Reflections on Social Media, My Content & Setting Boundaries | Day In the Life In Oslo Vlog

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  • @lvzane
    @lvzane วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Hi! I think you can absolutely share things about Oslo and/or Norway. That wouldn't invade your privacy, and it would be interesting for someone who does not live in Norway. I honestly enjoy watching your random clips of you walking around Oslo in your everyday life. It gives a nice sense of normalcy in this overly perfect, photoshopped social media world :)

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, that is a good suggestion, and I would love to share even more of Oslo and Norway! Thanks for watching 😊

  • @elisabete_silva18
    @elisabete_silva18 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    How come someone can be mean to you? You are such a lovely person!
    I think its wonderful you set boundaries, and put your mental health first.

  • @Blueprint_YT
    @Blueprint_YT วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Do what makes you feel safe and happy when creating content, naturally the content you are happy making will attract the audience resonating with the content you are making :) There will always be nosy people, but that's just human nature to be curious, but remember that it is always okay to say "no" and move on doing what you love!
    Stå på videre! Mvh en Nordlenning 😂😂

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's true! It's only natural to be curious, even nosy, but as you mentioned, I can choose not to reply if it makes me uncomfortable. Takk for støtten ❤

  • @dera_ng
    @dera_ng วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Dear Victoria,
    I discovered Norway after being infatuated with Sweden. I never considered myself a visual person, however Sweden brought a more nostalgic edge to my life. When I found Norway, it was perfect. Not too much of anything, everything just in the right amount. I've been learning Bokmål for almost a year now and I would love to live, work, contribute to society, have a family and grow old in Norway.
    Please bear with me for my breif introduction.
    I learn a lot from your videos. Most videos I could find online about Norway have skewed towards the holiday/lifestyle videos. During the summer, new videos about Norway just spike up on youtube. I understand that people find Norway as a summer holiday destination however for me, Norway is far more than a holiday treat. Your videos treat your life and Norway in a more down to earth version compared to majority of what the rest are doing.
    I see a lot of brands and groceries you cook with and it gives me more knowledge about the nutrition scene in Norway including the prices. The traditions concerning cetain beverages and what time of year its customary to consume them, your indulgences, your disclaimers; these utterances here and there are a world of detail to people like me and other viewers who are equally fascinated with the culture and practices of other people. Sometimes it helps put a lid on our innate excesses and brings neutrality to our shared expectations. Your comments on expenses even though you're a banker sheds more light on the life of the average Norwegian.
    Very few countries have gems like you.
    Although your videos aren't based on Norway as the main point of interest, I have learnt a lot and I do appreciate the time, courage and effort you dedicate to do this.
    Tusen takk, Victoria.
    Jeg elsker videoene dine.
    Elsker fra West Africa ❤️

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for the kind words and support! It makes me so happy to hear that my videos offer so much value to you. It's awesome that you're learning Norwegian, and I really hope you're able to move here. Thanks for watching and being here!

  • @antoniasanker9980
    @antoniasanker9980 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I really love and enjoy your vlogs about your daily life/work. It gives me a calm feeling and makes me excited to get up everyday to live my „normal“ life-because you show me how to romanticise a beautiful normal life. Thats so nice and real.
    But you really don’t need to share or explain everything-you are so Right! Do what feels right to you. I will definetely Watch your Videos because i like the vibe and your Art of Creating something cozy! Wish you all the best :)

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you! I'm so happy that my videos can make you feel that way. It means a lot to know they're having a positive impact😊

  • @clirush
    @clirush วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I can imagine that it is not simple to be on line, susceptible to any kind of criticism or rude comment, and I really wish you to build a community made of respectful and kind people! your vlogs are inspiring and really love to learn more about the Norwegian culture and lifestyle through you! Thanks for sharing ❤

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks! Most comments are nice though, so I will try to focus on the positive 😊

  • @AnggiSahamCantik
    @AnggiSahamCantik วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You are not ugly. I enjoy your vlog a lot 😊

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      haha thank you, but we all have bad days 😂 thanks for watching!

  • @SigneJenson
    @SigneJenson 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love the honesty and you opening up about the hard things with social media. I don’t have enough of an audience to relate, but I can understand what you mean. Just want you to know you have many more people who loves your videos and support you than haters ❤

  • @Susan-l9d
    @Susan-l9d วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I enjoy your videos about your life in Oslo. Would love to see more about the city of Oslo, your favorite places to visit and historical sites. Your local restaurants and cafes you enjoy. The fashion trends in Oslo. The grocery shopping and market you visit. In North Carolina USA we make egg salad with hard boiled eggs, mayonnaise, mustard, minced celery and onion, salt and pepper. ❤

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good suggestions! thank for watching 😊

  • @anngavrilova7249
    @anngavrilova7249 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi Victoria! I totally agree with you, this is your channel and your rules 👍🏻it’s great you made those rules🎉I can’t even imagine how someone can comment your videos without respect or criticism, you seem to be so nice! As for me I watch your videos to practice English and I really like your style in clothes 🥳 please follow you heart in oder not to get a burnout from TH-cam 🥰wish you all the best!!!

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  4 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for the support 🥰

  • @kkdancer999
    @kkdancer999 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love your vlogs!!!! Don’t listen to people that give unhelpful advice - you are awesome and great just the way you are

  • @marie-theresstrauss4636
    @marie-theresstrauss4636 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your channel, you’re such a wonderfully calm and soothing host, I would probably watch you introduce your favorite hardware store in Oslo (using this as an example because I don’t think I enjoy hardware stores in general - I just think you would make them seem cozy and fun!). Looking forward to your next vlog no matter what you decide to share! ❤

  • @rachelwilson9480
    @rachelwilson9480 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Happy to see you back with a new video! Thanks for continuing to post. I always love watching glimpses of life from other countries. You should be super proud of yourself for setting boundaries and sticking with your personal values. I hope your channel continues to be exactly what you want it to be.

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      thank you ❤

  • @karincope3019
    @karincope3019 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I hope that maybe you would share what Christmas looks like in Olso, I love Christmas and the time with family and friends .

    • @jensmith5994
      @jensmith5994 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes I would love this! So cozy!

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love Christmas too! I will probably post Christmas content when the time comes 😊

  • @angelacapogrosso3471
    @angelacapogrosso3471 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hello Victoria,
    I am always looking forward to your videos. I have been planning to visit Olso and Norway for a while so I am so happy when you share how life can be in your country. I would love to see content about food, culture, places to visit. Kisses from Paris

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  4 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      That’s nice to hear! Thank you. Hope you’ll have a great visit 😊

  • @illyjaan
    @illyjaan วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love your channel and your kind and soothing yet fun energy ❤ keep representing Norway and allowing to discover the culture! It’d be lovely to get to see more of Oslo from your POV❤

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ❤

  • @tinaj-m1e
    @tinaj-m1e 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I appreciate all of your thoughts and you are completely right. I hope you continue to create content about Norway the scenery is beautiful and very relaxing and your family dog is just gorgeous. The way you put it across is very relaxing to the audience. Thank you

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, I will definitely continue! Glad you like the content 😊

  • @georgiaantonio5202
    @georgiaantonio5202 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love your daily life/ work day videos. I think most of the TH-camr nowadays just copying each other and so many working content creators as their full time job. But for the ppl who works a 9-5 jobs just can’t relate. I love how your videos down to earth and make normal ppl can relate. Victoria I have been watching your old videos thank god you uploaded today lol.

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, I think the content and general vibe changes when you suddenly do it full time. But nice to hear you enjoy my vlogs! thank you ❤

  • @Vivemavie1
    @Vivemavie1 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dine videoer får meg alltid i et godt humør ❤️ tusen takk 😊

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Det er så fint å høre! Takk for at du ser på 🥰

  • @romanqueen7868
    @romanqueen7868 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    We love your vloggs i love learning about how other ppl live in different parts of the world. Dont let the haters get you down! Id love to see a video trying traditional Norwegian foods, or street foods❤

  • @1marianne
    @1marianne 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love your videos and always look forward to them. I love seeing Oslo, the food you like, the clothes you like--all of it. You have created a calm, cozy, relaxing feel to your videos. I'm sorry some people are so rude. It's hard to understand. I hope you can find a way to block any negative people.

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      So nice to hear that you like my content! I will focus on the positive now, and thanks for the support 😊

  • @mylovelyclementinemylovely904
    @mylovelyclementinemylovely904 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    New subscriber here! Your videos are lovely. I am very thankful for all the creators I subscribe on TH-cam, I get to see a little glimpse of what other parts of the world look like thanks to all the work creators like you make. As humans we tend to feel someone’s life is better than ours, but the reality is that we are all having our own struggles and what see in social media is just a little snippet of the their real life. Many of us are very grateful for your content. Don’t allow others bitterness to second guess what you do! Love from KC💞

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  5 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      That’s so true! Thank you 🥰

  • @sandro_zg
    @sandro_zg 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Do it your way and be unapologetic about it. I think you had been doing a great job so far and your videos really have a slow living energy and make my busy week a bit calmer. I also feel like I wanna have you as a friend and that we would have a great time discussing camera gear and editing. Haters will always be haters and just block them. I hope they don't ruin your experience and you stay on creating more lovley content.

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you, your support means so much! There are so many more nice people than haters, so I'll try to focus on that more ☺ Chatting about camera gear with someone as like-minded as you would be super nice!

  • @maja_01
    @maja_01 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Victoria, I really like your content, calming voice and look forward to see how people do live in Norge. In last video you mentioned that you like to knit, I'm new in crochet and I'm all in to that 😂 at the moment, so it would be nice if you show us your work or some tips 😊 if you fell comfortable.
    Love from Croatia 🤗

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      So nice to hear that you like my content! Thank you 😊 I love knitting, but I'm soo inconsistent with it, haha! I've been knitting on the same sweater for a year now. But it would be nice with some knitting content. I've been learning how to crochet too 😊

  • @Heydrayheyhey
    @Heydrayheyhey 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are so lovely that I can’t imagine anyone making mean comments. Keep being a positive light in the world, love from USA 😊❤

  • @karincope3019
    @karincope3019 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I very much enjoy your Chanel . I live in Falkland BC Canada, it’s in the middle of the province and we get all 4 seasons , my mom’s side is from Norway and I have cousins who live in Norway . You are very enjoyable to watch and I love seeing another kart of the world and how things differ . I really like the different places yiu take us from walks to the grocery store .

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      That sounds nice! thanks for the support ❤

  • @Mymle
    @Mymle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I agree with the topic of sharing on social media. Because some things are supposed to be private and not shared with everyone. I think that’s what’s healthy for most if not all relationships. :)

  • @yukaa739
    @yukaa739 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing your honest feelings with us, I have commented on your vlogs, and I have asked you questions about Norwegian culture, so I hope that did not offend you.I can't believe people who write negative comments, and the fact that they watch your vlogs closely while saying negative things means that such people may actually be your biggest fans.I like your vlogs as they are and everyone here will support you, so please don't just push yourself too hard💛I hope one day you will come to Japan where there are certain things you like and have a great vacation!☺️

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! Asking about Norwegian culture is totally fine 😊 Thanks for the support, and I would love to visit Japan one day!

  • @lorenmelo4615
    @lorenmelo4615 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your content! Do what makes you happy and don’t pay attention to mean comments 😊 Saludos desde Colombia 🇨🇴

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ❤

  • @awxriot
    @awxriot วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I completely agree on the topic of social media! You have a very healthy view on that! Personally, I enjoy watching you because I'm very interested in life in Norway as I'm thinking to maybe move there in the future. Please do what feels right to you ❤

  • @susie467
    @susie467 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I think the rules you've set for yourself are completely reasonable and very wise! I love watching your vlogs, but you feeling happy, safe, and comfortable in your real life is way more important than any video.
    Also, now I really want to try Julebrus...

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks! Haha, I hope'll you get to try it one day 😊

  • @RuebenNomura
    @RuebenNomura 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Morning from Hawaii amazing work on setting Boundaries in this video

  • @aaalbertina
    @aaalbertina 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Victoria, I truly enjoy watching your videos. You seems to be such a lovely young woman. I hope you will continue doing these videos for us. Hope you are doing well and sending you a big hug from Italy. Xx

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      thank you ❤

  • @valerieelisebethcooper83
    @valerieelisebethcooper83 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry if some people have offended you. It's not easy, but try to ignore them. A lot will be jealous, and jealousy is a terrible thing. I am glad you are feeling better. Your videos are very interesting, no matter what you decide to show. Just be your authentic self, that's always the best. If you leave, I will miss you a lot. I hope you decide to stay. Your list is good, keep to it, it's very positive, well done. You know I, too, have Norwegian blood, so I like your videos very much. With love Val. South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @ОленаДоманська-и3х
    @ОленаДоманська-и3х วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've missed your videos. You are so sweet ❤

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @lightblueandyellow3566
    @lightblueandyellow3566 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Vicky, i like your Dress style! As for the topic crisis- for me i prefer nature overview, even on a way to shop or to work))

  • @curlyD93
    @curlyD93 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can't wait to watch! 😁😁

  • @annastayziaa
    @annastayziaa วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your videos 🥹 and you’re so beautiful 🫶🏻

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ❤

  • @oavance8401
    @oavance8401 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @diane_cho
    @diane_cho วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Victoria! All bad comments mean
    your channel is growing! More focus on yourself; those kinds of people are everywhere.
    you have more good subs😉❤
    I always love to watch your videos💕
    btw, I like the vest you are wearing in this video.😍

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's true! Thanks for the support, and thanks for being here 😊

  • @HelloEdith
    @HelloEdith วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s very unfortunate to hear people write these kind of comments on your videos. This judgemental behavior is everywhere on social media, it sadly seems impossible to avoid.
    I’m happy to hear you’re not aspiring to be an influencer - it’s indeed unhealthy and purely related to making profit.
    Despite your doubts I hope you can still enjoy creating videos, as much as we enjoy watching them! :)

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, it's kind of unavoidable to get comments when you post things online, but I'll focus on the positive and try to ignore the negative, so I can keep making videos. Thanks for being here! 🥰

  • @marylou6765
    @marylou6765 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    👍👍👍

  • @Inglinn
    @Inglinn 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Det er kjempekoselig å følge vloggene dine Victoria 🌸 synes du skal være stolt av det du lager og ikke hør på de teite kommentarene om hvordan du skal være. Setter så pris på at du er deg selv og deler noe av livet ditt ☺️ og jeg kan relatere til så mye, alt fra hva du handler til hva du lager 😂 Hilsen ei fra Kristiansand 🌸

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  8 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Tusen takk! Det er veldig hyggelig å høre 😊

  • @mizzmatrix
    @mizzmatrix 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Julebrus can be consumed at any time of year, don't listen to the grumpy Norwegians who complain about Christmas-items getting sold in the stores in October. It's not getting sold earlier every year, it's always in the beginning of October 😂

  • @sofie9340
    @sofie9340 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think I might have been one of those nosy, or weird people in your comments! I only made one comment on your channel and wanted to say that I love it! But I also made a suggestion about how to make it more interesting. I did regret doing it afterwards actually, because what I meant to say is that I love your content, and you are of course free to make your content exactly as you like it! You are definitely right that you don’t have to apologize to anyone! But I still want to say sorry for that, even though you most definitely don’t remember that. Maybe I can also apologize for those other silly people commenting.
    I also did content creation for a while, and I can definitely relate to the self doubt you are feeling. I think it is a very brave thing to do though! And I think it is a very effective way to get to know oneself better - for better or for worse! Maybe you are now facing some of your own insecurities that have surfaced on camera. (Which is not a critique at all, a person can also be over confident).
    Anyways! I still love your channel! Please don’t hide my comments;)

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I think I remember the comment you are referring to, and it was absolutely fine! It's nice to get tips and suggestions. Don't feel bad about that! Thanks for the support ❤

    • @sofie9340
      @sofie9340 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VictoriaSagely ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰 you’re welcome!

  • @miarose9707
    @miarose9707 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Most of your viewers like your videos, is better to focus in the positive: the people who really appreciate what you do in TH-cam. And don’t bother about the negative comments, we can not make everyone to like us and that’s okay; we have to accept it and move on. Also haters are always gonna hate. That’s talking more about how mean they are than about you.

  • @karincope3019
    @karincope3019 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You don’t have to answer to anyone 🌸 you have control of your Chanel . Get rid of the keyboard warriors.

  • @Anamika-v4y
    @Anamika-v4y 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your new subscriber 🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @curlyD93
      @curlyD93 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Welcome! 🌻

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks for subscribing and being here!

  • @RickR5J7
    @RickR5J7 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are being too hard on yourself. Your videos are very enjoyable. Norway is such an intriguing and beautiful country. And you have got me interested in Oat Milk 😆. Keep being you. Thanks for the videos.

    • @VictoriaSagely
      @VictoriaSagely  วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's true, I can be hard on myself. Thank you!

  • @ci25663
    @ci25663 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    First😂

  • @chococream90
    @chococream90 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jeg liker virkelig ærligheten din, Victoria. 😃👍