I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex , and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, Fatherabulu and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
Thank you so much. May every woman who watches have you have a flourishing relationship with her man ❤ The first tip was something I did accidentally once and you’re so right, I saw a side of my man I never thought possible when I try to petition his affection and concern through so many words.
Your examples are priceless! I had absolutely no idea how much in the masculine energy I was being. I thought it was just being helpful! Thank you so much for all your insight!
I love your videos but that comment about men shutting down bc a woman is being disrespectful does not sit well with me. For example for someone with dismissive avoidant attachment style or fearful avoidant attachment the reason they shutting down can be for many reasons it is not necessarily the partners fault.
Kind, considerate respect. Without these healthy choices for love, honor, and cherish on the high road ~ healthy boundaries crumble. A man questions himself...bewilderment is not a happy place to be
A woman is quick to call a man out when he is disrespectful. Yes, women can also be very disrespectful and should be called out so we can also do better.
All of the points makes so much sense to me apart from number 5 if am not mistaken. What of if you can't see yourself letting go of control coz if you did, this man can't Lead and everything will crumble down including the relationship?
Usually the fear of that happening is less likely than you think and also you can do so gently in a process so he can start taking the reins more over a period of time
My husband had what he says was only an emotional affair. We're trying to work on our marriage. He keeps saying he doesn't know what to do for me. Of course because of the things he did for her and gave to her I really struggle with this and say well, you knew what to do for her, figure it out. I was left to take care of the kids, the household, the finances, everything while he was not present in our marriage. I did these things because they needed to be done, didn't complain, just did it not knowing that he was giving to another woman. I want him to step up but he doesn't. Should I assume he doesn't want to fix the marriage?
I believe that you can make this work u would communicate and ask him to take care of the responsibilities if not it’s not going to work as a team especially if your both married
I am a female and must be really in my masculine energy. All this feminine energy and feeling like being a doormat or not speaking up, makes me feel sick to my stomach. I’m gonna try to be more feminine, but the guy has to respect you too.
I have been watching your videos for some time and I have one question - if the man is in his masculine always providing for his women, then what's the difference between a doormat/pushover man that will just do whatever you tell him to (and for which you won't have any respect ) and a masculine mand taking care of you??
It's a good question, the big difference is that the man will also be taking care of himself and setting boundaries when necessary so that he is maintaining and protecting his masculine core as well.
My back is my feel good spot and I Love back rubs. I always have to ask my man Can you rub my back? Can you put your hands on my shoulders? Like I literally just want to feel his strong hands on my back but for some reason he Never does. Even when I ask. LOL.
You walk away. If he spends more than 40 percent of his down time playing video games, he's just not invested in your relationship. He lives in that fantasy world.
Watch out for the showboat. The one, the cheerleader, that always seems to draw attention. THe overexaggerator. Guys fall for it all the time and many times it's fake. Example, Girl, soccer player. Had the QBack in high school treat her like gold. Everyone thought she was soooooo sweet. She goes off to college. 3 months into college she meets another soccer player. Again, she's outgoing and well takes selfies with EVERYONE!!! She's now dating college soccer player and drops Qback just like that. How sweet do you think the QBack's family thinks she is now. Total uncaring of QBack's feelings. Just poof, it's over.
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I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex , and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, Fatherabulu and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
Thank you so much. May every woman who watches have you have a flourishing relationship with her man ❤ The first tip was something I did accidentally once and you’re so right, I saw a side of my man I never thought possible when I try to petition his affection and concern through so many words.
Your examples are priceless! I had absolutely no idea how much in the masculine energy I was being. I thought it was just being helpful! Thank you so much for all your insight!
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I love your videos but that comment about men shutting down bc a woman is being disrespectful does not sit well with me. For example for someone with dismissive avoidant attachment style or fearful avoidant attachment the reason they shutting down can be for many reasons it is not necessarily the partners fault.
Kind, considerate respect. Without these healthy choices for love, honor, and cherish on the high road ~ healthy boundaries crumble. A man questions himself...bewilderment is not a happy place to be
A woman is quick to call a man out when he is disrespectful. Yes, women can also be very disrespectful and should be called out so we can also do better.
I love how easy you make everything feel!
I love your channel. I find this so interesting and I have been doing no. 6 subconsciously and I feel it definitely works along with the others.
All of the points makes so much sense to me apart from number 5 if am not mistaken. What of if you can't see yourself letting go of control coz if you did, this man can't Lead and everything will crumble down including the relationship?
Usually the fear of that happening is less likely than you think and also you can do so gently in a process so he can start taking the reins more over a period of time
thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏽🤍
wow, this is so so good. Thank you for this valuable information
Welcome! :)
The Q & A was helpful.
Very helpful !
Glad to hear that!
My husband had what he says was only an emotional affair. We're trying to work on our marriage. He keeps saying he doesn't know what to do for me. Of course because of the things he did for her and gave to her I really struggle with this and say well, you knew what to do for her, figure it out. I was left to take care of the kids, the household, the finances, everything while he was not present in our marriage. I did these things because they needed to be done, didn't complain, just did it not knowing that he was giving to another woman. I want him to step up but he doesn't. Should I assume he doesn't want to fix the marriage?
I would suggest you to go see a therapist for the advice and tell your therapist everything that happened
Sounds like he has checked out of your marriage
I believe that you can make this work u would communicate and ask him to take care of the responsibilities if not it’s not going to work as a team especially if your both married
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Can any of this be used in a long distance relationship
Totally
Feminine energy, and polarity, knows no distance. 😉
The Marilyn Monroe movie is “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes.”
I am a female and must be really in my masculine energy. All this feminine energy and feeling like being a doormat or not speaking up, makes me feel sick to my stomach. I’m gonna try to be more feminine, but the guy has to respect you too.
When you really really tell your man for more days with him
Hey, how do one start personal training?
❤WHAT a interesting man YOU ARE!
I have been watching your videos for some time and I have one question - if the man is in his masculine always providing for his women, then what's the difference between a doormat/pushover man that will just do whatever you tell him to (and for which you won't have any respect ) and a masculine mand taking care of you??
It's a good question, the big difference is that the man will also be taking care of himself and setting boundaries when necessary so that he is maintaining and protecting his masculine core as well.
My back is my feel good spot and I Love back rubs. I always have to ask my man Can you rub my back? Can you put your hands on my shoulders? Like I literally just want to feel his strong hands on my back but for some reason he Never does. Even when I ask. LOL.
That's not good.
What are his reasons not to touch your back?
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Thank you
Welcome!
What do you do when your husband plays too many video games. 😅
You leave him😂
Dress up like Lana del Rey and sing the song “video game” to him.
You walk away. If he spends more than 40 percent of his down time playing video games, he's just not invested in your relationship. He lives in that fantasy world.
Watch out for the showboat. The one, the cheerleader, that always seems to draw attention. THe overexaggerator. Guys fall for it all the time and many times it's fake. Example, Girl, soccer player. Had the QBack in high school treat her like gold. Everyone thought she was soooooo sweet. She goes off to college. 3 months into college she meets another soccer player. Again, she's outgoing and well takes selfies with EVERYONE!!! She's now dating college soccer player and drops Qback just like that. How sweet do you think the QBack's family thinks she is now. Total uncaring of QBack's feelings. Just poof, it's over.
But she left and went off to college where there is a sea of young men.
That was part of the breakup there first and foremost