No mother is just being a mother they try to save money on everything and want it that way trust me it's just the way mothers are wedding planner is in- experienced
I think the mother should definitely pay for her medical bills. It’s called “premise liability”. The girl got hurt on that woman’s property. She can go after the woman’s home owner insurance and file a claim.
The rich lady took advantage of the young girl, she's perhaps a people pleaser or trying to establish her business. The lady has no compassion , wonder if any sane person would work for her in future. She's drowning in diamonds , however will not shell out the 1k. speaks volumes about her ethics
Sorry, but I just agree! This overbearing mother of the bride should be held responsible for her outlandish request. I’m sure this wedding planner has learned to never do anything out of the ordinary for ridiculous customers like her again.
The wedding planner is an honorable person. She went out of her way to make the customer happy. Lesson learned here, sometimes you just do everything you can and still come out short in the end. Most people are very selfish, as long as they get what they want you are not their problem.
Yes, if the bride isn’t paying and the mother is, the planner, as the profesional here should have put who’s who in writing in the form of a contract. Young girls always disregard elder’s opinions but don’t disregard their checkbooks. I know because I’m 63 and I did it. Therefore, if one, the other or both disrupt the planner’s job a guide will be there to determine who’s right and who’s not.
Dumb of the mother of the bride to want this ugly thing there, and dumb of the wedding planner to get involved in that thing, especially last minute. I wonder if the bride had an opinion on wanting it there.
Mother of the bride was just At fault. Took advantage of the wedding planner being so inexperienced. Yes I think she should at the very least pay 50% of medical bill. It was a stupid request
there was one of these in the 3rd bathroom in my husbands family home. when we turned that room into a utility room we moved it outside and used it for a while as a ice chest for parties, my husband then gave it to a friend to use as a water trough for her horse. nothing special about it. just an old cast iron/porcelain tub.
That's all mom wanting that ugly bathtub at that wedding. This is why I eloped. No hassles, no overbearing parents controlling my and my husband's wedding day.
No, I'm sorry, if she is arrogant enough to wait to the morning of the wedding and ask someone to go pick up an over 300 pound bathtub, knowing it's a bathtub and calling it a water basin, she knew it was a bathtub. I don't care what her daddy called. It grow the hell up, she need to pay that girl, her medical bills. She took advantage of the entire situation. And she probably felt the way she acted at all the other activities. If she didn't take that bathtub, she and her team was not going to get paid. I've owned businesses. I know women like this. No, it was her responsibility, but as a business owner, you get it in writing and you don't go get a 300 pound bathtub. As a grown a** woman, when you ask such ridiculous things of people you pay for your ridiculousness blessings to all
I feel the Mother is a Narcisstic battleaxe who is use to getting her own way -- she only thot of that ridiculous tub on the day itself- how dare she force that young girl to do her bidding like a servant! Terrible Behavior! She knew full well it was a Monumental Task! The planner was obviously a People Pleaser & felt she had to do it - instead of just not doing it- no call no explanation -- just carry on with the Original Plan and if confronted -- Smile & say logistically it wasnt possible but perhaps the bridal party could take a few photos at the Estate with the tub! 😂Krazy Requests hav to be responded to with equally Krazy Solutions-- girl was being bullied by this Selfish woman! As to the medical bill-- yes morally she should pay but probaly legally not required to! Life Lesson!
If the email did say for her to bring her team along to help her carry it.. then I guess the mother of the bride doesn't have to pay the medical bill. The wedding planner could have just said No for the simple reason that no one in there right mind could carry a bathtub alone.
The fact that the mother wanted it her way at her daughters wedding is messed up- if you have the means it as a parent you should pay for their wedding. Shows she a drama queen.
I understand you didn’t think she had a leg to stand on, but the right thing would’ve been to at least pay her deductible for medical and any out-of-pocket that the insurance would not cover and I also agreed that this girl should never agreed to actually take this basin when obviously it is heavy for one and this should never been actually done at the last minute this should’ve been done days prior if she could’ve done it and also this actually should never been done at all understand mama was paying, but your contract is with the daughter not the mama and you should’ve put it in fine print that you’re not responsible for getting anything outside of your duties this tub is well outside your duties. Even an idiot could’ve told you that and that she should’ve if the mother wanted it there then the mother is on to get it there herself and pay somebody to do it. I’ll get family members to take it early in the morning somewhere so it rise there.
The mother should pay!! She put pressure on the planner, the planner was just trying to please the drama queen! She didn’t have the staff at the time, she went above and beyond!! Should have went after her home owners insurance! And the lady can easily pay!! When your working, your under pressure to please!!! You don’t know her financial circumstances maybe she really needed to get paid felt pressure from her boss to make her happy!! Why did she make such an unreasonable request- she knows better she old enough to know better! Just because you’re rich doesn’t mean you have any class!!
After that crazy ugly bathtub drama ,daughter is not talking to mom no more ! What an ugly thing to have anywhere ! I think mom wanted to spoil her daughter’s wedding and that why daughter is not in court she ghosted her mom ! I would too with a crazy disgusting dirty tub in a wedding ! I guess some people just don’t have common sense ! Beurk!
If I was the bride or groom, I would have offered to pay for the medical bill out of appreciation that she put forth effort. $1k isn't much to ask for given that the wedding went well
Not free, that's why you pay the higher tax to cover this, one of the highest in the world. Get your facts right lady, are are you fooling yourself, you also get "free education", for the look of it, it has pass you by. 😂😂😂
Law student here: This judge clearly doesn’t know what she’s doing. There is indeed a contract. There was a wedding, clearly planned by the plaintiff. There were payments made, so there was an exchange of service for cash. The defendant wanted it there as decoration. Decoration IS part of wedding planning. Either this judge needs to be taken off the bench or it’s fake.
Yes, but it was left until the morning of for the mom to call her and arrange for her to pick it up. Also, her verbal contact was with the daughter. Not the mother and the mother was the one with the request.
I feel the judge was trying to help the young girl or should I say wedding planner but she is so arrogant she feels she's entitled. First of all it was stupid for her to try to move something by herself so heavy. Then when she was told to apologize to the lady she did so just in front of the judge but at the end she came out acting stupid I wish the judge would have saw that and went out and told her don't give her anything she did not deserve it her fault not the ladies fault. I still feel the lady was forced to pay her
This mother of the bride is a horrible person
No mother is just being a mother they try to save money on everything and want it that way trust me it's just the way mothers are wedding planner is in- experienced
I think the mother should definitely pay for her medical bills. It’s called “premise liability”. The girl got hurt on that woman’s property. She can go after the woman’s home owner insurance and file a claim.
The rich lady took advantage of the young girl, she's perhaps a people pleaser or trying to establish her business. The lady has no compassion , wonder if any sane person would work for her in future. She's drowning in diamonds , however will not shell out the 1k. speaks volumes about her ethics
@@nishamerchant1287 so true
If the daughter is like the mom divorce is in the horizon
..and thats a FACT !
Sorry, but I just agree! This overbearing mother of the bride should be held responsible for her outlandish request. I’m sure this wedding planner has learned to never do anything out of the ordinary for ridiculous customers like her again.
The wedding planner is an honorable person. She went out of her way to make the customer happy. Lesson learned here, sometimes you just do everything you can and still come out short in the end.
Most people are very selfish, as long as they get what they want you are not their problem.
wedding planner should have set up a contract to begin with what her duties were for planning a wedding.
Yes, if the bride isn’t paying and the mother is, the planner, as the profesional here should have put who’s who in writing in the form of a contract. Young girls always disregard elder’s opinions but don’t disregard their checkbooks. I know because I’m 63 and I did it. Therefore, if one, the other or both disrupt the planner’s job a guide will be there to determine who’s right and who’s not.
Dumb of the mother of the bride to want this ugly thing there, and dumb of the wedding planner to get involved in that thing, especially last minute. I wonder if the bride had an opinion on wanting it there.
Can’t buy class😂😂😂
Mother of the bride was just
At fault. Took advantage of the wedding planner being so inexperienced. Yes I think she should at the very least pay 50% of medical bill. It was a stupid request
there was one of these in the 3rd bathroom in my husbands family home. when we turned that room into a utility room we moved it outside and used it for a while as a ice chest for parties, my husband then gave it to a friend to use as a water trough for her horse. nothing special about it. just an old cast iron/porcelain tub.
Mom is a nut job
That's all mom wanting that ugly bathtub at that wedding. This is why I eloped. No hassles, no overbearing parents controlling my and my husband's wedding day.
The daughter didn’t want it there, that’s why it wasn’t mentioned.
That mother is a monster! No wonder her daughter lets her do anything she wants.
Mum wants opinions? Mum can have her own wedding, regardless who pays
I don’t care if the Mother is paying, it’s the brides wedding. The bathtub story is insane!
No, I'm sorry, if she is arrogant enough to wait to the morning of the wedding and ask someone to go pick up an over 300 pound bathtub, knowing it's a bathtub and calling it a water basin, she knew it was a bathtub. I don't care what her daddy called. It grow the hell up, she need to pay that girl, her medical bills. She took advantage of the entire situation. And she probably felt the way she acted at all the other activities. If she didn't take that bathtub, she and her team was not going to get paid. I've owned businesses. I know women like this. No, it was her responsibility, but as a business owner, you get it in writing and you don't go get a 300 pound bathtub. As a grown a** woman, when you ask such ridiculous things of people you pay for your ridiculousness blessings to all
It WAS the mother’s fault!!! She needs to pay!! This woman is mean!!!
She was going to drown the guests that's given a cheap present 😂😂😂
I feel the Mother is a Narcisstic battleaxe who is use to getting her own way -- she only thot of that ridiculous tub on the day itself- how dare she force that young girl to do her bidding like a servant! Terrible Behavior! She knew full well it was a Monumental Task! The planner was obviously a People Pleaser & felt she had to do it - instead of just not doing it- no call no explanation -- just carry on with the Original Plan and if confronted -- Smile & say logistically it wasnt possible but perhaps the bridal party could take a few photos at the Estate with the tub! 😂Krazy Requests hav to be responded to with equally Krazy Solutions-- girl was being bullied by this Selfish woman! As to the medical bill-- yes morally she should pay but probaly legally not required to! Life Lesson!
there is a difference between what is right and what is legal. Mom should pay from homeowners insurance.
Another cat fight 😂
She should totally pay!
Your honor, that do is GIVING, giving VIP
If the email did say for her to bring her team along to help her carry it.. then I guess the mother of the bride doesn't have to pay the medical bill.
The wedding planner could have just said No for the simple reason that no one in there right mind could carry a bathtub alone.
The fact that the mother wanted it her way at her daughters wedding is messed up- if you have the means it as a parent you should pay for their wedding. Shows she a drama queen.
That's a whole bunch of people's job to move that thing. Mother of the bride is entitled Karen! 😮
That's a completely unreasonable request. Besides, calling it a water basin is totally misleading.
Man those tubs weight around 350 lbs when they have claw feet it’s definitely closer to 600 lbs with that base
WRONG . . . .Mommie DEAREST . . .SHOULD PAY HER MEDICAL EXPENSES. PERIOD.
Daughter isn’t there and no one can speak of her. What?!?
Wedding planner could’ve said no
Plus calling it a Wash Basin was Misleading thus the Planner didnt know it was a Actual bathtub till she got there-- so Mama def knew that!
Just because something doesn't have value to you, it has value to someone else
I understand you didn’t think she had a leg to stand on, but the right thing would’ve been to at least pay her deductible for medical and any out-of-pocket that the insurance would not cover and I also agreed that this girl should never agreed to actually take this basin when obviously it is heavy for one and this should never been actually done at the last minute this should’ve been done days prior if she could’ve done it and also this actually should never been done at all understand mama was paying, but your contract is with the daughter not the mama and you should’ve put it in fine print that you’re not responsible for getting anything outside of your duties this tub is well outside your duties. Even an idiot could’ve told you that and that she should’ve if the mother wanted it there then the mother is on to get it there herself and pay somebody to do it. I’ll get family members to take it early in the morning somewhere so it rise there.
The mother should pay!! She put pressure on the planner, the planner was just trying to please the drama queen! She didn’t have the staff at the time, she went above and beyond!! Should have went after her home owners insurance! And the lady can easily pay!! When your working, your under pressure to please!!! You don’t know her financial circumstances maybe she really needed to get paid felt pressure from her boss to make her happy!! Why did she make such an unreasonable request- she knows better she old enough to know better! Just because you’re rich doesn’t mean you have any class!!
This woman (mom) is a hot mess!!!
I feel bad for her, but always do business in writing.
If it was on a farm , it was for animals to drink out of
The mother should have let the planner know the weight of the "basin"
After that crazy ugly bathtub drama ,daughter is not talking to mom no more ! What an ugly thing to have anywhere ! I think mom wanted to spoil her daughter’s wedding and that why daughter is not in court she ghosted her mom ! I would too with a crazy disgusting dirty tub in a wedding ! I guess some people just don’t have common sense ! Beurk!
That tub looked like it's covered in algae - Yuck?!
Judge is wrong the mom would have been liable for asking her to move the darned tub
A bath tub at a wedding is Ludacris.
She should be responsible for her own medical bills would not happen if she asked for help
If I was the bride or groom, I would have offered to pay for the medical bill out of appreciation that she put forth effort. $1k isn't much to ask for given that the wedding went well
Damn that girl talks so fast like on 2xspeed
The wedding planner is new in business. Must have contract. Mother should have insisted on contract.
This has got to be a joke! 😅
Southern Baptist
Wow, that is ridiculousness. Also the mother of the bride might be evil not sure.
How happy I am to live in one of the world's happiest countries, Denmark, where you don't pay for your health insurance. All treatments are free. 😊
Not free, that's why you pay the higher tax to cover this, one of the highest in the world. Get your facts right lady, are are you fooling yourself, you also get "free education", for the look of it, it has pass you by. 😂😂😂
Judge wrong! Could be 100 yrs old! Mother one of those overbareing women who thinks it's all about her!
Law student here:
This judge clearly doesn’t know what she’s doing. There is indeed a contract. There was a wedding, clearly planned by the plaintiff. There were payments made, so there was an exchange of service for cash. The defendant wanted it there as decoration. Decoration IS part of wedding planning. Either this judge needs to be taken off the bench or it’s fake.
Yes, but it was left until the morning of for the mom to call her and arrange for her to pick it up. Also, her verbal contact was with the daughter. Not the mother and the mother was the one with the request.
The plaintiff didn’t provide any of that as evidence
Only marry if iou can afford it!
Off topic comment. LOL
The Mother did this on purpose.
She’s a horrible person.
No mothers are not always there. That woman is a bossy snob.
Don't make me laugh america 100s of years old..
I feel the judge was trying to help the young girl or should I say wedding planner but she is so arrogant she feels she's entitled. First of all it was stupid for her to try to move something by herself so heavy. Then when she was told to apologize to the lady she did so just in front of the judge but at the end she came out acting stupid I wish the judge would have saw that and went out and told her don't give her anything she did not deserve it her fault not the ladies fault. I still feel the lady was forced to pay her
The mother of the bride is completely psycho!!!