It sounds good but the context is different. His way of making a girl laugh as implied will get him laughed at in today's time. Ain't nothing funny about being taken advantage of.
Old school ways work with old school women. With social media cheating has skyrocketed to a whole new universe. Have you ever had an old head who played the Sega Genesis back in his day stop playing video games for a while and they try to get back into gaming on a PS5. For the most part they don't know what they are doing the game has changed there are new controllers more buttons the games are no longer simple anymore meaning it isn't just as simple of making a girl laugh anymore with social media everyone can make her laugh. You have to learn how to play the new game cause you will lose every time thinking new game work just like the old game.
@@Mike-er9td the game been the same since the beginning of time homie. Making a woman laugh is key to getting any women young or old. It’s been that way before you and I. A woman who you can put a smile on her face will like to be around you. No one wants to be around someone who’s boring and serious all the time. Trust me make a woman smile and laugh is key. Yeah it takes more than just laughing
@@wblake22 yea but there is a difference in getting a woman and keeping a woman. Making her laugh will get you the woman but to keep her being faithful to you making her laugh ain't going to cut it when a bunch of other guys can do the same thing in her dms. The game isn't entirely the same their has been modifications added to it and if you are caught up on it you will get left behind. I'm not saying this just to be saying it there are stats that prove this and I have seen guys get played because another guy stepped in and made her laugh as well
@Valerie, 53 and 55 years is the same mindset wise and anyway, the convo is for the audience listening in because Shannon is representing the tv/online audience!
@@meklife1296She felt validated and wanted to take a dig at Unc for whatever reason … he’s reading the postcards and playing devils advocate (for common social media topics in this case) like any host would.
His advice works for rich guys who can buy women anything they want. For the everybody nobody who may not even get a date after the first date, I would never tell a dude to go broke at a 5 star restaurant for a woman who might ghost you after the date, I would never tell a man to take care of another man's child who he most likely can't even physically discipline the child and I definitely wouldn't tell a man to get friend zoned hoping one day the woman will grant him an intimate relationship. This is simping to the max. I get it if you're loaded with cash. But for the every day guy this is horrible advice lol
@@HotSauce-mn1mp I guess you missed the part where he mentioned his nurturing wife & I praised him for liking a nurturing woman. But if you consider a woman nurturing her family & taking care of her step kids as "doing nothing to earn", idk what you define as being worthy of earning his love or support.
@@ALtheelectrician yeah I don't agree with the 5 star restaurant thing. As for getting friendzone, I interpreted what he was saying as build a friendship while you're dating the person so you can talk about anything & actually like each other. I would advise a man to care for someone else's child if he is also a father & wants someone to take care of his, which is the case for Kirk.
@@summerrain6125This is what she’s supposed to do! Kirk is not supposed to take care of her seed, not supposed to simply give her what she wants. But you all hear what you want to hear which is nothing new.
My parents were friends at first, they met in college and have been married for 43 years. Of course, it hasn't always been easy, but whatever is worth having is worth fighting for.😊
Kirk is correct and Im not an old head or a millionaire. 36 years old met my now wife in 2016, married in 2021. Making her laugh is a cheat code and takes the edge off cause comedy/humor takes empathy.
@@malikgordon5230 It does matter. What's funny is you're a modern man with modern man ideologies. So get up that $40 or go overseas to find a woman who's looking for an American man to save her and her entire family.
This man has been married almost 30yrs! Lol smh what sense is he making that’s relative to relationship dynamics today? Lol smdh. He’s talking about catering to women and that’s it! Nah no ty
Most women will still cook and clean and rear children happily if the man can provide. The problem is most men these days want a woman to pay half the bills but also do all of the housework and child care! You can't have it both ways fellas.
Ain’t no amount of cooking and cleaning that can be equal to a full time job’s effort to me while you’re staying at home and not contributing financially… but that’s just me
Finally someone said it!! Marriage is not the end all be all. People can exist without getting married. Someone finally came on the show and said that!! YES!!
The issue is when these “single” people desire marital experiences, they engage in forbidden activities(entanglements). So why do that? Be married 🤷🏾♂️
I loved this conversation. I lived in LA for 15 years and yes I ran into the women who only cared about the $. And it was fine, I was very clear this is what I got right now, if that's not good enough for you... be on out. I was by myself for a while. But... when I found my real one. We grew together. And still happy.
@@fvfr6294 You are not the first person to tell me that 🙂. Full disclosure. A lot of people in my family seemed to get their marriage right on the second try. Men and Women. Even my parents were married once before meeting each other Watching that drama growing up I made a decision. I will get married once or not at all. Wasn't easy, but I already knew what the other pain looked like and that kept me on track.
Naw... I think you got it wrong. A man could be with a woman got 5 years and here she come with the arguments about a proposal. Ain't no man arguing about no proposal. Not a one. 😊
Yea 100k a year 6 feet and up, having to make you laugh, treat you like a baby, open the door for you and pay for your 💩 cause you’re too broke and want a father instead of a man is real simple 😂😂
I ain’t gonna lie, I slept on your interview game. You are a legend. This is very entertaining and you are amazingly talented. Must give you your flowers.
I think it's sad that Kirk has to explain this to men who are 40+ 🤦🏿♀️ Smh. Arrested Development. However ☝🏿, it's beautiful when a person can receive sound advice at any age.
There’s so many nice restaurants out there that don’t cost a lot. As a foodie I’d appreciate someone more taking me to a cool tasty restaurant. Fine dining is nice occasionally but I don’t know how to cut steak lmao 🤣
The odd part is to hear men go on & on about what they don't want instead deciding what they do want & and taking action. There's millions of women worldwide. Yet somehow for a man like Shannon he's more interested in women who want his money and who like to be promiscuous. Very odd.
I’ll never take a woman to an expensive restaurant on the first date especially if we haven’t really spoken before I never had a problem getting ladies it’s just dumb to think that before you even get to know someone you gotta spend a big bag
Exactly. Just don’t take these gold diggers ANYWHERE!! Let them keep spending their own money going out with their girls, when they eventually get tired of being constantly broke, maybe one day they’ll change, otherwise, DO NOT save them! KEEP your hard earned money!!
It’s easy to love someone who is stable. You find out just how interested that same person is if you have a rough patch. More often than not you will be thrown the ✌🏾 quicker than you can blink. What have you done for me lately comes to mind.
That’s crazy coming from a bunch of millionaires when over 50% of american households work paycheck to paycheck and the middle class moving towards 100k a year
😂 So Kirk saying he would be a simp in 2023 if he was not married.. you give her an inch she will take a mile. They are going to want five stars every single time.
Coming from a man Shannon has no clue how a woman is wired. A real woman wants security and to be lead. And also to be loved. I pray Shannon gets a revelation about
Shannon: Naw I ain’t looking at No feet. Nobody looking at feet Kirk: You not looking at feet? Shannon: SMH Kirk: sips and says I’m looking at feet 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm laughing when you said noooo. If you have a high class women of course, she is looking for a 5-star restaurant, but you must get a down to earth women.
I have seen people split the bills 50/50 and still argue about finances, and whether or not the relationship itself is 50/50. All I know is that the joy, peace, and power I feel from fulfilling my roles and keeping my agreements with my wife renew my capacity to do more. It has been 70/30 me and 80/20 her at any given time for both the finances and the relationship. When Kirk advised men not to act in an authoritarian way and to use the wisdom of our wives, I smiled. My wife and I trust each other's brilliance. We both feel powerful enough to switch roles and use each other's strategies, and address each other's fears along the way. This has given us the flexibility to succeed despite the aggression of those working to weaken our relationship. Complementary is the key.
Yeah, because he wants to be, and he’s SMART!! There’s a PLETHORA of women who want to be with him AND take his money through marriage. THIS MAN KNOWS THE GAME and the VULTURES that exist!! What’s the point in building up your empire just to meet someone randomly and get it all taken from you?? Suckas are learning this EVERY DAY in divorce courts! 😂🤣😆😆😆
Some guys are just providers. They take pride in that. Kirk is one of those. They weren’t/aren’t simps but real men. People who call those men simps most likely didn’t see their fathers emulate that, so it’s foreign to them. They vilify what they don’t understand. I also know guys who may not pay all the bills, but they pay the bulk of the bills, including the mortgage. If she works, the wife is responsible for her car payment, or recreational expenses. They do not do 50/50.
That is 50/50. Your mortgage is biggest expense in your life. What are you talking about. You must be a bird that doesn’t understand the economics of life
@@retravienmccullough1949I’ll amend that.Specifically the wives only pay for their car payments and/or recreational activities. And no, I’m a woman that was raised by a man who paid all the bills.
today’s value of money is not yesterday’s value of money. Back in the day a man could afford to pay for everything. Nowadays, you can make six figures and still struggle to pay 100% of household bills if you have a family. Trust me, I know
Kirk is telling the truth! My husband (before he was my husband) he made me laugh so hard I told him “I love you” FIRST! Nothing like a funny man! 13 years later…. We are best friends and my AMAZING HUSBAND STILL is the funniest person I know!
I don't need to go to a 5 star restaurant, imma go wherever u take me..as long as the vibes are good between us and u can make me laugh until my stomach hurts..we good
@@cjohnson_ you sound like a fool. Duh dating is for a purpose read all the comments B4 adding your cent.🤣😭 You're getting to know someone for either marriage or relationship not to just get to know. I'm not going to date to just get to know.
@@coreythomas3633 no you are but that's your opinion 😭🤣 just another opinion like the rest of the world. Opinions only matter to the people making it. If people call others delusional because of their opinion what does that say about you. IGNORANT 😭
Oh geez man Kirk was ok til he said take her wherever she wants like money grows on trees this woman uses me for a five star restaurant and then what .. a lot of these women want what they can get out of you. I didn’t take a woman out to a 5 star restaurant til she was my wife why am I investing all this money on a woman I might not even have a future with
@@ellenburke3698 that’s why I said nothing about her working Stop imposing And “sitting back “ is far from being the person going to work everyday Chill Hyperfeminism
@@Alexis-wg5nx that’s like why I could never marry you American women Alhamdolillah my wife is African and cultured traditionally How disgusting to say traditional nuclear roles are 10/90 as if to discredit the efforts of both parties DIS GUS TING HYPERFEMINISM
How bout how you go higher than "heerrrreeee" is by committing, becoming intimate, growing, building. You tell her "baby this expensive restaurante may be the top tier of dating scenes, but its the very bottom level of love i can give you. Its entry level. Then look her in her eyes and say now tell me where you want me to TAKE you." Emphasis on the take.
Yeah only grateful if a man is making millions got it. Most men you see everyday aren’t that. So you saying you aren’t grateful for the things they do to make your day go well. Smh And wonder why
@@lalewi79the other side of this is that men do care about money whn it comes to themself..although u may have your finances in order..if he doesnt..he is constantly thinking abt it...and that can really take a toll on his leading especially whn he is doing nthn abt it..then you will find yourself as a woman leading .
Yup. Certain questions shouldn't be asked to married folks. I've been with the same woman since 19. I'm in my 40s. I don't know nothing about new dating stuff 😂.
Let me be 100% honest with you. Yes, Kirk isn’t going to understand certain things, but dating will change for you once you change your mindset. I was cracking everything I wanted. Not to brag but these women were fine. Once I met my fiance I knew my time was up. I got my wiggles out and committed, and she was already ready to be with me. You need to be vulnerable on both sides and want to have something greater. Social media has made dating infinitely more difficult because what dudes and women show is not the real you online, at least most people try to flex. I deleted all my social media and that’s when me and my fiance got serious dating wise. You have to want it and eliminate the need to always be right. Get off all dating apps. It’s not there. Find her in person.
Most of yall getting advice from men/women that been rejected and on the internet all day. Yall put your status on the front line instead of your personality. Dating doesn't mean getting married right after. Learn to have fun on these dates. Keep listening to these 'high earning, twice divorced, high body count' people if you want 😅
If you have money and you'd like to know if a woman is truly into who you are ❤. Dress down and ride in a hooptie (low-key vehicle). TRUST this type of woman loves for who you are and NOT what you have.
I have no idea why women work so hard to get educated and build skills just to turn around to want a man that pays everything. Shouldn’t you just be putting all that time and attention to being attractive, a better cook, mother etc. if that’s all you intend to be in the long run.. a housewife? Nothings’ wrong with that but it just doesn’t make sense. If I wanted to be a pro basketball player, then why am I going to debate practice?
I have no idea why men think every woman is supposed to break her back working bc that's what they mamma did. It doesn't matter how many degrees, if she is with a real man bc he is gonna provide, period.
@@cjohnson_ sorry I wasn’t born in the 50s like you… I was raised upper middle class because both of my parents worked and provided for my brothers and I… actually couldn’t name you a successful household that comes from 1 income.. you’re no realer man than me.. kinda the opposite of being a man is judging your worth by what another person defines you
It’s beautiful to hear a man speak about his wife this way in this social climate. Loved the interview!
Yeah, cause he don't want no dirt to come out 😂
@@naturesown1807ya broke and lazy and need a woman help. That feminine.
@@naturesown1807lmaooo EXACTLY, he’s married in modern society he HAS to speak like this 😂😂😂
He ain’t lying fellas. Being able to make a woman laugh is key. 40+ years of experience
It sounds good but the context is different. His way of making a girl laugh as implied will get him laughed at in today's time. Ain't nothing funny about being taken advantage of.
Old school ways work with old school women. With social media cheating has skyrocketed to a whole new universe. Have you ever had an old head who played the Sega Genesis back in his day stop playing video games for a while and they try to get back into gaming on a PS5. For the most part they don't know what they are doing the game has changed there are new controllers more buttons the games are no longer simple anymore meaning it isn't just as simple of making a girl laugh anymore with social media everyone can make her laugh. You have to learn how to play the new game cause you will lose every time thinking new game work just like the old game.
@@Mike-er9td the game been the same since the beginning of time homie. Making a woman laugh is key to getting any women young or old. It’s been that way before you and I. A woman who you can put a smile on her face will like to be around you. No one wants to be around someone who’s boring and serious all the time. Trust me make a woman smile and laugh is key. Yeah it takes more than just laughing
@@wblake22 yea but there is a difference in getting a woman and keeping a woman. Making her laugh will get you the woman but to keep her being faithful to you making her laugh ain't going to cut it when a bunch of other guys can do the same thing in her dms. The game isn't entirely the same their has been modifications added to it and if you are caught up on it you will get left behind. I'm not saying this just to be saying it there are stats that prove this and I have seen guys get played because another guy stepped in and made her laugh as well
@@naturesown1807ya broke and lazy and need a woman help. That feminine.
Kirk 53 years old telling Shannon who’s 55 that he’s a youngster lol
Great convo!
@Valerie, 53 and 55 years is the same mindset wise and anyway, the convo is for the audience listening in because Shannon is representing the tv/online audience!
Experience vs age..!!😊
@@meklife1296She felt validated and wanted to take a dig at Unc for whatever reason … he’s reading the postcards and playing devils advocate (for common social media topics in this case) like any host would.
he was not speaking to shannon but his young audience
Thats WHY KIRK IS MARRIED AND BEEN MARRIED FOR 30 plus years
30 years or being married in 1993 has a far different cry than 2023 in today's society.
Yes, because he’s super rich lol
@@ellenburke3698 and yet, she didn’t lol….
Maybe because he had a lot of money
@@ellenburke3698They aren’t old enough to remember that 😂
Kirk became instantly more attractive in this clip. Such wisdom & a husband mindset. And I love how he seems turned on by his wife's nurturing spirit.
Of course he is as long as it’s something about giving yall something not earned
His advice works for rich guys who can buy women anything they want. For the everybody nobody who may not even get a date after the first date, I would never tell a dude to go broke at a 5 star restaurant for a woman who might ghost you after the date, I would never tell a man to take care of another man's child who he most likely can't even physically discipline the child and I definitely wouldn't tell a man to get friend zoned hoping one day the woman will grant him an intimate relationship. This is simping to the max. I get it if you're loaded with cash. But for the every day guy this is horrible advice lol
@@HotSauce-mn1mp I guess you missed the part where he mentioned his nurturing wife & I praised him for liking a nurturing woman. But if you consider a woman nurturing her family & taking care of her step kids as "doing nothing to earn", idk what you define as being worthy of earning his love or support.
@@ALtheelectrician yeah I don't agree with the 5 star restaurant thing.
As for getting friendzone, I interpreted what he was saying as build a friendship while you're dating the person so you can talk about anything & actually like each other.
I would advise a man to care for someone else's child if he is also a father & wants someone to take care of his, which is the case for Kirk.
@@summerrain6125This is what she’s supposed to do! Kirk is not supposed to take care of her seed, not supposed to simply give her what she wants. But you all hear what you want to hear which is nothing new.
My parents were friends at first, they met in college and have been married for 43 years. Of course, it hasn't always been easy, but whatever is worth having is worth fighting for.😊
Did they ever cheat on each other? 😏
Kirk is so masculine and confident! I love it ❤
Bwahahahaha. Ain't nothing masculine about this man
Kirk is correct and Im not an old head or a millionaire. 36 years old met my now wife in 2016, married in 2021. Making her laugh is a cheat code and takes the edge off cause comedy/humor takes empathy.
Give it time lol
Thank you Kirk for speaking the truth. That's why you are still married. That's why I'm still married to my husband for 25 years.
I really enjoyed this clip. Kirk Franklin spoke real truth.
Yea. If we were still living in the 1900s.
No he did not speak the truth
@@malikgordon5230 Just say you're not financially capable then, it's not the truth to you. ✌🏾
@@Keshia.Co. It does not matter that I’m financially stable or not. I’m not going to pay 💰 100 percent. With y’all modern women.
@@malikgordon5230 It does matter. What's funny is you're a modern man with modern man ideologies. So get up that $40 or go overseas to find a woman who's looking for an American man to save her and her entire family.
I really appreciate Kirk Franklin for this clip! He speaks so much sense and peace
How is buy a woman whatever she wants much sense
He’s a simp, no sense in that WHATsoever 😂🤣😆
This man has been married almost 30yrs! Lol smh what sense is he making that’s relative to relationship dynamics today? Lol smdh. He’s talking about catering to women and that’s it! Nah no ty
Most women will still cook and clean and rear children happily if the man can provide. The problem is most men these days want a woman to pay half the bills but also do all of the housework and child care! You can't have it both ways fellas.
That part!
Everything that you just said is WRONG! 👇🏾
Ain’t no amount of cooking and cleaning that can be equal to a full time job’s effort to me while you’re staying at home and not contributing financially… but that’s just me
So what if you are doing everything and she refuses to fulfill her promise
Finally someone said it!! Marriage is not the end all be all. People can exist without getting married. Someone finally came on the show and said that!! YES!!
Hebrews 13:4 Sent respectfully
The issue is when these “single” people desire marital experiences, they engage in forbidden activities(entanglements). So why do that? Be married 🤷🏾♂️
So many people want a marriage but don't understand in order for it to be in a SUCCESSFUL marriage you need to be a WHOLE healthy person FIRST.
Who the heck EVER said people CAN’T exist without getting married 😂🤣?? LITERALLY, MOST people AREN’T married! And who stopped existing???? 😂🤣😆
@@CeeWorld69 they mean that people make it seem like people can't exist happily and fulfilled without being married.
Dope conversation
Yes it was.
I loved this conversation. I lived in LA for 15 years and yes I ran into the women who only cared about the $. And it was fine, I was very clear this is what I got right now, if that's not good enough for you... be on out.
I was by myself for a while. But... when I found my real one. We grew together. And still happy.
🦄you sir are a unicorn🦄
@@fvfr6294 You are not the first person to tell me that 🙂. Full disclosure. A lot of people in my family seemed to get their marriage right on the second try. Men and Women. Even my parents were married once before meeting each other
Watching that drama growing up I made a decision. I will get married once or not at all.
Wasn't easy, but I already knew what the other pain looked like and that kept me on track.
Women only want men with money
Women do not have to be married or in a relationship to be happy. And it seems like a lot of men can’t accept that.
Naw... I think you got it wrong. A man could be with a woman got 5 years and here she come with the arguments about a proposal. Ain't no man arguing about no proposal. Not a one. 😊
The difference of spirit of the two men in this conversation is interesting to watch
Kirk Franklin is a real one.
bottom line: do what works for you and yours. THE END
Amen
Big Facts!
@@markkindle8114ya broke and lazy and need a woman help. That feminine.
@@Marlon-yu9irya broke and lazy and need a woman help. That feminine.
Who is, “yours” lol??
Thank you, Kirk! It's real simple.
SO SIMPLE
Yeah right 😂
Yea 100k a year 6 feet and up, having to make you laugh, treat you like a baby, open the door for you and pay for your 💩 cause you’re too broke and want a father instead of a man is real simple 😂😂
@@chilout2496 whew are you ok?? Imagine listing "opening the door" as if that's some huge upheaval. LMAO. Y'all sorry as a mfer.
@@chilout2496 Whew! I hope you get a chance to experience a healthy relationship one day. ❤️
Kirk is absolutely right🎯
I ain’t gonna lie, I slept on your interview game. You are a legend. This is very entertaining and you are amazingly talented. Must give you your flowers.
Kirk, unfortunately every man isn’t ready to receive the wisdom you’re sharing 😢
I think it's sad that Kirk has to explain this to men who are 40+ 🤦🏿♀️ Smh. Arrested Development. However ☝🏿, it's beautiful when a person can receive sound advice at any age.
This man understands women...finally!!
Shut up
You sound lonely. Stop posting nonsense.
Gold diggers
you dont have any gold to dig. @@ericnewman6523
Kirk had it right I think ppl out here with the bread and NO game
To me, the 1st date is a test. Both sides feeling each other out and checking limits to how far one can go. IMO 😎✌️
I’m with Shannon 😂. Just because I got it don’t mean she supposed to automatically have it right away lol
There’s so many nice restaurants out there that don’t cost a lot. As a foodie I’d appreciate someone more taking me to a cool tasty restaurant. Fine dining is nice occasionally but I don’t know how to cut steak lmao 🤣
@@stephanielove2662why tf does everything have to be about spending money to take y’all somewhere
The odd part is to hear men go on & on about what they don't want instead deciding what they do want & and taking action. There's millions of women worldwide. Yet somehow for a man like Shannon he's more interested in women who want his money and who like to be promiscuous. Very odd.
@@HotSauce-mn1mp I experience a good life with or without a man.
@@stephanielove2662 that doesn’t answer my question at all.
Shannon on point 😂😂Nooooo
I’ll never take a woman to an expensive restaurant on the first date especially if we haven’t really spoken before I never had a problem getting ladies it’s just dumb to think that before you even get to know someone you gotta spend a big bag
Exactly. Just don’t take these gold diggers ANYWHERE!! Let them keep spending their own money going out with their girls, when they eventually get tired of being constantly broke, maybe one day they’ll change, otherwise, DO NOT save them! KEEP your hard earned money!!
Ordering $50.00 dollar water 😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
He really got serious about the feet 4:46 😂 me too… haha
Came here to find the feet comment! 😂
I'm looking at them feet for sure.
Don’t know this dude but this was pleasant. Smart dude. Make my way to the full podcast now.
It’s easy to love someone who is stable. You find out just how interested that same person is if you have a rough patch. More often than not you will be thrown the ✌🏾 quicker than you can blink. What have you done for me lately comes to mind.
Kirk just gets it.
Kirk is an unrealistic pandering preacher. That's why Blackmen don't go to church anymore.
@@SIRTURF 😂😂😂😂😂 you seem like you need church real bad
No he doesn’t. He’s been out of game for years
@@SIRTURF, stay focussed dude and stay on topic! He has the right to preach dude!
@@DPeezy3158kirk is right ya just LOSSED.
Thank you so much Kirk…
Great conversation
That’s crazy coming from a bunch of millionaires when over 50% of american households work paycheck to paycheck and the middle class moving towards 100k a year
Thank you my brotha !! And that’s why women Brain washed now
This is a fact.
Date within your budget and you'll be fine. The problem is you 1 star men want 5 star women. Stick to the rivers and the lakes you're used to.
@@cjohnson_ not sure what’ a one star man is I do know this conversation largely comes from one segment of the population.
@@retravienmccullough1949excuses excuse
Kirk out here simping more than Steve Harvey 😂🤣😆😆
Shannon's face when Kirk says he's looking at feet is priceless 🤣🤣🤣
Kirk was dropping 💎!! Loved this interview ❤
“Oh nou, nooouuuuu!” Unc I felt that lol😂
😂 So Kirk saying he would be a simp in 2023 if he was not married.. you give her an inch she will take a mile. They are going to want five stars every single time.
Man im lookin at feet * TAKES A DRINK *
HE STANDIN ON BIZZNESS😂
Coming from a man Shannon has no clue how a woman is wired. A real woman wants security and to be lead. And also to be loved. I pray Shannon gets a revelation about
That’s exactly what Shannon said.
Come on bro Shannon ain’t stupid. Most females his age MAY want that but this day and age that typically ain’t the case
😂😂😂Love Shannon interviews man funny but full of free game i appreciate y'all
Great convo!
You don’t ask her where she wants to go.
Shannon: Naw I ain’t looking at No feet. Nobody looking at feet
Kirk: You not looking at feet?
Shannon: SMH
Kirk: sips and says I’m looking at feet
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
4:32 Unk 😂😂😂😂😂
Well said Kirk 👏🏾💯
By the way Unk Shannon
we look at feet 👀 🦶🏾 💅🏽
😅🤣😂
I'm laughing when you said noooo. If you have a high class women of course, she is looking for a 5-star restaurant, but you must get a down to earth women.
No, you must get the woman you love.
Kirk got on here spitting the finest of cloth talk. If you want her, you gon take her where she want to go.
If young men follow Kirk’s advice , they’d never get laid 💯 Pay for play is what these women are looking for, they not tryna hear that ish💯
Exactly
They teaching, they teaching!!
Kirk said “I’m looking at feet” lol bruh I’m weakkkkkk
I have seen people split the bills 50/50 and still argue about finances, and whether or not the relationship itself is 50/50. All I know is that the joy, peace, and power I feel from fulfilling my roles and keeping my agreements with my wife renew my capacity to do more. It has been 70/30 me and 80/20 her at any given time for both the finances and the relationship. When Kirk advised men not to act in an authoritarian way and to use the wisdom of our wives, I smiled. My wife and I trust each other's brilliance. We both feel powerful enough to switch roles and use each other's strategies, and address each other's fears along the way. This has given us the flexibility to succeed despite the aggression of those working to weaken our relationship. Complementary is the key.
Shannon's inner thoughts
"Ocho come get ya boi......"
Come on Kirk! Loved all of this!
4:36 😂😂😂😅
That's why he will STAY SINGLE!!!! Shay Shay needs therapy.
I see why Shannon single😂😂
Yeah, because he wants to be, and he’s SMART!! There’s a PLETHORA of women who want to be with him AND take his money through marriage. THIS MAN KNOWS THE GAME and the VULTURES that exist!!
What’s the point in building up your empire just to meet someone randomly and get it all taken from you?? Suckas are learning this EVERY DAY in divorce courts! 😂🤣😆😆😆
Ohhh NO 😂😂
Kirk that may have worked in 95 ... The ecosystem has completed changed my brudda!!
Some guys are just providers. They take pride in that. Kirk is one of those. They weren’t/aren’t simps but real men. People who call those men simps most likely didn’t see their fathers emulate that, so it’s foreign to them. They vilify what they don’t understand.
I also know guys who may not pay all the bills, but they pay the bulk of the bills, including the mortgage. If she works, the wife is responsible for her car payment, or recreational expenses. They do not do 50/50.
The second paragraph you wrote is still 50/50 lol
That is 50/50. Your mortgage is biggest expense in your life. What are you talking about.
You must be a bird that doesn’t understand the economics of life
@@retravienmccullough1949I’ll amend that.Specifically the wives only pay for their car payments and/or recreational activities. And no, I’m a woman that was raised by a man who paid all the bills.
@@Mrgetoff-h7pThe mortgage isn’t the only bill the guy pays.
@@willawentertainment in 1980 or 1990 is the guys point
2:42 Tell him Kirk, this man got a lot to learn. No wonder he's single.
Cause Unc choose to be lol
today’s value of money is not yesterday’s value of money. Back in the day a man could afford to pay for everything. Nowadays, you can make six figures and still struggle to pay 100% of household bills if you have a family. Trust me, I know
@@ellenburke36983 jobs ?! Dang God rest his soul 💯🙏🏾
@@ellenburke3698 yeah I don't disagree, as humans get smarter, we get softer
Kirk Franklin👏🏾
Kirk is telling the truth! My husband (before he was my husband) he made me laugh so hard I told him “I love you” FIRST! Nothing like a funny man! 13 years later…. We are best friends and my AMAZING HUSBAND STILL is the funniest person I know!
Yes Kirk Franklin! Tell 'em!
Preach! Preach! Preach! Shannon,I'm not going to tell you anything crazy! We can order Chili's and eat at the house!
An unmarried man yelling to a multiple decades long married man about what to do for a woman. Nothing to see here.
I agree with the marriage advice 💯
Shannon I love you and your show but you gotta listen - Mr. Franklin is speaking facts
Men lead, women follow. Men are the prize, if we do the work.
Collection plate must be doing good for kirk
No, that publishing and production fees is what’s doing well for him. He’s a GOAT producer/songwriter not a preacher.
I don't need to go to a 5 star restaurant, imma go wherever u take me..as long as the vibes are good between us and u can make me laugh until my stomach hurts..we good
Ain't nobody dating to just waste money to lead to nothing period bro. Dating just to get to know waste of time and money 😅
You sound confused. Dating is literally to get to know someone. Wtf
@@cjohnson_ you sound like a fool. Duh dating is for a purpose read all the comments B4 adding your cent.🤣😭 You're getting to know someone for either marriage or relationship not to just get to know. I'm not going to date to just get to know.
Ya DELUSIONAL
@@coreythomas3633 no you are but that's your opinion 😭🤣 just another opinion like the rest of the world. Opinions only matter to the people making it. If people call others delusional because of their opinion what does that say about you. IGNORANT 😭
That's literally what dating is. Spending time to get to know someone. If not then just hire an escort and get your money worth.😅
Can yall stop saying women outnumber men? Thats just false. Men outnumber women and that’s an easy lookup.
4:34
Come on Kirk !!! Give them some game!!!!!
Oh geez man Kirk was ok til he said take her wherever she wants like money grows on trees this woman uses me for a five star restaurant and then what .. a lot of these women want what they can get out of you. I didn’t take a woman out to a 5 star restaurant til she was my wife why am I investing all this money on a woman I might not even have a future with
50/50 means I provide the house you maintain it
I provide the food you cook it
So on and so forth
It will never be 50/ 50 and that's what folks fail to realize 🤔
That’s like 10/90. Not 50/50.
@@ellenburke3698 that’s why I said nothing about her working
Stop imposing
And “sitting back “ is far from being the person going to work everyday
Chill
Hyperfeminism
@@Alexis-wg5nx that’s like why I could never marry you American women
Alhamdolillah my wife is African and cultured traditionally
How disgusting to say traditional nuclear roles are 10/90 as if to discredit the efforts of both parties
DIS GUS TING HYPERFEMINISM
I'm with Unc
Marriage in the modern world is washed off. I'm good on marriage ✌🏾
Good.
How bout how you go higher than "heerrrreeee" is by committing, becoming intimate, growing, building. You tell her "baby this expensive restaurante may be the top tier of dating scenes, but its the very bottom level of love i can give you. Its entry level. Then look her in her eyes and say now tell me where you want me to TAKE you." Emphasis on the take.
That's good game
Sharpe funny as ever lol
Thank you. I’d go for some axe throwing or Dave & Busters for a first date
Sounds fun
I know I would be grateful. Frfr. Speak Kirk!
Yeah only grateful if a man is making millions got it. Most men you see everyday aren’t that. So you saying you aren’t grateful for the things they do to make your day go well. Smh
And wonder why
@retravienmccullough1949 so you have a problem with me being grateful for a man taking lead? I don't care about money. I have my own money. Th
@@lalewi79the other side of this is that men do care about money whn it comes to themself..although u may have your finances in order..if he doesnt..he is constantly thinking abt it...and that can really take a toll on his leading especially whn he is doing nthn abt it..then you will find yourself as a woman leading .
Kirk is not in these streets. He is totally oblivious to what’s going on out here.
Yup. Certain questions shouldn't be asked to married folks. I've been with the same woman since 19. I'm in my 40s. I don't know nothing about new dating stuff 😂.
Facts, and I thought unc was a trick smh
He playing a fool. He hip.
Let me be 100% honest with you. Yes, Kirk isn’t going to understand certain things, but dating will change for you once you change your mindset. I was cracking everything I wanted. Not to brag but these women were fine.
Once I met my fiance I knew my time was up. I got my wiggles out and committed, and she was already ready to be with me. You need to be vulnerable on both sides and want to have something greater. Social media has made dating infinitely more difficult because what dudes and women show is not the real you online, at least most people try to flex. I deleted all my social media and that’s when me and my fiance got serious dating wise. You have to want it and eliminate the need to always be right. Get off all dating apps. It’s not there. Find her in person.
What Kirk said still applies. Times change, people don't.
Periodt listen to Kirk
Most of yall getting advice from men/women that been rejected and on the internet all day. Yall put your status on the front line instead of your personality. Dating doesn't mean getting married right after. Learn to have fun on these dates. Keep listening to these 'high earning, twice divorced, high body count' people if you want 😅
She gone get that meal out of you and block you
Wow Kirk Franklin is highly intelligent. This is something I never knew prior to this interview.
Shannon gonna age out of a potential relationship by being so rigid.
Shannon is completely right. Shannon is not the only man that’s not trying to get taken advantage of
Not if he still has money! Haven’t we all seen these 90yo with 20yo’s? 🤷🏿♂️. lol.
Shout out to Tammy Franklin 👏🫡👏
If you have money and you'd like to know if a woman is truly into who you are ❤. Dress down and ride in a hooptie (low-key vehicle). TRUST this type of woman loves for who you are and NOT what you have.
Yeah bc women with no standards are such keepers.
@@cjohnson_ You're very delusional woman. Please don't get married with your asinine mindset.
But alot of nen wont admit to benefiting from a womans energy because they think it makes them less masculine
“I’m lookin at feet..”
This is what I came to find! 😂
I’m with Kirk on this one.
I have no idea why women work so hard to get educated and build skills just to turn around to want a man that pays everything. Shouldn’t you just be putting all that time and attention to being attractive, a better cook, mother etc. if that’s all you intend to be in the long run.. a housewife? Nothings’ wrong with that but it just doesn’t make sense. If I wanted to be a pro basketball player, then why am I going to debate practice?
them days over bruh let it go women need to come with more than just being a housewife
Because those degrees make them feel better than the next person, most people in general aren’t working in the field they have a degree in.
@@bigpapi3672 did you read what I said
I have no idea why men think every woman is supposed to break her back working bc that's what they mamma did. It doesn't matter how many degrees, if she is with a real man bc he is gonna provide, period.
@@cjohnson_ sorry I wasn’t born in the 50s like you… I was raised upper middle class because both of my parents worked and provided for my brothers and I… actually couldn’t name you a successful household that comes from 1 income.. you’re no realer man than me.. kinda the opposite of being a man is judging your worth by what another person defines you