.
Tus me sister.. Yog
Nws lam ua TXUJ hlub koj Thaum ntej ces ntshe neb twb aib nrauj lawm os.. koj yuav tsum
Zoo siab es txhob chim chim rau Yav yag los. Nws twb qhia koj tias lam
Ua TXUJ ua cuav vauv Kom koj tAu Tuaj Nyob rooj
Teb no xwb es koj chim ua ab tsi ma…
Your cousin will be a faithful and loving husband to you now, as he was to his girlfriend at the time he married you in name only so you can come to the United States. Just thank the lucky star you have a second chances with him
Ntuj os ntuj aws twb paub nws lub niag siab tag lawm es tseem rov qab los sib yuav thiab naj lam yuav seb puas zoo li ca xwb pheej hmoo xwb laub yom
Niag poj ruam awiii tsis ntsim nyog koj hais koj tej lus ruam ruam li ko rau nws li os tsuav yog nes rov los yuav koj ces tshe twb yog hmoov zoo kawg tshe tsam nws twb tsis rov los khaws niag pog hmoob nplog li ko nawj niag pog hmoob nplog awiii
Koj thiaj yuav xwb os. Yog tu siab npaum koj hais ko tiag ces yeej tsis yuav li os. Hais li nws tus pojniam hais ces nws yog neeg siab me os. Koj ruam koj thiaj yuav.
Koj paub tsawg, nws tus pojniam es yuav tej lub tsheb rau niamtais yawmtxiv tabsis yog nws yuav ib qho rau pog thiab yawg ces tsev tawg...Saturday thiab Sunday ces nyob tom in-law tas li.
Koj yuav tsum xav tias nws twb zoo kawg qhov uas nws pab tau koj tuaj tim no lawm koj tshuav nws nuj nqi ntau heev li tsis tsim nyog koj hais cov lus ko rau nws lawm xav tias tiam no koj tshuav nws nqi ntau heev tsuav yog nws tseem rov los tham koj ces twb yog hmoob kawg li no vim koj ruam koj nyiam nws xwb nws twb muaj nws ib tug uas nws hlub hlub lawm no niag poj ruam awiii koj ruam xwb xav tias xyov yog koj no koj puas tseem kam los tos nws tim nplog as poj ruam awiii
Cas xuv siab ua luaj na? Koj yeej paub puag thaum xub tias nws PAB YAUV koj dim lub neej pluag xwb as, ua cas koj tseem muaj lub khib npaum ko thiab no? My God, thaum nws yuav nws tus pojniam es koj twb paub tias yog hu ua "nyab" no ne, twb this yog "niam yau" ne, koj mas txaj muag dhuas lawm os.
This lady is unreasonable. He told you from the get-go that he was doing his dad a favor and that he does not love you then. Just because he married you on paper so he can bring you over, did not mean that he was committed to you. Times changed lady, get with the program.
Sister awwww kuv xav hais tias nws yeej nyiam thiab hlub koj kawg tsuas yog thaum pib nws tsis tso nws ob lub qhov muag thiab lub siab rau koj xwb. I am sure if he lay eyes on you, he would had fall for you. Thaum pib neb yeej dag loj heev li. Cannot believe you guys would go that far. Anyway....you end up together so it's good.
I wouldn’t remarry this brother lol
He treated you like nothing… and it was easy to let you go.
But then again, there’s 2nd chances in life.
Good lucky 🍀 to neb 🥰