I’d never let my mother in law start talking to me that way. Who does she think she is treating her like a child. No dinner for u. That’s ridiculous. Finally she stood up for herself.
Brenda: "I have such a good son. I'm so glad he is so much closer to his me than you." Typo aside, I'd answer, "That's incredibly creepy Brenda. I'd be looking into a good therapist if I were you. For Thomas too."
When someone tells a grown woman that they either do as she says or no dinner that should have been the end of the story. I would have told that woman where to go to stick it and and etc
She probably considers her son as still being her darling little boy. So it's not a step far to see his wife as being a disobedient girl. It's very telling that the husband didn't take part in the story - he was literally a waste of space.
@TryniaMerin actor not actors. Brenda and Hannah are both voiced by Savy Des Etages a talented Voice Actor with a great collection of voices. She is a Brit so even Hannah's voice is one she puts on. In the stories where she uses that voice for the OP and there is a younger sister that too is her. She is good though isn't she?
I never get in these stories why these people like nasty MILs and exes aren't automatically blocked. Especially after years have passed, I mean it's the first thing I would do.
@@BruinPhD2009 That may be not so easy.....blocking someone when the person just can start using a new phone and new account. And still does know the old number to text to. And when yopu're working like Hannah it's always easy to find contact info on internet (may be less so for an idiot of a MIL) because Hannah must be reachable for custpomers.
If protecting his pride makes you look bad why would she agree to do it?.. I would question anyone who's willing to sacrifice their spouse's pride to save theirs.... while she's busy trying to make thomas look good, thomas is disrespecting her and treating her like crap with his mama..
Girls are trained from an early age that they have to "make sacrifices" for the men in their lives. It sucks, because it has given too many men the idea that their "pride" and their happiness are more important than the self respect and the dignity of the women in their lives.
@@ladyv5655 , Exactly. A lot of it comes down to early training and conditioning. My ex-mother literally tried to raise me as a household slave with no rights whatsover. I was a female, and that meant I could never say No to a man, no matter what the situation. She made it clear that my role was to be used and abused by men, aka the "masters", and I needed to keep my mouth shut and never complain about how I was treated. I did fight against it even as a child, because I knew it was crazy. However, when the programming starts at a very young age, it can take years or even decades to undo all of the programming.
Brenda abandoning her psycho son after running out of money completely was admittingly a smart move, But I'm surprise she didn't have the balls to called the cops on her "Little Angel"
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@@wonhur885 its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@wonhur885oh I really hope you and your wife were able to make things work. It’s been a year since this post, it broke my heart and I hope your wife learned that she loved and needed you just as much as you loved and needed her
With such a ridiculous outlook, I’d be telling my husband he needs to choose: me or his mom. Brenda needs an education and reality check. I’d happily ditch any husband who chose Brenda over me.
Also also, NEVER agree to "save face" for a spouse by letting them claim they pay for everything when it's actually you. Face it: YOU DESERVE BETTER. A mate who has to "save face" with a lie like that will have relatives who will try to claim YOU are the parasite. You deserve a spouse who ISN'T afraid of their partner earning more, or paying more, or whatever the imbalance is. (Just remember that they should redress the balance in some other way, such as doing more of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. Someone who demands you support the lie that THEY do all the paying, while NOT doing any housework, etc...is NOT a worthwhile partner!)
That MIL is exhausting, ignorant, pompous and disrespectful. I would move out and cut contact with her. Your husband can then decide who he wants to live with. No moré compromises. 😂
when the mil starts saying back in my day the other person needs to tell them to shut up and and if you love those days so much then go back because it 2023 now
I am old enough to have kids the age of the adult characters and yes we grasp "work from home". These stories would be more believable pre-COVID. Or better set in 2005 or so.
@@TryniaMerin Even my way previous boomer mother knows how remote working is done....she's nearly 98 years old and uses her own pc for administratipon, paying and browsing. No she dpoes not earn with that , but she knows that it is possible, simple even, to do nearly ALL administrativ jobs at home.
I hope she has a prenuptial. That or real proof of the abuse she's had from the momster-in-law. A rich person doesn't always walk away from a marriage without paying a settlement. She also should never have let MIL move in.
Exactly. Only the bad guys pay alimony in these stories. These stories always find a magical way that the protagonists never have to pay even when they file for divorce and the other spouse wasn't cheating. 😐
I dunno. I'm the kind that would prefer to blindside them so that when they come back there is a note on the door, the locks have been changed, the utilities have been disconnected, and the appliances cleaned out.
So let me get this straight-- Hannah and her husband pay for a house, and all the mother in law is allowed to move in. But the mother in law forbids Hannah from eating? 😮THIS MUTHA IS IN RIGHT HOUSE!!! IT WOULD NOT HAPPEN UNDER MY ROOF!!!
I think the writers are the ones who are having so much trouble grappling with the concept of remote work. We've read this exact same plot 1000 times. Clearly working from home blows their minds.
Jennifer, I agree these stories about Mother-In-Laws’ not believing people work from home, are getting boring. The first time the MIL told me I could not eat dinner she find her bags on the porch. The husband, using OP’s money, to go out to expensive meals and trips without her, would find his bags next to his mom’s on the porch and the locks changed.
I've known too many two-faced people. They range from mildly annoying to truly vile. The worst have been the religious hypocrites, who use the Bible to try to justify their evil actions.
Yet another mother in law who has selective hearing and seeing. Who refuses to admit that remote work and work at home exists because it doesn't fit her narrative of a 'lazy' daughter in law.
All the dil has to do is get the mil to come and actually see what she does! Seeing is believing after all! Or maybe rent office space somewhere far away from the mil.
earning, not learning suppose.🙂 I know someone who makes calculated to hours of work at least the same. But only when you develop your own program and can sell it multiple times....every year it needs to be upgraded due to new government rules. For all customers the same upgrade because the rules are the same within the country for everyone.using that programm.And those customers pay a yearly fee for those upgrades.
This type of mama baffles me. She thinks her son is perfect, lets him believe the illusion, and gets angry and defensive at anyone that says otherwise. How dare a mere wife try to fix any problems. But when it becomes glaringly clear that there's a cliff up ahead and it's coming close hella fast, then all of a sudden the wife's input and support is all-powerful and all-magical!!! No, lady. You wanted it all, now it's ALL FREAKING YOURS, every stinking bit of it.Been there, done that, nooooo thanks!!!
There still idiots out there. I saw a redit thread where a boy moved out cos his parents could not accept that he works from home and keeps telling him to get a "real" job in a factory. SHM
@@soxpeewee Sorry for your parents then....knowing that even my now very old mother (98) did do up to 8 years ago at the age of 98 jobs (as volunteer ) using the computer from home. She even got a city prize for that at the age of 91. Also I was lucky with my MIL...however now she does not recognize anyone any longer...even not her own children.
Brenda managing to actually be smart enough to run away, hopefully she knows to switch everything about her bank account or at least move everything to a new account & close the old one. She probably should have called the cops on her son but then again she's too scared to try anything past run away when she had the chance. Something also tells me Thomas is going to eventually do something that leads to getting arrested anyway. Until then(and even then) the both will live separate lives in misery, Thomas alone with no money & eventually being locked in jail or prison & his mom living elsewhere but traumatized by her son, the monster she created.
It pisses me off when these women, the victim put up with so much bull and maintains being nice when many women in real life would have already started curing out the MIL.
Never like these that end up with the “main character” leaving someone else (e.g. mistress, ex-mother-in-law) in an abusive situation without even a referral to some sort of social service. That is disgusting revenge. Yuck.
Another day, another doormat. She finally learned the lesson that giving permission for others to use her and abuse her means they will do exactly that. And the wretched husband proved another standard-issue mama's boy - one who talked OP into lying for him to help him save face with his vile mother. That shows OP had no self respect whatsoever. No wonder it took way too long for OP to ditch that awful pair.
The moment she said "You really think that you can try and lord your marriage to my son over my head, huh?" would be the moment I'd clap back and reply, "I can see that you are determined to find any reason, no matter how ridiculous, petty, unthinking, malicoius, or frivalous, to justify hating me. I will therefore be limiting the amount of time I spend with you, including communicating with you. Understand that I do this as an act of kindness and courtesy, in order to keep you from being so very irritated with my presence. Of course, I have screenshotted this conversation, and will be sending all of it to my husband so that he understand my decision...and the root cause of it. From now on, please communicate with my husband, your son. My last communication to you is that I do sincerely wish you plenty of happiness and health, instead of this bitterness and vitriol which you keep spewing at me. Good day!" *block!*
If she's getting paid, especially paid well, it's real. And NO ONE should be sent to get hungry! I would like if my hubby took his mother out sometimes. But he would tell me, first! I'd probably be the one planning the outing.
I sure am glad I didn’t have to live with my MIL. I understand it is necessary sometimes. My daughter and her husband and kids had to stay with me for a while but we all just minded our own business.
It upsets me these wives keep this abuse from their husbands. Like if my mother ever talked to my wife like that she is gone mother or not. The opposite isnt good either but stories like these. The partner gives red flags.
Web design has been around for years now. Even when Hannah was young. Wifi and WFH just makes it much easier. And Hannah is disgusting treating a grown ass woman like a child.
That girl is too accomdating. I would have told Brenda in the first conversation, "pfft, you're an idiot for thinking that. I'm done talking." Brenda" I have such a good son. I'm glad he is so much closer to his me than you" Typo aside, I'd answer that "That's really creepy, Brenda. You should see a therapist about that. And so should Thomas"
The one thing that made this different is that after getting rid of the leaches, she ended up with someone else. They usually end up with some trite comment they are “single and living their best life” when you know true karma would having the new man rubbed into their noses.
Hannah was really annoying for the first 13.5 minutes not standing up for herself properly and allowing this woman to knock her over and over again...and it went on for NINE MONTHS? Holy cow I couldn't put up with that crap for 9 minutes of my life let alone nine months!!!! Maybe the relationship could be repaired if people didn't quietly take this kind of treatment for long periods of time.
That is the one thing that make these stories tedious. The protagonist is such a wimp you want to bust them aside the head. Now that they have stretched these stories out to a half hour you have to speed through.
Early in the story, MIL: "We're at the age where man and woman work!" Me: "Wow, that's new..." 🤣 Unfortunately, she is one of those WFH is not a job AND women can't make more money than men...
It's a funny thing , I have been married to my husband for 18 years . Never had a problem with my MIL . And my husband had a wonderful relationship with my mother .
Same here! I cringe at these stories with toxic MILs and DILs that don't put their MIL in their place or a momma's boy that still stuck on Mom's boobs. I too have a good MIL and a husband that would stick up got me against anyone who attacks me. We've been married for 12 years and I am still happy to be his wife. ❤🥰
I love both my daughters in law.. I stay out of their business. If they want my advice, they have to ask for it ,and I always make sure to support their decision regardless of my feeling. I had the MIL from hell. She was so bad She called me by his HS..GF name 😂 I just ignored her, my daughter once told her in front of the entire family my name..😂😂
Brenda may have been wrong about working from home, but about the only thing she did get right was that in most marriages BOTH of them have to work (even if one is only part-time).
My thing is why would the people who are dependent on other people act like they are in charge when they don't have a pot to piss in nor a window to throw it out of, then expect an I'm sorry to fix their problems
I was wondering where Thomas was in all of this. Seems Hannah escaped in time. Not sure what she was doing being married to him if she didn't trust him enough to let him know how much she earned. Or had to lie for him. Red flags already..... Also would have been an evil plot twist if she cut off their credit cards while they were in Colorado "Hope you prepaid your flights & accommodation!" 😂😂 Since she was probably paying off the cards too.
I’d never let my mother in law start talking to me that way. Who does she think she is treating her like a child. No dinner for u. That’s ridiculous. Finally she stood up for herself.
Brenda: "I have such a good son. I'm so glad he is so much closer to his me than you." Typo aside, I'd answer, "That's incredibly creepy Brenda. I'd be looking into a good therapist if I were you. For Thomas too."
Brenda changed her tone when she found out about how much Hannah made and tries to be to nice to her unbelievable.
She also has the audacity to make hannah pay for their vacation expenses...
When someone tells a grown woman that they either do as she says or no dinner that should have been the end of the story. I would have told that woman where to go to stick it and and etc
How the actual hell does Brenda think she can enforce this no dinner foolishness? On a grown woman???
She probably considers her son as still being her darling little boy. So it's not a step far to see his wife as being a disobedient girl. It's very telling that the husband didn't take part in the story - he was literally a waste of space.
@@citadelofwinds1564 very good point. Human delusion can go very far.
Honestly, in any of these stories, how could not anybody not live through the pandemic and the lockdowns not heard of remote working
I love listening to any stories with these voice actors....
Agreed. The voice actors are very good.
@TryniaMerin actor not actors. Brenda and Hannah are both voiced by Savy Des Etages a talented Voice Actor with a great collection of voices. She is a Brit so even Hannah's voice is one she puts on. In the stories where she uses that voice for the OP and there is a younger sister that too is her. She is good though isn't she?
Total Agree...Thanks for the info...I am hooked on what I call Soap Text..I Wonder About The Voice Actor(s) I Hear...
I never get in these stories why these people like nasty MILs and exes aren't automatically blocked. Especially after years have passed, I mean it's the first thing I would do.
Middle finger emojis and then block
Think it's for the purpose of continuing the story. But, agree. Immediate blocking looks like a wise choice.
Me too!
The ability to block people is one of the greatest advancements of our time! 😂
@@BruinPhD2009 That may be not so easy.....blocking someone when the person just can start using a new phone and new account. And still does know the old number to text to.
And when yopu're working like Hannah it's always easy to find contact info on internet (may be less so for an idiot of a MIL) because Hannah must be reachable for custpomers.
If protecting his pride makes you look bad why would she agree to do it?.. I would question anyone who's willing to sacrifice their spouse's pride to save theirs.... while she's busy trying to make thomas look good, thomas is disrespecting her and treating her like crap with his mama..
Girls are trained from an early age that they have to "make sacrifices" for the men in their lives. It sucks, because it has given too many men the idea that their "pride" and their happiness are more important than the self respect and the dignity of the women in their lives.
@@ladyv5655 , Exactly. A lot of it comes down to early training and conditioning. My ex-mother literally tried to raise me as a household slave with no rights whatsover. I was a female, and that meant I could never say No to a man, no matter what the situation.
She made it clear that my role was to be used and abused by men, aka the "masters", and I needed to keep my mouth shut and never complain about how I was treated. I did fight against it even as a child, because I knew it was crazy. However, when the programming starts at a very young age, it can take years or even decades to undo all of the programming.
Brenda abandoning her psycho son after running out of money completely was admittingly a smart move, But I'm surprise she didn't have the balls to called the cops on her "Little Angel"
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Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@@wonhur885 its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@LanceNRusso this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
@@wonhur885oh I really hope you and your wife were able to make things work. It’s been a year since this post, it broke my heart and I hope your wife learned that she loved and needed you just as much as you loved and needed her
Good evening, everyone. Good grief, the remote worker is a bloody fact and almost everyone knows it. Smh, this remote worker is still working
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This theme is getting old and stale at this stage,
With such a ridiculous outlook, I’d be telling my husband he needs to choose: me or his mom. Brenda needs an education and reality check. I’d happily ditch any husband who chose Brenda over me.
Brenda, nnnnnnnoooooooooooo. In case you don't understand .... NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
Also also, NEVER agree to "save face" for a spouse by letting them claim they pay for everything when it's actually you. Face it: YOU DESERVE BETTER. A mate who has to "save face" with a lie like that will have relatives who will try to claim YOU are the parasite. You deserve a spouse who ISN'T afraid of their partner earning more, or paying more, or whatever the imbalance is. (Just remember that they should redress the balance in some other way, such as doing more of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. Someone who demands you support the lie that THEY do all the paying, while NOT doing any housework, etc...is NOT a worthwhile partner!)
I could understand if it's to appease a relative you don't regularly interact with
That MIL is exhausting, ignorant, pompous and disrespectful. I would move out and cut contact with her. Your husband can then decide who he wants to live with. No moré compromises. 😂
when the mil starts saying back in my day the other person needs to tell them to shut up and and if you love those days so much then go back because it 2023 now
It was grating my ears.
Agreed. I'd even say 'okay boomer' to the MIL... but it might be an insult to boomers who actually know remote work exists.
I am old enough to have kids the age of the adult characters and yes we grasp "work from home". These stories would be more believable pre-COVID. Or better set in 2005 or so.
@@TryniaMerin Even my way previous boomer mother knows how remote working is done....she's nearly 98 years old and uses her own pc for administratipon, paying and browsing.
No she dpoes not earn with that , but she knows that it is possible, simple even, to do nearly ALL administrativ jobs at home.
I don’t understand why Hannah is agreeing with the MIL and enabling her lies. There is no real reason to accept the behavior of the MIL.
I hope she has a prenuptial. That or real proof of the abuse she's had from the momster-in-law.
A rich person doesn't always walk away from a marriage without paying a settlement.
She also should never have let MIL move in.
Exactly. Only the bad guys pay alimony in these stories. These stories always find a magical way that the protagonists never have to pay even when they file for divorce and the other spouse wasn't cheating. 😐
screen shots of these texts chats would be more than enough evidence!!!
I dunno. I'm the kind that would prefer to blindside them so that when they come back there is a note on the door, the locks have been changed, the utilities have been disconnected, and the appliances cleaned out.
So let me get this straight-- Hannah and her husband pay for a house, and all the mother in law is allowed to move in. But the mother in law forbids Hannah from eating? 😮THIS MUTHA IS IN RIGHT HOUSE!!! IT WOULD NOT HAPPEN UNDER MY ROOF!!!
I think the writers are the ones who are having so much trouble grappling with the concept of remote work. We've read this exact same plot 1000 times. Clearly working from home blows their minds.
Ikr ? Why not a story of how these dumb women don't let thier in-laws crap all over them at live with them. Geez
Jennifer, I agree these stories about Mother-In-Laws’ not believing people work from home, are getting boring.
The first time the MIL told me I could not eat dinner she find her bags on the porch. The husband, using OP’s money, to go out to expensive meals and trips without her, would find his bags next to his mom’s on the porch and the locks changed.
@@constancepeterson6156 Forget the porch. I'd chuck everything in the yard.
Brenda sure was two-faced when she found out what her daughter in law made. Man, I really hate two-faced people, even if I never met one.
I've known too many two-faced people. They range from mildly annoying to truly vile. The worst have been the religious hypocrites, who use the Bible to try to justify their evil actions.
I'm glad you've never met one. It's not a pleasant experience and really drains the patience out of you.
I’ll bet you have met one, if not more. Just be glad they’ve never shown you the “wrong” face. 😊
Mama's boy + Cruel MIL
Karma: Boss Music!!
Yet another mother in law who has selective hearing and seeing. Who refuses to admit that remote work and work at home exists because it doesn't fit her narrative of a 'lazy' daughter in law.
It would be a cold day in hell before I would allow some one to treat me like that in my house.
All the dil has to do is get the mil to come and actually see what she does! Seeing is believing after all!
Or maybe rent office space somewhere far away from the mil.
And Brenda did a beautiful backflip. lmao
She shoukd just go out to eat on her own. How's MIL gonna stop THAT???😮
I'd like to see one of these where the spouse of the MC wants an open relationship. They might even threaten divorce to try and get what they want.
That's an interesting idea
This please!!
I like that idea.
@@straightblackgirl share it and pass on the idea if you like it. Maybe it will help it to get some traction.
So that means she's learning about $10,000 a week... WTF kind of job do you have to be doing to earn that much
Know a web designer that actually earns more than 500.000 $ a year
My friend is a personal chef to some rich families here .... He said about 30% of his yearly salary is forgetting what you see inside their homes 😂
earning, not learning suppose.🙂
I know someone who makes calculated to hours of work at least the same.
But only when you develop your own program and can sell it multiple times....every year it needs to be upgraded due to new government rules. For all customers the same upgrade because the rules are the same within the country for everyone.using that programm.And those customers pay a yearly fee for those upgrades.
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if someone uses the same "excuse" everytime, then *maybe* its not always an excuse
What kind of man lets his wife be treated like.and especially when he knows she pays his bills WOW!!!
This type of mama baffles me. She thinks her son is perfect, lets him believe the illusion, and gets angry and defensive at anyone that says otherwise. How dare a mere wife try to fix any problems. But when it becomes glaringly clear that there's a cliff up ahead and it's coming close hella fast, then all of a sudden the wife's input and support is all-powerful and all-magical!!! No, lady. You wanted it all, now it's ALL FREAKING YOURS, every stinking bit of it.Been there, done that, nooooo thanks!!!
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I'll never understand why a woman would think she has any right to boss her daughter-in-law around.
MIL: “You will go to bed without dinner” Me: “ok” (goes out to eat)
WOW I love how he only misses Hannah & loves her after finding out how much money she earns.
Come on, my 78-year-old mother, and 87-year-old MIL completely get the idea that we have a real job, and work full-time in our home office.
There still idiots out there. I saw a redit thread where a boy moved out cos his parents could not accept that he works from home and keeps telling him to get a "real" job in a factory. SHM
My parents couldn't understand me working at home when they saw me doing it lol
My parents in their 80's are also fully aware that I work from home. Some people are just stupid.
@@soxpeewee Sorry for your parents then....knowing that even my now very old mother (98) did do up to 8 years ago at the age of 98 jobs (as volunteer ) using the computer from home. She even got a city prize for that at the age of 91.
Also I was lucky with my MIL...however now she does not recognize anyone any longer...even not her own children.
When at home jobs first started they where often pyramid schemes or scams so that might be why
He misses her paying all the bills and doing what he pleases.
Brenda managing to actually be smart enough to run away, hopefully she knows to switch everything about her bank account or at least move everything to a new account & close the old one.
She probably should have called the cops on her son but then again she's too scared to try anything past run away when she had the chance. Something also tells me Thomas is going to eventually do something that leads to getting arrested anyway.
Until then(and even then) the both will live separate lives in misery, Thomas alone with no money & eventually being locked in jail or prison & his mom living elsewhere but traumatized by her son, the monster she created.
It pisses me off when these women, the victim put up with so much bull and maintains being nice when many women in real life would have already started curing out the MIL.
Hannah has more patience than saints That old bat should be able grasp the remote work concept
Never like these that end up with the “main character” leaving someone else (e.g. mistress, ex-mother-in-law) in an abusive situation without even a referral to some sort of social service. That is disgusting revenge. Yuck.
Another day, another doormat. She finally learned the lesson that giving permission for others to use her and abuse her means they will do exactly that. And the wretched husband proved another standard-issue mama's boy - one who talked OP into lying for him to help him save face with his vile mother. That shows OP had no self respect whatsoever. No wonder it took way too long for OP to ditch that awful pair.
The moment she said "You really think that you can try and lord your marriage to my son over my head, huh?" would be the moment I'd clap back and reply, "I can see that you are determined to find any reason, no matter how ridiculous, petty, unthinking, malicoius, or frivalous, to justify hating me. I will therefore be limiting the amount of time I spend with you, including communicating with you. Understand that I do this as an act of kindness and courtesy, in order to keep you from being so very irritated with my presence. Of course, I have screenshotted this conversation, and will be sending all of it to my husband so that he understand my decision...and the root cause of it. From now on, please communicate with my husband, your son. My last communication to you is that I do sincerely wish you plenty of happiness and health, instead of this bitterness and vitriol which you keep spewing at me. Good day!" *block!*
Wow! Just wow well said
Perfectly said 👌
If she's getting paid, especially paid well, it's real. And NO ONE should be sent to get hungry!
I would like if my hubby took his mother out sometimes. But he would tell me, first! I'd probably be the one planning the outing.
MIL needs to make her way back through the 1950 vortex
Show her the bills you pay and ask to see hers!!!
I sure am glad I didn’t have to live with my MIL. I understand it is necessary sometimes. My daughter and her husband and kids had to stay with me for a while but we all just minded our own business.
New level of a fictitious story here 😂
Hannah has the patience of a saint if she willingly dealt with all that
Sigh....just divorce wigh proof to the husband
An allowance? How about 25¢/week?
They need all the cents (sense) they can get!
It upsets me these wives keep this abuse from their husbands. Like if my mother ever talked to my wife like that she is gone mother or not. The opposite isnt good either but stories like these. The partner gives red flags.
Not half way through and I want the DIL to get a divorce and clear out ASAP.
I wouldn’t have made it 5 minutes before I blew up on that MIL
There are really too many of these stories where relatives don't understand the concept of remote working.
Web design has been around for years now. Even when Hannah was young. Wifi and WFH just makes it much easier. And Hannah is disgusting treating a grown ass woman like a child.
Me the entire time Brenda is yammering: (makes the blah-blah-blah hand gesture)
Good evening from Florida!
Good evening from Louisiana 🐊
Good evening from South Dakota
I swear I’d end up in jail if I had to put up with MILs like this
NOPE no fkn way can't stand these stories where the wife puts up with this crap for even 1 min...get real
That girl is too accomdating. I would have told Brenda in the first conversation, "pfft, you're an idiot for thinking that. I'm done talking."
Brenda" I have such a good son. I'm glad he is so much closer to his me than you" Typo aside, I'd answer that "That's really creepy, Brenda. You should see a therapist about that. And so should Thomas"
Brenda has this weird idea that she can "mind control" her dil. She believes that she is the family alpha. And her dil is her slave.
People are so eager to put 2020 behind them that they completely forget that working from became more normal than it has been in YEARS!
Another main female character with "doormat" written across her forehead.
The one thing that made this different is that after getting rid of the leaches, she ended up with someone else. They usually end up with some trite comment they are “single and living their best life” when you know true karma would having the new man rubbed into their noses.
1st thing: Separate your earnings into an account YOU control. Then lay back and hear the piggies whine.
Am I hell's crazy if she thinks you'd come back and marry a deadbeat so you could support him and his mother
Another working from home story 🥱
It does have to be this way....... I'll treat you like you treated me......deal with it!!!!!
You made it this way, Brenda
Hannah was really annoying for the first 13.5 minutes not standing up for herself properly and allowing this woman to knock her over and over again...and it went on for NINE MONTHS? Holy cow I couldn't put up with that crap for 9 minutes of my life let alone nine months!!!! Maybe the relationship could be repaired if people didn't quietly take this kind of treatment for long periods of time.
That is the one thing that make these stories tedious. The protagonist is such a wimp you want to bust them aside the head. Now that they have stretched these stories out to a half hour you have to speed through.
@@diamondjim7560 lmao,I do that sometimes
Early in the story, MIL: "We're at the age where man and woman work!"
Me: "Wow, that's new..." 🤣
Unfortunately, she is one of those WFH is not a job AND women can't make more money than men...
I never understand why these women just roll over and do as they're told. I'd be gone in a flash
Brenda should never have catered to the nonsense. Send me to bed with no dinner? Yea right
You shall reap what you sow.
What goes around comes around.
Karma is a b*tch. In the end you get what you deserve. [usually]
It's a funny thing , I have been married to my husband for 18 years . Never had a problem with my MIL .
And my husband had a wonderful relationship with my mother .
Same here!
I cringe at these stories with toxic MILs and DILs that don't put their MIL in their place or a momma's boy that still stuck on Mom's boobs.
I too have a good MIL and a husband that would stick up got me against anyone who attacks me. We've been married for 12 years and I am still happy to be his wife. ❤🥰
I love both my daughters in law.. I stay out of their business. If they want my advice, they have to ask for it ,and I always make sure to support their decision regardless of my feeling. I had the MIL from hell. She was so bad She called me by his HS..GF name 😂 I just ignored her, my daughter once told her in front of the entire family my name..😂😂
Hannah, honey, you need to cut and run. Toxic MIL and a spouse that is (obviously) a Mama's boy? Enough is enough.
never bite the hand that feeds you
I love revenge stories they are hilarious
If my MIL acts like that to me? She will be sorry she met me in her life. I am a good person but not a doormat or a robot.
“How dare you not work?!” and “A woman doesn’t have the ability to work.” All in under 3 minutes.
I wouldn’t put with her crap after the first couple of texts. She’s gonna come home with her belongings in the front yard!
Brenda may have been wrong about working from home, but about the only thing she did get right was that in most marriages BOTH of them have to work (even if one is only part-time).
🤣🤣🤣this is funny. "go to bed, no dinner"
A DEMONIC MIL... YOU HAVE A JOB SO YOU CAN ALWAYS EAT ANYTIME YOU WANT
I would have left my husband and his mother the first time they went out to a restaurant without including me. OP stuck around for far too long.
Best way to avoid dealing with MIL... Skip getting married
In real conversation people would loose patience (do you think I BEG YOUR PARTON) THEY Should SAY) SCREW YOU. FOR REAL.
remote work exist even before Covid.. mil is living under a rock 😂
Thomas misses the money he isn’t getting!
Evening everyone
Evening 👋🤗
My thing is why would the people who are dependent on other people act like they are in charge when they don't have a pot to piss in nor a window to throw it out of, then expect an I'm sorry to fix their problems
At 27.48 minutes, is when you pack your bags and GTHO, or PACK THEIR BAGS AND THROW THEM AND THEIR BAGS OUT THE FRONT DOOR, AND CHANGE THE LOCKS.
MIL needs a boot out the door!
MIL would have ended up on the side of a milk carton by now
I was wondering where Thomas was in all of this. Seems Hannah escaped in time. Not sure what she was doing being married to him if she didn't trust him enough to let him know how much she earned. Or had to lie for him. Red flags already.....
Also would have been an evil plot twist if she cut off their credit cards while they were in Colorado "Hope you prepaid your flights & accommodation!" 😂😂 Since she was probably paying off the cards too.
So who is to blame here. The monster MIL? The childish husband? ( Oedipus complex) the wimpy, mousy wife who enables both of them?
Brenda really crested a unrealistic monster didn't she.
I'll just order delivery for dinner after all I can pay for it!
That woman would have found herself out on the lawn at the first interaction were it me. And so would her mamas boy son.