CHIT-CHAT GRWM// do I want more kids?? + married at 19 + postpartum updates & more.

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  • @MalijahSerenity
    @MalijahSerenity ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Being married at 19 to the man that God has for you, and y’all allowing him to be in between your relationship is a big flex!!! Your definitely not missing out..!

    • @Theejaylowee
      @Theejaylowee ปีที่แล้ว +16

      At all ❤️im 22 and married to the man God sent to me and it is the best feeling in the world. Ain’t nothing out there fr that you missing. All that other stuff get old so fast I regret NOTHING 💕🤞🏾

    • @SheWritesHerJourney_
      @SheWritesHerJourney_ ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alll factssss! May God continue to bless your union.

    • @maya-uz4wc
      @maya-uz4wc ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmfao, you people don’t realize how insane and delusional y’all sound. Praying y’all find peace and real happiness for real religion really is a cult

    • @Theejaylowee
      @Theejaylowee ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maya-uz4wc girl what

    • @thek4lqueen
      @thek4lqueen ปีที่แล้ว

      Factss

  • @maribart4237
    @maribart4237 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Tbh… Us ladies who marry young aren’t “missing out” on anything, we simply living the life we want to. I met my husband at 15 and we’ve been together since. We now have a little boy and I am so happy. hate when people say I missed out on life. I didn’t. Partying etc isn’t the only way of living. May blessing always come to you and your family, always ❤

  • @eldanatesfagaber
    @eldanatesfagaber ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Okay consistencyyyyyyyyyy💅🏽💅🏽

    • @talithamaxwell2000
      @talithamaxwell2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right we getting videos back to back love you Maya ❤️❤️❤️

  • @macymagdziarz819
    @macymagdziarz819 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    GIRL!! I didn’t know you were 20, you carry yourself very maturely. I too was 19 when my husband and I got married. Now I am 22 and I wouldn’t have changed a thing! Life with your partner just gets better and better! We don’t have children yet but we plan to start trying this year💕 age vs maturity is a vast difference. You go girl!! 🤩

  • @brenjn45
    @brenjn45 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Maya, I admire how you give our younger ladies "food for the soul." You continue to inspire them to seek and understand the word of God on their level. I also love how you spotlight the value of marriage, family, and self-care while keeping it real. 💯 🥰

  • @jaleesafreeman870
    @jaleesafreeman870 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m 26, about to be a first time mom literally in any day now, if you married young , it’s a flex. You aren’t missing out on anything out here. It’s honestly the same thing going on. Partying drinking smoking whateva. Nothing new.
    Now, I am not married, but have been in a relationship for two years, I had my own plan that went downhill 😂, I didn’t want to have kids yet , I wanted to date and settle down then have kids, but God said “ Nope” 😂 here we have a miracle baby on the way. ( literally a miracle because I was on birth control… smh but as a result, My family is mending back together after a huge death. It’s bringing happiness etc etc. children are a blessing and I agree to give yourself time! Lol no rush!

  • @denisecrystal1717
    @denisecrystal1717 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I got married at 23 and I’m almost 4 years in ❤❤❤ it’s a blessing that we found our spouse so young!

  • @cashmerel
    @cashmerel ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Maya,oh my goodness, I'm screaming.
    It's past midnight and I'm awake, God's thought heavy on my mind and I searched your other videos on how to get closer to God and I'm like when Maya post a video I'm going to tell her to make a video on how to intentionally involved Christ in our lives and how to study the Bible as newbies because I'm struggling girl and this video pops up
    Girl please,make a video on FAITH, anything about Christ please.
    I love all the prayers in your weekly vlogs,it touches my soul all the time.
    Thank you 💞

  • @tmichellea
    @tmichellea ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I got married at 19 to my husband and we had so much confirmation! 21 and we have 2 little girls now as well. People will judge as always, but I promise, having a true man of God is not something you ever want to let slip through your fingers!! We’re having a more fruitful marriage and family than many of the older people we know stuck in their worldly desires and partners 😬

  • @weezie7831
    @weezie7831 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been with my husband since I was 18, I'm now 36. We've been married 12 years and I could not be happier!! When you're with your soulmate you don't miss out on anything. ❤️

  • @arraethescorpio9787
    @arraethescorpio9787 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I’m so proud of you. You are such an inspiration ❤

  • @KEW1006
    @KEW1006 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You’re not missing anything Maya! I met my person at 24 (i’m currently 25) and when you know, you know! People think because they experienced the nonsense of horrible men/situations in their 20’s, they think everyone else should too. You’re an inspiration 😊

  • @anoli_s
    @anoli_s ปีที่แล้ว +14

    GIRRRLLLL I got married at 19. I am 21 years old now and it be so annoying when people are like why’d you get married so young you’re gonna miss out on everything. On what??? This is God’s plan. God’s plan is better than ours??? Like you crazy??? I am literally living life with my BEST FRIEND. It is the best thing ever. Like dang.

  • @haleyhunt9855
    @haleyhunt9855 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Met my husband at 20 got married at 21 baby at 22...Now I'm headed on 31...Love my life we have 3 beautiful girls together wouldn't change one thing about it! My husband is my partner, best friend, and ALL the excitement I need!! 😉

  • @kcmarie3774
    @kcmarie3774 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was 21 when I started partying and becoming promiscuous and it serves no purpose. Higher std rate , unwanted pregnancies and depression. Met my husband at 28 and had my daughter at 31 and we've been married 8 years now and these are WAY better times than before. I wouldn't change where I'm at for anything . You have a beautiful family and don't let anyone try to Shame you for being a young wife.

  • @molebatsi96
    @molebatsi96 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm 26 and I would love to be a wife and mother and you just reaffirmed it for me ❤️ thank you

  • @MADEINAYJA
    @MADEINAYJA ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Needed some maya in my life, right on time! We love the consistency 💕✨

  • @sarkiratmann2668
    @sarkiratmann2668 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got married at 19 too! Best choice ive ever made honestly . ive loved growing with my husband. going through all the ups and downs of life with him by my side was deff worth it !

  • @edithbrayanvlogs5269
    @edithbrayanvlogs5269 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have the same mindset 6:54-8:30, I don’t know what it means " to be missing out", I love my children and my husband, and it’s all I ever wanted, you can build beautiful memories and moments with your family 😊

  • @blazingrose2319
    @blazingrose2319 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It warms my heart to see how far you’ve come girl! 🥹😍🙏🏽💕

  • @shontreanmcgee9948
    @shontreanmcgee9948 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great vlog. Thank you once again for opening up to "the girls" about life. Pretty natural glam makeup. I'm finally caught up on your page. Be Blessed. Hugs from Texas!!

  • @shaylow8938
    @shaylow8938 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You always have such a beautiful uplifting spirit. Keep shinning❤

  • @desirehairs
    @desirehairs ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got married at 19 as well and I am currently 23. I don’t regret it at all.

  • @nenar7763
    @nenar7763 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I been following you since you were in high school pre COVID and right now seeing you all I have thought is she glow up and mature so much , you haven’t miss nothing you doing what makes you happy 😊

  • @autumndominique
    @autumndominique ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love the sit down chats 🥰 May God bless you beautiful sister!!

  • @SheWritesHerJourney_
    @SheWritesHerJourney_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree being married is something I’m so grateful for you, so blessed to have! You definitely ain’t missing out on nothing, especially nowadays.
    You continue to go after all that God has for you and beyond.

  • @sahnisimba
    @sahnisimba ปีที่แล้ว +17

    We love the CHIT CHATS MIS MAAMMMM 🥰🥰

  • @mellojello00
    @mellojello00 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Maya I’m walking on this journey with you!! God has done a beautiful and wonderful transformation in your life. Love 2 see this!! ❤❤

  • @biancae3146
    @biancae3146 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi maya I haven’t seen you in months ,!! Oh girl it’s always great to see you girl 😅 i love how your close to God yet you have your great essence girl 😍 sending you a big sister hug 🤗 God bless you guys 👨‍👩‍👧

  • @jadeshousekeeping
    @jadeshousekeeping ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve been with my husband since I was 19. We didn’t get married till we were 22. 10 years this year. We had our kids at 25 and 27. I kind of wish I had waited until my 30s to have kids. We could have given them so much more. They are 4 and 7 now and I’m still amazed that my kids are not babies. You arnt missing anything.

  • @NianaLashea
    @NianaLashea ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I got married at 19 and I’m 20 and I love being married like partying drinking and smoking is so overrated.

  • @MagnoliaMolasses
    @MagnoliaMolasses ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A man’s heart plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps. Proverbs 16:9 👏🏾🙏🏾🌟🌟🌟 God will write the story of when your children are born ✔👌🏾👌🏾sooo enjoy the journey and the blessings when they come 💖💖💖💖

  • @desireeafidegnon1436
    @desireeafidegnon1436 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'am very proud of you because you Talk the truth. May God bless you and your husband and Genesis.

  • @c0373
    @c0373 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was perfect timing i just got done studying and now i needed a new video to watch and ya Girll posted!!!!🥰💗💗💗💗

  • @prettyboo131
    @prettyboo131 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the transparency

  • @Ianwigginsd8752
    @Ianwigginsd8752 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol. Im smiling at the part where u said u joined 70 pounds. I had my first child at 23 and i had always been fit. I gained 100 pounds! I thought i had a driverd license to eat whatever i wanted and i did. So after i had the baby and went home, i was like maybe 20 pounds lighter and i was like...hey wait a minute....where did all of this weight come from? Lol. It took me about a year to lose the other 70 pounds. It was so hard but i did it. It was happy weight because when i looked at my son, i experienced the love of my life. Ive also struggles with an eating disorder in the past ...so ive learned over the years to not obssess over my body, size, weight...God loves me just the way I am.
    .and that is all that matters.

  • @keziahelainen
    @keziahelainen ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yess . i was a child of God first, then an entrepreneur, then a mother, and i will be a wife. not just a mother. God comes first and my son second, but my individual self is still a priority!

  • @Tehillah_Swart
    @Tehillah_Swart ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So proud of you maya❤️you're so amazing!!

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love to see you growing every year❤❤❤❤ stronger

  • @CookingWithAlphaDior
    @CookingWithAlphaDior ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the sit down GRWM chats❤

  • @Lisa_31252
    @Lisa_31252 ปีที่แล้ว

    one thing about Maya she will come through with the CONSISTENCYYY and i am heree forrr ittttt🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @jasb2974
    @jasb2974 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girllll I’m watching these videos like Ouu wee gods going to do It everytime 😭

  • @ivetteFerrill
    @ivetteFerrill ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you Maya!!! ❤

  • @jadeshousekeeping
    @jadeshousekeeping ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wait a few years for more kids. I had mine 2 yr 9 m apart and it was a little close. It’s a lot. At least a 3 year gap. But not too long cause it’s great for them to play together!!

  • @RichelleJL
    @RichelleJL ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughter is 4 and I always thought I would be the mom to have 2 under 2 or 2 under 3, but I'm thankful God has put a hold and told me to wait cause he knew I would've been stressed and depressed with 2 kids under 3. I'm finally in a space where I'm ready.

  • @tanaarcher3258
    @tanaarcher3258 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yayyyyyy!!!! Another one *DJ Khalid voice*

  • @muslimah0840
    @muslimah0840 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I married my husband at 18🥰🥰, I am 25 and him and I are about to make 7 years with 3 children. There's not much out here and too much mental strain to Dibble and dabble within this generation 💜

  • @mommyleslie
    @mommyleslie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mommy to be and I’m loving your content girl ❤️ your very much helping me out ! I’m about to be 20 with my first baby boy and gonna get married too! Glad I’m not alone 😩

  • @eternalparadisee
    @eternalparadisee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mayaaa! When I tell you I LOVED this video, keep inspiring ❤🥰

  • @naturallexiness1518
    @naturallexiness1518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mama gained 70lbs when she was pregnant with me . Girl I’m 28 in two months she still reminds me of what I did to her body 😂😂😂😂

  • @Lileo28
    @Lileo28 ปีที่แล้ว

    “If it’s nap time for her, it’s GO time for y’all !”
    This is me and my husband with our 3 month old, I can relate lol

  • @KMA823
    @KMA823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would love for someone who asks those questions about being young and married to elaborate on that. Because it’s like she said what is she missing out on. It’s very much damned if you do and damned if you don’t with society. Because here she is being questioned on marrying young but then you have women in their mid 30’s or older being questioned on when they’re going to get married. Everyone’s life and journey on earth is different and if Maya’s journey was to be married at 19 then so be it. There shouldn’t be any “outside wondering” what’s for her is for her and what’s for the next person is for them. Period.

  • @pinkbunnie57
    @pinkbunnie57 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How do you keep your self motivated to get your self ready. I’m pregnant and currently not working anymore. I think I’m letting my self go. I don’t care if I’m in my pajamas all day. And no makeup or hair done. Please help ❤

  • @Settingtrins
    @Settingtrins ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this! ❤️ so glad you did a GRWM

  • @pureahaxo12
    @pureahaxo12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also got married at 19 and I agree with everything you said about marriage ☺️

  • @TangledTee
    @TangledTee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm obsessed with your lamps in the background! mind sharing where you got them from?

  • @hairbycolee4433
    @hairbycolee4433 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m so proud of you Maya. God is really doing a thing in your life but I think some of us single girlies who had watched before your transition to being a wife and motherhood it’s a bit hard relating to your Q & A. I wish you also answered questions from the single girl perspective. The one who is still in the waiting/healing season before they get to experience the answered prayer of a family with a Godly man. I kinda feel neglected in that aspect 😢 but all in all it’s really nothing but love. Will still continue supporting you ❤️❤️

  • @jamaylaxo
    @jamaylaxo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yess💓 im a bit late but i cannot wait to watch this while i work!😊

  • @luztraver3295
    @luztraver3295 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always enjoy your videos sis 😘

  • @DIYLETSCREATE_MINIATURES
    @DIYLETSCREATE_MINIATURES ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I use to watch Potomac too! I think it’s one of the better ones of all the housewives show.

  • @jadeshousekeeping
    @jadeshousekeeping ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 4.6 years post pardum and it never ends. You never really get back to “normal”

  • @lizzyezekiel116
    @lizzyezekiel116 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you girl❤️🥰

  • @sonerithageises4441
    @sonerithageises4441 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this while cooking feels like I'm on Facetime with a friend🫂🤍🤭...
    Always nice to come by and find Maya posted a video!💓

  • @jalaajamess3228
    @jalaajamess3228 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought I was the only one ! 😂😂 Potomac is addictive and Itzzz big conviction 😂😂

  • @katieasammy
    @katieasammy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Got married at 21 and life is better than it ever has been! Love the life God gives you in full!! 💖

  • @ericabadu2478
    @ericabadu2478 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She said five years i will have my son but God was like giiirrrrl you have no idea what I’ve got in stored for you😂😂😂…

    • @MayaGraves
      @MayaGraves  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Literally 😂

  • @Oluwatoyosi.A
    @Oluwatoyosi.A ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos so much

  • @dianematos8589
    @dianematos8589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! Try the Lange Wand- amazing! Plus all their hair products.

  • @eraiel3212
    @eraiel3212 ปีที่แล้ว

    We’re about to go worship!!!!! I know that’s right.

  • @nevaehjoiner9106
    @nevaehjoiner9106 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love ur channel ur family keep doing what ur doing u are so pretty love yall 🥰🥰

  • @MillieG26
    @MillieG26 ปีที่แล้ว

    i needed this. been stressing about my weight gain....im 6 months pregnant and have gained 40 lbs so far and i know its just gonna keep going up. Google sucks telling me by 6 months i should have only gained 10 lbs....like what????? nah girl

  • @shainaj.
    @shainaj. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the consistency!!❤

  • @Puppets_4_u
    @Puppets_4_u ปีที่แล้ว +1

    youre gorgeous inside and out sis

  • @nissakari
    @nissakari ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great video!!! i love you and Jesus loves you wayyy more! MAY GOD BLESS YOU❤️❤️🙏

  • @diamondwilliams1207
    @diamondwilliams1207 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yasssssss consistency from the fav

  • @Savannaaah.w
    @Savannaaah.w ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You surprised me when you said yes you want more kids lol I wonder what changed your mind cause you said you are very much one and done😂😂 two kids is harddd so pls wait ❤️

  • @stephief4551
    @stephief4551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love these videos maya !!!!🫶🏽💕💕✨

  • @benildeestrela
    @benildeestrela ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your channel maya 🥰

  • @sineadoneill9307
    @sineadoneill9307 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow your so stunning 💕

  • @SianKaylee
    @SianKaylee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real Housewives of Potomac be stressing me out

    • @MayaGraves
      @MayaGraves  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When I say STRESSING me out 😩

  • @Janelle.
    @Janelle. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your glowwww❤️❤️

  • @tianalou
    @tianalou ปีที่แล้ว

    RHOP is that show Maya it’s okay 😂 wait until you get caught up you’re gonna gasp!

  • @indiaswaby9542
    @indiaswaby9542 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Worship!! We call it therapy 😂😂😂 I think I’m going to start calling it worship 😂

  • @shelleestewart584
    @shelleestewart584 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video so needed

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing 👑

  • @liileutogi8539
    @liileutogi8539 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope you have more children a sibling for Genesis would be be perfect I love you giving food for thought

  • @desireeafidegnon1436
    @desireeafidegnon1436 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Maya how are you? I like all the videos. One of your fan from Africa (Togo)

  • @800hopesecurity9
    @800hopesecurity9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Maya have a great day.😊

  • @ellefreedom587
    @ellefreedom587 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis saying five years like she ain’t just say her behind the scenes is great 🤣 you know dang well LMAO

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video❤❤❤

  • @ituitukelly
    @ituitukelly ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her

  • @333tee
    @333tee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you do videos girl talk videos, productivity, spirituality, manifesting and reaching goals staying disciplined

  • @destinycrowe759
    @destinycrowe759 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are yall going to have a big wedding

  • @clandestinelove93
    @clandestinelove93 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5 years…😂

  • @danihern186
    @danihern186 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mayaa❤

  • @bingibaby268
    @bingibaby268 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My guilty pleasure is the kardashians

  • @Itsyafavkk
    @Itsyafavkk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God sure do be playing around with us sometimes 😂

  • @liileutogi8539
    @liileutogi8539 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look stunning

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 ปีที่แล้ว

    Behind the scenes life lol

  • @eldanatesfagaber
    @eldanatesfagaber ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girllll you look too gooddddddd😍🫶🏽