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- think about the memories you missed out on
Feel free to scream out your troubles and desires you held to yourself for various reasons here. Maybe others can sympethise and advise you or at the minimum... understand you.
Song by: Metric
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Art by: Shimatsuku
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I do not own neither the song or the art, I just composed them together
Reuploaded cuz I wasn't happy with how it turned out
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how foes this only have 18 likes and it's pinned? 💀
Recharging my shield
Yooo legittt
@@هايالقناةفقطتجربةThe video creator just recently pinned this today
OMG
"I could've made her happy."
"You couldn't even make yourself happy."
working on my happiness as I put this message up. wish me luck and to all of you!
@@nickkingspoint8161 I wish you luck, and happiness.
If nothing else, peace and contentment.
That the cost
A soul for a soul
Cuz she ain’t happy
Chad:"i make my self happier than her"
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people just exist.
I'm not the type dude who would say "oMG sO DeEp", but holy fücking shit this one snapped me.
thanks for reminding me
Damn
Brah
All i got is emptiness
Help me
It's funny how you can just go from "I don't need anyone else in my life" to "I'm really fucking lonely"
Yup
Me
true shit
Real af
Being alone: :)
Feeling alone: :(
The indomitable human spirit when 3am thoughts step into the room.
Even the most fiercest warrior of hope think of a life they wish they could live, once in their time full of struggle and despair.
I just want some rest, I wanna lie down and not think about anything, but she appears in my dreams every single time.
Prepared For 3am
Me wanting to conquer constantinopole at 3am
One must imagine Sisyphus happy, for he possesses the indomitable human spirit to persevere even though he fails every time
I feel strangely bad about the choices I've made and the life I didn't live.
You're not the only one here bruh.
How dare you steal my name
Who doesn't
I'm 21, no relationship I haven't even been hand holding a girl... work 23/7
What should i do, I'm feel so lonely here
@@imam5623 don't know man
It's hard
It's as if an entire timeline was erased because of inaction. Memories of a life that never happened.
>it's as if an entire timeline was erased due to inaction
Hold on there King, let me just forever memorize this short and simple sentence.
literally the plot of Tatami Galaxy
@@engravy258 ayo how goes it fellow Tatami Galaxy enjoyer.
fuck. thank you
This line hits too hard , thank you , king
Kids when 3AM hits: scared of ghost
Adults when 3AM hits:
Real
you're 100% 12
We dealing with ghosts of regret 💔
It’s only twelve
REAL
She's not thinking about you King, get some sleep.
How can I sleep, knowing that someone never thinks about me...
Who is she? I don't even have a "she" kek
It's best if she's not
I refuse to think about it
@@eliasilyich me too 😔
Slowly watching all my friends graduate and build their lives as I dive deeper into loneliness brought me back here. I miss the times when I had no worries lads.
The more time you dwell on memories, the more time you miss out on new ones. Make you amends on your past and work towards a better future that you can look back on happily
I've been there. You'll find your own path.
@@2knives1cook nothing in life prepared me for these ages man, suddenly parents started looking older and i feel like i have too many things on my shoulders.
ah be abi
dont be pressured man. you're different than everyone. dont compare yourself to others.
"You'll never be mine, but you've got my eyes"
*Damn....that hits hard*
that hurts
that's how i feel, but that doesn't make me sad. after all i can't make myself anything, nor sad, nor happy.
Propagandalf
@@zekeyeager1458 Yes ?
Propagandalf, are you real?
>intentionally seeks out media to make it hurt even more
Soon you'll hit the threshold where you can't handle the pain. Then you have to make the move and act to pull yourself out of the gutter of pain.
@@eufouria_music idk that I'm capable of it. I really don't. I think I'm well past the threshold but I'm still frozen by anxiety. Hopefully not forever. Keep on keeping on bros.
@PcaKestheaod at least for me, I was afraid to try something because it was a large task i thought I wouldnt be able to complete with good results. I just had to break it into smaller chunk, managable chunks. Besides, everyone should and does make mistakes. So they can learn from it, revise, and keep going further than where they were. GL
meh physical self harm psychological self harm it’s the same whatever
Yup!
Remember guys, the story doesn't start until the main character takes matters into their own hands
They will pay for messing with true love. All the suffering they caused will be returned ten thousand fold in the day of the wrath of God.
Holy fucking based
True wisdom, thanks bro
100 liker truly based
Based
i feel like i'm missing out a lot of memories, this is painful
You aint alone
Same
Trust me, in some cases, it's best not to have those memories...
@war criminal consider all the ways you can lose someone you love and tell me it’s worth it in every situation.
@war criminal from my experience, the burden of life would be easier without sweet memories that were snatched away by death untimely. But maybe one day I can appreciate the memories already made, despite the impossibility of not making new memories with that person.
I'm not someone would normally, or ever, care for a romantic relationship
but for some reason
these visuals
pared with this song
has caused me to feel an indescribable sense of emptiness
I think I finally understand what people mean by not wanting to die alone
I know. I made it that way. Almost like its a reminder of what could be, might be missing from you
Same tbh, I stopped having romantic feelings back in senior high, and this video hit me like a truck and made me realise what I'm probably missing out on.
@@eufouria_music who is this girl and why is she in every metric animated video
@@NeostormXLMAX sorry, seems like I've started a doomer trend. Visual was an unexplained short art set by Shimatsuku on twitter. I just thought they would mix well and they did. Ig some people made their own versions i suppose
yeah, i call that pain, and I'm very used to it
really feeling the masculine urge to collapse into her unconditionally embracing arms and weep
Let it out. From zero, build a new
There is no unconditionally open arms, that must be trap. Never let your guard down.
@chandrapurwawijaya1780 there are arms like that for some people just not all.
Like for me, for example, and I'm guessing for you
@@chandrapurwawijaya1780 a trap yes, but the trap of a wonderful woman.
Build yourself up and learn to see her
It doesnt have to be. There are good women out there.@chandrapurwawijaya1780
Damn, the 30,000 hours on steam really hit differently now.
What fucking 30k hours???
@@Omega-mr1jg tf2 hits different
I tip my hat to you one legend to another
Thats insane what the fuck
stop wasting your life on videogames
I can't believe I've grown up enough to have this go from the "This is the funny lonely people video!" video to the "...fuck man I need a hug" video.
Hey, I remember your comment from Until you fall asleep
@@eufouria_musicmans still replying, thx King 😍🥰🥰😇😍☺️
Mad skill issue
@@niggasmoker89fr bruh ☠️
haha i'm just a long-time metric fan
This video singlehandedly made me realize how lonely i am
You'll be alright
Better to be off your own being yourself than being among people who you can not express who you are
you'll make it dude
@@JudicialBrat what about someone who you can express who you are with comfortably?
@@Captain_kool-aid7684 Eso seria genial pero lo difícil es encontrar a una persona así :´)
The bad part about being alone for a long time is that you start to forget how to connect with people, and things like that start to seem like just fiction.
I have a growing fear that love exists only in music. And it's so big and vast there, and so nonexistent here, It's just not fair
It gets worse when you stop feeling lonely, despite being alone. You just stop seeing the point of company of another human being, in some cases that can turn into fear of humans because without the feeling of loneliness it starts to feel like by making friends we're risking more by exposing ourselves than gaining from it.
Imo you never really forget. You just adjust
the pandemic changed me alot, i use to be happy, smile alot but now i quite seriously forgot how to smile, i barely chat with anyone anymore. i wish covid never happened, i want to go back
forget? It never began
I'm lonely enough to want to pursue a relationship, but I am aware enough that I am definitely not ready, and it would only be unfair to put my selfish needs onto another human.
I wondered if the people on this comment section have friends or know people that are willing to help to get someone up to the point of absurdness
Same
same bro, i think i should stay single for whole life
You should pursue being a more lovable person because after all is all on you
@@mustard639 You're right, and that's what I'm trying to do at the moment. Surely we will all make it.
Forever maidenless. What a tragic tale.
Indeed
Aka no bitches
Got to try again mate. There's still time. We're gonna make it
Tragic for you.
Life is a tragedy and we're the comedy
We're here forever, Goslingbros.
A group about incel experiences named after one of the most attractive men on earth BAHAHAHAHA the fucking irony is so funny to me but also hurts deeply. You're all alright my goslingbros
whats gosling? sorry im not cultured enough
@@ai-tw1zn actor Ryan Gosling
@@ai-tw1zn this vid but with a clip from bladerunner i think, was on some boards
Reporting in
I don't even have any feeling to that person anymore. Really. A whole half a decade has already passed. I just miss those days when I actually thought like my life wasn't so empty and meaningless. I feel like that summer before my finale year in high school was the last good one, and then everything around became colourless and plain.
Even though these 'relationships' (I can't even say that these were 'relationships' in a real way) were clumsy and lasted only for one or two dates, it hurt. A lot and for a long time. It was my best friend, a girl I secretly liked for many years before that. To hear that she liked me back was the best thing in my whole life. Like it was a movie plot.
I've always been thinking to myself how different my life could be if everything had worked out. Maybe I wouldn't be willingly searching for songs like that in 2AM just to feed my sadness more and more. And it also feels like with every year it becomes easier and easier for me to find a reason to cry.
Only to imagine how many memories I've lost just because I wasn't there, at the right time, at the right place to make them. When everything was more simple and less depressing.
I just fkn hate who I have become. I am in my early twenties but I already feel like nothing can be changed. Like I'm stuck with this version of myself forever, and there's no good for me out there in the future. In terms of relationships, career, friendship. Everything.
You still have plenty of time to go out and explore. If mistakes were made, best thing is to learn from it and move on because there is nothing to do to change what was already done.
>think about the memories you missed out on
fuck I felt this
they were never your memories. why covet something that was never meant to be yours?
tfw a drawing looks at you with more feeling than irl people
Sadge
ouchie
Woah, take it easy there pal, it’s just a drawing
@Just a guy on TH-cam
no NO NO NO NOOOO >:''(
thats pretty common tbh.
"Think about the memories you missed out on."
Stop. Don't hurt me like that. I have too many regrets as it is.
Check my latest MV. Maybe that'll motivate you
well it's never too late to start, king. you've got what it takes, you will make it.
@@eufouria_music Seent it and yeah even before I saw this I've kept moving forward and making new memories, but it still hurts to see how much more I could have had I worked harder and been more proactive about making friends and spending time with the few I had rather than barely speaking to anyone.
@@jadonlimoges1830 you dont know fucking shit about me bub. You have no fucking clue what its been like.
Remember bro: no need to fret over every egg, you can always make better memories
I love how the uploader of this video still replies and gives words of encouragement to those feeling a bit down. It's quite beautiful
I try.
It's not just me right? Something about this video made me just sit there and think about how stuck I feel in life, the weight of this dystopian nightmare we live in is weighing on me
your not alone with that idea and feeling about our life right now.
Glad I'm not only feeling this. Read th dhammapada, lift those weights we're gonna make it mang.
I feel exactly the same bro
Not for me at least, the situation that I'm in makes perfectly sense for me, since I've never experienced love due to my social anxiety that prevents me from meeting other people. At least I can work on getting a good job and live a decent life, financially speaking. That's all I can aspire to.
for me I live in perpetual hell, a sense of emptiness follows me everywhere and everyday I feel the world numbing me more and more, I am afraid for the first time in a long time, not by death, but by life, although we'll probably never meet, your not alone, and although my pain doesn't help with yours, and you will probably still feel alone and lonely, I hope you can find a fragment of solitude knowing that your not alone
The man must be broken before he could be rebuilt. Good luck on your journey.
We're all gonna make it bros
A quick summary on the alchemical symbolism of the Sabbath, Saturday, the day of Saturn. Saturn is called "the King's Tomb", or "the Sun's Tomb", for it is said that the "Great Work" starts when the sun descends into the House of Saturn (like the Divine Sun descending into the darkness of Sheol), i.e. with the lead, which is the beginning of all (base metal). Saturn eats his children, in him all the other six metals/planets are ground and dissolved into the Materia Prima (just like in the seventh sefira Malkut all previous sefirot are gathered together); it is the dark night of putrefacito (or nigreto), the raven's head or caput corvi of the work, for *without dissolution there's no generation, and without death, no resurrection is possible.*
Thanks mate.
@@littlelarry2373 you got to try again man, there's still a lot of time
@@littlelarry2373 try to put on a mask.. It'll be very tiring, but you'll get through it somehow
there was a girl you loved that loved you in a life you never lived but still remember
oh god.. why is this hurting me
Me dreaming of a guy I love in another alternative universe , I see myself with them but in this world…….no.
A weird feeling
@@moshi1om0chii90 😢
how the fuck did you even kn
Just got rejected bros, back to square one
Wish u luck man
I don't know what you're talking about, dawg. You've proven to yourself that you're capable of making that move. That's half of the equation right there. Now you just need to keep doing it again until you find the right person who's going to say yes.
@@lillasagna5487Thank you man, I already moved on from her thank fully, appreciate the comment . I have been working to improve myself after the rejection so that i can treat the one who accepts with the best of my abilities
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." 💯💯💯
Hit the GYM MATE 💪🏻
> be me
> go outside
> see couple
> day ruined
Me everyday
>be me
>day ruined
@@autisticskeleton1041 Thanks for a more relatable experience (even though I have a partner).
But let me enhance the formula :
>Be
>Relentless despair.
Eliot Rodgers Grindset
> cry to sleep
I can't even imagine being that close to someone
Same
Same. I can't even get a best friend in the first place so how is it possible for me to get a lover?
Let me tell you, it is the best thing in the entire world.
@@outis918 wakeywakey
@@01_pandenyomanl.d.j96 you rang?
pain, suffering, agony even.
Torment, if you must
Anguish if you feel so inclined
@@driver_4151 Despair, if you fancy
Torture if thy excepts
Not poggers, if you will
someone definitely unalived themselves after this
Oh boy time for my 3AM dose of 'It's so over'!
Oh honey, its 3 AM, time for your tear jerking
@@eufouria_music ambatucry
It's so joever
vs
We're so back
@@snibblesnoop 'We're so back' is for post workout.
It’s been 4 years for me, and still i can’t believe it. It was so sudden
Fellas, I watch blade runner on repeat.
🙋♂
here
🤝
Bruh
hope your doing well man
I don't understand why this makes me feel the way it does.
Then your subconsciousness knows that you are also missing something in your life like the rest of us
I don't know either
@lancer fanclub same I went through a period where I cried myself to sleep over not having a girlfriend but now I realise there’s benefits and downsides to both options and I want to help other lonely guys realise that too
@@pluspens2134 Yeah true. Relationships are great sometimes but they aren't all they're cracked up to be.
@@okaytyler2774 yeah, relationships can be a lot of stress but it gets nice every now and then
as a black metal fan this is my guilty pleasure
Same
no need to be guilty, it's a fantastic song
Yup
Feeling euphoric and dysphoric at the same time, what a masterpiece
Bitter sweet, hope and dispair
I really thought Valentine's day would be different this year
Don't wait for change, make it yourself
@@eufouria_music Thanks for the advice, I'm going to try my best to do that.
@@createdtocomment6009 imgur.com/a/G3ts2WH
we all did
you've like 60 more to change it. take your time kid you got it
Remember Anon, you are here forever.
pain
shake thine fist at the sky
is that a threat or motivation
@@thedemonfighter8035 It's a reminder.
@@thedemonfighter8035 it's a fact
i lost this video for two years until i found it again today. still one of my favorite songs
Its a montage of happy memories. In reality we all have these moments. But we don't appreciate them. In between the sex, the laughs, the beers, and silly moments with a pretty girl, there are arguments, boredom, selfishness, cringe, and lovely awkward humanity. Your already living it anon. But you dont get to chop up reality and keep only the good parts. Go outside.
How many times do I need to go outside? I have a good paying job that requires me to cross the sea, and interact with people. What am I missing?
I'm legitimately asking a question
I living outside I living talking everyone love my talking
But
No one loves me
I just survive waiting for anyone but never comes
I have never had any of these moments, and probably never will.
@@brendanpelkey120 You have your own moments and if you want different just do something to change your lifestyle but its nothing wrong with doing whatever the fuck you want. Its all in your head.
@@jimjimjim6669 alright, i'll keep it in mind
A couple of days ago a female classmate told me that "i had a beautiful nose and was handsome". I've always strugled to like my appearance, specially my nose, but I recently started to have more confidence in myself, and to hear that just made my whole day. I don't remember feeling as happy as I felt in that moment since ever, and I definitely don't remember the last time I got a compliment like that. I just wanted to share it, and tell you that, even if we are not in the best parts of our lives, there are still happy moments like that to look forward to.
Yoo man it's been 5 months, I am so happy that you feel better, I hope that's still the case , please let me know what changed in 5 months
@@kenna_9 hahahah 4 weeks ago I wrote again. The last one can be summed in "been thinking about death lately, not suicide, just death"
I'm all right I guess. Can't really complaint. Still a goofy ahh mf
@@peperando8733 hey man I understand it's really been hard for you to think about something like death , if you want we could become friends and maybe talk on some social media, i am here to help you man
I recently started wearing glasses and a girl complemented that i was looking pretty handsome...after 17 years of my life....i couldnt accept it...its sad but i just couldnt...
half of me wants to believe someone actually told you that. The other half wants me to think you made that up
This song actually haunts me. Its weird how you can go from having your future and life figured out to contemplating ending your life and feeling completely lost
Same. It "posessed" me for like a week lmao. Im keeping all my friends away from this ever since
it doesnt get better per say but it gets a hell of a lot more manageable, time heals all wounds.
Don't do it bro life is beautiful despite everything
@@Klotzy4433yeah help me, i feel the same
@@Klotzy4433what does it do to you, i can’t understand
Mfw the "it is what is" gets overpowered by the "it's so over" .
Man why does this song always not fail in making me cry
"I was looking for a hookup when I found you
Girl you got my eyes, You'll never be mine but you've got my eyes"
Feelsbadman
AHAAHAHAHAHAHAH LKOOK AT THIS GOOFY ASS GUY HAHAHAHHAA
Hits hom3
Ni idea de que dices no se inglés pero que buena canción
ok Asa
Most people might feel better about people being in the same situation but it makes me feels worse. I dont like knowing that there are other people out there just wishing they had someone to understand them or just listen to them. All I want in life is a girl to genuinely like me and live our lives together. I just want to feel loved since everyone rejects me.
I must agree. I don't enjoy that many people are suffering the same torment at once. I would rather at least most people here be happy
Same man, I just want someone to like me for who I am
@MagsJu I’ll try, thanks for the roast I needed to brought back to earth
@@vntg_freddie You're quite welcome.
@@SickWheyfu Thats a stupid philosophy. If you feel unliked you shouldn't just change yourself to appeal to the people who dont like you. Live for yourself, change for yourself, if someone comes to appreciate that good for you, if not you still have yourself and thats your focus.
Don't forget Anon, the darkest hour is just before the dawn. Don't give up
Thank you.
thank you
Scientifically this is wrong
Nope. It's around midnight
@@cahilavcs1601 And if that's how you see the world, you will be abusing drugs before you're 30 and checking out early before 40. Now. Who would want you to think this way? Why is this seemingly a normal way of thinking now? Hmmmmmm.
This comment section is like a support group and I love it
I'm glad this video got people expressing themselves otherwise could've been buried out of shame or sadness. I want to provoke more people to open up, so they can improve.
“You didn’t even experience it yourself…yet here you are…crying because of feelings that don’t even belong to you”
A comment I saw and resonated with so much, this video these feelings aren’t attached to anyone but that’s the part the hurts to most, I know I’m not ready or attractive enough to seek out love because I don’t yet love myself. I could go on but I know no one’s gonna read all that…
Yet I am her to read.
As someone who just had a breakup, I try to change my mind by helping the other in this comment because this help me to feel something else than emptiness.
One of the reason she stop loving me is because I stop being atractive to her. I was going threw drepression and I gain way more weight that I could ever imagine getting.
The relationship I had with her help me a lot threw the hard time, and I'm forever thankfull to her for being there and let me feel true happiness, even if it hurt so bad right now, to know that I will never have the chance to feel that again with her...
I know what I have to do, but I'm not ready yet to turn the page and take care of my life.
I would advice you to be happy with your self before starting a relation ship, if you manage to found your lucky one, don't reject her but never stop working on your self until your happy with who you are.
Being ugly doesn't matter because the beautifull is not the same for each of us. You need to find the right one, the one who love you for who you are.
And also some of us like to see thing comming from us way more worst than they actually are (I know this way to much).
So give you a break, you are perfect the way you are, and I wish you the best whatever who you are.
Take care
@@dragonm586 I know i already replied to you on another comment. But are you doing better again?
i mean you don't need to close yourself off until you do the "check-list" (mental health/physical looks), you sure as hell should be working on those aspects of urself but they shouldn't hold you off from going out there meanwhile, it's not a one thing or the other lol, gl out there man, hope ur having bright days since posting this
Don't seek love. Seek connection.
Find other things you love and find people who love those things. If you enjoy anime, get involved with the larger community - read and comment on fanfic, fanart, cosplay. Maybe dip your toe into gunpla or drawing or cosplay. Maybe take some Japanese classes. Follow your bliss and try to connect with others over things you mutually love.
Love between people naturally grows from connections. You may make a 100 connections, and as you nurture them, only 10 of them grow into something deeper, and that deeper thing may be friendship. But you will experience the love of friends through that and it will nurture your self love.
Then you keep going. Build more connections, nurture the old ones, find and follow more things to love that least to activities to love that lead to people to love.
The further you go, the smaller this absence becomes. And at the same time, your chances at romantic love slowly rise.
You needn't already love yourself. I don't love myself, I just... can't. But there are people who love me. You can have that, too. I'm rooting for you!
oh yeah i saw that comment awhile ago can't find it anymore
Makes me feel like a relationship I never started nor ever had
stop being relatable
this video is so effective because it's not just POV: happy and horny relationship moments. it's the parts where you fucked up. the part where life fucks you over. the mundane parts that you wouldn't expect to remember.
it's all-encompassing, and all-frustrating.
it's everything you want, and everything that comes with it.
unending pain.
Idk man i just like how it souds and i couldnt understand half of the shit you said cause im not native (my language is similar to latin instead to an english one)
On the plus side, based on the images, the relationship doesn’t end badly
Yeah, so even if you don't have it, you are stuck with the weight of decided whether or not it's worth it.
So true, moments where you fucked up, where she fucked up, where life fucked you both up, it's so hard to live life men
Precisely so. It is the tapestry of textures and moods, the full pallet of emotional experience. This kind of personal experience, it can't be substituted with any media. The media can only reflect the personal, not substitute for it.
As kids, we admired and wondered what it would be like to be an adult. As adults, we often reminisce about what it was like to be a kid again
Choose a security question, anon.
Where did you go on your first date?
What was your first job?
What was your first girlfriend's name?
What was the name of your childhood best friend?
I had most of these and I'm still miserable
Never had one
Haven't worked
Can't say
Can't say either
Sea
Not yet
Ahmed
Dina
Never had one
Never had one
Never had one
Never had one
Haven't had a date
The navy
Never had a gf
Shaun, but haven't had a best friend since i was a kid.
It's scary to remember less and less of her face each passing day, or forgetting the sound of her voice, or the last thing we did together... Fuck me man why does life have to be so unfair
Stay strong Soldier, there's still someone out there who takes their time to comment here to tell you this. Life is indeed unfair but in my opinion it's both unfair and fair, you just gotta play your cards right which is to survive this struggling moment.
Life will become harder every single day, the difference is that you are now stronger than yesterday
Trust me, at one point you simply stop giving a shit at least.
This remind me Tokyo Blues by Haruki Murakami, you can read it if you want
Same here, it's been 3 years and all the memories are fading away.
Don't worry brother. It is never too late for life to change, even if by a miracle. You and I, we're both in this together even if we are from different parts of the world, even if we never meet, some things stay the same; you still, and always will have a chance. Take care of yourself out there, both mentally and physically. You are never alone in this world.
Thanks Bro
Onward, there's nothing to lose
Needed something like this today, now i feel less like shit, thanks dude
In a comment section full of people saying negative things about the lives they wish they had lived, and at the same time basically spelling out how I feel listening to this song, your uplifting comment is what I needed to see. Thank you, Champion. 👍
@@a_game_86 no problem Bro and yeah this Comments section really is depressing I mean why complaining about Life if you're able to change it
I remember the headspace i was when i saw this video. Had recently broken up with my first proper girlfriend, was doing bad at school, still very not over my mom dying, had no real friends. was the closest i ever felt to thinking about ending it. Things are much better, ironically, i got everything i wanted when i didn't chase it anymore. i got better and the things i wanted and focused on having, actually came as a reward.
If you're reading this, it is true that everything good in life never lasts forever, but, the same thing can be said about the bad things too. nothing lasts forever. start living, stop just surviving, don't resent what you didn't do, but take it upon yourself to do what you can NOW.
"No man steps in the same river twice. For it's not the same water, and he's not the same man."
-Heraclitus
I bring up this quote several times a day when people try and remind me of things I did in the past that I wouldn't even dream of doing today
I lost someone very dear to suicide nearly 2 months ago. This song will forever haunt me because it's a harsh reminder that I'll never experience any of these things with her. I'll never be able to meet her and I haven't met anyone who shared a similar experience. I've never felt so alone, moments like these drive me fucking insane. I miss you more then anything, please come back to me
Sry mate, 😔
Sry mate, 😔
Sry mate, 😔
o7 stand tall king
Is hard man. I also loose someone I love to. Is hard, and I will lie to you if it gets better because it isn't. The only thing we can do is try to stand tall and keep walking with the burden.
God I wish that was my POV
God I wish that was my POV
God I wish that was my POV
It could be, one day. Stay strong King
Unironically same
Me Too
@@mattguythatguy nope, we here forever. Brothers
@@megumi9467 bad mindset to have,brother
We're dying alone aren't we?
Guys I can't tell you some stupid bullshit like it gets better but
You're all you really have and it's up to you where you go from here.
Stay strong friends, you're not alone in these feelings.
Learn from your mistakes. Don't punish yourself.
Just try to do better.
I"ll give it my all :)
Man i just love her dude
But i wish she can loved me back
@@FrogPondering That is obvious
If I went Kayaking and a barracuda started fucking up my boat then I won't ever go to that beach again
i know most of the comment section is about love and getting romantic partners but listening to the song and reading people say stuff like being alone and all that stuff really made me realise how truly lonely i am.
i’ve always been viewed as the disappointment and failure from my family, i’ve always tried to ignore simple tasks like chores and homework and my parents always complain about me whilst praising my siblings like it’s nothing. in school, my teachers and classmates view me as the person that’s just there. even if i do have friends, they don’t ask me to join them in any activity nor include me in their circle and i often say “i prefer being alone” when all i do want is someone to talk to and won’t get bored of me, my sister always tell me to socialise with people but when i do, they always go away to talk to another person.
i don’t know if this is just because people finding me invisible or even unlikeable or it’s just that they seriously find me plain boring.
I wish we could chat out
Puede porque simplemente no aportas nada, conviértete en tu verdadero yo, no el yo pesimista de ahora... Si no en algo mejor.
You arent boring. You got a lot of personality judging by your Twitter and way of writing. You probably just havent met the right people yet. It will come, just give it a bit more time. I hope youre doing alright
We live the same lives lol
Yeah, can relate to pretty much everything. The only difference is that instead of being viewed as a disappointment to my family, I am a disappointment to my family. Big difference. Being decisively below average while being surrounded exclusively by very much above average people (grandma survived WW2 and aftermath in china, sister is basically perfect, parents both have PHDs) is a direct pipeline to relative and/or objective failure.
where's the "I watch blade runner on repeat" gang at
edit: Holy sht 1k Goslingbros and I made it to the page, we'll all make it fellas
probably watching this on repeat as they wish for their miseries to end
You got featured on the page bro
here forever bro
u're sad
here bruh
On Friday she said she loved me, on Monday I saw her with someone else. I'll never get over it.
You deserve happiness
Girl I've known since we were 8 years old. Had that thing where one random day when I was 16 I saw her in a whole new light. I'd never felt like that about anyone before. We'd always been friends, but we were never that close, only seeing each other once a week for the sport thing we both went to and met at. Well now we were in the same sixth form (2 years of college before university for non brits). We saw each other every day, had the same classes, talked outside of college. Became really close over the two years, happiest I'd ever been in my life, this may be overzealous as it was my first time feeling like this but I'd go as far as to say I loved her. She knew I liked her, not only was it blindingly obvious to everyone but I even told her, admittedly too quickly, only a few months after we'd started hanging out properly. This year we became so much closer, all my friends said that judging by her messages she liked me back. She even chose a uni that was really close to mine. Everything seemed to be working out. Then, out of nowhere about 2 months ago she just ghosted me. She had never been the most reliable messager but I could always guarantee a response within a day or two. She didnt say a word for 5 weeks. I didn't see her at all, she'd left college about a year before and had stopped going to sports. I didn't know what to do, thought it was something I'd done.
she eventually messaged me back and we started talking again, but now she's done it again. No warning, no reason.
I don't know what to do, I dont understand. All of my friends who were once telling me that I should be more obvious and confident bc she clearly liked me back are now telling me that it's a lost cause and I should give up. But I don't want to give up, I don't want to have wasted the past year of my life on this for nothing, I still really like her. I feel like its something I did, with my obsession with not coming across as too forward or creepy I'd fucked up. I never said she looked nice, what she was wearing was nice, any of that for fear of being seen as a weirdo. Maybe she did like me once, but I fucked it up just like I do everything.
I'm not the type of person who takes photos but I wish I took loads, just so that I'd have something to remember this by, something other than memories of how I was too much of a coward to do anything. Photos of us together, the only time in recent memory I've been truly happy.
Im going to uni in september, Its unlikely I'll ever see her again.
I randomly came across this song while watching a meme compilation of all things. Reading the comments, I'm not alone, they perfectly sum up how I feel (Great edit btw)
I just wish things could have gone differently, or at least wish I knew what I did wrong.
Then, although I can't change anything, I would have some hope to cling to that maybe in some other time i wouldnt have fucked up.
Hey man don’t be too harsh on yourself the world can be pretty cruel sometimes but who knows maybe you going to University could be an opportunity to meet someone new (sorry I’m not that good at this)
fuck me, this hits close to home
Man I'm on the same boat as you. I fuck up everything without even knowing
Now she ghosted me and I'm still trying to find out why.
people change, often at random. it hurts, it's hard, move on. you don't want to. i didn't. the only other option is pining for what's not real.
Don't search for a hope to cling to, King; make your own. You can do it, but it starts with believing that to be true 👑
Playing this song + reading through the comments is the best motivation possible
I'm not going to kms, you fucker :)
@zaid He's simply the wrong guy at the wrong time
Lmao
Me: Sees a cute girl that i am probably never gonna see again
Also Me In My Mind: Imagining us spending the rest of our lives together.
Supermodels:
The McDonald's cashier:
@@datura9441 nice fan-fick idea im snatching it
edit : it'll be wholesome one
@@datura9441 the random girl on the bus
That random girl in my dream:
I've known a girl for so long and she treats me too nicely. But I don't want to make a move out of fear of losing her.
shawty got some terrible scoliosis
all these sad ass comments then theres this bs 😂
@@fleurala i know right 😂💀
bros the odd one out in the comment section
Goat
As someone who does have scoliosis, foul as fuck man
when I look back I see nothing. my brain is filled with empty slots for memories that don't exist.
it's not over for us because it never even fucking began.
Just a genuine question, is it necesarry/an obligation to have a relationship and good memories. Like why do we have this standard that if you dont have a relationship then you are unhappy.
@@Akshit.vats. i think it's just that we missed something that other people got to experience
Now that I think about it, I can't think of any "core" memories at the top of my head. Family is good. Had a couple of good friends. Life is just alright. Idk if I have reached genuine contentment or I'm just apathetic.
@@Akshit.vats.
Is not necesary to be alive
For that you just have to eat and sleep,and do the tasks needed to fullfil those 2 main ones
But for a life worth living (one with meaning) you need human connexion
Friends,lovers,family etc
Thats why it hits hards for the loners (the ones missing out this important milestones) when they are reminded of what they havent be able to attain
And how their existance will be forgotten
@@valentinov901 Their existence will only be forgotten with that attitude
and even if you ARE forgotten.
If you enjoyed your life...
who cares?
It will get better once I am 16. 18. 21. 25. 30.
It did not. You just learn to live with the pain.
18 rn, it literally never gets better, right?
@@efeyigit6766 nah it gets worse.
@@efeyigit6766 never.
It's not a "pessimistic" POV, it's just a fact. The more this world goes on,the shittier it becomes,and luck becomes a straightforward need if you want to be happy.
Luck can't be controlled.
@@efeyigit6766 It does get better, if you choose to try to make it better, and you get a good combination of luck and skill.
But, your happiness absolutely can be found within your life situation if you look hard enough and try hard enough for long enough. Government is corrupt, politicians are corrupt, corporations are corrupt, but there are still good people everywhere. Follow your gut and reach out and talk to someone new, who you want to but feel a *social* pressure not to. See how happy it makes you to just speak with another human being about what's actually going on. Understand the cruel tricks that have been played on you to divide you from others, but also understand that you should not bend your knee to beliefs that you find abhorrent. Live your life. Do not have the attitude that it will not get better. Do not masturbate yourself mentally with the notion that you are sad, and bad, and can never improve. You CAN, and it does not have to be immensely painful. It can be by just relaxing. All of you people in this thread, if i were in person i would (with permission) shake you on the shoulders and yell at you, then offer you a hug. There is so much to this life, don't spend it wasting away in your thoughts. live in reality. LIVE in reality
@@VerbDoesStuff i seriously dont know man, i try to make things better, i talk to new people, try new things and all, it's just that they dont really change anything for me. But honestly if i have to blame someone for my current situation, it'd be myself. I've made consecutive stupid decisions that resulted in me fucking everything up. Whatever i do, i keep finding myself sad at the end of the day. Thanks for the thought tho, it feels nice to know that someone cares. May Allah give you a nice life brother.
Anon, when you finally get to hold someones hand, don't forget that that hand is part of a whole unique person too. With own needs and desires. Just likes yours. Don't project your own insecurities onto your partner, see them for who they are and not for who you want them to be.
You shouldn't love your partner like a medicine or a drug, you should love your partner as a person.
I struggled a lot with this, still do, and it really kills relationships. Stay strong.
came for the meme music, left with deep philosophy on human interpersonal relationships
4chan user spotted
cope
speaking of insecurities and what kills a relationship, from experience what also does this is not being too sure of yourself.
dont doubt yourself whether if "your partner will leave you for someone better"
dont doubt your partner whether if "they really want to be/stay with you"
sometimes you just have to suck your insecurities up and believe in yourself; bump up your self-esteem it really aint worth feeling sorry for yourself 24/7 wondering if they will leave you, because after some time, they will get tired and they will actually leave you
just a word from me, stay strong kings (:
No one matters, but me, king
There’s an absurd beauty in the fact that all of us lonely souls have found each other in this comment section. The love and support we are all looking for only exists in fairytales, but there’s still so many possibilities waiting for us in the future. Just keep moving
I'm slowly sinking into loneliness
You were always lonely
You are slowly coming to realization. So what will it be? Keep sinking? Or fight your way out of it.
@@eufouria_music man I love that you come to the comments from time to time
@@peperando8733 who doesn’t come back to this vid + song it’s great
Same.....i wish god can just point me just onece into a good direction
I don't remember having these memories.
They were never ours, but why do we still feel something about it if it never happened...
You just want to find the person for you, for your closure its like a puzzle
I forgor💀
@@gamu1651 god fucking damnit
Lyrics :
Don't say yes if you can't say no
Victim of the system, say it isn't so
Squatted on the doorstep, swallowed all the blow
Leaving without you, can't say no
Halfway starts with happiness for me
Halfway house, lost kitten in the street
Hit me where it hurts, I'm coming home to lose
Kitten on the catwalk, high-heeled shoes
No more hot-headed Saturdays
They got it, they want it, they give it away
Tell me one thing you would never do
I was looking for a hooker when I found you
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
You'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I cover it up
When you hide, I cover it up
When you cry, I cover it up
When you come undone, I cover it up
So pent up, I was coming home to you
Happy in the night time, howlin' at the moon
Sippin' on a cocktail, drinking in the loo
There's something about you I hold on to
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
You'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I cover it up
When you hide, I cover it up
When you cry, I cover it up
When you're blind, I cover it up
When you lie, I cover it up
When you hide, I cover it up
When you cry, I cover it up
When you come undone, I cover it up
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
(When you lie, I cover it up)
They got it, they want it, they give it away
(When you hide, I cover it up)
They got it, they want it, they give it away
(When you cry, I cover it up)
They got it, they want it, they give it away
(When you come undone, I cover it up)
Thanks for the lyrics , now I can understand what this song about
@@revancandra9620 The lyrics actually have a fair amount of errors. A lot of lyric sites say things like "swollen on the blow." In the actual booklet it says "swallowed all the blow," as in the prostitue the song is about used all the cocaine.
Dude's I'm 20 and I seem the only who doesn't understand the video at all and why it makes people feel so sad, might sound embarrassing but is there someone who can explain? because really I'm incapable of understanding it by my own
@pp man I'm still clueless why this song evokes such strong emotions in most people here though, and I don't really understand the video by my own but ty for explaining man, it's a dumb thing to say but some people it's hard to understand these things, I'm just not the type of guy who understands this stuff, not because I'm naive or because I didn't have any problematic relationship but because to my mind the video just goes to fast and the images without a contest don't give me the vibes most people are getting
@pp man That's not it, look up the meaning, it's something about drugs and shit, darker than that
I've been going through things, man. I need a hug, a real one.
Remember Anon, If you feel like you have nothing left to lose, Trust me; you do
LYRICS (didn't see any other ones)
Don't say yes if you can't say no
Victim of the system, say it isn't so
Squatted on the doorstep, swollen on the blow
Leaving without you, can't say no
Halfway starts with happiness for me
Halfway house, lost kitten in the street
Hit me where it hurts, I'm coming home to lose
Kitten on the catwalk, high-heeled shoes
No more hard-headed Saturdays
They got it, they want it, they give it away
Tell me one thing you would never do
I was looking for a hooker when I found you
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
You'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you come undone, I'll cover it up
So pent up, I was coming home to you
Happy in the nighttime, howlin' at the moon
Sippin' on a cocktail, drinking in the loo
There's something about you I hold on to
You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes
Youl'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you're blind, I'll cover it up
When you lie, I'll cover it up
When you hide, I'll cover it up
When you cry, I'll cover it up
When you come undone, I'll cover it up
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
They got it, they want it, they give it away
When you lie, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you hide, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you cry, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
When you come undone, I'll cover it up (They got it, they want it, they give it away)
Thanks You
You are MVP of this comment section
Thanks
Many people here say the video hurts you if you're alone and never experienced true love and relationships.
I've experienced it all and it hurts even more, especially as I'm not as young and carefree anymore and feel extremely nostalgic about people, places and things I used to love. life wasn't all about work, worrying about parents getting old and thinking about a good woman to have children with... When did it all end? I wish I could be 20 again here in Japan or elsewhere.
i have been alone my whole life, only going to school when i was 13, thankful there were good peers there, maybe a friend or two, but nothing more. after highschool I meet someone online, they were very good at chess, we would talk, and slowly of the course of a few months we got to know each other. Then for a few months never online due to uni, eventually back to talking to each other. After telling each other our trauma we kinda fell closer, eventually that feeling could be called love. But we could never meet, it would never work, we both agreed not too, since it would never work out. The one person to say I love you and the only person I said I love you, even if it was only once is now a friend. My heart breaks for you, for you were the only person to love me, truly, but that's gone now, even if we still talk, we will never share those feelings again, i will never comfort you again, i will never be put to peace again. I no longer have my perspective shared with you, I am back to my lonely perspective with not a soul to tell, other then you dear reader. I will lament my sorrows for there is nothing better to do, I wish not to forget you, you have been the kindness person ever.
i hope you feel better man, good day.
@@LittleSpud420 it's better now, if you're wondering
Reading through this comment section makes me feel nice. It helps me realize other people besides myself suck at finding somebody who loves and cares for them, or even letting go of those who don't.
I wish everybody who relates to this song finds what they're looking for :)
Thanks man it means a lot
Thanks man it means a lot
Thanks man it means a lot
Thanks man it means a lot
Thanks man it means a lot
I was vibing until I looked at the comments and searched for the lyrics.
Damn talk about blissful ignorance.
But hey
Life still got lots to offer. Enjoy and cherish every moment while you can. It's gonna feel nice to feel happy in your last moments.
How the turned have tables
Yes, but Christ gives us the understanding that we gotta whole lota eternity to live for bro. Just wanted to say this on behalf of knowing truth and the good that can come from following it. God made a good order for creation we just gotta trust him. I hope everything is going good for you, it sounds like it is (^_^ ), love you and God bless man.
Lol same, when I watched the video, to me, the perspective is more on the girl’s life rather than romantic interest. You know like, its supposed like to be an instagram collage of her life or something like that, showing all her good and sad moments in life
quarantine made my life even miserable, I mean covid 19 incident
Yo wtf 241 likes thanks
Don't you just love days where you just aimlessly go around TH-cam and stumble onto something really good? This was one of those days.
Every stage in live is just thinking that you were naive before but now you've got it figured out
Aren't the reflections on your actions the thing that develops every human being? Otherwise life would be pretty much unengaging.
Look Gentlemen, it's fine, even if it doesn't look that way. When I first found this song, it made me intensely emotional because I was very lonely. I accepted it and within a year I found a group that was beautifully accepted me. It gets better
Thanks bro
yeah same but in a year I found not a group but a brain tumor
@@sunofabeach9424 wtf man are u okay?
@@scrawn4893 of course I'm not
@@sunofabeach9424 bro lmao i know that but like is it in remission or like what's up
Remember guys, this is just showing good moments, not the bad ones, or the mediocre ones, or the ones so mind-numbingly boring that have been forgotten about. You have memories worth remembering, and all of them are yours. They make up you, and you are unique. Even if you don't think so, you are. In the same way that all stories are pretty much rehashes of old ones, it does not matter if we are all the same, if we have similar personalities, etc. What matters is the fact that when combined, all of our experiences, beliefs, backgrounds, and more come together to create something unique.
This is, I think, truly the best comment on here. So many people ruin their relationships because they expected perfection, but what meaning do the happy memories bear if there are no bad memories to contrast it? As many here, I do desire that I find one day that special someone I could share such memories as shown in the video, but thinking that this is all there is to it is dangerous
I experienced nothing, I made no memories, all I have done is rot in my room my entire youth. The memories that shape my personality are those of a depression, worthlesness and feeling of missing out.
If I could choose to be anyone else, I would.
For me the mediocre/boring moments are good moments, what's joy but the absence of pain? As long as I'm not suffering I'm having a good time...
i don’t have any good memories.
"think about the memories you missed out on"
yeah no, never have and i never will know how it feels to share an experience and having fond memories of it or some shit like that
To my boys who cant even talk about their feelings because no ones gonna relate!
*raises wine glass and nods*
cheers boys
Glad to see I'm not the only one with crippling loneliness 🍷
Ayo
Cheers!
I've experienced more genuine love from being friends with girls than actually dating them, mostly because every woman I've been in a relationship leaves, but every woman I've been in a friendship with only strenghtens over time. Last year I was subject to dozens of manipulative, emotionally destructive destructions, but it's also the year I met my best friend. Basically, bros before hoes, even if your bros are women.
thats how its is sadly, the ones who are easy to get are usually the snakes, its a 1 in 10 chance, but if you keep spinning the chances you'll strike gold
@@RedAce-RTI Be selective too. Spot red flags and look out for yourself. Be around good people and good things will happen
That's honestly so sweet. Many guys won't be friends with women. Also I'm super sorry that you're having troubles with romantic relationships. Honestly, sometimes when you enter that deep loneliness, best thing to do is start focusing more on your relationship with God than with people who will leave you. (Idk if you're non-religious, just assuming)
True. I wished I couldve read your comment before making the mistake in doing so.
You deserve someone who genuinely loves you dawg.
This makes me miss someone I never had, and yet I know this is an idealistic fantasy that will never happen nor can happen, because the person on screen is not a human being, but an idealism of what a significant other is like. and i think thats what hurts the most, the knowledge that even if I somehow find that person, it won't be like this, this is unattainable
Pretty much. We all want this, but just watching your friends and family is proof enough that relationships typically involve a lot of arguing and often go south. Still, there's that feeling you missed out from time to time, as insane as it is.
Put yourself out there, meet people and then perhaps you'll find yourself seeing a smile like that everyday.
How is this unattainable? I have a lot of similar memories with my SO, this video reminds me of her. Just touch grass.
@@str4wberrypanic you could not begin to understand autism/aspergers or any kind of anti-social disorder
@@grovestreetballaa3279 of course not, I'm not autistic or suffer from any mental disorder. I can't possibly comprehend what feels like. That being said, a lot of people here also don't have such disorders and still have a hard time getting into a relationship. They often are uninteresting people defined by the video games they play instead of getting real life friends, hobbies and improving themselves. When they inevitably fall into loneliness, they will close themselves even more and blame society and women for not wanting a relationship with a lazy and socially awkward 250lb dude, when all they had to do was touch grass.
i really hoped valentines wouldve been different this year, yet here i am
here
again
hey, i'm hre for you. you could talk to me.
She got married, bros.
It's so fucking over.
Damn bro u alr?
ohhh...so it is the end ? 🤣🤣
She deserves to be happy let it be
Find another
Then she isn't the one for you. You'll find the right girl for sure
When she's perfect but you can't have her because she deserves alot better
This
yes, yoiu're not good enough
then be better dumass
omg so deep1!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!
honestly tho thats why i dont d a t e
then why not improve yourself
Watched this when I was single. On a whim, I asked a girl I thought was cute, but didn't know very well, out to dinner. She says the reason she said yes was because I was "goofy and silly". Being goofy and not taking everything too seriously is my #1 tip. We've been together for a year now. There are a lot of bad fish, but when you strike gold, life is worth living all over again. Pursue that. Remember, silliness is key :)
real af
Real
Real
goofy
and silly
I watch Blade Runner on repeat bring me here.
lmao same
Nice pfp
very kino
Interlinked
I used to listen to this song for hours back when I first got broken up with in 2020 in a failed teenage relationship. Despite it being my first relationship, I loved her to the extent that she would always be on my mind. When I was dumped, I was shattered, the dreams and hopes we had as a couple fell out just like that. Maybe I was too clingy, easily jealous, I'm not sure.
But now, I got a girlfriend once more. I really hope me and her can prosper in our relationship. And if we ever had a scenario where we break up, I hope we can at least remain friends. I don't want to lose another beloved person in my life just like that. She's my sunshine in this otherwise dark world. I want her to be as comfortable around me as I am around her.
Whoever's reading this, please do wish the best of luck to me and her.
GL brother
You've got this bro
You got this.
man...
Wait, I think you dropped something 👑