Why We Hold On To Those Who Are Not Meant For Us | In Your Feelings, Ep. 37

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 เม.ย. 2021
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    In this episode, Bianca empathizes with the reasons why establishing boundaries can sometimes be difficult. As empaths, we understand how rejection or losing love can affect our emotions so deeply. However, boundaries are meant to support genuine love, not stifle it. These words will help you realize that by letting go of what no longer serves you, you are just one step closer to experiencing the kind of love you truly deserve.
    "You are not abandoning someone when you decide to choose yourself.” - Bianca Sparacino
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ความคิดเห็น • 22

  • @diminishedgtr
    @diminishedgtr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "You are not abandoning someone when you decide to choose yourself.” You have no idea how much I needed to hear this exact phrase. Thank you B.

  • @jennifercoleman5159
    @jennifercoleman5159 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your podcasts are incredibly comforting. I feel like I am in a cocoon of reflection.

  • @On_Point10
    @On_Point10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your introspection and soothing voice! ♥️

  • @staiditude
    @staiditude 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cared for him so much yet when i devided to let hi know about why i am the way i an he dissed me saying that it wasn't his problem. I was exhausted trying. I love him so much. Yet he said we'll never be a thing and wanted me as a friend. I said no and walked away. Being crying ever since. My feelings are too deep to be settled in the friendzone. Evey word you said is si true B. 😢

  • @BRegan-sx7sl
    @BRegan-sx7sl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the way you use words to convey feelings. Listening to the IMF podcast is allowing me to be a better person to myself. Lots of love from Canada.

  • @mindyreid5229
    @mindyreid5229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you I now have a better understanding of why I have a hard time letting go.

  • @Alan-qx7ep
    @Alan-qx7ep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You put into words exactly what I’ve been going through thank you

  • @deanlister9405
    @deanlister9405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart is so tired its been nearly 2 months since I've had contact but its so hard I know she doesn't want me but I just can't forget her im broken but ill be OK I've been so close to getting in touch but Iknow it wouldn't be right for me but I will love her always

  • @Hanzeeeee
    @Hanzeeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's like your can read my mind. Thank you for the beautiful podcast

  • @danieltherrien6709
    @danieltherrien6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you you are so inspiring and I’m so thankful and grateful for your advice and knowledge

  • @Inspiriments888
    @Inspiriments888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patient ponders reflected in deep waters; As the seed was only meant to have it's hard shell for so long.
    Thanks for pointing to the air beneath my wings B. Truly Grateful for your hard work and genuine heart.

  • @vanshdhawan1647
    @vanshdhawan1647 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️

  • @Micheleoneandonly
    @Micheleoneandonly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Profound, thank you.

  • @patrickanderson5927
    @patrickanderson5927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this. I am at a time now where I have been holding onto someone for a year and know I must let go of that love for them so I don't fall into another year of hurt. This was a great reminder for helping me see more clearly what I need to do.
    Thank You

    • @thoughtcatalog
      @thoughtcatalog  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Patrick, we are so honored to be a part of your beautiful healing journey 🌻☀️ Keep going, we are here for you 💛

  • @Inspiriments888
    @Inspiriments888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear... I was spous to breakup with my partner yest.. Then this.. Loud and clear universe! Tho, I now feel I must watch this before I do.

  • @loriraine1391
    @loriraine1391 ปีที่แล้ว

    what was the name of the book you mentioned "Attached"? Author's name?

  • @jasonhughes305
    @jasonhughes305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My friend who I had feelings choosen a friend of mine. I distance myself from them because I don't have the strength to be friends with them being together.

    • @thoughtcatalog
      @thoughtcatalog  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We recommend another In Your Feelings episode titled “It's Okay To Outgrow Those Who Do Not Know How To Love You.” Feel free to check it out...we hope these words can help you 🎧💜 (th-cam.com/video/Wl_RS1VNV_w/w-d-xo.html)

    • @jasonhughes305
      @jasonhughes305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thoughtcatalog thank you so much I will check it out and hopefully it gets me a step close peace

  • @nekojoe1305
    @nekojoe1305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You every read any great Chinese poetry author...you have any recommendation

  • @jasonhughes305
    @jasonhughes305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:30