Initial conversation was quite interesting. Speaking as a trans woman, I found what took me as long as I did to make that discovery was the fact my dysphoria was (for lack of a better term) more mild than what I’d have expected. It wasn’t this intense disgust or panic that the media often emphasizes, but was just a sort of a constant tired feeling. Exhausting. Just looking in the mirror and feeling disappointed. Not thinking that was connected to anything deeper, I just shrugged that off as “normal” feelings. In many ways, I found aspects of that initial conversation to be really similar in description to the version of dysphoria I experienced. Not intense panic, not visceral disgust, just feeling a certain gender in defining moments of clarity.
Thank u4 that thoughtful opening! I'm feeling it all, too. The sadness, the rage, the worry, etc. When I was growing up, it felt like the world was getting better cuz of Roe vs. Wade & gay rights advancing, etc. I felt like the things I was doing, such as marching in the Pride parade & other positive stands I took, were making a change. I feel sad for the youth growing up during all this & for everyone who its impacting (which is basically everyone). Everything's a friggin mess, BUT we still have u & this wonderful pod to keep us as sane as possible! I've even been replaying episodes just to lift my spirits. 😝💜☮
Here's a little reality check you want to fix the roe v Wade problem then talk to your representatives about creating a amendment all that the railway Wade situation did is rectify that the original Constitution did not give you some right that was not there you can have that right through an amendment stop whining about how things are so terrible now and do something about it not vitally not through protests but actively speaking to your representatives and demanding a amendment problem solved all the states will then have to align with that amendment
This was a super entertaining episode. Emma has this hilarious chaotic vibe that somehow feels so relatable. I actually really enjoyed hearing her talk about the openness in her relationship and how effortlessly she normalized that even people in loving and respectful relationships can/may still be turned on by derogatory talk; especially appreciated the helpful tips on how to try and broach the subject of porn.
Such a fantastic episode! Ashley seems somehow more relaxed and chill in this one than usual too. You can tell that she is good friends with Emma. The rapport is so natural. 10/10
21:57 OH MY GOD I also told people I don't know my pronouns, I started going by nonbinary for people that know me and working on telling random strangers - I gave some younger people a existential crisis by saying "I don't know call me whatever". And this being the first episode I tune in on feels purposeful now I too love male pronouns and the idea of it, And many female friends in the past have said I'm pretty much a guy . I'm learning a LOT about myself and IM SO FUCKING GLAD ITS NOT JUST ME
As someone with IBS, keeping calm is essential. Without it you are screwed. There is a bunch of judgment though. Not too long I farted a little too loud in a stall and they actually send an employee to check I'd left things clean while I was still in there. And the space was so small the employee blocked the stalls for me and the person next to me, *locking us in* until she got bored and went to stand right outside. It's hard...
I just found one of Ashley's shorts and I'm so glad i found the podcast too!! I'm laughing my ass off omg. Loving this. Signing up for all the lists, come to Atlanta.
Anne Lister's lover called her Freddie :D Did you know HBO cancelled Gentleman Jack and there is a Save Gentleman Jack movement. Hopefully BBC picks up GJ for season 3.
hey ! I live in the city anne lister and walker got married, 'jack' was slang for what they called women they were thought were involved with other women (basically slang for lesbian) the church is in the city centre and there's a little plaque in commemoration of the marriage
help me i googled gentleman jack to see if ashley looked like her and was greeted with the news that the show is cancelled. sigh pride-month-is-overcore, another day another lesbian show slayed (derogatory)
31:40 honestly Ashley thanks for acknowledging early twenties are horrible. Funny enough it does make me feel better. I am absolutely hating my 20 something years
Does anyone want a simple explanation of the science behind why heartbreak physically hurts? So our brain can't cope with all these emotions, so it's like "why are we SO UPSET?! We must be injured! But where?" And since there is no real injury to find the brain basically decides "yup, insides it is. Insides are vage and confusing enough that it could be there"
Emma, that sounds pretty genderfluid to me! But it's always up to you! I have a lot of similar feelings to you, and love he/him in the sheets and they/them in the streets! I'm nonbinary transmasc, and use they/them/him pronouns but still love being a butch lesbian! It's up to you! No pressure, but if they/them makes you feel calm, then you deserve that
NOT THAT I'M ATTEMPTING TO GIVE YOU A LABEL. There's so many labels and names, nonbinary, queer, genderfluid, gender nonconforming, transmasc, etc etc. All are valid! Nothing matters unless it matters to you. It's your life. Gender is fucking weird and fun and confusing
@@EmmaWillmannComedy Yes thank you so much for describing your experiences/ confusion with gender and pronouns, it really helped me put words to feelings that are hard to describe. I'm a late bloomer baby lesbian in my 30s and have been struggling to find words for how I feel about my gender particularly in relation to sex. Much love to you from another "man one" in Australia (be sick if you could come tour here one day)
So I just wanted to join your mailing list, hince you mentioned London. Your subscription thingy only alows U. S. zip codes 😂😂😂😂 Anyway I would love to see you in Europe 🥳
Nonbinary and confused as all get out, and absolutely drooling and crying over Emma and their fekkin crisis lol.. Love this, so much, your podcasts literally refuel my empty pointless life on days when I feel empty and pointless lol. Pathetic, forgive me, also having a crisis lol. Love you Ash, Kate, Emma, all your incredible guests and the smiles you bring. You may not realize it readily when making this content but you literally help little confused idiots like me push thru the struggle.. I took this episode to heart, tbh. Kinda feels like this particular episode popped up for a reason. I appreciate the shit outa you Ash.
1:06:15 Ashley, I say this from the bottom of my heart, Anne Lister in the tv show is THE HoTttest character I have ever encountered and ya'll look SUPer similar.... so like 💔 Also, the title is refereing to the derogatory name Anne Lister's neighbors used for her in her lifetime. 'gentleman' referanced her gender non-conforming clothes, appearance, behaviour and 'jack' was slang for lesbian at the time. Love the podcast!
You have to have Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi from Attitudes! On next time. Emma is amazing and is one of my favourite podcasters. She is so fucking funny. It’s a podcast match I needed
@@EmmaWillmannComedy omg hi! You’re one of my favorite guests, you crack me up! All three of you do… You should come on the pod more often please, it’s just that good.
@@haydeecastillo4621 I’m a big fan of coffee dates/wandering around a mall. I usually bring some cards for coffee dates so we have something to do while we’re getting to know each other
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
im.a little late on this episode, but it's called Gentleman Jack because Jack was a derogatory nickname for lesbians back in the day, if you watch more closely there's a feew scenes ceertain characters will threaten her business/marriage in private and call her Jack. and it's "Gentleman" because she was a sort of royalty in her way; the primarily active head of one of the iconic families of England, and people respected her almost as much as they did a man (hence the reason she was so able to get away with her lesbianism, unlike many other of the couples of the time if you watch such other biopics as "Elisa y Marcela" and whatnot.
Uh! I know a lot about Anne Lister! She was from Yorkshire where my family is from. She was the first woman estate owner and very wealthy. There have been quite a lot of shady business decisions and practices made by her, but that's another topic. She dressed in a very masculine way (as Kate said, as much as she could at the time). People did call her Jack, because back then it was an insult for a manly woman. She was a lesbian, rather rake-ish and had an affair with a married woman for quite a long time. The woman did indeed call Anne "Fred" in bed. Since she's an historical figure and she used the language available at the time we don't know for certian if she really identified as a woman. Back then it wasn't really an option to outright stake you were in fact a man. People didn't have a term for it... She called herself a woman and "she" in her diaries but she also wrote that she was deeply uncomfortable with even the thought of menstruation.
I have IBS and I had eating something I'd never tried before with my cousin before going on a hike. That's not a good idea... Smack dab in the middle of bum-fuck nowhere I had to poop. And if you have IBS you know the sweating, the cramps, the pain... And the runny poo Well I did what I had to do behind some bushes, not like there was much of a choice. Didn't have any tissues or whatever, nothing to wipe with. I had to use my own underwear 🙈 I left it there, in the forest and just went commando for the rest of the hike 🙈
I feel like in a recent uncut episode (maybe this or last weeks?) I heard someone mention a jade… maybe wishful thinking, but I hoped it was indeed the jade fox.
Hi Ashley Gavin! Happy 4th of The Best Month of the Year. I had an allergic reaction to grapefruit today so I’m feeling pretty weird right now. Anyways, I recommend listening to Ellen Fisher’s latest podcast episode. It’s titled pro-life vs pro-choice and she has two women talk about their strongly held perspectives on abortion. It was made with such great intentions and is truly so thought provoking. What I’m really trying say is: I want to give you a virtual hug. And if you’ve already seen it or scrolled past it on TH-cam then this is awkward and I’m sorry
Not sure if anyone cares about this since some other comments are deep and meaning. But , anyway, “Jack” used to be a somewhat derogatory slang term of lesbians. Reportedly Anne Lister’s neighbors called her Gentleman Jack behind her back? (Citation needed)
I love y'all, but asking someone out that you're interested in is actually physically dangerous for gay men and trans people into men. It was nice to live vicariously through your story though, Ashley.
Hey Cameron! Yes, I totally agree can you point to where this became relevant so I can understand your concern about how I may have spoken about it? I can't always remember each moment of each episode. Helps me do better if I can have a timestamp.
@@ashgavs Maybe they meant 39:15? I think it is implied to only go for it if you feel safe though! That said, definitely a good point to remember, it's not fair how gay/queer/trans men get treated by other men :/
Uh, it's physically dangerous for lesbian women too. Ever seen Hannah Gadsby's special? She talks about getting beaten up by a woman's boyfriend because he thought she was "flirting" with her at a bus stop. Lesbians don't live in some magical world where we don't face violence just because we aren't attracted to or pursue men. It's often literally the reason why we face violence from men.
@@vivienneedwards5516 Yes I definitely mean only if you feel physically safe!!!! We're talking about hitting on people we feel safe with, not just outing ourselves to whomever is in proximity. Hope that helps everyone.
@@arthoeinc.3469 really had no idea. That's why I started watching more and more content that isn't predominantly just straight men or straight women: to learn these things. I'll have to check Hannah Gadsby out too. Thank you
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
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Jack was a "slur" word for lesbian at the time, hence the title Gentleman Jack. Also the main character does get called "Jack" once or twice by man.
Initial conversation was quite interesting. Speaking as a trans woman, I found what took me as long as I did to make that discovery was the fact my dysphoria was (for lack of a better term) more mild than what I’d have expected.
It wasn’t this intense disgust or panic that the media often emphasizes, but was just a sort of a constant tired feeling. Exhausting. Just looking in the mirror and feeling disappointed. Not thinking that was connected to anything deeper, I just shrugged that off as “normal” feelings.
In many ways, I found aspects of that initial conversation to be really similar in description to the version of dysphoria I experienced. Not intense panic, not visceral disgust, just feeling a certain gender in defining moments of clarity.
thank you for sharing this!
Thank u4 that thoughtful opening! I'm feeling it all, too. The sadness, the rage, the worry, etc. When I was growing up, it felt like the world was getting better cuz of Roe vs. Wade & gay rights advancing, etc. I felt like the things I was doing, such as marching in the Pride parade & other positive stands I took, were making a change. I feel sad for the youth growing up during all this & for everyone who its impacting (which is basically everyone). Everything's a friggin mess, BUT we still have u & this wonderful pod to keep us as sane as possible! I've even been replaying episodes just to lift my spirits. 😝💜☮
Here's a little reality check you want to fix the roe v Wade problem then talk to your representatives about creating a amendment all that the railway Wade situation did is rectify that the original Constitution did not give you some right that was not there you can have that right through an amendment stop whining about how things are so terrible now and do something about it not vitally not through protests but actively speaking to your representatives and demanding a amendment problem solved all the states will then have to align with that amendment
This was a super entertaining episode. Emma has this hilarious chaotic vibe that somehow feels so relatable. I actually really enjoyed hearing her talk about the openness in her relationship and how effortlessly she normalized that even people in loving and respectful relationships can/may still be turned on by derogatory talk; especially appreciated the helpful tips on how to try and broach the subject of porn.
Such a fantastic episode! Ashley seems somehow more relaxed and chill in this one than usual too. You can tell that she is good friends with Emma. The rapport is so natural. 10/10
Omg Emma was an amazing guest. Especially the gender part is so relatable
21:57
OH MY GOD
I also told people I don't know my pronouns,
I started going by nonbinary for people that know me and working on telling random strangers
- I gave some younger people a existential crisis by saying "I don't know call me whatever".
And this being the first episode I tune in on feels purposeful now
I too love male pronouns and the idea of it,
And many female friends in the past have said I'm pretty much a guy .
I'm learning a LOT about myself and IM SO FUCKING GLAD ITS NOT JUST ME
Best part of Mondays!!
Watching WHGS is always the highlight of my Mondays
As someone with IBS, keeping calm is essential. Without it you are screwed. There is a bunch of judgment though. Not too long I farted a little too loud in a stall and they actually send an employee to check I'd left things clean while I was still in there. And the space was so small the employee blocked the stalls for me and the person next to me, *locking us in* until she got bored and went to stand right outside. It's hard...
What???!? That’s crazy!
I signed up for the mailing list ages ago and I'm in Melbourne Australia. Get on it everyone.
PS. Aussie tour would be soooo sweet😉
Facts plus She can stop off in South Africa on the way easy peasy
I just found one of Ashley's shorts and I'm so glad i found the podcast too!! I'm laughing my ass off omg. Loving this. Signing up for all the lists, come to Atlanta.
Anne Lister's lover called her Freddie :D Did you know HBO cancelled Gentleman Jack and there is a Save Gentleman Jack movement. Hopefully BBC picks up GJ for season 3.
hey ! I live in the city anne lister and walker got married, 'jack' was slang for what they called women they were thought were involved with other women (basically slang for lesbian)
the church is in the city centre and there's a little plaque in commemoration of the marriage
Also live where she lived and its all filmed etc. Halifax is a stunning place. And yet I haven't seen a second of gentleman Jack hahahah
I am officially addicted to this podcast
help me i googled gentleman jack to see if ashley looked like her and was greeted with the news that the show is cancelled. sigh pride-month-is-overcore, another day another lesbian show slayed (derogatory)
omg i’ve been asking for her to go on this pod for so long
Love the initial conversation! I can relate so much about gender
31:40 honestly Ashley thanks for acknowledging early twenties are horrible. Funny enough it does make me feel better. I am absolutely hating my 20 something years
This is by far my favorite team up on all of TH-cam - amazing 🤩
Does anyone want a simple explanation of the science behind why heartbreak physically hurts?
So our brain can't cope with all these emotions, so it's like "why are we SO UPSET?! We must be injured! But where?"
And since there is no real injury to find the brain basically decides "yup, insides it is. Insides are vage and confusing enough that it could be there"
Gay thoughts on- Burger King making a “pride” burger with equal buns…. Meaning two tops or two bottoms…? I’m still laughing about that.
this was such a great episode! also gentleman jack is a good show, so its cool to see that kate loves it!
I'm from the UK and signed up to your mail list :D I'll be here, waiting for the day you come see us Brits!
Anne Lister 🤣 "This is the most terrifying shit" 🤣🤣 That fucking picture in the search results and your reaction made me laugh so much I grew abs!
Emma, that sounds pretty genderfluid to me! But it's always up to you! I have a lot of similar feelings to you, and love he/him in the sheets and they/them in the streets! I'm nonbinary transmasc, and use they/them/him pronouns but still love being a butch lesbian! It's up to you! No pressure, but if they/them makes you feel calm, then you deserve that
NOT THAT I'M ATTEMPTING TO GIVE YOU A LABEL. There's so many labels and names, nonbinary, queer, genderfluid, gender nonconforming, transmasc, etc etc. All are valid! Nothing matters unless it matters to you. It's your life. Gender is fucking weird and fun and confusing
@@EmmaWillmannComedy Yes thank you so much for describing your experiences/ confusion with gender and pronouns, it really helped me put words to feelings that are hard to describe. I'm a late bloomer baby lesbian in my 30s and have been struggling to find words for how I feel about my gender particularly in relation to sex. Much love to you from another "man one" in Australia (be sick if you could come tour here one day)
Barely 5 minutes in & if I wasn't already a patron this would be a very easy sell 🤣
So I just wanted to join your mailing list, hince you mentioned London. Your subscription thingy only alows U. S. zip codes 😂😂😂😂
Anyway I would love to see you in Europe 🥳
Love all the content, thank you for consistently making us laugh! 💛
YES FINALLY TALKS ABOUT GENTLEMAN JACK ONE OF MY FAV QUEER PODCASTS THANK YOU ITS THE BEST
Was just about to say please come to Scotland 😂😂🏴🏴
Subscribed to the mailing list - waiting for the UK tour 👀
I love this episode so much! You guys are so funny! Also would you guys consider having Chrissy on the podcast again? I love her so much!
Waited for this all day
That Saskatchewan name drop, made a Canadian feel seen haha
Listen, when all else fails, doing your business in a shopping bag is really the best option for everyone.
I've meditated my way out of shitting myself in a store plenty of times, but the dissociation helps too 🤣
I was at the show, in line afterwards to meet ashley and saw the man give her this stuff!
Nonbinary and confused as all get out, and absolutely drooling and crying over Emma and their fekkin crisis lol.. Love this, so much, your podcasts literally refuel my empty pointless life on days when I feel empty and pointless lol. Pathetic, forgive me, also having a crisis lol. Love you Ash, Kate, Emma, all your incredible guests and the smiles you bring. You may not realize it readily when making this content but you literally help little confused idiots like me push thru the struggle.. I took this episode to heart, tbh. Kinda feels like this particular episode popped up for a reason. I appreciate the shit outa you Ash.
That milking porn thing is called "hucow" (like, human cow). And now you know!
that's the name!
Watching this while making a birthday gift to my crush :)
this is so cute, what are you making?
good luck 👍
I'm from Saskatchewan and nobody comes here so I got very happy when you said Saskatchewan
Thanks for explaining "Bottom Nation." That always low-key bothered me so now I got it~!
Great episode, as always 💕
I really need to stop listening to this podcast while eating lunch. You talk about poop every time 😂
22:50 23:28 LMAO 27:25 31:34 32:33 33:20 LMAO 32:52 41:40 50:29 51:09 LMAO 53:38 57:05 58:03 GENIUS 1:01:00
1:06:15 Ashley, I say this from the bottom of my heart, Anne Lister in the tv show is THE HoTttest character I have ever encountered and ya'll look SUPer similar.... so like 💔
Also, the title is refereing to the derogatory name Anne Lister's neighbors used for her in her lifetime. 'gentleman' referanced her gender non-conforming clothes, appearance, behaviour and 'jack' was slang for lesbian at the time. Love the podcast!
You have to have Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi from Attitudes! On next time. Emma is amazing and is one of my favourite podcasters. She is so fucking funny. It’s a podcast match I needed
1:04:14 ASHLEYYY you definitely should 😭
Throwing your poop away in the receptacle won't be charged as a federal crime
You sounded more Midwestern than the Midwesterns themselves when you said minnesota, thank you
this episode is so. good.
All I want in life is to find something as funny as Kate Sisk found that story about Emma pooping in her shopping bag.
Yeehaw, SASKATCHEWAN! We have lots of lentils. I'll take good care of y'all up here.
I can't find a link to Kate's mailing list on the website, can someone drop the link in the comments?
Gentlemen Jack was a slang for gay woman ie tomboy
I’m a Patreon subscriber but I never get the videos on there! 🥺💔 are they for only certain tiers?
Same
Please come to Texas. We could use a laugh.
Emma!!!!
hiiiii!
@@EmmaWillmannComedy omg hi! You’re one of my favorite guests, you crack me up! All three of you do… You should come on the pod more often please, it’s just that good.
I love sex museums so I would love that…maybe not as a first date because I like to take things slow tho lol
Then what’s a more appropriate date for someone who likes to go slow?
@@haydeecastillo4621 Foreplay museum
@@haydeecastillo4621 I’m a big fan of coffee dates/wandering around a mall. I usually bring some cards for coffee dates so we have something to do while we’re getting to know each other
@@CertifiedPsychiatrist omg, if I could give you an award I would, thanks for the laugh 😂
@@haydeecastillo4621 An art museum? 😊
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
I would love to see Samantha Irby on the pod
im.a little late on this episode, but it's called Gentleman Jack because Jack was a derogatory nickname for lesbians back in the day, if you watch more closely there's a feew scenes ceertain characters will threaten her business/marriage in private and call her Jack. and it's "Gentleman" because she was a sort of royalty in her way; the primarily active head of one of the iconic families of England, and people respected her almost as much as they did a man (hence the reason she was so able to get away with her lesbianism, unlike many other of the couples of the time if you watch such other biopics as "Elisa y Marcela" and whatnot.
but anne's ex DID, and does after their breakup, call her Fred.
not the saskatchewan reference calling me out... holy
Is Kate still in your podcast🥺 haven’t seen her in a while
OML I LOVE GENTLEMAN JACK
Uh! I know a lot about Anne Lister! She was from Yorkshire where my family is from. She was the first woman estate owner and very wealthy. There have been quite a lot of shady business decisions and practices made by her, but that's another topic. She dressed in a very masculine way (as Kate said, as much as she could at the time). People did call her Jack, because back then it was an insult for a manly woman. She was a lesbian, rather rake-ish and had an affair with a married woman for quite a long time. The woman did indeed call Anne "Fred" in bed.
Since she's an historical figure and she used the language available at the time we don't know for certian if she really identified as a woman. Back then it wasn't really an option to outright stake you were in fact a man. People didn't have a term for it...
She called herself a woman and "she" in her diaries but she also wrote that she was deeply uncomfortable with even the thought of menstruation.
22:40 i died
I have IBS and I had eating something I'd never tried before with my cousin before going on a hike. That's not a good idea...
Smack dab in the middle of bum-fuck nowhere I had to poop. And if you have IBS you know the sweating, the cramps, the pain... And the runny poo
Well I did what I had to do behind some bushes, not like there was much of a choice.
Didn't have any tissues or whatever, nothing to wipe with.
I had to use my own underwear 🙈
I left it there, in the forest and just went commando for the rest of the hike 🙈
Omg I’ve never been this early
Have yall tried to get jade fox yet?
I feel like in a recent uncut episode (maybe this or last weeks?) I heard someone mention a jade… maybe wishful thinking, but I hoped it was indeed the jade fox.
Yessss, Jade Fox would be amazing.
Holy hell... scrolling through the new comments, what's Eric Sanchez smoking?
Hi Ashley Gavin! Happy 4th of The Best Month of the Year. I had an allergic reaction to grapefruit today so I’m feeling pretty weird right now. Anyways, I recommend listening to Ellen Fisher’s latest podcast episode. It’s titled pro-life vs pro-choice and she has two women talk about their strongly held perspectives on abortion. It was made with such great intentions and is truly so thought provoking. What I’m really trying say is: I want to give you a virtual hug.
And if you’ve already seen it or scrolled past it on TH-cam then this is awkward and I’m sorry
Not sure if anyone cares about this since some other comments are deep and meaning. But , anyway, “Jack” used to be a somewhat derogatory slang term of lesbians. Reportedly Anne Lister’s neighbors called her Gentleman Jack behind her back? (Citation needed)
You coming to London would be a m a z i n ggggg
Emma!
Why was this specific episode basically the L word
Du-bi sexual
Comment for the algorithm
Yess im early
Earlyyyyy
😎😃😊😜😍😘🌹
Whos fucking laugh was that??? Was that a witch soundtrack?
I love y'all, but asking someone out that you're interested in is actually physically dangerous for gay men and trans people into men. It was nice to live vicariously through your story though, Ashley.
Hey Cameron! Yes, I totally agree can you point to where this became relevant so I can understand your concern about how I may have spoken about it? I can't always remember each moment of each episode. Helps me do better if I can have a timestamp.
@@ashgavs Maybe they meant 39:15? I think it is implied to only go for it if you feel safe though! That said, definitely a good point to remember, it's not fair how gay/queer/trans men get treated by other men :/
Uh, it's physically dangerous for lesbian women too. Ever seen Hannah Gadsby's special? She talks about getting beaten up by a woman's boyfriend because he thought she was "flirting" with her at a bus stop. Lesbians don't live in some magical world where we don't face violence just because we aren't attracted to or pursue men. It's often literally the reason why we face violence from men.
@@vivienneedwards5516 Yes I definitely mean only if you feel physically safe!!!! We're talking about hitting on people we feel safe with, not just outing ourselves to whomever is in proximity. Hope that helps everyone.
@@arthoeinc.3469 really had no idea. That's why I started watching more and more content that isn't predominantly just straight men or straight women: to learn these things. I'll have to check Hannah Gadsby out too. Thank you
When you make your identity all about who you're attracted to you have no identity
Can you bring Robby Hoffman on pod ?🥲🥲
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal
YOU SHOULD COME TO APPLETON WISCONSIN!! WE GOT PRIDE FLAGS ALL OVER AND I REALLY WANT TO SEE A SHOW GURLY YOU ARE SO FUCKING HILARIOUS -from your youngest fan possibly, Sal