Watch Part 2 here th-cam.com/video/h5O2wUlFYjE/w-d-xo.html Hey all..this mental health series is created with the only intention of spreading awareness...Do support these conversations by sharing with as many people as you can...one way you can help and support us to keep making the same
I had counselling session with Afia a year ago. She gave me a clear perspective and answers to my questions I have been wondering about for a long time in my life. She is brilliant.
Thanks Dhanya. Such a very informative discussion, namal normalnu vijarikuna pala karyngalil, purakil pala problems undenu manesilakunu... Need more awareness to people's around. 🙏
Well spoken, Afiya. Good if you could include ways to have healthy conversations with family members about these topics, or how to make them understand
So many faces and life stories crossed my mind as she explained each of the type and the situations...Thank you for bringing someone like her and having such s meaningful and much needed conversation! ❤
This was a need of the hour topic. Understanding the types of emotional abuse is so crucial to ensure that you do not normalize it in a relationship. Feel it is as important as educating children about good touch/bad touch. The analogy of drop of water leading to drowning effect was spot on. Thank you Dhanya and Afiya for this deep conversation ❤
Absolutely..emotional abuse is the most untouched upon...simply because the one one who abuses doesn't realise his/her mental health issue and seek therapy..the victim often is in the trauma bond...pls watch next part
One point i would like to highlight adding on to this is, Marriage as a structure itself is flawed with a hierarchial strtucture which inturn provides the opportunity to the person on the top to abuse the person down. Restructuring is very important with 2 independent adults has to decide mutually to enter into a life contract so automatically abuse will start to disappear, as mutual respect is what holds them together. Thanks
Such a brilliant conversation! The clarity, the time given to each topic, the prominence given to existing socio-cultural norms and abuse that arises from it, how gendered abuse is - loved the flow of the conversation and so looking forward to part 2 ♥️♥️
Thank you Danya for bringing relevant topic. One small suggestion is focus more for women. Will be more interesting if the conversation is with equality. Only my thought. This interview is an eye opener for many.
Thanks so much for your feedback..will keep that in mind...in this conversation we mention women more because they are at the receiving end of the social economic inequalities ..so are more prone to abuse
സ്ത്രീ പുരുഷ ബേധം അന്യേ എല്ലാവരും ബോധവാന്മാർ ആകേണ്ട ഒരു വിഷയം ആണിത്..... Atleast തിരുത്തേണ്ടിടത്ത് തിരുത്തി മുന്നോട്ട് പോകാൻ സഹായിക്കും.... 👏🏻താങ്ക്സ് for the amazing episode Dhanya Chechi 🫶🏻
Hi Dhanya,I saw a repetitive pattern that we are always talking about the problems of women...Can you do an episode on the mental traumas and emotional stress faced by men due to toxic partnership.That is also relevant know..they are also facing many difficulties ❤
ഈ ഗൾഫിലെ കണക്ക് പറയുമ്പോൾ ഞാൻ ഓർക്കുന്നുണ്ട് ഞാൻ ഒരുപാട് വർഷങ്ങൾ കണക്ക് എഴുതിയ ഒരാളാണ് ഇപ്പോൾ ഇല്ലാട്ടോ എൻറെ സാലറിയുടെ കണക്ക് അടക്കം എഴുതി വെക്കണം ആയിരുന്നു എങ്ങനെ നോക്കിയാലും അത് ടാലി ആകുന്നില്ല ഓ ദൈവമേ ഇപ്പൊ ഓർക്കുമ്പോൾ
Wow!!!!! Sessions with Afiya mam have always been helpful. She always opens up new, insightful perspectives on our situations. She played a huge part in helping me deal with my anxiety issues. I always recommend her to everyone who needs psychological help. She's amazing!❤️
I wish everyone understands this equally and act upon. At least it’s good that we are escalating these topics nowadays as its an eye opener for many. But still it’s very difficult to implement it in this patriarchal society. For example, I lives in Europe where I say it’s equal responsibility for partners to take care of the family but my husband and inlaws insist that we are keralites and we have to follow the societal norms. In their views, women should be always doing the household chores and looking after children and inlaws and husband.; which is not practical and is a ridiculous thought. And it’s not easy to escape from this loop.
Abuse and blame are not issues exclusive to women; men are also affected. It’s not a matter of gender-specific character traits-it applies to women as well.
@@user-yk5lv8iw8x I don't have statistics or specific data to refer to, but based on my personal experiences and those of the people around me, I strongly believe that both genders are equally impacted. No one in this world is perfect; everyone has emotions and feelings. A partner, whether male or female, should share responsibilities equally and strive to be a supportive companion rather than acting selfishly. Ultimately, it often comes down to the environment in which a person was raised. I’m not defending anyone, but after watching this video, I got the impression that it portrays men as the sole cause of problems, with women always being the ones who suffer-and I don't entirely agree with that.
@ In a country that’s grappling with women safety issues- it’s very unproductive if you keep doing this whataboutery. If you see injustice around you- go on and share your story or those with similar experiences as you on a different forum. Please don’t dilute discussions like these! In the World Gender Gap index - India is ranked 135th out of 146 countries as of 2022. So please 🙏 Let people have these conversations.
@@user-yk5lv8iw8x Here, I am specifically addressing domestic abuse, not the broader issues of women’s safety, as that’s beyond my scope to control or comment on. From my perspective, domestic abuse doesn’t affect only women-men are also impacted. However, I do agree that the proportion is likely higher for women compared to men. As I mentioned earlier, I’m not defending anyone or trying to divert attention from the message of this video. I’m simply sharing my opinion based on what I know and have observed. That’s all!
Someone please cut 26:44 and spread please I have also felt like this dressing up and choice of dress and this pointed heels are to restrict girls mobility and control them
Dhanya Im wondering why is all discussion on abuse and violence about women alone. Isnt there space for men to open up and talk about their issues? No psychologist talk about that.
We mention that in the conversation...pls watch..applies to both genders but more prevalent against women because of social economic n gender inequalities
Then why we should been part of relationship. This is the only scary reason for our generation like me to be part of relation. Being single is tough but the most toughest thing is another person emotions controls our also. May be its only my viewpoint there will be many advantages but....
What about an in law keep on disturbing in her son's married life on not getting a baby... The most affected is, the girl... And the in law keep on abusing the woman verbally... Bad words... Unimaginable alligation, etc How to manage it
Watch Part 2 here
th-cam.com/video/h5O2wUlFYjE/w-d-xo.html
Hey all..this mental health series is created with the only intention of spreading awareness...Do support these conversations by sharing with as many people as you can...one way you can help and support us to keep making the same
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I had counselling session with Afia a year ago. She gave me a clear perspective and answers to my questions I have been wondering about for a long time in my life. She is brilliant.
Thanks for responding..do share in your circles
How do we contact her?
Meeting Afiya was the best decision I have ever taken!
Even for me❤️ She gave me clarity. She is the only reason I didn't break down completely.
Totally agree!
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Sooo worthful.... Thanks.
Helped to realise many things ..
Lack of intimacy
Lack of communication
Lack of active listening.
...... Etc....
Thanks so much.pls do share and support
Amazing explanation after one by one question, NO WORDS AAFIYA U ARE BRILLIANT. Its very much use for the whole society of these days.
Thanks Dhanya. Such a very informative discussion, namal normalnu vijarikuna pala karyngalil, purakil pala problems undenu manesilakunu... Need more awareness to people's around. 🙏
Absolutely..we tend to avoid addressing these issues to keep peace
Spread more awareness like this ❤❤
Pls share and support
Well spoken, Afiya. Good if you could include ways to have healthy conversations with family members about these topics, or how to make them understand
Thanks for your feedback. Will convey
So many faces and life stories crossed my mind as she explained each of the type and the situations...Thank you for bringing someone like her and having such s meaningful and much needed conversation! ❤
Thanks so much..do share with your friends
This was a need of the hour topic. Understanding the types of emotional abuse is so crucial to ensure that you do not normalize it in a relationship. Feel it is as important as educating children about good touch/bad touch. The analogy of drop of water leading to drowning effect was spot on. Thank you Dhanya and Afiya for this deep conversation ❤
Absolutely..emotional abuse is the most untouched upon...simply because the one one who abuses doesn't realise his/her mental health issue and seek therapy..the victim often is in the trauma bond...pls watch next part
One point i would like to highlight adding on to this is, Marriage as a structure itself is flawed with a hierarchial strtucture which inturn provides the opportunity to the person on the top to abuse the person down. Restructuring is very important with 2 independent adults has to decide mutually to enter into a life contract so automatically abuse will start to disappear, as mutual respect is what holds them together. Thanks
Thanks...this makes sense
Great job guiding the conversation. Enjoyed it. 👏🏼
Thanks for sharing your thoughts..pls share and support
Such a brilliant conversation! The clarity, the time given to each topic, the prominence given to existing socio-cultural norms and abuse that arises from it, how gendered abuse is - loved the flow of the conversation and so looking forward to part 2 ♥️♥️
Thanks so much ..do share
Very informative discussion, Thanks dhanya for this type of interview continuing
Pls do share and support
കഴിഞ്ഞ ആഴ്ച ഷരീഫ് ചുങ്കത്തറയുടെ ഇന്ത്യ 350 CC വായിച്ചു ഗംഭീര യാത്രാവിവരണം ആണ് , ഇപ്പോ അദ്ദേഹത്തിന്റെ ഭാര്യയുടെ ഇൻറർവ്യു കാണുന്നു. രണ്ടും സൂപ്പർ
Great episode....an eye-opener....waiting for part 2👌
Will upload soon..do hit the bell notification pls
Very good discussion. I learned a lot from it. Thanks Dhanya!
Glad it was helpful!
.do share with your friends
Thank you for showing these are issues that happen, how abuse can be in so many ways. Very informative session!
Thanks Dhanya Mam and Afiya. ❤❤❤waiting for the next part
Very soon..do share in your circles
@ sure👍
Well done, Afia . 🎉
Very informative conversation! Please add English subtitles to this video. It will be helpful for sharing.
Pls do share...
@@iamwithdhanyavarmaPlease add English subtitles so that it reaches a larger audience.
Good episode. ❤
Thank you Danya for bringing relevant topic. One small suggestion is focus more for women. Will be more interesting if the conversation is with equality. Only my thought. This interview is an eye opener for many.
Thanks so much for your feedback..will keep that in mind...in this conversation we mention women more because they are at the receiving end of the social economic inequalities ..so are more prone to abuse
26:45 👏👏👏 Thanks for saying that
Excellent information.Eagerly waiting for part 2
Will upload soon.do.share the episode
@@iamwithdhanyavarma Done. Shared with my friends
well done ,relevant topic, acknowledging and having awareness is what is needed and men and women takes steps to acknowledge
Yes...that's the intention. Pls do share
Very relevant topic ❤❤
Thanks.pls share and support
സ്ത്രീ പുരുഷ ബേധം അന്യേ എല്ലാവരും ബോധവാന്മാർ ആകേണ്ട ഒരു വിഷയം ആണിത്..... Atleast തിരുത്തേണ്ടിടത്ത് തിരുത്തി മുന്നോട്ട് പോകാൻ സഹായിക്കും.... 👏🏻താങ്ക്സ് for the amazing episode Dhanya Chechi 🫶🏻
Thanks so much..do share the conversation
@iamwithdhanyavarma sure 👍🏻☺️
Please invite Sunitha Krishna(Prajwala)
Hum jaisa hei waisa hi rehna hei!.. Very true
Hi Dhanya,I saw a repetitive pattern that we are always talking about the problems of women...Can you do an episode on the mental traumas and emotional stress faced by men due to toxic partnership.That is also relevant know..they are also facing many difficulties ❤
Nice video👍🥰
I have no words to express my gratitude for both of you.
A much needed talk
Afiya ❤❤
You did well
Thanks so much..do share and support
ഈ ഗൾഫിലെ കണക്ക് പറയുമ്പോൾ ഞാൻ ഓർക്കുന്നുണ്ട് ഞാൻ ഒരുപാട് വർഷങ്ങൾ കണക്ക് എഴുതിയ ഒരാളാണ് ഇപ്പോൾ ഇല്ലാട്ടോ എൻറെ സാലറിയുടെ കണക്ക് അടക്കം എഴുതി വെക്കണം ആയിരുന്നു എങ്ങനെ നോക്കിയാലും അത് ടാലി ആകുന്നില്ല ഓ ദൈവമേ ഇപ്പൊ ഓർക്കുമ്പോൾ
❤enikke ishttappettu sathyamalle idhokke nammal iniyum oru paade manasilakkanum maranumunde inghanathe oru program ulppeduthannam thankyou Dhanya ❤❤❤❤❤
Pls share
Wow!!!!! Sessions with Afiya mam have always been helpful. She always opens up new, insightful perspectives on our situations. She played a huge part in helping me deal with my anxiety issues. I always recommend her to everyone who needs psychological help. She's amazing!❤️
Thanks for sharing your thoughts..do share the video with your friends
Already done😍@@iamwithdhanyavarma
Such a wonderful video... Thankyou 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks..do share
I wish everyone understands this equally and act upon. At least it’s good that we are escalating these topics nowadays as its an eye opener for many. But still it’s very difficult to implement it in this patriarchal society. For example, I lives in Europe where I say it’s equal responsibility for partners to take care of the family but my husband and inlaws insist that we are keralites and we have to follow the societal norms. In their views, women should be always doing the household chores and looking after children and inlaws and husband.; which is not practical and is a ridiculous thought. And it’s not easy to escape from this loop.
Pls take care...
Afiya🥰
Well spoken 💯🙂
Abuse and blame are not issues exclusive to women; men are also affected. It’s not a matter of gender-specific character traits-it applies to women as well.
Agreed..but in an inequal society mostly women face it.We discuss this in the conversation too
There’s no comparison when you look at the statistics.
@@user-yk5lv8iw8x I don't have statistics or specific data to refer to, but based on my personal experiences and those of the people around me, I strongly believe that both genders are equally impacted. No one in this world is perfect; everyone has emotions and feelings. A partner, whether male or female, should share responsibilities equally and strive to be a supportive companion rather than acting selfishly. Ultimately, it often comes down to the environment in which a person was raised.
I’m not defending anyone, but after watching this video, I got the impression that it portrays men as the sole cause of problems, with women always being the ones who suffer-and I don't entirely agree with that.
@ In a country that’s grappling with women safety issues- it’s very unproductive if you keep doing this whataboutery. If you see injustice around you- go on and share your story or those with similar experiences as you on a different forum. Please don’t dilute discussions like these! In the World Gender Gap index - India is ranked 135th out of 146 countries as of 2022. So please 🙏 Let people have these conversations.
@@user-yk5lv8iw8x Here, I am specifically addressing domestic abuse, not the broader issues of women’s safety, as that’s beyond my scope to control or comment on. From my perspective, domestic abuse doesn’t affect only women-men are also impacted. However, I do agree that the proportion is likely higher for women compared to men.
As I mentioned earlier, I’m not defending anyone or trying to divert attention from the message of this video. I’m simply sharing my opinion based on what I know and have observed. That’s all!
Someone please cut 26:44 and spread please
I have also felt like this dressing up and choice of dress and this pointed heels are to restrict girls mobility and control them
Dhanya
Im wondering why is all discussion on abuse and violence about women alone.
Isnt there space for men to open up and talk about their issues?
No psychologist talk about that.
We mention that in the conversation...pls watch..applies to both genders but more prevalent against women because of social economic n gender inequalities
Excellent session!
Thanks
Great ❤
Afiya mam
Could you also arrange an interview abt dealing with teenage in today's world..plz
Then why we should been part of relationship. This is the only scary reason for our generation like me to be part of relation. Being single is tough but the most toughest thing is another person emotions controls our also. May be its only my viewpoint there will be many advantages but....
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Dhanya Varma, what about bringing awareness about the problems/abuse that men face. Dont you think your show is too biased towards women?
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What about an in law keep on disturbing in her son's married life on not getting a baby... The most affected is, the girl... And the in law keep on abusing the woman verbally... Bad words... Unimaginable alligation, etc
How to manage it
Pls do.seek professional help
Why are you not talking about abuse in men's life?
Please share the contact
Ithe bhayangara male oriented aayitte parayunnathe pole thonni.
Enikke ariyavunna oru male ne ithupolokke suffer cheyyendi vannittunde
Lots more women suffer than men...due to inequalities
Can somebody add english subtitles to this video? This should be shared with maximum audience
I know Will do that
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