BLACK_SPEED it’s okay sis keep asking for forgiveness however, Allah mentioned tha he does not forgive those who back bite tou have to physically go to them Nd ask for forgiveness yourself.
For those who are suffering through domestic violence (physical, emotional, mental, financial, immigration, etc), the “smile and walk away” doesn’t apply to you. Someone hits you once, will most likely hit you again. Find a trusted person to confide in, find an organization that can help you, and report it to law enforcement of possible. Abuse is never okay.
My husband abused me i tolerated but now my husband sister in law slapped me face because of a mere argument, but the worst is my husband didn't support me , what should I do
My adult son beats me and swears at me, his mother. Usually, it's because of money or because he does zina without hiding it and I advise him to not do it and to turn back to Allah. After beating me he asks whilst laughing how much it hurts? And would i like another beating again? I am in so much pain physically and mentally. This is my burden to carry. I ask Allah to help me. May death come to me when Allah is happy with me. Ameen.
I was abused until the abuser left my family in November. I would get strangled, my hair pulled, punched, and it was so bad to the point were I was feeling depressed and thinking about self harm and suicide, and I'm only 15. I feel more relieved now that they aren't with us.
Do not allow anybody to abuse u in any way, physically or mentally. I'm glad to hear your abuser has left but u should lay charges with the police. IA Allah will help u to erase the whispering of shaytaan (thoughts of suicide) and keep u on the right path always.
I'm sorry to hear that you had to face violence at home where you should feel safe. The person who abused you is trash and I hope they feel your pain and helplessness and nightmares. May everything good come in your path. Allah decides on the bad things that happen in life but he also sends you the good. Use the free hotlines and get counselling or therapy if possible. Try mental heath apps and immerse yourself in a hobby or acquire a new skill. You deserve to feel happy and loved and secure in life.
⚠️ Everyone who promotes or defends any books or preachers which contradict the Quran & Hadith will gain as much sin as those who follow the wrong teachings. Tablighi Jamaat sect will be the cause of so many people entering hell 🔥😨🔥 because 📖 Fazail-e-Amaal is full of Bid'ah & Shirk ALLAH MADE IT CLEAR ISLAM IS C0MPLETE & PERFECT ( No need 4 Fazail - e - Amaal ) Would we drink a milkshake with 🥛 🍓 & poison in it ? Fazail - e - Amal ingredients > Quran > Hadith > Shirk As we know poison will end this temporary life ⚰️ but shirk will keep us in Hell forever 🔥😨🔥
This is such a good reminder for all of us including myself. I love when Mufti Menk says that when we speak badly of others, the loss is always ours, and not those we speak about. I also love that he says; don't lose your great character and conduct because someone else lost theirs. SubhanAllah, how beautiful and true!
Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member.. Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain. But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife.. My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her.. Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all.. I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me. I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired. Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister. Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too.. Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do
Smiling at some who is hurting you is not going to fix the problem. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to sink to their level, but standing up to yourself is a must in this life. Smiling when you are unhappy in this situation does nothing for you. Peace and love🙏🏽
Glad to hear sometime say that, I wish Islam would advocate for that more. Sometimes meeting meanness or controllingness isn’t solved with a smile for God’s sake
Allah seriously sent u in my life to guid me each & everyday ....can't understand how do u know ,what I'm asking Allah to guid me for?!! JazakAllah for every single effort u made..Love from Indian occupied Kashmir
Asalamualakum My uncle is in intensive care and he is in ICU too and he won’t wake up in 48 hours everyone please dua for him because there is a deadly infection spreading in the throat.
InshaAllah, will try our best to be patient in all such circumstances. Such a beautiful reminder. May Allah reward you with goodness in this world and hereafter 😃
@@rabiawaseem7699 Sure, but what's the correct spelling? And how is it different from what I have written because I have seen many scholars using this meaning I guess? Please tell me, I'm still learning! And thank you for ur comment 😊
@@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417 Aslamualiakum dear I was also corrected by a scholar I wrote in urdu he said don't as it changes the meaning separte the words in sha Allah now I have heard mufti menk he says we can write in English together so I have corrected myself jazakaAllah khair 😀
Always treat badness with kindness then stay silent as they will steal your peace leave them to God you have nothing to fear as noone can defeat the creator ✌️✌️✌️✌️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
It's hard to ignore someone who can walk into my room whenever he wants to and do whatever he wants to to me. In the video you're talking about how to deal with strangers or people outside but what about the family members and people who live in one's house? How to ignore them? How to protect oneself?
@@znbxawr THIS!! you could go to your nearest fire station and they should shelter you and provide for you!! please do so, don’t let things get out of control. may Allah protect you ❤️
Please do not be silent. This kind of abuse from male family members is despicable and you must get out of this house and call police. Live with cousins, friends or alone but no matter what you must not be silent
get financially stronger and leave i can understand you my family does the same but i am a women cant go anywhere but you can may Allah help you in this situation
Yr sachi ma Ab un ki qismat ma hi ya tha We should pray for them They are really in very hard difficult and challenging time. May Allah protect them. Really I myself visited Kashmir 2 years ago it is super beautiful place. So calm people there. so peaceful environment But but but After every 2 minutes of drive there is army check post. Always there is a danger that anywhere anything anytime can happen. And trust me when I came back to home. I got news there is again LOC's violation and 2 Kashmiri people meet to Allah. So hard time for them. We should pray May Allah protect them. Say Ameen
I’ve never faced physical violence like some of you (may Allah guide you all) but instead I had emotional abuse which made me feel like ending everything because those words cut like a knife through my heard, thankfully Allah swt has assisted me with everything I do and now I am doing better Alhamdulillah, never lose faith in Allah. Hardships bring you closer to Allah if you choose to find Him!
It is the easiest way to keep your character smile...ignore and walk away.. but for some that do not have a choice but to live with those people that they don't just want to walk but to run away from them and unfortunately they cannot for some reason their only choice is to accept it and live with it. May Allah have mercy on us.
Thank u so much, I was just bullied at work and after listening to this, the whole situation made me stronger and happier. Leaving in peace was my biggest priority.
Thank you mufti menk, after watching ur video I have learned many things, my friend's always insults me and I always hated them but then I have learned that I shouldn't hate I should have patience. Looking forward to learn more from you
Same, she was so manipulative it was unbearable and she said me wanting to kms wasn't a reason to apparently 'make me look in the argument.' Shes friends with my other friend tho, they were childhood friends but her friend stays with me still.. she's a very good Muslim but the other just hurts me so I don't go near her
How about jealous family members who say things to upset you but not directly to you how to stop being very hurt by them. I stay away and do dua for them but it is hurtful as I'm not like them. May Allah swt guide us always ameen
Say alhamdulillah.. That's the sunnah. And feel sorry for them because they don't know what they are doing.. This shows that you are Mu'min. Because Allah tested the same on our beloved prophet SAW as well. I know how it feels. Remember it's going to be better. This world is not worth it anyway. Stay close to Allah.
A man from nowhere messaged me on whatsapp and started abusing me and I simply said that "I forgive you for what are you saying and hope Allah gives you Hidayah" and Masha Allah he right away apologized and promised that he would never bother me again.❤️
JZKHALLAH KHAIR, SHUKR, this is exactly what I am going through at this very moment, the more the keep quiet, the more angry it makes them . blessed is your advice an YOU.AMEEN
JazzakAllahu Khairan Mufti Menk. The best way to deal with people like them is to pray for them sincerely to be successful and busy. Inshaa Allah if things work out for them they will forget about you or busy showing off whilst the Angels for you. All is all knowing most merciful
@@hammersharkk8595 Lol. Durood in Urdu is salawat upon the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam! Allah taala is the creator not just of different creations but also languages my brother.
@@Abdulhanaankhan if someone does not know about something we should teach them instead of judging them anyways only Allah know if we are muslim by heart or not 😇
Why did Allah SWT the the All Powerful, Benevolent, Beneficient, Merciful and Wise create Man and Jinn ? AL-QUR'AN 51:56 • Sherali: And I have NOT created the Jinn and the Men but that they may worship ME. • Pickthal: I created the Jinn and Humankind ONLY that they might WORSHIP Me. • Rashad: I did not create the Jinns and the Humans except to WORSHIP ME ALONE. What are ordinary human beings to make of an All Powerful Entity that creates a universe with people for One and only ONE single purpose: that they Constantly sing His Praises and WORSHIP Him ? Permanent Hell fire for those who do not PRAISE and WORSHIP the Lord God constantly or praise some other imaginary entity - i.e. commit SHIRK. This command to worship is very serious indeed considering the extreme punishment (ETERNAL HELL FIRE) that is to be meted out to those who do not try to satisfy this need. This certainly is food for thought for the mushrikeen.
- Dua for jannah * Allahumma inni as’alukal jannah - Dua for good ending * Allahumma inni as’alukal husnul khatimah - Dua for protection from hellfire * Allahumma ajirni min an-naar - Dua for protection from punishment of grave. * Allahumma inni a’uzubika min azabil Qabr
Salam Alaykum. Masha Allah, Tabarakkallah.. Post some personal issues in my family this video comes in my recommendation. I take this message that Allah swt conveyed to me through you and as you said yes just turn and smile. Ya rab please give me a guidance to run a good life.
Ahadha sahih, meaning this is genuine and true. To ladies especially (or anyone in a domestic abuse situation), your power is in NOT reacting as was said here. There is such a thing called reactive abuse where you lose your cool because of what you have endured from abuse. I guarantee you, abusers will use this against you to make you seem like the crazy and abusive one. Don’t react and you will have power over them!
Masha Allah, Subhan allah beautiful piece of advice, Mufti your speech motivates us it inspire us to do good no matter how bad the things and situation turns to be.
I wish the person who abused me with vulgar language shud cry like me…remembering her words breaks my heart again & again😭😭😭Allah will give me justice😭🤲
SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi { Glory to be Allah and praise him } 1. Whoever says the above a hundred times during the day , his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea. { sahih al bukhari 7:168 2. Abu dharr reported that the prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasallam) said “Shall I tell you the words that Allah loves the most?” I said “Yes tell me oh messenger of Allah. He ( salAllahu alayhi wasallam) said : the words dearest to Allah are “subhanAllahi wa bihamdihi” {muslim and at-tirmidhi}
People say: your hijab is going to close a lot of doors in your life..
Muslima say: yes especially the doors of hell..
It indeed opens a lots of Doors of goodness and It close the doors of evilness😊.How are you sister?
Good one sister❤
@@ekkuuu Alhamdlillah... what about you sister..😊
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Alhamdhulillah I’m doing well.Whats yor name dear? Anyways,This is your sister Eshal from Maldives 🥰
Nice poet👍
“ if anyone believes in Allah and the day of judgement , speak good or remain silent “
@@abbas45009 chill
BLACK_SPEED it’s okay sis keep asking for forgiveness however, Allah mentioned tha he does not forgive those who back bite tou have to physically go to them Nd ask for forgiveness yourself.
BLACK_SPEED igyyy 😩
Absolutely true.. forgive them so Allah will you.. In sha Allah
Reshma ** yess inshallah
"Don't lose your great character & conduct just because someone else lost their's". Ya Allah help me to remember this!
May Allah deal with all the abusers especially the criminals
For those who are suffering through domestic violence (physical, emotional, mental, financial, immigration, etc), the “smile and walk away” doesn’t apply to you. Someone hits you once, will most likely hit you again. Find a trusted person to confide in, find an organization that can help you, and report it to law enforcement of possible. Abuse is never okay.
My father is like this, but I'm trapped 😔 😢
@@Your-friend16you will not be forever my friend. As someone who got free, you will also find freedom someday I promise and I pray
My husband abused me i tolerated but now my husband sister in law slapped me face because of a mere argument, but the worst is my husband didn't support me , what should I do
My adult son beats me and swears at me, his mother. Usually, it's because of money or because he does zina without hiding it and I advise him to not do it and to turn back to Allah. After beating me he asks whilst laughing how much it hurts? And would i like another beating again? I am in so much pain physically and mentally. This is my burden to carry. I ask Allah to help me. May death come to me when Allah is happy with me. Ameen.
I was abused until the abuser left my family in November. I would get strangled, my hair pulled, punched, and it was so bad to the point were I was feeling depressed and thinking about self harm and suicide, and I'm only 15. I feel more relieved now that they aren't with us.
Do not allow anybody to abuse u in any way, physically or mentally. I'm glad to hear your abuser has left but u should lay charges with the police. IA Allah will help u to erase the whispering of shaytaan (thoughts of suicide) and keep u on the right path always.
Just move on hun and leave everything to Allah x
Im very happy for you alhamdullilah, remember to have faith in allah
May Allah SWT give you patience and strength .
I'm sorry to hear that you had to face violence at home where you should feel safe.
The person who abused you is trash and I hope they feel your pain and helplessness and nightmares.
May everything good come in your path. Allah decides on the bad things that happen in life but he also sends you the good. Use the free hotlines and get counselling or therapy if possible. Try mental heath apps and immerse yourself in a hobby or acquire a new skill.
You deserve to feel happy and loved and secure in life.
I really love the way you encourage we young people you help us to go close to Islam thanks
We invite you to listen Quran
⚠️ Everyone who promotes or defends any books or preachers which contradict the Quran & Hadith will gain as much sin as those who follow the wrong teachings.
Tablighi Jamaat sect will be the cause of so many people entering hell 🔥😨🔥 because 📖 Fazail-e-Amaal is full of Bid'ah & Shirk
ALLAH MADE IT CLEAR ISLAM IS C0MPLETE & PERFECT
( No need 4 Fazail - e - Amaal )
Would we drink a milkshake with 🥛 🍓 & poison in it ?
Fazail - e - Amal ingredients > Quran > Hadith > Shirk
As we know poison will end this temporary life ⚰️ but
shirk will keep us in Hell forever 🔥😨🔥
Thank you thank you for giving the perfect explanation..
Masha Allah
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Somehow whatever I need to hear whatever advice I need whatever motivation I need shows up on your channel Subhan Allah
This is such a good reminder for all of us including myself. I love when Mufti Menk says that when we speak badly of others, the loss is always ours, and not those we speak about. I also love that he says; don't lose your great character and conduct because someone else lost theirs. SubhanAllah, how beautiful and true!
Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member..
Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain.
But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife..
My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her..
Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all..
I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me.
I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired.
Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister.
Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too..
Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do
Controlling anger is just not somebody's cup of tea.May Allah give us the strength to do the right thing when it becomes nearly impossible.
Yeah it’s not always easy to calm down but may Allah help us 🥺
Insha allah
Smiling at some who is hurting you is not going to fix the problem. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to sink to their level, but standing up to yourself is a must in this life. Smiling when you are unhappy in this situation does nothing for you. Peace and love🙏🏽
Glad to hear sometime say that, I wish Islam would advocate for that more. Sometimes meeting meanness or controllingness isn’t solved with a smile for God’s sake
its not easy if the bullies are ur own family.. its a double-edge sword..
I am glad living in this time when we have people like MUFTI MENK May Allah grant the best of all to him :)
I’m hoping in time I achieve half the wisdom he has! Such an honourable character he has mashallah
O Allah! I seek refuge in You from poverty, deficiency and humiliation and I seek refuge in You that I wrong others or that I am wronged.
Allah seriously sent u in my life to guid me each & everyday ....can't understand how do u know ,what I'm asking Allah to guid me for?!! JazakAllah for every single effort u made..Love from Indian occupied Kashmir
An abuser depends on your silence, it’s not our shame, it’s theirs.
Asalamualakum
My uncle is in intensive care and he is in ICU too and he won’t wake up in 48 hours everyone please dua for him because there is a deadly infection spreading in the throat.
I am so sorry for that may Allah bless him ameen inshallah
May Allah relieve him from this affliction.
@@Livingindeception ameen
In sha Allah.
Assalamualaikum
How's he now?
Jizakallah and may Allah protect you and grant you Jannah
Ameen ya Allah
InshaAllah, will try our best to be patient in all such circumstances. Such a beautiful reminder. May Allah reward you with goodness in this world and hereafter 😃
Ameen ya Allah
Ameen sum ameen but plz, correct in sha Allah the way you have spelled changes the meaning
@@rabiawaseem7699 Sure, but what's the correct spelling? And how is it different from what I have written because I have seen many scholars using this meaning I guess? Please tell me, I'm still learning! And thank you for ur comment 😊
@@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417 Aslamualiakum dear I was also corrected by a scholar I wrote in urdu he said don't as it changes the meaning separte the words in sha Allah now I have heard mufti menk he says we can write in English together so I have corrected myself jazakaAllah khair 😀
@@rabiawaseem7699 Wa'alaikumusalm... Okay, thank you! May Allah bless you, have a good day
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Always treat badness with kindness then stay silent as they will steal your peace leave them to God you have nothing to fear as noone can defeat the creator ✌️✌️✌️✌️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
MashaAllah Sheikh Awesome Reminder
Mufti Menk you're One of Great Gifts Allah Subhan wa tala Al Rahman Al Rahim Has Given Us. Masha Allah
It's hard to ignore someone who can walk into my room whenever he wants to and do whatever he wants to to me. In the video you're talking about how to deal with strangers or people outside but what about the family members and people who live in one's house? How to ignore them? How to protect oneself?
Please get help 🙏🏽 call the police or anyone
@@znbxawr THIS!! you could go to your nearest fire station and they should shelter you and provide for you!! please do so, don’t let things get out of control. may Allah protect you ❤️
And bad neighbours who are taking away your sleep and you can't move anymore to find another place to live and there is only Allah to witness...
Please do not be silent. This kind of abuse from male family members is despicable and you must get out of this house and call police. Live with cousins, friends or alone but no matter what you must not be silent
get financially stronger and leave
i can understand you my family does the same but i am a women cant go anywhere but you can
may Allah help you in this situation
Pray for Kashmir ❤️
Always
Insha Allah .
May Allah have mercy our people struggling in Cashmere and make it easy for them Ameen 🤲🏻🌹❤️
Yr sachi ma
Ab un ki qismat ma hi ya tha
We should pray for them
They are really in very hard difficult and challenging time. May Allah protect them.
Really I myself visited Kashmir 2 years ago it is super beautiful place. So calm people there. so peaceful environment
But but but
After every 2 minutes of drive there is army check post.
Always there is a danger that anywhere anything anytime can happen. And trust me when I came back to home. I got news there is again LOC's violation and 2 Kashmiri people meet to Allah.
So hard time for them.
We should pray
May Allah protect them.
Say Ameen
@@hamda6469 Ameen
Sallallahu Ala MUHAMMAD.... ...Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
I'm not Muslim but this is good advice for man who wish to be wise stable and happy thanks
I’ve never faced physical violence like some of you (may Allah guide you all) but instead I had emotional abuse which made me feel like ending everything because those words cut like a knife through my heard, thankfully Allah swt has assisted me with everything I do and now I am doing better Alhamdulillah, never lose faith in Allah. Hardships bring you closer to Allah if you choose to find Him!
It is the easiest way to keep your character smile...ignore and walk away.. but for some that do not have a choice but to live with those people that they don't just want to walk but to run away from them and unfortunately they cannot for some reason their only choice is to accept it and live with it. May Allah have mercy on us.
Thank u so much, I was just bullied at work and after listening to this, the whole situation made me stronger and happier. Leaving in peace was my biggest priority.
Thanks for educating us more about Islam. May Allah grant you Jannah. Keep educating us. Lots of love from India 💖💓💝
Thank you mufti menk, after watching ur video I have learned many things, my friend's always insults me and I always hated them but then I have learned that I shouldn't hate I should have patience.
Looking forward to learn more from you
Just feel sorry for them.. They don't what they're doing.
Also, in your case I think it's easier to leave a friend unlike other relationships.
Same, she was so manipulative it was unbearable and she said me wanting to kms wasn't a reason to apparently 'make me look in the argument.' Shes friends with my other friend tho, they were childhood friends but her friend stays with me still.. she's a very good Muslim but the other just hurts me so I don't go near her
I needed this and you just sended this video when we need it. Thank you
Jazak Allah khairun may Allah bless you and reward you for your efforts Amen
Allah please give us strength to follow right path when evil is trying to distract us of course evil never survive. Amin
How about jealous family members who say things to upset you but not directly to you how to stop being very hurt by them.
I stay away and do dua for them but it is hurtful as I'm not like them. May Allah swt guide us always ameen
Ameen
Say alhamdulillah.. That's the sunnah. And feel sorry for them because they don't know what they are doing.. This shows that you are Mu'min. Because Allah tested the same on our beloved prophet SAW as well. I know how it feels. Remember it's going to be better. This world is not worth it anyway. Stay close to Allah.
Same...
Ignore them
this is exactly what's happening to me as well. three years since you commented, i hope things are better for you now
I swear this came when I needed it the most subhan Allah. Thank you dearly my beloved Sheikh
May Allah protect us ♥️
Amine
Ameen ya Allah
This is exactly what I needed to hear.thank you.
Thank you Mufti Menk for being here. You are truly a gift and blessing for us. Not many leaders are empathetic and listening.
Mashallah...i have many dificult things in my life but when am listening shekh menk advice i smile again anda get comfidence...Allah akupe umri mrefu
SubhanAllah Alhamdhulillah La Ilaha Illahu Allahu Akbar La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illa Billah 🤍
Sallallahu Ala Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam 🤍
Masha'allah god bless us and all muslims in the world ❤❤🇸🇪🇸🇪
May Allah SWT protect us from people who have bad intentions toward us. Ameen.
May Allah protect us🤲✨
A man from nowhere messaged me on whatsapp and started abusing me and I simply said that "I forgive you for what are you saying and hope Allah gives you Hidayah" and Masha Allah he right away apologized and promised that he would never bother me again.❤️
Thats incredible!
Mashaallah 😍
Ma sha Allah.
mashallah❤
MashAllah
JZKHALLAH KHAIR, SHUKR, this is exactly what I am going through at this very moment, the more the keep quiet, the more angry it makes them . blessed is your advice an YOU.AMEEN
JazzakAllahu Khairan Mufti Menk.
The best way to deal with people like them is to pray for them sincerely to be successful and busy. Inshaa Allah if things work out for them they will forget about you or busy showing off whilst the Angels for you. All is all knowing most merciful
Very much needed .. May Allah bless u n guide us all to the straight path
Send some darud shareef to our prophet(PBUH) ✨❤️
Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa alaa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam
what's a darud? dont invent new terms in Islam. It's complete.
@@hammersharkk8595 if you don’t know darood then you are not muslim bro
@@hammersharkk8595 Lol. Durood in Urdu is salawat upon the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam!
Allah taala is the creator not just of different creations but also languages my brother.
@@Abdulhanaankhan if someone does not know about something we should teach them instead of judging them anyways only Allah know if we are muslim by heart or not 😇
Best line.... Ignore them in a good way 😊👍🏻👌
May Allah Almighty bless you Sheikh.
Just imagine...if mufti menk, is so generous .....then imagine, How generous was our Nabi, Muhammad (pbuh) . Subhanallah..💗💓💞💕
May Allah bless you mufti menk
Ameen ya Allah
May Allah reward you mufti❤️
Ameen ❤
Ya Salam,may we all be guided Ameen.
I am a Female and I really enjoyed listening to this talk. It really helped me.
This is a man of God I don't see myself as a Muslim but people of God are based on how they honor God like this man
Allahhumma sullie ala Mohammad wa ale Mohammad
Alhamdulillah, mufti Menk you are genius
Why did Allah SWT the the All Powerful, Benevolent, Beneficient, Merciful and Wise create Man and Jinn ?
AL-QUR'AN 51:56
• Sherali: And I have NOT created the Jinn and the Men but that they may worship ME.
• Pickthal: I created the Jinn and Humankind ONLY that they might WORSHIP Me.
• Rashad: I did not create the Jinns and the Humans except to WORSHIP ME ALONE.
What are ordinary human beings to make of an All Powerful Entity that creates a universe with people for One and only ONE single purpose: that they Constantly sing His Praises and WORSHIP Him ?
Permanent Hell fire for those who do not PRAISE and WORSHIP the Lord God constantly or praise some other imaginary entity - i.e. commit SHIRK.
This command to worship is very serious indeed considering the extreme punishment (ETERNAL HELL FIRE) that is to be meted out to those who do not try to satisfy this need.
This certainly is food for thought for the mushrikeen.
May Allah keep us far away from that type of people
Jazakallah Khair Sheikh for sharing such a vital lesson that we all need to learn and adopt.
- Dua for jannah
* Allahumma inni as’alukal jannah
- Dua for good ending
* Allahumma inni as’alukal husnul khatimah
- Dua for protection from hellfire
* Allahumma ajirni min an-naar
- Dua for protection from punishment of grave.
* Allahumma inni a’uzubika min azabil Qabr
May Allah bless mufti menk
Ameen ya Allah
Salam Alaykum. Masha Allah, Tabarakkallah.. Post some personal issues in my family this video comes in my recommendation. I take this message that Allah swt conveyed to me through you and as you said yes just turn and smile. Ya rab please give me a guidance to run a good life.
Ahadha sahih, meaning this is genuine and true.
To ladies especially (or anyone in a domestic abuse situation), your power is in NOT reacting as was said here. There is such a thing called reactive abuse where you lose your cool because of what you have endured from abuse.
I guarantee you, abusers will use this against you to make you seem like the crazy and abusive one.
Don’t react and you will have power over them!
My mother always do the same...I want to be lyk her ....♥️
May Allah protect us❤️❤️
MashAllah I love this man from the bottom of my heart! May Allah bless him!
BarakAllah feekum mufti
Jazakallahhuhiar needed in time may Almighty bless you mufti
One who criticizes about himself or herself is the highest intelligent person......Al Quran
I am going to try this out tommorow I am sure I will succeed to over come that evil who is troubling everyone at our work place 👍
I love mufti menk speech...
Masha Allah, Subhan allah beautiful piece of advice, Mufti your speech motivates us it inspire us to do good no matter how bad the things and situation turns to be.
Wow... amazing this man is just to be called the true leader. ..
Sübhanallah!!
Masyaa Allah
Barakallahu fiik
Masha Allah
Subha Allah!!
Masha Allah!!!
Love ur speech mufti menk
Please give this comment a heart ❤️
May Allah guide us.
Ameen thumma aameen
Ameen ya Allah
I believe if I walk in the right way of Islam.. No one can harm. Because Allah (SWT) is always there for me .
I love your speaking because you talking very clear
Good beautiful answer shukur, I love you brother Mufti Menk for the sake of Allah, may Allah grant us ease and goodness, ameen.
I wish the person who abused me with vulgar language shud cry like me…remembering her words breaks my heart again & again😭😭😭Allah will give me justice😭🤲
Scw scw scw... Ma sha allah... Jizakumu allah kheyran shiekh ismail menk allah protect to you and all of our ummah
Allah. Write with cap letter please
@@ФамилияИмя-ж1ю in sha Allah
My young brother sheikh ismail menk when you are very happy and I'm happy too subhanallah
IT IS FRIDAY PLEASE RECITE SURAH KAHF.
for me it’s Thursday
@@tro0018 yes but here in my country Maghrib time has passed, so that is why I was telling.
Mashallah mashallah golden words brother......
MASHA ALLAH great message.
Definitely we should......
MAY ALLAH SWT protect us from abusives n guide us. Aameen.
SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi
{ Glory to be Allah and praise him }
1. Whoever says the above a hundred times during the day , his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea.
{ sahih al bukhari 7:168
2. Abu dharr reported that the prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasallam) said “Shall I tell you the words that Allah loves the most?” I said “Yes tell me oh messenger of Allah. He ( salAllahu alayhi wasallam) said : the words dearest to Allah are “subhanAllahi wa bihamdihi”
{muslim and at-tirmidhi}
Thankyou sir may Allah bless u and all muslim ummah ameen🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
May Allah give us the Tawfeeq to be patient at all times. InshaAllah.
Ameen
Question if someone hits you do you hit them back?
Man sha Allah and the remedy is to smile back to an offender. It offendes the offender so badly
It's not that easy if you have to live with one of them for 24/7 for two decades.
Tell me about it, especially when it's a parent but you can't move out bc parents won't allow it. F this life seriously
@@stariehearts2366 I do not live with my parents.
@@nooronkolisvlogusa361 lucky lol
Yes,my husband,too,control freak n abuser
@@nooronkolisvlogusa361 Did you move out of your parents house?
Inshallah I will try this I.agrre this is been to me I react very badly which I don't won't to do thank u sir for this
Allahuma salli wasallim ala nabiyina Muhammad🤍
What a explanation thank you so much Allah bless you ❤
MASHALLAH BROTHER🤗🙏I WILL DO THAT TOO... IGNORING PEOPLE
Very nice Menk Sahib