I usually offer to pay my share and if told no, will then offer to cover the tip. Most of the time the man declines and thanks me. I think some men appreciate not being looked at as a walking ATM. That being said I once had a man brag that he makes $600/hr as a consultant which I did not know until he said it at the date. I'm a school teacher. He made me pay for my food which cost $12.00
Non-negotiable RED FLAG: he repeatedly tries to get you to betray yourself (drink) so that he can get sex from you without either commitment or love. On a first date in this case. That man is selfish and immoral. Dump his lying disrespectful ass in the restaurant and leave.
Then you hold out until you find someone who shares your standards and values. It's gonna require being solo the majority of the time. Better to be single than settle and get fked over, hurt or taken advantage of by someone who was never gonna work out long-term.
I married at 42 so there is still hope, BUT, don’t focus on that and get out of the house, travel and be an interesting person, exercise and eat healthy, earn and save your own money, work on yourself. Take the focus off of roping in a man and LIVE! Life is short.
The first minute of this podcast and I’m already shaking my head. Women never tell women the truth. Women talk about the men they should date and money. News flash! Fix yourself first! Be a woman that is respectable and respectful. Non of these other things will happen without it. Stop looking at men as your everything. You have been taught wrong. Be useful, look to give like you want a man to give to you. Millions of women have done what these women are saying. And their life is still garbage. Because all they have been taught is to take and never to give. That’s not how a great life is built. And stop being delusional about life. Men have to do certain things and women also have to do certain things. And the very first thing that is universal for everyone man and woman. Get your body in great shape. It doesn’t matter if your the prettiest man or woman. A in shape person is always attractive and has developed a sense of hard work and mental fortitude through hard training with weights.
What are you on about? If you follow Vivian, you should know her background. She was already successful before she met her husband. Her entire platform is about educating people, men and women, to be smart about their finances - that involves working on ourselves. And with the guest, her platform is about dating and romance and it does center around women more, because she’s a woman, shocking!!! She also wanted her own career and did not want to live off her husband and that’s how she started with social media. She makes her own money. So I don’t get your rant about women take and take and take? Also, what makes you think these 2 women don’t work out? And even if they didn’t, I’m curious as to how that affects your life personally?
@ First off, if you completely read what I wrote you would understand that I referred to the advice that was given. Not the person themselves. I know she seems to be a wonderful woman and entrepreneur. But my criticism is still the same. Women need to tell the truth. Fix your body, mind and spirit and then you can possibly have the things you want.
Vivian X Anna Kai 🎉🎉 Been waiting for this combo!!
So happy the pod is on TH-cam now!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Same!!!
I couldn’t agree more on Anna’s view on prenups. Spot on!! This is the first time I have listen to her, sound advice.
I usually offer to pay my share and if told no, will then offer to cover the tip. Most of the time the man declines and thanks me. I think some men appreciate not being looked at as a walking ATM. That being said I once had a man brag that he makes $600/hr as a consultant which I did not know until he said it at the date. I'm a school teacher. He made me pay for my food which cost $12.00
She is absolutely correct about, the guy should always pay for the first date!!
Non-negotiable RED FLAG: he repeatedly tries to get you to betray yourself (drink) so that he can get sex from you without either commitment or love. On a first date in this case. That man is selfish and immoral. Dump his lying disrespectful ass in the restaurant and leave.
What if I’m a high quality woman w good standards but 90% of men I met here in LA are low quality men.
Then you hold out until you find someone who shares your standards and values. It's gonna require being solo the majority of the time. Better to be single than settle and get fked over, hurt or taken advantage of by someone who was never gonna work out long-term.
Dating in LA is such a cesspool girl 😭
@@iwantascreenameplz that’s exactly what I’m doing haha
@@shalajawilson that’s and understatement haha
because their not on the level as this dude in Orange County 😎
Do you have a podcast??
Yes! You can find it here on TH-cam or on any audio platform! Check it all out here: www.yourrichbff.com/networthandchill
Can you please make a detailed video for Halal Shariah Compliant investing for muslims?
4B. ⛔️
remember black guys voted for Kamala at 80%
I’m 30 so no men are attracted to me anymore.
How can I tie down a man and get his money?
I married at 42 so there is still hope, BUT, don’t focus on that and get out of the house, travel and be an interesting person, exercise and eat healthy, earn and save your own money, work on yourself. Take the focus off of roping in a man and LIVE! Life is short.
That’s the right attitude!
😂
The first minute of this podcast and I’m already shaking my head. Women never tell women the truth. Women talk about the men they should date and money. News flash! Fix yourself first! Be a woman that is respectable and respectful. Non of these other things will happen without it. Stop looking at men as your everything. You have been taught wrong. Be useful, look to give like you want a man to give to you. Millions of women have done what these women are saying. And their life is still garbage. Because all they have been taught is to take and never to give. That’s not how a great life is built. And stop being delusional about life. Men have to do certain things and women also have to do certain things. And the very first thing that is universal for everyone man and woman. Get your body in great shape. It doesn’t matter if your the prettiest man or woman. A in shape person is always attractive and has developed a sense of hard work and mental fortitude through hard training with weights.
I thoroughly appreciate this comment because it promoted holding ourselves accountable as opposed to hoping someone comes to save us
What are you on about? If you follow Vivian, you should know her background. She was already successful before she met her husband. Her entire platform is about educating people, men and women, to be smart about their finances - that involves working on ourselves.
And with the guest, her platform is about dating and romance and it does center around women more, because she’s a woman, shocking!!! She also wanted her own career and did not want to live off her husband and that’s how she started with social media. She makes her own money. So I don’t get your rant about women take and take and take? Also, what makes you think these 2 women don’t work out? And even if they didn’t, I’m curious as to how that affects your life personally?
@ First off, if you completely read what I wrote you would understand that I referred to the advice that was given. Not the person themselves. I know she seems to be a wonderful woman and entrepreneur. But my criticism is still the same. Women need to tell the truth. Fix your body, mind and spirit and then you can possibly have the things you want.
Brother, that's a whole lotta words of just pure projection. I hope you heal.
You clearly did not watch the entire video 😹
She will file for divorce before the podcast is over lol