I would like a vid on how to remain faithful with religion in these modern days of endless knowledge and large public sentiments against the values of religion.
@@DariusFlynt_2012 If you're questioning your faith, then it is no longer your faith. Once you begin asking questions/forming a line of thought like that one there, Faith (in our traditional sense) starts falling apart. I get it, and I understand. I once struggled to keep my faith under the duress of my later teen years, and I felt rather lost for awhile there. That said, my faith is no longer of a traditional cloth. I sewed my own. I have faith in myself, my family, and all of humanity. And that is enough, for now.
You’re a good person. It would be impossible to be argued against. Thank you for having the strength to write these and send them into a world that cancels people for less. Your work is not only important, it’s necessary in this day and age.
@@dancronin5691 the message of the video is verry much nessesary and more people need to hear it our culture is literally tearing itself apart because people haven't had the balls to tell eachother this shit
@@Zeep_goblin Necessary to you and people who need to hear advice from a video game character, but not necessary in terms of real assistance or where it ranks when it comes to needs. Agree on that?
I Love How instead of make a joke vídeo using the Voice of a Character they make a good vídeo with ideas more usefull than 80% of the "self improvement" content
I won't lie I am one of these weak men you mention. I listen to these when I can in the small hope that something lights in me to pull myself out of this dark pit I have put myself in. Your videos are excellent and I wish you all th best brother. God bless you and all those you touch with these videos
If you can't pull yourself out of the pit, find ways to force yourself out of it. I'm currently exercising, eating three square meals a day, and going to my dentist consistently so I can join the USAF. And while these things aren't easy, I can definitely say I feel better than before (by miles). That said, I still have a lot of flaws brought on by years of abuse and poor decision-making. I was my own worst enemy, and to say I had no enemies was murdering my drive to find an opponent/goal. If there was no one to blame, or to hold accountable, then it would've been well and truly my fault. And as harsh as it sounds, it was all my fault. I could've run far and wide, made a better life for myself instead of wallowing in despair for two years, pretending I wasn't being my own villain. I hope Air Force BMT will fix some of my perceived issues.
When I go to the gym the weight I lift is not impressive by any stretch of the imagination, but I tell myself it is not about where I am, but where I am going. Remember this, the small things you do to improve may seem insignificant especially to yourself, but I believe that a good life is not made of a few big decisions, but of many small ones. It's not that I decided I would start working out one day, but that every day I decide to workout again. At every opportunity do your best and remember that when you fail it is not your end.
Shit man you nailed it again. The whole part about "I have no enemies" is not only so on point, but also so in character for Joshua Graham. He was forced in fire and despite being so faithful, know that if you have no enemies - you'll be killed be "friends"
I wish we lived in world where "I have no enemies" applied. It's supposed to be a lesson that everyone has their own justification and it's never personal. That there is no reason for us to hate anyone mo matter what they do to us. Unfortunately, that's not the case.
This was eye-opening. I recently shared that exact quote you mentioned on Facebook thinking I was being profound, but after this video I have a different perspective. I'm realizing I identified with it because saying you have no enemies is an easy way to escape the responsibility of fighting for the future you want. In truth I have many enemies, and most of them are parts of myself. Thank you for sharing this.
idk why you fell out of my algorithem but im glad i went looking for you. i hope you never give up on this type of content because it helps people like me every day. i take these words as tools, and use them to better the lives of mine and my own. youre a brilliant individual, and you dont sugar coat the world we have inhereted from our fathers, and we have much work to do not only for ourselves but for our sons and daughters. if you ever extend your word beyond youtube such as a podcast, a book, anything i would absolutely love to support and be a part of building your word because i know how much it has helped me, many young people need a helping hand in these times.
Remember that there is a man behind this is just a man not the character Joshua. Take the message in moderance, with salt, and most importantly after study. Don’t let it just pass you by instead write it down all that you remember and what you want to remember. Compare it with the lessons you can see in all things. Earn the knowledge and it will reward you.
Superb. I appreciate the nuance in this video. As our country (and the world) struggles between change and tradition, it’s important to remember that we must keep our eyes to the sky, but also have our feet rooted in the ground. No easy days. Peace ✌🏾
Russia, 2 AM. I really do relate to the group of people, who mistake weakness for virtue. This video made me question myself. Or at least I see it that way Thank you
I’ve listened to nearly every single one of these now and I’d just like to thank you for spreading a much needed message in todays world. Since while much of what you’ve said was taught to me at a young age others do not remain so lucky.
I think there’s a balance. There are times to be competitive and there are times to be companionate. The message of this video came out as very black and white advice when we live in a world that is grey. I think there is strength in showing mercy. In turning the other cheek. Same as there is strength in dominating and being tenacious. I guess all I’m saying is there is validity things you might not agree with, like the “I have no enemies” phrase
Agreed. This world is very nuanced. Having a black and white mindset could only get you so far in certain situations. Being more adaptive to an ever changing world and holding ideals of strength yet with compassion can go a long way. I understand what this video was trying to say overall but it does come off as being a bit too rigid. It also misses some points at certain ideals that people have. We should acknowledge the reality of this world and be prepared. Yet, we should also not lose sight of the best and loving parts of our humanity. We all struggle, but we all should not lose sight of the best of what we can be.
Kindly ask you fine Sir, to keep sharing this gift to those who will listen, thank you for these steps of guidance to the light of self-knowledge. Blessings from Venezuela
I had been searching for the right ai gimmick to quickStart a TH-cam channel. How foolish of me. I should’ve been focusing on my short stories and novel, honing my craft rather than use these new fangled tools I barely understand. Thank you for the video, I hope you produce more and that this one helps more just like me.
And i think he doe´s. It it not confusing, it´s the "VOICE" that in the end confience you? i Mean the word´s, are spooken a 1000end times,but it´s the actor or poet, who you call for an advice, we all know, it´s the word, not the speaker. But, mah frend, in the end, it is us, so stay with me, stay with us, stay..with "Him".. a Christian, who beliefs that we are right..but now? God almighty, we lost, we aren´t lost, but we lost. THE WEST is FUBAR. beyond all repair. Oh and thank you for replying, our forces are thin, but we are the chosen ones ^^
@@MarloMl a lot of people can’t read nor write in certain ways to me this the best way to do it. People in the modern age are retarded by the schools & media, I’m just trying to find a sliver of hope on this planet. You have achieved nothing in life only the GOD of Jesus Christ can help us at this point; some don’t see their value until it’s to late Lord, “And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.” Luke 11:2-4 KJV
I consider your work to be very important. It’s not only rare, but takes courage to write as you do. I’m sure I’m not the only one your attitude and way of thinking gives hope to. To take these things on, in whatever approach is right for the individual, is often a lonely struggle. Sincerely, thank you. We may never meet, but it’s consoling to know you and people like you are out there.
Been a while since I've gone and looked for your videos again. Something just hits deep down when I listened to you videos once more. In anything, one must always have a tough love to deal with the world. One must always deal with searching for their purpose, and keep growing toward it. As I see the truth, hear it from this video, and a quote that fits. "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." - Hebrews 12:11
The thing that gets me in all of these, is the encouragement. I won’t lie, I have been weak. I am weak as of writing this, yet I still have garnered respect and virtue of some people. I am forever blessed to have them. I have tried, but haven’t tried nowhere hard enough. I am glad that you make these. I am glad that you are encouraging and inspiring people to go out and improve their life, mind, spirit, finances and body. Thank you for growing, so you can teach us to grow in a time where most will stop as a sprout. Thank you.
A video from you always seems to pop up when I need it, and with the words that I need. They realign and focus my mind, keep it in the goals of conquering my life.
About the violence portion of the video- I believe that being completely harmless is an awful thing, it means you are nothing but a pawn. I also believe that being Ruthless is an awful thing because it means you will be alone. I have tried to be both of these things and discovered first hand that neither of them work for both reasons. Like most things, moderation Is key- to be strong when it is called for and to do what needs to be done, but not to become a destroyer.
Be humble. When you work on yourself, keep it secret… don’t boast about your achievements. Bring it up in conversation but keep it brief. When you workout don’t post pictures. When people see the outcome be humble. You will more respected in the long run when you are humble.
the problem is that most people don't have the right mix of both soft and tough love. some people grow up with too much masculine tough love, this can lead someone to view discipline and self restraint as oppressive and unloving when no flexibility is given. this leads one to go to the opposite extreme of that and have no strong values or self control many more people grow up with too much soft, motherly love and are never told boundaries and how to be a decent human being. mothers have a tendency to want to be friends and closer to their kids than the father, which inherently isn't a bad thing, however if you don't have a strong father figure giving tough love to balance this out it can enable the child to not be able to really properly function as in the real world there are tough times and mean people out there. simply wishing the world was a softer kinder place does not magically make it so. in the modern age the balance between the parents has been completely destroyed. many people grow up with one parent, or go between the two parents, or otherwise just don't have parents that cooperate in parenting.
Having just broken up with my girlfriend due to my inability to trust her anymore, this really helps. I'm still in a lot of pain but this makes it a little more bearable.
Thank you so much for this. In these dark times of brain rot "content" and total infantilization in people, it is truly refreshing to head some sober honest truth. I feel inspired and assured that I am on the right path. Hello from eastern Europe
I've been holding off watching this video for a while because I knew it would hurt me. I was afraid of pain. I was too comfortable with my life. I really needed this. Especially now when a new chapter of my life is about to begin and a lot of people are looking up to me. Thank you, God speed
It's true that family is being built by going through tough times, I had that wake up call when I realized that tolerating the wrong things was just avoiding conflict. And when I tried to resolve these conflicts they were interpreted as an insult or misunderstanding. I also realized that after a certain point you can't "fix" someone, having that messiah complex only caused me pointless worry and guilt. So if someone doesn't want to change then stop tolerating it and let them go or criticize with good intentions. Sadly tolerance gets confused with acceptance so easily these days, its a shame I had to learn this by myself in those last few years in my 20's. I had to learn many things like these because I lacked that genuine tough love in my life.
Thank you for this. I'm partially on disability (60% disability checks/40% work), struggle with myself every hour of the day and have next to no connections, but.. I do everything I can and I know my weaknesses as much as I know my strengths, and I try everything I can to pull at least some of my weight. I grew up sheltered and have always been afraid of everything, even growing up in a society such as Norway. I didn't initially identify with everything said in this but I agree- I am a weak man and I won't shy away from this. I *know* this and I have made peace with it, but I will try and be the best weak man I can be
I really hope you continue to upload. How you voice your perception and opinion on subjects can not only challenge mine in some ways and help me sharpen my understanding (perspective/logic/wisdom) on subjects, but expand on notions that I myself share. When I view your content my knowledge/logic and critical thinking/perspective improves, and I would appreciate you continuing your uploads.
brother..you dont know how much i need to hear these videos, i want you to flourish and kept strong and safe for thanks for telling me what i need to hear, not what i want
I've been thinking of something to say about your channel, and I can only say thank you. You've showed me things I never even thought about before. And plus, listening to Joshua is always a plus
You sir, are a true 1 in 1 million that is truly a hidden treasure. Your words have truth that I respect, and I hope more people will take your words by heart, God bless you brother.
I’m thankful to have found this gem of a channel. You are correct about the copycats, I would be thankful for them as it is a sign of your ability to create great content. Even these fake voices, who merely read the same stoic quotes, cookie cutter content. This is humanity, some cannot create. Some will fall for them, I think we need not worry for them, as the ones who can identify true genuine messages, teachings, and stories are the ones that will always flourish. Thank you again.
Recently been going thru Love spells with someone I see a long future with. This feels like a sign from the Lord to keep pressing on. Thank you for this.
I'm glad I stumbled on these videos. I gotta say, it's helping me turn my life around. I used to be a hardcore otaku and borderline degenerate and after listening to these videos and discovering other Joshua Graham contents, I've took a very large step back to reflect in my life... and I'm glad I did. I really needed it. Thank you and God bless 🙏
I will.. with all my pain and knowledge will be... A father and love does not take but make better... Never hurt but be stronger never lower always rise... For you are the future.
I really like the videos you put out, they reinforce the hope that there are wise men left in this world. I’ve always felt that I’m a glitch in my generation( Gen Z) I’m almost the opposite of what people are today. But I know that I am still human, and I’ll strive to do my best to survive the current situation but spread my goodwill to others, like what you’re doing right now.
Nope. I literally and truly love everyone. I know how this sounds and looks but I love unconditionally... I get that looks weak to everyone but that's the meaning of tough love too, literally.
I found this video thinking "lol joshua graham ai haha funny" and then after listening to the entire thing I have to say you've done a good job of making me look in the mirror. I have to say, at first I felt bad about being called out, but that's a good thing because it means you're right. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to suddenly wake up tomorrow with a complete change of heart and new motivation to get my life together. I'm too stubborn and lazy to do that, but you put the idea in my head. If my future development into a better person were a tree, you planted the seed. Well, you my mother, and a therapist, but hearing the same "get your life together" talk from the voice of a character I like is helping. It sounds stupid when I say it out loud, but it's true. I've been stalling and self sabotaging myself for too long. I live with my mother and haven't really done anything with my life since high school. I didn't like college so I dropped out, but I had to do something with my life so I tried joining the military. I wimped out 2 weeks into basic training and came back home feeling like I was useless and didn't belong anywhere in the world, so I just became a shut-in. I've always been the antisocial, introverted type and being a shut-in is basically my default state of being if I'm not being forced to go out and do something. And so for the past year I've done just that. Doing nothing but sleep, game, watch, and eat; under the impression that I will suddenly become a better person and move out when the time comes. As if I'll have some kind of spontaneous transformation one day, but that's not how it works. I can't wait for the time to come. I have to make my time come myself. And when I do, the transformsation won't be instant. It'll take time, effort, and discipline. All things I have difficulties managing, but it's better I start now then wait for the supposed right time because like you said, the "young and dumb" excuse becomes a real problem when you hit your 30s. I am 20 years old, but if I keep following the "my time will come eventually" mentality, I'll be stuck in this state of nothing for the rest of my life. I can't let that happen. I've been a burden on my family and society long enough. As much as I dislike society, It's mostly because I feel it does suit my wants and needs, but who cares what I want or need? I can't change society, but I can change myself. Then my wants and needs will be fulfilled by myself. And ironically, it will feel better earning those wants than to have them handed to me. It seems like a no-brainer that a reward feels better when you had to work for it, but my lazy unmotivated self hadn't thought about that until now. Like I said earlier, I'm not going to wake up tomorrow with a sudden change of character, newfound motivation, and get my life together in one day all because of one inspiring video I saw late at night. I need to take the time to develope good habits and break bad habits. Take small steps. True change, at least in my case, will take time and effort, but it's better that I get that ball rolling now than wait for it to magically roll itself. I'm rambling at this point. In short, I appreciate you making videos like this to put people like me into perspective. It's a real good wake up call that I needed. I put it on as background noise to listen to while gaming, but I ended up pausing the game and really listening, because you've genuinely spoke to me. And if you can get through to my stubborn skull like that, then maybe I can too. I know this is a long comment and you probably wouldn't read it out of many, but if you do, know that I appreciate the tough love.
Kind of a interesting work. It sounds and feels like the character from NV but clearly this is different. I am watching this channel for first time. You can notice that after 5min but before that it feels like the lines are from NV. This character from NV is great for a reason. Voice actor adds a lot too but script is a different story. This sounds like well thought out and written script. I guess AI was used for voice which adds some important spice. It's just pleasant to listen to. It's just interesting because I think many people would learn many truths from this video. I have lived for 20+ years experiencing many things. I have watched and learned many things. A lot of what I had to learn by myself is told here. This is one cool and unique video :)
In a world filled with misery and uncertainty, It is a great comfort to know that, In the end, There is light in the darkness. Thank you for posting
Yes.
I would like a vid on how to remain faithful with religion in these modern days of endless knowledge and large public sentiments against the values of religion.
Damn.... That hit hard
@@DariusFlynt_2012 If you're questioning your faith, then it is no longer your faith. Once you begin asking questions/forming a line of thought like that one there, Faith (in our traditional sense) starts falling apart. I get it, and I understand. I once struggled to keep my faith under the duress of my later teen years, and I felt rather lost for awhile there.
That said, my faith is no longer of a traditional cloth. I sewed my own. I have faith in myself, my family, and all of humanity. And that is enough, for now.
@@Existential_Robotblud is spitting facts
Bro could not only be a philosopher but an excellent politician
I agree, he’d probably need so much security though that it would be the fbi to shame. But I agree all the same.
Untrue
"Kings must be philosophers and philosophers must be kings" - something I read in a book
@@jnah4593 If anything it'd be the FBI who'd try to take him down
@@BoredAmericanI would like to know your reasoning in saying no.
You’re a good person. It would be impossible to be argued against. Thank you for having the strength to write these and send them into a world that cancels people for less. Your work is not only important, it’s necessary in this day and age.
Are you insane? "necessary" does that word completely devoid of meaning to you?
@@dancronin5691 the message of the video is verry much nessesary and more people need to hear it our culture is literally tearing itself apart because people haven't had the balls to tell eachother this shit
Lol, the words has a good resemblance of "you're a good neighbor" by Joshua Graham 😁
@@dancronin5691 Yes. It is necessary.
@@Zeep_goblin Necessary to you and people who need to hear advice from a video game character, but not necessary in terms of real assistance or where it ranks when it comes to needs. Agree on that?
Thanks, that helps a lot to meditate on where I am in life right now. Keep on doing the good work.
So glad to hear from you. You’re the only writer I can vision with His voice. Thanks for the update and video.
I absolutely love your Joshua Graham videos, they're so inspiring, with the calm, collective voice of the character!
I Love How instead of make a joke vídeo using the Voice of a Character they make a good vídeo with ideas more usefull than 80% of the "self improvement" content
Zesty fire is crazy
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I won't lie I am one of these weak men you mention. I listen to these when I can in the small hope that something lights in me to pull myself out of this dark pit I have put myself in. Your videos are excellent and I wish you all th best brother. God bless you and all those you touch with these videos
If you can't pull yourself out of the pit, find ways to force yourself out of it. I'm currently exercising, eating three square meals a day, and going to my dentist consistently so I can join the USAF. And while these things aren't easy, I can definitely say I feel better than before (by miles).
That said, I still have a lot of flaws brought on by years of abuse and poor decision-making. I was my own worst enemy, and to say I had no enemies was murdering my drive to find an opponent/goal. If there was no one to blame, or to hold accountable, then it would've been well and truly my fault. And as harsh as it sounds, it was all my fault. I could've run far and wide, made a better life for myself instead of wallowing in despair for two years, pretending I wasn't being my own villain.
I hope Air Force BMT will fix some of my perceived issues.
Just remember that it doesn't matter how weak you are, you have the power to defeat that weakness.
thats good actually, you are know that you're in weak state and not in denial. I hope you gets better. God bless y'all
A weak man does not have the strength or wisdom to recognize or acknowledge his weaknesses.
When I go to the gym the weight I lift is not impressive by any stretch of the imagination, but I tell myself it is not about where I am, but where I am going. Remember this, the small things you do to improve may seem insignificant especially to yourself, but I believe that a good life is not made of a few big decisions, but of many small ones. It's not that I decided I would start working out one day, but that every day I decide to workout again. At every opportunity do your best and remember that when you fail it is not your end.
I am actually entranced by this monologue, thank you for this, and keep doing what you're doing cus these words actually got me thinking deep.
Shit man you nailed it again. The whole part about "I have no enemies" is not only so on point, but also so in character for Joshua Graham.
He was forced in fire and despite being so faithful, know that if you have no enemies - you'll be killed be "friends"
I wish we lived in world where "I have no enemies" applied. It's supposed to be a lesson that everyone has their own justification and it's never personal. That there is no reason for us to hate anyone mo matter what they do to us. Unfortunately, that's not the case.
It’s a relief to know that at least one other person on this planet views humanity this way.
We are many, we are the followers of Christ if we hear these messages. I asked Lord for wisdom and knowledge
This was eye-opening. I recently shared that exact quote you mentioned on Facebook thinking I was being profound, but after this video I have a different perspective. I'm realizing I identified with it because saying you have no enemies is an easy way to escape the responsibility of fighting for the future you want. In truth I have many enemies, and most of them are parts of myself. Thank you for sharing this.
Well put my friend I’m glad you’ve come around to reality , it’s not easy at first but long term you will suffer less.
idk why you fell out of my algorithem but im glad i went looking for you. i hope you never give up on this type of content because it helps people like me every day. i take these words as tools, and use them to better the lives of mine and my own. youre a brilliant individual, and you dont sugar coat the world we have inhereted from our fathers, and we have much work to do not only for ourselves but for our sons and daughters. if you ever extend your word beyond youtube such as a podcast, a book, anything i would absolutely love to support and be a part of building your word because i know how much it has helped me, many young people need a helping hand in these times.
I though I would never listen to anyone talking about how the “I don’t have enemies” quote was hollow, banal, weak. Thank you.
Remember that there is a man behind this is just a man not the character Joshua. Take the message in moderance, with salt, and most importantly after study. Don’t let it just pass you by instead write it down all that you remember and what you want to remember. Compare it with the lessons you can see in all things. Earn the knowledge and it will reward you.
Man this reminds me of a quote from Bleach. "Those who do not fear the sword they wield, should not wield a sword at all"
It’s really eye opening that someone can articulate what we all know deep down. Glad I found this channel and thank you brother🙏
Superb. I appreciate the nuance in this video. As our country (and the world) struggles between change and tradition, it’s important to remember that we must keep our eyes to the sky, but also have our feet rooted in the ground. No easy days. Peace ✌🏾
I dont usaually comment, but this is one of the best speeches I`ve ever heard. Alot of people need to hear this message
Joshua Graham would be hailed as a hero and would be hated at the exact same time
Your words are truth brother
Russia, 2 AM. I really do relate to the group of people, who mistake weakness for virtue. This video made me question myself. Or at least I see it that way
Thank you
weakness is not virtue, but I pray you don’t fight a war God wouldn’t want you to brother.
I’ve listened to nearly every single one of these now and I’d just like to thank you for spreading a much needed message in todays world. Since while much of what you’ve said was taught to me at a young age others do not remain so lucky.
One of the greatest videos I've listened to in a looooooooong time. Absolutely outstanding
Please never stop makeing these. They breath life into hope for me
I think there’s a balance. There are times to be competitive and there are times to be companionate. The message of this video came out as very black and white advice when we live in a world that is grey.
I think there is strength in showing mercy. In turning the other cheek. Same as there is strength in dominating and being tenacious.
I guess all I’m saying is there is validity things you might not agree with, like the “I have no enemies” phrase
Agreed. This world is very nuanced. Having a black and white mindset could only get you so far in certain situations. Being more adaptive to an ever changing world and holding ideals of strength yet with compassion can go a long way. I understand what this video was trying to say overall but it does come off as being a bit too rigid. It also misses some points at certain ideals that people have. We should acknowledge the reality of this world and be prepared. Yet, we should also not lose sight of the best and loving parts of our humanity. We all struggle, but we all should not lose sight of the best of what we can be.
@@allen55578 no shit, it's a cruel world.
Kindly ask you fine Sir, to keep sharing this gift to those who will listen, thank you for these steps of guidance to the light of self-knowledge. Blessings from Venezuela
I got a friend who loves things like this. Especially since it’s narrated by arguably one of our most favorite characters period.
I had been searching for the right ai gimmick to quickStart a TH-cam channel. How foolish of me. I should’ve been focusing on my short stories and novel, honing my craft rather than use these new fangled tools I barely understand. Thank you for the video, I hope you produce more and that this one helps more just like me.
This makes me realise how far i am from the message he preaches.
Thank you. This video was the reason I decided to push myself on a run today.
Joshua Graham, a man, that doesn´t exist, but he speaks and means more, than a real person today ever could be. You call it A.I? I call it spirit!
The Good Shepherd will a way
And i think he doe´s. It it not confusing, it´s the "VOICE" that in the end confience you? i Mean the word´s, are spooken a 1000end times,but it´s the actor or poet, who you call for an advice, we all know, it´s the word, not the speaker. But, mah frend, in the end, it is us, so stay with me, stay with us, stay..with "Him".. a Christian, who beliefs that we are right..but now? God almighty, we lost, we aren´t lost, but we lost.
THE WEST is FUBAR. beyond all repair.
Oh and thank you for replying, our forces are thin, but we are the chosen ones ^^
@@MarloMl a lot of people can’t read nor write in certain ways to me this the best way to do it. People in the modern age are retarded by the schools & media, I’m just trying to find a sliver of hope on this planet.
You have achieved nothing in life only the GOD of Jesus Christ can help us at this point; some don’t see their value until it’s to late
Lord, “And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.”
Luke 11:2-4 KJV
I consider your work to be very important. It’s not only rare, but takes courage to write as you do. I’m sure I’m not the only one your attitude and way of thinking gives hope to. To take these things on, in whatever approach is right for the individual, is often a lonely struggle. Sincerely, thank you. We may never meet, but it’s consoling to know you and people like you are out there.
Been a while since I've gone and looked for your videos again. Something just hits deep down when I listened to you videos once more.
In anything, one must always have a tough love to deal with the world. One must always deal with searching for their purpose, and keep growing toward it.
As I see the truth, hear it from this video, and a quote that fits.
"No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." - Hebrews 12:11
The thing that gets me in all of these, is the encouragement. I won’t lie, I have been weak. I am weak as of writing this, yet I still have garnered respect and virtue of some people. I am forever blessed to have them. I have tried, but haven’t tried nowhere hard enough. I am glad that you make these. I am glad that you are encouraging and inspiring people to go out and improve their life, mind, spirit, finances and body. Thank you for growing, so you can teach us to grow in a time where most will stop as a sprout. Thank you.
A video from you always seems to pop up when I need it, and with the words that I need. They realign and focus my mind, keep it in the goals of conquering my life.
I say amen to that Joshua.
About the violence portion of the video-
I believe that being completely harmless is an awful thing, it means you are nothing but a pawn. I also believe that being Ruthless is an awful thing because it means you will be alone. I have tried to be both of these things and discovered first hand that neither of them work for both reasons. Like most things, moderation Is key- to be strong when it is called for and to do what needs to be done, but not to become a destroyer.
Another great piece
This turned my outlook of today arpund. Im gonna go workout, and clean my car. Maybe ill have a new job next week. Needed this. Thank you
Be humble. When you work on yourself, keep it secret… don’t boast about your achievements. Bring it up in conversation but keep it brief. When you workout don’t post pictures. When people see the outcome be humble. You will more respected in the long run when you are humble.
the problem is that most people don't have the right mix of both soft and tough love. some people grow up with too much masculine tough love, this can lead someone to view discipline and self restraint as oppressive and unloving when no flexibility is given. this leads one to go to the opposite extreme of that and have no strong values or self control
many more people grow up with too much soft, motherly love and are never told boundaries and how to be a decent human being. mothers have a tendency to want to be friends and closer to their kids than the father, which inherently isn't a bad thing, however if you don't have a strong father figure giving tough love to balance this out it can enable the child to not be able to really properly function as in the real world there are tough times and mean people out there. simply wishing the world was a softer kinder place does not magically make it so.
in the modern age the balance between the parents has been completely destroyed. many people grow up with one parent, or go between the two parents, or otherwise just don't have parents that cooperate in parenting.
Having just broken up with my girlfriend due to my inability to trust her anymore, this really helps. I'm still in a lot of pain but this makes it a little more bearable.
Thank you so much for this. In these dark times of brain rot "content" and total infantilization in people, it is truly refreshing to head some sober honest truth. I feel inspired and assured that I am on the right path. Hello from eastern Europe
I've been holding off watching this video for a while because I knew it would hurt me. I was afraid of pain. I was too comfortable with my life. I really needed this. Especially now when a new chapter of my life is about to begin and a lot of people are looking up to me. Thank you, God speed
As a traumatized 32 year old man child, this hurt a lot. Thanks. I needed it.
Christ is God. God is Love. Love is Truth.
It's true that family is being built by going through tough times, I had that wake up call when I realized that tolerating the wrong things was just avoiding conflict. And when I tried to resolve these conflicts they were interpreted as an insult or misunderstanding.
I also realized that after a certain point you can't "fix" someone, having that messiah complex only caused me pointless worry and guilt. So if someone doesn't want to change then stop tolerating it and let them go or criticize with good intentions.
Sadly tolerance gets confused with acceptance so easily these days, its a shame I had to learn this by myself in those last few years in my 20's. I had to learn many things like these because I lacked that genuine tough love in my life.
Your videos make my gut wrench and I love it. It means I know it's true and I need to hear it. Thank you.
watching your videos has let me see the light of God again. Thank you.
The whole “red pill” craze on the web could stand to hear this
Thank you for this. I'm partially on disability (60% disability checks/40% work), struggle with myself every hour of the day and have next to no connections, but.. I do everything I can and I know my weaknesses as much as I know my strengths, and I try everything I can to pull at least some of my weight. I grew up sheltered and have always been afraid of everything, even growing up in a society such as Norway. I didn't initially identify with everything said in this but I agree-
I am a weak man and I won't shy away from this. I *know* this and I have made peace with it, but I will try and be the best weak man I can be
You'll get there lad!
I can't express enough how important and impactful your writing is.
This is incredible, I had a bad day, and this lightened up my mood. Thank you!
Please, keep up with the Joshua Graham good work man.
I really hope you continue to upload. How you voice your perception and opinion on subjects can not only challenge mine in some ways and help me sharpen my understanding (perspective/logic/wisdom) on subjects, but expand on notions that I myself share.
When I view your content my knowledge/logic and critical thinking/perspective improves, and I would appreciate you continuing your uploads.
brother..you dont know how much i need to hear these videos, i want you to flourish and kept strong and safe for thanks for telling me what i need to hear, not what i want
I always come back to these videos to think improve or just to listen to and they are great and I love your writing man keep it up.
I nneeded to hear this. Thank you kindly. May the God of your faith guide you all.
"How can i learn from loss if i get a trophy for it" that hit deep
Finally! We've missed you
I've been thinking of something to say about your channel, and I can only say thank you. You've showed me things I never even thought about before. And plus, listening to Joshua is always a plus
Thanks for sharing this. Its helping look at things better not expecting unreasonable things. Again thank you.
Actually love this so much!! YOURE AMAZING good job!!
Thank you for posting these things man you are always spot on
You sir, are a true 1 in 1 million that is truly a hidden treasure. Your words have truth that I respect, and I hope more people will take your words by heart, God bless you brother.
They may tell things to hurt you, but they never tell you things that hurt you to make you better
Glad you're back :) Great video bro, always love the insight and writing you do on this channel. Great job!! 🙏👏
Keep going brother ! We need more of this !
I’m thankful to have found this gem of a channel. You are correct about the copycats, I would be thankful for them as it is a sign of your ability to create great content. Even these fake voices, who merely read the same stoic quotes, cookie cutter content. This is humanity, some cannot create. Some will fall for them, I think we need not worry for them, as the ones who can identify true genuine messages, teachings, and stories are the ones that will always flourish. Thank you again.
Sweet, he's back!
Good to know someone is preaching what I see as well. Thank you.
glad to see you back and just as based as ever
Definitely one of the most psychologically profound videos I've ever seen, thanks man!
Recently been going thru Love spells with someone I see a long future with. This feels like a sign from the Lord to keep pressing on. Thank you for this.
I'm glad I stumbled on these videos. I gotta say, it's helping me turn my life around. I used to be a hardcore otaku and borderline degenerate and after listening to these videos and discovering other Joshua Graham contents, I've took a very large step back to reflect in my life... and I'm glad I did. I really needed it. Thank you and God bless 🙏
Start turning your life around by changing that profile picture.
@@DariusFlynt_2012 I will once I get off work 👍
This is more of a wake-up call for me. I had to listen to this three times, and the more I did, the more the words made sense.
Thank you.❤
If only for a moment. I have been brought out of a very dark place. Thank you so much for your time and effort.
This is fantastic!! Edit: I’ve sent this to my family. Some of them are angry.
I will.. with all my pain and knowledge will be... A father and love does not take but make better... Never hurt but be stronger never lower always rise... For you are the future.
I really like the videos you put out, they reinforce the hope that there are wise men left in this world. I’ve always felt that I’m a glitch in my generation( Gen Z) I’m almost the opposite of what people are today. But I know that I am still human, and I’ll strive to do my best to survive the current situation but spread my goodwill to others, like what you’re doing right now.
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@@GTRRSSyet another loser that won’t get the mental state of this planet
You my friend is one of the greatest speakers I have ever heard, great video. 👏
I missed you Joshua. Thanks for coming back and being my study buddy 🍻
Nope. I literally and truly love everyone. I know how this sounds and looks but I love unconditionally... I get that looks weak to everyone but that's the meaning of tough love too, literally.
bro ur vids cured my depression
Honestly I needed this so thank you
You just gave the best advice for new parents.....
Damn i forgot about these. Thanks for uploading
Thank you, genuinely, for giving me and so many others such advice.
This is so true. Thank you for this reminder.
I found this video thinking "lol joshua graham ai haha funny" and then after listening to the entire thing I have to say you've done a good job of making me look in the mirror. I have to say, at first I felt bad about being called out, but that's a good thing because it means you're right.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to suddenly wake up tomorrow with a complete change of heart and new motivation to get my life together. I'm too stubborn and lazy to do that, but you put the idea in my head. If my future development into a better person were a tree, you planted the seed. Well, you my mother, and a therapist, but hearing the same "get your life together" talk from the voice of a character I like is helping. It sounds stupid when I say it out loud, but it's true.
I've been stalling and self sabotaging myself for too long. I live with my mother and haven't really done anything with my life since high school. I didn't like college so I dropped out, but I had to do something with my life so I tried joining the military. I wimped out 2 weeks into basic training and came back home feeling like I was useless and didn't belong anywhere in the world, so I just became a shut-in.
I've always been the antisocial, introverted type and being a shut-in is basically my default state of being if I'm not being forced to go out and do something. And so for the past year I've done just that. Doing nothing but sleep, game, watch, and eat; under the impression that I will suddenly become a better person and move out when the time comes. As if I'll have some kind of spontaneous transformation one day, but that's not how it works.
I can't wait for the time to come. I have to make my time come myself. And when I do, the transformsation won't be instant. It'll take time, effort, and discipline. All things I have difficulties managing, but it's better I start now then wait for the supposed right time because like you said, the "young and dumb" excuse becomes a real problem when you hit your 30s. I am 20 years old, but if I keep following the "my time will come eventually" mentality, I'll be stuck in this state of nothing for the rest of my life. I can't let that happen. I've been a burden on my family and society long enough. As much as I dislike society, It's mostly because I feel it does suit my wants and needs, but who cares what I want or need? I can't change society, but I can change myself. Then my wants and needs will be fulfilled by myself. And ironically, it will feel better earning those wants than to have them handed to me. It seems like a no-brainer that a reward feels better when you had to work for it, but my lazy unmotivated self hadn't thought about that until now.
Like I said earlier, I'm not going to wake up tomorrow with a sudden change of character, newfound motivation, and get my life together in one day all because of one inspiring video I saw late at night. I need to take the time to develope good habits and break bad habits. Take small steps. True change, at least in my case, will take time and effort, but it's better that I get that ball rolling now than wait for it to magically roll itself.
I'm rambling at this point. In short, I appreciate you making videos like this to put people like me into perspective. It's a real good wake up call that I needed. I put it on as background noise to listen to while gaming, but I ended up pausing the game and really listening, because you've genuinely spoke to me. And if you can get through to my stubborn skull like that, then maybe I can too. I know this is a long comment and you probably wouldn't read it out of many, but if you do, know that I appreciate the tough love.
Truly In awe!!!
You're an inspiration, Aogiri.
Powerful truth, incredible.
Kind of a interesting work. It sounds and feels like the character from NV but clearly this is different. I am watching this channel for first time. You can notice that after 5min but before that it feels like the lines are from NV. This character from NV is great for a reason. Voice actor adds a lot too but script is a different story. This sounds like well thought out and written script. I guess AI was used for voice which adds some important spice. It's just pleasant to listen to.
It's just interesting because I think many people would learn many truths from this video. I have lived for 20+ years experiencing many things. I have watched and learned many things. A lot of what I had to learn by myself is told here. This is one cool and unique video :)
There is something in the voice that makes you to listen
This man has converted more to the faith of christianity than i thought and i can see why holy cow wisdom flows from him like water from a waterfall
It is just now that i realise this is an AI however still amazing
Amazingly well said and spoken and this shows a very clear insight if the reality we all face these days and only time will tell
I Feel like I'm dying hearing these Vlogs, but this tok sample of a concept to fathom is more than the parts of its whole.
why does joshua grahm add nothing but everything to this