The males are so important in these stories. Sons, husbands, brothers, fathers. But every baby born in all these dramas is a girl who everyone claims to adore.
Every relationship has big or small troubles as everyday life kicks in and first infatuation wears away. But that's not end of it, it's actually a start. Start of couple's true evaluation, point, when they really choose same partner again. As flaws of both afloat, tolerace, respect and emotions should go deeper, beyond the surface and first impressions. From being in love to loving. And that is a step that men obviously have a problem with the most. To dedicate themselves to one woman, accepting her in her every aspect, together with routine and everything else that comes with time. Mature people will do this step naturally, solving problems, communicating, opening up, igniting mutual fire again and again to grow together and reach another level of relationship. Unmature people with shallow mindset will search excitement elsewhere. But the fact is: everything you do with new lover, you can do it with old one, too, only, you choose not to. It's easier to just brush it away like: she loves me, she will not leave me. I can do whatever. Which is not true, ofcourse. Thou, because of own insecurities and dependance on toxic relationship, specially women can have a long path from sticking to a man no matter what and then having enough of emotional abuse. Even if one never actually hits you, having your heart ripped apart is even more painfull. Till one day your love is dead being tired of it all. And you decide to let it go, ready to start a new life. It's funny that such inteligent people who excell in bussines have so little knowledge about human emotions. Of women in special. They can manipulate quite well but beyond that their compassion is zero. Actually, that is a treat of a true narcissist who seeks attention in so many wrong ways as they are deeply insecure. Such people's only aim is to controll the one on who's feelings they feed on and bind them as a backup who is always there and takes it all. Such relationship is devastating for exploited part, one looses all dignity and selfwalue, being tortured by doubts every day. Only way out of it is just one action: run! I like that FL in this story was able to do that and didn't repeat the same relationship pattern again.
So let me get this straight... the guy who broke her heart she bared with, but the guy who is gonna love her and really wanted the baby, she made wait 7 yrs... some times women are very silly. That so goofy to turn down a hood guy but pine a bad guy.
The grandfather had a point. James took advantage of a heartbroken, drunk woman making her pregnant. He should have just left her sleep and tried to date her after she got sober.
Everyone got what they deserved in this interesting story - either happiness or hell.
The males are so important in these stories.
Sons, husbands, brothers, fathers.
But every baby born in all these dramas is a girl who everyone claims to adore.
Every relationship has big or small troubles as everyday life kicks in and first infatuation wears away. But that's not end of it, it's actually a start. Start of couple's true evaluation, point, when they really choose same partner again. As flaws of both afloat, tolerace, respect and emotions should go deeper, beyond the surface and first impressions. From being in love to loving. And that is a step that men obviously have a problem with the most. To dedicate themselves to one woman, accepting her in her every aspect, together with routine and everything else that comes with time. Mature people will do this step naturally, solving problems, communicating, opening up, igniting mutual fire again and again to grow together and reach another level of relationship. Unmature people with shallow mindset will search excitement elsewhere. But the fact is: everything you do with new lover, you can do it with old one, too, only, you choose not to. It's easier to just brush it away like: she loves me, she will not leave me. I can do whatever. Which is not true, ofcourse. Thou, because of own insecurities and dependance on toxic relationship, specially women can have a long path from sticking to a man no matter what and then having enough of emotional abuse. Even if one never actually hits you, having your heart ripped apart is even more painfull. Till one day your love is dead being tired of it all. And you decide to let it go, ready to start a new life.
It's funny that such inteligent people who excell in bussines have so little knowledge about human emotions. Of women in special. They can manipulate quite well but beyond that their compassion is zero. Actually, that is a treat of a true narcissist who seeks attention in so many wrong ways as they are deeply insecure. Such people's only aim is to controll the one on who's feelings they feed on and bind them as a backup who is always there and takes it all. Such relationship is devastating for exploited part, one looses all dignity and selfwalue, being tortured by doubts every day. Only way out of it is just one action: run! I like that FL in this story was able to do that and didn't repeat the same relationship pattern again.
So let me get this straight... the guy who broke her heart she bared with, but the guy who is gonna love her and really wanted the baby, she made wait 7 yrs... some times women are very silly. That so goofy to turn down a hood guy but pine a bad guy.
The grandfather had a point. James took advantage of a heartbroken, drunk woman making her pregnant. He should have just left her sleep and tried to date her after she got sober.