"Okay, we'll stop off at my house and unload all the groceries you bought for me." "Wrong. I paid for them, they're mine. If you want them it's cash in advance."
Y'all are the stupid ones for allowing this nonsense... after the 2nd time of her running out on her bill, that should've been y'all last time going anywhere with her or paying for her.. instead y'all kept inviting her and kept paying for her.. why wouldn't she take full advantage of a bunch of stupid women willing to be her wallet?.
If she took off before paying at Costco, just leave her cart. Tell the staff, sorry, this person is trying to make me pay & I won't. They will just put everything away. Give the business their name, number, and address and tell them to call the police for not paying. You don't have to pay for anyone.
After providing the name to the store, they can put her on a list to deny entry and if she shows up you have her legally trespassed. Even if she is with friends (assuming she has any left) she will be humiliated when denied entry.
Friend. Noun. A person who takes advantage of you. Actions may include but are not limited to the following: Stealing, backstabbing, bullying, destruction of property, threats against one’s family.
I'm the sort of person that if someone tried to pull that Costco stunt on me, that cart would be left there. Make me take the cart, that cart would be pushed back into an aisle. And if this Kate asked, I would tell her I didn’t think she needed the groceries that bad if she left.
I had a friend like this. She would borrow money, then "forget" to pay back at payday, then wonder why people stopped talking to her. I went no contact, as did most of the people she used.
It’s amazing how many grown folks try to get over that the expense of their friends! Even children know better than that. Hats off to Lisa for even leaving Kate hanging like she did! She learned both humility and accountability! In the end their child suffered because of the mother’s stupidity-𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙛𝙪𝙡 stupidity!
I had a co worker just like this.. we all would make plans to have a girls day out she'd beg to come... but when it's time to pay for the check, she'd "forget" her wallet.. the 1st we paid, but when it happened a 2nd time I gave her the side eye. The 3rd time I snapped.. I told her why does she come when she never has any money and doesn't say anything until we're sitting down about to order our food?. She said, "I have kids and Christmas is around the corner". Mind you we were in may/June at that time.. I refused to pay for her and let the others do it if they wanted to. After the 4th time they finally saw what I been saw.. she was trying to take advantage of us
It’s rich how she tries to guilt trip using the-I thought we were friends-crap. It always playing out the way it did I think it would only take the one time. I wouldn’t play that back n forth crap with her either.
That's what I was thinking, it's on her knowing her so called friend had a habit of making everyone else pay for her. Me, I would just have left that cart, no way I would have paid for her cart of groceries.
Why you watching friends cart in Costco then paying for it when you know what they are like? Just push it to the side pay for your own thing, or pay for it and take it home
A group of us went out for a little snack or dessert at a restaurant after a rehearsal. A couple, one of them a lawyer, both ordered a full meal and then left early without paying. These types do exist!
Not the second or third time? Then I wouldn't let her join. An if she finds out make sure the restaurant knows she isn't part of your group and thus her bill isn't part of anyone else's responsibility except her own.
Why would you invite her after the first time she ran out the with out paying for her meal I had a neighbor try and get me to pay for her groceries I told her I didn’t have any extra money for her groceries she got mad at me I didn’t give a damn my money is my money
Yes, what she did was wrong. But to tell her husband? What if he’s abusive? Was necessary to break up the family? Jeez, what an asshole group of Karens.
If she was being abused by her husband, which I am definitely not condoning, that still did not give her the right to constantly mooch off her supposed friends. Friendship goes both ways. Also, shouldn’t she have trusted, at the very minimum, one of those friends? A food bank as a suggestion, could have been brought up.
"Okay, we'll stop off at my house and unload all the groceries you bought for me."
"Wrong. I paid for them, they're mine. If you want them it's cash in advance."
Why would someone pay for someone's cart full of groceries? Just leave them.
Cause then there would be no stories about stupid women being financially abused by “friends” over and over and over and over ………
Y'all are the stupid ones for allowing this nonsense... after the 2nd time of her running out on her bill, that should've been y'all last time going anywhere with her or paying for her.. instead y'all kept inviting her and kept paying for her.. why wouldn't she take full advantage of a bunch of stupid women willing to be her wallet?.
Kate is SO lucky that she found a friend group compromised entirely of doormats!
Would ruin the story.
Exactly my view pal 😅
I would never take that person to any store ever.
If she took off before paying at Costco, just leave her cart. Tell the staff, sorry, this person is trying to make me pay & I won't. They will just put everything away. Give the business their name, number, and address and tell them to call the police for not paying. You don't have to pay for anyone.
Also, she can’t pay unless she has her own Costco card.
Also add that she had actually planned to take the full cart without paying, (stealing) watch the fun from distance 😂
After providing the name to the store, they can put her on a list to deny entry and if she shows up you have her legally trespassed. Even if she is with friends (assuming she has any left) she will be humiliated when denied entry.
If you know someone is going to stiff you, why in the world would you associate with them? Are you that hard up for friends?
FYI a friend doesn't take advantage or use you.
Friend. Noun. A person who takes advantage of you. Actions may include but are not limited to the following:
Stealing, backstabbing, bullying, destruction of property, threats against one’s family.
And THIS is why you ask for split bills.
And this is why you drop toxic "friends".
Worked with someone like years ago one day the cops came and arrested her for fraud. No one was shocked
I'm the sort of person that if someone tried to pull that Costco stunt on me, that cart would be left there. Make me take the cart, that cart would be pushed back into an aisle. And if this Kate asked, I would tell her I didn’t think she needed the groceries that bad if she left.
I'd do that, too.
She could tell me that I'm cheap but I'd tell her that, at least, I'm not a mooch or a leech. Bet she wouldn't like that much.
I had a friend like this. She would borrow money, then "forget" to pay back at payday, then wonder why people stopped talking to her. I went no contact, as did most of the people she used.
Dear Kate
If it’s such a small thing then go pay it.
It’s amazing how many grown folks try to get over that the expense of their friends! Even children know better than that. Hats off to Lisa for even leaving Kate hanging like she did! She learned both humility and accountability! In the end their child suffered because of the mother’s stupidity-𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙛𝙪𝙡 stupidity!
I find it amazing people like Kate even have friends lol.
Money and friends two things that don't go together
Family, too. My dad always said don't work or borrow money for Family or friends.
I had a co worker just like this.. we all would make plans to have a girls day out she'd beg to come... but when it's time to pay for the check, she'd "forget" her wallet.. the 1st we paid, but when it happened a 2nd time I gave her the side eye. The 3rd time I snapped.. I told her why does she come when she never has any money and doesn't say anything until we're sitting down about to order our food?. She said, "I have kids and Christmas is around the corner". Mind you we were in may/June at that time.. I refused to pay for her and let the others do it if they wanted to. After the 4th time they finally saw what I been saw.. she was trying to take advantage of us
She wasn’t trying to take advantage of you. She did take advantage of you; three times.
Ghaah! Get a spine!
2:41 Kate: …you’re making me feel really bad…
Lisa: Good
It would only take one time ...then No more invite!!!!
It’s rich how she tries to guilt trip using the-I thought we were friends-crap. It always playing out the way it did I think it would only take the one time. I wouldn’t play that back n forth crap with her either.
I am not sure what kind of friend group you belong to; my friends do not act this way. Consider finding new friends.
Well, there is always that one person
@sakilynn😅😅😅😅😅 So true.
That's what I was thinking, it's on her knowing her so called friend had a habit of making everyone else pay for her. Me, I would just have left that cart, no way I would have paid for her cart of groceries.
Just tell her that you forgot to pick her up.
Don't allow her to join you at the restaurant.
She sounds like a squeaky toy lol.
I would have never paid for anything of her cart
Why you watching friends cart in Costco then paying for it when you know what they are like? Just push it to the side pay for your own thing, or pay for it and take it home
This sort of person who keeps avoiding payment should be avoided at all cost. Keep clear of this type of person.
What a stupid person, if you are not able to say NO dont complain.
The friends who were paying were the real idiots. Why keep hanging out with someone who blatantly mooches? And the groceries thing was beyond stupid😒
someone who runs off without paying their portion of the bill is called a moocher and leech? Just ask for spilt checks?
Good afternoon everyone from Rhode Island 😊😊😊
A group of us went out for a little snack or dessert at a restaurant after a rehearsal. A couple, one of them a lawyer, both ordered a full meal and then left early without paying. These types do exist!
I don't like moochers. We all work hard for our money. Don't invite her again
How in the hell do you get trapped into paying for someone's groceries? She couldn't just move her crap to the side?
It's easy...just stop f-ing paying for her...period.
No, don't talk about it, pay up!
She would have been invited one time after that she's gone. I don't deal with moochers
The 'friend' is a thief, sue her.
If I go to Costco and someone "makes" me pay for their groceries and split; they become MY groceries.
Girl FAFO’ed! 😂😂😂
Bill her husband for everything she owes. Bill her parents. Sue her for every penny she owes plus financial hardship
Not the second or third time? Then I wouldn't let her join. An if she finds out make sure the restaurant knows she isn't part of your group and thus her bill isn't part of anyone else's responsibility except her own.
I find that these stories are repeating over and over
Why would you invite her after the first time she ran out the with out paying for her meal I had a neighbor try and get me to pay for her groceries I told her I didn’t have any extra money for her groceries she got mad at me I didn’t give a damn my money is my money
Costco has delivery
Yes, what she did was wrong. But to tell her husband? What if he’s abusive? Was necessary to break up the family? Jeez, what an asshole group of Karens.
If she was being abused by her husband, which I am definitely not condoning, that still did not give her the right to constantly mooch off her supposed friends. Friendship goes both ways.
Also, shouldn’t she have trusted, at the very minimum, one of those friends? A food bank as a suggestion, could have been brought up.
Well i know what you are about! Karen's no, SICK of being used, yes. Not their problem.
I'm getting a bit fed up with my name being used this way.