Yeah same when she brought up the "at least i aint brought 9 dollars on a trip" part i was cussing. Made me extra mad like man that 9 dollar person at least was still more fun then you were with ya mad baggage though.
@smpiano6605 when women do that it is cringey(depending on how their partner treats them) But also this type of guy would think his girl even having an insta is cheating so😂 and also would be liking bikini picks while simultaneously calling the women who post them hoes🙄
Bringing your man on a girls trip seems so counterproductive to the purpose of the trip. It would be different if he had established friendships with the group, but usually he doesn’t.
Even then. Not the energy of the trip. We might like him, but we'll see him when we're back. I'd write her off as a trip buddy as soon as I see dude pop up.
@@mandeanraje2300unless the guy is annoying, has cheated on the friend or something else bad I really don’t see why not. I wouldn’t want to go on a trip without my husband
Yeah if my friend is lagging behind or skipping out on activities to tend to her man the whole trip, he wouldn’t be winning any points with me. Especially if we rarely see each other throughout the year
The audacity of bringing along ANYONE on a trip who hasn't explicitly been invited is cringe enough, but bringing your romantic partner to hijack a friends trip is nuclear meltdown level cringe.
@@DominantBtchthere is still a lot wrong with inviting a girl who they don’t know. Especially to a trip abroad. That shit is gonna be so uncomfortable and awkward. If you ain’t invited, don’t go.
@@DominantBtch It depends on the group but it’s called a GIRLS TRIP for a reason, otherwise the taken ladies would have brought their men too. It creates an awkward dynamic and atmosphere with one girl, her girl friends, and her man. If you want to bring your man, then plan a friends baecation.
@@DominantBtchYes, it is. If you want to invite someone on a friend trip, we need to meet and feel out vibes first. It only takes one instance where new girl doesn’t get along with one or all of your other friends and the whole trip is ruined. Plus, it’s common sense and common courtesy to ask if everyone is okay with it.
Latto (if i have her name right) when she was accepting an award (kinda recently) she said "... and thank u 2 my man. My man, my man, my man" and since then everybody says it!!!
Such a mood killer. No one wants to pretend to accept this. This happened to me and I got lost at the airport on purpose, went else where alone and enjoyed my own company. Had to add more...didn't know this comment would help someone out. I slowly left that association alone. Let's just say...I didn't care to watch her get treated that way. She never listened to me and I was tired of her complaining about him. Today she's still taking bs. I can't be around someone who kills my mood talking about HIM and the stress he gives. Wake up women Wake up!!!
Women can not let their 🍆 go for even a few days 🙄 this is why I can only be friends with women who know how to de center men and are not so thirsty all the damn time
They're literally calling her out for everything but they're still good enough friends to get mad for her sake when her boyfriend doesn't step in and defend her from them 😔
And that’s when you know her friends are her friends, that man will be a stranger in another year or so. What’s sad is if they move on and she’s left with no friends.
Or, they just enjoy going on vacations with their partner. Especially in this economy. The idea that vacations should separated by girls or guys trips are just insane.
@@phonicrose8395 If you can't afford two big vacations, then you decline the invitation to the girls' trip because he was not invited and no one else wants him there. It's that simple.
@@Amycakes7 Was he ever explicitly not invited though? Like this video doesn't really say that. They're just shocked that he showed up, and that she asked if he wanted to come. And most girls trips, start out by one friend organizing a trip with their friends. But they don't usually explicitly say, you can't bring your partner. And it's common place that an invite for one member of the couple, extends to their partner. No matter who is the one that was initially invited.
In the name GIRLS trip, NO "HE" wasn't invited. You're really delusional. Thanks for outing yourself as having the controlling boyfriend. Stop the codepenemcy sis......@@phonicrose8395
An old friend had a man that would act just like this. He was always around, complaining about being around. He also slept with her best friend. Just a mess
Exactly it. That’s usually what it is, so men trying to say this is just normal or we’re up to something if you don’t want your man to come, they are literally telling on themselves. They don’t trust their gfs/wives and want to keep tabs on her, lol.
I used to have a friend that did this when we were younger.... And he was so creepy. 😅 Then he tried hitting on me through IG...I tried showing her and she was like, "Oh he didn't mean it like that, you're just taking it the wrong way." I'm like??? How can I take him inviting me to hang out alone with him the wrong way? I ended up telling her I was uncomfortable around him and then our friendship slowly deteriorated.
The amount of female friendships lost behind men needs to be studied. I lost three friends and have a cousin that I was super close with that distanced because of her man.
I lost an old friend to her boyfriend like this. For 3 years I couldn’t talk to her alone at all, he was always around. I care about her a lot but had to stop talking to her because she was being completely controlled by him. It’s always “I can handle him” but you shouldn’t! And you don’t have to. I certainly can’t anymore
The second a man wants to attend your girl trips, your vacations with your friends, or doesn't want you spending any time with your friends or family members alone, something ain't right. I have read too many stories and they all end the same. The husband/boyfriend is controlling and he eventually gets violent. He always gets mad at his wife/gf for hanging out with her friends/family without him because he knows they are her support system. Take away her support system and she is easy to control. If you think I'm lying, please read those DV books and read up on controlling relationships. It is all a cycle and a dangerous one at that. And yes, the same applies for controlling women. Don't get it twisted.
Oh I would be so mad 😡 A girls’ trip is for the gworls ONLY. If you wanted a baecation then y’all should have done that and not come with us. Decline the invite and y’all go do your own thing. But don’t say “I forgot to tell y’all I invited my man” that would be the LAST time you’re invited on a trip. Like there are times to invite the man and times when you leave him at home
I knew a girl like this. She surprised everyone by bringing her boyfriend on a girls only trip to Vegas. Didn’t even care that the plan was for all the girls to share one hotel room 🤦🏾♀️. Sis was shook when she was later kicked out the friend group 😂
@@upsetty_spagetti I had finals so I missed this fiasco. When the group confronted her later, she accused everyone (including me 🤣) of being jealous. Apparently we don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like.
It's always the classic, "You're just jealous" bit that kills me. Yeah I'm sooo jealous that your man doesn't understand what a *GIRLS ONLY* trip is and he doesn't trust you. 😂
@@brookew2403They ALWAYS say that. Tbh, anyone who thinks you can’t know or don’t know what a healthy relationship is because you’re single is a red flag, to me. We know what a healthy relationship is and, baby, you aren’t in one, often times the reason we purposely aren’t in one, but you think we’re jealous of your codependency, LOL.
Those ‘my man’ ’my man’ ’my man’ type of women, you absolutely have to stay away from them. I use to have a friend who was exactly like this. Long story short, I stopped being her friend lol 😂
women who are like these are kind of sad because years go by and one day they'll look around and realize they're only support system is centered around her partner and HIS friends because she pushed away all her girlfriends for him. then, one day, if the unfortunate thing happens and they end the relationship, she will try to reach out to her friends and none of them want to deal with her because she behaved like this
Exactly!!! And a lot of times the bf planned it out that way so that she doesn't have her friends as a support system. Why are you only allowed to hang out with your bf and his friends but not your own friends? In what reality does that make sense? 🤦🏾♀️
When I was looking to make friends, I ran into so many women who were like, “I need to make my own friends, because I only hang out with my man and his friends…” When they’d like me, I’d pass on them. I already know she’s about to be the woman in the skit.
This reminds me of a friend I had in high school who always would bring her boyfriend (who didn’t even talk to me) along whenever we would hang out. I finally made up a lie and told her that my mom said he could not come along because she didn’t know him. 😂 They were annoying AF. They would always be kissing and making goofy faces at each other, so I felt like a third wheel! Eventually he cheated on her with another girl from school. She called me crying and when she told me I was not bothered by the news so I just said, “oh okay” nonchalantly. She said that I was glad that he broke up with her because I was jealous! 😂😂 Girl didn’t talk to me until 2 years later. I was 15 years old so I don’t think I had enough empathy or social skills to at least say that I was sorry they broke up. I was happy he was gone, but not happy that she got hurt by him.
Dang, what an uncomfortable situation! Glad y'all reconnected. It's great that you can reflect on your past actions and want to do better, and at the same time, recognize that you were hurt.
@@chelle967 That makes sense. Its different when all parties are mutual true friends. However when their boyfriend/girlfriend is more of an acquaintance then it’s awkward and better to let them spend time together on their own.
@@celisewillis I think we forgave and forgot back then because we enjoyed our friendship. That was about 15 years ago that the incidents occurred. Sadly we are not friends anymore. She didn’t appreciate me and would ghost me for months and years. Whenever we would talk she would make it all about her life. She said she wanted to invite me to her baby shower and was going to send my invite over the mail. Except she just sent me an Amazon list via text so I could buy her a gift. I didn’t buy her anything or followed up to ask about the mail invite. I got tired of the all ghosting and the one sided friendship. I went to her wedding and bought her a gift in the years prior and she didn’t even text or call me to say thank you. 😐
I've eneded friendships on this type of behavior. I had a friend who man called her every 5 mins. And it would just be me and her hanging out. It got so bad he started texting me. I told my friend because I'm like how he get my number. She says he be going through her phone. We could be on the phone he walking back and forth through the house. I noticed she would leave the house or sit in her car to talk to me. If we face time each other here he comes. One time he told me I need to call him sometimes while she and I were on face time. I told her he is very controlling and I honestly wouldn't be surprised if he is cheating. Ladies please Do Not be this friend.
Same here, found out he be looking through our messages. Also, found out they were having convos pertaining me cause I was single and she said nothing in defense of me and it was right before a trip too. I felt so set up, come to find out she fighting for her life over there. I kept my distance since then cause I don’t need to be dragged in none of your mess nor have my private convos being watch dog by anyone for ammo.
tbh the relationship should be over the second someone wants to go through their partner's phone; either they're controlling or the trust is really broken and either way, there's no healthy way to keep that up.
"Nah You're doing too much! That Tinder account ain't even active anymore, it's mad old." Breaks up with her and turns out he met the other girl on Tinder.
I had a friend like that whose husband would always show up on girls night out, it would irritate everyone that she would invite him...but found out he wasnt invited he just didnt allow her to go anywhere without him and he was abusive although she made everyone belived they had the best relationship wasnt until I saw him drag her out of my car because we went out and he was out of town came home early ....so I said that to say this women whose husband is hanging with the "Girls" is never invited she just cant go without him cause he wont let her.....
This is true. I had an ex that was crazy abusive to me. He was out just about every night of the week. The rare occasion that I’d go out he was always trying to invite himself or try to casually ask me where I would be. I’d never let him come though. He put his hands on me all the time and all of the time I defended myself. So I was like I’ll deal with that when I get back. But my dad isolated my mom from social gatherings and she let him. Some of my cousins and aunts let their men do the same.
I fell out with an old friend over something similar. We were supposed to hang out for my bday and I thought it was going to be me and her and somehow her husband is tagging along. I got so uncomfortable I cancelled and the friendship was never the same
And he probably talked her into it by saying, "Let me go with y'all, that'll give us more time to spend together! We'll just make it a bae-cation/girl's trip"
I went through a phase like this. All I can say is I was over excited a man hadn’t run away from me like my daddy did when I was a baby 😅😢 no excuse but hopefully she’ll grow out of it
Same. We live and we learn. I was like this with my first bf. He never showed up for important events like my graduation, new years eve, etc... but he was always there in awkward situations when he shouldn't have been, just to prevent me from living my own life and possibly meeting a better man and moving on from his narcessistic, dead beat ass. He had my mind ALLLL twisted. By the time he was done with me, I had no friends left. He made such a lonely fool of me. He messed up all my goals in life, too. I will NEVER be that DUMB and DESPERATE for any man ever again! Boundaries are very important. If you're afraid to set boundaries because he might leave you, then sis, just LET HIM GO! Bc a man like that is gonna leave you anyway. At best, he's just gonna keep coming and going and making you miserable forever, if you let him.
omg i’m soooo glad you made this skit! i watched the tik tok with the girl talking about bringing her man on her friends bday trip just to have beef with a girl that only brought $135 😭😭😭
The way this broke down into an argument between her VS her friends tells me he did this get her friends out of her life and alienate her. Next will be her family...
In high school my best started dating a really cool dude who took the time to bond with all of us close to her. It was 4 of us and we had been tight for years. It did turn into her man coming everywhere with us but half the time he was more involved in whatever we were doing than she was 🤣🤣 like I seen someone say in another comment when he’s actually friends with every girl in the group it’s very different, you don’t feel like he’s taking away from the girl time
I love that! I can picture him getting pedicures with y'all like "so Betty, how did your date with justin go? ... oh no, he didn't! Are you gonna give him another chance, queen? You don't need him!!!!"
Ugh yes, when your man feel like one of the gworlz it is fine but he can not be here wanting to ignore everyone or worst taking you away from the festivities, like girl you and your man could’ve stayed home for free. I’ve had both types of men and I was so embarrassed by the non-talker/ignorer, he thought it was him being respectful by “not being too friendly” 🙃
She knew she was full of ish cause she waited till the VERY last minute to tell everyone he was joining. I don't care if i've known the other person for years; if you're inviting someone to the trip TELL ME AHEAD OF TIME!!! If i'm planning and conserving energy for a 3 person get together, I'm gonna be pissed if another shows up unexpectedly. Now my energy is off *and* I'm annoyed you couldn't take 30 seconds out of your day to tell me ahead of time!
I have a childhood friend that we were besties. We fell out of touch as adults due to life and moving, the usual. I decided to try to reconnect and this girl would not leave without her man ANYWHERE. He was cool, but obviously my bond was not with him. And I just wanted to spend time together just us like old times. Well no matter what I invited her to do her bf had to come along, I picked a day I knew he would be working and she wanted to bring her sister(who did not like me). Needless to say we don’t talk anymore which sucks bc we were so close. These type of women only drag you down honestly.
Literally about to have a girls night and one is demanding she’s going to bring her man…imagine my annoyance and if you say anything they think you’re being a hater
At least she didn't just surprise you with her man suddenly showing up. So let her think you're a hater. She's wrong, but that's her problem, not yours. It's not your fault her man is such a stalker that he won't let her out of his sight!
"My man said he wants to be as far away from y'all as possible" 💀😂 This has me rolling! Bruh so why go on the trip in the first place? Make it make sense 😂
I’ve been seeing A LOT of stories about ladies trips going like this. It’s sad, because when men want to go on their trips they sure don’t include their significant other, if it’s an all guys trip.
I always travelled solo. I Don't really have "friends". I travel out at least 4 to 5 times a year and always a solo trip. I can't handle unnecessary drama. Heck , I'm actually off to Dubai tonight by myself 😅
Honestly her man is abusive. He drove a wedge between her and her friends, never allowed her to be without him anywhere, downplayed every activity, and let them fight . Also gaslighed her into believing it was her frieds who were the issue n not him.
Lol Spot on acting. I thought that last clip for a second was her giving her actual thoughts. The clapping of the hands to emphasize a point, the end result being a brawl followed by a rant video is superbly accurate. That boyfriend also just sounds boring and highly unlikable for anyone.
I fu*ing hate when that one friend brings her boyfriend to a childhood friends group reunion. On top of that, he manages always to be front row and middle for the photo memento. Fu*******ck. Wish I could tell her nobody wants him there, like, did she see us bringing our partners? No? Then stop it. Every year. I also want to tell him "Sir, don't you have somewhere else to go today?" Daaaamn, the guy doesn't even speak to any of us (10 people!!).
That friend would be the same one to say that the whole friend group was fake af🙄🙄🙄
They are fake and sexist lol I don't need no 🚮 crying over one person
Ol’ “they’re bitter coz they’re single” head ass 😒😒
That's why she don't go on trips with no "females" ya know?
😂😂😂
Everyone is fake asf to their delulu self
Why was i actually getting annoyed though lol 😂
That's how you know it's good acting 😂
Yeah same when she brought up the "at least i aint brought 9 dollars on a trip" part i was cussing. Made me extra mad like man that 9 dollar person at least was still more fun then you were with ya mad baggage though.
Had my fake scenarios going crazy for a sec 😂. Nah but I’ve been on similar trips/outings and this def gave me flashbacks. She was too spot on.
SAME 😂😂
It’s the fact that this really happens that’s subconsciously irking
This is hilarious🤣… but that friend would never be invited on a trip again.
Ever ever
And that’s on period
For sure. Excommunicated from girl trips 😂
Once you break the friend trip rule, you forever questionable 😂
Friend would be demoted to an acquaintance at that point.
High key those men are usually the most controlling and insecure though.
Coming from the gender that gets upset when their man looks at another woman or likes her picture on Instagram...
@@smpiano6605an ex yelled at me for getting approached at the bar while we were on a date, sit down 🙄
@@smpiano6605Even though she specifically said "those" men you still got mad lol. Thanks for outing yourself.
@@smpiano6605 coming from the gender that chooses violence when another man even looks at their partner.
@smpiano6605 when women do that it is cringey(depending on how their partner treats them)
But also this type of guy would think his girl even having an insta is cheating so😂 and also would be liking bikini picks while simultaneously calling the women who post them hoes🙄
Bringing your man on a girls trip seems so counterproductive to the purpose of the trip.
It would be different if he had established friendships with the group, but usually he doesn’t.
No guys on a girls trip! Unless he's gay gay. I bet no girls on a guy trip
Even then. Not the energy of the trip. We might like him, but we'll see him when we're back. I'd write her off as a trip buddy as soon as I see dude pop up.
Can you please explain why women hate this so much? There have been fights over this.@@mandeanraje2300
@@mandeanraje2300unless the guy is annoying, has cheated on the friend or something else bad I really don’t see why not.
I wouldn’t want to go on a trip without my husband
Yeah if my friend is lagging behind or skipping out on activities to tend to her man the whole trip, he wouldn’t be winning any points with me. Especially if we rarely see each other throughout the year
"Yall so crazy, like🤪🥰"
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That's my new phrase for 2024.😂😂😂
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The audacity of bringing along ANYONE on a trip who hasn't explicitly been invited is cringe enough, but bringing your romantic partner to hijack a friends trip is nuclear meltdown level cringe.
Nothing wrong with inviting a new girl, but i guess different strokes for different folks.
@@DominantBtchthere is still a lot wrong with inviting a girl who they don’t know. Especially to a trip abroad. That shit is gonna be so uncomfortable and awkward. If you ain’t invited, don’t go.
@@DominantBtch It depends on the group but it’s called a GIRLS TRIP for a reason, otherwise the taken ladies would have brought their men too. It creates an awkward dynamic and atmosphere with one girl, her girl friends, and her man. If you want to bring your man, then plan a friends baecation.
@@DominantBtchwhy tf would u bring a random person to a GIRLS TRIP. You clearly don’t have friends
@@DominantBtchYes, it is. If you want to invite someone on a friend trip, we need to meet and feel out vibes first. It only takes one instance where new girl doesn’t get along with one or all of your other friends and the whole trip is ruined. Plus, it’s common sense and common courtesy to ask if everyone is okay with it.
“My man-my man my man my man my man”🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 pleeeeeease! 😆✋🏾
Please, tell me where did the saying come from?!?!? 😂😂😂😂
@@YChef33Beyonce I think
@@ManicMaidenASMRYou think Beyonce came up with "my man?" 😆 No. "My man" has been said since the dawn of time!
Latto (if i have her name right) when she was accepting an award (kinda recently) she said "... and thank u 2 my man. My man, my man, my man" and since then everybody says it!!!
@@themaggattack😂😂
She ain't never getting invited again!!!! She's gonna be first to say we jealous 😂
I didn't even finish the video when I wrote that and there it is 😂😂😂 and there go her man not supporting her 😅
I could never Understand someone bringing their significant others to all girls or boy vacation like😭😭😭
They love to say that! 😂 me 🌈🌈 girl nobody want him
"This was a birthday trip, you didn't even say Happy Birthday." 💀💀💀
“What are you talking about? I was with yall on the taxi on the way here” 😂
Then she gon bring up how much everyone spent on the trip, like she didn’t bring a waste of money time and space right along with her.
The collective “…oooh….he’s here ??”🤣
That was my favorite part!
😂😂😂😂🔥
Such a mood killer. No one wants to pretend to accept this. This happened to me and I got lost at the airport on purpose, went else where alone and enjoyed my own company.
Had to add more...didn't know this comment would help someone out. I slowly left that association alone. Let's just say...I didn't care to watch her get treated that way. She never listened to me and I was tired of her complaining about him. Today she's still taking bs. I can't be around someone who kills my mood talking about HIM and the stress he gives. Wake up women Wake up!!!
The only proper response. Well done.
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Dawgggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I aspire to be like you
I love this so much lol.
When people are so codependent with their bad relationships that it ruins their good relationship
Cause some people find it more important to chase after what they can’t exactly get a full hold of.
@@yolucid the grass is always greener on the other side i guess.
How is it a bad relationship. All my greinds are like that because they love their man.
Women can not let their 🍆 go for even a few days 🙄 this is why I can only be friends with women who know how to de center men and are not so thirsty all the damn time
Bingo!
They're literally calling her out for everything but they're still good enough friends to get mad for her sake when her boyfriend doesn't step in and defend her from them 😔
And that’s when you know her friends are her friends, that man will be a stranger in another year or so. What’s sad is if they move on and she’s left with no friends.
She told a better story in three minutes than most Hollywood movies
Accurate to nth degree too, right down to clapping hands to emphasize a point and the physical fight. It's just a boiling pot from the start.
"you brought 9 dollars for the whole trip" "...okay that still doesn't change the fact that you brought your WHOLE man on the trip"
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Facts
This part is so underrated and so real! 😂😂😂😂
Women who do that are either insecure about their relationship or their man is controlling and insecure.
Or, they just enjoy going on vacations with their partner.
Especially in this economy. The idea that vacations should separated by girls or guys trips are just insane.
@@phonicrose8395 If you can't afford two big vacations, then you decline the invitation to the girls' trip because he was not invited and no one else wants him there. It's that simple.
@@Amycakes7 Was he ever explicitly not invited though? Like this video doesn't really say that. They're just shocked that he showed up, and that she asked if he wanted to come.
And most girls trips, start out by one friend organizing a trip with their friends. But they don't usually explicitly say, you can't bring your partner.
And it's common place that an invite for one member of the couple, extends to their partner. No matter who is the one that was initially invited.
In the name GIRLS trip, NO "HE" wasn't invited. You're really delusional.
Thanks for outing yourself as having the controlling boyfriend. Stop the codepenemcy sis......@@phonicrose8395
@@phonicrose8395girls trip is for the girls. its that simple rlly 💁♀️
One of my bridesmaids brought her man to my Bachelorette party.
Damn
Violation!
That's out of order! And we want to hear the whole story😂
Is she still a friend? 👀
Oh no ma’am
An old friend had a man that would act just like this. He was always around, complaining about being around. He also slept with her best friend. Just a mess
It be the low iq ones lol
I-
Not even surprised
Yikes!
Just thinking how they are usually cheaters
I feel so many red flags
this girl’s storytelling and dialogue construction skills are elite 😂
I would have told her and Terrance they can go and do a couples trip . The audacity of her inviting her boyfriend .
And then not participating for most of it!
“😔Bye, boo” 😭😭😭😭😭
“Y’all so crazy!” With all her crazy actions 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Those 3 words kept triggering meeee 😩😩😮💨😮💨💀💀
Sis, your man doesn’t trust you and he’s purposely trying to ruin your good time smh. This is too funny😂
Exactly. And he's cheating. He didn't want to be on camera with her.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lies she wanted him don’t do that
Exactly it. That’s usually what it is, so men trying to say this is just normal or we’re up to something if you don’t want your man to come, they are literally telling on themselves. They don’t trust their gfs/wives and want to keep tabs on her, lol.
@@jameliakingstom1190Just because a woman wants a man doesn’t mean he’s good.
I used to have a friend that did this when we were younger.... And he was so creepy. 😅 Then he tried hitting on me through IG...I tried showing her and she was like, "Oh he didn't mean it like that, you're just taking it the wrong way." I'm like??? How can I take him inviting me to hang out alone with him the wrong way? I ended up telling her I was uncomfortable around him and then our friendship slowly deteriorated.
What sucks is losing a friendship over a relationship you that won’t even last. 😔
The amount of female friendships lost behind men needs to be studied. I lost three friends and have a cousin that I was super close with that distanced because of her man.
She was literally caught up in her own delusions, like
I lost an old friend to her boyfriend like this. For 3 years I couldn’t talk to her alone at all, he was always around. I care about her a lot but had to stop talking to her because she was being completely controlled by him. It’s always “I can handle him” but you shouldn’t! And you don’t have to. I certainly can’t anymore
The second a man wants to attend your girl trips, your vacations with your friends, or doesn't want you spending any time with your friends or family members alone, something ain't right. I have read too many stories and they all end the same. The husband/boyfriend is controlling and he eventually gets violent. He always gets mad at his wife/gf for hanging out with her friends/family without him because he knows they are her support system. Take away her support system and she is easy to control. If you think I'm lying, please read those DV books and read up on controlling relationships. It is all a cycle and a dangerous one at that. And yes, the same applies for controlling women. Don't get it twisted.
Oh I would be so mad 😡 A girls’ trip is for the gworls ONLY. If you wanted a baecation then y’all should have done that and not come with us. Decline the invite and y’all go do your own thing. But don’t say “I forgot to tell y’all I invited my man” that would be the LAST time you’re invited on a trip. Like there are times to invite the man and times when you leave him at home
I agree, except I would have said that sooner.
Exactly
I knew a girl like this. She surprised everyone by bringing her boyfriend on a girls only trip to Vegas. Didn’t even care that the plan was for all the girls to share one hotel room 🤦🏾♀️. Sis was shook when she was later kicked out the friend group 😂
Not her being shocked 💀 girl be fr 🤡
@@upsetty_spagetti I had finals so I missed this fiasco. When the group confronted her later, she accused everyone (including me 🤣) of being jealous. Apparently we don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like.
@@brookew2403 She cannot be real 😂😂 I hope, for her sake, she's wised up because that shit ain't cute
It's always the classic, "You're just jealous" bit that kills me. Yeah I'm sooo jealous that your man doesn't understand what a *GIRLS ONLY* trip is and he doesn't trust you. 😂
@@brookew2403They ALWAYS say that. Tbh, anyone who thinks you can’t know or don’t know what a healthy relationship is because you’re single is a red flag, to me. We know what a healthy relationship is and, baby, you aren’t in one, often times the reason we purposely aren’t in one, but you think we’re jealous of your codependency, LOL.
Those ‘my man’ ’my man’ ’my man’ type of women, you absolutely have to stay away from them. I use to have a friend who was exactly like this. Long story short, I stopped being her friend lol 😂
Those are the women that will throw you under the bus for their man and then come crawling back when he does her dirty. Don’t got time for it!!
💯 facts!
women who are like these are kind of sad because years go by and one day they'll look around and realize they're only support system is centered around her partner and HIS friends because she pushed away all her girlfriends for him. then, one day, if the unfortunate thing happens and they end the relationship, she will try to reach out to her friends and none of them want to deal with her because she behaved like this
Exactly!!! And a lot of times the bf planned it out that way so that she doesn't have her friends as a support system. Why are you only allowed to hang out with your bf and his friends but not your own friends? In what reality does that make sense? 🤦🏾♀️
When I was looking to make friends, I ran into so many women who were like, “I need to make my own friends, because I only hang out with my man and his friends…” When they’d like me, I’d pass on them. I already know she’s about to be the woman in the skit.
This is so true!
She and her man would have been left behind at the airport.
With the quickness
ABSOLUTELY. "I didn't tell you until last minute" well we don't have room for extras, hope you can refund your tickets
This reminds me of a friend I had in high school who always would bring her boyfriend (who didn’t even talk to me) along whenever we would hang out. I finally made up a lie and told her that my mom said he could not come along because she didn’t know him. 😂 They were annoying AF. They would always be kissing and making goofy faces at each other, so I felt like a third wheel! Eventually he cheated on her with another girl from school. She called me crying and when she told me I was not bothered by the news so I just said, “oh okay” nonchalantly. She said that I was glad that he broke up with her because I was jealous! 😂😂 Girl didn’t talk to me until 2 years later. I was 15 years old so I don’t think I had enough empathy or social skills to at least say that I was sorry they broke up. I was happy he was gone, but not happy that she got hurt by him.
If i were to hang out with my girl and she has a guy around ill be like invite me later. Been there and done that. Its really uncomfortable....
Dang, what an uncomfortable situation! Glad y'all reconnected. It's great that you can reflect on your past actions and want to do better, and at the same time, recognize that you were hurt.
@@chelle967 That makes sense. Its different when all parties are mutual true friends. However when their boyfriend/girlfriend is more of an acquaintance then it’s awkward and better to let them spend time together on their own.
@@celisewillis I think we forgave and forgot back then because we enjoyed our friendship. That was about 15 years ago that the incidents occurred. Sadly we are not friends anymore. She didn’t appreciate me and would ghost me for months and years. Whenever we would talk she would make it all about her life. She said she wanted to invite me to her baby shower and was going to send my invite over the mail. Except she just sent me an Amazon list via text so I could buy her a gift. I didn’t buy her anything or followed up to ask about the mail invite. I got tired of the all ghosting and the one sided friendship. I went to her wedding and bought her a gift in the years prior and she didn’t even text or call me to say thank you. 😐
You’re were a good friend for not wanting her to be hurt by this!
I've eneded friendships on this type of behavior. I had a friend who man called her every 5 mins. And it would just be me and her hanging out. It got so bad he started texting me. I told my friend because I'm like how he get my number. She says he be going through her phone. We could be on the phone he walking back and forth through the house. I noticed she would leave the house or sit in her car to talk to me. If we face time each other here he comes. One time he told me I need to call him sometimes while she and I were on face time. I told her he is very controlling and I honestly wouldn't be surprised if he is cheating. Ladies please Do Not be this friend.
Same here, found out he be looking through our messages. Also, found out they were having convos pertaining me cause I was single and she said nothing in defense of me and it was right before a trip too. I felt so set up, come to find out she fighting for her life over there. I kept my distance since then cause I don’t need to be dragged in none of your mess nor have my private convos being watch dog by anyone for ammo.
tbh the relationship should be over the second someone wants to go through their partner's phone; either they're controlling or the trust is really broken and either way, there's no healthy way to keep that up.
"Nah You're doing too much! That Tinder account ain't even active anymore, it's mad old."
Breaks up with her and turns out he met the other girl on Tinder.
I had a friend like that whose husband would always show up on girls night out, it would irritate everyone that she would invite him...but found out he wasnt invited he just didnt allow her to go anywhere without him and he was abusive although she made everyone belived they had the best relationship wasnt until I saw him drag her out of my car because we went out and he was out of town came home early ....so I said that to say this women whose husband is hanging with the "Girls" is never invited she just cant go without him cause he wont let her.....
This is true. I had an ex that was crazy abusive to me. He was out just about every night of the week. The rare occasion that I’d go out he was always trying to invite himself or try to casually ask me where I would be. I’d never let him come though. He put his hands on me all the time and all of the time I defended myself. So I was like I’ll deal with that when I get back. But my dad isolated my mom from social gatherings and she let him. Some of my cousins and aunts let their men do the same.
Did she ditch him? That would be horrible being married to an abusive and controlling person.
I fell out with an old friend over something similar. We were supposed to hang out for my bday and I thought it was going to be me and her and somehow her husband is tagging along. I got so uncomfortable I cancelled and the friendship was never the same
The fight at the end 😂😂 I’m with the friends on this one 😅
😂😂😂 The fight was hilarious
😂😂😂
Dude tagged along because he doesn't trust her or her friends but she thinks it's because he wants to be with her lol leave your insecure men at home
And he probably talked her into it by saying, "Let me go with y'all, that'll give us more time to spend together! We'll just make it a bae-cation/girl's trip"
Only difference with me is, I ain't finna argue with you. Enjoy ya time cooped up in the room with your dusty😂
Wow, the attention to detail with the overlapping voices is next level, usually people put meaningless ad lib.
Thank you for noticing lol❤❤❤❤🥹🥹🥹🥹
“Ya’ll ain’t even spend time with us!”
“But we were with ya’ll in the taxi on the way here!” 😂
One of my friends did this we don’t talk to her anymore and no one likes her anymore.
Posting about how she has “fake” and “jealous” friends after the trip is so accurate 💀💀
Id be glad she's at the other hotel, stay there dont call us!
Her being neutral during the disagreements with the boyfriend and friends are KILLING MEE 💀💀💀💀
And I bet she paid for that nice hotel room.
“I forgot to tell y’all” my tail fin. 🤨 😆
I went through a phase like this. All I can say is I was over excited a man hadn’t run away from me like my daddy did when I was a baby 😅😢 no excuse but hopefully she’ll grow out of it
Same. We live and we learn. I was like this with my first bf. He never showed up for important events like my graduation, new years eve, etc... but he was always there in awkward situations when he shouldn't have been, just to prevent me from living my own life and possibly meeting a better man and moving on from his narcessistic, dead beat ass. He had my mind ALLLL twisted. By the time he was done with me, I had no friends left. He made such a lonely fool of me. He messed up all my goals in life, too. I will NEVER be that DUMB and DESPERATE for any man ever again! Boundaries are very important. If you're afraid to set boundaries because he might leave you, then sis, just LET HIM GO! Bc a man like that is gonna leave you anyway. At best, he's just gonna keep coming and going and making you miserable forever, if you let him.
I hope things are going better for you. This is really relatable for me, and I'm still figuring stuff out from it. @themaggattack
She ruined an entire birthday trip and then playing victim at the end. 🤦🏾♀️
i am weak i love these videos 😂😂
Not the "you brought your whole man" 😂
This girl needs her own show
I feel the group's pain omg
She would not be invited on the next trip. Lol
And that's probably exactly what he wants. Her to have no friends. No one to call out his bullshit to her
@@neffyg35 🎯🎯🎯🎯
omg i’m soooo glad you made this skit! i watched the tik tok with the girl talking about bringing her man on her friends bday trip just to have beef with a girl that only brought $135 😭😭😭
The way this broke down into an argument between her VS her friends tells me he did this get her friends out of her life and alienate her. Next will be her family...
🎯🎯🎯🎯 It's all part of the cycle. The family is definitely next. Isolate her from her support system and she becomes easier to control.
This took me on a journey I feel like I've been in this situation for three days lol
When she said her and her man were going to a different hotel, I would’ve stopped thinking about her. She’s on a different trip!
nah the fight at the end💀
Crazy thing is the person who bought their bf on the trip ends up breaking up with them like 6 months later
I don't need the drama ! it's no longer a vacation if you ladies are constantly bickering. This is why I travel alone.😊
What Ladies? TERRANCE,
you forgot to take you schizophrenia meds again, jeez..🤦🏻
Same here will go on a Solo Trip in a minute .I learned my lesson 22 years ago . I will never travel in groups ever again
They were fine until she brought her man and he started ruining everything. Who brings a man on a girls trip?!
Always been the plan for me.
Any tips?
Sis miss the memo it's called a girl's trip for a reason 😆
In high school my best started dating a really cool dude who took the time to bond with all of us close to her. It was 4 of us and we had been tight for years. It did turn into her man coming everywhere with us but half the time he was more involved in whatever we were doing than she was 🤣🤣 like I seen someone say in another comment when he’s actually friends with every girl in the group it’s very different, you don’t feel like he’s taking away from the girl time
I love that! I can picture him getting pedicures with y'all like "so Betty, how did your date with justin go? ... oh no, he didn't! Are you gonna give him another chance, queen? You don't need him!!!!"
Ugh yes, when your man feel like one of the gworlz it is fine but he can not be here wanting to ignore everyone or worst taking you away from the festivities, like girl you and your man could’ve stayed home for free.
I’ve had both types of men and I was so embarrassed by the non-talker/ignorer, he thought it was him being respectful by “not being too friendly” 🙃
nyasia content be giving me life 😭😭
So basically Natalie Nunn
IM SCREAMING
And dont forget Pebbles for Brains Chrishean and her baby daddy who dont want her 💀
She knew she was full of ish cause she waited till the VERY last minute to tell everyone he was joining. I don't care if i've known the other person for years; if you're inviting someone to the trip TELL ME AHEAD OF TIME!!! If i'm planning and conserving energy for a 3 person get together, I'm gonna be pissed if another shows up unexpectedly. Now my energy is off *and* I'm annoyed you couldn't take 30 seconds out of your day to tell me ahead of time!
I have a childhood friend that we were besties. We fell out of touch as adults due to life and moving, the usual. I decided to try to reconnect and this girl would not leave without her man ANYWHERE. He was cool, but obviously my bond was not with him. And I just wanted to spend time together just us like old times. Well no matter what I invited her to do her bf had to come along, I picked a day I knew he would be working and she wanted to bring her sister(who did not like me). Needless to say we don’t talk anymore which sucks bc we were so close. These type of women only drag you down honestly.
Literally about to have a girls night and one is demanding she’s going to bring her man…imagine my annoyance and if you say anything they think you’re being a hater
At least she didn't just surprise you with her man suddenly showing up. So let her think you're a hater. She's wrong, but that's her problem, not yours. It's not your fault her man is such a stalker that he won't let her out of his sight!
Nah, a girls trip is just that
Is he a controlling buzz kill like the one in this video? Or is he at least tolerable?
@@KehwannaLol. That's a good question.
They be straight mood killers. Omg lol
The whole point of a girl’s trip is to be with your girls ONLY, why would you bring a man along?! 😭
"My man said he wants to be as far away from y'all as possible" 💀😂
This has me rolling! Bruh so why go on the trip in the first place? Make it make sense 😂
That “nah don’t put me on camera” took me out😆😆💀💀💀💀💀
Right!
He don't want his other chicks to see him. LOL
wow, you have genuinely upset me with this shorts lol. keep up the good work!! love ur content, its fun and creative :-)
I’ve been seeing A LOT of stories about ladies trips going like this. It’s sad, because when men want to go on their trips they sure don’t include their significant other, if it’s an all guys trip.
This makes me glad I don’t have a group of girlfriends to travel with. I had the time of my life traveling to Japan last year. I’m not gonna stop.😂✈️
I agree solo.traveling is so much better .
I always travelled solo. I Don't really have "friends". I travel out at least 4 to 5 times a year and always a solo trip. I can't handle unnecessary drama. Heck , I'm actually off to Dubai tonight by myself 😅
I'm going on a solo trip to New Zealand on Friday! Woot!
@@OJoy1987have fun ❤❤❤
@@deedeemoore6096no its not, and its a lot more dangerous
Honestly her man is abusive. He drove a wedge between her and her friends, never allowed her to be without him anywhere, downplayed every activity, and let them fight . Also gaslighed her into believing it was her frieds who were the issue n not him.
This is something I would NEVER do. EVER. I hate when girlsbring men on trips NOT INVITED.
The man doesn't want you to be there w/o him. Yet, don't want to take pictures/videos with you. That ain't your man, that's your human gps tracker.🤣🤣🤣
“Babecation” or “baecation” 😂 I’m totally using that 😂
Lol Spot on acting. I thought that last clip for a second was her giving her actual thoughts. The clapping of the hands to emphasize a point, the end result being a brawl followed by a rant video is superbly accurate.
That boyfriend also just sounds boring and highly unlikable for anyone.
Bringing your man on a girls trip is wild 😂😂😂
She wouldn't have been going on my trip. Y'all have fun on your own.
@@Ferrist1 Frfr
That was my ex husband with my family. He wanted nothing to do with them.
That's a good reason for him being an ex.
Red flag like a mf
@@sinceslicedbread7422 One of the many reasons
Some families be toxic tho all things considered
@@rewdskwid His family was toxic, not mine. They did nothing to him.
"HI TERRANCE!" .. I'm that friend! If he was there or not, I'm gonna have fun! 😂
" girl your man is not even defending you" 😂😂😂 i cant be with you if you cant defend me
Just ditch her, and do whatever y'all want😂
Lmao she aint gonna have no friends after that 😂😂😂😂
Why did they BOTH bother going
my aunts co-worker did this and he didn't even have a job lol
“Y’all so crazy like” 😭
I knew a woman who brought her unemployed baby daddy TO HER JOB INTERVIEW. And yes she paid his subway fare, and waited for her in the lobby😅😆
Lol WHY??? 😂😂😂
MEGA CRINGE! OMG! 🤣
“You didn’t even wish me Happy Birthday” lol.
I fu*ing hate when that one friend brings her boyfriend to a childhood friends group reunion. On top of that, he manages always to be front row and middle for the photo memento. Fu*******ck. Wish I could tell her nobody wants him there, like, did she see us bringing our partners? No? Then stop it. Every year. I also want to tell him "Sir, don't you have somewhere else to go today?" Daaaamn, the guy doesn't even speak to any of us (10 people!!).
"My friends are lesser than I because they do not crave male attention."
😂😂😂 this is exactly how it would go down.
There's a reason why no mens allowed on a girls trip. That crap wouldn't fly in my group.
This is the sign to dump your male-centered friends 😂💀💀
This is horribly accurate.😰😅
I get to giddy seeing your name in my notifications on TH-cam! Made my day every day !!
Hahahahahahahaaaaaa 😂 😂 😂 did she say we were with you in the Taxi over here!!!!! Hahahahahaaaaaaa 😅
The different voices is sending me 😭
"in the taxi on the way over" 😂
She need to babysit her bf to make sure he don’t cheat, be careful of these manmies
Other way round
Exactly! She knows he will be out with the main side join if she was out of town. He also is controlling and trying to ruin her trip. Annoying!
& he never looks up from his phone or the tv
Except to b**ch about their music and sh*t on their joy.