Life inside a community residence for the disabled

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  • A tour of a group home for the developmentally disabled in Dongan Hills section of Staten Island. (Video by Amanda Steen)

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  • @101poopers
    @101poopers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    This woman seems perfect for this type of work. I feel that she treats them all like family and for that I am thankful and say THANK YOU!!

    • @krystalharwood6359
      @krystalharwood6359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'd so wanna do this but i never did well in school so no college education for me. hm if only this were volunteer

    • @lachellewade5552
      @lachellewade5552 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm going to group home

    • @user-gb5zq6yn5k
      @user-gb5zq6yn5k หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah

  • @kzeb245
    @kzeb245 6 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    The staff seem so friendly , and the people look happy in the home and it was very clean

    • @krystalharwood5240
      @krystalharwood5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      the first girl looks like the managers daughter

  • @addiererecich2464
    @addiererecich2464 7 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    This is what I'd like to do when I graduate. I work with kids like this in my Highschool. I'd love to do it my whole life.

    • @emptysoups
      @emptysoups 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Addison Rerecich We need more people like you in society. I'd also love to do this in my adulthood but I'm not too sure yet.

    • @tomasaurusrex8736
      @tomasaurusrex8736 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope it's not for some narcissistic pursuits otherwise you'd be a disservice to them :O

    • @andiee248
      @andiee248 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good luck. It's a tough job. You need a lot of patience. I've been doing it for 4 years and I'm just about ready to switch professions.

    • @bobhatessinners8327
      @bobhatessinners8327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tomasaurus rex lol there’s so many of those types of people, they work everywhere where they look like caring people it makes them feel morally higher and helps their egos, the Millennials especially since alot of us love social media and could use it to post pictures of us “helping” people

    • @seafoambeachcomb
      @seafoambeachcomb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For many truly kind-hearted, community-minded people, this is their life's calling. And they LOVE it and the people they work with. If anyone is in it for nefarious purposes as some are insinuating, they'll get weeded out quickly.

  • @mizzysparrots4874
    @mizzysparrots4874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    I worked for a facility like this for 9 years. It was rewarding work but hard work. What this video doesnt show.... the massive behaviors they have when the smallest thing doesnt go their way, the low hourly wage, the staff being hit during tantrums, staff being lazy while other staff do EVERYTHING... I could go on and on.

    • @alyssarasmussen1723
      @alyssarasmussen1723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm really sorry you had to go through that. I'm sure there were good times and bad times. I am very thankful for the service in taking care of people with disabilities. I am still really sorry for everything bad that has happened to you. I am sure the people who liked you were very happy that you took great care of them. Thank you.

    • @MachinaGirlRobots
      @MachinaGirlRobots 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It was the same way at the Nursing Home I worked at...

    • @koralyne7152
      @koralyne7152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They don’t show this for more than one reason I’m sure🙄

    • @koralyne7152
      @koralyne7152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MachinaGirlRobots I used to work in a nursing home, just because I’m not there anymore doesn’t mean I’m allowed to expose them

    • @jessicaschoonmaker2073
      @jessicaschoonmaker2073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pretty much sums up everything assisted living

  • @Keewaf
    @Keewaf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    just from this short clip you can tell the people living there trust and appreciate the workers, its a sad truth that not many group homes are like this one.

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Most group homes are like prisons but at least this one allows freedom and doesn't force help.

  • @Crayon4632
    @Crayon4632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Remember that developmental disabilities doesn't automatically mean unintelligent or unaware of how others treat you differently. Always try to never infantalise anyone, no matter what their differences are. Treat them as you would an adult who simply needs more support than most without being patronising or condescending. Those most severely affected by anything might genuinely enjoy being coddled a bit but this probably doesn't apply to most and I think it probably takes intelligent and socially aware carers to recognise this and treat each disabled person as an individual with the appropriate level of support according to what their needs are.
    I'm highly intelligent but also have mild to moderately severe learning difficulties as well as classic autism so I know very well what I'm talking about, especially from having been bullied or socially excluded in some way, patronised, overprotected and infantalised my whole life, which nearly completely destroyed me mentally.

    • @eustab.anas-mann9510
      @eustab.anas-mann9510 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if they're a baby, should we not "infantilize" them?

  • @jeenashirkey1987
    @jeenashirkey1987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    they are a hell of a lot more caring, kind, sweet and compassionate than a lot of the bullies on here. I worked with disabled people before.

  • @evanhalsey1844
    @evanhalsey1844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have Asperger Syndrome and I personally hate group homes, but this one isn't as bad as most. Living in a group home and getting to leave the house on your own isn't bad but it isn't great having to be with staff at home all the time. I'd never move to a group home but would be happy to at least get to leave the house anytime I wanted to and not be forced to accept help. At least this one is not like a prison. I'm still going to be living independently in my own apartment and then my future house though.

    • @rachelwaln269
      @rachelwaln269 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Honestly, even though I'm not disabled, I feel like group homes are basically like an institution disguised as a regular home, which is why I hate them too. Instead, they should have them live independently with the proper supports in place.

  • @ding1466
    @ding1466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I like that Jack micheal has his own recycling thing going on. I am glad he is learning to walk to the store on his own. Jack micheal is doing great.

    • @krystalharwood6359
      @krystalharwood6359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      not to be mean but he sorta reminds me of lou costello

  • @martaparsons5633
    @martaparsons5633 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful facility❤The residents are blessed to live there. Thank you to the staff.

  • @taraclarissa
    @taraclarissa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I miss being a caregiver. Developmental Disabled folks are so fun to work with.

  • @cherylcampbell7495
    @cherylcampbell7495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This house is very special. God loves you. I’m a caregiver also. I think it takes a special person to do our work.🙏🙏💕

    • @aussiefurbymogwaifan6621
      @aussiefurbymogwaifan6621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It may seem "special" to you, but to alot of disabled people, their basically places of confinement and have adult rights taken away from them, as well as being infantilized - even if they are "good". IMO they should be phased out, even if they seem "good" to ableds

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aussiefurbymogwaifan6621 I agree. I have autism spectrum disorders and group homes are my worst nightmares. There's no such thing as a luxury life or home for adults with disabilities. They're basically prisons with regiments of forced fun, forced friendships, group activities, group outings, and austere safety. There's no adulting, working, or independent living which is key to adulthood. I'd rather die than move to a place like this. That's why I don't want to be thought of as "special" because special people get isolated, disrespected, overprotected and confined.

    • @Crayon4632
      @Crayon4632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@evanhalsey1844Amen. Shout it to the hills. My own family do that stuff to me, smh.

    • @MelissaG31
      @MelissaG31 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks house 🏠 very special good ❤️

  • @pamiperry3329
    @pamiperry3329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm Autistic and have Epilepsy wear two hearing aids and have a service dog.
    It depends on if you are high end, or in the middle or low end.
    I'm high end Autistic I volunteer at my church food bank, my cousin shop.
    I was married tell my husband die.
    Live with my cousin now, I'm a author had more then one book published.
    So you need to give all people that have a disability of any kind chance in life never say they can not do something.

    • @quakbang
      @quakbang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow you are doing really great for yourself better than I am! 💜 Keep up the amazing work!

    • @krystalharwood6359
      @krystalharwood6359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you mean high functioning

    • @amahrrinsampson3030
      @amahrrinsampson3030 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have a soon to be old schoolmate my age that has autism and epilepsy too.

  • @alexthec1677
    @alexthec1677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think it's a blessing that there are people out there that would help others people.

  • @phyllismontoroula6454
    @phyllismontoroula6454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some group homes will not allow people help with cooking even if they want learn how to cook I'm glad people in your home let people help cook

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You do nothing that involves adulting. It's all forced fun and doing everything as a group. I'd hate that and I have autism spectrum disorders.

  • @anonymousdoe3755
    @anonymousdoe3755 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Very nice. Getting people with disability’s help.

  • @mackenziekeitt9796
    @mackenziekeitt9796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first women looked so happy

    • @mukbangfanatic5649
      @mukbangfanatic5649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was sad we didn't get to see her poster I really wanted to see it.

    • @amahrrinsampson3030
      @amahrrinsampson3030 หลายเดือนก่อน

      At least we got to see the cat plush.

  • @nickcottam2546
    @nickcottam2546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The folks who run these homes are the soul of humanity

    • @alexjack8377
      @alexjack8377 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not always. There's some messed up stuff that happens in the disability field. Not all staff have the best interests of the people they support in mind. It's important to be vigilant and ensure that everyone's being treated right.

  • @TheRedSphinx
    @TheRedSphinx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I used to have a part time job as a caretaker at a group home in Sweden when I went to university in the early 2000's. The group homes in Sweden are usually run by the municipalities, and the layout is a bit different compared to what I see here. The common areas are smaller, but the "rooms" are more like small two-bedroom flats with showers/toilets and kitchenettes. It can be a fun job, depending on the amount of help every resident needs. The place where I worked at had no residents in wheelchairs, so it wasen't physicly demanding, and no resident needed watching over 24/7, so we were allowed to sleep in the staff bedroom when we did our night shift.

  • @Sarah.Riedel
    @Sarah.Riedel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This is SO important for quality of life. All eligible adults should be able to access this type of housing support if it's suitable for their needs. How about a few less tax breaks for the rich and a few more dollars towards social services?!!

    • @preservethe80s62
      @preservethe80s62 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charity begins at home. Why not dig a little deeper and personally donate funds toward social services? If you truly care, then why get upset if someone isn't giving their "equal share", as is the tone of your question? There are plenty of ways to organize and achieve charitable goals without forcing everyone to put out for them. In a perfect world, all who could help would, but our world is far from perfect. Taking larger portions of people's money and creating a disincentive to work hard and succeed never helps.
      I'm disabled myself and am anything but rich, but I feel the best care and gifts in this world are ones that come voluntarily from the heart rather than those given grudgingly via force. My interactions with many state workers, teachers, and volunteers over the course of my life has cemented that lesson to me. There are those who help because they want to, and there are those who do it for a paycheck or out of fear of punishment. We're better of without the services and funds of the latter two.

  • @andreaj3878
    @andreaj3878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless the caring staff and people there at the home🤗

  • @joshuamendes1565
    @joshuamendes1565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great job guys! I've been the field for 16 years now. Very rewarding!

  • @namelessbandnerd4371
    @namelessbandnerd4371 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    It is so amazing the amount of care and love these workers and staff put in to help people who are often referred to as "the weird ones" or "retarded". It is also so amazing that those who live there set goals for themselves.

    • @flyingkiwifitness7015
      @flyingkiwifitness7015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Artsy Panda 100%! So amazing to see that the managers genuinely care, and want to see growth with all their housemates 😃

    • @johnhelhoski6579
      @johnhelhoski6579 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd rather be referred to as "the weird one" than "the one who is developmentally disabled".

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People just need to be educated for the use of the R word and i myself have told both on social media and in person to never use that word again. But most of the time staff do enjoy their job

    • @robertmarley8852
      @robertmarley8852 ปีที่แล้ว

      My grandfather was born in 1912 and he used the r word. I use it too. It's tragedy what happens to these people cause they got some meds they shouldn't have got

    • @princessleira2663
      @princessleira2663 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@robertmarley8852 If you're talking about people with disabilities being a tragedy then you are ignorant as hell. Most disabilities, people are born with.

  • @princessyonnie100
    @princessyonnie100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To me they are perfectly fine they are just enjoying life and being happy but who needs emotional support to me we all need that without being judged

  • @FalconTalon22
    @FalconTalon22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how the first woman that shows off her room has the most Staten Island of accents, perfect

  • @michelemarie180
    @michelemarie180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome! Glad to see these people have wonderful people helping them live independent lives! Good luck to each and everyone of you! ♥️🖤

  • @Zzz2x
    @Zzz2x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yall have no idea how happy this makes me .. im smiling so wide. this is beautiful

  • @SharonBenson2674
    @SharonBenson2674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations! I had a good feeling watching this.

  • @flyingkiwifitness7015
    @flyingkiwifitness7015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is amazing! Love the care the house managers take, they seem to really know their housemates and want them to learn and grow! 😃

  • @sarahjohnson3010
    @sarahjohnson3010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a great environment 💕

  • @seafoambeachcomb
    @seafoambeachcomb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the tour! Everyone looks very happy! 🦋💛🥰

  • @kishaallen5541
    @kishaallen5541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very insightful about helping resident.....disabled with great support!

  • @daniellereid7576
    @daniellereid7576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think what they are doing is great my hat off to them and the rooms look nice n cozy with their own style and everyone gets alone need more people like them ☺

  • @carolyngonzalez7069
    @carolyngonzalez7069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very good video staff is very friendly residents look happy

  • @chukchee
    @chukchee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That is awesome. Great work.

  • @lynntoytrainmuseum8973
    @lynntoytrainmuseum8973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for posting this content. Have a great day! 🚂

  • @6kidsand8cupsofcoffee
    @6kidsand8cupsofcoffee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this lady!

  • @leahgracefecteau
    @leahgracefecteau ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a really nice house

  • @dawnjay4598
    @dawnjay4598 7 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    The manager looks pretty beat, Do they sleep there, the workers or live there. She just looks tired. They seem to all get along'

    • @olivere9772
      @olivere9772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      hey thats my sister you're talkin about there.

    • @addiererecich2464
      @addiererecich2464 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Some do. Others don't. Usually the staff take turns. Like one week onone week off. And ya she probably is pretty tired. It can be a very demanding job

    • @parttimenancydrew1698
      @parttimenancydrew1698 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Working in this field is so so rewarding. She seems very dedicated to her job. She knows her clients very well 💙 It's amazing to see such a well put together group home where each individual has his or her own space to show individuality

    • @flyingkiwifitness7015
      @flyingkiwifitness7015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s a pretty demanding job when there is so much going on, you have to really split your vision at all times to make sure nothing is going astray. Stressful at times, but hugely rewarding. 😃

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @jason rothfeld holy crap how the hell can you use the r-word? Show common sense and respect for these people

  • @LivingDead53
    @LivingDead53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm happy these people are protected. I usually go into ones for old people and mentally ill patients. I used to hang out with a musician who still had an IQ in the 140s but scored poorly on memory and another area due to heavy drug use, which is the route of a musician. I have some language left but have other issues like having a schedule or planning days in the future. I know I'll end up back in a group home at some point, but I want to take care of my cats for a while first. I might end up killed before I can reach safety, but I love my cats. It's a long story.

  • @blindpeopledostuff3587
    @blindpeopledostuff3587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My mom works for a home like this. Nice place to come to when I was a child.

  • @amandawhite7044
    @amandawhite7044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That is fantastic

  • @tracycarmichael9042
    @tracycarmichael9042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blessings 🙏🏾🙌💞

  • @janisripple754
    @janisripple754 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤Awesome Manager and Ladies

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jackie and nurses 🎉are doing well thanks 😊 🙏 👍

  • @lorrainedaniels6357
    @lorrainedaniels6357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very nice lovely place l have subscribed and liked and turned on your notification's love from lorraine Daniel's with special need's and l am autistic and l suffer from depression and anxiety to TH-cam video's God bless you all 💜💛💚💙❤👋✌👍☺😊❤💙💚💛💜

  • @SuperGizzzmo
    @SuperGizzzmo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi there love the work you do, I do the same job but on the other side of the pond UK. I’m also their maintenance guy. Would definitely love to network with you guys.

  • @vulnikkura
    @vulnikkura 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. I would love to work in a group home.

  • @macywood4619
    @macywood4619 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is nice!

  • @davidmerlino2193
    @davidmerlino2193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am not going to be in a group home

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me neither. I'm not going to be regulated and paternalized every day for the rest of my life. I'm living the life I want without the plan, pursuing my interests, only seeing people or accepting help when I need it, and dying when my time comes. Most of these types of homes are miniature prisons that don't lock you up, but staff trap you in the house and follow you everywhere. That's not going to be me.

  • @LivingDead53
    @LivingDead53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've noticed that female brains are much stronger at dealing with trauma and mental illness. I also have to have advocates to do basic things. I don't know why I get the attention I do. People love to make me frown. My doctor walked out on me when I was saying something. He also said something rude to a nurse. That means I can't trust him. Growing up, I didn't have much access to healthcare after 6, so I trusted doctors after the army and have paid dearly for that. Then I was incapacitated for a while after the injury. Boy, did I go to Hell. We can't stand up for ourselves, so I love this good woman in the video.

    • @ratdog6317
      @ratdog6317 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eh I tend to see the opposite but usually the woman is ignored and written off as "crazy" instead of being helped in dealing with her trauma

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Details of your life ✨️ 💛 ♥️ ❤️ 💕 💙

  • @Mendelpotential4
    @Mendelpotential4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome

  • @fairymairah
    @fairymairah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could be happy for them 😌

  • @pamelaf5913
    @pamelaf5913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What is the insurance per month.
    What types of insurance is needed ? To run you facility
    Is your work emotionally rewarding ?
    I ask because Interested in the work. Thank you in advance.

  • @Christicorner
    @Christicorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am going to live in a group home for the disabled when I turn 16.

  • @dreyddog19
    @dreyddog19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a very nice home:)

  • @OhHeckNono
    @OhHeckNono 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All nice and dandy....but that poor fish :(

  • @scottchegg828
    @scottchegg828 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Jack Michael looks like Benny from Top Cat.

    • @ChrisCrossThaRealistGaming
      @ChrisCrossThaRealistGaming 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pelican Stevenson I know him he goes to my dayhab program and Jackie too he likes to say these are horses around and Gina EAT spaghetti with six meatballs also holla is a rock rock in the building

  • @christophercoleman3980
    @christophercoleman3980 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i like her accent

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably because she is a New Yorker

    • @krystalharwood5240
      @krystalharwood5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and the girl with the pink bedroom. ''my postah!" cute

  • @koralyne7152
    @koralyne7152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just am fyi they don’t show the kids bad moments or bad days because there is already enough stigma around kids and people like them, they want to show people positive things not negative

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jackie and nurses will also

  • @zerowolf4051
    @zerowolf4051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don’t wanna go to a group home I’d hate to not be able to go we’re I want my life would be ruined....they only let you go outside or stay inside I bet and I hate crafts that’s boring my life is gonna be ruined if I go there....

    • @zerowolf4051
      @zerowolf4051 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Julie Walker I agree!

    • @lkjhb1
      @lkjhb1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Julie Walker Hopefully in the future most group homes will have those big roomy Ford or Nissan NV vans.

    • @mrs.barbiecrocs5476
      @mrs.barbiecrocs5476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My suggestion is to start renting for your own apartment. Make sure you fight to not be placed in a group home. Depending where you live. You are going to have to work double. And try to build credit.

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't like arts and crafts much either. Yet, people indiscriminately associate it with people with disabilities, but no one knows how or why these two go together. I'd be bored if that's all I was gonna do for the rest of my life and didn't enjoy it. I once went to a camp for people with disabilities and the only activity I enjoyed or even understood was making God's Eyes. Now, I picked up on the activity pretty fast and gained skill, but I still wasn't happy. I'm into sports, the outdoors, and nature which you may not get a chance to do in group homes.

  • @spacebeanstudios7979
    @spacebeanstudios7979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I live in a home, I have Asperger's. I love it here :)
    I actually fell in love with someone that I'm not supposed to though lol

  • @Bellaparker2937
    @Bellaparker2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She’s got the thickest Long Island accent I ever heard.

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chessington world of adventures ✨️ 💙

  • @FenrisWolf1933
    @FenrisWolf1933 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Greatest sitcom ever

  • @6kidsand8cupsofcoffee
    @6kidsand8cupsofcoffee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to do this

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too, if I were going to live in a group home. At least at this one you get to leave anytime you want and do what you want. Still isn't great having staff around all the time though.

  • @chrispeerman7445
    @chrispeerman7445 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have any video on what to expect for a home inspection?

  • @staceymae7944
    @staceymae7944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Jack

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jackie and Sharon will

  • @TerminatorTheory
    @TerminatorTheory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *2:07** That is disturbing.*

    • @charlottethecat6302
      @charlottethecat6302 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why

    • @TerminatorTheory
      @TerminatorTheory 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@charlottethecat6302 *You know there is something wrong when you print the same picture again and again.*

    • @krystalharwood7842
      @krystalharwood7842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TerminatorTheory hes maybe obsessed. a big fan

    • @yoleeisbored
      @yoleeisbored 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No it's not he likes sesame street

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tuesday 29th August ❤I love you so much ✨️ Peter pan flying out and anna theatre ❤️ 💕 🎥

  • @feeltheillinois
    @feeltheillinois 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    jack's fish is in a sorry state

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We are sending you ❤️ ♥️ 💜 and ☕️ and topsy and tim hospital melissa golby my heart

  • @MrUranium238
    @MrUranium238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool place , a caring place

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know about that. Most group homes are prisons where people with disabilities rot, and never learn or reach their full potentials. Life is arranged for you with no exceptions. If you get in, you may never get out.

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Monday 16th October dentist appointment Melissa nhs 😬 😫

    • @dnkmmr69420
      @dnkmmr69420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is the youtube comments section, not your reminder list.

  • @Willyweasel-b4p
    @Willyweasel-b4p ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Livein in mrdd homes not as joyful as they look i don't like being in one

  • @leeannalbritton7268
    @leeannalbritton7268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would not be happy in a group home at all

    • @charlottethecat6302
      @charlottethecat6302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've heard some group homes are very controlling and horrible

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me neither. Fuck them! I'm not going to have my life arranged for me, be watched and trapped in the house all the time, be followed everywhere, and do everything as a group. It's just a prison without a lock where you're trapped inside by staff and expected to stay in their sight at all times. They're a very paternalistic, inefficient, and corrupt service.

  • @kendrahterrell4650
    @kendrahterrell4650 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never mind

  • @melodytallmage532
    @melodytallmage532 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to find a good disabled adult home for me

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My name Melissa golby 11,2992 happy birthday Melissa 30th April thank you so much I miss your family very much so much joy and happiness and I love your family very q

  • @bruhmoment5974
    @bruhmoment5974 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:43 poor fish, that tank is way too small

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am trying residential place for my autistic son. Please help me. Please answer me .I am getting old. He is now 18 .I can not handle him now. I really really need help.

    • @dnkmmr69420
      @dnkmmr69420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the government might provide institutions depending where you live

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dentist appointment Melissa and I will be back tomorrow morning 🌄 🤗

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wednesday 10th July

  • @amberbell8282
    @amberbell8282 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is this group home at, can anybody please tell me??

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dentist appointment Melissa and I will be back tomorrow morning 🌄

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jackie and Sharon will not 😮

  • @cam_o_style91
    @cam_o_style91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not all groups homes are bad

    • @evanhalsey1844
      @evanhalsey1844 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least not this one. This one isn't as bad as most. At least you get your freedom to do what you want and have the right to leave anytime you want as well without staff. But having staff around all the time at home still isn't great.

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dentist appointment Melissa and I will be back tomorrow morning 🌄 🤗 😬

  • @cosmobane6995
    @cosmobane6995 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What kind of office work does Jack do?

    • @cosmobane6995
      @cosmobane6995 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      deleted Hiatus I believe "office work" here means a behind-the-desk kind of job

    • @krystalharwood5240
      @krystalharwood5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cosmobane6995 they know that. but what kind meaning answering the phone? working on the computer? that's what they are asking

  • @xeba9258
    @xeba9258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that's not a puppy that grumpy cat and i won't live in one of those group homes .

    • @krystalharwood5240
      @krystalharwood5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      whos making you?

    • @xeba9258
      @xeba9258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krystalharwood5240 noone makeing me live in one of those i live with my mom

    • @cheesesteak2795
      @cheesesteak2795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.

  • @SimoneShaw-fy2zm
    @SimoneShaw-fy2zm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cream foamer stove Ezy mart on broadway

  • @maiajones9765
    @maiajones9765 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    are you allowed to have personal belongings such as cell phones, laptops and tablets and if so do you have to share your personal belongings do you get any privacy are the rules strict. Hopefully you can answer this for me because I might end up being shipped to a group home.

    • @diamondkisses26
      @diamondkisses26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your allowed to have your own cell phone,laptop,tablet,whatever you choose and no you do not have to share,but every group home is different you would have to ask the program specialist or the supervisor how their rules are.I have worked in group homes for 15plus years and no you don’t get robbed.

    • @zodiac890
      @zodiac890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      when i was in a group home years ago they would not allow me to have internet and u have very litttle freedom in a group home yes the rules are strict they kick u out for just about anything u do wrong yes u can have a laptop in the group home and if u do something wrong sometimes they wont let u visit your parents on that weekend when i was in the group home i could only walk to the store 6 blocks away and i had to be back in one hour i could only do this on the weekend its like being in a jail

    • @zodiac890
      @zodiac890 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes u have to pay rent monthly

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In that type of group home yes you are allowed to have cellphone and other personal belongings because that is their home. It is not like a home for runaways and children in foster care or the mentally ill.

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes because it is considered your own home. There are in rare cases of group homes like this where there is a pet or two like a cat or a small dog

  • @aplam94
    @aplam94 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s boys and girls live together.

    • @aplam94
      @aplam94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amethyst Shenandoah I’m wondering what type of rule they have in this house to keep the people sexual safe.

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    . Melissa golby 11,2992 happy birthday thank you so much I miss your family birthday wishes 💗 💖 💕 💓 ❤️ 💛 💗 💖

    • @user-mq5dr1jh5t
      @user-mq5dr1jh5t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      are you related to a dr alexandra

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chelsea and Wales

  • @MelissaG31
    @MelissaG31 ปีที่แล้ว

    Summer music festival and anna on Friday 18th August ❤😂😢😮😮

  • @PureVikingPowers
    @PureVikingPowers 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does Assisted Living change diapers? If you want to move out when you become adult and need help with diaper changes is Assisted Living the place than or where do you live if you need more help than just shopping

    • @krystalharwood4541
      @krystalharwood4541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      no. assisted living is for elderly and people with minor disabilities like not being able to drive or cook meals. this place is for people with intellectual disabilities or autism. if they require needs such as diaper changing, they hire PCAS (Personal Care Assistants)

    • @PureVikingPowers
      @PureVikingPowers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@krystalharwood4541 Oh okey but why do they live in a home if they only have problems driving or cooking meals or shop? Here in Sweden where i live, people with autism as me we live in our own place in a normal apartment and someone comes and help with cleaning and so on but if you have more needs like change diapers or so on than you go to a home and live in a room with caregivers there 24/7 so why do you put people with smal disabilities that only need a little help in assisted living? And is there not something like we have here in Sweden where high functioning autistic people can live on their own and get help like 1-2 times a week with just cleaning? Thank you for responding i don't know much about how it's done outside of Sweden but i want to learn 🙂

    • @krystalharwood4541
      @krystalharwood4541 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PureVikingPowers because they have specialized employees who can help with that

    • @aminaa7909
      @aminaa7909 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PureVikingPowers Wow Swedish system seems superior then!