Happened to my ex SIL. Tried to get more from my brother they lowered it but my brother being the type of person he is kept giving the same amount and a little more. She was upset he broke up with her. I still love her like a sister but she almost screwed herself.
I wouldn't call it being greedy. Her son is entering into new activities that cost money. She's paying the full amount for that. Children get more costly as they get older. And now the judge just made it so that he's paying less child support without being ordered to pay for any of those added expenses. He could stop paying all of that and because the order says $395/month that's all he'll have to pay. I'm not real crazy about some of the orders that Judge Vonda makes. It's like she's biased.
@@zawjatsaid1 My wife gets exactly half of our income tax return in a direct deposit from the IRS. I make 98% of our income. She fell in a dung heap and comes out smelling like a rose year after year.
Seems to be a fair judge. There are a lot of males that do the right thing and some females always want more and more. I’m glad this judge is fair 50/50
@@spiritualeefeminine8075 She’s a lawyer and makes these videos for educational purposes! None of the cases in these videos are real, but that are loosely based around real life scenarios.
My mother is one of those who want more and more thank fk my dad is a smart man she made her bed and had an affair so he filed gor divorce can't wait for August in court it's gunna be wild!
She doesn't deserve to lose her child sinply because she wants more money for her him. Her wanting more money doesn't make her abusive, neglectful, or anything that would warrant her losing her child.
Men take notice,this female wanted the ex-husband to pay ALL the expenses while she want's to do NOTHING,and try to COLLECT, glad that was NOT the case in the end,😊
@@1mol831 And they get protected by the Law when they do. Even when women have been guilty of child abuse they don't punish them, they offer them "Support". Meanwhile if a father so much as looks at the child wrong way they will take them away and restrict his access.
@@dannyjmuldoon1 Is it really that fucked up? I don't really think so, child abuse is a serious matter for women as well and they will probably be put behind bars and lose their rights to be a parent.
Thank you Judge for applying the legacy of Feminism on women. If more judges were like you, people would respect the law and single moms would be a minority
Women should quit being hypergamous then and stop monkey branching from man to man and stop the breaking up. Women initiate the divorce 80% of the time. You only want equal rights when it benefits the women. You want a traditional man without being a traditional woman. It's not feminism. It's narcissistic hypocrisy
She really thought she was gonna get an increase? As soon as she said he pays tuition and medical (2 of the highest cost for a child), I knew this wouldn’t end well for her!
Yep she played herself. And when he produces proof of the amount of insurance he is actually paying each month, Mommy dearest gets even less. She also found out that yes, she does have the financial responsibility to support their child as well and she cant stand it lol
HMMM> this case reminded me of a friend whos x pulled him back in for child care adjustments and the judge discovered that the payments where already too high by a previous judge and then it did not go over well for the mother of the child as she was now only getting less than half of what she was getting and to make up for the error the judge ordered no payments for 19 months to make up for the error.
@@mlm1916 yes that mother was obviously tooo greedy! and some other aspects became clear as my friend got confused over some things and also the former judge seemed to want to punish the father in some sort of wierd way. Yet he was already paying too much etc etc...The mother of that child was also earning about 4 times as much as she was. Like I said it was a whole mix of wierd.
I'm in the same boat actually. I pay $1300 a month PLUS healthcare for a child that isn't even 1 years old yet. Waiting for child support to approve my modification so it can be lowered. Said it could take up to 6 months before I get a response back though.
Thank the lord for this absolutely beautiful wonderful amazing well educated witty woman. She is a blessing from GOD!! This case right here warmed my heart. Thank you for doing all you do. It does need to be even on both sides and the man looked so relieved in the end. He absolutely takes good care of his child. ❤❤❤
Ahh it ain't that bad, being a dad makes up for it best part of my life. But I have a good woman whom I've talked real with about if our relationship goes south.
I just started following this channel we do need judges like this! She is definitely fair as it gets. I hate when the girl plays victim, but wants more yet she gets the opposite effect. I truly believe in 50/50. Guy is on a lower $40k income lifes super expensive he can pay so much so to me it just has to be fair honestly. Thats the dirty part about having the ex dad paying it all. It is suppose to be 50/50 hes paying some bills on the kid be fair on it. This is a pretty good judge like it like it!
When I got divorced, my ex was ordered to pay $25 per week for our daughter. He worked at Jeep and made $19 per hour. I worked at a restaurant and made $160 per week. Had to sell my car and walk to work everyday. Wish she was my Judge!
stop lying you didn't include your TIPS which is part of your salary. Even when I was in high school in the early 90s working as a waiter, I was making at least making 400-600 a week. Sounds like the typical women cheating the system
It was not fair for the ex husband and father to pay for everything. This was right that the mother, making good money, pay for some of her child's activities.
I agree. If dad won’t help pay for extra football expenses and the boy won’t mow some lawns to help pay , then pull him out of all added expenses activities.
So, one day your vids just popped up in my suggested list and Your Honor, let me tell you..... you have put the mustard seed of hope/faith back in my proverbial garden. Thank you for being fair and just in the eyes of all laws, tangible and intangible. i still dont think there is any hope for me, but i see you have hope and justice to give others. Peace and blessings Honorable Judge Vonda B. .
Thanx for that ruling you were right when you said that she brought him to court to raise it up and for him too pay for things that are extra not a necessity good understanding and it sends a message too others
This female wanted the ex husband to pay MORE than his obligated expenses, she thought she was going to go free without any contribution on her part. # Child Support Reform.
These laws don't apply in my country, yet I do like watching your videos. You're calm and collected, and clear in what you say; it makes it easy to understand, I also like the more in depth explenations at the end to clear up the how's and why's.
Hahaha she took him to court to get more and she got less, she got some nerve he paying for school, child support, and insurance. How could she want more?!
The moral of the story: DONT GET GREEDY
Firefly?
How about men don’t get married anymore and have your shit cut. No kids
BOOM
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yoo she played herself
Happened to my ex SIL. Tried to get more from my brother they lowered it but my brother being the type of person he is kept giving the same amount and a little more. She was upset he broke up with her. I still love her like a sister but she almost screwed herself.
She went into Court with $595 in child support and left with $395 in child support 👏 Lesson to Mom's.....don't get greedy!
That's not what happened, she left with what she was getting, not more and not less.
@@toobaaaapi The judge literally said it was dropping from 595 to 395
@@Steampunkfox143 he doesnt do math lmao
@@toobaaaapi re watch the video just might be surprised with the actual amount dropping 200.00
I think it’s a lesson to parents not to get greedy. That money is for the child period.
We need more judges like her when it comes to being equal.
Yes!
TO BAD IT'S FAKE
@@domjones_who3849 *Too
Agreed
@@The.S.M.Evans.91 I agree. Women need to realize a man is not their bank account just because they produced a baby together
"I was told there would be no math when I went to law school...Somebody lied to me." LOVE THAT
We went to law school, not math school 😉
This judge is a breath of fresh air, not just in equal fairness but also in empathy and common sense! Long may she continue holding court! Bravo!
When being greedy backfires
I wouldn't call it being greedy. Her son is entering into new activities that cost money. She's paying the full amount for that. Children get more costly as they get older. And now the judge just made it so that he's paying less child support without being ordered to pay for any of those added expenses. He could stop paying all of that and because the order says $395/month that's all he'll have to pay. I'm not real crazy about some of the orders that Judge Vonda makes. It's like she's biased.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 She is greedy.
😂😂😂
You missed the part where the dad was already paying for it. @@jessicaarmstrong5035
"I was told there would be no math" killed me 😂😂😂 I like this guy
His ex is probably who told him that. Worked out great for her didn’t it? 😂😂
I used to take my income tax returns and put some aside to pay for my kids extracurricular activities.
@@zawjatsaid1
My wife gets exactly half of our income tax return in a direct deposit from the IRS. I make 98% of our income. She fell in a dung heap and comes out smelling like a rose year after year.
Seems to be a fair judge. There are a lot of males that do the right thing and some females always want more and more. I’m glad this judge is fair 50/50
Reynaldo Rivera she isn’t a real judge.
@@adventuresiwork3563 But what’s your point she has the authority to make these decisions
@@spiritualeefeminine8075 She’s a lawyer and makes these videos for educational purposes! None of the cases in these videos are real, but that are loosely based around real life scenarios.
My mother is one of those who want more and more thank fk my dad is a smart man she made her bed and had an affair so he filed gor divorce can't wait for August in court it's gunna be wild!
@@Emeri666 update us on how it goes
That was sweet Upstanding father paying his dues she is despicable he needs to get custody of his son
Dont you know a womans feelings comes before justice and the well being of children
She doesn't deserve to lose her child sinply because she wants more money for her him. Her wanting more money doesn't make her abusive, neglectful, or anything that would warrant her losing her child.
This is so unusual. Men almost always get soaked and financially destroyed by judges. Hats off to Judge Vonda for being fair.
If this planet had more judges like you, it’ll be a better place.
Never happen but we men can hope!
@@vin7786 let's rub the voodoo doll and pray to the child support gods and hope it happens
I love the fairness of Judge Vonda regardless of who is requesting support!
Men take notice,this female wanted the ex-husband to pay ALL the expenses while she want's to do NOTHING,and try to COLLECT, glad that was NOT the case in the end,😊
Lucky for him that NEVER happens
Not every man gets a judge like her that sees through the BS that women come out with.
Unfortunately, if the ex husband doesn’t pay enough, the female might mistreat the child as revenge.
@@1mol831 And they get protected by the Law when they do. Even when women have been guilty of child abuse they don't punish them, they offer them "Support". Meanwhile if a father so much as looks at the child wrong way they will take them away and restrict his access.
@@dannyjmuldoon1 Is it really that fucked up? I don't really think so, child abuse is a serious matter for women as well and they will probably be put behind bars and lose their rights to be a parent.
I always love when they come to court for more money and end up getting less.
She makes more money than him… and he already doing a lot… she’s literally trying to break this man
This show is extremely informal and entertaining..
There are many parasitic, greedy, and ungrateful women who feel entitled to men's money.
Thank you Judge for applying the legacy of Feminism on women.
If more judges were like you, people would respect the law and single moms would be a minority
Women should quit being hypergamous then and stop monkey branching from man to man and stop the breaking up. Women initiate the divorce 80% of the time. You only want equal rights when it benefits the women. You want a traditional man without being a traditional woman. It's not feminism. It's narcissistic hypocrisy
I agree with the 1st part of your statement, but not the 2nd.😂
@@jewel65 how so?
"It's the right thing to do" 👏🏻👏🏻 I wish all judges had her mindset.
She really thought she was gonna get an increase? As soon as she said he pays tuition and medical (2 of the highest cost for a child), I knew this wouldn’t end well for her!
The judge can be so respectful and kind to save a persons dignity. Bless her. I love her fairness.
I bet she regrets taking him to court now lol
she dose not care she will no stop
Wait till he shows the updated pay stub where he pays $185 for health insurance he will end up only paying 295
@@rhondakendrick2563 she has no choice he can file harassment against hrr
Yep she played herself. And when he produces proof of the amount of insurance he is actually paying each month, Mommy dearest gets even less. She also found out that yes, she does have the financial responsibility to support their child as well and she cant stand it lol
Ha ha ha 😂🤣😂 well done 😌👍 She was speechless (the greedy mom)
I love this judge, I am also glad to see that finally the courts are being more fair towards dad's.
I love judge Vonda, she’s fair to everybody.
That mess backfired on her real quick.....
Not only is she hot, but has a ton's of brains. I applaud her. She truly is color-blind.
Color has NOTHING to do with the case tho
Pretty sure it mean’t she doesn’t have a bias to anyone
@@lou2481 correct.
As a recent law graduate what the judge just said about maths in law just made me feel validated
It should!😎💪🏽
"Im not good at math", judge laughs and tells backstory, mr. Ocean sales game is wet like his name
It’s so rare that the family courts help the dad. You’re awesome judge
Judge I am here clapping and cheering for you and your verdict!!!!
I laughed so hard my neighbors heard me laughing 😂 good for him he has to pay less see what greed gets you 😂😂😂
I absolutely love her and it's about time we had some fairness in the court system. God bless you Ma'am
I love how he said I was told that there would be no math.
HMMM> this case reminded me of a friend whos x pulled him back in for child care adjustments and the judge discovered that the payments where already too high by a previous judge and then it did not go over well for the mother of the child as she was now only getting less than half of what she was getting and to make up for the error the judge ordered no payments for 19 months to make up for the error.
Sweeeeeeeeet
That's a good one !
@@mlm1916 yes that mother was obviously tooo greedy! and some other aspects became clear as my friend got confused over some things and also the former judge seemed to want to punish the father in some sort of wierd way. Yet he was already paying too much etc etc...The mother of that child was also earning about 4 times as much as she was. Like I said it was a whole mix of wierd.
I'm in the same boat actually. I pay $1300 a month PLUS healthcare for a child that isn't even 1 years old yet. Waiting for child support to approve my modification so it can be lowered. Said it could take up to 6 months before I get a response back though.
wow I got s---- on be the judge don't trust them to do the right thing, but this one seem to be fair
Making Law Better Again. Love the Judge.
Our best to The Judge, and her family.
I love when this greedy "moms" try to get money and instead walk out getting less than what they had
Lol 😂 so true
First time in history I see a mans child support lowered! 🥳
be to
Happens al the time.
Just keep watching this judge lol
I’m in love with you judge. You are so fair
That was nice of her to realize the situation and allow the law to correct it.. AWSOME of you! 👏
Thank the lord for this absolutely beautiful wonderful amazing well educated witty woman. She is a blessing from GOD!! This case right here warmed my heart. Thank you for doing all you do. It does need to be even on both sides and the man looked so relieved in the end. He absolutely takes good care of his child. ❤❤❤
I don’t want kids, marriage or anything. These slags have convinced me lol
Ahh it ain't that bad, being a dad makes up for it best part of my life.
But I have a good woman whom I've talked real with about if our relationship goes south.
We need more updated cases! Love this!
I love how the "mom" has to look down at her script everytime the judge asked a question. All the way back to how old is your son! 🤣
When being greedy goes soo wrong 😭😭
😅😅
A fair judge. You are a star in my book.
So she was basically trying to be greedy and Judge Vonda B. Set that a$$ straight. I love her man❤️
Just found this channel, and I wish there was more judges who look at both sides, Beautifully done.
I just started following this channel we do need judges like this! She is definitely fair as it gets. I hate when the girl plays victim, but wants more yet she gets the opposite effect. I truly believe in 50/50. Guy is on a lower $40k income lifes super expensive he can pay so much so to me it just has to be fair honestly.
Thats the dirty part about having the ex dad paying it all. It is suppose to be 50/50 hes paying some bills on the kid be fair on it. This is a pretty good judge like it like it!
When I got divorced, my ex was ordered to pay $25 per week for our daughter. He worked at Jeep and made $19 per hour. I worked at a restaurant and made $160 per week. Had to sell my car and walk to work everyday. Wish she was my Judge!
stop lying you didn't include your TIPS which is part of your salary. Even when I was in high school in the early 90s working as a waiter, I was making at least making 400-600 a week. Sounds like the typical women cheating the system
I'm jacking off for the rest of my life!
She thought there was no math at law school 😂 I love her
Judge Judy says the same thing
They both need to file a financial affidavit. Would be interesting to know what she pays.
the ex got greedy shoukd have kept her mouth shut
It's better to be greatful then greedy... Greed always catches up!
It was not fair for the ex husband and father to pay for everything. This was right that the mother, making good money, pay for some of her child's activities.
You're so right about that she helped make the child too with her selfish self
Right you are. That is what she should of done.
You are an amazing judge can you give me hope for our justice system! So rare for good man and father‘s to get a fair shake in today society.
Playing guitar and football are wants NOT needs.
I very much enjoy the after the dismissal, talk about what all just happened and why.
Omg I love this judge finally some one that understands and is fair
She is a very fair and equitable-minded human being in how you effect the law. Thank you.
Mother needs to pay her FAIR SHARE, half of Tuition and Health Insurance. Great Job by the Judge to WAkE her UP.
I love how fair and honorable she is!!!!
Love this one. Plaintiff does not get what she wants, but even loses a bit.
You are starting to be my idol. I really appreciate your fairness, knowledge and honesty.
Evil woman smh 🤦🏾♂️ be careful who you have kids with
I'd be happy with him participating and buying clothes
I love this judge. She's very practical and patient.
Glad I'm watching this on TH-cam, if I was in the court room, I wouldn't be able to stop laughing and running up and dabbing the judge....🤘
Brains beauty and logic . Where can I find a woman like this
She walked herself in a downhill, great Job Judge
I love how Your Honor puts these bad parents in their place.
Wow you are one great judge thank you for being so understanding to dads that want to try to live for their kids . I give you the greatest respect
Thank you!
This judge needs to be praised
Tell her kid to get a damn job, since she keep on saying he’s getting older
I agree. If dad won’t help pay for extra football expenses and the boy won’t mow some lawns to help pay , then pull him out of all added expenses activities.
14 is too young to work in most states.
@@sammiebateman8921 i started working at 11 and at 14 I was working full time during the summer at a landscaping business
I was babysitting from the time I was 11 and also did seasonal jobs like raking leaves and shoveling walks to earn pocket money.
So, one day your vids just popped up in my suggested list and Your Honor, let me tell you..... you have put the mustard seed of hope/faith back in my proverbial garden. Thank you for being fair and just in the eyes of all laws, tangible and intangible. i still dont think there is any hope for me, but i see you have hope and justice to give others. Peace and blessings Honorable Judge Vonda B. .
I wish i had you in my custody battle! Tennessee need to adopt some of these laws from Texas!
So addicted to watching. Love the judge (sips tea)! Just happened to stumble upon this. She has no filter n it's great!!
Key word, she said she "wanted" more help, not needed... Then she let out a big sigh when judge told her she need to pay some of this. Smh
Want vs. need. In you opinion in terms of parents paying child support, what is the difference?
What’s wrong with wanting more help? If everybody ONLY got what they needed y’all a be out here heated asf. It’s a lotta shit nun of us NEED
I love how fair she is
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander .
Keep leveling the playing field Miss Vonda .
Judge did the right thing most of the time the Goose gets the short end of it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Priceless! Complain for more, get less!
She took herself to court 😂😂😂😂
I love this judge
I like this judge
Thanx for that ruling you were right when you said that she brought him to court to raise it up and for him too pay for things that are extra not a necessity good understanding and it sends a message too others
I love this judge.
I love the judge! She is fair and honest. I wish I had her in court.
This female wanted the ex husband to pay MORE than his obligated expenses, she thought she was going to go free without any contribution on her part.
# Child Support Reform.
she wanted him to pay support not just for school. he is paying 200 less and she still has to cover all the kids stuff he only has school
@@planehawk1131 Problem is those activities are necessary. So if she chooses to enroll him in them then that's up to her.
These laws don't apply in my country, yet I do like watching your videos. You're calm and collected, and clear in what you say; it makes it easy to understand, I also like the more in depth explenations at the end to clear up the how's and why's.
“I’m not good at math” 🤣🤣 it’s lowkey sad how the genuinely good guys always get taken through BS like this
“It’s just the right thing to do” 💯
There should be more judges that treat people fairly when they get to court. This woman seemed to be greedy and wanted a free ride.
I agree.
This judge is great!
I love the judge facial expressions looool🤣🤣
Too bad it doesn't work like this in the real world.
Lord I love this judge.
It's refreshing to witness some fairness finally
Very fair judgment . He is not a deadbeat dad. Seems like she is a bit of a gold digger.
WOW!!!! What a piece of work. Money money money. When you want more be careful you might get less.
We need more judges like this, to judge things fairly and not be one-sided.
Thank you Judge for giving the legal facts
Hahaha she took him to court to get more and she got less, she got some nerve he paying for school, child support, and insurance. How could she want more?!
I'm glad to say I've never had the need to pay child support !!
I love the fact that this lady makes these self entitled mothers ante up!!
She thought she was gonna come up when the father pays and do enough