The Secret to Getting What You Want | 3 ESSENTIAL STEPS | Wu Wei Wisdom
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- The secret to getting what you want - we share our 3 ESSENTIAL STEPS 👉 Work one-to-one with David: www.wuweiwisdo...
☯️ EPISODE # 17 of our ‘Life Lessons’ teaching series
In this series Taoist monk and therapist David James Lees and wellbeing coach Alexandra Lees answer questions about your life challenges and offer inspirational guidance and support to help you live in BALANCE, HARMONY and FLOW.
✅ IN THIS EPISODE:
Are you hitting a brick wall when it comes to achieving your goals? Does life seem like a struggle or as if nothing goes your way?
In the episode you’ll learn our three essential steps for success to help you get more of what you want in life.
We discuss:
~ STEP 1: SELF-RESPONSIBILITY …how to take self-responsibility for your life (and overcome resistance from your fearful Inner Child).
~ STEP 2: INTENTION …how to set powerful intentions, work with the Law of Attraction and overcome any mindset blocks that stop your success.
~ STEP 3: ACTION …how to take authentic action and create positive momentum for success.
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i love the way she looks at David
Thank you! Yes, we have a lot of love and respect for each other.
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Alex & David x
I loved how David quoted Henry Ford when he said, "Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right. One of the primary keys to getting what you want out of life is believing that you can have it."
"What is it about you that you doubt? There's this little voice inside your head that say's it's never gonna work out, you don't deserve it. That's your inner child who has never been taught or has the tools and is afraid, stuck and patient. You have to sit down and work with your inner child, be considerate and answer their questions. Nobody has ever sat down with that part of your mind and listened. Instead, they ignored it.
Now, the inner child closed down and blocked them self out from a traumatic abuse that happened. They don't believe they're worthy or enough because of the abuse and that is their 'core belief'. However, beliefs are not set in stone and we need to change those core beliefs.
You've programmed your thinking to be so rigid and skeptical because you're always look for evidence from the past to prove the core belief of not being good enough. You want that validation instead of having responsibility for your life. We have to clear that belief 100% so "what you think is the way you do. The way you think and believe is the way you live. There can be no separation there. It's got to be together."
This aligns with my core values. I used to think like the inner child almost all of the time. Then, circumstances took me to my therapist and she teaches just about the same thing. Victimization is a huge deceptive problem here in America. If we aren't careful, it defines us and we expect someone else to rescue us. This video was refreshing and these principles are so important for us all to understand.
26. And then I became a victim again. Now 47. Just learned the lesson of responsibility again. Glad to be back! No more victim status!
I manipulate others to take care of myself because I can't do it for myself. OMG, that was a huge breakthrough. That is me. STOP it!!
Love this
Im working on taking self responsibility every day now x
Well done Amaya! #youaresoworthit :)
What happens to individuals who are unable to comprehend anything psychological/positive. He’s on antidepressants/antipsychotic now. In the past he’s had EST (6 sessions) but nothing seems to work!.
When I he was 17 he was trying to say he felt depressed but the reaction from the recipient is ‘stiff upper lip ‘& just get on with it.’. He did this so well he fooled all until his breakdown @ 60. Now nothing seems to able to fix him again ( so can’t be put together again)😞
Great video as per usual David,I liked the "what would you do in the last 15 seconds analogy"for me it would be the spiritual because surely that's the ultimate.many thanks for the time u take to put the videos out much appreciated
Thanks Steven... and for sharing your own thoughts on the #15seconds teaching.
Your support is also very much appreciated! x
My brother has never taken self responsibility, then gets upset when we try to help. He’s 60yrs & is in free fall..😔
I'm so grateful for how much ground you cover in this video, along with every video of yours. Thank you for reminding me that habits are a choice and that I have to take responsibility to change my core beliefs.
Thought of Lao Tzu's quote while listening: “Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”
Thank you David and Alex! Most useful lessons.
This was a very interesting great video as always you hit the nail on the head thank you💆
hey Raven,
We're glad you like the video - what was your most powerful take away?
#sundaystudy
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Beautiful pure heart.you both are so sweetly bless.Happiness
As always, amazing video. Soo so helpful. I do know what my core beliefs are. The ones that need to change. I am working really hard.
I do now understand why I get some of the red light feelings. I find it difficult at the moment. I separate my thoughts, from the feelings, follow the golden thread., I do not know why , why I hold on to one of the beliefs. I know that guilt and shame gets in the way and I repress them. I am understanding a lot more, thank you to you both , David & Alex.
Hi Lizzie,
We are pleased that our videos are helping you with your journey.
Remember, you can't change what you don't understand, so keep on with the Golden Thread Process until everything is clear and there is no Maze of Confusion! :-)
David
It's really quite amazing when I do the work, just how many blocks I've been putting in place to sabotage my moving fwd. Quite incredible. But when I smile I know I've found the wrong belief and its so daft it makes me smile. What a relief. It's a lifetimes work, but its so rewarding. And I feel real and genuine love for myself now. Wonderful. Thank you both. Blessings ❤❤❤
Thank you for continually helping me understand.
Tomorrow, I travel to Kunming PRC. I shall, if the opportunity arises, ask about Wo Wei, and share your channel for helping us not necessarily exposed to this wisdom in our western schools.
Wow... we hope you have a wonderful trip. David has visited the stone forests of Kunming (but many decades ago) - a very unique place!
Let us know how your adventure goes ...and thanks for sharing the Qi of our channel.
With gratitude as always
Alex + David x
@@WuWeiWisdom 谢谢
@@runwiththewind3281 you're welcome... I think we could do with some Chinese lessons from you also! ;)
Hi I think that your video only adresses those who Consciously say I don't want to do it.... it's too much work etc. It does not even acknowledge that there are people that don't even have a clue that they have an emotional side to them. Many times growing up there are not only no boundaries particularly with Children who are used to dealing with things that are beyond their responsibility etc because they're trying to deal with everybody stuff and there's no one to define for them what is theirs and what is Not. I know for me it took me about 25 years to even be aware that the me or what we are calling self had different parts a spiritual intellectual social emotional Etc. I was one big blob in retrospect. And apparently anytime I tried to take action of people that were teaching me being a young child basically said even I was being silly or whatever and I learned to it nor my perceptions and intuition.
So theoretically I think the answer or my answer to your question of when said we become emotionally responsible for cells I would say that's a graduation that happens slowly from about 12 or 13 onwards assuming you are in a healthy family. Otherwise you can't even do a lick of work I tell you understand are aware that you have this separate emotional self.
Have you a got a video that will help with the belief I can’t cope
My parents from when I was 5-6 forced me into thinking that I should be very caring and be motherly for my family... but they were never there for me
Hi Kiya,
Thank you for sharing your story.
This is exactly what I mean when I say you are "AWESOME!"
Well done for getting through the misinformation and poor emotional education from your parents.
It is now your time to readjust and take ownership of your own beliefs and your authentic way of thinking and living.
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Excellent teaching. Can you discuss leaving an unhappy and unhealthy marriage?
Thanks Debbie... I've added your suggestion to our video topic list. We appreciate your support.
Alex x
Another great video, thank you! The last moments of my life i will see my sons and wifes faces, my beautiful empathic angels!
Wonderful - thanks for sharing Jason... sending love to you and your family 😊
I experienced often following: if I wasn't on my own right track I faced much more resistance and obstacels. If I was on my personal, right track, everything went more smooth😂❤
Hello Caltriona, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
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"The carousel of disppear".......... "Beliefs are not set in stone".... loving this channel. Been sharing with friends/family. I had also noticed that a lot on the "new manifestation" practises do not emphasis the importance of hard work, its all manifestation. You put all the steps together.
Hi Trish, we're glad you enjoyed the video and got some powerful takeaways!
Thanks so much for sharing the channel with your friends and family - we really appreciate it.
You're right that personal, emotional and spiritual development does require application - but #youareworthit ;-)
Are you a member of our Facebook community? ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
Sending lots of positive Qi your way
Alex + David x
Great video and solid practical advice.
Glad you enjoyed the video Scott! 😀