HOW TO STOP LIKING YOUR CRUSH (worked for me)

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  • It's very hard to figure out How to Stop Liking Your Crush, especially if you now have to Get Over a Break-Up and learn how to feel okay. I made this video with words of wisdom you’ve most likely never heard before. I hope this helps!
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    MY NOTES // (just in case you enjoy reading more)
    1. Grab a pencil and paper to write a list of qualities and things you WANT in your future husband or wife.
    - Then, go through them and see how many your crush is missing.
    - Next, realize that during the dating/friend stages, they are on their best behavior. All the habits and unkind action they have will only get worse in long term dating; especially marriage.
    2. Cry.
    - Releases endorphins.
    - Pushing off, shoving down or refusing to break/let go, is just delaying a pain that is coming.
    - You’re just finding a fake rest and fake peace.
    - AND if you feel any endless sadness, loneliness, anger, depression or hollow relationships.. those are signs of refusing to break.
    - Brokenness and pain are a form of healing.
    3. Do something!
    - Use creative expression (art, music, dance, writing, sports, doodle & poetry)
    - Realize you’re not alone, you aren’t the only one who's going through this or something else.
    - Go help someone else even in your own brokenness and watch how it heals you.
    4. Stop daydreaming about them.
    - Don’t continue to imagine fixing thing or memories.
    - You can’t change people, no matter how much you want to, or feel your opinion is right.
    - Let them go.
    - You know what they say, “If you love something let it go, and if it’s meant to be it’ll come back to you.”? (It can’t come back to you, if you never let it go to begin with.)
    5. Ask yourself if you’ve subscribed to lies in your life?
    - rejection ≠ unworthiness
    - performance ≠ worth
    - outward appearance ≠ value
    - striving ≠ success
    Outro: “Instead of giving them a piece of your mind, give them a piece of your heart.”
    - What I mean by this is, don’t ignore them. Don’t play silly texting games.
    - Be there for them if they need you.
    - Be honest, and be real.
    - BUT, don’t let them be a place of comfort and safety for you anymore. Don’t let them have a say or give you advice in big life changing things.
    - Start growing in who YOU are and not who you are in the other person.
    LOVE YOU! If you have any questions I'd love to help.
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ความคิดเห็น • 752

  • @crybabyhamiltondawson3456
    @crybabyhamiltondawson3456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1238

    I've liked my crush for almost 4 years and they have known I liked them since last year. Today he asked this girl out and I had to witness it and I went into the hallways to cried :')

    • @supremexeditz253
      @supremexeditz253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Crybaby Hamilton Dawson why is this what happened to me yesterday😭😭

    • @crybabyhamiltondawson3456
      @crybabyhamiltondawson3456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Aw I'm so sorry😭😭

    • @lillysmith8091
      @lillysmith8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I'm so sorry to hear that... But don't worry you're gonna get over it eventually. You're gonna find someone better 😀

    • @taylorloland4605
      @taylorloland4605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      awe baby I’m sorry but it always get better

    • @mischaseychelle_kittycorn6026
      @mischaseychelle_kittycorn6026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My crush has dated like 10 girls.. ALL MY BEST FRIENDS

  • @camerongray7767
    @camerongray7767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    "If two people are meant to be together, eventually they'll find their way back"

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Sadly.. that’s not how it works. :(
      But it’s about when 2 people commit to each other, for better or for worse and lay down their pride, that’s when they stay together not when they are meant to be. Sadly, that’s just Disney. I wish it was true, it’d make it seem easier!

    • @akari350
      @akari350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      To backstab each other one last timr

    • @tanishkajadhav.0009
      @tanishkajadhav.0009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is how it works in kdramas only

    • @camerongray7767
      @camerongray7767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Don’t worry everyone I no longer like her. And I have finally met someone who I like very much and who likes me back :)

    • @JaCk-vh7yv
      @JaCk-vh7yv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@camerongray7767 I also don't like my crush like you but unlike u I haven't got anyone to love me back

  • @brokenk2151
    @brokenk2151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    I can’t cry I can’t feel anything I haven’t ate in like 2 days and I can’t sleep it’s 4 in the morning he likes another girl

    • @musicaddict8470
      @musicaddict8470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Yep, me too. It's very unhealthy.

    • @SUSU-xm2co
      @SUSU-xm2co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@musicaddict8470 please go get something to eat🥺🥺🥺

    • @musicaddict8470
      @musicaddict8470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@SUSU-xm2co Don't worry! I have recently talked to my friend and I have agreed to move on! When I posted that comment I was talking about the past. I'm hoping to get better soon. Thanks for the concern anyways! ^^

    • @SUSU-xm2co
      @SUSU-xm2co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@musicaddict8470 it's ok I just don't want u to starve hun

    • @musicaddict8470
      @musicaddict8470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@SUSU-xm2co Awe! Thanks! I actually have never had someone be so kind like that! I'm surprised people online can actually be that caring! ÓwÒ ♡

  • @jthang7550
    @jthang7550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    For some reason I CAN’T LET GO like my soul is literally attached to him I DON’T know what to do

    • @honkknoah
      @honkknoah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      J THANG same:/

    • @shellyvlogs1182
      @shellyvlogs1182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Me too , i just cant let go of him , i feel like me and him have a connection

    • @springtrap4557
      @springtrap4557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I feel the same way for my crush, we just have to find a way to work it out with him.

    • @marijaboskovska2469
      @marijaboskovska2469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      zenab amin same

    • @gracie.p.2792
      @gracie.p.2792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Same and it hurts when they don’t like you it really does.

  • @jiis4kookonly811
    @jiis4kookonly811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    *Catch another fish in the sea*
    Me: Yeah, why would i stay loyal to someone when he doesn't even like me? 😂

  • @abramiman6372
    @abramiman6372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    omg this is like the sweetest video ever😭😭 i really really like this girl who is also by best friend lol this helped

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Goodness.. that sounds hard.. but you know what? You are strong, and you've got this! :) This will be one of those life turning points in your life! That's super exciting.

    • @s4yorii586
      @s4yorii586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tabitha lol im bi and i like a taken girl- she likes me back but were trying to be friends

    • @Sofia-gl1nb
      @Sofia-gl1nb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@s4yorii586 I've got a similar problem lol

  • @khalyaput5000
    @khalyaput5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I want to uncrush my crush not bc they breaks my heart, I just want to see them as my friend bc it's uncomfortable to think about them 24/7

  • @kathryn4823
    @kathryn4823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Funny story. So I actually did get over my crush, and it's all good. The only reason I'm watching this is because I know going back to school and seeing him again in January is going to bring all those feelings back and I don't want that.

    • @sofiael7350
      @sofiael7350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happened ?

    • @vilmatryphena5389
      @vilmatryphena5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omg same condition , i had crush on this guy 2 yr back and now here we go again ,repeating the history break my heart twice

    • @skylark4736
      @skylark4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the worst part

    • @orangToast
      @orangToast ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vilmatryphena5389 ikr sameeeeee

    • @kathryn4823
      @kathryn4823 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sofiael7350 i started liking him again and eventually he rejected me and said i was "kind of weird" hella understatement and his loss oh well

  • @nataliecheah2454
    @nataliecheah2454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Its so bad for me... I get anxious around him, i try to avoid him but i always end up failing..I can't even focus on my life. I just can't stop thinking about him..

    • @abigailnorri408
      @abigailnorri408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ik😭😭😭

    • @itsracc2871
      @itsracc2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      sounds like you are a sump. lol. couldn't be me

    • @jayyvibs
      @jayyvibs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ik that feeling and it’s horrible it’s even worse cuz I see him with other girls and it breaks me😭

    • @sarahxvamp
      @sarahxvamp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jayyvibs he talks with them jokes with them ...

    • @coolkirby456._9
      @coolkirby456._9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you....

  • @e.n.6079
    @e.n.6079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    JESUS CHRIST ❤️❤️❤️can change people for the better. ☀️

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      AMEN, PREACH IT. ❤️

    • @springtrap4557
      @springtrap4557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He really can change people for the better.

    • @sierraperez4025
      @sierraperez4025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She sounds like a Woman who loves Jesus! ❤️

    • @lizburpee2079
      @lizburpee2079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen sister

    • @whereisggoing
      @whereisggoing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMENNNNNNNN

  • @aperson8533
    @aperson8533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Rejection does not = unworthiness
    Performance does not = worth
    Outward appearance does not = value
    Striving does not = success
    Very well said 👏

  • @quinnsantana5217
    @quinnsantana5217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The feeling when you know its wrong but you still want it

  • @brandytriplet2938
    @brandytriplet2938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Me:looks up video on how to get over a crush
    Also me:exits out of TH-cam to stalk his Instagram 😭😭

    • @conversationswithadrianne
      @conversationswithadrianne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brandy Triplet 😂😂❤️🤗

    • @sweetlikechocolate437
      @sweetlikechocolate437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm guilty of doing that too. One needs to do a hobby or aim to achieve anything that you want to do in your life, work towards it, work hard so you don't have any time to think about your crush. I know it sounds harsh but I hope it helps with the comment. God bless.

    • @mariahhart1087
      @mariahhart1087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exposed me😭

    • @foxxlol
      @foxxlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same...but with Snapchat lol(also the fact that she’s a girl but nvm

  • @yessicagacha3825
    @yessicagacha3825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I tried letting go but I cant because it's hard when I see his face in the hallways and he have almost every class with me plus he sits at my lunch table 😭

  • @nathalia8319
    @nathalia8319 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    i remember last year i had the words "Mixed Emotions" and it was about my crush becaus i hated him sometimes but sometimes i liked him...and he would make a song out of it and he would always ask me what it meant but its still a mystery to him...

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Awe.. I love writing, I understand how hard it is to, to let someone go who's just so special to you and inspires you in the most beautiful ways. But just imagine, if he isn't the one for you and he makes you feel this way, imagine how AMAZING it'll be when you do find the one :))

    • @fezziouiwissal7942
      @fezziouiwissal7942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I relate xxd

    • @samanthabailey3889
      @samanthabailey3889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okg same

  • @parissmith9310
    @parissmith9310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I watched 16 Candles and was convinced m crush liked me. So my friend asked him and he was like "PFFFF NOOO"
    and ive liked him for like 2 years so that kinda sucked

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AWE... I'm so sorry.. I can't imagine how hard that is. But sooner than later, you'll be able to look back and be thankful for all that you learned. Cheesy, but it's true and it'll be worth it. I promise ♥️. (the 2 years weren't wasted time)

    • @phoebescott2290
      @phoebescott2290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg same !

    • @springtrap4557
      @springtrap4557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know how you feel, it happened to me today.😔😔😔

    • @capy100
      @capy100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its the same story with me.

  • @laurenxf1
    @laurenxf1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    he flirts with me and makes me belive he has feelings for me and then says he likes my friend and kind of likes some others but he's confused with his feelings so I get so confused??? i don't get upset knowing he probably doesn't like me like that it's the fact that he made me believe he had feelings for me and completely led me on that makes me angry.. only problem is that i can't say mad at people for long enough so I always end up forgiving him when he fucks up.. If he wasn't a friend it would be so much easier

    • @veraque331
      @veraque331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      idk bro you have literally explained my situation, I’m so confused but how’s things for you now?

    • @karate_k1d
      @karate_k1d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@veraque331 lolol same

    • @cherryyy_0004
      @cherryyy_0004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg literally all same...

    • @hanniebananie07
      @hanniebananie07 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same bro

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Player’s gonna play, the only solution is to walk away

  • @samanthaleis8127
    @samanthaleis8127 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Thanks!!! Now I'm gonna be alone forever!!😊❤️

    • @table928
      @table928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Samantha Leis yay!

    • @fredbmurphy
      @fredbmurphy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just know that you're not alone in that category.
      Crushes on people are evil, because you don't choose them, your crushing chooses before you know it's even happening. Too bad the process of compatibility/ forming relationships didn't have this biological attribute. Crushes don't discriminate against incompatibility.
      To make it even worse on a completely different level, imagine the only stretch of time in your life, where you were ostracized into lonership, and could accept noone, is the only time anyone ever crushed on you.

    • @tabi6245
      @tabi6245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @springtrap4557
      @springtrap4557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There are plenty of others. (Trust me on it, because it happened to me.)

  • @Tiradotony
    @Tiradotony 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m so shy when I’m around my crush that I just run away

  • @amandabail
    @amandabail 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i like this guy its been 3 YEARS, we had something but i never admit it 3 years after here i am crying because he is dating someone else

  • @chlogurt
    @chlogurt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Now you need to make a video on how to get your crush to like you lol

  • @ermloveskz8587
    @ermloveskz8587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Say me if your crush is like 3-6 yrs older than u

    • @ermloveskz8587
      @ermloveskz8587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me 4/5

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I don’t believe age is to big of a deal. It appears to be a problem when you’re younger and may cause some problems, but I know of lovely grandparent(s) who are still married today and are 10 years apart. :)

    • @ermloveskz8587
      @ermloveskz8587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tabitha Leis oh ok good to know

    • @ermloveskz8587
      @ermloveskz8587 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What if your friend talk about u being obsessed. My friend keeps saying that im obsessed and i need to get over him but everytime i try to she keeps bringing him back up. Doesnt that mean that shes more obsessed than i am and the she LOVES him and not like him

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well beautiful,
      I don’t think she loves him, loves a-little bit different. :)
      Liking someone’s totally normal and when you like someone, you think or talk about them. A LOT. That’s not a bad thing. It doesn’t mean your obsessed.
      You’re friend probably just wants you more to herself cause she loves you.
      Maybe ask your friend to not talk about him around you because you’re trying to move on or just ask her if you can talk about something else! Cause I’m sure she loves you only wants to help! :)

  • @samiyahbeary5138
    @samiyahbeary5138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I got over mine because I’ve been obsessed with them until quarantine I came into my senses my friends would be like he is ugly inside out and which was so true... even people in school would be like oooh not a good choice for a guy to like etc..fall for someone that’ll give into you, sometimes chasing that “one” person obsessing over them is a waste of time. I don’t think about them anymore at all and IT FEELS SO GOOD TRUST ME

  • @jackiehernandez5627
    @jackiehernandez5627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you are the first person who is giving actual tips of real live situations. i love how you haven’t bad talked about the opposite person .... like this is so genuine and I can sense the love you have the want you have to help us feelings broken ... than you ♥️

  • @tristaleyva2334
    @tristaleyva2334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    i liked him he called me today asked me what i was doing and talked for a bit i started texting him and he told me he liked another girl and just liked me as a friend and i cried for 4 hours

    • @nishanthafernando7169
      @nishanthafernando7169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know he tell me,a girl proposed him and he too like her ,I tell oh wow you find your queen finally,
      But everyday he talks to me ,he tell everything to me ,now I realise that I have feelings for him,
      But it's too late ,now too he's massaging me ,I know it's not good to like anyone person guy
      I hope I can move on easily 😣

  • @TrinityG.
    @TrinityG. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She is amazing

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      AWE.. thank you so much for encouraging me ❤️

    • @TrinityG.
      @TrinityG. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tabitha Leis no problem 🤗

  • @ikiyani7219
    @ikiyani7219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you so much for this video, good to know that there’s people out there like you that want to help people out of care and expect nothing else in return x

  • @suzy._g
    @suzy._g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't have a crush but I clicked on this because the thumbnail...it's cute😅
    I need you in my life. I love your energy and the way you think. Keep doing what your doing❤️

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwww!! Thank you for leaving this comment, it made me smile ☺️♥️

  • @sofiaavouri
    @sofiaavouri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just love her energy ❤️by the way this literally changed what I think and feel about my crush 😔💔

  • @Overhxe
    @Overhxe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've liked a guy named Bryce for about 5 months in 6th grade and I did still like him now as a 7th grader (still am a 7th grader), but I've always known that he didn't like me back as a girlfriend or anything beyond as a friend. so I've been searching up about how to stop liking a guy, And then I stumbled across this video and I've been watching this almost every day now and trying all these bits of advice and It has really helped me a lot and now I'm slowly starting to only see Bryce as a friend and not as a Boyfriend/crush. And I just wanted to thank you for helping me to stop liking Bryce and I Love your positive attitude :)

  • @pinkunicorn4668
    @pinkunicorn4668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first one didn't help me, it just made me like him even more! So for my list, I put cute, kind, funny, loyal and smart. And my crush is all of those things!!! I need help...

  • @chavindinavanjana8852
    @chavindinavanjana8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really love how cheerful you are throughout the video and it uplifted my mood. Now I feels like 'Okay girl you got this!' Thank you so much.

  • @wolfand-sheeps31
    @wolfand-sheeps31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’ve liked my crush for 5 years and now that I’ve found out that he likes my bff... I’m... idk sometimes I’m mad at my bff, but then I’m mad at myself? It’s cuz I’ve told her I like him and now she acts like I’ve let him go forever but I NEVER told her I stopped and she just makes me get jealous so it gets in my nerves and now I just wanna cry oof

    • @itsracc2871
      @itsracc2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its not her fault he likes her. man up.

    • @rosewalls8776
      @rosewalls8776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my best friend flirts with him and then claims she doesn't like anyone. She always tries to talk to him..
      aren't true friends supposed to tread carefully around that one and only boy you like?

  • @vantheghost9588
    @vantheghost9588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The positive energy is encouraging and addictive

  • @minhthuy4891
    @minhthuy4891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You remind me of the “Good advice cupcake”

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AAH! That is the most unforgettable complement I've ever received! ♥️

  • @kaiallen1950
    @kaiallen1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I know this video is kind of old, but this is my first time seeing it. My crush and I became really close. She helped me mentally when I was at my lowest. She was the only one there for me when noone wasn't. Then suddenly she just stopped texting me, but still talked to me at school. Then slowly stopped talking to me at school even though we sit close to each other in class. I'm trying my best to get over her, but it's so hard when I'm worried about her and if she is okay. I'm super protective, and I just want her happy. I just wish I knew what I did wrong to lose the only person who cared for me when I was ready to give up. Idk, but your video helped abit. I dont think you will even see this comment cause the vids old, but maybe just me writing this will help? Idk. Sorry.

    • @ntsakorocha
      @ntsakorocha 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kai Allen i hope you and her are doing better!

    • @sweetlikechocolate437
      @sweetlikechocolate437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww.

    • @wearecastaway1
      @wearecastaway1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you should ask her why she did that :-: also how did it go so far?

  • @ienjover
    @ienjover 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I do my best to impress him... But the best thing to do is IGNORE him... I LOVE him but I HATE him in the same time... (My crush cheated on me... Sooooo yeah I have support from my BFF's like this TH-camr who helps me in times like this... Thx 4 making this video!! Tysm!!)

  • @sarahs7970
    @sarahs7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This literally helped me so much. I just got rejected by a guy who told me he liked me. And I’m glad I watched this instead of doing something else

  • @jazminebailey8926
    @jazminebailey8926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tabitha you're a breath of sunshine.

  • @Themediocresunflower
    @Themediocresunflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't care how old this video is and the fact that this is the first video of yours that I'm watching. I just want to tell you (even though ik there are maximum chances you won't be able to read this) that you did a really amazing job here! You listed everything in the description even though you have mentioned it all in the video too. That's just so cool- I mean. There are many like me who like to read more than they like to hear. You're so amazing, love you for doing this.❤️
    PS- sorry if the English seems odd, it isn't my first language.

  • @nayanadeka247
    @nayanadeka247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    her energy n way of talking is so natural n impressive 😁✨

  • @1LuvJesus
    @1LuvJesus ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all I know this was made 5years ago but wise advice does not have an expiry date. You are the only person who has given realistic advice and I love you! Hope you continue to prosper. Like really, you have been really helpful. Thank you

  • @tristaleyva2334
    @tristaleyva2334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i just have this feeling that i know i can’t let him go that i know we will be together but it’s so hard but i have a feeling i can’t let him go

  • @elsavasquez9563
    @elsavasquez9563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally can’t understand how you hit all the points I wasn’t clear about in my own head. Thank you so much for making this video!

  • @emmy_grace
    @emmy_grace ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've liked someone for 3 years. We were texting A LOT over the summer, but then we.. just .. . stopped .. .. i didn't.. but he did.. . It's been 4 months and I still cry about it. i know that the signs of him not liking me are abundant and I really don't want to make him uncomfortable, (because someone else is doing that to me right now), and i can't keep hurting because it's just too painful. But after liking someone for 3 years, it sure is a freaking hard thing to stop.

  • @elise7491
    @elise7491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m confused about how someone wouldn’t like you you’re literally so fun and sweet ily

  • @ruparubena727
    @ruparubena727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have one, the reason I started liking him is, first people shipped me and him like CRAZY cuz APPARENTLY he likes me and second he makes me laugh and makes me so happy 🥺 and now sometimes I feel like I don't like him sometimes I feel like he's ok and sometimes I want to see him and it's always when I say I really want to be close to him 🥺😫😭

    • @tracy2222
      @tracy2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It also started like that with me and now that I like like him, he's into my best friend.

  • @darsVl
    @darsVl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The one tip that was to talk to your friend and vent everything is true. I had no one to talk to so I hold all these emotions and literally broke down 2 days ago and started to push people away for awhile. That's why I'm trying to change my mind set so I can move on! Ty for ur tips

    • @phoebescott2290
      @phoebescott2290 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I pushed most of my friends away but im getting better to I feel like my bestie wont listen to me she just wants to tell her stories ,so I needed some tips about crushes to and ive learned to FOCUS ON YOURSELF and be the best you as possible ,now I have loads of friends and I dont try to fit in I try to be myself and ive gotten closer to my crush that way anways ,I really understand where you're coming from :)

  • @duckiebotzz3446
    @duckiebotzz3446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to have a crush on his person last year and he found out because some people told him. And then I also found out that he’s also dating my friend for 2 months now and that just broke my heart. It took me 2 days to heal it. I’m glad that I over him and meet someone new.

  • @jazminebailey8926
    @jazminebailey8926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had a nervous breakdown after seeing my crush walking down the sidewalk with his female friend that I know he has more than just friendship feelings for.

  • @cherry4510
    @cherry4510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started liking this person.
    I didn’t know I like them because I was in a relationship at the time.
    And we were best friends.
    After I broke up with my ex, I started to notice my feelings.
    In the beginning of me noticing my feelings that person liked me too.
    But as my feelings grew I finally confessed.
    They turned me down and said that we should be friends because they didn’t want us being together ruining our friendship.
    I was angry at first.
    I found out everything.
    I just wanted to see if we could try, and if it didn’t work out then I’d really let go of it all.
    But they refused.
    Then I started to be really really sad.
    Crying for hours, deleting pictures, ripping drawings, hiding paintings, everything of them away.
    I even stopped being friends for a while.
    I’ve tried so many methods of healing.
    Nothing has worked.
    I’ll come back to this comment once I get over them. Hopefully, soon.

    • @miley4329
      @miley4329 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you over them yet?

    • @chinngerr3593
      @chinngerr3593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you now

  • @rip_tis
    @rip_tis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ive liked someone for 5 years now
    finally got the courage to confess
    he said ''no soz''
    well....that is why im here

  • @daechwitha8126
    @daechwitha8126 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thankuu so much for that!! you were jus like my old self .... I'm so happy that i found your video🥺

  • @AphoticGoblin
    @AphoticGoblin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have liked my crush for every single year I have been at school. It's a curse. I cursed myself.

  • @ccalexander1924
    @ccalexander1924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just keep yourself busy. Change your thoughts every time you see him or her. Think about anything that is unattractive about that person , such as their moodiness , crooked teeth , bald spot etc. hang out with others and soon you won’t have a crush anymore

  • @cyborgpunkmonk
    @cyborgpunkmonk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah, it's tough when you're friends. And they're taken already, but sometimes they seem like they feel something too. But I want to respect what already is. And I wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone to begin with (still healing, and figuring out what I even want in a relationship/who I want to be). But feelings just sorta happened. :/
    It is however, at least in my perspective, helping heal and strengthen boundaries, self love, unconditional love, and respect.
    It's just hard to fight or let go of feeling sad for what isn't. But I also have to keep reminding myself that my thoughts are not reality/it won't be like my thoughts. I do wish to stay friends, but I hope this back and forth pain & love feeling gets better over time.
    Thnx for the video. :) good reminders & tips.

  • @pinkunicorn4668
    @pinkunicorn4668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've had this crush on this guy for 2 years now...I just want to stop liking him because I always get nervous around him and my heart starts beating really fast. I don't know if he likes me but I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me so I really want to stop liking him...

  • @rishikaaaa9249
    @rishikaaaa9249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really didn't want you to stop. You really explain everything so clearly and sweetly . Lots of wishes. Love you!

  • @spinobolt7322
    @spinobolt7322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Been liking the same girl for 4 years,i’m surprised I can even keep fake smiling around family and friends

  • @RedFox-dz7ub
    @RedFox-dz7ub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this advice! I finally realized that I actually like a guy I knew for so long but I know that it won’t work, at least not right now (how you rephrased that letting go quote really made perfect sense to me btw) but like I said: hearing and watching this video has made me step back and see what I’m going through! You’re the best!

  • @BaylorNS
    @BaylorNS ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video was so helpfull thank you for important message

  • @carlamorales3287
    @carlamorales3287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have a crush for like 3 months but when i knew he has a girlfriend so i searched some of this vidoes and it maked me happy for myself again

  • @umyeahok2097
    @umyeahok2097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a crush on a school mate and he has a gf! The minute I found out I tried my hardest to stop liking him. It’s all superficial because I’ve never even spoken to him lol... I was starting to get passed it, but there’s times where I can feel him looking at me so I’ll look back and we make eye contact 😭 like bro why are u looking at me?!!

  • @scoutquick965
    @scoutquick965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk if it’s just me but I searched this because I literally am in love with a cartoon boy and I don’t want to just be stuck to a guy who can’t possibly love me back 🥲💕

  • @greyszanatomy4ever
    @greyszanatomy4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here’s My Story, So I gained feelings for my brothers best friend, I’ve liked him for almost 7 years... He would always tease me and stuff when my brother was gone.. so he would flirt with me a lot when it was just us.... he’s everything on the list and he’s like perfect and I don’t know what to do!

  • @beccarummage6446
    @beccarummage6446 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video is so sweet omg

  • @cvrinq1201
    @cvrinq1201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m in a stargaze with someone who doesn’t know I exist I really want to get over it because everything I do I get bored and think about this person so most of these tips I’m gonna try,crying I do that a lot and stop daydreaming and dreaming about this person so I’m also gonna try staying off this person’s page unless they post something new so to stop going on the page and just looking at their new post...

  • @yfoog
    @yfoog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re very wise for a young kid. You have a positive future I feel!

  • @larendias
    @larendias 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in a position where I can't really talk to friends about it and I've started obsessing over somebody online... she's a great human but deep down I know she isn't the one for me right now... atleast yet.
    So I want let go of my attachment to her and just be good friends. And for now I can't talk to anyone about it and this video is a helping me a lot. I like the friendliness and comfort vibes I'm getting. Thank you :-)

  • @kateston222
    @kateston222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her happiness.... it’s so contagious and I felt so much better after watching this video💖

  • @Uliulihoku
    @Uliulihoku 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I fricking love you so much!!❤️ the things you said were helping a lot. This is the first video of you I saw, and let me tell you I don’t usually subscribe to people if they aren’t super awesome..☺️The only thing is.. I have a little crush on a guy that I can NEVER be with. I don’t really wanna be with him anymore, but I always catch myself trying to impress him... I always feel like “I don’t like him anymore but when he gets close I fricking Crush again...when I wrote down the future husband qualities I was just thinking about another crush🤦‍♀️I can’t make up a dream boyfriend bc idk how to create flaws, and I don’t like perfect people(since no one is).That crush however I really like. I’m making up these fantasies(like us just chilling, going for walks n stuff) and I look at zodiac sign things and then I see him as his sign and me as my sign and it’s really unhealthy..😕 idk what to do about that.

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aweee love, I’m sorry. This whole relationship thing is hard because there’s isn’t a perfect a + b = c for everything.
      I’d say try to write the list less from a perspective of Prince Charming or ‘The Perfect Guy’ and more from the standings of Qualities Your Parents Have [the qualities you like, of course haha] or things you love about grandparents, friends, family etc.
      Right down traditions you want to keep or political views, things that when you put this ‘crush’ to the test [for a lack of better words] it’s not about him being perfect but him being someone who is a liked minded person, someone who’s perfect FOR you. ♥️

    • @Uliulihoku
      @Uliulihoku 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tabitha Leis Thank you so much again!❤️❤️

  • @salomerapokisa9441
    @salomerapokisa9441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped me to get over him because I almost changed myself for the guy and thank you very much for this.

    • @sophiamp.3641
      @sophiamp.3641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello lovely i know a man who can help you to bring back your love to you without delays he was the one that helped me to get back my love within 48 hhours

    • @sophiamp.3641
      @sophiamp.3641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatxsap him;;

    • @callistopaws
      @callistopaws 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sophiamp.3641 What?-

  • @eleanorokoroma1606
    @eleanorokoroma1606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so kind and humorous. I really enjoyed watching you, wish I have friends more like you, thanks for sharing this, I'm feeling better already

  • @Amanda-ng1mx
    @Amanda-ng1mx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been looking at these type if videos to try and get this guy off my mind and almost all these videos say to think of all their flaws but when I think of their flaws, I find him even more cute!!! 😚 Not to mention, my pupils dilate every single time I think of him!

  • @nehaarshad2666
    @nehaarshad2666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video made me feel so much better

  • @butteryfly6465
    @butteryfly6465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There’s this one person I like but it’s obvious they don’t like me back and looks like their dating someone I’m trying to get rid of the crush but I can’t and it really hurts. But this TH-cam is really positive and gives amazing vibes

  • @btsloverarmy50
    @btsloverarmy50 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like how she talks she's the one who's making me happy i mean it🤩❤🥰

  • @valeekingsimp4179
    @valeekingsimp4179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just don’t ever want to have a crush -_-
    Until the right one -_-

  • @iandzsquad5298
    @iandzsquad5298 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video really helped me thank you

  • @haydenlawler7127
    @haydenlawler7127 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is honestly so so amazing and helpful! Thank u so much♡

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This makes my full day! I'm so glad love. :)

  • @sarahboese9990
    @sarahboese9990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you are so motivating! thanks for cheering us up, you're fire! ♡🔥😊

  • @rithiksharan
    @rithiksharan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This vdo deserves a lot more. Wholesome af

  • @aleenavelasco7190
    @aleenavelasco7190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I the only one who is only watching this video to get rid of the last bit of feelings I have for my crush before they grow bigger again. I want to completely stop liking him

  • @melyssamarley646
    @melyssamarley646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i loved this video im watching it in 2019 and in love wit your personality !!!!!

  • @laylauribe3776
    @laylauribe3776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve liked my crush for three years and I’m starting to think that he likes my bestfriend and I’m moving so I’m trying to get over him and this video helped a lot

  • @Mayaxlacasse
    @Mayaxlacasse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you are so sweet your energy made me smile all along :) i love your video, i think its really helpful and it gave me inspiration... thank uu

    • @TabithasChannel
      @TabithasChannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwww. 🥰. Thank you!! You’ve got this!

  • @-_-353-_-
    @-_-353-_- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me I just have better things to do and plus all of the people I’ve ever crushed on in my life were out of my line

  • @chane11ee7
    @chane11ee7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this video really spoke to me, this is the best how to get over your crush video I've seen! (and I've seen a lot) so inspirational, thank you. I came to this video feeling crushed and now I feel empowered :)
    Edit: I’m over him now! (It took 3 months lol)

  • @jasminnorthway3448
    @jasminnorthway3448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here’s the thing I DONT KNOW MY CRUSH WE DONT TALK TO EACHOTHER

  • @srishto
    @srishto 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have no idea how much I loved your vibe💫

  • @clarahoezen8886
    @clarahoezen8886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't seen my crush in 2 years and I still think about that person every day. Whats wrong with me?

  • @kitzyer7781
    @kitzyer7781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive been liking this boy for 2 years. Hes my best friends brother so its hard to stop being around him. I wanna stop liking him because he is 4 years older than me and at first i thought he talked to me differently from every other girl but really he was just being the same to everyone. Ugh i really hate him but i love him soo much. Ive been trying soo hard, think negative abt him and everything, but its like i just cant stop loving him. Its like im mentally attracted to Him. I try to find intrest in someone else but I JUST CANT ITS SOOO HARD I LOVEE HIIMMMM UGHHHHH.

  • @p4rf252
    @p4rf252 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im currently in a bad situation, i liked this girl since the start of the school year till now, turns out, my best friend also liked her, one day, i noticed something fishy abt those two and realised that they were potenitally dating, so now i have 2 choices, either to keep on persueing that person or to just get over it and persue someone else

  • @gracie.p.2792
    @gracie.p.2792 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped, Thankyou so much!
    I was actually talking to my crush on FaceTime but then my friend started to call him 50 million times and he blocked me 😭 I got so upset I didn’t sleep.

  • @strongb4d
    @strongb4d 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Today my crush confessed he liked my BFF so this helped a lot thanks!

  • @charlenegagnonhachey2745
    @charlenegagnonhachey2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay you deserve so much more subscribers

  • @nasrihassan676
    @nasrihassan676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You give so much good energy. And I respect that thnxs for sharing❣️but how is anybody else supposed to love me if i cant love myself😞

  • @MD-ej8nh
    @MD-ej8nh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how cheerful and happy you are such good vibes.

  • @sparklenights5421
    @sparklenights5421 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate my crush, its so ironic. this is why I have to get over him, because he is wasting my time, I always try to push this guy away, and not give him and his friends ANY attention (of course while not being mean) I dont even talk to them, I dont even know them that well, AND THEY STILL KEEP COMING, I can't stand sitting beside, look or talk with this guy and his friends. Gosh I hate him, so charming, but I can't imagine a future with him, so im sure it'll go over soon, anyways thanks for the tips! it helps girl!

  • @Mockingjay975
    @Mockingjay975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What worked for me: my friend telling me something awful and gross about my crush that put me off him forever!