My granddaughter turned 17 yesterday too. Hang in there mama. My son went in USAF at 19 he retired 5 years ago. It was a great career. Give him to God to protect. ❤️
Empty Nester here! My one and only baby left for college 13 hours from home at 18 and never moved back.. I can’t complain she is a good girl. She is in an Ivy League doctoral program now. I’m a proud mom. You have done a great job! Your kids are strong enough to make their way in this world. It’s so tough being a mom! It’s tougher watching them spread their wings and fly away. Focus on you for a change! Prayers for your peace during this time!
Completely went through all of your emotions! Three grown daughters. It’s hard. Especially since you invest every ounce of being into them and then poof! You are not important anymore (even though you are but it’s different- they have lives, partners, babies, careers…). Blessings and hugs- please do more of these chats! I really think they help and encourage others!🙏💕
Big hugs! You are doing a great job! Speaking of challenges. Feel free to challenge her to wash and fold her own dang towels. Just cuz you work from home, that doesn’t mean you have to do all the house chores. If she is about to be an adult. She can start practicing adult living which includes laundry ❤🙂
Daughter and moms is a tough dynamic but remember you are the Mom not her friend. You need to teach her how to be a good person and that includes how she treats you. Every time you donate or volunteer you set an example. I encourage you to include her when you do your good works so she doesn’t take your generosity for granted. She is Not entitled to the things you give her . She is lucky to have you! Feel the love from all of us with launched kids or kids at home❤❤❤
Hey Tiffany, I want you to know that God is with you and your family. I know that you have been their for your children. May God bless you always. Sonia in FL.
Tiffany, I adore you. You are a fantastic mom!!!!! This video spoke to me as a mom. I get it! Please know your videos have cheered me up more than you know for the last 4 years. I look forward to your videos every day. Thank you!!!!!
Take a deep breath! Time heals! It’s ok to cry it out mom! Girl, your awesome! Your kids are awesome! You are the best MOM ever!!! Tiffany, your going to be just fine. They will always come back home. Your mama, they adore you! Love and Huggies
I had twin girls at 18 and another daughter at 22 and OMG the girls were fun at times, but the teenage years did get difficult at times. Hang in there, you only have one daughter you got this Tiffany!
Tiffany,you have done a great job as a Mom! We hope to raise our children so they can go out in the world,and be good people! And you should be proud of yourself 💕💕💕
I have a senior in high school this year and he will be headed to college next year. I find myself so emotional and he is still here in my home. My heart goes out to you, you are just an amazing mom ❤️
My youngest is 32 and I still have empty nest syndrome at times especially around the holidays or special occasions that they can’t make it back home. It is really hard but I know they have their own lives live and tell myself that I raised them the best I could and taught them right from wrong.
Totally agree, I go through the same. Mine are 31 and 38, and I have times I can't believe the years rolled by so fast. I've been by myself since August 2014 and it's still hard, especially at the holidays when we live so far apart. Hugs to you! 💜
My heart is hurting for you right now! You are having perfectly normal grieving, over your boys not being home. I have an 18 year old son who has just started the process of joining the Air Force. I am soooo proud of him, but I can't even think about him being gone from home. I dread it. We are 5 hours from San Antonio and you will love it! The Air Force graduation ceremony is very emotional and so cool! Thankfully the Air Force is not usually the first on the ground in times of war. Enjoy Texas! Congratulations on your son serving for his country.
My son is 34 and I still remember when my son moved out like it was yesterday. It’s so hard but at the same time you have to be proud of them and yourself that they want to be independent. What a roller coaster of emotions! I get it girl!
I folded laundry with you Tiffany!❤ I can totally relate. Our 21 year old son got his own apartment in July. He's the last one. I was a wreck in July and August. It's a little better now, but I still worry like crazy! Plus 2 weeks ago he had to have an emergency appendectomy! Scary! We went to lunch and grocery shopping together today, so that was nice! Hugs sweet mama!❤😊
Sweet Tiffany….I have 5 grown kids. 4 boys and 1 girl. That girl has been the roughest but I love her to death. Not to make you feel worse I am on antidepressants. I miss being a “mommy”. I find myself sitting on the end of my brown couch. I am trying to come up with a hobby but to no avail. Girls are a challenge give yourself so grace. I wish I could give you a big hug. Thanks for being here I feel better just chatting. HUGS
I totally understand!! I’m 42 and single and I have one son who is 20 he is ready to spread his wings and I want him to but it is hard for me as his mom. My identity it’s being his mom when he moves on what will my purpose me then??? It’s so nice to see another single mom in the same time of life I am, there are not many I feel like I can relate to! Thank you for sharing your journey!
Hey Tiffany, my husband and I raised a boy and girl . Now they are married with children of their own. It's hard when they leave home. I cried so many tears, but I look back now and thank God for the bond we had back then and what we have now. A beautiful family with precious grand children. (4) and what a blessing. Life comes in chapters and as you go through those chapters in your life, you will feel so rewarded for what you accomplished in life and you have done just that. A beautiful mom that has so much more in store for her! You have done a fantastic job raising your children and you will be rewarded for many many more years to come! Stay Strong In Christ and he will lead your way!❤
I’m a single mom of 2 daughters, 20 and 17. My oldest is in her 3rd year of college and lives 3 hours away . I can relate to the adjustment you are going through and the struggles with raising teenage girls. Hang in there. You are doing an amazing job!
Tiffany - I can totally relate to much of what you were saying. We will get through this together. Much love and grace and smiles and hugs from Michigan. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭
Tiffany, I get exactly what you’re going through in a different way. My mom lives with me and we both deal with health issues at times. It’s hard for two women to be in the same home after we once had our own lives. Stay positive and keep busy and I know you’ll be fine. Praying for you. Thanks for sharing.😊
I have two young boys and No Personal Life😂 so I too can stay on top of whats going on in my home, especially since their always talking about "when I grow up" stuff. 🙄 Tiffany, you are an example to be followed when it comes to single parenting. Much love and respect from Wyoming.
When you’re raising your kids, it’s all encompassing. It’s so hard to let go when they get older. Hang in there, Tiffany… You’re a good mom you have so much to be proud of! Praying for you!
Tiffany - I haven’t even completed half of your video. But as a 51 year old woman, I cannot tell you how GREAT of a mother you are. I did not have a good relationship with my mother. She was absent in my life. I can’t imagine how different my life would be had I had a mother like you. You are a strong, loving, take charge lady. Be proud of who you are and everything you’ve accomplished and done not only as a mother but in all aspects of life
Hi Tiffany! I’m not a mom yet, but I’m my mid 30s and I felt every part of this video- my fiancé and I have been having issues, and I have always suffered through anxiety / depression, so this video is so relatable! I’m one of three, one boy and two girls. And my mom says a million times always, she swears she wished she had 3 boys 😂😂🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️. We girls put her through the ringer! You’re not alone, always keep that in mind, love. Take care of you!! ❤️ always.
Hi Tiffany, yes it’s hard when they leave. You will have lots of challenges with your daughter. She’s will to try your last nerve. 😂 Pull back when necessary, but lay down the rules when you have to. Remember to take care of yourself. ❤❤
Hang in there...I raised a girl and a boy and I agree it's different with each. Girls are definitely a challenge. But there is light at the end of the tunnel....the kids turn out well, they learn to deal with their own issues and as long as they know you are there for moral support they will be fine. You gave them all a good home life and taught them to be caring people....just take it a day at a time and you will get thru it. Sending you hugs and wishing the best as you go thru this time of change. Thanks for sharing.❤
Girl I really needed to see this. As a single mom myself with a daughter that is 12 going on 30 it is real over here and it's so hard not to b hard on ourselves as mother's but yes she tests my patience daily. I thought I had a few more years before the teen angst set in and I was wrong.
Hi, my children are grown. I still miss them and I want to talk to them every day. GOD! & PRAY! HE is always here. I love Jesus, listen to Phil Wickham & Joshua Aaron Im praying for you God bless you Welcome to Texas
You have done a fantastic job. I was a teen mom and raised one girl. We grew up together. She is 42 with a family of her own now. She is a high school teacher/ administrator. It’s been a while since I went thru what you are going through. Girls get easier ad they get older. When my daughter met the man she was going to marry we became best friends again. Just like when she was little. They tear me so good I can’t tell you how blessed I am. I will say a prayer that you transition thru this part of your life smoothly. Trust me they never really are to far from home. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Oh honey you sound exactly like me when my oldest son enlisted in the Army. Once basic was over the Afghanistan war started and of course that was where he was sent. I only have one piece of advice to give that was the only thing that kept me sane. I turned it over to God, it was all in his hands. It was so hard to give that control of making sure that they were safe up. I have 3 sons and 1 daughter, you are absolutely right...girls are 100% more difficult then boys. Keep in mind that she is missing the boys also and her world is changing. You girl, are an amazing Momma❤!
Tiffany, yes as a Mom it is so bittersweet to see your kids spread their wings and fly. That is a Mom’s job. Yes give yourself grace and laugh. Find those friends that make you laugh. Fella and Bella so cute!🌸🌸🌸
You’re not boring. Just a real down to earth person with real issues. I wanted to mention a really fun movie on Netflix. It’s an oldie but goodie. The Money Pit with a young tom hanks 💗
The days are long and the years are short. I have been where you are and I met my husband during my last son's senior year. Fast forward and now have 4 grandsons. They are with us every weekend. Letting them go is a process and I feel ya.
It gets lonely especially if you’re by yourself. God intends our children to spread their wings…that’s how it’s supposed to happen. But it is a very sad time of life. I’m by myself and live in California with my sister, while my 3 adult kids and grandkids live in Kentucky and Colorado. I will eventually move to be near them. There is something beautiful to look forward to and that’s Grand-babies. That is the beautiful part of this story. Hang in there pretty mama. It does get easier.❤
I agree with you sister🥰! My son was smooth sailing as well! But girls are way tuff! I would encourage you to pray and ask the good Lord for encouragement, wisdom, direction and His peace🙏! You are right it is always easier to say than to walk it out! God bless you🙏
I’m telling you right now,don’t watch the news regarding military matters. Looking at all that stuff will be awful for your mental health. I know because my husband is in the military and the rule that I use,is go by what they say,not what the news says. If anything happens you will know 1st because he will make sure to tell you. I hope that you’re doing better❤
Hi Tiffany. I relate so much. My daughter is 16 and we are very close but its tough at this age we just got over an argument but it hurt. You are a great mom. Im sending you a hug and blessings for you and all of your children 💗 🙏
I feel ya Tiffany. It's alot and scary. Keep reminding yourself to walk with God. That what I have to do often to keep my sanity. ALSO Since u be in San Antonio...girl u have to go to dollar tree down the road from where u well be..it's packed with goodies ND a big size store! 2313 SW Military Dr, San Antonio, TX 78224. Love the video. Tyfs and stay Strong ❤
If you have time in San Antonio, go to the River Walk and the Alamo. It was great. My son graduated from there a long time ago. He loved the Air Force.
You got this mama, I’m a mama of five 2 older children and 3 younger girls. Our older girl went to college this year and it about killed me. I completely understand
Tiffany I loveeee these chats, I do! I mean I love all your different videos but these chit chats are some of my fav. Raised a son and he was easy, but being a girl myself Lordt the hard yrs my Mama had with me wooo!! No bad stuff like bad stuff but the hormones!!! About the "process" my Mama & Granny handled difficult or sad "processes" different. My Mama was the stay busy at every second & I do mean every second (think that was her way of numbing 🤷🏼♀️). My Granny's was allow yourself to FEEL it, cry, be angry, depressed, anxious, all you need to feel but don't STAY in it. Feel it, let it move through you but don't let it take up house in you. So I find that I pull a little of both of their ways to process, somewhere in the middle. Love you girl 😘
🥺😭 my baby boy will be 3 on New Years and even though he is still little I’m struggling with him getting older. Bless your mama heart I can’t imagine how hard it would be to have them move out and grow up so bittersweet. May god bless you and your heart be stilll knowing good is always protecting them ❤️
I'm not going what you are going through but I am going through something really hard. When you said just to focus on things that you can control that really hit me. I need to focus on that too and not the bad things that are going on. Hugs and prayers for you girl! I enjoy these types of videos!
Tiffany - I love love your channel. Love your hauls. You are a great Mom! Keep doing what you’re doing. Give it to God and keep loving your daughter. We are here for you.❤
Mothers put all their eggs in mother baskets! We all do it. This is exactly why there is a Mothers Day. Our kids love us but yes it’s hard. I have four from 24 to 15 and it’s changing. They can be mean. You find yourself thinking “what happened to my sweet babies” God bless all you dedicated mothers! You Got this! 😊
Hi Tiffany! I’m excited for you to come to San Antonio. There is lots to see here. Be sure to tour the Alamo while you are here. Hang in there Sweet Mama! You are a wonderful Mom. Just look back at what a great job you’ve accomplished so far. God is with you!! We are here for you any time!! Sending lots of love from San Antonio, Texas.
I love that you did this kind of video. When I first started it and realized what it was, I stopped so I could give it extra special attention. I got my laundry to fold and a tea and it was such a gift to sit with you even if I am not right there. I have been watching your videos for so long, And it's always been clear from the first video how much you love your kids. You are the cream that rises to the top, you are an amazing mom and a phenomenal person. I respect everything about you. I am sending you love, prayers, and good energy while you work through this. Thank you for being authentic and sharing. 💚💚💚
Tiffany, this is the perfect time to become involved in a church family. When we are learning to let go, it's such a comfort to have a close relationship with Jesus. I am not a fanatic or Bible thumper but I have walked in your shoes and know of what I speak. Boys are so much easier than girls! Oh my word. Bless you, Darlin'. This is just a season in life and you are a great mama.
You're honestly like the coolest girl, Thrifty Tiffany, so glad you shared how hard it's been but super admirable how gracefully you've been handling it And even though my son is ONLY turning 5... I have been feeling some kinda ways too. Body aches, and all you've been expressing... tears, emotions, and so much more...I love that you redirected onto shppping, chores and staying productive. I am doing my best to keep myself in check. It is waaay harder than you make it seem. You made me go to Dollar Tree and it wasn't even a cool store here in Toronto. I even asked them if all the stuff I pick3d up was $1.25. They looked at me like girl everything is a $1.50 CAD. Lol
Hi Tiffany, first of all you look so nice and comfortable folding all your towels!! My sister had 2 boys and 1 girl. She always told me 'be glad you had boys' and we would laugh. Now I have 2 granddaughters and I now know what she was talking about!! Keep that great relationship you have with your daughter, you just have to keep being the good Mom you are !! So very happy you will be seeing Cayman soon and you got to talk to him. Hang in there girl you got this!! Enjoy.
My son was a breeze! If we had had my daughter first I'm not sure we would of had a second child! Lol Once my son and daughter were arguing/fighting..He screamed at me from the other room saying,"WHAT WERE YOU THINKING HAVING A SECOND CHILD, MOM!!" Meaning his younger sister of course. It is such a challenge with girls. But it will totally be worth it someday as my daughter raises her daughter who is just like she was. She totally gets it and understands now. Lol
You're right that you sometimes need to take some time to do whatever you feel you need. Life changes aren't easy but I know from experience that it's best to take time to adjust and "do what you need to do". Learning to pay more attention to your own needs is very important, and if you can somehow meet people to share doing something, that's great. And by the way, I admire you for being so honest on TH-cam!
its not depressing tome, i have to be informed. It reminds me that it could always be worse and it keeps me humble. i have running water, a roof over my head, a car, my body still works, i can walk and i have freedoms. The News, i watch once a day, all in balance, don't watch obsessively it will freak you out. But, its reality and I live in reality. I started caring and getting involved in politics when I realized we have an effect on the laws, rules and politics especially of our town.
First, I have to say that you are such a precious individual. I’m not one to ever comment on social media, but I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I can tell that your heart is hurting, so I just wanted to reach out:) It’s such a catch-22, we’re so proud of our children and want them to succeed and have their own life, but at the same time, we want them home;) It’s so true that our time with them is so short! I’ve been able to watch a few videos when your children were with you and it’s evident how much they love and respect their mama! You’ve done an amazing job, single-handedly raising them! I’m recently an empty nester and I have to say that I still struggle with it. My husband and I do enjoy ourselves, but it’s so different from the full house we had for so many years! We raised 4, three boys and the baby is a girl. So when you spoke about the difference in raising boys vs girls, I understood exactly what you were saying! There’s something about a mama & son relationship. Boys love their mamas. Don’t get me wrong, I know our daughter loves me, but the dynamic is so different from how my boys show their love for me. My husband and I look at each other so often and say how truly blessed we are with our four babies and now with our beautiful daughter in law AND precious granddaughter;) From the way you speak, I assume you are a woman of faith, so continue to pray and giving yourself grace. You will make it through this journey, just like you’ve overcome ever other obstacle that came your way. Keep your sweet chin up!
I had my kids fairly young, I am 46 now with a 25 year old daughter and a 20 year old son. My son was definitely "easier" compared to my daughter. We have gotten much closer however as the years go on. Being a single parent times were hard occasionally but we do the best we can with what we have. 💜 big hugs to you Tiffany!!
My kids are all grown I had two girls and a boy it was rough, but now my oldest daughter has a sixteen year old daughter and it is awful, the kids at school are mean, the boys are mean and a pain in the butt. Prayers for you both, and Prayers for the boys. Love ya girl hang in there.
So glad you heard from Cayman. & got to chat with him. Exactly but they need to find out on their own..but i kno he likes to come by & see u 2 & shopin the freezer & pantry. Haha. Its hard but u got this girl. We can have our cries & then go only with dojng wht we do...
Always enjoy your videos! My heart felt for you watching this one! Even though I may be a little bit older, I totally understand and remember those days! I had two boys and one went into the Marine Corps and my other was already out of the house - plus being a single mom was the hardest part of my life - so I get it. Always will listen, we all have those days were we just need to talk! Love listening to your southern twang :) Hope your day was letting you feel a bit better after just releasing what you needed to get off your chest! Hugs!!!
Loved listening to you chat. I know what it's like to have your kids leave and go on their own but it all works out. Thanks for lifting my mood today. Love , love, love your videos. I'm going to make myself a Cosmo and watch a movie. Enjoy your evening
I only had boys, 19 and 23 years old now. They were so easy. No drama, just being dufuses usually. But I can't image being a girl now with social media. And I remember being such a b*&^% for no reason due to hormones. I didn't even know why I was mad. So hang in there and give yourself grace. You are doing an amazing job. I know they recognize your commitment to them, you can tell by your interactions with them.
We are going thru the same stuff at the same time. Thank you for sharing your depressed it helped me realize that's probably what is happening to me. I hand washed dishes while listening to ya. Thanks for opening up. Feels like grief 😢. The part of the missing the kids playing and all the noise and laughter OMG same 😢
I'm an empty nester too. I have a boy (24) and girl (27) with 2 grandkids already from my daughter. YES, those girls are something else! They are both Cancer signs, but complete opposites. He was much easier (except he didn't like school). You are the best mom and I'm so happy we had this chat. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I miss your boys too, it's always fun seeing your kids with you. You are right - We'll get through this. 🥰 Love you!
You are a wonderful lady! I love all of your videos, even the ones where you are folding laundry and chatting. You are such an awesome momma. The place you are at right now is difficult, but it too will pass.
Sending love. Appreciate your openness. You are a great mom - great human being. So happy to have found your channel and “ become part of the family” as you say.
I can relate what you're saying about being in the military, which I've mentioned that my grandson is also going through basic training in san Antonio ! I have an Airbnb already booked in san Antonio! Maybe I'll see you at the ceremony 😉! Happy birthday to your daughter 🎉 Tiffany and just a note for you! Love that you're venting or chatting with us! Parenting never stops but you're doing a great job as I can see through your videos...hugs. my son was difficult and my daughter was easy ! Heck I'm a widow and I haven't seen my son for 6 years...now there's a story 😢
Hey Tiffany I enjoyed your chit chat! When my daughter graduated from lackland Tx we actually stayed on base so see if Cayman can get you signed on to the base lodging it was definitely cheaper! But safe travels in the next few weeks! Thanks for always keeping it real Tiffany have a wonderful evening! 😊💕
IDK. I'm 58, been married 32 years but we never had kids. No regrets so I don't know how you feel. I can honestly say that. You just keep being the good Mom you are and be there for them, like I know you will. ❤
I know exactly how you feel. When my last one moved out I got so depressed it was awful. I would lay in her empty room every night after work and sob😢 I ended up having to go get put on an antidepressant. It's been 2 years and It definitely gets easier. Big hugs and prayers to you sweet momma ❤
You are a great mom! You raised your kids to make a life for themselves and you taught them right and wrong. They will thank you one day! Be patient with your daughter it must be on your mind she’s next. Single parents are strong, but loving!! You’re doing a great job momma! She don’t say it but she appreciate you!!
Hang in there, Tiffany, truth be told no matter how old your kids get nothing ever really changes. They always need you and they have kids and they need you. I have two granddaughters in college and I can honestly say motherhood never ends. Lol.
Yes!!! Raising boys is so different than girls! Both crazy and wonderful in their own ways but so different! Keep hanging in there! My little girl is 16 now and its....an "adventure"! We'll get through this and they'll be our best friends before we know it! 💜 I'm praying for you and your family and especially Cayman and all of our service members and their families! Sending you big hugs, Mama!
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Tiff, you're not boring. You ever need to vent, this is where to do it. We're here for ya!
My granddaughter turned 17 yesterday too. Hang in there mama. My son went in USAF at 19 he retired 5 years ago. It was a great career. Give him to God to protect. ❤️
Amen 🙏 thank your son for his service GOD bless
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Empty Nester here! My one and only baby left for college 13 hours from home at 18 and never moved back.. I can’t complain she is a good girl. She is in an Ivy League doctoral program now. I’m a proud mom. You have done a great job! Your kids are strong enough to make their way in this world. It’s so tough being a mom! It’s tougher watching them spread their wings and fly away. Focus on you for a change! Prayers for your peace during this time!
When them babies grow up that's when mommas really hit their knees
Completely went through all of your emotions! Three grown daughters. It’s hard. Especially since you invest every ounce of being into them and then poof! You are not important anymore (even though you are but it’s different- they have lives, partners, babies, careers…). Blessings and hugs- please do more of these chats! I really think they help and encourage others!🙏💕
Big hugs! You are doing a great job! Speaking of challenges. Feel free to challenge her to wash and fold her own dang towels. Just cuz you work from home, that doesn’t mean you have to do all the house chores. If she is about to be an adult. She can start practicing adult living which includes laundry ❤🙂
Daughter and moms is a tough dynamic but remember you are the Mom not her friend. You need to teach her how to be a good person and that includes how she treats you. Every time you donate or volunteer you set an example. I encourage you to include her when you do your good works so she doesn’t take your generosity for granted. She is Not entitled to the things you give her . She is lucky to have you! Feel the love from all of us with launched kids or kids at home❤❤❤
Hey Tiffany, I want you to know that God is with you and your family. I know that you have been their for your children. May God bless you always. Sonia in FL.
Tiffany, I adore you. You are a fantastic mom!!!!! This video spoke to me as a mom. I get it!
Please know your videos have cheered me up more than you know for the last 4 years. I look forward to your videos every day. Thank you!!!!!
Take a deep breath! Time heals! It’s ok to cry it out mom! Girl, your awesome! Your kids are awesome! You are the best MOM ever!!! Tiffany, your going to be just fine. They will always come back home. Your mama, they adore you! Love and Huggies
I had twin girls at 18 and another daughter at 22 and OMG the girls were fun at times, but the teenage years did get difficult at times. Hang in there, you only have one daughter you got this Tiffany!
Tiffany,you have done a great job as a Mom! We hope to raise our children so they can go out in the world,and be good people! And you should be proud of yourself 💕💕💕
I have a senior in high school this year and he will be headed to college next year. I find myself so emotional and he is still here in my home. My heart goes out to you, you are just an amazing mom ❤️
My youngest is 32 and I still have empty nest syndrome at times especially around the holidays or special occasions that they can’t make it back home. It is really hard but I know they have their own lives live and tell myself that I raised them the best I could and taught them right from wrong.
Totally agree, I go through the same. Mine are 31 and 38, and I have times I can't believe the years rolled by so fast. I've been by myself since August 2014 and it's still hard, especially at the holidays when we live so far apart. Hugs to you! 💜
And I love it when you do these chat videos cause sometimes I just need somebody to chat with too
My heart is hurting for you right now! You are having perfectly normal grieving, over your boys not being home.
I have an 18 year old son who has just started the process of joining the Air Force. I am soooo proud of him, but I can't even think about him being gone from home. I dread it.
We are 5 hours from San Antonio and you will love it! The Air Force graduation ceremony is very emotional and so cool!
Thankfully the Air Force is not usually the first on the ground in times of war.
Enjoy Texas! Congratulations on your son serving for his country.
My son is 34 and I still remember when my son moved out like it was yesterday. It’s so hard but at the same time you have to be proud of them and yourself that they want to be independent. What a roller coaster of emotions! I get it girl!
I folded laundry with you Tiffany!❤ I can totally relate. Our 21 year old son got his own apartment in July. He's the last one. I was a wreck in July and August. It's a little better now, but I still worry like crazy! Plus 2 weeks ago he had to have an emergency appendectomy! Scary! We went to lunch and grocery shopping together today, so that was nice! Hugs sweet mama!❤😊
Your dear Kia should be folding ALL those towels HERSELF😆.....maybe then she’ll start using a few LESS after that 😭😂🤣🤩🤩
Sweet Tiffany….I have 5 grown kids. 4 boys and 1 girl. That girl has been the roughest but I love her to death. Not to make you feel worse I am on antidepressants. I miss being a “mommy”. I find myself sitting on the end of my brown couch. I am trying to come up with a hobby but to no avail. Girls are a challenge give yourself so grace. I wish I could give you a big hug. Thanks for being here I feel better just chatting. HUGS
Hi😊...do you craft ?
I totally understand!! I’m 42 and single and I have one son who is 20 he is ready to spread his wings and I want him to but it is hard for me as his mom. My identity it’s being his mom when he moves on what will my purpose me then??? It’s so nice to see another single mom in the same time of life I am, there are not many I feel like I can relate to! Thank you for sharing your journey!
Hey Tiffany, my husband and I raised a boy and girl . Now they are married with children of their own. It's hard when they leave home. I cried so many tears, but I look back now and thank God for the bond we had back then and what we have now. A beautiful family with precious grand children. (4) and what a blessing. Life comes in chapters and as you go through those chapters in your life, you will feel so rewarded for what you accomplished in life and you have done just that. A beautiful mom that has so much more in store for her! You have done a fantastic job raising your children and you will be rewarded for many many more years to come! Stay Strong In Christ and he will lead your way!❤
I’m a single mom of 2 daughters, 20 and 17. My oldest is in her 3rd year of college and lives 3 hours away . I can relate to the adjustment you are going through and the struggles with raising teenage girls. Hang in there. You are doing an amazing job!
Tiffany - I can totally relate to much of what you were saying. We will get through this together. Much love and grace and smiles and hugs from Michigan. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭
❤ Don’t be hard on yourself Tiffany. You will get through this.
We are all here praying for you.
Fold those towels girl!
We all love you!!
Tiffany, I get exactly what you’re going through in a different way. My mom lives with me and we both deal with health issues at times. It’s hard for two women to be in the same home after we once had our own lives. Stay positive and keep busy and I know you’ll be fine. Praying for you. Thanks for sharing.😊
I have two young boys and No Personal Life😂 so I too can stay on top of whats going on in my home, especially since their always talking about "when I grow up" stuff. 🙄 Tiffany, you are an example to be followed when it comes to single parenting. Much love and respect from Wyoming.
Your a special kind of mom. It's all gonna work out. God bless you and your family with Grace and peace 🙏 Love ya Tiffany 🤗
When you’re raising your kids, it’s all encompassing. It’s so hard to let go when they get older. Hang in there, Tiffany… You’re a good mom you have so much to be proud of! Praying for you!
Tiffany - I haven’t even completed half of your video. But as a 51 year old woman, I cannot tell you how GREAT of a mother you are. I did not have a good relationship with my mother. She was absent in my life. I can’t imagine how different my life would be had I had a mother like you. You are a strong, loving, take charge lady. Be proud of who you are and everything you’ve accomplished and done not only as a mother but in all aspects of life
Hi Tiffany! I’m not a mom yet, but I’m my mid 30s and I felt every part of this video- my fiancé and I have been having issues, and I have always suffered through anxiety / depression, so this video is so relatable! I’m one of three, one boy and two girls. And my mom says a million times always, she swears she wished she had 3 boys 😂😂🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️. We girls put her through the ringer! You’re not alone, always keep that in mind, love. Take care of you!! ❤️ always.
Hi Tiffany, yes it’s hard when they leave. You will have lots of challenges with your daughter. She’s will to try your last nerve. 😂
Pull back when necessary, but lay down the rules when you have to. Remember to take care of yourself. ❤❤
Hang in there...I raised a girl and a boy and I agree it's different with each. Girls are definitely a challenge. But there is light at the end of the tunnel....the kids turn out well, they learn to deal with their own issues and as long as they know you are there for moral support they will be fine. You gave them all a good home life and taught them to be caring people....just take it a day at a time and you will get thru it. Sending you hugs and wishing the best as you go thru this time of change. Thanks for sharing.❤
Hey you are going though the stuff with the kids.. but you will get though it.😊
Girl I really needed to see this. As a single mom myself with a daughter that is 12 going on 30 it is real over here and it's so hard not to b hard on ourselves as mother's but yes she tests my patience daily. I thought I had a few more years before the teen angst set in and I was wrong.
Hi, my children are grown.
I still miss them and I want to talk to them every day.
GOD! & PRAY!
HE is always here.
I love Jesus, listen to Phil Wickham & Joshua Aaron
Im praying for you
God bless you
Welcome to Texas
You have done a fantastic job. I was a teen mom and raised one girl. We grew up together. She is 42 with a family of her own now. She is a high school teacher/ administrator. It’s been a while since I went thru what you are going through. Girls get easier ad they get older. When my daughter met the man she was going to marry we became best friends again. Just like when she was little. They tear me so good I can’t tell you how blessed I am. I will say a prayer that you transition thru this part of your life smoothly. Trust me they never really are to far from home. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Oh honey you sound exactly like me when my oldest son enlisted in the Army. Once basic was over the Afghanistan war started and of course that was where he was sent. I only have one piece of advice to give that was the only thing that kept me sane. I turned it over to God, it was all in his hands. It was so hard to give that control of making sure that they were safe up. I have 3 sons and 1 daughter, you are absolutely right...girls are 100% more difficult then boys. Keep in mind that she is missing the boys also and her world is changing. You girl, are an amazing Momma❤!
Tiffany, yes as a Mom it is so bittersweet to see your kids spread their wings and fly. That is a Mom’s job. Yes give yourself grace and laugh. Find those friends that make you laugh. Fella and Bella so cute!🌸🌸🌸
Omg fella was listening to your every word and the look in his eyes was precious.
You’re not boring. Just a real down to earth person with real issues. I wanted to mention a really fun movie on Netflix. It’s an oldie but goodie. The Money Pit with a young tom hanks 💗
The days are long and the years are short. I have been where you are and I met my husband during my last son's senior year. Fast forward and now have 4 grandsons. They are with us every weekend. Letting them go is a process and I feel ya.
It gets lonely especially if you’re by yourself. God intends our children to spread their wings…that’s how it’s supposed to happen. But it is a very sad time of life. I’m by myself and live in California with my sister, while my 3 adult kids and grandkids live in Kentucky and Colorado. I will eventually move to be near them. There is something beautiful to look forward to and that’s Grand-babies. That is the beautiful part of this story. Hang in there pretty mama. It does get easier.❤
I agree with you sister🥰! My son was smooth sailing as well!
But girls are way tuff!
I would encourage you to pray and ask the good Lord for encouragement, wisdom, direction and His peace🙏!
You are right it is always easier to say than to walk it out!
God bless you🙏
I’m telling you right now,don’t watch the news regarding military matters. Looking at all that stuff will be awful for your mental health. I know because my husband is in the military and the rule that I use,is go by what they say,not what the news says. If anything happens you will know 1st because he will make sure to tell you. I hope that you’re doing better❤
Thanks for this video Tiffany! Thanks for being so real!! Sounds like a decluttering series is needed! I would love that💗! Thanks, love ya, Cindy 💗🌻
I can relate…my son is in the Air Force as well. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here. He’s 5 years in. It gets better with time I promise 💕
Hi Tiffany. I relate so much. My daughter is 16 and we are very close but its tough at this age we just got over an argument but it hurt. You are a great mom. Im sending you a hug and blessings for you and all of your children 💗 🙏
Yes! Boys mom is 💯 different from
Daughter moms!! I feel that!!
I feel ya Tiffany. It's alot and scary. Keep reminding yourself to walk with God. That what I have to do often to keep my sanity. ALSO Since u be in San Antonio...girl u have to go to dollar tree down the road from where u well be..it's packed with goodies ND a big size store! 2313 SW Military Dr, San Antonio, TX 78224. Love the video. Tyfs and stay Strong ❤
+ Continue to be strict: 1) Daughter doesn't need a bad reputation. 2) She will be glad when she gets older.
If you have time in San Antonio, go to the River Walk and the Alamo. It was great. My son graduated from there a long time ago. He loved the Air Force.
You seem like such a good Mom and person! You’ll get through this Tiffany. Sending a big hug your way!
You got this mama, I’m a mama of five 2 older children and 3 younger girls. Our older girl went to college this year and it about killed me. I completely understand
My Son is 21 and lives with me helps me out a lot is works and is saving money to move out one day. Love him he is so good I praise God for him
Tiffany I loveeee these chats, I do! I mean I love all your different videos but these chit chats are some of my fav. Raised a son and he was easy, but being a girl myself Lordt the hard yrs my Mama had with me wooo!! No bad stuff like bad stuff but the hormones!!! About the "process" my Mama & Granny handled difficult or sad "processes" different. My Mama was the stay busy at every second & I do mean every second (think that was her way of numbing 🤷🏼♀️). My Granny's was allow yourself to FEEL it, cry, be angry, depressed, anxious, all you need to feel but don't STAY in it. Feel it, let it move through you but don't let it take up house in you. So I find that I pull a little of both of their ways to process, somewhere in the middle. Love you girl 😘
🥺😭 my baby boy will be 3 on New Years and even though he is still little I’m struggling with him getting older. Bless your mama heart I can’t imagine how hard it would be to have them move out and grow up so bittersweet. May god bless you and your heart be stilll knowing good is always protecting them ❤️
Thank you being so raw and honest! I appreciate that ❤ you will get through it Tiffany your amazing!!! 🫶 your an amazing momma ❤
I definitely folded laundry right along with you. My dog has been such a comfort to me during the empty nest season of my life.
I made pumpkin bars while watching. Yes grace! Decluttering is very therapeutic for me. You'll find your balance again Tiffany.
I raised 2 girls. No boys here. But raised a granson... sorry your depressed. U got this. Hang in there..
I'm not going what you are going through but I am going through something really hard. When you said just to focus on things that you can control that really hit me. I need to focus on that too and not the bad things that are going on. Hugs and prayers for you girl! I enjoy these types of videos!
Tiffany - I love love your channel. Love your hauls. You are a great Mom! Keep doing what you’re doing. Give it to God and keep loving your daughter. We are here for you.❤
Mothers put all their eggs in mother baskets! We all do it. This is exactly why there is a Mothers Day. Our kids love us but yes it’s hard. I have four from 24 to 15 and it’s changing. They can be mean. You find yourself thinking “what happened to my sweet babies” God bless all you dedicated mothers! You Got this! 😊
Any time. All situations r different
Hi Tiffany! I’m excited for you to come to San Antonio. There is lots to see here. Be sure to tour the Alamo while you are here. Hang in there Sweet Mama! You are a wonderful Mom. Just look back at what a great job you’ve accomplished so far. God is with you!! We are here for you any time!! Sending lots of love from San Antonio, Texas.
Praying for you sweetie. You can do this with prayer and trusting God
He's got this.... TRUST! TRUST!! TRUST!!!!!!!!
I love that you did this kind of video. When I first started it and realized what it was, I stopped so I could give it extra special attention. I got my laundry to fold and a tea and it was such a gift to sit with you even if I am not right there. I have been watching your videos for so long, And it's always been clear from the first video how much you love your kids. You are the cream that rises to the top, you are an amazing mom and a phenomenal person. I respect everything about you. I am sending you love, prayers, and good energy while you work through this. Thank you for being authentic and sharing. 💚💚💚
Awwww Tiff … big hugs to you! ❤️
Tiffany, this is the perfect time to become involved in a church family. When we are learning to let go, it's such a comfort to have a close relationship with Jesus. I am not a fanatic or Bible thumper but I have walked in your shoes and know of what I speak. Boys are so much easier than girls! Oh my word. Bless you, Darlin'. This is just a season in life and you are a great mama.
Burden of being a parent 😂 Carry on Mom. Bob Dylan "Changes" Have a great Hump 🐫 Day everyone, from Tampa Florida. Be Safe and Stay Thrifty
You're honestly like the coolest girl, Thrifty Tiffany, so glad you shared how hard it's been but super admirable how gracefully you've been handling it And even though my son is ONLY turning 5... I have been feeling some kinda ways too. Body aches, and all you've been expressing... tears, emotions, and so much more...I love that you redirected onto shppping, chores and staying productive. I am doing my best to keep myself in check. It is waaay harder than you make it seem. You made me go to Dollar Tree and it wasn't even a cool store here in Toronto. I even asked them if all the stuff I pick3d up was $1.25. They looked at me like girl everything is a $1.50 CAD. Lol
Hi Tiffany, first of all you look so nice and comfortable folding all your towels!! My sister had 2 boys and 1 girl. She always told me 'be glad you had boys' and we would laugh. Now I have 2 granddaughters and I now know what she was talking about!! Keep that great relationship you have with your daughter, you just have to keep being the good Mom you are !! So very happy you will be seeing Cayman soon and you got to talk to him. Hang in there girl you got this!! Enjoy.
My son was a breeze! If we had had my daughter first I'm not sure we would of had a second child! Lol Once my son and daughter were arguing/fighting..He screamed at me from the other room saying,"WHAT WERE YOU THINKING HAVING A SECOND CHILD, MOM!!" Meaning his younger sister of course. It is such a challenge with girls. But it will totally be worth it someday as my daughter raises her daughter who is just like she was. She totally gets it and understands now. Lol
You're right that you sometimes need to take some time to do whatever you feel you need. Life changes aren't easy but I know from experience that it's best to take time to adjust and "do what you need to do". Learning to pay more attention to your own needs is very important, and if you can somehow meet people to share doing something, that's great.
And by the way, I admire you for being so honest on TH-cam!
its not depressing tome, i have to be informed. It reminds me that it could always be worse and it keeps me humble. i have running water, a roof over my head, a car, my body still works, i can walk and i have freedoms. The News, i watch once a day, all in balance, don't watch obsessively it will freak you out. But, its reality and I live in reality. I started caring and getting involved in politics when I realized we have an effect on the laws, rules and politics especially of our town.
You are doing a great job! Definitely can relate and appreciate these videos saying it’s going to be ok. 😊
First, I have to say that you are such a precious individual. I’m not one to ever comment on social media, but I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I can tell that your heart is hurting, so I just wanted to reach out:)
It’s such a catch-22, we’re so proud of our children and want them to succeed and have their own life, but at the same time, we want them home;)
It’s so true that our time with them is so short! I’ve been able to watch a few videos when your children were with you and it’s evident how much they love and respect their mama! You’ve done an amazing job, single-handedly raising them!
I’m recently an empty nester and I have to say that I still struggle with it. My husband and I do enjoy ourselves, but it’s so different from the full house we had for so many years! We raised 4, three boys and the baby is a girl. So when you spoke about the difference in raising boys vs girls, I understood exactly what you were saying! There’s something about a mama & son relationship. Boys love their mamas. Don’t get me wrong, I know our daughter loves me, but the dynamic is so different from how my boys show their love for me. My husband and I look at each other so often and say how truly blessed we are with our four babies and now with our beautiful daughter in law AND precious granddaughter;)
From the way you speak, I assume you are a woman of faith, so continue to pray and giving yourself grace. You will make it through this journey, just like you’ve overcome ever other obstacle that came your way.
Keep your sweet chin up!
Hang in there. As my mom would always tell me, one day at a time. Enjoyed your video today. Have a good evening. 😊❤🐕🐱🐱🐱
I had my kids fairly young, I am 46 now with a 25 year old daughter and a 20 year old son. My son was definitely "easier" compared to my daughter. We have gotten much closer however as the years go on. Being a single parent times were hard occasionally but we do the best we can with what we have. 💜 big hugs to you Tiffany!!
My kids are all grown I had two girls and a boy it was rough, but now my oldest daughter has a sixteen year old daughter and it is awful, the kids at school are mean, the boys are mean and a pain in the butt. Prayers for you both, and Prayers for the boys. Love ya girl hang in there.
So glad you heard from Cayman. & got to chat with him. Exactly but they need to find out on their own..but i kno he likes to come by & see u 2 & shopin the freezer & pantry. Haha. Its hard but u got this girl. We can have our cries & then go only with dojng wht we do...
Honey , My Boys are 42 and 40 it never goes away that empty feeling you have no matter how old they are your babies ...
Always enjoy your videos! My heart felt for you watching this one! Even though I may be a little bit older, I totally understand and remember those days! I had two boys and one went into the Marine Corps and my other was already out of the house - plus being a single mom was the hardest part of my life - so I get it. Always will listen, we all have those days were we just need to talk! Love listening to your southern twang :) Hope your day was letting you feel a bit better after just releasing what you needed to get off your chest! Hugs!!!
Loved listening to you chat. I know what it's like to have your kids leave and go on their own but it all works out. Thanks for lifting my mood today. Love , love, love your videos. I'm going to make myself a Cosmo and watch a movie. Enjoy your evening
I only had boys, 19 and 23 years old now. They were so easy. No drama, just being dufuses usually. But I can't image being a girl now with social media. And I remember being such a b*&^% for no reason due to hormones. I didn't even know why I was mad. So hang in there and give yourself grace. You are doing an amazing job. I know they recognize your commitment to them, you can tell by your interactions with them.
We are going thru the same stuff at the same time. Thank you for sharing your depressed it helped me realize that's probably what is happening to me. I hand washed dishes while listening to ya. Thanks for opening up. Feels like grief 😢. The part of the missing the kids playing and all the noise and laughter OMG same 😢
I'm an empty nester too. I have a boy (24) and girl (27) with 2 grandkids already from my daughter. YES, those girls are something else! They are both Cancer signs, but complete opposites. He was much easier (except he didn't like school). You are the best mom and I'm so happy we had this chat. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I miss your boys too, it's always fun seeing your kids with you. You are right - We'll get through this. 🥰 Love you!
You are a wonderful lady! I love all of your videos, even the ones where you are folding laundry and chatting. You are such an awesome momma. The place you are at right now is difficult, but it too will pass.
Sending love. Appreciate your openness. You are a great mom - great human being. So happy to have found your channel and “ become part of the family” as you say.
I can relate what you're saying about being in the military, which I've mentioned that my grandson is also going through basic training in san Antonio ! I have an Airbnb already booked in san Antonio! Maybe I'll see you at the ceremony 😉! Happy birthday to your daughter 🎉 Tiffany and just a note for you! Love that you're venting or chatting with us! Parenting never stops but you're doing a great job as I can see through your videos...hugs. my son was difficult and my daughter was easy ! Heck I'm a widow and I haven't seen my son for 6 years...now there's a story 😢
Hey Tiffany I enjoyed your chit chat! When my daughter graduated from lackland Tx we actually stayed on base so see if Cayman can get you signed on to the base lodging it was definitely cheaper! But safe travels in the next few weeks! Thanks for always keeping it real Tiffany have a wonderful evening! 😊💕
IDK. I'm 58, been married 32 years but we never had kids. No regrets so I don't know how you feel. I can honestly say that. You just keep being the good Mom you are and be there for them, like I know you will. ❤
I know exactly how you feel. When my last one moved out I got so depressed it was awful. I would lay in her empty room every night after work and sob😢 I ended up having to go get put on an antidepressant. It's been 2 years and It definitely gets easier. Big hugs and prayers to you sweet momma ❤
My girls dirty alot of laundry till I made them fold their own then they didn't do it so much it worked
Pray 🙏 pray 🙏 pray 🙏 allow God to comfort and guide you ❤️
You are a great mom! You raised your kids to make a life for themselves and you taught them right and wrong. They will thank you one day! Be patient with your daughter it must be on your mind she’s next. Single parents are strong, but loving!! You’re doing a great job momma! She don’t say it but she appreciate you!!
Give yourself Grace! Very wise Tiffany! Stay close to Jesus! 🙏💕
Hang in there, Tiffany, truth be told no matter how old your kids get nothing ever really changes. They always need you and they have kids and they need you. I have two granddaughters in college and I can honestly say motherhood never ends. Lol.
Love you, Tiffany! You're such a great mom!
Yes!!! Raising boys is so different than girls! Both crazy and wonderful in their own ways but so different! Keep hanging in there! My little girl is 16 now and its....an "adventure"!
We'll get through this and they'll be our best friends before we know it! 💜
I'm praying for you and your family and especially Cayman and all of our service members and their families! Sending you big hugs, Mama!