My Wife Is Bossy - Relationship Struggles Part 2

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  • @thebonnicks
    @thebonnicks  ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When Kemar was talking with the elder about the ac and house being cold, Kemar said his wife asked if he wasn’t cold but he meant to say his wife asked if he was not hot.

  • @Gina1_
    @Gina1_ ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is normal! Us women tend to be bossy direct. When we get older in age we have no nonsense tolerance for foolish behavior. We don't mean no harm. We naturally are like this. 😂😂😂❤

    • @FunandBudget
      @FunandBudget ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naturally! I was born a boss...lol

  • @JourneywithBobbsey
    @JourneywithBobbsey ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kemar you are a real man i wish you all tge best in your realationship. Katayah just keep your husband happy that whats matter.

  • @77cpolissaint
    @77cpolissaint ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can’t wait to see Katonya’s struggles.

  • @claudiablake7746
    @claudiablake7746 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love you guys so much … Kemar may be younger than her but it’s nice to see how open he is to learning and discussing things to improve his relationship and he has a good wife who is open to listen to the negative and positives ….wish you both the very best in your relationship

  • @Black_Enigma82
    @Black_Enigma82 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow!!Tanya's melanin is popping...Your skin looks radiant,beautiful

    • @BloomingRose60
      @BloomingRose60 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Simply lovely ain't she... 💗🔥

    • @thebonnicks
      @thebonnicks  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you❤️

  • @trishsassy9042
    @trishsassy9042 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please do a video on your struggles girl. We sure have a lot too.

  • @wegotthenewsforthemood6773
    @wegotthenewsforthemood6773 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love to watch you both. You can see the love is real. Kemal you have a wife that loves you (bossy is a women ting….I’m a woman and also and at times I tend to be bossy). Tanya you have a great husband as well and the love is real. So guess what guys …You are a big deal..period. Keep doing what you are doing. Love to watch you both and we need more videos.

  • @aljoetraore
    @aljoetraore ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kemar age is only a number ,you have a beautiful loving wife..Stay bless🙏🙏

  • @Secxysauce
    @Secxysauce ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love you guys and I learned in 24y of marriage that compromising means a lot! My husband is from the Caribbean and I'm AA and we definitely had to learn at the beginning. Since relocating to the Caribbean many years ago I also learned his culture. So yes it takes time patience and compromising. I love it here the best to the both of you ❤❤

  • @mdl9096
    @mdl9096 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The intro music is great!

  • @valourempress1901
    @valourempress1901 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kemar I am a 58 yr old woman and I love how you talk about your love for Katania. Just be patient and both of you continue to love upon each other. Love covers a multitude of sin. Nuh watch nuh face and nuh listen to di crowd. Respect always, both ways!

  • @fruggoalmil3563
    @fruggoalmil3563 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know y'all both speaking English. I get fascinated how it sounds so different and y'all understand each other. I not into age mess. Age just a number. But language of the same with different tones is fascinating.

  • @suspense14
    @suspense14 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂😂 that would be me and my husband, we fight each time we have a project going😂😂, I always say things can be done in many ways and get the same result. I don't mean a physical fight ...llooooll😅😅😅😅😅. We have an age gap relationship as well and it's not the gap that causes problems he says I want things done bam bam done at once also 😂😂😂

  • @STORYTIME-VIBE
    @STORYTIME-VIBE ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s how I tend to be, I thought it was a problem with me but as I spend more time around my in-laws, my mother-in-law is the same way with her husband; I now believe it’s a woman thing. Blessings to you and your beautiful wife ❤

  • @BloomingRose60
    @BloomingRose60 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Black Love Ministry!💗💗💗 I'll let someone else say it better than I can, but all women are not bossy. You clearly want what is best for each other so no wahala, no vex... 💗💗💗

  • @Godisgood1208
    @Godisgood1208 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are so fun to watch. I love you guys energy. I was in a age gap relationship unfortunately it was hard for him to get citizenship. I was 13 yrs older than him. He said I was bossy but he knew how to handle me. I was just about business no nonsense bull....
    I do miss him so much. After being together 4yrs. I pray the best for y'all sincerely. You travel places I dream of to go one day if it's in GOD'S will for me. Just wanted to say love you guys and can't wait to hear your side Katonya. Before I forget I lost a lot of so called friends because of my age gap relationship took alot of criticism but what GOD has for you is for you. Can you share one day your experience I am sure will help alot of women in age gap relationship. All the way from Michigan

  • @veronajohnson2604
    @veronajohnson2604 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Menopause premenopause cauze Hot Flashes so the Heat is on

    • @thebonnicks
      @thebonnicks  ปีที่แล้ว

      The ac is on because it’s hot outside. I sleep with a heated electric blanket at night

  • @rmouton61
    @rmouton61 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Katanya LMAO....same here my husband(jamaican) states that its Freezing in the apartment....but its only at night when we are sleep...during the day I turn it up that's the compromise we have

  • @Usernotfoundhereany76
    @Usernotfoundhereany76 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the video insert. Mine is the other way around. Whenever I am working my husband tries to dictate to me what to do and it can be so so annoying

  • @carollynch4710
    @carollynch4710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys I like how you are keeping it real. Even when the truth is being told, I can still feel the love. Let love last longer. The truth is, a suh wi women tan. Wi bossy fi true😄

  • @Gina1_
    @Gina1_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Too funny! Kamar your wife doesn't mean no harm. Trust me that she doesn't. Katonya loves her husband you can believe that.❤

  • @melisasimms2348
    @melisasimms2348 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please remember that these Americans are climatised to the cold from birth. Thier tolerance for cold is different for persons from the tropics no matter how long we start living in these cold countries . What is extremely cold to us may not be all that cold to them.

  • @gloriaellis1963
    @gloriaellis1963 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kemar that's why I respect you for your honesty and that's how you deal with life and relationship. I wish alot of men could take a page from your book. Take care of katana and yourself because as you said you have a good wife and you do, coming from a Jamaican woman.

  • @berydale
    @berydale ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed this discussion. I loved it when Kemar said it is a woman thing, and he loves his wife. Such as life! Tanya is a wonderful, caring woman who understands the ropes. When people are 'set in their ways', it is just so it set! The two of you love and enjoy a good standard of life. You give back to the community and are highly blessed for it! Persevere, for you love each other. Take care 🎉

  • @claudiawright5288
    @claudiawright5288 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's a loving and caring wife.i do the same with my husband.🌹

  • @andreaarricks3718
    @andreaarricks3718 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two sweet peeps. I am fond of you guys so much. All I have to give you guys is prayers,encouragement and blessings.

  • @joysam4523
    @joysam4523 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All relationships should have compromise just find what works for you, for me is the same with the ac that does make me feel chilly but the fan keeps you cool. Keep it real guys and Catanya we waiting on yours.

  • @purpose9624
    @purpose9624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you say,Rasta no Tek talk.Culture thing my dear.loveyou both so much.such lovely couple.Just trust god and tek chat rasta.just kidding.Just love and play your role Kem.

  • @saudreawilson7032
    @saudreawilson7032 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely, you guys love each other. Age gap or not there is no Perfect marriage, but you work together to keep the love strong. Open communication # 1. Love you both..beautiful wife Katanya.
    Blessed Love

  • @ashleymoore3017
    @ashleymoore3017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Far as the AC temperature Kemar maybe didn't grow up with AC in his home. Not sure but I know none of my family members in Jamaica have AC so you just adjust to the fan and natural breeze God gives you. But im born and bred in America so i understand both Tonya's and Kemar's point of view.

  • @elainewright2710
    @elainewright2710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I love you guys more! We are ladies are directors and perfectionist so I try hard not to direct my husband because I too don't like anyone telling me what to do! Kemar u nuh have no struggle 😂 love and blessings on your marriage. As usual mi rewind the intro several times; just love the song!

  • @patsybarrant3818
    @patsybarrant3818 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never mind Kemar a so mi tan you wi get used to and learn fi tune wi out and do wa u a do🤣🤣

  • @PatriciaGraham-uk9ub
    @PatriciaGraham-uk9ub ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We want to hear your struggles too katonya love you both❤blessings

  • @nataliestewart5372
    @nataliestewart5372 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys I can see so much love between you 2. Kemar you have no struggles in that area that’s how we are like telling our husband how to do whatever the chore is. ❤

  • @tammyferguson2597
    @tammyferguson2597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kemar!!!!😂😂😂 It's the BASICALLY for me...... I sweaaar😂😂😂😂

  • @sweetsovibez5709
    @sweetsovibez5709 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😅😅 I knew the video you were referring to straight away. It adds to the dynamic. We just have to keep learning each other and compromising

  • @sheilabrown9406
    @sheilabrown9406 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am bossy too thank god my husband love me regardless my short coming.

  • @ChocolateRose
    @ChocolateRose ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😊 I understand Lady Tonya... when you are use to doing things your self it kind of hard not getting it done the way you want it
    ..😁
    Blessings to you guys...nuff love❤❤❤ you both are awesome 👍
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @stephaniemitchell8554
    @stephaniemitchell8554 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What's up Bonnicks,be bless

  • @marjoriewalker8155
    @marjoriewalker8155 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good discussion. You're very mature and responsible kemar and Katonya you're so respectful .

  • @kingskid4804
    @kingskid4804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m awaiting your response T
    It should be good 👍🏾 ❤

  • @coletacole4229
    @coletacole4229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes ,Kamar you are much of a caring and under husband ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏and when you love and respect each other you will have a good relationship. God blessed you both.

  • @themoyiasway
    @themoyiasway ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you guys such sweet couple the vibes is nice

  • @janetwilliams5623
    @janetwilliams5623 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this is one of your funniest videos. I laughed all the way

  • @iamerikka9774
    @iamerikka9774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anything worth working on is worth it❤
    You two are and will figure things that work best for y’all! Couples that communicate n pray together, stay together! Y’all keep it real and that’s power❤

  • @lornapalmersmith7051
    @lornapalmersmith7051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love how you guys show love and open with your marriage relationship. ❤

  • @gracemcleish2436
    @gracemcleish2436 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    big up big up blessings and more blessings
    love you guys

  • @jenniferduncan4490
    @jenniferduncan4490 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey guys! It’s really a woman thing Kamar, women likes things done a certain way,couples just have to compromise with each other.

  • @phylliscarter6215
    @phylliscarter6215 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol I saw that video, made me laugh cause me aunty and uncle married fi 50 years that was them exactly

  • @jascinththomas1765
    @jascinththomas1765 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thumbs up, best wife. Love that ❤ 🇯🇲

  • @angellabannister9506
    @angellabannister9506 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    kemar you have no struggle woman miserable when we ready😂

  • @FunandBudget
    @FunandBudget ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah...relationships, regardless of the differences, require work. Jay and I had to work thru some things yesterday..just when i thought we were perfect...lol

  • @lynettebrown6877
    @lynettebrown6877 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are clearly personal
    Issues within any relationship. But team work can make the dream out. Keep on doing the do !!!!!

  • @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377
    @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so real, everyone makes marriage looks easy but it isn’t, but u have to trust God are work the marriage together, plus love and communication is the key. ❤u both

  • @Kitsibabes
    @Kitsibabes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes you do have a wonderful beautiful wife that loves you so much she will go above and beyond for you mr kemar just love her back the same

  • @charmainespence1646
    @charmainespence1646 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woman is not bossy per say, but we see things around the corner before we get to the corner unlike men, they have to go around the corner to see and sometimes still missed whatever around the corner. I personally, I am a planner and like to prevent and advise that things could be done in a shorter time, etc.

  • @yulettebarrett7547
    @yulettebarrett7547 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The struggle is that word “basically”. I love you both. Katania should get a jar and every time Kemar says basically he should put $5 in the jar.

    • @andreamcdonald-black9201
      @andreamcdonald-black9201 ปีที่แล้ว

      If I never hear that word BASICALLY AGAIN!

    • @thebonnicks
      @thebonnicks  ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @andreamcdonald-black9201
      @andreamcdonald-black9201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Yulettebarrett on the Live the other day Catanya was saying Basically more than Kemar though so they both need jars 😂😂❤️

  • @iamerikka9774
    @iamerikka9774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like cold too. 😂😂😂 I’m horrible the air is on and my fan to circulate 😅

  • @millicentevans8705
    @millicentevans8705 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have no struggle Kamar you are so blessed with a beautiful wife. Love you both best wishes to you both ❤❤

  • @heatherhall5496
    @heatherhall5496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women always get labeled BOSSY but women have a lot of responsibilities managing the household kids etc.. you guys have a normal relationship from what I can see just a big compromise and life will be sweet you’re 2 strangers just getting to know each other’s likes and dislikes ❤ conquers all

  • @paulachin9130
    @paulachin9130 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't think I would like the ac on all the time, I would put it on to cool the house then turn on and off when needed.

    • @thebonnicks
      @thebonnicks  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s more expensive that way because it has to run harder to cool the house down if you turn it off completely.

  • @maxinehall5382
    @maxinehall5382 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video

  • @millicentevans8705
    @millicentevans8705 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes relationship is a lot of give and take. You both make me laugh I like your videos. Relationship is not a easy thing. I am like you both I am in a interracial relationship. For me it’s the first time for me it just happened that way. My family brought me a Mother’s Day pink cup it’s big and the cup says BOSS 😂😂😂

  • @cretonnelson3426
    @cretonnelson3426 ปีที่แล้ว

    Boss lady run de house bredda.a so de ting set😂😂😂.❤❤❤

  • @marciawynter5155
    @marciawynter5155 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with you relationship is hard work you to work on it every day !!.

  • @Cavellification
    @Cavellification ปีที่แล้ว

    Kemar, you have a beautiful wife, inside and out.
    And she is completely in love with you.
    Just continue making her happy❤ BTW kemar your skin is glowing.
    Have a great weekend
    #onelovealways

  • @millicentevans8705
    @millicentevans8705 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning my favourite age gap couple. Your both absolutely fantastic. I am so so. Proud of you both honestly believe me. Only both of you can make me laugh when I have a lot going on in my life. Your both just so wonderful ❤❤

  • @daphnewaite7492
    @daphnewaite7492 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you guys

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv ปีที่แล้ว

    Very healthy discussion!

  • @iamerikka9774
    @iamerikka9774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great conversations!

  • @imgrateful7142
    @imgrateful7142 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair looks so beautiful like this T. 💓

  • @elsastuckman6052
    @elsastuckman6052 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too funny!!! Watching you guys with my brother in Ja. 😂😂❤pure laughing!!! 🌞🌞

  • @joycehiggins5640
    @joycehiggins5640 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings family 👪 🙏🏿 ❤️ 🙌 you have a God sent wife Blessings always ♥️

  • @terrycoleman2338
    @terrycoleman2338 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤ thank you for sharing this excellent video. I love you both. Age gap relationships are on the rise.🎉🎉🎉

  • @janetboodhoo2111
    @janetboodhoo2111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will second that from Guyana.

  • @PatriciaGraham-uk9ub
    @PatriciaGraham-uk9ub ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The greatest thing you both love each other

  • @theabrown423
    @theabrown423 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband does the same thing and it’s mad annoying. If u know how then do it

  • @deivrasears9163
    @deivrasears9163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome loved this

  • @jamaican0105
    @jamaican0105 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually knew this was the video he was referring to before he showed it

  • @denisegayle5571
    @denisegayle5571 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Indeed, you have the best wife and I have the best daughter-in-law. ❤

    • @soniamendez5405
      @soniamendez5405 ปีที่แล้ว

      👋🏽, Ms. Joan, so true they both complement each other, we miss seeing you.🙏🏽♥️

  • @hyacinthhenry4110
    @hyacinthhenry4110 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you keys big it up ❤😊

  • @daphnewaite7492
    @daphnewaite7492 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true. Relationships are not a easy thing.However,we have to adjust.

  • @charisse234
    @charisse234 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't see you both as any age gab couple at all.in my eyes you are both a couple.its as simple as that.all couples have disagreements it wouldn't be normal if you didn't.i also have to agree that us women can be bossy but having said that when your husband is telling you how he feels it's important that he feels heard in what he is saying.thank you both for this upload I enjoyed watching it.positivity peace and love ❤

  • @imaniexecutivesllc9155
    @imaniexecutivesllc9155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grand rising family, from the Cousins.

  • @CaChuaTV380
    @CaChuaTV380 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice share video happy day

  • @gloriaellis1963
    @gloriaellis1963 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband get used to the air condition, like katana i like my cold.

  • @violetburrell2452
    @violetburrell2452 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video ❤

  • @phyllisbulgin980
    @phyllisbulgin980 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the vibes man you guys are taking the truth

  • @margaretsmith2089
    @margaretsmith2089 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi guys, I listen to both of you and the everyday life. I think you both have been mislabeling the issues. Your wife was living single for a long time and she is set in her own ways. It's hard to change overnight. Many of the issues that you both labelled as Age Gap are just old & new habits. The key is making adjustments. For example, husband can probably wear a warmer shirt or a little vest so as not to feel cold.🔥Wife can walk away and leave husband to work alone on his project. My dears, stop making a big deal about Age Gap and enjoy your lives ! 😂🙏♥️🇯🇲🇨🇦

  • @gwendolynaldridge1886
    @gwendolynaldridge1886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you guys so much you are real I see a lot of me in your wife but stay focuse some of us women are like that

  • @aldith2423
    @aldith2423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you and katana.

  • @michellelewis3582
    @michellelewis3582 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kemar i just love to listen to u 2.real wife.i love her

  • @rainys5737
    @rainys5737 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy wife happy life

  • @lurleenfrancis797
    @lurleenfrancis797 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings to you both, continue to love each other.

  • @darrenwilliams5460
    @darrenwilliams5460 ปีที่แล้ว

    The old couple. Maaaad. Lol. Love dem.

  • @woody230bal
    @woody230bal ปีที่แล้ว

    Kemar you have an amazing wife that loves you.

  • @maureenbernard867
    @maureenbernard867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you both

  • @mooreflava
    @mooreflava ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoye the video and yes Kemar majority of us women do have the same manual the same as most men.
    I can't wait for Tonya's video so i can say to my hubby see Kemar does the same things you do and he is younger so it's science most men have the same delusions 😂 😂
    Appreciate you two for your cander and openess. Bless up yourselves

  • @cynthiathompson6830
    @cynthiathompson6830 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You too just make me laugh😅😅