The fact that people have THAT much time on their hands to stalk someone else and threaten them just shows how bad their mental health is. Thats a very unhealthy sign for those people and they need help ASAP!!!!
100%! I called someone my best friend/sister for 16yrs and earlier this year I finally met the real her. Glad to say she’s no longer in my life. Always be careful with “friends”
@@karlacienfuegos6212 yes girl I had the same experience my “friend” straight hit on my boyfriend in front me i was like I’m good rather be alone then be around snakes
Imagine getting texts from a random number saying they’re going to shoot your house? Or even talk about your kids? People are so sick! Sorry for what you went through Blanca. Praying for you guys! Stay strong! ❤️
Omg Blanca!! You need to hire a private investigator! This person needs to be exposed. Not to us, but so you and your family can finally know who it is. Disgusting evil people!
I am always so paranoid ! I always watch my surroundings especially if I’m alone with my son, but I rather have my husband with us, it gives me a peace in mind knowing he’s there.
Same here girl. I'm a SAHM and I rather have my husband with me. If I really need to grocery shop I do curbside pick up cause I'm that scared to be out. Plus we travle for my husband work and its scarier not knowing the area.
Giiirl. When i go to target alone I call my hubbys name and tell my daughter "oh your dad's right here next row " and we leave so fast to where there's more ppl in the aisles.😐😐
They’re calling cps on you when the system has already failed so many kids in real life situations. That’s sad people like that don’t have nothing good going on in there life.
I started a mommy vlog channel & quickly realized I did not want my children on social media. I don’t post them anymore & ask ppl not to post them either. It’s important to protect their privacy ppl are ruthless & don’t realize the window into your children’s lives is a privilege.
I declare protection over you and your family in Jesus name. May God have mercy on these bad people. We love you Blanca, and you have opened your heart to us, you seriously don’t deserve this. It’s heartbreaking. You have our support always. God Bless you ❤️
You never know what someone is going through. I never understood why my son struggled from separation anxiety since the age of 6. Just recently we found out he has PTSD and now he currently is 14 all due to a shooting that happened in our court killing our neighbor. You just never know how something can affect someone. You are a great mom Evette.
Your eyes told your pain and fear before you said anything. I cried the whole time. You are very strong. I am proud of you. You are amazing and very loved.
I was born and raised and still live in Oakland California, and man has it been tough. The hearing gunshots every single day and witnessing crimes like you said is crazy how it’s normal to live like that here..I’m happy you got out the hood and away from all that negative energy that brings you down. I can’t wait to Move and move my family as well too❤️it’s perfectly fine to want better for ourselves for our families and mental health
I know what you mean. I was born in Oakland and moved out of Oakland last year. It was the best decision my husband and I made for our boys. I’m still in the Bay Area about 30 minutes up north from Oakland and I love the community I live in. It’s like a dream. I pray that things work out for you and your family. Your family will be your strength and things will work out.
Brings the word “Stockton” to a whole new level. Who has that much time on their hands to stalk another person! I hope these psychopaths are caught and persecuted to the fullest extent of the law!
I’m from the Bronx ... raised in the 80s and 90s . I understand the fear your mom instilled . My parents were the same and still are . Now as a mom it is worse like you. I resonate with this video so much !
Ok I finally finished the video . GIRLLLLLL Im not even half the influencer you are and I had someone on IG saying I was a bad mother , why was I having a second baby” just like you I started feeling like it was someone I know harassing me. Ugh I feel for you girl it’s not a nice feeling . It’s freakin scary. Like it happened a few months ago to me and I’m still break my head wondering why would someone do all of that?
I loves what you said: “The people who judge others are 100 times worse than the people that they are judging” I will just never understand how people can do something like that or comment on something with hate. Like why??
i love how raw your content has been lately💕✨… i’m so proud of you for opening up about this and deciding to close this chapter and leave it in the past✨… i hope these next chapters in your life are full of love and blessings🙏🏼💕✨!!
I was part of those 4,000 girls that went to see you at your home town. I can’t believe you were going through that. You have a big support system! We love you❤️❤️
I’m sorry you had to go through such a horrific time. I balled my eyes out when you talked about max being in the pool. I can’t even imagine. You are such a strong person Blanca.
I used to live in Stockton and met the wrong people. I had to move as well.. IT WAS INSANE! I would have parties to and someone would always call the police. Police would come and just observe and I started getting paranoid. I used to live on B street and it was the straight hood. I ended up finding out it was one of the new "friends" I met. Very jealous and scandalous person I ever met. Made the worse lies about me I even got jumped. It was crazy. I feel for you and send you love!
You were one of my absolute favorite TH-camrs. And I am guilty of distancing myself from viewing you bc I felt something was off. Hearing this made my heart hurt for you, sending you a warm hug. You’re one brave ass woman💞
Truly hoping that now that you’ve talked about your trauma and the terrible things that have happened to you and your family you find peace with the whole situation. I hope you get to finally start fully enjoying your life and everything you have built for you and your beautiful family!
My heart sank to my stomach and the fear I felt this whole entire video... As a mom, I can’t IMAGINE everything you’ve been through and felt.. GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE 🙏🏽
Don’t ever apologize for your success, be proud and keep doing you! Its insane how jealousy can make people so hateful and terrible! We got to support one another and lift each other, especially our raza! Keep growing chica!
As a fan we wouldnt want you to stress over social media your a person your a mom before anything for you to be afraid is really uncomfortable im sorry you went through this
I really liked how you made the decision of leaving on your own regardless if you had to go alone with your kids...It really shows that your kids are your top priority literally all that matters
Some people will hate you just because they see you getting the success they think they deserve from the work they haven’t done! One of my favorite quotes 💕 you worked so hard to get where you are! Don’t let the people who haven’t walked in your shoes make you trip!
I recommend you hire a private investigator to look into this. You need some professional help to catch whoever is causing this trauma to you and your family.
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 How do you know what fucking really happened !!! You sound so fucking stupid! You’re the one that probably stocking her !! If she’s lying that’s on her ! Don’t watch her anymore!
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 you sound like the damn stalker yourself. Ew your weird af i seen you on almost every comment trying to make her look bad. Gtfo her page then weirdo..
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 girl you are so far up her ass it’s sad like at this point you’re acting like such a pick me fan , you swear you hate her but you’re in every single comment section? Then again it’s ok you’re just adding to her paycheck go ahead and keep commenting 👌🏼
Absolutely.. It's a jealous ex friend... And if they find her again it's in the circle... But hey it's being put behind her now so let's ENJOY,GOOD, HAPPY, POSITIVE, FUN, HELPFUL VLOGS FROM HER... I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO RECIPES, MAKEUP, GIVEAWAYS, DEFINITELY STORY TIMES. Let's try not to mention this horrific experience and wish her, husband, max and Camilla happy life.... Blessings to the family.
Whoooooooo. Yeah, I’m sorry you went through this. Unfortunately, it’s not just you who deals with the situation...it’s your family, your friends. It sucks! I know bc I’ve dealt with it too. At the end of the day when my thoughts completely overwhelm me I try to remember that those people may know who my family is, where I live, or what I drive.. but they will never know what you/I am mentally/physically capable of. In rather sense, THEY DONT REALLY KNOW YOU/ME. So glad to see that you are doing well emotionally with the trauma bc it is hard. Keep your head up and eyes open! You got this!!
What amazes me is that someone really dedicated their entire life to harass you & traumatize you! I’m glad you’re doing much better now. I can only imagine what you were going through 🥺
For someone to have so much HATE in their heart, just proves how miserable their lives are. Keep up the hard work! No one will EVER understand the feeling of having reached your goals but you, enjoy what you have accomplished. YOU HAVE EARNED IT!!! Much Love ❤️
Ugh the hurt in her voice hurts my heart. Don’t get it twisted this is a strong women though. I’m praying for you & your life mama. It’s ok to not be okay sometimes. I’m happy you’re healing ❤️
Not going to lie I was here for the chismé. My heart breaks to imagine what you were going through and I’m glad you didn’t let those low lives take everything from you. Your beautiful children have such a strong mother 💖
I can see her pain in this video.. I even got teary watching this.. My son is around her sons age and I would've freaked out if this happened to me.. you're so strong ❣
It is heartbreaking that you had to go through these malicious things. I’m glad you are in a better place and you deserve everything you’ve ever gotten. You always keep it real 💓
I never comment on videos but the moment she said they did I drive by at her house my HEART DROPPED. I literally felt my heart 🥺 Im so confused as to how people would hate for someone being so successful.
It breaks my heart that you only plan to have two children and you didn’t even get to enjoy your pregnancies like you should’ve😢🥺 I’m so sorry you went this all this
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 THIS IS REAL LIFE, these are HUMANSSS she’s a human just like you are. You clearly don’t understand the severity of the whole situation she faced, something that should never happen. If you don’t like a person alright cool we can have our own opinion to an extent but harassing the whole family causing trauma to her WHILE PREGNANT and so on is just way too much.
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 You are a CLEAR hater , that commented that you know you talk 🐃💩 and you're happy? Why do you keep keeping up with her if you dont like her content 🤔🤐
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 honestly, anyone can see that you all you do is leave hateful comments on her videos. When you click on your name, it pops up and says that you’ve left over 20 hatefully obsessed comments on her posts in the past couple weeks. XD What a loser! You say there’s other people you’d rather be stalking, but clearly you’re one of these weirdos who are consumed by her social media and won’t leave her alone. At the end of the day, you’re the delusional one. Get off social media and go breathe some fresh air. It’ll do you good and hopefully cleanse your disgusting and repulsive “hiding behind a screen” behavior.
I literally cried , I can’t believe someone has that much hate towards someone I’m so sorry this happened to you 😢 I love you girl may god bless you and your family 🤍🤍
Honestly you can tell shes a good mom she’s always with her kids shes not like other TH-camrs that take them to school being 1 year old and needing parents attention. We only see a little part of her life when she vlogs with her kids
Agreed, although a mom is not necessarily bad if she takes her baby/toddler to school. I’m a stay at home mom and my daughter is almost 2 years old and she has no cousins, family or neighbor kids to play with so I want to take her to school for a couple of hours so she can spend time with kids. I do take her to the park but its not the same.
Blanca my heart truly goes out to you. I watched the entire video in complete shock. I am so sorry of the things you had to deal with. It takes immense bravery to be so open and share your story while continuing to show your life so publicly. You’re the realest person out there & an amazing person, mother, wife, etc. ❤️
There are 7 billion people in the world, and not everyone will live their lives according to one restrictive standard. LET PEOPLE LIVE. WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF! I have personally met Blanca at one of her meet and greets and she is one of the most genuine and sweetest person and influencer I have ever met. She is a down to earth and hard working person that has the ability to juggle work, social, and family life at the same time. It's a person like her that we as women should admire and learn from instead of being bitter about it.
It’s crazy how she said someone exposed her bank account from the same bank she worked at...the person that has been threatening must’ve worked with her and is jealous or some shit. All the comments I see are that it must be someone close to her and I think it is!!
I feel like its definitely someone who knows you personally. Maybe someone from high school, an ex, someone who was in love with your husband, maybe even someone you consider a friend. People are verrrrry sick and evil. Glad you got away and are now safe hopefully!
It’s so sad that people took you raising your kids in your hometown away from you. I will never understand some people’s thought process. Why does your life matter so much to others. I’m so sad for you :( I can tell this was super emotional for you to talk about. I wish you nothing but the best to you and yours ❤️
@@joemonroe2249 good mom yes, perfect mom no..and ones definition of good might not be the same to another person. Its all just matter of opinion🤷♀️ it sucks because the ones that judge the most are other moms(guilty of it myself)
I’m very glad you spoke about Stockton ca. Truthfully, I was born & raised in Stockton...I realized early that I was becoming numb to the devastating environment there. Only when our family moved did we realize that not only did Stockton make us stronger, but more awareness for our surroundings had become second nature. Residents of Stockton, I promise you live in a bubble. The rest of the world isn’t like that. There are actual safe, decent, & flourishing cities with less violence & better livability. Before moving to new places, search up the livability stats for that area. 💪🏼👌🏼 Thank you Evettexo for being transparent & good luck to you and your family in future endeavors!
Ironically I found you through one of Ulysses cousin on IG & followed ever since. That was back in 2014. You can’t imagine how happy seeing I get to see how much you’ve accomplished, gotten through, see you gain/learn, all of it. I can’t say I keep up as much as I used to because life but it’s always amazing to come back and see you still going and thriving. I’m sorry you’ve had this happened to you is one of the scary sides of social media people aren’t aware most of the time but remember you also have us! Best of wished for you Blanca!
My jaw is on the floor!! I can’t believe you went through all of this! You are so strong glad you talked about this and said a big F you to the people who did this to you!
This is so heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine the constant fear, the constant harassment, and the constant mom shaming. I’m so incredibly glad that you and your family are safe now. I just don’t see how you could hate someone so much to go to this extent especially someone you don’t even know. They will get their karma!! Blanca you are very strong indeed! No one should go through this! 💔
Or what about someone she went to high school with /or someone really close to her circle (friend of a friend) and is jelous that they are from the same city and sees evette doing good or better than her (might be a cholita) , or a man she put down back in the day or through social media OR what about someone who liked Ulises ?👀 I mean what a coincidence it all started when they started living together and got worse when she got prego..
I've been supporting you since day one and just hearing all the things you went through hurts. You are courageous for sharing this with us. You are an inspiration to many of us, those that truly care ❤️. Sending you lots of virtual hugs.
"Never judge a book by it's cover" your life really did seem perfect. I'm sorry you and your family went through this. Wow so sad how people can be so evil.
This is so upsetting & not okay!!! I’ll never im a million years understand how people can be SO bothered by others just living their life. How can someone being a mom and spending time with friends & doing what they need to live make you THAT upset?? I will never make any sense. I’m so so glad you guys are okay!!❤️
I found your page when I found out I was pregnant with my son in 2019. As a first time mom i just want you to know that youve helped me be a better mother! I’m so sorry you had to go through all this pain but I’m so happy that it’s changed you and made you a stronger and better person! You will accomplish all your goals you have for you and your family and as a supporter I cannot wait to watch it unfold! 💕
This was hard to watch, I've been following you and been a supporter since you were pregnant with Max. I was pregnant with a boy too at the same time and you gave birth a month before me. I didn't have a sister or mother to turn too during my pregnancy and I found such light and comfort in your videos and I still do. I'm live in Australia and am absolutely devastated to here the full truth about the reason you moved. Please know that there are so many of us that are rooting for you and always will. You're an incredible woman, mother, wife and person. No one can take that away from you! True inspiration to so many! I hope and wish you and your little family can live a better/safer life and with peace of mind. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟
“I’m just fkn proud of myself. I’m proud of me” AS SHE SHOULD!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’m so sorry that you’ve had to go through all of this horrible chaos but You have made it through!!! You are so fucking strong! And you are just getting started! You’ve made it this far to let anyone get in the way, and you don’t owe anyone shit! We love and care about you!! You deserve every ounce of happiness!! 🙏🏻♥️
i cant count the amount of chills i got throughout the video. im glad you’re in a better place mentally & physically! you’ve created something so beautiful for you & your family 🤍
The way you speak with anger that you worked your ass off at end , I felt that! You deserve everythinggg woman ! You worked for it!! You did that !!! Keep it up!! 💖 God bless you always 😭
I teared up when you talked about the incident. I’m sorry you hear to go through that. You do have a purpose and a reason to be here and God will continue to bless you so that you can fulfill it. 💜💜🥺
My anxiety 📈📉📈📉📈📉🥺🥺throughout this whole video.I can’t believe everything you went through... I’m so proud of you evette!! Your the best mommy, daughter, wife that anyone can have!! I hope that you can heal and move on from past. We love you and all your true supporters just want to see you thrive❤️
I get that some people just done like her or just don’t fuck with her, but going to the extent of doing a drive by while her friends and family and mostly her 9mo son is outside is disgusting and traumatizing! I hope you are truly truly happy & are at peace where your at in life! I’m sorry you went through such a scary time! 😭
Its so crazy how Mexican mothers instill fear in their children, coming from a Mexican household my mom attempted to do this to my brother and I and we just didnt care and didnt go for it. Mind you my mom is your traditional Mexican woman while my dad was gang affiliated, my brother and I just lived our lives without fearing where we lived or who our dad affiliated himself with. I pray that you do that for little max and Camila they're literally the cutest, sweetest, adorable little kids! you're a great mother and you can tel 1000%! ive seen you around our area (which I obviously won't say where) and you seem so sweet and transparent. no the dejes girl! haters are always going to be there it just comes from their own insecurities. I feel as though therapy would be sooooo good for you girl, just to get all those stresses off of your chest and you can get another persons perspective on how our thoughts are sometimes wrong and just a thought. Wish you the best girl!
I feel like it’s good to live free but also understand that the world is not safe. My parents taught me to be aware of my surroundings and not to be naive about evil in the world.
Proud of you for addressing this issue. I've been following you since your engagement video and and some point I felt disconnected from from you but I'm glad that I stuck around. Because this is the badass evettexo that I always looked up too. Sending prayers your way!!
This makes me so sad for what you've had to go through i can't believe the amount of hate people give. Just like many have said it's possible it's someone close to you and almost like what they really wanted was to drive you away from your town/ home. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and being so open about what you've been through❤
All of the fun, money and success comes with a price. But you keep going because you got real supporters, don't ever forget to breathe! Hopefully Psychologists do more research for social media influencers to better help them with their struggles.
I love how raw these past videos have been we can honestly see your growth and how your becoming more open. Its so sad how many things you had to go through for such a long time when your are nothing but a good and a genuine person. You are so nice and humble and it’s sad to see how social media treats influencers when they are humans just like everyone else and have feelings. Its shocking to hear all the messages you would receive during your pregnancies it’s legit unbelievable people have the balls to say stuff like that to someone. YOU’RE AN AMAZING MOTHER !!! ❤️ we see it ! You do everything for your kids and family and your children are BLESSED to have a mother like you!!❤️
You’re such a BOSS Blanca. So many would fold in your spot ! I’ve been following since u were just a girl with braces recording in ur room at your parents house . You are an amazing wife, mother and daughter . So proud of you . 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This is so terrifying, that anyone would try to physically harm a woman, & her children just because they personally don’t like her. It is mind blowing to me. If you don’t like someone keep it moving. You don’t try to attack, or hurt someone because they have goals in life. So sad girl, I am so glad you got out & are continuing your journey after everything because I personally love seeing your growth, & watching your beautiful babies grow!❤️🙏🏼
This is heartbreaking, I can’t believe people really do stuff like this to others.. I hope they get what they deserve. Eres un ejemplo a seguir.. como latinos/mexicanos deberíamos sentirnos orgullosos de que nuestra misma raza sale a delante y hace cosas que no todos podemos. My prayers for you & your family💗
Blanca your behaviors you’re describing are making me wonder if it’s tied to experienced childhood trauma (which you clearly share that you were exposed to community violence, which is an adverse childhood experience (ACE)). I wonder if therapy can help you get to the root of those wounds and explore your life timeline and experiences😊 nonetheless you are very resilient! Growing up in a violent community must have been very difficult and your hyper vigilance and trust issues can perhaps be related to your child experiences
OMG I’m picking up my jaw from the floor ,popping my eyes back in my head . How can a person be so miserable I really hope they get the help they need because obviously something it’s wrong with them.
Theres people who like you, theres people who dont and thats okay everyone has their opinion but for someone to actually want to hurt you and your family thats not okay. Theres nothing wrong with you theres something wrong with them the fact that someone hates another person so much to want to hurt them is wrong on so many levels. I hope you heal from this 💕
The fact that you had to leave Stockton, the place you wanted to grow with your babies really sucks. That is so sad.. I can’t imagine going through all that
I literally had the chills the whole time i was watching this video. This is creepy af!! Someone really took the time to follow her and literally watch her every move, take pictures and literally tried to cause harm to her and her loved ones. Some scary shit! Its Definitely someone that is “close” to her. Jealousy can be very dangerous!
Im so sorry you had to go through that. My jaw dropped when you said drive by. It’s mind blowing how much hate people have in their hearts. I’m glad that you are still putting out content for us, but I’m happy to know that you can do it safely. 💕 prayers and good vibes sent your way
Im glad you put this out not for us but for yourself.. I know now thats its out of your chest it can help you put that way way in the back of your mind and not continue to carry it along the successful future you will have.. Have God in the center of your life with your family and nothing will harm y'all. Blessing to you and the beautiful family you have... 🙏
I understand so much where you coming from! I live with fear every single day of my life, for me and my family. 🥺 I live in the hood where they killed the 13 year old kid. And gunshots here are like a 4th of July every single day. So glad you had the opportunity to move far and live in a better environment. For you own sake and your beau family! 💖🙏 stay strong and keep doing big things, because people like me forget about their reality life just by watching your videos.. when fear and anxiety kicks in I run to watch videos to forget about this right moment. Love you! May God bless you and yours! 💕
I moved to Chicago from Palm Beach Florida almost 5 years ago and watching you just made me cry . I am able to relate with you 100%. The fact that I’m so paranoid about everything now 😞 this city is ruthless ... I wasn’t like this . God bless you and your family ❣️
I don’t feel like random strangers would be this mad and act this way. It has to be someone you know or that has always known you. So sad! And so sorry this happened to you!
@@GabsterZ21 I agreeee Maria is getting so much hate, maybe I’m not a mean person because I can’t do that I feel bad for her, people arent perfect I think people are taking it too far
There's so many people that will dislike you, there will always be something. Live your life and honestly I think you don't need to apologize anymore. We love you for you being you.
The fact that people have THAT much time on their hands to stalk someone else and threaten them just shows how bad their mental health is. Thats a very unhealthy sign for those people and they need help ASAP!!!!
I thought that was a good idea to
The lengths people are willing to go to hurt someone that has done nothing to them is just mind blowing... stay strong!
“Be wary around your enemy once, & your friend a thousand times, a double standard friend knows more about what harms you...”
This 🎯
100%! I called someone my best friend/sister for 16yrs and earlier this year I finally met the real her. Glad to say she’s no longer in my life. Always be careful with “friends”
How my mom has always told me “friends don’t exist”
@@karlacienfuegos6212 yes girl I had the same experience my “friend” straight hit on my boyfriend in front me i was like I’m good rather be alone then be around snakes
@@jackelinegutierrez1861 oh hell nah!!! I’m glad she’s out of your life. It’s hard to find good people these days 😣
Imagine getting texts from a random number saying they’re going to shoot your house? Or even talk about your kids? People are so sick! Sorry for what you went through Blanca. Praying for you guys! Stay strong! ❤️
Omg Blanca!! You need to hire a private investigator! This person needs to be exposed. Not to us, but so you and your family can finally know who it is. Disgusting evil people!
I am always so paranoid ! I always watch my surroundings especially if I’m alone with my son, but I rather have my husband with us, it gives me a peace in mind knowing he’s there.
Same here
Same here girl. I'm a SAHM and I rather have my husband with me. If I really need to grocery shop I do curbside pick up cause I'm that scared to be out. Plus we travle for my husband work and its scarier not knowing the area.
Me too and I live in Los Angeles 😭
Giiirl. When i go to target alone I call my hubbys name and tell my daughter "oh your dad's right here next row " and we leave so fast to where there's more ppl in the aisles.😐😐
Same! I live in nyc it's scary out there... There's days where I don't want to go out with my child
The amount of hate I see that influencer get is no joke . God bless and protect always.
I know false my name account lie government. God what know doing control of peoples power. I faith myself trust.
They’re calling cps on you when the system has already failed so many kids in real life situations. That’s sad people like that don’t have nothing good going on in there life.
I started a mommy vlog channel & quickly realized I did not want my children on social media. I don’t post them anymore & ask ppl not to post them either. It’s important to protect their privacy ppl are ruthless & don’t realize the window into your children’s lives is a privilege.
I agree I don’t understand why influencers make Instagram account for their kids
I declare protection over you and your family in Jesus name. May God have mercy on these bad people. We love you Blanca, and you have opened your heart to us, you seriously don’t deserve this. It’s heartbreaking. You have our support always. God Bless you ❤️
You never know what someone is going through. I never understood why my son struggled from separation anxiety since the age of 6. Just recently we found out he has PTSD and now he currently is 14 all due to a shooting that happened in our court killing our neighbor. You just never know how something can affect someone. You are a great mom Evette.
Your eyes told your pain and fear before you said anything. I cried the whole time. You are very strong. I am proud of you. You are amazing and very loved.
I was born and raised and still live in Oakland California, and man has it been tough. The hearing gunshots every single day and witnessing crimes like you said is crazy how it’s normal to live like that here..I’m happy you got out the hood and away from all that negative energy that brings you down. I can’t wait to Move and move my family as well too❤️it’s perfectly fine to want better for ourselves for our families and mental health
Where are you guys moving to? Isn’t the bay in general bad
I know what you mean. I was born in Oakland and moved out of Oakland last year. It was the best decision my husband and I made for our boys. I’m still in the Bay Area about 30 minutes up north from Oakland and I love the community I live in. It’s like a dream. I pray that things work out for you and your family. Your family will be your strength and things will work out.
@Marisela Jaramillo us Coloradans don’t want more people here though 🤷🏻♀️ it’s full
Brings the word “Stockton” to a whole new level. Who has that much time on their hands to stalk another person! I hope these psychopaths are caught and persecuted to the fullest extent of the law!
I’m from the Bronx ... raised in the 80s and 90s . I understand the fear your mom instilled . My parents were the same and still are . Now as a mom it is worse like you. I resonate with this video so much !
Ok I finally finished the video . GIRLLLLLL Im not even half the influencer you are and I had someone on IG saying I was a bad mother , why was I having a second baby” just like you I started feeling like it was someone I know harassing me. Ugh I feel for you girl it’s not a nice feeling . It’s freakin scary. Like it happened a few months ago to me and I’m still break my head wondering why would someone do all of that?
Como dice mi suegro “No hay amigos en este mundo” triste pero cierto
100%! What my mom always tells me.
@@elleelle7741 there aren’t friends in this world. Basically saying friends don’t exist.
My mom always says that too.
Every Mexican parent 👌🏻 my mom says “no tienes amigas solo conocidas”
My mom has said this about some of my work friends and I wouldn’t believe her ... well she was right lmao
I loves what you said: “The people who judge others are 100 times worse than the people that they are judging”
I will just never understand how people can do something like that or comment on something with hate. Like why??
i love how raw your content has been lately💕✨… i’m so proud of you for opening up about this and deciding to close this chapter and leave it in the past✨… i hope these next chapters in your life are full of love and blessings🙏🏼💕✨!!
When Blanca is talking about all these incidents I can see her eyes watering up 🥺 sending you a big hug girl 💗
I was part of those 4,000 girls that went to see you at your home town. I can’t believe you were going through that. You have a big support system! We love you❤️❤️
I’m sorry you had to go through such a horrific time. I balled my eyes out when you talked about max being in the pool. I can’t even imagine. You are such a strong person Blanca.
What in the actual FÜ*K IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?! I am so sorry you had to go through all that! This makes me so sad.
I used to live in Stockton and met the wrong people. I had to move as well.. IT WAS INSANE! I would have parties to and someone would always call the police. Police would come and just observe and I started getting paranoid. I used to live on B street and it was the straight hood. I ended up finding out it was one of the new "friends" I met. Very jealous and scandalous person I ever met. Made the worse lies about me I even got jumped. It was crazy. I feel for you and send you love!
You were one of my absolute favorite TH-camrs. And I am guilty of distancing myself from viewing you bc I felt something was off. Hearing this made my heart hurt for you, sending you a warm hug. You’re one brave ass woman💞
Truly hoping that now that you’ve talked about your trauma and the terrible things that have happened to you and your family you find peace with the whole situation. I hope you get to finally start fully enjoying your life and everything you have built for you and your beautiful family!
My heart sank to my stomach and the fear I felt this whole entire video... As a mom, I can’t IMAGINE everything you’ve been through and felt.. GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE 🙏🏽
Don’t ever apologize for your success, be proud and keep doing you! Its insane how jealousy can make people so hateful and terrible! We got to support one another and lift each other, especially our raza! Keep growing chica!
As a fan we wouldnt want you to stress over social media your a person your a mom before anything for you to be afraid is really uncomfortable im sorry you went through this
I really liked how you made the decision of leaving on your own regardless if you had to go alone with your kids...It really shows that your kids are your top priority literally all that matters
Some people will hate you just because they see you getting the success they think they deserve from the work they haven’t done! One of my favorite quotes 💕 you worked so hard to get where you are! Don’t let the people who haven’t walked in your shoes make you trip!
I recommend you hire a private investigator to look into this. You need some professional help to catch whoever is causing this trauma to you and your family.
Yes, if it were me I'd want to know who was involved in this and be fully prosecuted and shamed!!
Yes, please take this advice.
Seriously !!! Ain’t no freaking way. That is so scary.
@@virginiaarriaga2420 😊😊
That incident with the drive by just made me cry because you were pregnant and Max was a baby 😢 why are people are so evil 😢
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 yes, I chose to believe her because people can be evil.
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 How do you know what fucking really happened !!! You sound so fucking stupid! You’re the one that probably stocking her !! If she’s lying that’s on her ! Don’t watch her anymore!
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 you sound like the damn stalker yourself. Ew your weird af i seen you on almost every comment trying to make her look bad. Gtfo her page then weirdo..
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 if you're the stalker just say so. Mejor picate el culo y no andes de envidiosa!!!
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 girl you are so far up her ass it’s sad like at this point you’re acting like such a pick me fan , you swear you hate her but you’re in every single comment section? Then again it’s ok you’re just adding to her paycheck go ahead and keep commenting 👌🏼
I feel like it’s an ex. OR A “FRIEND” because you made it out the good and they didn’t !!! Definitely someone who knew you!! So sad !
I think the same
Absolutely.. It's a jealous ex friend... And if they find her again it's in the circle... But hey it's being put behind her now so let's ENJOY,GOOD, HAPPY, POSITIVE, FUN, HELPFUL VLOGS FROM HER... I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO RECIPES, MAKEUP, GIVEAWAYS, DEFINITELY STORY TIMES. Let's try not to mention this horrific experience and wish her, husband, max and Camilla happy life.... Blessings to the family.
Whoooooooo. Yeah, I’m sorry you went through this. Unfortunately, it’s not just you who deals with the situation...it’s your family, your friends. It sucks! I know bc I’ve dealt with it too. At the end of the day when my thoughts completely overwhelm me I try to remember that those people may know who my family is, where I live, or what I drive.. but they will never know what you/I am mentally/physically capable of. In rather sense, THEY DONT REALLY KNOW YOU/ME. So glad to see that you are doing well emotionally with the trauma bc it is hard. Keep your head up and eyes open! You got this!!
What amazes me is that someone really dedicated their entire life to harass you & traumatize you! I’m glad you’re doing much better now. I can only imagine what you were going through 🥺
For someone to have so much HATE in their heart, just proves how miserable their lives are. Keep up the hard work! No one will EVER understand the feeling of having reached your goals but you, enjoy what you have accomplished. YOU HAVE EARNED IT!!! Much Love ❤️
Ugh the hurt in her voice hurts my heart. Don’t get it twisted this is a strong women though. I’m praying for you & your life mama. It’s ok to not be okay sometimes. I’m happy you’re healing ❤️
Not going to lie I was here for the chismé. My heart breaks to imagine what you were going through and I’m glad you didn’t let those low lives take everything from you. Your beautiful children have such a strong mother 💖
I can see her pain in this video.. I even got teary watching this.. My son is around her sons age and I would've freaked out if this happened to me.. you're so strong ❣
It is heartbreaking that you had to go through these malicious things. I’m glad you are in a better place and you deserve everything you’ve ever gotten. You always keep it real 💓
I never comment on videos but the moment she said they did I drive by at her house my HEART DROPPED. I literally felt my heart 🥺 Im so confused as to how people would hate for someone being so successful.
It breaks my heart that you only plan to have two children and you didn’t even get to enjoy your pregnancies like you should’ve😢🥺 I’m so sorry you went this all this
Same! I hope they decide to have at least one more so they can enjoy it for once. Every good person deserves that.
Yes 🙌🏼
the amount of haters there are in social media is crazy. Those people will definitely get their own Karma
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 you are hating rn, people are giving her sympathy and?
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 THIS IS REAL LIFE, these are HUMANSSS she’s a human just like you are. You clearly don’t understand the severity of the whole situation she faced, something that should never happen. If you don’t like a person alright cool we can have our own opinion to an extent but harassing the whole family causing trauma to her WHILE PREGNANT and so on is just way too much.
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 You are a CLEAR hater , that commented that you know you talk 🐃💩 and you're happy? Why do you keep keeping up with her if you dont like her content 🤔🤐
@@lizbethdelarosa7874 honestly, anyone can see that you all you do is leave hateful comments on her videos. When you click on your name, it pops up and says that you’ve left over 20 hatefully obsessed comments on her posts in the past couple weeks. XD What a loser! You say there’s other people you’d rather be stalking, but clearly you’re one of these weirdos who are consumed by her social media and won’t leave her alone. At the end of the day, you’re the delusional one. Get off social media and go breathe some fresh air. It’ll do you good and hopefully cleanse your disgusting and repulsive “hiding behind a screen” behavior.
@@ceemell 👏👏👏 Very well said, but She wont, she will keep stalking her Smh!
I literally cried , I can’t believe someone has that much hate towards someone I’m so sorry this happened to you 😢 I love you girl may god bless you and your family 🤍🤍
Dang I rather be broke than deal with this shit
Trust me, in this world being broke gets you no where, this is what fame comes with lol
@@Muahhjennyy Lmaooo I still rather be broke don’t want no fame thanks
Honestly you can tell shes a good mom she’s always with her kids shes not like other TH-camrs that take them to school being 1 year old and needing parents attention. We only see a little part of her life when she vlogs with her kids
Lol aka bramty
Agreed, although a mom is not necessarily bad if she takes her baby/toddler to school. I’m a stay at home mom and my daughter is almost 2 years old and she has no cousins, family or neighbor kids to play with so I want to take her to school for a couple of hours so she can spend time with kids. I do take her to the park but its not the same.
@@andreacamargo350 🙌yes they love it
Blanca my heart truly goes out to you. I watched the entire video in complete shock. I am so sorry of the things you had to deal with. It takes immense bravery to be so open and share your story while continuing to show your life so publicly. You’re the realest person out there & an amazing person, mother, wife, etc. ❤️
There are 7 billion people in the world, and not everyone will live their lives according to one restrictive standard. LET PEOPLE LIVE. WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF! I have personally met Blanca at one of her meet and greets and she is one of the most genuine and sweetest person and influencer I have ever met. She is a down to earth and hard working person that has the ability to juggle work, social, and family life at the same time. It's a person like her that we as women should admire and learn from instead of being bitter about it.
It’s crazy how she said someone exposed her bank account from the same bank she worked at...the person that has been threatening must’ve worked with her and is jealous or some shit. All the comments I see are that it must be someone close to her and I think it is!!
I feel like its definitely someone who knows you personally. Maybe someone from high school, an ex, someone who was in love with your husband, maybe even someone you consider a friend. People are verrrrry sick and evil. Glad you got away and are now safe hopefully!
It’s so sad that people took you raising your kids in your hometown away from you. I will never understand some people’s thought process. Why does your life matter so much to others. I’m so sad for you :( I can tell this was super emotional for you to talk about. I wish you nothing but the best to you and yours ❤️
It makes me so sad that you went through this because you’re such a genuine caring person 🥺
There is no definition to being a good mom. ❤️ Shit there isn’t even a guide to being a perfect mother.
💯 I used to say "im never doing this or Ill never let my kid do that" NEVER SAY NEVER..lol
@@jazzy679 fr!! Lmfao I remember saying i wouldnt let my kid use the phone or be on technology a lot, girl i bought him an IPAD at 2 1/2 years old 😹
I mean there is actually ... but we just don't talk about that because it's tabboo.
@@joemonroe2249 good mom yes, perfect mom no..and ones definition of good might not be the same to another person. Its all just matter of opinion🤷♀️ it sucks because the ones that judge the most are other moms(guilty of it myself)
I think as long as you are providing and your kid is breathing and he/she is feeling loved and respected YOU ARE A GREAT PARENT!
I’m very glad you spoke about Stockton ca.
Truthfully, I was born & raised in Stockton...I realized early that I was becoming numb to the devastating environment there.
Only when our family moved did we realize that not only did Stockton make us stronger, but more awareness for our surroundings had become second nature.
Residents of Stockton, I promise you live in a bubble. The rest of the world isn’t like that. There are actual safe, decent, & flourishing cities with less violence & better livability.
Before moving to new places, search up the livability stats for that area. 💪🏼👌🏼
Thank you Evettexo for being transparent & good luck to you and your family in future endeavors!
Ironically I found you through one of Ulysses cousin on IG & followed ever since. That was back in 2014. You can’t imagine how happy seeing I get to see how much you’ve accomplished, gotten through, see you gain/learn, all of it. I can’t say I keep up as much as I used to because life but it’s always amazing to come back and see you still going and thriving. I’m sorry you’ve had this happened to you is one of the scary sides of social media people aren’t aware most of the time but remember you also have us! Best of wished for you Blanca!
My jaw is on the floor!! I can’t believe you went through all of this! You are so strong glad you talked about this and said a big F you to the people who did this to you!
This is so heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine the constant fear, the constant harassment, and the constant mom shaming. I’m so incredibly glad that you and your family are safe now. I just don’t see how you could hate someone so much to go to this extent especially someone you don’t even know. They will get their karma!! Blanca you are very strong indeed! No one should go through this! 💔
Sometimes is not the haters it can be a “friend” or a “family member”
Yess!
Or what about someone she went to high school with /or someone really close to her circle (friend of a friend) and is jelous that they are from the same city and sees evette doing good or better than her (might be a cholita) , or a man she put down back in the day or through social media OR what about someone who liked Ulises ?👀 I mean what a coincidence it all started when they started living together and got worse when she got prego..
I've been supporting you since day one and just hearing all the things you went through hurts. You are courageous for sharing this with us. You are an inspiration to many of us, those that truly care ❤️. Sending you lots of virtual hugs.
"Never judge a book by it's cover" your life really did seem perfect. I'm sorry you and your family went through this. Wow so sad how people can be so evil.
Blanca always gave me a good vibe ! I don’t understand why people wanna find a reason to judge someone they don’t know.
This is so upsetting & not okay!!! I’ll never im a million years understand how people can be SO bothered by others just living their life. How can someone being a mom and spending time with friends & doing what they need to live make you THAT upset?? I will never make any sense. I’m so so glad you guys are okay!!❤️
I found your page when I found out I was pregnant with my son in 2019. As a first time mom i just want you to know that youve helped me be a better mother! I’m so sorry you had to go through all this pain but I’m so happy that it’s changed you and made you a stronger and better person! You will accomplish all your goals you have for you and your family and as a supporter I cannot wait to watch it unfold! 💕
This was hard to watch, I've been following you and been a supporter since you were pregnant with Max. I was pregnant with a boy too at the same time and you gave birth a month before me. I didn't have a sister or mother to turn too during my pregnancy and I found such light and comfort in your videos and I still do. I'm live in Australia and am absolutely devastated to here the full truth about the reason you moved. Please know that there are so many of us that are rooting for you and always will. You're an incredible woman, mother, wife and person. No one can take that away from you! True inspiration to so many! I hope and wish you and your little family can live a better/safer life and with peace of mind. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟
To the Most High, please put a veil of protection over this family.
Amen❤️
I feel like your stalker is a friend or relative that lowkey hates you.
I always said this! It definitely is someone that is really close to her!
Like the saying goes “keep your enemies close but friends/family closer..” something like that
I was thinking the exact thing!!!
@@LauraO32015 did she purposely do that ?
Highkey
“I’m just fkn proud of myself. I’m proud of me” AS SHE SHOULD!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I’m so sorry that you’ve had to go through all of this horrible chaos but You have made it through!!! You are so fucking strong! And you are just getting started! You’ve made it this far to let anyone get in the way, and you don’t owe anyone shit! We love and care about you!! You deserve every ounce of happiness!! 🙏🏻♥️
i cant count the amount of chills i got throughout the video. im glad you’re in a better place mentally & physically! you’ve created something so beautiful for you & your family 🤍
The way you speak with anger that you worked your ass off at end , I felt that! You deserve everythinggg woman ! You worked for it!! You did that !!! Keep it up!! 💖 God bless you always 😭
I teared up when you talked about the incident. I’m sorry you hear to go through that. You do have a purpose and a reason to be here and God will continue to bless you so that you can fulfill it. 💜💜🥺
My anxiety 📈📉📈📉📈📉🥺🥺throughout this whole video.I can’t believe everything you went through... I’m so proud of you evette!! Your the best mommy, daughter, wife that anyone can have!! I hope that you can heal and move on from past. We love you and all your true supporters just want to see you thrive❤️
I get that some people just done like her or just don’t fuck with her, but going to the extent of doing a drive by while her friends and family and mostly her 9mo son is outside is disgusting and traumatizing! I hope you are truly truly happy & are at peace where your at in life! I’m sorry you went through such a scary time! 😭
Its so crazy how Mexican mothers instill fear in their children, coming from a Mexican household my mom attempted to do this to my brother and I and we just didnt care and didnt go for it. Mind you my mom is your traditional Mexican woman while my dad was gang affiliated, my brother and I just lived our lives without fearing where we lived or who our dad affiliated himself with. I pray that you do that for little max and Camila they're literally the cutest, sweetest, adorable little kids! you're a great mother and you can tel 1000%! ive seen you around our area (which I obviously won't say where) and you seem so sweet and transparent. no the dejes girl! haters are always going to be there it just comes from their own insecurities. I feel as though therapy would be sooooo good for you girl, just to get all those stresses off of your chest and you can get another persons perspective on how our thoughts are sometimes wrong and just a thought. Wish you the best girl!
also I am so happy that you feel safe where we live! I have been here for 28 years and I cant see myself anywhere else. wish you the best obviously!
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I feel like it’s good to live free but also understand that the world is not safe. My parents taught me to be aware of my surroundings and not to be naive about evil in the world.
Many people have gone through what you didn’t and didn’t make it out. I’m so proud of you. I think you handled the situation well.
Proud of you for addressing this issue. I've been following you since your engagement video and and some point I felt disconnected from from you but I'm glad that I stuck around. Because this is the badass evettexo that I always looked up too. Sending prayers your way!!
This makes me so sad for what you've had to go through i can't believe the amount of hate people give. Just like many have said it's possible it's someone close to you and almost like what they really wanted was to drive you away from your town/ home. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and being so open about what you've been through❤
All of the fun, money and success comes with a price. But you keep going because you got real supporters, don't ever forget to breathe! Hopefully Psychologists do more research for social media influencers to better help them with their struggles.
I love how raw these past videos have been we can honestly see your growth and how your becoming more open. Its so sad how many things you had to go through for such a long time when your are nothing but a good and a genuine person. You are so nice and humble and it’s sad to see how social media treats influencers when they are humans just like everyone else and have feelings. Its shocking to hear all the messages you would receive during your pregnancies it’s legit unbelievable people have the balls to say stuff like that to someone. YOU’RE AN AMAZING MOTHER !!! ❤️ we see it ! You do everything for your kids and family and your children are BLESSED to have a mother like you!!❤️
You’re such a BOSS Blanca. So many would fold in your spot ! I’ve been following since u were just a girl with braces recording in ur room at your parents house . You are an amazing wife, mother and daughter . So proud of you . 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
When you talked about the gun shots with your son out side with you omggggg
I cried . I’m glad you moved !!!
This is so terrifying, that anyone would try to physically harm a woman, & her children just because they personally don’t like her. It is mind blowing to me. If you don’t like someone keep it moving. You don’t try to attack, or hurt someone because they have goals in life.
So sad girl, I am so glad you got out & are continuing your journey after everything because I personally love seeing your growth, & watching your beautiful babies grow!❤️🙏🏼
This is heartbreaking, I can’t believe people really do stuff like this to others.. I hope they get what they deserve. Eres un ejemplo a seguir.. como latinos/mexicanos deberíamos sentirnos orgullosos de que nuestra misma raza sale a delante y hace cosas que no todos podemos. My prayers for you & your family💗
Blanca your behaviors you’re describing are making me wonder if it’s tied to experienced childhood trauma (which you clearly share that you were exposed to community violence, which is an adverse childhood experience (ACE)). I wonder if therapy can help you get to the root of those wounds and explore your life timeline and experiences😊 nonetheless you are very resilient! Growing up in a violent community must have been very difficult and your hyper vigilance and trust issues can perhaps be related to your child experiences
Yup! This was me. My childhood trauma has made me super anxious and paranoid. I see therapist and has helped a bit.
You are so strong Blanca. Praying for you and your family's safety. I am sorry that these traumatic events happened to you.
Your life is a whole freaking movie! The strength and courage it takes to deal with what you did is incredible! ❤❤
OMG I’m picking up my jaw from the floor ,popping my eyes back in my head . How can a person be so miserable I really hope they get the help they need because obviously something it’s wrong with them.
Theres people who like you, theres people who dont and thats okay everyone has their opinion but for someone to actually want to hurt you and your family thats not okay. Theres nothing wrong with you theres something wrong with them the fact that someone hates another person so much to want to hurt them is wrong on so many levels. I hope you heal from this 💕
The fact that you had to leave Stockton, the place you wanted to grow with your babies really sucks. That is so sad.. I can’t imagine going through all that
So crazy what jealousy brings out in people, hope you can find who’s doing this and much blessings to your family.
Some guy i once knew said “tengo conocidos pero no amigos” and it’s true.. animo you got this ♥️
I literally had the chills the whole time i was watching this video. This is creepy af!! Someone really took the time to follow her and literally watch her every move, take pictures and literally tried to cause harm to her and her loved ones. Some scary shit! Its Definitely someone that is “close” to her. Jealousy can be very dangerous!
Exactly!! So scary and really sad...
Same girl! I felt like I was listening to a scary story. So sad for her and her family.
I agree very creepy and scarry !! 🥺
Im so sorry you had to go through that. My jaw dropped when you said drive by. It’s mind blowing how much hate people have in their hearts. I’m glad that you are still putting out content for us, but I’m happy to know that you can do it safely. 💕 prayers and good vibes sent your way
Im glad you put this out not for us but for yourself.. I know now thats its out of your chest it can help you put that way way in the back of your mind and not continue to carry it along the successful future you will have.. Have God in the center of your life with your family and nothing will harm y'all. Blessing to you and the beautiful family you have... 🙏
I understand so much where you coming from! I live with fear every single day of my life, for me and my family. 🥺 I live in the hood where they killed the 13 year old kid. And gunshots here are like a 4th of July every single day. So glad you had the opportunity to move far and live in a better environment. For you own sake and your beau family! 💖🙏 stay strong and keep doing big things, because people like me forget about their reality life just by watching your videos.. when fear and anxiety kicks in I run to watch videos to forget about this right moment. Love you! May God bless you and yours! 💕
I moved to Chicago from Palm Beach Florida almost 5 years ago and watching you just made me cry . I am able to relate with you 100%. The fact that I’m so paranoid about everything now 😞 this city is ruthless ... I wasn’t like this . God bless you and your family ❣️
I don’t feel like random strangers would be this mad and act this way. It has to be someone you know or that has always known you. So sad! And so sorry this happened to you!
True! Someone who has maybe grown up around her or went to school with her and has been secretly disliking her.
@@shadyshadow5765 I agree 😞
I was thinking about a family relative. . .
Yes I was totally thinking this like a jealous ex on either side or cousin old friend ... 🥺
damn we never know what people really go through 🥺🥺🥺 hope you’re doing way better now!
Right exactly my thoughts, many of us owe Maria Estella an apology. I’ve seen nasty comments
@@GabsterZ21 I agreeee Maria is getting so much hate, maybe I’m not a mean person because I can’t do that I feel bad for her, people arent perfect I think people are taking it too far
There's so many people that will dislike you, there will always be something. Live your life and honestly I think you don't need to apologize anymore. We love you for you being you.
You can never trust a person because you do not know the devil in them. Sending you positive vibes and keeping you all in my prayers.
So so happy that you are feeling better and safer in your new city! You HAVE worked hard you DESERVE these blessings! Keep staying positive ❤