If your partner is more controlling of you than your parents are, it’s time to end the relationship. A relationship is give and take, not “I’m going to take everything from you, and you are going to let me do it with a smile on your face or else I’ll punish you.”
My boyfriend has an ex that would break into his fb account... I ended up changing his password for him because she knew him but not me. I ended up helping him edit his profile, changing from public to private, removing his contact info, removing his address, etc because she would stalk him (she was blocked), she made multiple accounts and would bully his friends into telling her his posts etc it's still a mess because she is crazy. She found out where he was going to be one day and drove up to him and told him to get in her car, he went to go into a store to get away and she drove her car onto the sidewalk to chase him down. We have a restraining order now and it's only a matter of time before she is caught and arrested for breaking it.
Basically he intentionally behaved that way as a form of punishment to his wife. He was manipulating her in an extreme way that definitely falls under psycho, but at the time I'm sure she believed he had given up on life. (hopefully she's realised by now that a man losing interest in things and her, but normally feeding himself ain't given up on any part of his life).
I was with a guy for almost a year, we were friends for a long time before we started dating. We began living together and he became more concerned about my coworkers being interested with me all of a sudden. He would come to my work if I didn't text him back fast enough, and if I were around any other male workers he would just stand far away until I noticed him staring at me, then he'd leave, and we would fight for at least an hour when I would get home. One time he picked me up from work and came inside, my manager was counting my money as I slouched over the counter with my elbows propped up to hold my head in my hands. My boyfriend wouldn't say a word to me in the car on the way home. I ignored him being quiet and sat on my phone. I was startled when I heard a loud BANG and realized my boyfriend was hitting his head against the driver side window over and over, while driving. I was yelling at him to stop but by the 4th hit or so, the glass shattered. He of course started freaking out and pulled over into a near Taco Bell parking lot. He was crying pretty hard and starting saying "i'm sorry" over and over (he was driving MY car by the way) I quickly got out of the car and took my shirt off to wrap around my hand and wipe all of the glass off the seats so that I could drive us back home without cutting myself on accident. It all happened so fast I can't remember my reactions, it wasn't even until later when I was picking glass out of his scalp he told me why he was so upset. Apparently he didn't like that I didn't have all my work shirt buttons buttoned while I was leaning over the counter talking to my manager (I worked at an arcade and wore a polo with maybe 3-4 buttons below the collar, buttoning all of them would make my shirt tight around my neck, I still kept at least the bottom two buttoned pretty much all the time) He said that my manager is a creep and I shouldn't "sexualize" myself in front of him. It started a whole new argument even though he was bleeding from the head from the tantrum he had just thrown, not to mention breaking my car. I stayed with him longer than I should have, especially after that. I really loved him, and I hope he finds help.
sayounara1232 he had to have had some chemical imbalance in his brain(not even trying to be rude) but he did have a drug problem just a year or two before we started dating. He slowly started changing into a different person.
@@zigzagoon-pl7yh yep.. I've had something like this twice, with the same girl. Once we were arguing on MSN (at the time it was the IM everyone used), and she activates her webcam. I see her holding her laptop on her knees, sitting *on the window ledge, facing out!* At the time I didn't use a microphone so yeah.. try talking your girlfriend off a ledge with TEXT messages! This was years into the relationship, so I was more than casually attached, by then. We broke up after 6 years, when a friend showed me that none of this was normal. Emotional blackmail is scary stuff.
Maybe not as bad I guess but I dated a girl who would do pretty much all the normal relationship stuff except 2 things. We never kissed (because she didn't want to) and sometimes we would be weeks without talking because she had 2 jobs and wouldn't have time for me (we also lived somewhat far apart). More red flags came when she very smoothly tried to describe me as a sex object with no context or joke behind it along with other unappealing stuff (this happened a few times). However, I let my guard down a bit after that because the place we were at, I had dropped my wallet and she kept it and gave it back the next day so I thought it would be okay to trust her even though the things she would often say sometimes turned me off. Anyway, a few weeks later go by without any text messages or voice calls, I find out through her social media she died. People she knew were posting small homage texts. To this day I still don't know exactly how or why she died because I have zero contact with the people she knew, although I have a few theories. It's still something that intrigues me to this day.
Me and my bf do this all the time, we mess around with eachothed alot. We laugh our asses off while trying to be the first who takes the slap. They are just a jokefull slaps, but punching would be a bit extreme indeed but atleast he joking 😂
Yeah it makes certain people feel bad, because they hate to see people they love and care about hurt and people like that find it as a weakness and they basically abuse it when they do something they dislike. Yeah sorry for the paragraph and sorry if you new what he was doing and I just said this for no good reason. I did not want to make people feel stupid either,i just wanted to exploit my messed up side and give some people a answers. Sorry again.
From the very first day *YOU JUST MET* he says “You look familiar, you know something about the most successful couples stories? That when they first met they feel like they already know each other? That kind of connection” then ask for your number and later on the text keeps talking about your future together already. You haven’t even been friends yet.
That's what happens when people get the whole relationship thing backwards. You don't become friends because you're partners; you become partners because you're good close trusting strongly bound friends. I think.
@@im_Smitty Unfortunately. I miss the old days when everyone and I ran around having fun adventures instead of cringily holding onto the idea that they're going to have some random romance story with someone. Why can't things just go back to trying to have fun and seeing what you can do with something interesting you find?
One time when I was in Junior High, I was just discovering my attractions toward girls so I was pretty much excited to date any girl. So I started dating this girl who was a freshman in high school. She was very Moody and here temper was horrible. One day my aunt who I was very close to had a medical emergency so my family went to the hospital with her. I was unable to text her for about 4 hours because if this. She had a complete melt down and accused me of cheating and said she would burn my house down. She then immediately blocked me. Later my friends sent screenshot of her on Facebook cussing me out on her posts. So glad that I learned to be more choosy
i once dated a guy who lied about being able to read. not pretending he could read when he couldn't; he pretended he couldn't read when he could. i have NO idea why.
Maybe he didn't read books and felt too ashamed to admit his lazyness and decided to pretend he couldn't read? Iunno. That's a bit random. Maybe he misread what Dislexia means.
@ So you just gonna say that right in a public youtube comment section? Not that I'm judging, just seems weird to be so open about something like that.
@@SirXanderKnight1998 Maybe you see it as weird because sex is considered to be a taboo topic, but it's good information for people who might not otherwise understand how anal sex works. That being said, I'm doubtful everyone is the same and that easy to penetrate... at the very least, we know it was pretty painful without preparation.
She had moved to the area from out of state not long before we started going out. As you might expect, she would sometimes get homesick and want to talk to her old friends. Her friends from back home would of course know about me and eventually we'd end up talking. First in group chat with her, next one on one. I started noticing that all of these people (like 5-6) wrote remarkably alike. When I'd talk to her female friends, they'd want to flirt. When I talk to her male friends, they'd want to talk about how hot the female friends are. I could never talk to them on the phone, never meet them irl, and somehow she'd always find out about our conversations (in detail). When I searched the pictures to see if they were legit they just came back as photos of random people, sometimes not even in our country. This girl created an entire fake social circle meant to entrap me into cheating on her for literally no reason. I can honestly say this was the only time I've been concerned for my safety when breaking things off.
I had a friend in middle/high school who moved away and then we slowly lost all contact with him. His Facebook profile used to be mostly centered around gaming and his other hobbies, with his nickname as the username, but then it changed to only pictures and posts related to his controlling gf he had at the time. Username changed to his real name with a little heart next to it and stuff. Started blocking all the old friends. Only found out later on that after he had broken up with his crazy gf, she had taken over his old Facebook account and kept posting old picture a of them together and pretending to be him to make it look like they were still together. Idk where that guy is today. Hope he's ok.
Whew. So mine is another case where I didn't realize how much of a psychopath/sociopath/narcissist he was until after we broke up. He was very abusive. A few highlights from our relationship: -He once ran at me, in the middle of a fight when I was crying, holding a large mallet over his head as if he was going to hit me with it. I screamed and started crying harder and he started laughing and said he had just been joking. -The day I got my first car we had an argument that left me in a full-blown panic attack, so I couldn't drive home. We were driving through a neighborhood that was curvy and he suddenly slammed on the gas, while holding the wheel straight, and screaming "I'll crash this fucking car!" -A couple of times near the end of our relationship he made me send him a photo of where I was because he didn't believe me. -He threatened suicide, many times. -He got some frogs as pets and threatened to kill his frogs just to upset me (I really care about animals) during a couple arguments. -When I finally broke up with him, he hit me hard enough that I saw stars (that was the 2nd time he'd hit me in the face but was the only time I was ever hit that hard, by anyone), slashed my tires, and texted me death threats for days, until he was threatened by someone with a baseball bat if he didn't stop. He was the most fucked up person I've ever met in my life. It's crazy how much you don't realize when you're in a situation like that. It was like I was in a constant fog mentally that I didn't get out of until I was free.
@@maggiedk Holy crap. I'm glad you're okay now. (and Kudos to baseball bat person) And I agree about the fog. It took a friend a year to convince me that what I lived through for 6 years with my ex wasn't normal at all. When you're in, it all seems understandable to you. Cheers
Mine was that he never asked me out he just made the decision we were dating and started telling people that. I found out I was in “a relationship” two weeks after the fact and when I told him we weren’t together he said yes we are I thought you knew that. And when I tried to break up with him his simple response was no. For three and a half years his response was just no/no you can’t/no I’ve done a lot for you it’s wrong for you to leave me. It was overall a weird and traumatic experience.
@ he did similar things to me too, he'd always cry and say he was sorry after and that it wouldn't happen again, but he'd always do it again. The final straw was when he did it to my friend. When I broke up with him he threatened my family and said he'd "pay my mum a visit" when I was out at work. The police won't do anything because there's no physical evidence.
Once my ex boyfriend and me were playing video games and listened to music and I asked him if he could change the music cause it was always the same and then he poured his drink over my head and walked to bedroom and ignored me til the next day. Even if I asked what happened he just pushed me away and didn't explain why he acted like that. Everything was fine when he decided to talk to me again. He was also the one of those guys who thought I'm always cheating on him no matter what. If I shaved me even my armpits he thought I was cheating or even when i went to church with my mom he thought I'm cheating as long as I stayed home he was fine. He was good in manipulating me.
Lmao I don't get how girls stick around such obviously abusive relationships you shoulda dipped as soon as he poured the liquid on your head. Also I can't believe how a dude can act that way to their gf, dudes like that should get beat.
@@alexis_6266 Hmm... what i realised is those guys are good in manipulation. It wasn't every day like that. They can tell you lies and you think it's real it's hard to explain. I left him after 1 year and needed to run away from US and my family helped to get out of it because he became dangerous. I think I realised quickly. Like I said alot of those people who are getting abused in a relationship have it hard to leave cause they scared or think they can't without them. It's hard to understand ...
@@alexis_6266 Most likely the more primal areas of her brain calculated that the guy had good genes and their kids would be healthy if she were to breed with him. Our instincts for sexual attraction were put in place by our DNA because our DNA wants to survive, but our DNA doesn't care about our own personal happiness. Most people don't understand just how controlled by their instincts they really are.
@@Julie_jul to be naive is not a bad trait, it becomes bad when people exploit it. So no i know i wasnt naive. I had too much love for a wrong person thats it.
After we broke up, (he lived with & mooched off me) I offered to keep his 17 year old cat if he couldn't, as I loved him & thought he deserved a good end to life. He ended up getting a place that couldn't have pets on purpose & then told me he could have him there & moved out with him & kept him at his friends house & never went to see him. Told me later he did it because he knew I'd always love the cat & he wanted to hurt me. Fucking psycho.
Yeah, it’s cool. That’s not close to the worst thing she did lol She was a psycho, and I was depressed enough to think being with her was better than being alone. But that was in high school, so since then, we don’t see each other
Dear god I hope you're ok. just know that she was a fucking _bitch_ and that she'll rot in hell. you didn't deserve that (heck, no one does) and I'm so sorry my bro (or gal.)
-My last ex threw himself out of a car on the highway when I tried to break up with him. I didn’t know he was traveling. It was a long distance relationship and I had gotten tired of constantly dealing with his bs. He would threaten to kill himself if I dumped him knowing I would fall for it. He kept me on for half a year before I finally got tired of it. 1 yr after the last straw, I hear he’s married with a kid. The woman was a ‘friend’ of his that he tried to pressure me into having a threesome with. -Another ex was when I was a freshmen in hs. My ex told me he was 19 when I was 14. He lied by 5yrs. He kept trying to get me to sleep with him and saying he wanted to get me pregnant. I dumped him after I learned he was sleeping with his SISTER while we were together. I learned he was lying about his age years later from an old schoolmate. -Another ex revealed he was dating me for money from his friend. His friend wanted to get with my bestie at the time and she was concerned about me being single. He fooled me and was cheating on me the whole time. I saw him making out with my school bully and when I tearily asked him what was going on, He jumped on the table and announced to the cafeteria that it was a farce from the beginning. I wanted to die that year.
Erika Dequiña Eh, As okey as I can be. If I ever write a book about my life, it’ll basically be a series of unfortunate events 😂😂 But I keep my sense of humour and don’t let it hold be back. Thank you for your words.
I had a boyfriend (now ex! thankfully) who would get aggressive whenever I wanted to hang out with my friends. He'd interrogate me as to who I was going out with, how long I'd be gone, if there were any boys around, etc. And told me constantly I _had_ to ask him permission. I kind of dealt with it because he gave me this sob story of how his girlfriends used to cheat on him and I genuinely felt bad for him. I liked him and wanted to make it work. But I got sick of it one day and hung out with a group of friends without telling him. We went to this skating ring, were having a good time and out of nowhere he bursts in, calling me a whore and shouting at the tops of his lungs. One of my guy friends tried to defuse the situation and almost got into a fight with him. We all got kicked out. I was fucking mortified and broke up with him on the spot. I spent the night at my friend's and he texted me all night telling me that he was sorry, was just jealous and was 'better off dead'. I blocked him.
Lol I love how much I can sympathize with the pain. This guy is going through depression and cringes because when he looks back he's the one holding the mataphoricsl knife and he has to watch himself stab himself with it Everytime he looks back which promotes a sense of hopelessness and unending depression this guy's life is just so perfectly fucked and empty I get satisfaction from the depression radiating off of the slob.
Was overly jealous of my best friend who was male. He would always insisted on joining us on plans we made with just us two, and whenever I did get a chance alone I'd get pestered all night with him texting me. Got to the point he convinced himself I was cheating on him with my friend. He's gay.
That's a tough one for a lot of guys and for some guys it's whatever. Personally, i wouldn't want my girl hanging out with another guy, even if he was gay. And i know my girl DEFINITELY doesn't want me hanging around with other girls (one on one) because it just leaves them feeling weird. She told one of her friends to workout with me once (a lesbian and im a personal trainer) but after we worked out, my girl was annoyed and a bit upset. But i got it, i understood why. Basically what i'm saying is, it all depends on the person and the couple
It's actually very rare that gay men ONLY have sex with other men, usually they'll still occasionally have sex with the odd woman too. I can see why he wouldn't want that.
The spam texting and forcing himself into plans is too much, but tbh I could see myself being at least a little weirded out by my girlfriend making 1 on 1 plans with another dude. I guess it depends on the context of the relationship, but it would be something to talk through at the very least.
Damn, so many flashbacks to my ex bf, specially after the one that had to "punish" her for doing something without his permission. My ex would do the exact same to me, except he escalated pretty fast after I said something he didn't like, firs he would get mad at me and ignore for hours, then screams at me/in public, the push me away or throw things at me for asking what was wrong, until he actually tried a LOT of time to get me half naked to the streets in the middle of the night. He would workout very often while I wasn't even 100lbs, he did this a lot 'cause I was brainwashed by him. Took me too much time to realize but finally got over it.
An extremely controlling ex heckled almost all my family members for my whereabouts when I changed town. IDK how he managed to get it, contacted my superior at work, as well as my then boyfriend (now husband), telling them both how I've lied and cheated them as he Was my HUSBAND, & we've secretly got married. When he was asked about evidence, all he said was "but we are destined to be together. We are married in God's eyes." Nope. My own God has never communicated that to me, dude.
Oh I didnt realize it until the break up. I didnt even know of those types. Sociopaths and antisocial are the worst of them all. I also thought it was me for over 2 years. Turns out, I was a big time victim/target. My ex made threats of suicide(a lot and turns out for many years before me as well), talked about killing an ex, admitted pushing someone into a traffic, threatened me with cops on false accusations, made a ton of crazy accusations, pushed me(and later denied it and made it seem like I imagined it), attacked me (also denied even after it was proven), called cops on me (for no reason), cheated on his new partner 100% (i bet cheated on me too but got no proof), tried to steal money from my account, spread lies such as I am crazy and refused to take my medication, and omg the list still goes on(I got a lot). Yet, he gets to continue this behavior because family court isnt educated properly. Even professionals say that and they are very much part of it. He has lawyer and I dont ( single parent). He keeps on taking me to court, and I fight back however I can. So tired but Ill never give up, Ill never be a victim/target again. No one should ever have to deal with that. ❤
Psychopaths don't get depressed nor do they have the emotional tools to think about things such as you just mentioned, some people are just a tad fucked up lol
I found out I was dating a psychopath when we got back together for the third time and he told me he had saved every picture of me , screenshots of our conversations, literally anything to do with me was in an encrypted file in his computer. Luckily I got out but he was super controlling and just an overall sociopath
I realized my then bf was a psychopath, when I found out my mom had cancer and was expected to only have 9wks to live. When I told him he only texted the word "sorry" then proceeded to avoid be until long after she'd passed claiming "I can't deal with death, talk to someone else". He had refused to go to her funeral.
Not me cuz I've never dated, but I have a couple stories. 1- a high school friend who moved away to live in the same town as his overbearing girlfriend. It looked ok at first, until one day Facebook notified me it was the dude's birthday. I just wrote a "Happy birthday" generic message on his wall cuz I didn't know him all that well anyway, and she just freakin explodes at me. She sent me a multitude of messages claiming I had been "suspicious"...for wishing him happy birthday on his freakin birthday. She slowly took over his profile, making him stop talking to his friends, changed his username, changed his profile picture to a picture of them (his profile used to be mostly gaming related things), and now the only pictures coming up were pictures of the two of them. Then I got blocked. I later found out that she and the dude broke up, but for months, she continued to use his account that she had taken over and post old pictures of them together to trick people into thinking the two of them were still together. I haven't contacted the guy since the birthday thing (figured my few attempts at asking if he was ok were blocked by just her pretending to be him) I have no clue where he is now. 2- my dad recently broke up with his gf. I don't know why they ever dated, they're really really different. They kept splitting up, but she's always pester him and insist they get back together. My dad recently decided to end things for good. She told him a bunch of threatening stuff including saying how if he left her she'd make sure he'd never have friends again. They broke up. Now she started making stuff up, posting on Facebook about how he was supposedly abusive. She's been circulating a 10 page document of bad things about him behind his back and he has no clue what even is in yhe document. She got into contact with my mom and tried to convince her my dad was a danger to the kids. She claimed that if he picked up my sister from school, he might drive the car into the river with both of them in it. The two work at the same place, and my dad has been doing everything to make sure he works a different shift so he doesn't have to see her. Well, at some point, she decided to take a different shift, ended up running into my dad at work, and then tried to make a claim to HR that my dad was stalking/threatening her. Luckily nothing bad happened to him because he's friends with a good amount of people at his job, including his boss, and they can see through crazy ex's bs. She also called the cops claiming he had tazers (he doesn't) and gave his kids dangerous weapons like daggers (I'm 21 years old and he gave me a pocket knife for my birthday) and that he was letting her son play with guns (nerf guns maybe, he sold his old hunting rifle a while back and that thing was always locked away in a safe hidden in some obscure corner and I literally didn't know he even owned a gun until years and years after he got one. I knew he had a permit, but didn't know about the gun because he was sure to keep it away from the kids). My dad has only ever been fantastic and caring to me and my sisters and it hurts me to see someone try to ruin his life like this, esspecially considering he already had signs of depression and the ex gf 100% knows about that.
My ex bf would stand at the bathroom door and drag his nails slowly over the door when I was in there...he would also just stand there bc I could see his defined shadow on the floor.... He also would not let my son or I turn on the lights to go to the bathroom...we could only use a night light. Also, every single thing that came out of his mouth was made into a sexual innuendo... I mean anything! He would accuse me of fu@king or having fu@ked everyone I knew... Male or female. There's so much more, but we left him cuz he is messed up!
Moments before seeing this video ,i was cursing myself for not being lucky in love but now i feel more happy and lucky to be single than have these horrible experiences
I dated someone who proposed to me 6 times when we were both 18,played with my trust issues on multiple occasions,wouldn't let me work so they'd "take care of me",would give me really extravagant gifts despite me not being comfortable with that and when I finally broke up with them,I got hit with a "well,you only ever dated me for my money" LOL BITCH
I've got plenty of stories about crazy exes, so I guess I'll start from the beginning. So for the first one, I honestly don't know how true this is, but I've heard rumors that my first girlfriend in my sophomore year of high school wrote an erotic novel about us after I dumped her. Another girl I tried dating sophomore year never showed up for the date, which I later found out was because she was sleeping with her ex, and she acted like she did nothing wrong and that it was perfectly acceptable to do that. My last ex-girlfriend from my senior year of high school managed to convince me that I was being abusive and controlling for trying to get her to stop drinking despite the fact that she'd always try to get buzzed to "relieve her anxiety" which was a major red flag of alcohol abuse. Yeah, I think it's pretty obvious that I don't have terribly great taste in women, at least I'm graduating in a few months and I can at least hope I end up dating someone halfway decent this time.
I've struggled with anxiety since I can remember and alcohol definitely makes it easier. I wish I could just smoke weed but that makes it worse. I'm not an alcoholic yet but I'll probably be one day.
My uncle meet his wife in an asylum. They were both patients btw. They both got released but she went back after they had two kids and got released again only to go back because she stabbed her daughter in the shoulder. He had been hospitalized when it happened although he never actually got out of the hospital
When he carved my name (albeit shallowly carved, not deeply) into his forearm as a "reminder not to cut himself anymore" He also wrote in sharpie "do it for her."
You do know the gauging of the depth makes it seem as if you were let down it wasnt "properly done" i think the term would be. But in misinterpreting that, right? Heh...
I have stories but man...I’m just so tired I don’t even have the strength to type how crazy the stories are. Just know it’s manipulation and gaslight from someone who has bpd.
Raptor Charly I’m sorry friend. I hope that you are doing well. It is hard growing up with a negative life impact like that but there is help and there is hope.
@@thatbitchnoemie That's your choice. You'll become a horrible person the instant you tell yourself 'well I have BPD so it's not my fault if I hurt this person'.
Noémie sips tea Don’t worry. I have BPD too and it’s possible to maintain a healthy relationship as long as you, and I can’t stress this enough, COMMUNICATE CONSTANTLY!! You can’t let your feelings stew and then blow up on your partner. If you start to feel insecure, angry or anxious, instead of doing something manipulative as soon as you feel it , talk to them about it and your BPD, the ways it affects your thinking. If they genuinely care for you they will understand that you can’t control these feelings and listen. It also helps to keep a journal. The fact that you’re worried you might hurt someone shows that you at least have a conscience and you want to be a good person. Hang in there, and don’t worry. BPD has a disgusting stigma attached to it but we’re not actually all as horrible as the world makes it seem 💕
I opened up to him, sobbing, about my past experiences with sexual assault, and he laughed and said "bullshit." Eventually apologized but not before berating me for being a "liar"
I've noticed that anime tend to stick closer to real life psychopathy than Hollywood... Also, it's funny how many wish some of the homicidal anime girls to be real...
@@edi9892 It could also be people acting like the characters they favor from anime. Like how someone tends to be more like the people they hang around.
There was a few things that seemed like kinda suspicious, but what made me know was this one thing he said. We were cuddling and talking when he just went quiet. I was wondering what he was thinking about I thought it might be some lewd shit. I asked him what he was thinking about he’s like you don’t want to know. I’m like OOOOO some real lewd shit so I insist he should tell me. He tells me that he was just thinking about killing me. Let’s just say I’m crazy, but he was something else. I was scared he’d do it he owned knives and a sword and a battle hammer. He’d accuse me of cheating and said every guy I was friends with had a crush with me. Even my gay guy friend. No he’s not making an acception for me -_-. When I broke up with him he tried to blackmail me and called me a slut.
Not defending the homicidal maniac, but just because some dude says their gay, doesn't mean all bets are off. A lot of perverts will use that as an excuse just to get close to you or see you naked. Seen it happen.
She had a literal thousand yard stare, like if you looked at a photo of Rasputin it was that kind of crazy Constantly went on about the gory details of historical genocides and listed people she wanted to ‘get rid of’ including the entire British Royal Family and her own mother Blatantly lied about her mother’s marital status Triggered my PTSD and successfully cut me off from most of my friends at the time Constantly guilted me into staying and used her disabilities as an excuse Stalked me on discord until I finally blocked her and moved on Rose, (not her real name, privacy reasons) I hope you’re getting serious help and you won’t hurt anyone else
I wasn’t dating this girl, i was just sharing an apartment with her but I found out she was telling her family we were a couple, I didn’t realise this until I went to her family’s house for Christmas dinner and was introduced to the aunties and uncles as the boyfriend by her parents, she brushed it off and said they must have just assumed it and then one day she asked me to pick her up from a work party and I was introduced to the work colleagues as the boyfriend by her boss, things started to make sense that it was her, also one day I got a screenshot of my Facebook status from her where I was having a normal conversation publicly with a female and the text with the screenshot said “WHO IS SHE????” I told her it was none of her business and that night she brought a guy home with her to make me jealous... strange!. Eventually one night I told her out straight we will never be a couple and stormed out of the house and went to my mothers, when I went back to the apartment the next day I found out that she had rang her father and told him I had assaulted her so he would come over and change the locks so I couldn’t get back into the apartment... it was a lucky escape for me in the end!
Hmm let's see.... -There was whip-its girl. -There was lie about her age, then threaten to call the cops on me if I didn't date her girl. -There was Daddy issues girl. (girls... ) -There was, "friend-zone" girl, that would tell a guy that she liked him, and then about all these "creepy nice guys" she had to friend-zone. Little did I know I was one of them. She did this to like 10 guys having them all believe she was interested in them, but couldn't date while still in college. I saw through that shit (took me a bit) and just stopped hanging out with her. Next thing I know, 6 different guys are telling me to "stay away" from her, until I ask them questions and make them talk to each other. Her manipulation and lies fell eventually when beta number one bought her 400 dollars worth of goods, and she tossed the ones she didn't need right into the garbage (including valentines flowers.) -There was... "If you choke me until I pass out or hit me until I can't move, I won't tell anyone on you" girl. She was nice, but I prefer sadistic play to be a little safer than that. -There was control freak girl, text message 9000 girl, and "what are you doing" at 3:31am call girl, all different but all classic narcissistic, paranoid, low self-esteem emotionally stunted girl-women. Finally my wife, she has two personalities randomly cries, and lights things on fire- she's the most sane woman I've ever met.
@Wordiator Ladiator Out of an 18 year time span, 8 psychos seems pretty low to me honestly. @Connor Nicholson - Thank you, it was full of hardships, ups, and downs. @Inferno Supreme - One is super clingy and immature - the other is cold and aloof- so they balance out well. I'm just happy when she smiles. @Lilliz91 - Um, thank you? Pretty sure that's just women in general. Even the ones that say "no drama" or they're not crazy, they all have issues of some sort. Also, it's not that women like "bad boys" they just prefer excitement over boredom. Anyway thanks for the replies guys, I'm older and wiser now. And yes I have gotten a bit more picky. In fact I won't even date anyone unless they pass my wife's approval first!
@Wordiator Ladiator No doubt, if we as a society conitinue with online dating, we need like a rating system of some type. Especially one that comes with red flags for the less experienced.
1:00 DUDE, would you mind stopping your girlfriend from invading another person's private messages right in front of you ? or nah, you're more the passive type ...
@@incorruptiblemikeadams6947 mine Still does that and even worse! Hides shit, steals, lies, changes phone numbers like for instance Dennis ( we dont know anyone by Dennis) come to find out it was denise! If you're gonna search look through my shit I have every right to go through yours! If I confront you about it and you get pissed and walk away from me ( I know your cheating) womens intuition! Fucking liars! Ya married to one? 25 yrs of Fucked in the membrane!
Please don't put 'Psychopath' in the title when the original question said 'psychos' and was clearly just colloquially referring to crazy people. Spreading misinformation about psychopathy isn't good m8.
@jd123ab Shall I get you the definition of a person? Just because you seem to hold some childish grudge against them for god knows what reason doesn't mean they deserve to have people misinformed of their neurological differences.
@jd123ab if you've lost a loved one to murder then I'm really sorry man, I am. But hating a group for the actions of a single person is only going to hurt yourself in the end. It's misplaced hatred, be angry at people for what they do, not who they are.
@@gircakes I'd do the same thing if someone was misusing 'autism', 'bipolar', 'depression' or 'anxiety' etc. I think it's important that people understand the terms they're using from a logical standpoint.
I was the psycho and I always regret it. I madly fell in love with a man and flew halfway across the world to meet his parents. I didn't have a lot of money at the time so it was a big decision. I even asked him if he's sure it's worth it. shortly into the trip he told me he didn't love me as much anymore and I spent the rest of that trip depressed as hell and I wasn't myself anymore. I was irritable and fragile because the whole time I pretended that I was happy not to put so much stress on his parents. They deemed me mentally unstable and too culture shocked and to second guess dating me to their son. Which he broke it off with me as soon as I arrived home. And I agreed to at least be his friend. But I told him I'm still upset about the whole thing and I'm still in love with him, and starting acting desperate for a do-over and he refused. He then said over and over he's going to find another girlfriend and marry her. It made me sad at first and I straight burst into tears Everytime. It was almost everyday I received this taunting message and eventually I threatened suicide if he did find someone else. Yeah it was a threat and I regret it. It was a back and forth for so long. So much I started to think about it seriously. He eventually blocked me off of everything and I'm still struggling with suicidal thoughts. I really hate that I hurt him and I hope he's happy. I really really hope he is happy.
He manipulated you into that behaviour... What sort of a scumbag tells you he's falling out of love with you on the way to meet his parents in another country? He did that deliberately knowing that you were trapped with him for the duration of the flight and visit with his parents so it was highly likely that you would not be reacting to things the same as before.
@@consciousbeing1188 I still think it's my fault... I should have never threatened him with anything and put down the phone... Now I don't know if I'll ever speak to him again and I really want to. I still think about it and it hurts to the point where I think suicide is the only way out...
ok.. go back and read your own words.. read them from an objective point-of-view... as if you're an outsider. Do you notice the things he did to manipulate you? Not just what I have already mentioned... there is also the fact that he obviously pressured you to go with him even though he knew you couldn't really afford it... he reassured you that it was worth it to go with him and then told you on the way there that he was falling out of love with you (if he ever really loved you in the first place.. sounds to me like he was just using you)... He did that knowing that you would internalise the feelings you had and they would manifest into unusual behavior... That's a ploy to destabilize you and thus, give him further validation for wanting to leave you which is what he really had planned to do even before you got on the plane. He also repeatedly told you that he's going to meet someone else and marry them because he knew that in your depressed state that you would threaten suicide.... but he still wanted to be "friends"? would that be so he can keep you hanging on to him because he likes being a martyr? obviously I don't have all the details... but based on what you've said so far... it appears that he INTENDED to hurt you and was just good at manipulating you into feeling like you had hurt him.
@@ethangold2525 - In your depressed state, it doesn't surprise me that you didn't see it that way. But you have to know this... you are NOT psycho... you were subjected to some very sick-minded emotional manipulations just so he could feel better about dumping you. That is an oft used tactic by those who lack the intestinal fortitude to own the responsibility of a break-up. It comes from a place of self-righteousness on his part. What better way to feel better about himself about breaking up with you than to convince you that he broke it off because of your emotional fragility that HE fermented?
My ex back in high school screamed at me in front of my entire gym class because I called her a psycho on her facebook page. Turned out she had asbergers. She also didnt know how to delete things on her facebook page so she told me to delete it. It ended up with the school giving us a no contact restraining order. I moved to the other side of the country after that. A year later she told me on the phone that she had a miscarriage and that she wanted to kill herself. I was genuinely concerned and tried calling her mother. After that things kind of worked out, except that she continued following all of my social media for the next 3-4 years.
@@yuibkys3522 Well, he doesn't seem to feel empathy in this scenario, lashing out at the person and inflicting unnecessarily dramatic punishments without any regard to that persons quality of life
I dated this guy when I was in high school for a couple weeks. After our second date he asked for nudes and I gently turned him down. Dude got super angry and broke up with me. Came back a few days later begging for forgiveness. I was skeptical but still decided to give it a shot. Big mistake. A few days later he proposes with ring and all and rambles on about how we should elope. I didn't even know the guy! Yep, broke up with him then and there. Never saw him again
@Burner Fire Lol, no nothing like that. He was in a different high school, so when we broke up he had no reason to come to mine to see me now. Also I was in my senior year so I graduated and moved to college a few months later. I guess that was one good thing about him, he left me alone when I wanted him to.
I realized that my ex was a psycho the day he tried to kill me, then started crying and told me about all the animals he had killed without his parents knowing.
I went out a couple times with this very unstable guy with violence and anger issues, I only found out about it when he had a complete meltdown because I didn’t cancel a flight back to my country that I had bought and looked forward to for months, to hangout with him that night, we had literally gone out twice, I could hear him punching things while screaming at me over the phone. Scariest part about him, when I met him he worked for the highway patrol, and the last thing I knew is that he became a police officer, how did anybody thought he would be fit to carry a gun everyday as part of his job is beyond me, I am honestly terrified to ever cross paths with him again.
lee lo LoL why would I disclose the name of someone I literally said I am afraid to ever encounter again? If you think this is someone you may know, all I’ll disclose is that this happened in the state of California and as far as I know, he is still an officer. I guess all I can say is that I hope he realized he had a problem and got help for it.
A roommate of ours was dating a woman. She would be totally normal, go from the porch, into the house, and suddenly the cops would show up. She'd been perfectly normal on the porch (living room, etc) in front of all of us. Apparently, she'd gone into the house, smashed herself in the face with something, and called the police claiming her BF had beaten her. He'd been out on the porch the whole time, with 5 other people. 😲 (She did this sort of thing so much, the police got to know everyone by name.) I later found out that when she'd get mad at any of us, she'd use their toothbrush to clean the toilet, or stick it in various places "the sun doesn't shine". We all got fully tested for STDs, bought new toothbrushes, and literally had to lock them up in a cash safe.
I'm too forgiving for my own good, and thought I could change him. This was over the span of a year and a half, and he was extremely manipulative. Now, onto the list. 1. He told me he knew how to kill his ex, and proceeded to tell me in detail. I thought it was a super awkward joke, and insisted that he didn't actually want to kill his ex. (There were children involved and his goal was to end up with the kids.) 2. He and a our mutual best friend were drinking and playing videogames. He started being a bit of an asshole, because he's an abusive alcoholic. So our friend said "I'm going home. I'll talk to you when ypu're sober." Which had my ex fly into a rage, and hold the friend up to the wall, by his throat. That in and of itself, is crazy. I cone our of the room, and jumped on my ex's back. My goal was to distract said ex, get his attention, and talk him out of a situation that could lose us both, our best friend. The friend was also twice my ex's size, but super pacifist. But I also worried he might snap, and what might happen if and when he did. Anyway, my ex threw me off his back, and I kept jumping back on. The whole time, I was calmly telling him to stop. So the last time, he threw me off, turned around, grabed the shoe rack, and hit me with it. I'm one of those "too nice for my own good" types, so when I snap, I full on rage black out. Needless to say, two men had to hold me back from attacking my ex. *This was when I learned I was pregnant.* 3. He was out drinking, and came home to grab a knife and leave again. When he got back home again, the knife was gone and he told me he had killed someone. (And before you ask, once I left him. I DID tell the police of this. Of course, it was months later and there was nothing they could do. My ex was also a pathological liar. So I never knew when he was telling the truth or not. This time, I was pretty scared of him. 4. He told me he was going to out diet pills in my food without me knowing... *while I was breastfeeding my son* ! I flipped out on him for this one. I full on told him that if he did, and something happened to my son, I would assign full blame to him, and never trust him again. He relented, had he not, I would have left him at that point. My son's life is my top priority. 》 *I left him because, on top of all the crazy, and all of the mental, emotional, verbal, financial and sexual abuse, he promised to clean the house while I was out with my son. He slept all day instead. That was the moment that I realized he was never going to change. I also realized that I didn't want my son to grow up with that as his model on which to behave himself around women. 5. When I fled (stereotypical "with nothing but my baby, and the clothes on our backs") he called me no less than 10 times in a row, leaving messages one after the other. When I still didn't respond, he borrowed a mutual friend's phone, and called me on that. 6. I went to a doctor appointment with my son, and his friend was waiting out front for me. My son and I stayed on the bus, and called the doctor. We told them not to tell my ex when I had an appointment, and rescheduled. When I came back, there was no sign of the friend. I had my boyfriend (the best friend from a few stories ago) with me this time. When we got into the building, my ex's friend was there again, but this time *so was my ex*. I got scared, and ran right for the bathroom, and locked my son anf I inside. My ex was being SO verbally abusive that he was then escorted out if the building by security. Turns out, because he was using profanity as his primary language, Children's Aid was called. My ex was so crazy, and unpredictible, that I was told "if you go back to him, you are in real danger of losing your son." By that point, Id was so fed up with my ex. So I got a restraining order! I haven't seen him sinced. Tl:DR: my abusive, crazy, ex, was crazy.
There were many things but this one is simple to understand: There'd been a girl in my life for 6 months. I wanted to end it but she said she needed time (also, she got really wild in bed sometimes). I had told her my parents were in town and I'll be with them for a couple of days, so you know, be cool. She texts me 'I've caught you red handed' during one of those 2 days. I had to wade through 15-20 mins of her anger and aggression to realise that she had somehow accessed my facebook account. Gone through it for 6-7 hours (her words) and found a flirty chat from 4 years ago and that was evidence of me cheating on her. I'd known her for 6 months. There were many things before that but this was the final straw 'for giving her time'. Completely crazy. Edit: I got to know a few things about her after things ended from a common friend and that is when i was convicned I'd had a 6 month episode with a textbook sociopath.
Ummmm......I think mine might've killed the girl before me and an innocent guy went to jail for it. Cause his mask fell quickly. And before I knew it he was asking if I wanted to go to hell driving 100 mph on a curvy road. Saying things such as he wanted to get supplies at work and have me sniff it to see if it'll kill me. The worst one is when he was cheating I grabbed his phone and the second I touched it he grabbed my arm and slammed me into this dash of his truck face first with no apology. Told me if I go to the cops he'd break my arm.....just holding my arm acting like he'd break it
I was in highschool and my family was leaving the country temporarily for my father's job. My ex told me I had to run away before we left or he'd kill himself. Luckily he cheated on me 3 months before the trip because I'm easily manipulated by people I care about and I don’t know what would've happened.
I complained about how I hated working with one of my coworkers who is a female. Because of that, she cussed me out and told all of her friends that I “Wouldn’t stop bringing up the same girl over and over again”. She doesn’t like when I talk about about any girl other than herself.
We were at a park playing catch with a football. I called her name and threw her the ball. It hit her in the chest, and she didn’t say anything at all and stormed off. She walked very far away, and I started wondering where she was going or if she would be safe. I called her name and she became furious. She came over and started cussing me out saying that I threw it “when I knew she wasn’t ****ing looking” on purpose. She kept going on and on cussing me out to the point where I was sobbing and told her I was going home and started to walk home. She walked with me, but got even more angry at me that I wanted to go home.
Freaked out because i semi-flirted with one of her friends (wich she doesn't like that much) and had not told her about It.... Happened 3 years before i've met her. Tried to pull the "i'm pregnant" card after we broke up. Weirdly i still had feelings for her until last year. Deffo would not get back with her but had feelings. Hope she's doing better with her new guy tho.
Women...my man was so crazy that he didn't talk to me for 2 days...Men...my woman was so crazy she tried to kill me, destroy my career, sleep with my friends,slash my tires,poison my dog, harass my parents,file false police reports & burned my clothes......
Not someone I dated, but a friend of mine. Also not crazy, just really weird. When we had first met he was normal, then he started getting all clingy. He made me promise he was my best friend over my best friend who I’d spent my entire life with (who coincidentally turned out to be toxic,) one time he told me, “I wish you were my sister, but I’m glad you’re not because I also want you to be ‘something else’”, one time my dad and I agreed to hang out with him and he spent the car ride bragging about how much money his older brother made, he offered to come to my house and teach me piano (and he knew my piano was in my bedroom) then proceeded to call me creepy because I talked to him regularly.
@@andresno2028 That's not true at all. I don't have a crush on every guy friend I have, and they don't all have crushes on me either. People have different standards for friends than they do for romantic interests, so different sexes being friends is completely possible.
@@andresno2028 This IS possible in the event of a childhood friendship. My neighboors ( 2 sisters ) are my best friends since I was 5. There isn't any tension, and I have a GF whom Iove very much that isn't one of the two. Same for the oldest sister with her BF. The third one is currently not interested in having a relationship, which I can understand. So yeah, Idk if I'm 1 in a million, but there you go.
I dated a girl for about a year. Lots of red flags but I was super naive and didn’t know they were red flags. Anyway, I got my first big boy job a year ago, there were three paid orientation classes in the HR wing before starting. I was in one and after our 30 minute lunch I wrapped up a convo with her saying I couldn’t talk anymore and that I’d call her once I’m out. She thought I was cheating on her and that I was lying about the job. After about an hour I hear yelling in the hallway, the speaker and the whole room of 20 people stop and look at the door. I turned to a ghost, was praying she didn’t yell my name. Had to talk to security afterward. No one that was in the room knew it was my ex thank god.
I had a friend who, I wouldn't say psychopath (but he let this thing affect his life terribly), got dumped by a girl he was dating for two months, already thinking of marriage and having a future with her. He was so devastated that it took him 4-5 years (8th grade to 12th) to get over it. I tried to help him out but after hearing his sob story and how he refuses to change, you get pretty fed up. Even on graduation, he wanted to say "one final goodbye" to her, to which I said "ew man jeez"
One girl I went on a couple dates with in high school would always get mad whenever I got on the bus with my *sister...* She also hated that I paid more attention to my suicidal (female) friend than her. _That_ was what made me call it off on the spot.
9:00, reminded me of my ex a bit. Navy veteran that got convicted and later sent to prison for five years after 3 charges of domestic violence against his own wife. He lied to me so I wouldn't know the truth. He also lied about being sterile. He always accused me of cheating even though I was clearly working(my mom can vouch for this since we work together). He said he couldn't even trust me because I forgot information about a stupid CD album release. We broke up, but guess who's fugging Pregnant? Keeping the baby, but he will never know about this child. No way I'm bringing up a child with a pathological abusive liar.
Um so I was dating this guy, long distance relationship so already difficult. He quite often would ask what I was doing that day, who I was with, if I had been with other guys (or girls cuz he new that I'm bi) and constantly pressure me into sending revealing pictures knowing full well I'm underage. I never sent anything, (he was a year older than me). So already red flags were coming up but it was my first relationship that lasted longer than a week. So I was talking to him and he was doing his usual clingy thing.... And then he started BRAGGING ABOUT BEIMG IN TROUBLE WITH THE POLICE. Turns out some guy mildly annoyed my (ex)boyfriend and that became my ex slashing this random dudes chest and arms with a knife. He almost killed a dude. Then I found out about other people that he almost murdered and yeah.... I cut him out of my life completely after that.
@@MK_Grafik he is a schizophrenic. And also, he decapitated all mice he was catching with mouse traps (he had infestation). And painting with his own blood. And he was sending me a lot of pictures of it all.
@Laura Birdwell yes, it is. I am absolutely amazed how I was able to stay with him for 3 years and only then tell myself "he's fucking crazy, leave him"
@@Mr11kankan if I report that to the police they will do nothing, in my country is like "so... a woman try to kill you, eh? Yeah yeah... please close the door when you exit the building"
My guy friend followed me into the quiet study area of the library, then when we got lunch, he was upset that I had ignored him for a couple hours (because God forbid I assume someone in the quiet study area wants to study quietly.) Let me emphasize, I never once asked or expected him to come with me.
I am a sociopath and can confirm that #3 is actually psychopathic, not sociopathic behaviour. Have been with my girlfriend for over a year and never actually shouted at her, even when she did at me. We tend to be more subtle in our arguments.
My ex was very good at conditioning and manipulating, and I was in this relationship for almost two years, within this time he did lots of messed up stuff. He groped me in my sleep. Once I was in the hospital for a fit of five seizures, I asked him to come visit me and he promised. He never showed up. When I told him it had upset me he got mad at me because he “had done so much for me” me and I was “exhausting”. He did come see me when I got home and I expect this is why he was so angry with me- because he thought I was selfish maybe. He lied to me about how much he smoked/used other illegal substances and I’m still not sure how much of any of the things he told me were true and which were not. Up until the time we broke up I whole heartedly believed him, and now I realize so many things don’t make sense. He hid from me that he had taken LSD, smoked cigarettes, and consumed alcohol (we are underage) many times. He did confess some of this to me after we were apart which I appreciate. He told me many times he would kill himself or that his family was moving.. that his parents were divorcing. He said things like this so often I don’t know if any of them were real because there was no evidence other than I took his word because I loved him. I am a very affectionate person. While we dated he told me sex dreams he had about another girl, giving her oral sex. He also expressed to me that if he were not dating me he would be dating one of my friends- in essence telling me he also was attracted to her. Two days after he and I split , he made out with that very same girl’s twin. This is even more upsetting because I had just lost almost all my friends and I felt she was my only friend left. He would say sexual things about me, blatantly, in public in front of many people. Things about how he couldn’t wait to rearrange my insides, etc. I am someone who would much rather be private about those things, but my reputation changed while dating him. I expressed to him my discomfort and he said he understood, however later that night he teased me in front of maybe 20 friends, calling me petty and such. I cried and he got upset at me. I truly believed he had a heart and good intentions in him. I kind of still do. But it’s hard. A few weeks ago he decided to tell me I’m a controlling bitch obsessed with mind games who only wants control because my parents don’t give it to me, who tries to fuck him over every ten seconds. I just can’t believe all of it it’s so much to take it you know
when he told me hes a diagnosed sociopath. then filmed himself during electro therapy. he also told me he had killed 10 men. but im entirely sure it was a schizophrenic delusion. and when i once asked him about suspicious things he did, he ghosted me for 7 months saying i argue too much and blah blah blah, of course he gaslighted me too. (we were in an LDR). i was a stupid child, now im with a very lovely guy who talks rly crazy shit sometimes but hes the best lol.
Unfortunately I actually have a few stories. I remember a specific incident with one of my exes (who was the one who cheated at the beginning of the relationship-) who had to constantly call. My father was in the hospital about 30 mins away from our house (because he worked around that area-), and I was with him at the hospital. We got home very late and my then boyfriend decided to call (it was like 3 in the morning or something). Lmao lets just say my mother was not happy about that at all. Fast forward a few years and I get into another relationship with a guy. He is constantly trying to play the "nice guy" and trying to make sure I'm not around anybody else. I remember an incident where my best friend was over and he called to start a fight about how he didn't want me looking at male models for my art studies (because I was doing a lot of nude studies). Fast forward a little while and I lose my dog (who was my true best friend that I had known for more than half my life-) and he tells me that there's no reason to care about her. Not to mention (beforehand) he cheated and then told me I was being too demanding by saying I wasnt comfortable with him doing things like that. Most recently (and honestly the worst one by far-) my ex was absolutely toxic. I had known him for a few years and he seemed completely normal- we had a friendly relationship. But then he started depending on me and we were soon in a 'romantic' relationship. He then proceeded to threaten me, himself, and my family. He would keep me on the phone for hours and hours and when I would fall asleep he would scream so that I woke up. He would often act as if he were killing himself (we were on the phone so i couldnt see him or anything--) and act like he just killed someone else, pushing me to the point to where I broke down multiple times within the span of only 3 months. He soon moved in and wouldn't let me leave his side or would force me to kiss him or would throw something at me when I tried to leave. He woke me up multiple times (after like 3 hours of sleep) by banging on my window in the mornings. He also faked having seizures and when he went to the hospital, he decided that because we were away from my parents and his friend left (after I asked him not to-) he was going to "take advantage" of me. Later that day his friend admitted to seeing child pornography on his phone and luckily he's been in jail since and he has his sentencing soon. Maybe it may not be so bad compared to some of the things people have gone through but I honestly got so lucky. My heart honestly goes out to all the people who have had to deal with these kinds of people..
"Maybe it wasn't so bad". You really are a fool if you genuinely think that. Abuse is abuse. It shouldn't have happened to you. What you describe is awful and you didn't deserve to live it.
@@IceFireofVoid honestly reading this comment means alot. Lately its been super hard mentally on me because of the most recent events and I have honestly been telling myself that because it could have been so much worse, but you're right-- abuse is certainly still abuse, and nobody should have to ever go through it. Thank you. It means a lot more than I could ever really express to hear that.
I had a girlfriend while in the army, she asked me to go out one night. I couldn’t because I had work to catch up on but I went to the store to pick up some microwave dinner. She was there and was apparently screaming my name from the other side of the building( there was a lot of people and this area was like a mini mall so very loud) I never heard her but she ended up telling my command that I had been taking mdma( which I hadn’t) wasted a whole day having to get tested. Sadly I had to deal with her presence for another few months
I'm uncomfortable with how casual that last one is.
That is what made it fucking funny and sad at the same time
She got extremely mad and insecure because I cheated on her...
In a dream
Me too wtf.
The grudge lasted for a day.
ive heard this one a lot lol
dreams can feel too real man...
it’s the anxiety behind the fact that sometimes some people dream of things that’ll happen or are happening im one of those
My mom was onced pissed at my bro one entire day because of a dream she had. Come on, its just a fucking dream.
My ex did the same thing. So stupid 😑 He was paranoid and jealous the whole week!
Everybody: Why is nobody talking about the last one?
Everybody: The last one
If your partner is more controlling of you than your parents are, it’s time to end the relationship.
A relationship is give and take, not “I’m going to take everything from you, and you are going to let me do it with a smile on your face or else I’ll punish you.”
Well said.
My boyfriend has an ex that would break into his fb account... I ended up changing his password for him because she knew him but not me. I ended up helping him edit his profile, changing from public to private, removing his contact info, removing his address, etc because she would stalk him (she was blocked), she made multiple accounts and would bully his friends into telling her his posts etc it's still a mess because she is crazy. She found out where he was going to be one day and drove up to him and told him to get in her car, he went to go into a store to get away and she drove her car onto the sidewalk to chase him down. We have a restraining order now and it's only a matter of time before she is caught and arrested for breaking it.
Lol how is this so common. I don't care who it is or how close they are, the only person who knows my passwords for any of my social media is me.
How are these people not in jail? They’re clearly dangerous
Jesus, good luck with that
tmiddlechild h
@@potaterjim Ive been asking the same question. They are good actors and get themselves out of it with good acting.
4:22 So he gave up on life for three days over 90 degrees
lol'd
Brandon Lawrence he did it to make her worry about him
@wonter birb Right? What a little bitch 😂
Basically he intentionally behaved that way as a form of punishment to his wife. He was manipulating her in an extreme way that definitely falls under psycho, but at the time I'm sure she believed he had given up on life. (hopefully she's realised by now that a man losing interest in things and her, but normally feeding himself ain't given up on any part of his life).
@TheStarsLookSoNice 15 first thought that i had in mind
I was with a guy for almost a year, we were friends for a long time before we started dating. We began living together and he became more concerned about my coworkers being interested with me all of a sudden. He would come to my work if I didn't text him back fast enough, and if I were around any other male workers he would just stand far away until I noticed him staring at me, then he'd leave, and we would fight for at least an hour when I would get home. One time he picked me up from work and came inside, my manager was counting my money as I slouched over the counter with my elbows propped up to hold my head in my hands. My boyfriend wouldn't say a word to me in the car on the way home. I ignored him being quiet and sat on my phone. I was startled when I heard a loud BANG and realized my boyfriend was hitting his head against the driver side window over and over, while driving. I was yelling at him to stop but by the 4th hit or so, the glass shattered. He of course started freaking out and pulled over into a near Taco Bell parking lot. He was crying pretty hard and starting saying "i'm sorry" over and over (he was driving MY car by the way) I quickly got out of the car and took my shirt off to wrap around my hand and wipe all of the glass off the seats so that I could drive us back home without cutting myself on accident. It all happened so fast I can't remember my reactions, it wasn't even until later when I was picking glass out of his scalp he told me why he was so upset. Apparently he didn't like that I didn't have all my work shirt buttons buttoned while I was leaning over the counter talking to my manager (I worked at an arcade and wore a polo with maybe 3-4 buttons below the collar, buttoning all of them would make my shirt tight around my neck, I still kept at least the bottom two buttoned pretty much all the time) He said that my manager is a creep and I shouldn't "sexualize" myself in front of him. It started a whole new argument even though he was bleeding from the head from the tantrum he had just thrown, not to mention breaking my car. I stayed with him longer than I should have, especially after that. I really loved him, and I hope he finds help.
Im sorry to hear this.
I feel like he has a mental issue. He's crazy
Maybe you really loved him cuz you were stupid but let's just hope he finds a train to get hit by imo
sayounara1232 he had to have had some chemical imbalance in his brain(not even trying to be rude) but he did have a drug problem just a year or two before we started dating. He slowly started changing into a different person.
@@NeverLockedUp Damn, I hope both of you are okay
We were having an argument on the phone and then he threatened to jump out his window and kill himself... Yeah... That was scary.
SusieJayKay ow wow, that’s straight up toxic and manipulative
@@zigzagoon-pl7yh yep.. I've had something like this twice, with the same girl. Once we were arguing on MSN (at the time it was the IM everyone used), and she activates her webcam. I see her holding her laptop on her knees, sitting *on the window ledge, facing out!*
At the time I didn't use a microphone so yeah.. try talking your girlfriend off a ledge with TEXT messages!
This was years into the relationship, so I was more than casually attached, by then.
We broke up after 6 years, when a friend showed me that none of this was normal.
Emotional blackmail is scary stuff.
Salah Eddine H wow. I’m so sorry you had to go through that!
Maybe not as bad I guess but I dated a girl who would do pretty much all the normal relationship stuff except 2 things. We never kissed (because she didn't want to) and sometimes we would be weeks without talking because she had 2 jobs and wouldn't have time for me (we also lived somewhat far apart). More red flags came when she very smoothly tried to describe me as a sex object with no context or joke behind it along with other unappealing stuff (this happened a few times). However, I let my guard down a bit after that because the place we were at, I had dropped my wallet and she kept it and gave it back the next day so I thought it would be okay to trust her even though the things she would often say sometimes turned me off. Anyway, a few weeks later go by without any text messages or voice calls, I find out through her social media she died. People she knew were posting small homage texts. To this day I still don't know exactly how or why she died because I have zero contact with the people she knew, although I have a few theories. It's still something that intrigues me to this day.
Should have told him to do a backflip
My first boyfriend "joked" about "playfully punching me in the face". 🙃
Not the only thing he did to me, but I think this fits with the rest of these
It fist with the rest you mean
@@N0vatique Ha ha
Sure mate
Wow winner
Ok and?
Me and my bf do this all the time, we mess around with eachothed alot. We laugh our asses off while trying to be the first who takes the slap. They are just a jokefull slaps, but punching would be a bit extreme indeed but atleast he joking 😂
ammmm... the guy that "punished" his girlfriend like that????
I thought only women did that.
Yeah it makes certain people feel bad, because they hate to see people they love and care about hurt and people like that find it as a weakness and they basically abuse it when they do something they dislike.
Yeah sorry for the paragraph and sorry if you new what he was doing and I just said this for no good reason. I did not want to make people feel stupid either,i just wanted to exploit my messed up side and give some people a answers.
Sorry again.
My dad used to do that
From the very first day *YOU JUST MET* he says “You look familiar, you know something about the most successful couples stories? That when they first met they feel like they already know each other? That kind of connection” then ask for your number and later on the text keeps talking about your future together already. You haven’t even been friends yet.
I'm sorry it didn't work out with your time traveling husbands younger self, now you've altered the time line, thanks a lot!
Dude had a vision for his future. What can I say?
That's what happens when people get the whole relationship thing backwards.
You don't become friends because you're partners; you become partners because you're good close trusting strongly bound friends.
I think.
This is actually real? Never heard of anyone being this dense
@@im_Smitty Unfortunately. I miss the old days when everyone and I ran around having fun adventures instead of cringily holding onto the idea that they're going to have some random romance story with someone. Why can't things just go back to trying to have fun and seeing what you can do with something interesting you find?
both👏men👏and👏women👏can👏be👏abusive👏
Yes....someone who gets it.
Yes!!! This!
i saw this tweet where this woman said "ya'll who been saying mn can be abused and raped wake up because ya'll fucking stupid
aj paj what was she on?
Yes finally
One time when I was in Junior High, I was just discovering my attractions toward girls so I was pretty much excited to date any girl. So I started dating this girl who was a freshman in high school. She was very Moody and here temper was horrible. One day my aunt who I was very close to had a medical emergency so my family went to the hospital with her. I was unable to text her for about 4 hours because if this. She had a complete melt down and accused me of cheating and said she would burn my house down. She then immediately blocked me. Later my friends sent screenshot of her on Facebook cussing me out on her posts. So glad that I learned to be more choosy
i once dated a guy who lied about being able to read. not pretending he could read when he couldn't; he pretended he couldn't read when he could. i have NO idea why.
???
Ok What the heck.
That is just... Uhh...
Huh?
Maybe he didn't read books and felt too ashamed to admit his lazyness and decided to pretend he couldn't read?
Iunno. That's a bit random.
Maybe he misread what Dislexia means.
That last one tho 😣
How do you sleep thru that?
@
Yeah but how? It doesn't just slide in. Esp if you haven't done it b4. Idk. Maybe she just shoved it in. 😰 Ouch
Nine Lives It will slide in with lube very quickly, albeit very painfully.
@ So you just gonna say that right in a public youtube comment section? Not that I'm judging, just seems weird to be so open about something like that.
@@SirXanderKnight1998 Maybe you see it as weird because sex is considered to be a taboo topic, but it's good information for people who might not otherwise understand how anal sex works. That being said, I'm doubtful everyone is the same and that easy to penetrate... at the very least, we know it was pretty painful without preparation.
I've slept through being beaten and cut before so that isn't very far-fetched.
Girl turned on my truck and wile it was parked held the gas to the floor till it blew the engine
Sad Toast wow that is so horrible
No wonder your name is sad toast ☹️
Did you sue her?
@@collinsellers4825 I killed her
@@sadtoast6122 eye
She had moved to the area from out of state not long before we started going out. As you might expect, she would sometimes get homesick and want to talk to her old friends. Her friends from back home would of course know about me and eventually we'd end up talking. First in group chat with her, next one on one.
I started noticing that all of these people (like 5-6) wrote remarkably alike. When I'd talk to her female friends, they'd want to flirt. When I talk to her male friends, they'd want to talk about how hot the female friends are. I could never talk to them on the phone, never meet them irl, and somehow she'd always find out about our conversations (in detail). When I searched the pictures to see if they were legit they just came back as photos of random people, sometimes not even in our country. This girl created an entire fake social circle meant to entrap me into cheating on her for literally no reason.
I can honestly say this was the only time I've been concerned for my safety when breaking things off.
I had a friend in middle/high school who moved away and then we slowly lost all contact with him. His Facebook profile used to be mostly centered around gaming and his other hobbies, with his nickname as the username, but then it changed to only pictures and posts related to his controlling gf he had at the time. Username changed to his real name with a little heart next to it and stuff. Started blocking all the old friends. Only found out later on that after he had broken up with his crazy gf, she had taken over his old Facebook account and kept posting old picture a of them together and pretending to be him to make it look like they were still together. Idk where that guy is today. Hope he's ok.
Unfortunately most of the woman who dated psychopaths are dead now
I don't know about most, but any person dead from relationship violence is too many.
Laura Birdwell Yup same here. Doesn’t take away from the fact that so many others aren’t so lucky.
Bitch stfu
Emma Cassady a psychopath is a person who doesnt feel empathy. A psycho is a delusional person
All too true 😔
Whew. So mine is another case where I didn't realize how much of a psychopath/sociopath/narcissist he was until after we broke up. He was very abusive. A few highlights from our relationship:
-He once ran at me, in the middle of a fight when I was crying, holding a large mallet over his head as if he was going to hit me with it. I screamed and started crying harder and he started laughing and said he had just been joking.
-The day I got my first car we had an argument that left me in a full-blown panic attack, so I couldn't drive home. We were driving through a neighborhood that was curvy and he suddenly slammed on the gas, while holding the wheel straight, and screaming "I'll crash this fucking car!"
-A couple of times near the end of our relationship he made me send him a photo of where I was because he didn't believe me.
-He threatened suicide, many times.
-He got some frogs as pets and threatened to kill his frogs just to upset me (I really care about animals) during a couple arguments.
-When I finally broke up with him, he hit me hard enough that I saw stars (that was the 2nd time he'd hit me in the face but was the only time I was ever hit that hard, by anyone), slashed my tires, and texted me death threats for days, until he was threatened by someone with a baseball bat if he didn't stop.
He was the most fucked up person I've ever met in my life. It's crazy how much you don't realize when you're in a situation like that. It was like I was in a constant fog mentally that I didn't get out of until I was free.
Jesus, I'm really glad you got out of that one
@@wildcatkhaya5675 thank you, so am I haha
Yeppppp, psychopath for sure. I appreciate you telling your story. :)
@@maggiedk Holy crap. I'm glad you're okay now. (and Kudos to baseball bat person)
And I agree about the fog. It took a friend a year to convince me that what I lived through for 6 years with my ex wasn't normal at all. When you're in, it all seems understandable to you.
Cheers
jesus christ thats actually full fledged assault, he should be in jail rn
The woman who woke up happy after dreaming her husband was dead - sounds like the movie _War of the Roses._ Great 80s movie
Old movie mental rolodex time...
Was that the one that ended with them hanging from the chandelier?
Mine was that he never asked me out he just made the decision we were dating and started telling people that. I found out I was in “a relationship” two weeks after the fact and when I told him we weren’t together he said yes we are I thought you knew that. And when I tried to break up with him his simple response was no. For three and a half years his response was just no/no you can’t/no I’ve done a lot for you it’s wrong for you to leave me. It was overall a weird and traumatic experience.
When he drugged my best friend after letting himself into her house, she doesn’t remember what happened and is still traumatised
Was he Bill Cosby?
Fucking psycho! And piece of shit! Would like to get my hands on him, that would be fun.
Tam neki “would love to get my hands on him. That would be fun” ... um... hopefully you don’t end up in one of these videos one day
@ he did similar things to me too, he'd always cry and say he was sorry after and that it wouldn't happen again, but he'd always do it again. The final straw was when he did it to my friend. When I broke up with him he threatened my family and said he'd "pay my mum a visit" when I was out at work. The police won't do anything because there's no physical evidence.
@@MA-of6xd I'm so sorry that this happened to you
she carved someone's full name into her arm, and i was like "thats not a dealbreaker"
which one of us was worse
Neither. Y'all just sound like edgy teenagers.
@@Meg_88 she ended up going to jail for something but, yeah, we were both a bit edgy
You. She is/was out of control.
Please dont reward peoples self harm tendencies.
@@shoople Welp.
Once my ex boyfriend and me were playing video games and listened to music and I asked him if he could change the music cause it was always the same and then he poured his drink over my head and walked to bedroom and ignored me til the next day. Even if I asked what happened he just pushed me away and didn't explain why he acted like that. Everything was fine when he decided to talk to me again. He was also the one of those guys who thought I'm always cheating on him no matter what.
If I shaved me even my armpits he thought I was cheating or even when i went to church with my mom he thought I'm cheating as long as I stayed home he was fine. He was good in manipulating me.
Lmao I don't get how girls stick around such obviously abusive relationships you shoulda dipped as soon as he poured the liquid on your head. Also I can't believe how a dude can act that way to their gf, dudes like that should get beat.
@@alexis_6266 Hmm... what i realised is those guys are good in manipulation. It wasn't every day like that. They can tell you lies and you think it's real it's hard to explain. I left him after 1 year and needed to run away from US and my family helped to get out of it because he became dangerous. I think I realised quickly. Like I said alot of those people who are getting abused in a relationship have it hard to leave cause they scared or think they can't without them. It's hard to understand ...
@@alexis_6266 Most likely the more primal areas of her brain calculated that the guy had good genes and their kids would be healthy if she were to breed with him. Our instincts for sexual attraction were put in place by our DNA because our DNA wants to survive, but our DNA doesn't care about our own personal happiness. Most people don't understand just how controlled by their instincts they really are.
@@lindaneko3199 looks like you're really naive, thats not good in this world.
@@Julie_jul to be naive is not a bad trait, it becomes bad when people exploit it. So no i know i wasnt naive. I had too much love for a wrong person thats it.
After we broke up, (he lived with & mooched off me) I offered to keep his 17 year old cat if he couldn't, as I loved him & thought he deserved a good end to life. He ended up getting a place that couldn't have pets on purpose & then told me he could have him there & moved out with him & kept him at his friends house & never went to see him. Told me later he did it because he knew I'd always love the cat & he wanted to hurt me. Fucking psycho.
Hope the ol kitty was okay, people are slime
She cut my face with a kitchen knife. Pretty good sign
Yeah, it’s cool. That’s not close to the worst thing she did lol
She was a psycho, and I was depressed enough to think being with her was better than being alone.
But that was in high school, so since then, we don’t see each other
My brother had same problem with his ex she tried to stab him multiple times and she almost slashed out his eye he has scar on forehead now
Dear god I hope you're ok. just know that she was a fucking _bitch_ and that she'll rot in hell. you didn't deserve that (heck, no one does) and I'm so sorry my bro (or gal.)
I was dating a psychopath, I was dating myself.
No , you just immature and edgy.
I was looking for the cringe... How'd I know there'd be a sonic picture involved?
Alright Tails settle down now
Tails is disappointed in your recent decisions how is that possible
Noto Sure Tails picture* XD
-My last ex threw himself out of a car on the highway when I tried to break up with him. I didn’t know he was traveling. It was a long distance relationship and I had gotten tired of constantly dealing with his bs.
He would threaten to kill himself if I dumped him knowing I would fall for it. He kept me on for half a year before I finally got tired of it. 1 yr after the last straw, I hear he’s married with a kid.
The woman was a ‘friend’ of his that he tried to pressure me into having a threesome with.
-Another ex was when I was a freshmen in hs. My ex told me he was 19 when I was 14. He lied by 5yrs. He kept trying to get me to sleep with him and saying he wanted to get me pregnant. I dumped him after I learned he was sleeping with his SISTER while we were together. I learned he was lying about his age years later from an old schoolmate.
-Another ex revealed he was dating me for money from his friend. His friend wanted to get with my bestie at the time and she was concerned about me being single. He fooled me and was cheating on me the whole time. I saw him making out with my school bully and when I tearily asked him what was going on, He jumped on the table and announced to the cafeteria that it was a farce from the beginning. I wanted to die that year.
first last I just snorted.
Erika Dequiña Eh, As okey as I can be. If I ever write a book about my life, it’ll basically be a series of unfortunate events 😂😂
But I keep my sense of humour and don’t let it hold be back. Thank you for your words.
Jackie Corpron Thank you. I can only hope my sister doesn’t have her own experiences with nutjobs.
That's so unlucky having so many of these stories.
I had a boyfriend (now ex! thankfully) who would get aggressive whenever I wanted to hang out with my friends. He'd interrogate me as to who I was going out with, how long I'd be gone, if there were any boys around, etc. And told me constantly I _had_ to ask him permission. I kind of dealt with it because he gave me this sob story of how his girlfriends used to cheat on him and I genuinely felt bad for him. I liked him and wanted to make it work. But I got sick of it one day and hung out with a group of friends without telling him. We went to this skating ring, were having a good time and out of nowhere he bursts in, calling me a whore and shouting at the tops of his lungs. One of my guy friends tried to defuse the situation and almost got into a fight with him. We all got kicked out. I was fucking mortified and broke up with him on the spot. I spent the night at my friend's and he texted me all night telling me that he was sorry, was just jealous and was 'better off dead'. I blocked him.
Lol I love how much I can sympathize with the pain. This guy is going through depression and cringes because when he looks back he's the one holding the mataphoricsl knife and he has to watch himself stab himself with it Everytime he looks back which promotes a sense of hopelessness and unending depression this guy's life is just so perfectly fucked and empty I get satisfaction from the depression radiating off of the slob.
Was overly jealous of my best friend who was male. He would always insisted on joining us on plans we made with just us two, and whenever I did get a chance alone I'd get pestered all night with him texting me. Got to the point he convinced himself I was cheating on him with my friend.
He's gay.
That's a tough one for a lot of guys and for some guys it's whatever. Personally, i wouldn't want my girl hanging out with another guy, even if he was gay. And i know my girl DEFINITELY doesn't want me hanging around with other girls (one on one) because it just leaves them feeling weird. She told one of her friends to workout with me once (a lesbian and im a personal trainer) but after we worked out, my girl was annoyed and a bit upset. But i got it, i understood why.
Basically what i'm saying is, it all depends on the person and the couple
It's actually very rare that gay men ONLY have sex with other men, usually they'll still occasionally have sex with the odd woman too. I can see why he wouldn't want that.
He shouldn’t have done that, I hope you broke up with him :/ hate dudes who don’t think you can be friends with boys
The spam texting and forcing himself into plans is too much, but tbh I could see myself being at least a little weirded out by my girlfriend making 1 on 1 plans with another dude. I guess it depends on the context of the relationship, but it would be something to talk through at the very least.
Damn, so many flashbacks to my ex bf, specially after the one that had to "punish" her for doing something without his permission.
My ex would do the exact same to me, except he escalated pretty fast after I said something he didn't like, firs he would get mad at me and ignore for hours, then screams at me/in public, the push me away or throw things at me for asking what was wrong, until he actually tried a LOT of time to get me half naked to the streets in the middle of the night.
He would workout very often while I wasn't even 100lbs, he did this a lot 'cause I was brainwashed by him. Took me too much time to realize but finally got over it.
Laura Sánchez: Sounds like fun!
That's horrible! I'm glad you're not with him anymore, what a psycho :(
Did you date onision by any chance?
Hope u have a great day if you read this
Thank you
I hope you break all your fingers if you read this.
@@ValawynV ok
I cant wait for the person who gets the 100th like. Your welcome❤
Thank you, the same fot you
An extremely controlling ex heckled almost all my family members for my whereabouts when I changed town. IDK how he managed to get it, contacted my superior at work, as well as my then boyfriend (now husband), telling them both how I've lied and cheated them as he Was my HUSBAND, & we've secretly got married. When he was asked about evidence, all he said was "but we are destined to be together. We are married in God's eyes." Nope. My own God has never communicated that to me, dude.
Oh I didnt realize it until the break up. I didnt even know of those types. Sociopaths and antisocial are the worst of them all. I also thought it was me for over 2 years. Turns out, I was a big time victim/target.
My ex made threats of suicide(a lot and turns out for many years before me as well), talked about killing an ex, admitted pushing someone into a traffic, threatened me with cops on false accusations, made a ton of crazy accusations, pushed me(and later denied it and made it seem like I imagined it), attacked me (also denied even after it was proven), called cops on me (for no reason), cheated on his new partner 100% (i bet cheated on me too but got no proof), tried to steal money from my account, spread lies such as I am crazy and refused to take my medication, and omg the list still goes on(I got a lot). Yet, he gets to continue this behavior because family court isnt educated properly. Even professionals say that and they are very much part of it.
He has lawyer and I dont ( single parent). He keeps on taking me to court, and I fight back however I can. So tired but Ill never give up, Ill never be a victim/target again.
No one should ever have to deal with that. ❤
Keep goin' lady!
@@tashajoykin5192 I am! I can see how some ppl lose their mind though.
Ya know sometimes I think I'm a psychopath cause of my depressive states but then I see this shit and I'm just like nah nevermind
Same for me but not because depression
Woah me too
Psychopaths don't get depressed. Lol
Psychopaths don't get depressed nor do they have the emotional tools to think about things such as you just mentioned, some people are just a tad fucked up lol
I found out I was dating a psychopath when we got back together for the third time and he told me he had saved every picture of me , screenshots of our conversations, literally anything to do with me was in an encrypted file in his computer. Luckily I got out but he was super controlling and just an overall sociopath
And it took 3 times for you to grasp that situation? Lol. /whoosh
While all of them crazy, most of them wouldnt fall under the definition of a psychopath
Psychopath is being used as a colloquial term in this instance
I realized my then bf was a psychopath, when I found out my mom had cancer and was expected to only have 9wks to live.
When I told him he only texted the word "sorry" then proceeded to avoid be until long after she'd passed claiming "I can't deal with death, talk to someone else".
He had refused to go to her funeral.
Not me cuz I've never dated, but I have a couple stories.
1- a high school friend who moved away to live in the same town as his overbearing girlfriend. It looked ok at first, until one day Facebook notified me it was the dude's birthday. I just wrote a "Happy birthday" generic message on his wall cuz I didn't know him all that well anyway, and she just freakin explodes at me. She sent me a multitude of messages claiming I had been "suspicious"...for wishing him happy birthday on his freakin birthday. She slowly took over his profile, making him stop talking to his friends, changed his username, changed his profile picture to a picture of them (his profile used to be mostly gaming related things), and now the only pictures coming up were pictures of the two of them. Then I got blocked. I later found out that she and the dude broke up, but for months, she continued to use his account that she had taken over and post old pictures of them together to trick people into thinking the two of them were still together. I haven't contacted the guy since the birthday thing (figured my few attempts at asking if he was ok were blocked by just her pretending to be him) I have no clue where he is now.
2- my dad recently broke up with his gf. I don't know why they ever dated, they're really really different. They kept splitting up, but she's always pester him and insist they get back together. My dad recently decided to end things for good. She told him a bunch of threatening stuff including saying how if he left her she'd make sure he'd never have friends again. They broke up. Now she started making stuff up, posting on Facebook about how he was supposedly abusive. She's been circulating a 10 page document of bad things about him behind his back and he has no clue what even is in yhe document. She got into contact with my mom and tried to convince her my dad was a danger to the kids. She claimed that if he picked up my sister from school, he might drive the car into the river with both of them in it. The two work at the same place, and my dad has been doing everything to make sure he works a different shift so he doesn't have to see her. Well, at some point, she decided to take a different shift, ended up running into my dad at work, and then tried to make a claim to HR that my dad was stalking/threatening her. Luckily nothing bad happened to him because he's friends with a good amount of people at his job, including his boss, and they can see through crazy ex's bs. She also called the cops claiming he had tazers (he doesn't) and gave his kids dangerous weapons like daggers (I'm 21 years old and he gave me a pocket knife for my birthday) and that he was letting her son play with guns (nerf guns maybe, he sold his old hunting rifle a while back and that thing was always locked away in a safe hidden in some obscure corner and I literally didn't know he even owned a gun until years and years after he got one. I knew he had a permit, but didn't know about the gun because he was sure to keep it away from the kids). My dad has only ever been fantastic and caring to me and my sisters and it hurts me to see someone try to ruin his life like this, esspecially considering he already had signs of depression and the ex gf 100% knows about that.
My ex bf would stand at the bathroom door and drag his nails slowly over the door when I was in there...he would also just stand there bc I could see his defined shadow on the floor.... He also would not let my son or I turn on the lights to go to the bathroom...we could only use a night light. Also, every single thing that came out of his mouth was made into a sexual innuendo... I mean anything! He would accuse me of fu@king or having fu@ked everyone I knew... Male or female.
There's so much more, but we left him cuz he is messed up!
Moments before seeing this video ,i was cursing myself for not being lucky in love but now i feel more happy and lucky to be single than have these horrible experiences
Lol dude live
I certainly hope that last one pressed charges wtf!!
I dated someone who proposed to me 6 times when we were both 18,played with my trust issues on multiple occasions,wouldn't let me work so they'd "take care of me",would give me really extravagant gifts despite me not being comfortable with that and when I finally broke up with them,I got hit with a "well,you only ever dated me for my money" LOL BITCH
😊 I am sorry to be completely off topic, but omg, you're so pretty~ 💞💞💞
@@GermAntibody thank you,you're an angel 💗💗💗
I've got plenty of stories about crazy exes, so I guess I'll start from the beginning. So for the first one, I honestly don't know how true this is, but I've heard rumors that my first girlfriend in my sophomore year of high school wrote an erotic novel about us after I dumped her. Another girl I tried dating sophomore year never showed up for the date, which I later found out was because she was sleeping with her ex, and she acted like she did nothing wrong and that it was perfectly acceptable to do that. My last ex-girlfriend from my senior year of high school managed to convince me that I was being abusive and controlling for trying to get her to stop drinking despite the fact that she'd always try to get buzzed to "relieve her anxiety" which was a major red flag of alcohol abuse. Yeah, I think it's pretty obvious that I don't have terribly great taste in women, at least I'm graduating in a few months and I can at least hope I end up dating someone halfway decent this time.
good luck fam
I've struggled with anxiety since I can remember and alcohol definitely makes it easier. I wish I could just smoke weed but that makes it worse. I'm not an alcoholic yet but I'll probably be one day.
Damn you have some fucked up taste.
Mush Room would be easier to go to a therapist.
Unless it's a pump and dump situation, I'd recommend you to be a little more picky
That last one made me cringe. Shouldn't have watched this in the bathroom. Not sure if I can unclench.
But clenching is what makes it hurt more
Clenching makes it hurt lol
My uncle meet his wife in an asylum. They were both patients btw. They both got released but she went back after they had two kids and got released again only to go back because she stabbed her daughter in the shoulder. He had been hospitalized when it happened although he never actually got out of the hospital
When he carved my name (albeit shallowly carved, not deeply) into his forearm as a "reminder not to cut himself anymore"
He also wrote in sharpie "do it for her."
romantic
@@codyy769
Oh man, toooottaalllyy 😂😂😂
He was my first bf too, so I had no idea how to even process that besides ignoring it completely
SAiKA I thought you’re name was albeit shallowly lmfao, but was he crazy it seemed like he cared for you.
@@flickfn5281 Lol!!! I fixed that, thank you xD
You do know the gauging of the depth makes it seem as if you were let down it wasnt "properly done" i think the term would be. But in misinterpreting that, right? Heh...
I have stories but man...I’m just so tired I don’t even have the strength to type how crazy the stories are. Just know it’s manipulation and gaslight from someone who has bpd.
Ouch, I have been there. Admittedly, said BPD person was my mom.
Raptor Charly I’m sorry friend. I hope that you are doing well. It is hard growing up with a negative life impact like that but there is help and there is hope.
I have BPD and I am afraid I will become a horrible abusive person because of that.
@@thatbitchnoemie That's your choice. You'll become a horrible person the instant you tell yourself 'well I have BPD so it's not my fault if I hurt this person'.
Noémie sips tea Don’t worry. I have BPD too and it’s possible to maintain a healthy relationship as long as you, and I can’t stress this enough, COMMUNICATE CONSTANTLY!! You can’t let your feelings stew and then blow up on your partner. If you start to feel insecure, angry or anxious, instead of doing something manipulative as soon as you feel it , talk to them about it and your BPD, the ways it affects your thinking. If they genuinely care for you they will understand that you can’t control these feelings and listen. It also helps to keep a journal. The fact that you’re worried you might hurt someone shows that you at least have a conscience and you want to be a good person. Hang in there, and don’t worry. BPD has a disgusting stigma attached to it but we’re not actually all as horrible as the world makes it seem 💕
I opened up to him, sobbing, about my past experiences with sexual assault, and he laughed and said "bullshit." Eventually apologized but not before berating me for being a "liar"
When people don't realize cartoons and anime characters don't act how normal people act most cartoon and anime moments.
I've noticed that anime tend to stick closer to real life psychopathy than Hollywood...
Also, it's funny how many wish some of the homicidal anime girls to be real...
@@edi9892 It could also be people acting like the characters they favor from anime. Like how someone tends to be more like the people they hang around.
What?
There was a few things that seemed like kinda suspicious, but what made me know was this one thing he said. We were cuddling and talking when he just went quiet. I was wondering what he was thinking about I thought it might be some lewd shit. I asked him what he was thinking about he’s like you don’t want to know. I’m like OOOOO some real lewd shit so I insist he should tell me. He tells me that he was just thinking about killing me. Let’s just say I’m crazy, but he was something else. I was scared he’d do it he owned knives and a sword and a battle hammer. He’d accuse me of cheating and said every guy I was friends with had a crush with me. Even my gay guy friend. No he’s not making an acception for me -_-. When I broke up with him he tried to blackmail me and called me a slut.
Dat Roy he needs some help like he seems like he has mental issues, like thinking about killing you and accusing you like that, good you left him
Talking Controller Yeah I tried to get him to go see a therapist but he said he couldn’t afford it
Not defending the homicidal maniac, but just because some dude says their gay, doesn't mean all bets are off. A lot of perverts will use that as an excuse just to get close to you or see you naked. Seen it happen.
The craziest part is taking a girl serious who has "guy friends" you dont even deserve a man who would kill you. Worthless in a relationship you are
@@organicorgins576 Wtf man.
She had a literal thousand yard stare, like if you looked at a photo of Rasputin it was that kind of crazy
Constantly went on about the gory details of historical genocides and listed people she wanted to ‘get rid of’ including the entire British Royal Family and her own mother
Blatantly lied about her mother’s marital status
Triggered my PTSD and successfully cut me off from most of my friends at the time
Constantly guilted me into staying and used her disabilities as an excuse
Stalked me on discord until I finally blocked her and moved on
Rose, (not her real name, privacy reasons) I hope you’re getting serious help and you won’t hurt anyone else
wonter birb I know I’m sorry I’m just scared about her seeing this comment and coming after me again
Also I feel like I abused her 90% of the time
I find her killing list kinda funny. "Yeah I wanna murder the Roayl Family and also my mother" sounds so casual.
I wasn’t dating this girl, i was just sharing an apartment with her but I found out she was telling her family we were a couple, I didn’t realise this until I went to her family’s house for Christmas dinner and was introduced to the aunties and uncles as the boyfriend by her parents, she brushed it off and said they must have just assumed it and then one day she asked me to pick her up from a work party and I was introduced to the work colleagues as the boyfriend by her boss, things started to make sense that it was her, also one day I got a screenshot of my Facebook status from her where I was having a normal conversation publicly with a female and the text with the screenshot said “WHO IS SHE????” I told her it was none of her business and that night she brought a guy home with her to make me jealous... strange!. Eventually one night I told her out straight we will never be a couple and stormed out of the house and went to my mothers, when I went back to the apartment the next day I found out that she had rang her father and told him I had assaulted her so he would come over and change the locks so I couldn’t get back into the apartment... it was a lucky escape for me in the end!
Hmm let's see....
-There was whip-its girl.
-There was lie about her age, then threaten to call the cops on me if I didn't date her girl.
-There was Daddy issues girl. (girls... )
-There was, "friend-zone" girl, that would tell a guy that she liked him, and then about all these "creepy nice guys" she had to friend-zone. Little did I know I was one of them. She did this to like 10 guys having them all believe she was interested in them, but couldn't date while still in college. I saw through that shit (took me a bit) and just stopped hanging out with her. Next thing I know, 6 different guys are telling me to "stay away" from her, until I ask them questions and make them talk to each other. Her manipulation and lies fell eventually when beta number one bought her 400 dollars worth of goods, and she tossed the ones she didn't need right into the garbage (including valentines flowers.)
-There was... "If you choke me until I pass out or hit me until I can't move, I won't tell anyone on you" girl. She was nice, but I prefer sadistic play to be a little safer than that.
-There was control freak girl, text message 9000 girl, and "what are you doing" at 3:31am call girl, all different but all classic narcissistic, paranoid, low self-esteem emotionally stunted girl-women.
Finally my wife, she has two personalities randomly cries, and lights things on fire- she's the most sane woman I've ever met.
Which personality do you prefer?
you have lead a full life
Damn you have some fucked up taste. You’re like women who like bad boys.
@Wordiator Ladiator Out of an 18 year time span, 8 psychos seems pretty low to me honestly.
@Connor Nicholson - Thank you, it was full of hardships, ups, and downs.
@Inferno Supreme - One is super clingy and immature - the other is cold and aloof- so they balance out well. I'm just happy when she smiles.
@Lilliz91 - Um, thank you? Pretty sure that's just women in general. Even the ones that say "no drama" or they're not crazy, they all have issues of some sort. Also, it's not that women like "bad boys" they just prefer excitement over boredom.
Anyway thanks for the replies guys, I'm older and wiser now. And yes I have gotten a bit more picky. In fact I won't even date anyone unless they pass my wife's approval first!
@Wordiator Ladiator No doubt, if we as a society conitinue with online dating, we need like a rating system of some type. Especially one that comes with red flags for the less experienced.
1:00 DUDE, would you mind stopping your girlfriend from invading another person's private messages right in front of you ?
or nah, you're more the passive type ...
Idk, it didn't seem that bad what she was doing...
@@incorruptiblemikeadams6947 mine Still does that and even worse! Hides shit, steals, lies, changes phone numbers like for instance Dennis ( we dont know anyone by Dennis) come to find out it was denise! If you're gonna search look through my shit I have every right to go through yours! If I confront you about it and you get pissed and walk away from me ( I know your cheating) womens intuition! Fucking liars! Ya married to one? 25 yrs of Fucked in the membrane!
That last one tho started at 100 real quick
Please don't put 'Psychopath' in the title when the original question said 'psychos' and was clearly just colloquially referring to crazy people. Spreading misinformation about psychopathy isn't good m8.
Talia Crawford We wouldn’t want to offend the psychopaths.
@@gircakes They're people too.
@jd123ab Shall I get you the definition of a person? Just because you seem to hold some childish grudge against them for god knows what reason doesn't mean they deserve to have people misinformed of their neurological differences.
@jd123ab if you've lost a loved one to murder then I'm really sorry man, I am. But hating a group for the actions of a single person is only going to hurt yourself in the end. It's misplaced hatred, be angry at people for what they do, not who they are.
@@gircakes I'd do the same thing if someone was misusing 'autism', 'bipolar', 'depression' or 'anxiety' etc. I think it's important that people understand the terms they're using from a logical standpoint.
I was the psycho and I always regret it.
I madly fell in love with a man and flew halfway across the world to meet his parents. I didn't have a lot of money at the time so it was a big decision. I even asked him if he's sure it's worth it. shortly into the trip he told me he didn't love me as much anymore and I spent the rest of that trip depressed as hell and I wasn't myself anymore. I was irritable and fragile because the whole time I pretended that I was happy not to put so much stress on his parents.
They deemed me mentally unstable and too culture shocked and to second guess dating me to their son. Which he broke it off with me as soon as I arrived home. And I agreed to at least be his friend.
But I told him I'm still upset about the whole thing and I'm still in love with him, and starting acting desperate for a do-over and he refused.
He then said over and over he's going to find another girlfriend and marry her. It made me sad at first and I straight burst into tears Everytime. It was almost everyday I received this taunting message and eventually I threatened suicide if he did find someone else. Yeah it was a threat and I regret it. It was a back and forth for so long. So much I started to think about it seriously.
He eventually blocked me off of everything and I'm still struggling with suicidal thoughts. I really hate that I hurt him and I hope he's happy. I really really hope he is happy.
He manipulated you into that behaviour... What sort of a scumbag tells you he's falling out of love with you on the way to meet his parents in another country? He did that deliberately knowing that you were trapped with him for the duration of the flight and visit with his parents so it was highly likely that you would not be reacting to things the same as before.
@@consciousbeing1188 I still think it's my fault... I should have never threatened him with anything and put down the phone... Now I don't know if I'll ever speak to him again and I really want to.
I still think about it and it hurts to the point where I think suicide is the only way out...
ok.. go back and read your own words.. read them from an objective point-of-view... as if you're an outsider. Do you notice the things he did to manipulate you?
Not just what I have already mentioned... there is also the fact that he obviously pressured you to go with him even though he knew you couldn't really afford it... he reassured you that it was worth it to go with him and then told you on the way there that he was falling out of love with you (if he ever really loved you in the first place.. sounds to me like he was just using you)... He did that knowing that you would internalise the feelings you had and they would manifest into unusual behavior... That's a ploy to destabilize you and thus, give him further validation for wanting to leave you which is what he really had planned to do even before you got on the plane.
He also repeatedly told you that he's going to meet someone else and marry them because he knew that in your depressed state that you would threaten suicide.... but he still wanted to be "friends"? would that be so he can keep you hanging on to him because he likes being a martyr?
obviously I don't have all the details... but based on what you've said so far... it appears that he INTENDED to hurt you and was just good at manipulating you into feeling like you had hurt him.
@@consciousbeing1188 I didn't see it that way
@@ethangold2525 - In your depressed state, it doesn't surprise me that you didn't see it that way. But you have to know this... you are NOT psycho... you were subjected to some very sick-minded emotional manipulations just so he could feel better about dumping you. That is an oft used tactic by those who lack the intestinal fortitude to own the responsibility of a break-up. It comes from a place of self-righteousness on his part. What better way to feel better about himself about breaking up with you than to convince you that he broke it off because of your emotional fragility that HE fermented?
Saying they had dreams of you dying is something that narcissists do before they kill you
Not kidding, that's a sign of murderous narcissists
4:30 that’s extreme narcissist behavior.
My ex back in high school screamed at me in front of my entire gym class because I called her a psycho on her facebook page. Turned out she had asbergers. She also didnt know how to delete things on her facebook page so she told me to delete it. It ended up with the school giving us a no contact restraining order. I moved to the other side of the country after that.
A year later she told me on the phone that she had a miscarriage and that she wanted to kill herself. I was genuinely concerned and tried calling her mother. After that things kind of worked out, except that she continued following all of my social media for the next 3-4 years.
That tv guy was definitely a psychopath, holy shit, I would have left him on the spot, but not before rearranging the living room one more time
a psychopath is a person that doesnt feel empathy. A psycho is a delusional person
@@yuibkys3522 Well, he doesn't seem to feel empathy in this scenario, lashing out at the person and inflicting unnecessarily dramatic punishments without any regard to that persons quality of life
potaterjim well yes and no obviously an person that is quite mentaly insane has symptomes of psychopathy
I dated this guy when I was in high school for a couple weeks. After our second date he asked for nudes and I gently turned him down. Dude got super angry and broke up with me. Came back a few days later begging for forgiveness. I was skeptical but still decided to give it a shot. Big mistake. A few days later he proposes with ring and all and rambles on about how we should elope. I didn't even know the guy! Yep, broke up with him then and there. Never saw him again
@Burner Fire Lol, no nothing like that. He was in a different high school, so when we broke up he had no reason to come to mine to see me now. Also I was in my senior year so I graduated and moved to college a few months later. I guess that was one good thing about him, he left me alone when I wanted him to.
I realized that my ex was a psycho the day he tried to kill me, then started crying and told me about all the animals he had killed without his parents knowing.
I went out a couple times with this very unstable guy with violence and anger issues, I only found out about it when he had a complete meltdown because I didn’t cancel a flight back to my country that I had bought and looked forward to for months, to hangout with him that night, we had literally gone out twice, I could hear him punching things while screaming at me over the phone.
Scariest part about him, when I met him he worked for the highway patrol, and the last thing I knew is that he became a police officer, how did anybody thought he would be fit to carry a gun everyday as part of his job is beyond me, I am honestly terrified to ever cross paths with him again.
What is his name ?
lee lo LoL why would I disclose the name of someone I literally said I am afraid to ever encounter again? If you think this is someone you may know, all I’ll disclose is that this happened in the state of California and as far as I know, he is still an officer. I guess all I can say is that I hope he realized he had a problem and got help for it.
Wow.. a mentally unstable cop with anger and violence issues... I'm shocked (sarc) .. You just described half of the LEOs in the US.
@@Em09221 I don't know, maybe to help other people, who knows! Thank you for the info, those kind of people don't realise they have a problem ! 😔
Me: *14*
Him, a 21 year old man: _its free real estate_
doodleybee stop
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Ok messed up situation but the way you told it 😂
Starbee it be like that sometimes 😂
A roommate of ours was dating a woman. She would be totally normal, go from the porch, into the house, and suddenly the cops would show up. She'd been perfectly normal on the porch (living room, etc) in front of all of us. Apparently, she'd gone into the house, smashed herself in the face with something, and called the police claiming her BF had beaten her. He'd been out on the porch the whole time, with 5 other people. 😲 (She did this sort of thing so much, the police got to know everyone by name.)
I later found out that when she'd get mad at any of us, she'd use their toothbrush to clean the toilet, or stick it in various places "the sun doesn't shine". We all got fully tested for STDs, bought new toothbrushes, and literally had to lock them up in a cash safe.
I'm too forgiving for my own good, and thought I could change him. This was over the span of a year and a half, and he was extremely manipulative. Now, onto the list.
1. He told me he knew how to kill his ex, and proceeded to tell me in detail. I thought it was a super awkward joke, and insisted that he didn't actually want to kill his ex. (There were children involved and his goal was to end up with the kids.)
2. He and a our mutual best friend were drinking and playing videogames. He started being a bit of an asshole, because he's an abusive alcoholic. So our friend said "I'm going home. I'll talk to you when ypu're sober." Which had my ex fly into a rage, and hold the friend up to the wall, by his throat. That in and of itself, is crazy. I cone our of the room, and jumped on my ex's back. My goal was to distract said ex, get his attention, and talk him out of a situation that could lose us both, our best friend. The friend was also twice my ex's size, but super pacifist. But I also worried he might snap, and what might happen if and when he did. Anyway, my ex threw me off his back, and I kept jumping back on. The whole time, I was calmly telling him to stop. So the last time, he threw me off, turned around, grabed the shoe rack, and hit me with it. I'm one of those "too nice for my own good" types, so when I snap, I full on rage black out. Needless to say, two men had to hold me back from attacking my ex.
*This was when I learned I was pregnant.*
3. He was out drinking, and came home to grab a knife and leave again. When he got back home again, the knife was gone and he told me he had killed someone. (And before you ask, once I left him. I DID tell the police of this. Of course, it was months later and there was nothing they could do. My ex was also a pathological liar. So I never knew when he was telling the truth or not. This time, I was pretty scared of him.
4. He told me he was going to out diet pills in my food without me knowing... *while I was breastfeeding my son* ! I flipped out on him for this one. I full on told him that if he did, and something happened to my son, I would assign full blame to him, and never trust him again. He relented, had he not, I would have left him at that point. My son's life is my top priority.
》 *I left him because, on top of all the crazy, and all of the mental, emotional, verbal, financial and sexual abuse, he promised to clean the house while I was out with my son. He slept all day instead. That was the moment that I realized he was never going to change. I also realized that I didn't want my son to grow up with that as his model on which to behave himself around women.
5. When I fled (stereotypical "with nothing but my baby, and the clothes on our backs") he called me no less than 10 times in a row, leaving messages one after the other. When I still didn't respond, he borrowed a mutual friend's phone, and called me on that.
6. I went to a doctor appointment with my son, and his friend was waiting out front for me. My son and I stayed on the bus, and called the doctor. We told them not to tell my ex when I had an appointment, and rescheduled.
When I came back, there was no sign of the friend. I had my boyfriend (the best friend from a few stories ago) with me this time. When we got into the building, my ex's friend was there again, but this time *so was my ex*. I got scared, and ran right for the bathroom, and locked my son anf I inside. My ex was being SO verbally abusive that he was then escorted out if the building by security. Turns out, because he was using profanity as his primary language, Children's Aid was called. My ex was so crazy, and unpredictible, that I was told "if you go back to him, you are in real danger of losing your son." By that point, Id was so fed up with my ex. So I got a restraining order!
I haven't seen him sinced.
Tl:DR: my abusive, crazy, ex, was crazy.
There were many things but this one is simple to understand:
There'd been a girl in my life for 6 months. I wanted to end it but she said she needed time (also, she got really wild in bed sometimes).
I had told her my parents were in town and I'll be with them for a couple of days, so you know, be cool.
She texts me 'I've caught you red handed' during one of those 2 days. I had to wade through 15-20 mins of her anger and aggression to realise that she had somehow accessed my facebook account. Gone through it for 6-7 hours (her words) and found a flirty chat from 4 years ago and that was evidence of me cheating on her. I'd known her for 6 months.
There were many things before that but this was the final straw 'for giving her time'. Completely crazy.
Edit: I got to know a few things about her after things ended from a common friend and that is when i was convicned I'd had a 6 month episode with a textbook sociopath.
Ummmm......I think mine might've killed the girl before me and an innocent guy went to jail for it. Cause his mask fell quickly. And before I knew it he was asking if I wanted to go to hell driving 100 mph on a curvy road. Saying things such as he wanted to get supplies at work and have me sniff it to see if it'll kill me. The worst one is when he was cheating I grabbed his phone and the second I touched it he grabbed my arm and slammed me into this dash of his truck face first with no apology. Told me if I go to the cops he'd break my arm.....just holding my arm acting like he'd break it
nina 22 There is a lot to unpack here. Hope the dude is in jail/psych ward now.
I was in highschool and my family was leaving the country temporarily for my father's job. My ex told me I had to run away before we left or he'd kill himself. Luckily he cheated on me 3 months before the trip because I'm easily manipulated by people I care about and I don’t know what would've happened.
All of these make me feel incredibly, incredibly lucky to be dating someone who genuinely cares about the wellbeing of others.
DeathbyPixels good for you 💜
I complained about how I hated working with one of my coworkers who is a female. Because of that, she cussed me out and told all of her friends that I “Wouldn’t stop bringing up the same girl over and over again”. She doesn’t like when I talk about about any girl other than herself.
Why isn’t Veronica talking about J.D. on this reddit page?
is heathers suddenly just really popular again?? i keep seeing it eVERYWHERE
btw nice webkinz c:
We were at a park playing catch with a football. I called her name and threw her the ball. It hit her in the chest, and she didn’t say anything at all and stormed off. She walked very far away, and I started wondering where she was going or if she would be safe. I called her name and she became furious. She came over and started cussing me out saying that I threw it “when I knew she wasn’t ****ing looking” on purpose. She kept going on and on cussing me out to the point where I was sobbing and told her I was going home and started to walk home. She walked with me, but got even more angry at me that I wanted to go home.
Freaked out because i semi-flirted with one of her friends (wich she doesn't like that much) and had not told her about It.... Happened 3 years before i've met her.
Tried to pull the "i'm pregnant" card after we broke up.
Weirdly i still had feelings for her until last year. Deffo would not get back with her but had feelings. Hope she's doing better with her new guy tho.
Women...my man was so crazy that he didn't talk to me for 2 days...Men...my woman was so crazy she tried to kill me, destroy my career, sleep with my friends,slash my tires,poison my dog, harass my parents,file false police reports & burned my clothes......
Not someone I dated, but a friend of mine. Also not crazy, just really weird.
When we had first met he was normal, then he started getting all clingy. He made me promise he was my best friend over my best friend who I’d spent my entire life with (who coincidentally turned out to be toxic,) one time he told me, “I wish you were my sister, but I’m glad you’re not because I also want you to be ‘something else’”, one time my dad and I agreed to hang out with him and he spent the car ride bragging about how much money his older brother made, he offered to come to my house and teach me piano (and he knew my piano was in my bedroom) then proceeded to call me creepy because I talked to him regularly.
There is no such thing as "just friends" between the genders. You will learn this in time.
Andres No so just because I am a girl I can’t be just friends with boys because some are attracted to me and I can be attracted to them?
@@andresno2028 That's not true at all. I don't have a crush on every guy friend I have, and they don't all have crushes on me either. People have different standards for friends than they do for romantic interests, so different sexes being friends is completely possible.
@@andresno2028 This IS possible in the event of a childhood friendship. My neighboors ( 2 sisters ) are my best friends since I was 5. There isn't any tension, and I have a GF whom Iove very much that isn't one of the two. Same for the oldest sister with her BF. The third one is currently not interested in having a relationship, which I can understand.
So yeah, Idk if I'm 1 in a million, but there you go.
Andres No Damn I guess I’ll never have friends since I’m also into girls
I dated a girl for about a year. Lots of red flags but I was super naive and didn’t know they were red flags. Anyway, I got my first big boy job a year ago, there were three paid orientation classes in the HR wing before starting. I was in one and after our 30 minute lunch I wrapped up a convo with her saying I couldn’t talk anymore and that I’d call her once I’m out. She thought I was cheating on her and that I was lying about the job. After about an hour I hear yelling in the hallway, the speaker and the whole room of 20 people stop and look at the door. I turned to a ghost, was praying she didn’t yell my name. Had to talk to security afterward. No one that was in the room knew it was my ex thank god.
Not really an "incident" but she told me she broke and went back up with her ex 7 times like it was a normal thing. I stopped there.
I had a friend who, I wouldn't say psychopath (but he let this thing affect his life terribly), got dumped by a girl he was dating for two months, already thinking of marriage and having a future with her. He was so devastated that it took him 4-5 years (8th grade to 12th) to get over it. I tried to help him out but after hearing his sob story and how he refuses to change, you get pretty fed up. Even on graduation, he wanted to say "one final goodbye" to her, to which I said "ew man jeez"
The guy tried to bomb our school after killing three students that had done me wrong.
His name was Jason Dean.
Did he serenade you at a 7/11 and tell you your love was God?
@@deadgirlwalking5811 OMG HoW dID YoU KnOW?!?
One girl I went on a couple dates with in high school would always get mad whenever I got on the bus with my *sister...*
She also hated that I paid more attention to my suicidal (female) friend than her. _That_ was what made me call it off on the spot.
This reminds of Barney's hot to crazy scale.
Also the last one. Wth. That was crazy.
9:00, reminded me of my ex a bit. Navy veteran that got convicted and later sent to prison for five years after 3 charges of domestic violence against his own wife. He lied to me so I wouldn't know the truth. He also lied about being sterile. He always accused me of cheating even though I was clearly working(my mom can vouch for this since we work together). He said he couldn't even trust me because I forgot information about a stupid CD album release. We broke up, but guess who's fugging Pregnant? Keeping the baby, but he will never know about this child. No way I'm bringing up a child with a pathological abusive liar.
Good. Killing babies is more evil.
Well of course, it's not the baby's fault he was the way he was🤷
@@xandria1728 yes, because babies are innocents living in a violent cruel world.
@@xandria1728 meaning I am agreeing with you.
She told me she had a kid. At 13 me being 14.
Was a lie.
Said it was her sister.
oh,, oh my
My thought is kind of like, if these degenerates can have a significant other and it still lasts for years, then I can and I’m not a psycho.
_¿Eres tonto?_ You just gave me hope, my guy. You have a beautiful day.
That last one made me sweat.
Um so I was dating this guy, long distance relationship so already difficult. He quite often would ask what I was doing that day, who I was with, if I had been with other guys (or girls cuz he new that I'm bi) and constantly pressure me into sending revealing pictures knowing full well I'm underage. I never sent anything, (he was a year older than me).
So already red flags were coming up but it was my first relationship that lasted longer than a week. So I was talking to him and he was doing his usual clingy thing.... And then he started BRAGGING ABOUT BEIMG IN TROUBLE WITH THE POLICE. Turns out some guy mildly annoyed my (ex)boyfriend and that became my ex slashing this random dudes chest and arms with a knife. He almost killed a dude. Then I found out about other people that he almost murdered and yeah.... I cut him out of my life completely after that.
everybody: "year"
robot voice: "yer"
Everyone in the comments is asking why no one is talking about the last one while literally everyone is talking abt the last one
when you use the word "literally" out of context
He ate a frog alive, fully conscious about it's suffering
A fucking frog!!!
That's a little disgusting. I also imagine they don't taste well if not prepared properly.
@@MK_Grafik he is a schizophrenic. And also, he decapitated all mice he was catching with mouse traps (he had infestation). And painting with his own blood. And he was sending me a lot of pictures of it all.
@Laura Birdwell yes, it is. I am absolutely amazed how I was able to stay with him for 3 years and only then tell myself "he's fucking crazy, leave him"
Fffuuuuuccccckkkkkk that's gross...like did try to swallow it...did he cut it into pieces....blegh
When everyone tells you you need to be in a relationship and then you see stuff like this.
My ex gf put poison in my food because she thought i want to end our relationship
Spoilers: I survive and end that relationship
Did you go to the police? Wtf
@@Mr11kankan if I report that to the police they will do nothing, in my country is like "so... a woman try to kill you, eh? Yeah yeah... please close the door when you exit the building"
My guy friend followed me into the quiet study area of the library, then when we got lunch, he was upset that I had ignored him for a couple hours (because God forbid I assume someone in the quiet study area wants to study quietly.)
Let me emphasize, I never once asked or expected him to come with me.
I am a sociopath and can confirm that #3 is actually psychopathic, not sociopathic behaviour.
Have been with my girlfriend for over a year and never actually shouted at her, even when she did at me. We tend to be more subtle in our arguments.
Kudos for self awareness. I suggest cannabis as remedy. I have same tendencies and it helps.
My ex was very good at conditioning and manipulating, and I was in this relationship for almost two years, within this time he did lots of messed up stuff. He groped me in my sleep. Once I was in the hospital for a fit of five seizures, I asked him to come visit me and he promised. He never showed up. When I told him it had upset me he got mad at me because he “had done so much for me” me and I was “exhausting”. He did come see me when I got home and I expect this is why he was so angry with me- because he thought I was selfish maybe. He lied to me about how much he smoked/used other illegal substances and I’m still not sure how much of any of the things he told me were true and which were not. Up until the time we broke up I whole heartedly believed him, and now I realize so many things don’t make sense. He hid from me that he had taken LSD, smoked cigarettes, and consumed alcohol (we are underage) many times. He did confess some of this to me after we were apart which I appreciate. He told me many times he would kill himself or that his family was moving.. that his parents were divorcing. He said things like this so often I don’t know if any of them were real because there was no evidence other than I took his word because I loved him. I am a very affectionate person. While we dated he told me sex dreams he had about another girl, giving her oral sex. He also expressed to me that if he were not dating me he would be dating one of my friends- in essence telling me he also was attracted to her. Two days after he and I split , he made out with that very same girl’s twin. This is even more upsetting because I had just lost almost all my friends and I felt she was my only friend left. He would say sexual things about me, blatantly, in public in front of many people. Things about how he couldn’t wait to rearrange my insides, etc. I am someone who would much rather be private about those things, but my reputation changed while dating him. I expressed to him my discomfort and he said he understood, however later that night he teased me in front of maybe 20 friends, calling me petty and such. I cried and he got upset at me. I truly believed he had a heart and good intentions in him. I kind of still do. But it’s hard. A few weeks ago he decided to tell me I’m a controlling bitch obsessed with mind games who only wants control because my parents don’t give it to me, who tries to fuck him over every ten seconds. I just can’t believe all of it it’s so much to take it you know
when he told me hes a diagnosed sociopath. then filmed himself during electro therapy.
he also told me he had killed 10 men. but im entirely sure it was a schizophrenic delusion.
and when i once asked him about suspicious things he did, he ghosted me for 7 months saying i argue too much and blah blah blah, of course he gaslighted me too. (we were in an LDR).
i was a stupid child, now im with a very lovely guy who talks rly crazy shit sometimes but hes the best lol.
Unfortunately I actually have a few stories. I remember a specific incident with one of my exes (who was the one who cheated at the beginning of the relationship-) who had to constantly call. My father was in the hospital about 30 mins away from our house (because he worked around that area-), and I was with him at the hospital. We got home very late and my then boyfriend decided to call (it was like 3 in the morning or something). Lmao lets just say my mother was not happy about that at all.
Fast forward a few years and I get into another relationship with a guy. He is constantly trying to play the "nice guy" and trying to make sure I'm not around anybody else. I remember an incident where my best friend was over and he called to start a fight about how he didn't want me looking at male models for my art studies (because I was doing a lot of nude studies). Fast forward a little while and I lose my dog (who was my true best friend that I had known for more than half my life-) and he tells me that there's no reason to care about her. Not to mention (beforehand) he cheated and then told me I was being too demanding by saying I wasnt comfortable with him doing things like that.
Most recently (and honestly the worst one by far-) my ex was absolutely toxic. I had known him for a few years and he seemed completely normal- we had a friendly relationship. But then he started depending on me and we were soon in a 'romantic' relationship. He then proceeded to threaten me, himself, and my family. He would keep me on the phone for hours and hours and when I would fall asleep he would scream so that I woke up. He would often act as if he were killing himself (we were on the phone so i couldnt see him or anything--) and act like he just killed someone else, pushing me to the point to where I broke down multiple times within the span of only 3 months. He soon moved in and wouldn't let me leave his side or would force me to kiss him or would throw something at me when I tried to leave. He woke me up multiple times (after like 3 hours of sleep) by banging on my window in the mornings. He also faked having seizures and when he went to the hospital, he decided that because we were away from my parents and his friend left (after I asked him not to-) he was going to "take advantage" of me. Later that day his friend admitted to seeing child pornography on his phone and luckily he's been in jail since and he has his sentencing soon.
Maybe it may not be so bad compared to some of the things people have gone through but I honestly got so lucky. My heart honestly goes out to all the people who have had to deal with these kinds of people..
"Maybe it wasn't so bad". You really are a fool if you genuinely think that. Abuse is abuse. It shouldn't have happened to you. What you describe is awful and you didn't deserve to live it.
@@IceFireofVoid honestly reading this comment means alot. Lately its been super hard mentally on me because of the most recent events and I have honestly been telling myself that because it could have been so much worse, but you're right-- abuse is certainly still abuse, and nobody should have to ever go through it.
Thank you. It means a lot more than I could ever really express to hear that.
I had a girlfriend while in the army, she asked me to go out one night. I couldn’t because I had work to catch up on but I went to the store to pick up some microwave dinner. She was there and was apparently screaming my name from the other side of the building( there was a lot of people and this area was like a mini mall so very loud) I never heard her but she ended up telling my command that I had been taking mdma( which I hadn’t) wasted a whole day having to get tested. Sadly I had to deal with her presence for another few months