You know who else wants to see other people? My cartoon band Your Favorite Martian, who has a new music video for our song Algorithm God. And it's out now th-cam.com/video/iOZOtHv5H_w/w-d-xo.html🔥🔥🔥[many flame emojis]🔥🔥
An open relationship doesn't mean you can't cheat, cheating is breaking the boundaries of the relationship and maybe they had some kind of promise that they wouldn't hide their relationships with other people, which she did
@@iceinblack7603he wasn't paying for her apartment, he was paying for their shared apartment and bills and everything in Miami and he sees that as subsidizing her apartment in Sweden.
@@TheOnlyBlackInMeWasWillieBrown lmao "kid" you think you cool don't you. And obviously you can cheat in an open relationship. Cheating is just when someone in the relationship breaks a promise both people in the couple have set up. Usually involving another person
@@TheOnlyBlackInMeWasWillieBrown It doesn't mean you cant cheat. Cheating is breaking the established boundaries of the relationship, and there was some agreement not to hide connections with others, which she did.
Honesty is SUPER important in a relationship. If someone wanted a "poly" relationship with me, I'd personally say no, but I'd commend them for being honest!! Frankly, I think the main problem with this open couple is that she was SECRETLY keeping one of her side pieces in an apartment her husband paid for. I have no experience in this type of thing, but that's my speculation...
Ye, Destiny shares pretty much everything, but he doesnt share when it involves another person. So that person has to talk about it or give permission first.
There are degrees to sharing personal life. You assume that just because they share a lot, that they should share *everything* . No one shares everything, no one.
So from what I read, she was a cam girl -> dumped her long term boyfriend when she came in contact with an influencer, Destiny -> now dumping her husband for a more famous Tiktoker 🤷🏽♂️
So let me get this straight, they want to be "public influencers" having a "publicly open relationship" and now want it to be private? Girl you cannot build a house of glass and tell everyone not to see.
That’s not the case at all, they don’t care if people talk about it but PRIVATE details they’ve discussed isn’t gonna come out. They don’t owe anyone that information idiot lol
Open relationships just seem like one person can’t fully commit to their SO and are just using the security until they manage to find someone better that they are willing to commit to
Poly doesnt mean open,open means no strings attached but staying emotionally attached to one partner and poly means there's strings and its a relationship that involves all the people involved,just not two and you're committed to loving them all equally. This guy uses both interchangably,which itself hints at whats coming anyway
No one is talking about the guy at 2:48 “A woman can’t serve two masters” This is the most redpill thing I’ve ever heard this guy calling boyfriends masters.
I had a woman propose an open marriage to me. I personally don't care if other people have one or not, but I told her why bother getting married. I'm not sure getting married for most people makes sense. Even less for an open marriage.
2:48 "A woman can't serve two masters." This guy needs some serious therapy if he thinks that marriage is about a woman being a servant and the man being her master
Just be real, even if the idea of open marriage isnt for everyone, they handle the case maturely by saying they don't want the problem become public matter
It's not surprising that they don't want it to become public matter - the shame must be unbearable considering the concept of open marriage that they proudly (and publicly) endorsed ended in a disaster.
My issue with this is Des-tiny promoting false narrative. This relationship was not private only became private the minute she actually leaving her marriage. People these days don’t take marriage seriously anymore it sad.
@@uberboizNo. The mature way is to resolve it privately. Have you known any person who airs their dirty laundry to be classy? Resolving it like adults is talking about it privately.
Open relationships is something both man and woman can do as long they have a sense of responsibility and respect. But Des-tiny doesn’t have any so clearly he was bound to lose.
that man is either a man-whore or talking about polygamy. open relationship by definition means both parties are allowed to seek other sexual partners with no strings attached except to each other.
@@amvjin6760 She can respect him by letting him know that she will not do anything he uncomfortable with. So she will ask for permission b4 doing anything.
most people are clueless what the term loyalty is heck most doesnt even know what a friendship is. it is always about me and no one else. thats the culture we live in now. naturally nothing can function if everything is just about you and being the main character.
Relationships are about sacrifice and compromise between you and putting your family first. Many people think about what they can get out of it first and foremost. It's just how they were raised, how the culture has shaped their worldview of independence, men this, woman that, dating, etc.
Welcome to the world of hook up culture. Everyone I know that partook in it is stunted relationship wise, whereas everyone I know that only had ever been in long term relationships are fine.
@@ronjericho7977 it's like you thanking the sewer worker. Yes ofc it's their job, doesn't mean it doesn't deserve any recognition. Every job has its annoyance.
Most relationships generally don't last and some "monogamous" people cheat. The issue is not the relationship being open but the relationship having a poor foundation which is indicated by her dishonesty.
I always viewed open/poly relationships as just mutual cheating. Like you both knew you were gonna cheat later down the line so it’s like saying “screw it, let’s just put it out there”
They can have it both ways. What in the world are you on about. If they want to share a bunch about their personal lives, they can. And if they suddenly want to keep things private, they can do that too. It's no one else's business what they want/don't want to share.
It's sad because he was number #1 then suddenly wasn't...open relationship are about communication and trust. She was having relations with someone which was their agreement but having someone secretly living there violates their agreement
When everything is fine and dandy you want to express it openly with everyone but as soon as things go bad, “I don’t want to talk about my private life” 😂😅
You know who else wants to see other people? My cartoon band Your Favorite Martian, who has a new music video for our song Algorithm God. And it's out now th-cam.com/video/iOZOtHv5H_w/w-d-xo.html🔥🔥🔥[many flame emojis]🔥🔥
E
Ur the best
W ray
Im Saul Goodman
E
When you are in an Open relationship and still managing to cheat.😂
😂
😂😅
An open relationship doesn't mean you can't cheat, cheating is breaking the boundaries of the relationship and maybe they had some kind of promise that they wouldn't hide their relationships with other people, which she did
@@Iudd_ well put!
@@Iudd_ r/whoosh
Hearing Ray say "until" is just the signal for everything to start getting wild
UUUUUUNNNNNNTTTTIIIILLLLLL
Only Ray can make that a catchphrase
@joemahmaj9
**PAUSE** *UNTIL!*
@@Earlierfour8
I would’ve never guessed an open relationship would’ve ended like this.
😂😂
My indian brain can't process the concept of an "Open relationship" like wtf
😂😂😂😂 bro @@NiranjanV-ww7vy
Yeah I am surprised m
He did say he doesn't recommend others to open theirs as it's pretty hard to maintain.
Paying for your wife’s apartment in a different country while she lives there with her boyfriend is the craziest sh*t I’ve ever heard 😂😂😂😂😂😂
cuckoldry normalized
It's clown world out here 😂. Paying for an apartment where your girl invites other guys to raw dog her is beyond me.
Especially when they look like flopsy mopsy
@@iceinblack7603he wasn't paying for her apartment, he was paying for their shared apartment and bills and everything in Miami and he sees that as subsidizing her apartment in Sweden.
@@hellfun1337which it is. If she doesn't have to pay her bills.. it leaves her free to pay for other things.
cheating in an open relationship takes skill.💀
@@Ugh-r8m she did. you don't know what cheating is bro
@@artoriassif9458leave it
Just a simp
@@artoriassif9458You can't cheat in an "open relationship" kid.
@@TheOnlyBlackInMeWasWillieBrown lmao "kid" you think you cool don't you. And obviously you can cheat in an open relationship. Cheating is just when someone in the relationship breaks a promise both people in the couple have set up. Usually involving another person
@@TheOnlyBlackInMeWasWillieBrown It doesn't mean you cant cheat. Cheating is breaking the established boundaries of the relationship, and there was some agreement not to hide connections with others, which she did.
Cheated in an open relationship, that's one serious skill set.
Me: Des tiny?
Ray: yes
Me: u mean destiny?
Ray: no
Thank you.
😂😂
Holy moly I was laughing so hard when I heard "des-tiny"
You're not a DGGa, you wouldn't get it
@@maidoxd2306he's 4'5 tho so yeah
@@johannliebert2870Whats DGGa?
Gotta love when influencers suddenly get sanctimonious over privacy
How ironic
It's pathetic and sad
YES it's all fair game until it's about them
a potential divorce is a pretty rough thing to go through imo
They literally made it their personality until it went down hill
He said “dis-tiny” instead of destiny 😂😂😂
He knows the memes for sure
@@annekedebruyn7797 And Mel-ena instead of Melina
des- TINY pen1s
@@Ffoo_ffighter That might explain the problem! Des-tiny vs Massive Meme?
Mo-lestiny lmao
Her dedication to cheating is @ max level when you are in an open relationship, how you get caught
it's an open marriage so it's not cheating
@@RDCFemmesopen marriages don't mean you can't cheat xD what are you talking about.
@@RDCFemmesopen marriage is having multiple sexual partners but committed to one person. She cheated on him by being committed to another.
@@RDCFemmes You can still set limits in open relationships, if she passes those limits she's cheating
Nah bro how u guys defending open relationships that's the stupidest thing ever.
Honesty is SUPER important in a relationship. If someone wanted a "poly" relationship with me, I'd personally say no, but I'd commend them for being honest!! Frankly, I think the main problem with this open couple is that she was SECRETLY keeping one of her side pieces in an apartment her husband paid for. I have no experience in this type of thing, but that's my speculation...
no
For being stupid
He shouldn't have been a cuck.
Bro no one's asking u to be in any sort of relationship. Get a life
Yeah
This is a classic case of the... "I Told You So".
Pay for my rent,food,clothes and allow me to cheat, this woman's got skills.
Nice thing about open relationships is if one leaves you still have the other 10 plus room for another import.
Thank you for listening to his entire hour-long podcast so we don't have to. You are a champion.
it was just a stream clip
he has people do that for him
“A woman can’t serve two masters” has me shook.
and can she?
fr I don't even know what to say to that
@@foxglove30 I am not surprised...
They kinda took it too far , like, the man can't also cheat as well as the women.
Well if man can why women cant?@@scaredpaul540
“She can’t serve two masters” 😂 these jesters calling themselves “masters” and “kings” 🤡
I love how they say: "i don't want talk about my private live in public" after they share their private live in social media 😂
Sharing your private life on social media doesn’t mean you can’t keep anything private.
Another Harry and Meghan, we want privacy.
Ye, Destiny shares pretty much everything, but he doesnt share when it involves another person. So that person has to talk about it or give permission first.
There are degrees to sharing personal life. You assume that just because they share a lot, that they should share *everything* . No one shares everything, no one.
destiny easily the most hypocritical cuck online so this such be expected
Doesn´t matter if it´s open or closed.
Relationships are built on trust. If it´s broken it´s over.
@@goofyfloofswhat
@@goofyfloofsLiterally what are you on about
There was trust!?
@@ankitdubey2848 A relationship having trust is a foreign concept to you?
An open relationship is just a synonym for 'not settling down'.
Crazy, I could never be in an open relationship.
you can people just call it dating.
😂😂@@commissarkitty3553
Because you have respect for yourself and your partner.
Crazy, I could never be in a relationship.
Crazy, I could never be on an open pirate ship.
So she essentially turned out to be exactly who we all said she was
Yeah Bro I mean people get pissed when truth's out 😂
how is he any better when he has to have an open relationship because he cant "not cheat" or w.e
@@blaze26700so is he
I don't think he was fuckimg women was he? @@Red4350
And dude with the blue hair looks exactly like someone who is in open relationship looks like 😂
So from what I read, she was a cam girl -> dumped her long term boyfriend when she came in contact with an influencer, Destiny -> now dumping her husband for a more famous Tiktoker 🤷🏽♂️
From what i hear she’s actually very loyal, loyal to the next opportunity
Lol
@@whyarewestillhere8562 nahh bro you cant be serious
@@whyarewestillhere8562got me a chuckle there😂
Social climber
So let me get this straight, they want to be "public influencers" having a "publicly open relationship" and now want it to be private? Girl you cannot build a house of glass and tell everyone not to see.
Why not?
@@CasperVanLaarwhy yes ?
@@CasperVanLaarBecause glass is see through and cement isn't?
That’s not the case at all, they don’t care if people talk about it but PRIVATE details they’ve discussed isn’t gonna come out. They don’t owe anyone that information idiot lol
Curtains dude
Open relationships just seem like one person can’t fully commit to their SO and are just using the security until they manage to find someone better that they are willing to commit to
Nah, they're never capable of committing to anyone.
I’ve heard of a prenuptial agreement, but I’ve never heard of a postnuptial agreement until now. Lol
Even IF he got a prenup, she could EASILY get out of it..
"Dess Tiny" 😂😂😂
Never fails to hit us with some drama
Unitil
Total drama
Caring about e-celebs needs bravery.
One day we’re all gonna die, and the world will keep spinning
no one should feel bad for that guy, he’s as much guilty as that girl
Nope not as much tho 😂
@@jaxthedisintegrator8096 probably more
That guy is a loser who cares
... why?
Girl is not guilty if its open relationship. They both stupid.
That homeless guy threatened to kill himself if Melina didn't divorce Destiny. That is manipulative af.
That's the problem with poly-relationship. You have to deal with multiple people's relationship shenanigans instead of just your spouse's
😂hahaha
More ppl more messy
jobless, not homeless.
@@JesusChrist-sx1lf you motherless fatherless jobless homeless person don't correct others...
" Its okay for man to have an open relationship but not for women " that's why that dude's own parents don't like him
can't serve two masters is also crazy
@@Swatotastici mean his ancestors were slaves ,he got that in his veins....
Might be one of them moose-limbs.
@@hutao.h1258 😭😭
@@hutao.h1258fr 🤵🏿♂️
From this day forward, he will be known as "Das-Tiny".
Poly doesnt mean open,open means no strings attached but staying emotionally attached to one partner and poly means there's strings and its a relationship that involves all the people involved,just not two and you're committed to loving them all equally.
This guy uses both interchangably,which itself hints at whats coming anyway
Interesting. Makes sense.
I feel like it’s impossible to have sezz without emotions even if you think you are
Both are idiotic and foolish anyway
So open marriage is a marriage without commitment?
@@anujpramanik1819 Kinda. It's a marriage where the couple's serious about each other, but they can have flings around, hook up and all
“A woman can’t serve two masters” 😭 wtf
Islam's logic 😂 polygamy halal only on men
They have serious mommy issues
@@bubba94290generational mommy issues
My jaw dropped lmao 😭
Thats alpha male podcast for you 🤣
seeing people like these make me feel so much more sane
And smart...
"A woman can't serve two masters" who gave him a mic
Fr. Don't let bro cook 😂
probably his master lol
fr this red pill content is getting out of hand
your welcome
I don't think they think that way, it's just for controversy, after all i doubt people can be that stupid
She's not attracted to them. She's attracted to clout
"Des-tiny" is gold 😂😂
No one is talking about the guy at 2:48 “A woman can’t serve two masters” This is the most redpill thing I’ve ever heard this guy calling boyfriends masters.
these stories get crazier and crazier every time
Crazy? This was obviosly going to en like this
i mean they are all wild and out of pocket, they world just gets worse and worse@@zlkanglwrth2776
Ray I love your clips. Super creative and validates the several reasons why I have left Social Media.
I had a woman propose an open marriage to me. I personally don't care if other people have one or not, but I told her why bother getting married. I'm not sure getting married for most people makes sense. Even less for an open marriage.
I call it Schrodinger's marriage
Being married has its privileges (for her)
Melon-a and Des-Tiny absolutely killed me lol
This is why boundaries are important.
sometimes I imagine how crazy is the world around us
हमारे इंडिया मे भी यही गंध बढ रही है तेजी से
@@LetsGoforDabash that scares me more
Truth is stranger than fiction
Just descendants of European people.
@@LetsGoforDabash but at least it is under covers
you know ray never fails to deliver when he says “until..”
open relationship aint no relationship
Shout out to ray for still being compassionate in his reporting .
2:48 "A woman can't serve two masters." This guy needs some serious therapy if he thinks that marriage is about a woman being a servant and the man being her master
Moreover, she was having no problem "serving" more than one man. It was the dude who couldn't handle it.
Calling him Des-tiny is sure to trigger Infrared Haz's insecurities 😂
I love how Ray has officially become our news reporter
Open relationships/ marriages are messed up. They’re both disgusting people.
I swear bro 😂.If in future my girl ever ask for one ,I am gonna be like hell nahhhh
Just be real, even if the idea of open marriage isnt for everyone, they handle the case maturely by saying they don't want the problem become public matter
It's not surprising that they don't want it to become public matter - the shame must be unbearable considering the concept of open marriage that they proudly (and publicly) endorsed ended in a disaster.
My issue with this is Des-tiny promoting false narrative. This relationship was not private only became private the minute she actually leaving her marriage. People these days don’t take marriage seriously anymore it sad.
@@uberboizNo. The mature way is to resolve it privately. Have you known any person who airs their dirty laundry to be classy? Resolving it like adults is talking about it privately.
@@BlazeGamerZXno, she's not leaving the marriage, he is, don't get it twisted
@@isimikehinde5584 COPE
Bro said “Only men can have an open relationship” 😂
Open relationships is something both man and woman can do as long they have a sense of responsibility and respect. But Des-tiny doesn’t have any so clearly he was bound to lose.
@@BlazeGamerZXBro I think he was the dude who was in relationship and she was open 💀
Don't blame my guy he will find someone better
that man is either a man-whore or talking about polygamy. open relationship by definition means both parties are allowed to seek other sexual partners with no strings attached except to each other.
@@BlazeGamerZX how do you respect someone if u want a open relationship with them
@@amvjin6760 She can respect him by letting him know that she will not do anything he uncomfortable with. So she will ask for permission b4 doing anything.
the “UNTIL” always gets me 😂
Hearing Ray say "until" is just the signal for everything goes crazy
Hearing the “until” just makes my day
You seem like the type of person to be entertained by jingling keys
@@BirchFlunch bruh 💀
Most level headed take and reporting on this drama. Glad we can count on you Ray to sort through everyone else’s problems so we don’t have to.
I think it's getting incredibly harder for people to have healthy, monogamous relationships these days.
People don't know how to be loyal.
most people are clueless what the term loyalty is heck most doesnt even know what a friendship is. it is always about me and no one else. thats the culture we live in now. naturally nothing can function if everything is just about you and being the main character.
Relationships are about sacrifice and compromise between you and putting your family first. Many people think about what they can get out of it first and foremost. It's just how they were raised, how the culture has shaped their worldview of independence, men this, woman that, dating, etc.
"these days" people have NEVER been loyal, they are sadly more loyal now and cheaters are more stigmatized now.
Welcome to the world of hook up culture. Everyone I know that partook in it is stunted relationship wise, whereas everyone I know that only had ever been in long term relationships are fine.
@@Mole-Esthersadly?
You really did that with Des TINY, didn't you🤣🤣🤣
zero respect for anyone who goes into a poly relationship - like WTF were you thinking and what did you think was going to happen by year 20 ?
is no one gonna talk about 2:43 like bro... that is just wild
Just... Ew. Disgusting.
Fr like, huh? 💀😭
Yeah wtf was that 🙃
Sounds like straight out of Saudi Arabia.
Islamists
1:07 this entire sequence caught me so off guard wtf
I can't believe I have to say this, but open relationships are definitely not worth it.
Can we just take a moment to thank Ray for the time he spends collecting information for us 🙏 i mean an entire hour
Do you realize it appears to be his job?
@@ronjericho7977 it's like you thanking the sewer worker. Yes ofc it's their job, doesn't mean it doesn't deserve any recognition. Every job has its annoyance.
@@dofydudes1735Do you thank the sewer worker?
@@Potato_Quality7 Honestly, we gotta start thanking them
@@Potato_Quality7I thank the bus driver, so I will thank the sewer cleaner
10 year olds be like-
"Ray's not pregnant but he never fails to deliver"
Until.......
@@JStorm13 one night, Ray crashed into Five Guys with a van and started to protest about how he's getting paid less. So yeah, that's about it. See ya.
Dawg??!@@hatinghate
I think he's building on the until. Every time Ray says until, things get crazy.
I like how your art makes him look more like a chad than he does in real life lol
"A woman can't serve two masters" that line made me throw up in my mouth a little.
Seeing Destiny here is a merging of two worlds I wasn’t expecting.
You mean Des Tiny?
Fr
fr
Shoutout to Ray for listening to that hourly long podcast to keep us updated 💖😌
I heard about this. Open relationships never last.
Most relationships generally don't last and some "monogamous" people cheat. The issue is not the relationship being open but the relationship having a poor foundation which is indicated by her dishonesty.
They won't last what's even more bad that open relationship when turned into open marriages will be nothing but financial fraud.
it was his longest lasting relationship, all previous ones were monogamous
@@T_4311 I don't know any studies, but I can't imagine any reality in which open relationships are more successful than normal ones.
you should've mentioned that destiny went to new zealand to visit melina where she was travelling *with her other boyfriend*
Des-tiny had me rolling 🤣
I don't care about their relationship but what I'm so pissed at is the guy who said women can't be in an open relationship but men can. Wtf?!?
I always viewed open/poly relationships as just mutual cheating.
Like you both knew you were gonna cheat later down the line so it’s like saying “screw it, let’s just put it out there”
It wasn't just that, but an overstep of boundaries.
cheating is breaking promises in a relationship therefore cheating can be different in different relationships.
Poly relationships aren't cheating. It is just being committed to more than one partner. Open relationships however are cheating.
@@artoriassif9458cheating is cheating you can't justify it
@@awoooga5857it's pretty stupid though IDK why people do it
You ignored the huge detail that she had a boyfriend when she met destiny. She cheated on her boyfriend with destiny.
Hard to believe that someone had a crush on destiny
Moment he said "UNTIL" - 1:21
“Don’t worry, I watched it all.” 😂 Lmao! 🤣
Thank you, Ray!
Ray: “Don’t worry guys I watched it”
I love how he researches every little detail
he lied
Ray is our 1 and only news reporter❤️🔥
Poly relationships almost never workout. Never worth it.
It's so trippy hearing my childhood idol commentating about my current one. Props to you for keeping this impartial and positive.
your idol DESTINY ?
@@zizzo5194u mean the goat? 🐐
Cant think of a worse idol than Destiny lmao
i like destiny too but i dont consider him anywhere near my idol, lmaoo
“Cant serve two masters” is WILD
Imagine not understanding the concept of marriage to the extent of "marrying" someone and calling it an open relationship
They married solely for the reason of a green card, cause she is swedish
based
I ain't hating but her taste in men is questionable.
You know it's real when he doesn't give a shoutout.
i have a strange feeling that an open relationship was not his idea LMFAO
"There's no need for a prenup."
Me: *Waiting for the mention a prenup would've saved all the headache*
When Ray says until, I get so excited for the next statement!
We all told him but bro knows everything💀
This made my day.
Are you also a Destiny hater?
@@cristauxfeur2560 just a reality lover
I love influencers who flaunt their lives and overshare things for views but when things are rough, now they want privacy. Can't have it both ways!
They never shared their actual private life just was open about being open.
They can have it both ways. What in the world are you on about. If they want to share a bunch about their personal lives, they can. And if they suddenly want to keep things private, they can do that too. It's no one else's business what they want/don't want to share.
They can if it gets too much for them to cope with as they're only human after all.
Huh?? They can have it whatever way they want it’s literally their life lmfao
The man who called other men who didn’t want their want their partners seeing other men insecure, seems a little insecure in this situation
It's sad because he was number #1 then suddenly wasn't...open relationship are about communication and trust. She was having relations with someone which was their agreement but having someone secretly living there violates their agreement
Open relationships is about having brain damage. Not a single wone ever worked out.
*SHOCK* who could have seen this coming
This is type of guy who will learn only in hard way
When everything is fine and dandy you want to express it openly with everyone but as soon as things go bad, “I don’t want to talk about my private life” 😂😅
"I don't want to talk about my personal life in public" - says an effing TikTok'er. Really?
Not getting a prenup as a public figure is idiocy, especially in such a volatile relationship.
Everything’s fine UNTIL ray says UNTIL 💀