These Dating Tips For Women Are Pretty Insane
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We had men give their best dating tips for women and wow. The advice that was given is, well, kind of insane if we're being honest. There are some gems in there though. Take a look for yourself.
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joe casually proving he's a good dude with every video. a real one.
I’ve always been a Joe fan but what really proved this to me years ago was when he made pro-gay marriage and pro-trans videos and lost a ton of viewers, but still never backed away from who he was. That told me all I needed to know about the kind of guy he is and is why I’ve been a fan for many years.
@@Imlesclarke sooo true. he's such the epitome of an authentic chill guy who stays in his lane. what a gem
@@TwoBrokenWyngsFACTS
This reddit thread should actually be titled "Who hurt you, ma boi?"
I love when he hears something so obviously ridiculous in these videos and it cuts to him confused saying, 'Wait--wha?' 😂
The no dumb pajamas one killed me. That man truly has a vendetta against pajamas. 😂😂
so specific lol!
I think he means don’t spend all day wearing pajamas. The “come home from work” line seems to indicate he dated a woman who would put on pajamas and then wouldn’t change for days. I agree, tis disgusting.
@@XneverstopfightingX That's definitely not what he meant but it's a good quality to try to find the good in bad things
@@XneverstopfightingXhe did not say anything about wearing the same clothes multiple days and being dirty, he’s just a hater of comfort
So he would be cool if I had pajamas with the Pythagorean theorem on them? That's what he means, right?😂
First dates should be a coffee or a walk. Helps avoid awkward meals, or spending money.
Agreed!
That’s not a date and it sets the tone that minimal effort is ok
@MultiSimba10 That person just met you they're not gonna put in effort to bring someone that might not even agree to a second date to a five star restaurant
@@MultiSimba10No you just don’t like it because you don’t get more out of it, I first date should focus on conversations and a coffee in a cafe is the perfect place, not a restaurant whilst eating food.
100%
When I saw the title, I got scared. And I was right. The guys who give advice online aren't the ones you want to get advice from.
"If you like us, touch us" uhhh buddy, we are aware men love to be touched, why would I just do the guy I'm just getting to know you
Apart from joe 😂
I’m literally sitting here in my Winnie the Pooh pjs that my husband bought me 😂
Some of these dudes need to understand the difference between advice and venting.
If it's a repeated thing, that after a month of dating, women say "It's not you, it's me", or that they have to " work on themselves", it's probably you.
That made me suspicious too lol One or two women, that's coincidence, but if a bunch of women are telling him this, either he's got something going on that indicates to women he is not someone to be with long-term, or he's going after a particular type of woman every time and getting mad that they're not changing to suit him
I was once on a tinder date with a guy and we went to Chili’s. A waiter came up to us and gave us a $25 gift card and said “the older gentleman in the corner wanted to give that to the sweet young couple” it was SO sweet of that old man but super awkward nonetheless 😂😂😂
I felt personally attacked by the pj thing 😂 good thing my hubby doesn’t care about my hello kitty, Mickey Mouse or Nickelodeon sleepwear lol
“Men know when women fake like something.” That is patently false 🤣🤣
HA
"I'm just ready for a relationship" is code for "I'm just not into you" It's a nice way of making it not feel like you did anything wrong
Yeaaah I was also thinking, there’s something else there, buddy…
It’s dishonest though, especially with the example in the video. Saying “I’m not ready for a relationship” after a month of dating sends the wrong message. Clearly she is, otherwise she wouldn’t have dated him for a month. Being upfront and saying “I’m not into you” or “this isn’t working out” or “you’re not my person” or “I just want to have a sexual relationship” makes the message clear and is therefore an honest reflection of how you feel. Anything less is just lying
@@The_Dinosaur_Hereticwomen have to put safety before honesty
@@gothbimbo9470
You’re implying that women can’t be honest and safe. That’s pretty ridiculous
@@The_Dinosaur_Hereticoften, they can’t. You’ve clearly not spent much time around people with anger issues, or you ARE that person and don’t realize it.
It happens with anyone with anger issues, that you may have to be deceiving or somewhat dishonest to avoid their rage. And it’s an unfortunate reality that, many times and possibly more frequently than others, this scenario presents itself between heterosexual couples. There is often a physical power imbalance, and those who produce or consume testosterone tend to be quicker to anger.
Take a second to get out of your own world and listen to the lived experiences people tell you.
My Dad always told me if I’m ever going on a first date, always go somewhere public like a restaurant or movie theater. The reason being is because you don’t 100% know this person and you have to be careful because there’s been so many people who’ve gone out on first dates in private settings and wound up missing or being killed. It’s best to establish trust before you allow them to come into your own home.
Completely agree with the public thing, but there is no way I'd go to a movie theater with someone I don't know - too dark and too private
"Set Hut!" 😂
Always my favorite word fumble when he says "set hut" 😭😭😅
He had a pretty cool stroke there lol
I laughed so hard when he said that.. I spit my coffee everywhere lmaooo
I’ve been watching Joe since the reaction to the girl who ate a tampon. So to see him speak so maturely about relationships and life, makes me feel oddly proud.
To me it feels like hes pandering, he doesn't portray himself in this kind of light in any other videos. On this chanel it feels like a different joe
@@jamessmith..919I feel like you haven’t been around very long then. He jokes around a lot, but at the end of the day he’s a pretty decent guy.
@duckygibson2075 I've been around a long time, and all the videos on this channel feel like "therapy joe". And it feels very disingenuous
@@jamessmith..919I've seen Joe get quite serious about various topics here and there and to me, it seems like he's actually very mature and wise, even. But in those other videos, he's just joking around and deliberately being silly. I think the real Joe is actually quite level headed.
@@jamessmith..919 then you're not paying attention bc there's been plenty of times on the Basement Yard where he's acted the same. And, he has a whole podcast with Greg where he's serious called Other People's Lives. Joe can be funny and can be serious, as can Frankie. I don't see the issue. Each channel has its own vibe 🤷🏾♀️
If you don't like my cookie monster pj's, I'm out.
Fr I’m keeping my buddy the elf and cow onesie deal with it
I got my bf some video games he wanted and surprised him with some food and played with him for the full day. After that he was a lot more lovey dovey and generally has been more thoughtful, not that he wasn’t before, but it’s def improved. He had treated me a lot like that in the beginning of our relationship but after almost 3 years it had dwindled a bit, and instead of asking for more I thought about when I had done something like that for him last, and it has also been a while. So I did it and I’d say it was more than worth it. Treat your partners y’all :)
Honestly I’ll wear whatever the hell I want in my own house 😂you do not get to tell me what I can and cannot wear
As a woman, the touch barrier one actually sounds amazing😅 AND if you're a dude, make sure that the touch ratio is about equivalent. You don't have to be a psycho and count out how many times each person has initiated touch lol but I've been in so many situations where the guy was touching me a lot and I wasn't reciprocating at all and the longer it goes on for the less I want to be touched😅
Not saying that women are saints and are always right, but I just love how much Joe defends women and shits on men in some of these videos 🤣 we appreciate you 💜
It's a lot easier to shite on the ones you can recognize from your own "group" I think lol Women might be a little uncomfortable if Joe was extremely hard on the women, just like some men get offended when women react to shitty guys.
Hey, I've got a tip for any other people out there whose partners are into video games while they aren't as much. My husband and I have a tradition called "together games." About once a year, I pick a game, and I watch him play the entire main story. It's nice because I can pick a game with themes I'm interested in, and he gets to game. We've done this with Witcher 3, Mass Effect Andromeda, God of War, etc, and I have so many good memories of those games now even though I've technically never played them 😅. It helped me understand why he loves gaming so much, and I picked some games that I don't think he would've tried otherwise. We both really enjoy spending the time together and I highly recommend it!
I'm a gaming woman but this is very cute. I would love to have a partner watch me game. Only issue is I'm the kind of person who will just keep going and playing until I pass out for the night and I do not ever want to have to stop and come back later just for another person, even if they were a partner lol I feel like if they were watching to take in the story, this wouldn't work for that reason.
The “SET HUT” always gets me 😭😭
I LOVE when he does that too!!❤😂
If you don’t love me in my Looney Toon pajamas, then you don’t deserve my love 🤣🤣
18:35
Joe: “I hate dudes like that..”
Frankie: 👀👀
“NO POOP TALK”💩🚽🤣☠️ I laughed at that part so hard too!!😂❤
EXACTLY what I thought
The very first thought that went through my head 😅
Mad respect to Joe going through the responses in this series of videos. That’s why he’s awesome 🤩
Yeah dude that says "don't get into a relationship if you aren't ready", tells me they keep leaving him after 1 month because ITS HIM! He is obviously the problem, lmao. Dude obviously never heard of the saying, "if everyone around you is the problem, them maybe it's YOU that's the problem" 😂😂😂
Right lol didn't we all learn what "it's not you, it's me" actually means when we were like 16 😂😂😂
“you can have perfection as long as your standards for perfection aren’t realistic” that was bars
*aren't unrealistic*
So in my perspective when people say they are dating to find someone to marry, it doesn’t mean how you describe it as though there is an urgency to it. It means to me that I’m dating you to find out who you are and see if your character and values match my goals and dreams for my life. Which seems just like dating but we unfortunately don’t live in a world where people date like that. It also means if I get in a fight with you, are you the type a person to handle conflict like a husband would where you respect each other’s opinions and come to a reasonable solution. And it means to some degree that when you guys are exclusive than all the little things that life throws at you will be mini tests to see if you are the husband that fits into my life. And that goes both ways if you both agree to date exclusively and gives another person reassurance that you aren’t just going to give up over stupid little stuff. I’m sure everyone’s opinion is different on the matter but that’s kinda how I see it at least
Ithink everyone should be dating for marraige. The modern way of dating is very "mr.right now" and instead of vetting people for marraige and long term relationships, we go for looks and vibes, and as things progress, what often happens is one person decides they wanna invest in this and put all their chips in, and the other person goes "oof yeah, this was just like...for fun". So everyone is dating "for fun", and either things progress forward, oe one pwrson is wasting their time, or both people are using each other for some sort of satisfaction and validation other than mutual respect, love, or commitment. I don't date because I want to be married, but I do date to marry. If I cannot see myself marrying you, I cannot date you.
1:12 “SET HUT” i love when he does that 😂😂
Here's mine: Don't play hard to get. I don't know how common this is anymore, and different people's experiences will obviously vary, it's a terrible thing to do, not the least of which because men in the modern day are instructed from an early age not to chase, that it's creepy. Hell, my mom has even told me before that some women want you to chase to "show how much you care" and it's just baffling to me. I mean, from a guy's perspective, what's the most likely thing in this day and age: that she's actually playing hard to get and will appreciate your pestering, or that she actually has no interest in you whatsoever. Even if the majority is the former, which I don't think it is, no dude in 2024 who's reached adulthood will assume that it is.
real. honestly the only time i want to be chased is when we’re already dating and i’m upset (small argument or something) and walking away 😂
excellent advice. this day & age, doing that reads as ghosting, and any half-decent person would take the hint.
Yeah if I'm withdrawing and a guy keeps pushing thinking that I'm playing hard to get it just makes things incredibly awkward, especially since a lot of women are taught to be polite and not hurt feelings. They get put in the awkward position of safely trying to find an out that won't be taken too harshly, even if it's purely a text conversation
My FAVORITE is when Joe stumbles over a word and he does the “what…set….HUT”😂❤😂 and always keeps them in the video… even in ad reads!😎👍 LOVE YOU SO MUCH JOE!❤
Between this video and the last I am so glad I was born ace, dating sounds incredibly scary and exhausting. It's like the master's division for people who know how to make friends and it can socially traumatize you at any moment.
Oh my God SAME!!! Dating sounds like a nightmare.
The men’s advice is so unbelievably funny!🤣 There was definitely advice given… but I don’t know if I’d say it was GOOD ADVICE given!😂☠️ It was a big mess of yelling and barking orders!🤣🐶 I LOVE ALL YOUR VIDEOS JOE!❤️ These are some of my FAVORITE to watch!!! Xoxoxo!!❤
I LOVE this format. It‘s funny and deep talk with very empathetic words of wisdom. Therapy rants I would call it 😁
Before a date, both parties should communicate who will be responsible for the bill. That way, it's not a surprise and one person doesn't feel taken advantage of.
yes! honestly a lot of dating trouble could be avoided by communicating the worries instead of fronting. its so nice to be like "I feel nervous about the exceptions being unclear, can we discuss"
@@Zakk_Ross Exactly! Also, based on their answer of being willing or not to have more of a discussion will also narrow down who you end up going on a date with.
Maybe, yeah, but I've personally never expected someone to take care of my half of the bill as a woman. Idk it just seems weird to feel entitled to their money, especially over a meal
@@Lemonydawg15 I agree that no one should expect it. I personally prefer each person to pay for themselves. It makes the date less awkward.
My rule for dating, first date is coffee, a smoothie, ice cream and a walk. Something very simple and inexpensive and informal. I find this helps with nerves and if someone isn't feeling it, you don't have to stay for a long time.
Then if you like the person, leave a meal for a second date. I also always insist that we alternate paying so it's fair
I’ve came to realize Joe is really good at giving advice. He should like monetize this lmao
It's monetized, it's a TH-cam video. And he did an ad read halfway through
Oh, I agree on the hobbies and interests. I know this couple that got together purely because they both love antiquing. He even opened an antique shop with her and was quite successful. Turns out she hated antiques and hated the shop. She hated her life but was faking it. They split 3 years in, once she came clean. But he knew before because she used to make snide comments and would bury her face in her phone when he started talking antiques.
**sorry I own 6 pairs of different baby Yoda pajamas ❤
I mean, you can try to be interested, but if you aren't, let them know. Hiding it is essentially lying.
@vellathewench absolutely. He wasted 3 years.
Some of these guys didn’t really give advice, they were just burned and mad at a certain woman and didn’t have a healthy way to vent it
Right?! 😅 So specific
When i saw "no pajamas" in the thumbnail, I assumed it meant no matching pjs at christmas or something 😂 I love pjs and would like seeing her in pjs at home
I thought it was Pajamas in public, but not wanting people to own pajamas at all is crazy 😂
"Be nice! And wash your ass!" should be on a T-shirt!
I look forward to your videos. Also 1st dates don’t have to be a dinner in my opinion. It can be doing fun activities or grabbing coffee/lunch
Set hut is back 😂 love you Joey
1:08 ok, got it
i was about to slip and slide but u saved me, thanks man. good work!
It's like that Seinfeld episode, 'you didn't have to tell your friends.' 'No, I had to tell my friends. My friends didn't have to tell you 🙄'
"You should be aiming to be grateful and look back on your life and say
‘ I’m just happy with the way that things turned out and it could be a lot worse. ‘
Maybe that’s perfection."
Bro was spitting
I hate being attracted to men holy shit. If I'm ever single again, I'm just gonna keep to myself if this is how they are out in the wilderness.
I can be the only person who thinks Joe sounds like Bill Burr at 17:12
I just thought that exact thing, looked down and bam! The comment is already there! 😂🤣
He sounded exactly like Bill Burr there. 😅
For the past 3 years, my man has been teaching me all I need to know about NFL....do I enjoy it myself, not really. Do I enjoy that twinkle in his eye when he talks about it to me, hell yeah I do ❤
In the unlikely event that I ever end up in a relationship and marry someone I will absolutely start saying “honey, you never get me flowers anymore” or “honey, you never dance with me anymore” even if those things never occurred in the past.
My glorious king Joe 😫
The no poop talk advice is written by Frank
I love watching your videos Joe! I only watch youtube and binged all your videos years ago already! Youre the best 😂❤🤗
Some of these guys were pretty dramatic 😂
Amen on the perfection speech 🙌🏻
Frankie left that no poop talk comment 🤣🤣
I always offer to split the bill on the first date, whether or not its gonna work. Helps reduce some of the pressure imo.
You want a fun drinking game? Take a shot every time Joey says ummm during the sponsors.
4:21 “the whole pajama thing” like it’s an epidemic and not just that man overreacting lmfaooo 😭😭
Frankie had to write the one about the bathroom being a holy place
5:14 Ive had multiple girls about a month in say that they need to work on themselves then start talking to other guys. It hurt more than the one girl I met who said she didn't think we would work in about the same time frame.
Adding onto the touch barrier bit. If you like me, go ahead and make the first move. Every time a girl liked me, I always heard it from a third party. Dudes don’t get a lot of compliments or attention like that. If you make the first move, it’ll make his decade.
“be nice and wash your ass” should be a slogan on a shirt 😂
Funny story about buying men flowers 😂
I bought my boyfriend flowers for our last anniversary half as a joke half because he does landscaping and I thought it was cute, little did I know he was going to propose LOL so when we got back to my house I awkwardly grab them and go “I guess it’s a good time to give you your flowers” 😂
(P.S I said yes)
Congratulations on your engagement.
As a gay man, I have stopped more than one date mid dinner and said ‘this ain’t gonna work’. So I’d called over the waiter, pay for both our meals, and get my food boxed up 🤷🏾♂️ not gonna sit through a whole dumb date but also don’t wanna add insult to injury by leaving the check.
What's this guy got against pajamas? Imo wear what you want, and if it's silly and cute pajamas that are comfy af, then even better.
as a 28 year old woman in my minion pajamas, i am happily married so that guy can leave
I wear a nightgown and bonnet 😭😭
3:51 me in my Garfield pjs: 😔💔
Literally same, Garfield's my idol
WE WANT MORE
Your videos are always so clear and understandable! Thank you for your helpful lessons! 💖😘
Hey from the UK 🇬🇧 ❤
Fyi? Dayumn, I’m proud of your responses here bruv- (wiping a tear) JOE GROWN UP!! ❤
Much like the last men's advice video LOL it's further proof that a lot of these dudes online don't seem to have a clue on what they want lol
18:50 Hate to be that person but, I (a woman) have known some women who will, unprompted, tell you how they just shaved their butt, took a long pee, did a 20 step skincare routine they saw on Pinterest, DIYed a bikini waxed, & more. Asking to not be told that info is perfectly fine & should be respected.
Weird. I'm not a girly-girl and I don't do all that stuff but it wouldn't like, bother or offend me to hear about it from someone else. Some of y'all sound like you'd be bad friends in addition to bad partners lol What a strange thing to be bothered by.
My point was that some people just aren’t comfortable talking/hearing about some things & as a respectful person romantic or otherwise you should respect that. Personally, the stuff I listed doesn’t really bother me to talk about but I can understand why some people wouldn’t want to talk about it.
"Be nice, wash your ass." - Joe S. 2024
I don't get why it's weird if a woman likes to split the bill
1:11 YES! I come prepared to pay for exactly this reason
Joe, I have a dating advice to give you:
*Date me* 😘
I do love how a plaid pj moment sets the holiday mood 😊
cackling at the “ SET HUT”
SET HUUTT!!🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@ 😂
For some reason I think colab between Joe and rapnamefogie would be fu**ing legendary!
I need these to be two hours long. We need more.
If a woman is not telling a man how much money she makes, it is because he is poor at handling money, and she doesn't want him to think she has an income that allows him to spend like a drunken sailor on stupid things like a 110 dollar Dukes of Hazzard jersey
I love these videos 😂😂😂
I wish more men were like Joe. He's obviously been brought up so well. What a guy
My man doesn’t bat an eye at me wearing a moomoo/night gown. I even have a long sleeve winter one that comes down to my mid shin. Resembles a madea outfit, but it’s comfortable. He hasn’t complained once.
I NEED ANOTHER INSTALLMENT OF THIS! I CANT STOP LAUGHING
1:09 "HELLO SAID HUT" broo😭😭
I am a woman and my rule for a first date is if I ask them out, I pay. I think the rule of thumb should be whomever innitiates, pays. I took my current partner on a first date. We had already been dating a while and I realised we never went on a formal first date. So I took him because I had the cash. The idea that gender determines who pays is wild to me. I have almost always taken money with on other first dates and offered to split and most of the time they said it was fine. But I never assumed. Like, if you get invited and you don't have cash, be open about that upfront. Most of the time if you are honest and people really want to spend time with you, hey won't mind paying. Also, if I am short on cash, I always let them order first so I know what their price range is.
17:11 bill burr moment 😂
The one saying don't expect perfection wasn't really talking about in life. It was a convoluted way to say I haven't been able to live up to the expectations of my ex's and I can't take accountability for it.
Joe is the sweetest guy x
I love how @joesantagato keeps getting bigger and hotter he used to be so skinny 😂😂
(Day 1 fan since walmart videos) 😂😂
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5:05 Me watching this in my night gown and bonnet… 👀🥲
15:18 lmfao I love this 😂😂😂
Does anyone else think Frankie wrote that last bit of advice? Lmfao and Joey went IN 😂
Lmao, what if she called out from the bathroom "honey Im taking the biggest poop ever, it smells like a barn ...get in here and lets make love" then he says thats ok haha
i say set-hut everytime i slip up