I can't tell you how amazing these insights are and thank you and Jesus Christ for this! Really looking forward to the next one as this has helped me stand; Lord knows it is not an easy thing at times.
This is my favourite episode. My husband and I are very melancholic and we allowed our emotions to rule our marriage. Our divorce was simply because there was built up resentment as a result of 7 years of unresolved conflict. The whole "say sorry first" thing was a real problem for us. Through this podcast, I'm learning that I need not worry about what another person is going to respond like but rather I should focus on asking God to help me in my weaknesses and God will deal with him.
Thank you so much, Tom and Amy! This is the message so many of us need to hear. Thank you to each of you for going through your very difficult journey so you could share with us. I feel blessed. May God bless you and your ministry. - Standing two years, no contact
How can I keep standing…. We live in the same house with our kids… she’s talking to another guy…. I know the password to her phone which is 7926 and stands for the guys name Ryan…. She doesn’t know I know it….. how can she throw away 10 years of us…. Our kids will be devastated, she said they’ll be fine. I’m so hopeless, I hang onto any smile, any interaction whatsoever.
Our hope must always be in Christ and in His power to change and heal. We lean and depend on Him fully while walking in obedience. May God grant you the strength to endure this difficult and trying situation. It is a tremendous burden to bear, and our thoughts and prayers go with you Kenneth. And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 1 Peter 5:10 Blessings...
I can help save your situation as I was there and came close to saving our marriage but I failed after 3 years by giving f into anger resentment. Be there for your wife knowing what she’s doing - focus on the kids and focus on re assuring your wife your her heart bet and option- as painful as it is knowing she’s going out meeting or talking to him stay strong and she will get sick of him and see her home is everything When my wife’s affair partner got married 2 years later my wife became very angry and was the worst abuse I ever got from her anger - to the point that near the end of the year she just was quiet but not abusive but at that point I resented her and didn’t talk to her and emails her about the thing she did and put us all through the thr point she left She never apologized she never tried but I saw a sense of her being quieter We are going through horrible divorce process now and pray sue realized what she did and wanted to reconcile but she said too much has happened to ever go back Anyway many tell me to stop blaming myself entirety bc there was no reason for her to run off and have affair and then. Come home. And make our home hell Scary horrific life events and makes me think of suicide a lot as I have no purpose now Gos forgive me I keep praying my wife repented and feels a desire to save our marriage We are both Christian’s and it’s shameful this happened and hurt our daughter very much
Was totally there and I will say be happy your at this stage and you can still save your home if you want to as hard as it is For me things got better with her and then fell apart partly because of my resentment catching up coupled with her not ever really showing repentance and desire to fix it I regret my behavior and wish I kept reinforcing love She doesn’t seem interested in me anymore says she doesn’t know me
I can't tell you how amazing these insights are and thank you and Jesus Christ for this! Really looking forward to the next one as this has helped me stand; Lord knows it is not an easy thing at times.
Thanks so much! Even though it is been two years, I feel so lucky to have found them. God is great!
This is my favourite episode. My husband and I are very melancholic and we allowed our emotions to rule our marriage. Our divorce was simply because there was built up resentment as a result of 7 years of unresolved conflict. The whole "say sorry first" thing was a real problem for us. Through this podcast, I'm learning that I need not worry about what another person is going to respond like but rather I should focus on asking God to help me in my weaknesses and God will deal with him.
Thank you so much, Tom and Amy! This is the message so many of us need to hear. Thank you to each of you for going through your very difficult journey so you could share with us. I feel blessed. May God bless you and your ministry.
- Standing two years, no contact
Great episode!!
How can I keep standing…. We live in the same house with our kids… she’s talking to another guy…. I know the password to her phone which is 7926 and stands for the guys name Ryan…. She doesn’t know I know it….. how can she throw away 10 years of us…. Our kids will be devastated, she said they’ll be fine. I’m so hopeless, I hang onto any smile, any interaction whatsoever.
Our hope must always be in Christ and in His power to change and heal. We lean and depend on Him fully while walking in obedience. May God grant you the strength to endure this difficult and trying situation. It is a tremendous burden to bear, and our thoughts and prayers go with you Kenneth.
And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 1 Peter 5:10
Blessings...
I can help save your situation as I was there and came close to saving our marriage but I failed after 3 years by giving f into anger resentment.
Be there for your wife knowing what she’s doing - focus on the kids and focus on re assuring your wife your her heart bet and option- as painful as it is knowing she’s going out meeting or talking to him stay strong and she will get sick of him and see her home is everything
When my wife’s affair partner got married 2 years later my wife became very angry and was the worst abuse I ever got from her anger - to the point that near the end of the year she just was quiet but not abusive but at that point I resented her and didn’t talk to her and emails her about the thing she did and put us all through the thr point she left
She never apologized she never tried but I saw a sense of her being quieter
We are going through horrible divorce process now and pray sue realized what she did and wanted to reconcile but she said too much has happened to ever go back
Anyway many tell me to stop blaming myself entirety bc there was no reason for her to run off and have affair and then. Come home. And make our home hell
Scary horrific life events and makes me think of suicide a lot as I have no purpose now
Gos forgive me I keep praying my wife repented and feels a desire to save our marriage
We are both Christian’s and it’s shameful this happened and hurt our daughter very much
I pray for the Holy Spirit to convict Christine and bring her to repent
Was totally there and I will say be happy your at this stage and you can still save your home if you want to as hard as it is
For me things got better with her and then fell apart partly because of my resentment catching up coupled with her not ever really showing repentance and desire to fix it
I regret my behavior and wish I kept reinforcing love
She doesn’t seem interested in me anymore says she doesn’t know me