New Zealand is not what I expected...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.พ. 2023
- Maybe a bit more context to why I came to my conclusions. The past year I have lived in Arctic Norway in a very remote village, which is why moving from there to a 1.7 million city has been a huge step. I noticed a lot of negativity towards me on this video which surprised me as I tried to emphasize that this story about Auckland CBD (which I might not have been clear enough about) is completely based on my own experience, and therefore it is understandable that other people might experience it in another way. Not everybody likes or connects with the same kind of things which is something completely normal and humane, so please don't attack me for that. I love to be here on TH-cam to share stories and to hopefully inspire, creating a positive and meaningful community and connect with you guys. If you do not agree or like what I am saying that is no problem at all, but then please just click away without being horrible in the comment section. I am thankful for every one that is here and it was never my intention to spread any negativity, so I hope you won't too 💛
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I have lived in Taranaki for 20 years. Am set to retire from high school teaching next month. God Bless New Zealand. What a blessing to have moved here.
Taranaki has been our favourite region in the North Island, completely breathtaking 💚!
So glad you love YOUR country of choice. I was born here. Pretty cool place eh..hope you have a fantastic retirement 😀
Thank U,gud stuff..ya kiwi
Yes Auckland is not the place for people who like isolation lol. I don't understand though why you would let it affect your mood so much when you know it is for such a short time. It is probably just the fact that you have to go to work. Anyone is going to love and look forward to holiday time more than work time.
I'm a former Aucklander who lives in the Nelson Tasman region and regularly goes to places like the Abel Tasman National Park and goes boating on the Nelson Lakes, etc. You would have to pay me a LOT of money to return to Auckland. Two aspects of Auckland are great though. Firstly, the Waitakere Ranges, and the West Coast beaches, both above and below the Manukau Harbour. Secondly, for those who have a larger launch or yacht, going on holiday out on the Hauraki Gulf, and staying at the various islands, etc. is just a wonderful experience. I'm sorry that you got some negative feedback, because you were just being honest about your feelings. Peace!
As a proud JAFA I'm surprised by how naive some people are. Auckland is a city, warts and all and Waiheke is a rural island. Any attempt to compare them and even get "butt hurt" is silly. Meanwhile, the Ukrainian people do have something to actually cry about. LOL
Well you can blame america and nato for that, fcuk zelensky and his american puppets.. How many other places have they destabilized for there oqn gain over the years, would america let russia/china/nth korea set up bases in mexico or canada?? So why should they, up the mighty waikato
I don't like Auckland.
I really like the South Island.
I agree that Auckland can be hard to adjust to if you have a spirit that prefers wild places. Don’t worry. Be patient. You are wise to want to appreciate what you can about where you are now, but once you start exploring, New Zealand is an awesome, magical place filled with wonder and beauty and kind people. Sadly, many parts of the north island have recently endured terrible weather events so you may be feeling the psychic and visual impact of that as you travel. You will probably enjoy the South Island a bit more as it is more temperate and less populated…but there is beauty everywhere if you can open to it. You will find the places where you can feel more yourself in New Zealand, it just may take a little more time to adjust. If you are sensitive to the magnetic pull of the northern hemisphere, it is sometimes quite disorienting and unsettling to switch to the south-pole magnetic orientation….I had a lot of trouble with that, but eventually you figure it out and learn to compensate. Enjoy your adventure, There is much magic there!
There is beauty everywhere if you open to it.. you couldn't be more right 💚 Thank you for your beautiful comment
I totally LOVED Auckland! in fact, I stayed there for 10 days of my 5 week long holiday, back in Feb/March 1990-was 21 back then, time flies! I would very much like to return to NZ, and perhaps explore the South Island a bit more. I made it as far south as Picton, did some tramping in the Abel Tasman National Park-but I`ve learnt since then that there are other, far more beautiful national parks further south. Kia Ora from Oslo, Norway.
My husband is from Auckland and HATES going there. As soon as we come over the Bombays he gets road ragey and uptight. LOL
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I have to agree with you about Auckland having lived in the bottom of the North Island and top of the South Island and although having been to Auckland many times, I avoid going there unless I have to. The South Island is more relaxing and has the best scenery in New Zealand and is the most laid back.
Wow this girl moans alot. Every country has big cities. You have to take good with the bad. NZ is a small beautiful country but if you want large open spaces maybe you should have gone to the Australian Outback
I think you are being too hard on her.
This platform is all about her, the contributor, and us, the listeners - both learning from each other.
I would rather have contributors being open and real about their experiences.
It is good to see that she can reflect and know and want to make the most of her time in Auckland regardless.
She doesn't like Auckland, and that should be fine.
And surely, even if she doesn't like the whole of NZ at the end of her trip, I will remind myself not to be defensive. Maybe a little sad and sorry if she did not enjoy the country that I love, but at the end of the day, that has to be fine as well.
It is only her opinion and nothing more, nothing less.
Bruv she don't like auckland and so doesn't most of nz🤷🏽♂️ get over it lol
Auckland is a vile place. I go there for 1 week every summer to stay with a cousin and I always leave feeling jangled, out of sync and spiritually fractured. Each time I say to myself "never going there again!" LOL I live in a small rural town in Hawkes Bay, close to beaches, hiking, fishing and NO traffic lights! I also need nature and isolation which you will find south of Auckland. Don't judge the rest of NZ by Auckland. It's only 1 small part of our stunning country. 😍
You are completely right, and the rest of New Zealand has been truly stunning! 💛
I'm from Christchurch and spent 26 of my 32 years living in Chch and Invercargill and I felt the exact same feeling of being stuck my whole adult life there. It's a strange feeling but it is offset by the most incredible nature and the ease of access to it. It's been 3 years now and I only miss the wild.
Please don’t feel bad or self-conscious about disliking Auckland - you’re not alone.
I grew up in Auckland and never liked it much. It’s huge, it sprawls and has awful traffic. And yes, it’s humid in summer and clammy in winter - not cold enough for many frosts.
It’s good for sailing, if you’re into that. There are also some nice beaches on the west coast.
We now live in the central North Island, near Mt Ruapehu (which has just had its first snow for the year, in March). It’s very isolated and where we are, it’s 90 or more minutes’ drive to a big town or city.
Auckland isn’t representative of New Zealand. I’ve not been to Dunedin, but have been to most of the other cities and Auckland is one of the least appealing locations for me. (The one city I may dislike more is Rotorua.)
Living about an hour out of Auckland, in a small town or village, is much more pleasant - and if you need the city for something, it’s not too far away.
We’re very isolated here and although I love that, it’s also got its downside. Every location has its plusses and minuses, but I can honestly say that I hope never to live in that city again.
Head south and I’m sure you’ll feel more at home. Good luck!
This is such a lovely comment, and you must have a wonderful home! 🍀
@@walkingoffthebeatenpath We can see snow on a glacier from our house all year round. Constant isolation can get hard, though.
@@walkingoffthebeatenpath I’ve forwarded your channel to a friend who is living in the South Island on a house bus with her daughter - maybe she’ll be able to give you some helpful information, based on her experiences: places she recommends, etc …
I grew up in Auckland and I do not miss it. It has all the downsides of a small town (not much to do, everything closes early, lack of opportunities, disconnected from the world) and a big city (cost, traffic, people, arrorance). NZ is meant to be experienced in close proximity to nature.
I'm a South island coaster and can totally agree with you about Auckland. Hope you make it down here and enjoy it.
Check out the coast but go all the way to karamea past Westport. Absolutely beautiful from greymouth to karamea ❤️
Thank you for the tip Michelle! 💚
Auckland is a horrible horrible place . I've lived here since 1966 and it just gets worse. It only appeals to vapid consumers who entertain themselves by shopping.
Since 1990 I live in the rural fringe and only got to the city to do jobs and get out of the place as quickly as possible.
I'm moving home to Dunedin from Melbourne. I've lived here in Melbourne for over a decade, I've lived in London & Wellington too. I feel happiest in Dunedin. Those other cities are nice to visit, but don't feel like home. And I miss the night sky down there with the clear air
The last half of March is the best time for a Beach tour, wild food harvest, honesty stalls, farmers markets.
South Island has a drier Summer.
A long-time resident in New Zealand, I share your strong dislike of Auckland. To judge Aotearoa on the home of a third of the population is a travesty. Head south, head out of town, go wild and you will be amazed. The real Aotearoa is in Te Wai Pounamu, the South Island, in areas such as Nelson, the West Coast, Inland Canterbury, the Southland coast and Rakiura. 🙂🙂
Lol the opposite here, really like to get back to living in Auckland. It feels right and so good for me. Laurie 😢😢😢😢
Sad that you dislike NZ so much!
? I was saying the opposite actually, how much I like Auckland. 🎉
Yeah... Auckland is barely NZ. The good thing about it here is that the vibe in each region (Far North, Hawkes Bay, Taranaki, Central, Wararapa, Horophenua, Tasman, West Coast, Otago, etc) are all very different.
Correct AUCKLAND IS NOT NEW. ZEALAND ANYMORE
Thank you for sharing, Auckand has lovely beaches and gardens, but is very spread out.I dont like the traffic.
I am from beautiful Taranaki and have lived in Welington for many years now, I live 10 minutes from town but on the edge of the bush and near the skyline walkways the best of both worlds, love the compact walkable city and waterfront.You can escape the city very easily here.Also the wild nature of the coast, which Taranaki also has missing taku maunga/ my mountain at the moment as Taranaki is also my home.Enjoy your journey it sounds fab.
Thanks for the insight, we lived in Auckland as well but things didn't work out so we came back to the UK, we regret moving back here and are moving back to NZ again in 2026!!
we have emigrated 4 time already so this will probably be the last one to NZ.
Never look back at your decisions!
DON'T settle back in Dorkland! Head south!!
West coast of auckland has a lot of beaty on offer - but I agree, I grew up there and spent most of my life there and I don't get a good feeling being there either. I now live overseas, and whenever I go home I remember why I left.
Saying that, it's still a much better city to live in comparison to many other places I have been (and even lived!)
Don't feel bad. Nobody likes living in or visiting Auckland! Make sure to get a Department of Conservation (DOC) membership. DOC camps are excellent quality and a bit more off the beaten track. It is also helpful as some places in New Zealand can be quite strict with their rules around where you can park and sleep. NZMCA (NZ Motor Caravan Association) membership is useful and there are some good camps as well, but they can be quite busy.
Thank you for the tips! 💚
Don't worry about it too much. New Zealand is a nice enough place but it's certainly not for everyone. An awful lot of us left .... I hope you do get to enjoy the nature and have an amazing time while you're there!
Auckland is not just the CBD. Waiheke is part of Auckland, so is Piha, Maraitai, Waiwera…a huge area that includes nature that’s beautiful and majestic. Perhaps a busy work-focus life allows you little time to explore or appreciate it’s diversity. Even someone who’s working in the CBD of Christchurch or Dunedin would look forward to holidays and getting away from the mundane. Summer can be hot and sticky anywhere, great for a swim in the beautiful water. Don’t think so much about regrets, live the moment, see the sunrise, breathe and feel alive now.. all the best.
You are completely right! Thank you for your comment 💚 there is indeed magic in every corner that is worthy to be absorbed & embraced
Hey I live in Auckland and I totally understand your view...
Your best experience will be found out of the city.
Hope you get to experience the rest of the country
I was born and lived for 24 years in the South Island, mainly in South Canterbury. I have lived in Auckland for 15 years, mainly around the shores of the Manukau including Titirangi. I think the shoreline from Mangere to Muriwai is one of Aotearoa's true gems.
Which part of NZ is Aotearoa?
@@robert3987 all of it Aotearoa is the Maori word for NZ. Eventually it will be the country’s name.
@@robertwalker1079 are you Maori?
@@robert3987 no
Will Auckland become Tāmaki Makaurau?
Hey i'm a born and bred New Zealander and i don't like Auckland either 😊actually i don't like cities because they are too crowded i live in Masterton where you can spread your arms out wide and not touch anyone i prefer the countryside more than crowded tourist destinations 😅
Obviously some people actually like living in Auck. But I for one - would never...!
NZ has a unique beauty of its own. I hope you find what you are looking for.
Thanks for giving us your thoughts in this video 🥰
Thank you! 💚 I have seen so many beautiful places here in New Zealand, it is truly magical ..
Hi I hope your 4wd vehicle is ok after all the flooding?😂
Yes luckily all good!
Try Dunedin a city of about 120, 000 but so close to nature.
Did you visit the west coast of the north Island . West of Auckland, Piha , Kare Kare . I use to live in Auckland many years ago and would regularly visit the west coast of the Auckland area which is very rugged , wild and beautiful. I hope you did see this lovely treasure .
It had big waves and black ( or dark brown ) volcanic sand which could singe yourfeet if it got to hot . The veru first time I ever visited it I remember people sprinting across the sand , even quite elderly and I thought tgese kiwis are really fit the way they run around on the beach so quickly .
Then went I took off my flip flops on put my feet in the sand Wow thats hot , and then understood the olympian sprinters on the beach were just trying to avoid blisters 😂
The way was to get as close as possible to the water tgen take of the footwear a d dash for the water hoping the waves would not swallow up the flip flops. It was very very beautiful. You had to sain where the life guards were fir safety.
But on a late afternoon with the sunbeams passing through the waves which would collapse into milloions of bubbles , sometimes it felt like floating in a bath of sparkling champagne.
North and South island I understand the west coast is spectacular.
Also being the west , its the side the sun sets so it can have beautiful, gorgeous very colourful sunset .
A thing to look out for that yiu could occasionally see is the early evening of a beautiful sunset , if there were waves sometimes there was a spray off the wave which went upwards vertically and for brief seconds it could be possible to see rainbows flash theough the spray. It was very difficult to photograph since it would be over in a flash . I know this is not peculiar just to NZ . Anywhere where the sun goes down into the water if there are waves , one might be able to see flashes of rainbows.
I do really hope you found what you hooed to when you went to the south.
Yes Auckland is very urban but its goid to know where to go to to find some peace and solitude .
I wish you great joy and happiness in your continued adventures. 😊
Come to Wellington it’s so beautiful with mountains everywhere u can even go hicking and everything Auckland just to flat in my opinion if ur looking for outdoors with a big city come to Wellington you wil love it
I understand how you feel trapped in the city, it isn’t good for anyone long term. You’re lucky you can travel soon ❤ Don’t come to Australia if you don’t like the humidity 😂
Haha I thought the same 😂 Australia must be breathtaking though!
@@walkingoffthebeatenpathThey have cities larger than Auckland and creepy crawlies so probably not for you.
Depending were in Australia 🇦🇺. Coastal Australia humidity.
Inland no humidity.
Check out the Driving Creek Railway in the coromandel 🔥
Keep up the honesty. Auckland is a rat race, but has some nice spots. Different world down south. But having some patience, and experiencing both parts of kiwi land , the cities and outback, means you can really get what life is like Dow n under.
I been to Auckland a few times I land have never liked it every one in Auckland is rude and annoying… went to catch the buss around Auckland city waved to the bus driver to stop he just drove past and gave me the finger worst 1st day experience I ever had… ever since then I never went back my partner lives in Auckland and now we both living life in Wellington happy as we could ever be I love Wellington 😅😊
Oh that sounds like a terrible experience..!
Happy you found your place 💚
Hey, Lady ... you don't like Auckland? So who, other than Aucklanders, does?
I was raised in a suburb of Auckland and after pensioning years of navy service moved to Invercargill, which is simultaneously a step back in time and a giant leap forwards. As an Aucklander I can (and do) say with a clear conscience "Stuff Auckland!"
Now that I'm living in England I am saving hard to get back to Auckland, then promptly to Invercargill ... my next move from there will be to a nice snug grave. Invercargill is described by some visitors as the anus of nowhere, for which I have to (and I do, trust me) pity them. Immensely.
(Actually, just north of Invercargill, a wee town called Winton.)
To each their own ...
just be happy and for that you have to pay your dues there are so many things to do just outside Auckland. Sorry I find this a very whinny post.
Alot of kiwis don't like Auckland too,your not alone on that 1...
Your statement is totally understandable, as Auckland is not for everyone's cup of a tea. Even many Kiwis don't like Auckland very much due to many reasons. It takes awhile to adjust being in Auckland. I was also finding it hard to adjust in Auckland, and took me 5 years finally to feel being part of the Auckland community. I was living in Wellington for over 15 years, I loved the multi culture City, and close knitted community, as small City as Wellington. I found people in Wellington are far nicer, smarter and more presentable, and kinder than Auckland people. Whereas Auckland, it is multicultural City but I found too many people also less kinder, selfish, ruthless, back-stabber, thieves, ignorant and arrogant. Also what I found in some little cities, like East and West Auckland which majority are Islanders are somewhat dirty, they tend to have a bad lazy habit in littering rubbish where ever they are, that's kind of what annoying me the most. Many times I literally had to pick up the left behind plastic cups, plastic bottles, burger casing and threw them in the rubbish from the public places such as in the Bus stations or Train stations. I don't understand how people are so dumb, and ignorant to just doing simple task like cleaning their own mess. I have nothing against the Islanders or being racist, because I have good amount of good Islander friends too, but to what I know and what I have experience to my own eyes, they are very dirty, very lazy and untidy. Personally I don't like Auckland that much myself if it's not for work. I like being in the nature more, but I am lucky enough to live in the nature woody area of Auckland. I love South Island better, since I've lived in few Cities there before, and visited all places down there.
Oml, us ISLANDERS are definitely NOT all very lazy,very dirty!!! & untidy!!! Unbelievable I live in West Auckland & am absolutely flabbergasted by your statements to say the least!!! Your entitled to your opinion & you say your not a racist!!! I suggest you read what you’ve written & put out into the universe🤬😡
@@bellamatapo7005 Exactly! Making negative generalisations about people, because they think they look like "Pacific Islanders", is racist. The person that wrote that bunch of rubbish thinks they can excuse their own bigotry just by declaring they are not racist but they are not going to convince me.
There's nothing wrong with criticism. (I've yet to complete watching the video.)
Yeah, Auckland's not that great. The trouble with Auckland and the tendency in New Zealand, also Australia, is that they're built on the American city model. They're worse fir that of course.
Hope you find what you want and that New Zealand has qualities you like and find contentment here.
I'm a Maori. I don't like Auckland either. Most kiwis I know don't like big cities.
The rest of New Zealand would agree with a lot with what you say actually
You can have my house in the United States if you can arrange for me to move to New Zealand and live there the rest of my life.
I wouldn't complain about New Zealand. American cities have people living in tents on the sidewalk because the government takes bribes and allows corporations to pay employees less than it costs to rent the crappiest apartment in the city where they work. Monopolists want to pay less and raise prices until no one can afford to buy their products. Then they move to Dubai or New Zealand to get away from the hell they have created here. The offer of the house is real if you know anyone in immigration there.
I live in Auckland. I hate the city But i live in thw Waitakete Ranges. I lived in London for 3.5 years and i hated it BUt i made the efforr to get out n about in the country on weekends. Auckland city cebtre is an eye sore and damn road works and other things going on.
The South Island is mile’s better than the North and I grew up in the Waikato in an awesome Town called Te Aroha but I served my time in the Army in Burnham and it’s a thousand times better than the north 🔥
I couldn’t agree more about Auckland. I have lived there most of my life but now live overseas. I don’t miss Auckland at all. The only good aspect of the city is being out on the harbour.
The problem with Auckland is it's full of JAFA's. Hate the place along with that mini dorkland Queenstown.
I remember Queenstown from the 1960's. I hate what it has become.
Good video! I would never criticise you or anyone because you didn't find things favourable.
New Zealand's had terrible damage to it's wildlife of all sorts from the wholesale destruction from those settler days. A third of bush was destroyed by Maori and some extinctions , but European settlers did at least twice as much in terms of the forrest. Especially from the "New Zealand Company," a bunch of thugs from the UK. Also from introduced exotic pests of all sorts as well. A real assault.
As a Kiwi i can fully agree, Aucklands shit lol. Too many people, too much concrete, everyones in a hurry. Aucklands almost a different country to the rest of NZ. But imho the real NZ begins and ends at the bombay hills or Warkworth. Sorry Jaffas but its true =P
Title triggered me not a fan of anyone disrespecting our country but I watched it all read what you stated so I get what your saying for future reference be wise about how you say things if you don't want to offend people yea Auckland is a sht hole
Well, people must open to criticism especially when it's based on fact. If you get offended to everything what people said, obviously you won't live that far, that's for sure.
The "word" that you cant step over is "work." Pay your way...socialites!
Auckland is just awful - far too many people. Come to the South Island you'll love it here!
The south has been AMAZING! 💛
nobody likes Auckland, so don't worry. come down to the mainland!
, we are much friendlier
😂😂😂 if you think NZ is humid don’t go to Queensland or Asia 😂😂😂
New Zealand is world class when it comes to beaches, rainforests and mountains but it's cities?, yeah, not so much
Wellington and Auckland are soul sucking crapholes but don't let it put you off the whole country
I won't! I have been here for a few months now and this country is truly magical, wild & stunning 💙
The only thing I enjoy about Auckland is flying out. Downtown Auckland is quite good, but the rest 😴
Yep. Auckland is a bit soulless
yes, I agreed mate!
My question is this, if any foreigner came here and say bad things about my beloving NZ, why are you here. This is how we lived since adam and eve. If you dont like it, leave. Thankyou.
DUFFUS
Auckland is a very drab boring city. I never go into the city at all, no interest in it.
I’m a kiwi that was born in Pukekohe, have lived all over the South Island and upper half of the North Island.
Work, make friends, and explore out of Auckland on weekends and short holidays.
The biggest city in the country seems like a bad choice if you don't like cities you could have easily worked on a farm....and you obviously haven't seen Auckland and the comment below will tell you why.
Been saying the same thing since I was in Sydney in early 70s, Auckland is mini Sydney yuck to both, love Wellington
You got a lot of growing up to do ..........
Auckland is a Rich mans heaven...everything is over priced....
one of my retirement plans is Cebu.
try living in metro manila and you will definitely appreciate wherever you are in the world 😂
Auckland sucks, and I'm from there.
But everywhere else is fantastic.
We have been driving down towards the South Island and we have indeed been loving it! New Zealand is such a diverse country, it has its own magic
Hi OP.
Welcome to NZ. I hope most of your time here is wonderful.
You say you are travelling in a truck. I'm not sure what you mean by that description. I hope you have looked carefully at the rules regarding self containment, for toilets and waste-water, if you intend to freedom camp.
Most of us welcome overseas visitors but we can get pretty grumpy with anyone (including domestic travellers) who ignores these rules.
The South Island is spectacular but there are also myriad places of natural beauty in the North. You just have to look a little harder. Have fun!
@@justjane805 we are complying with the self-containment rules in our van (I called it a truck because it looks a bit like a mini -truck🙂). We are extreme nature people and live as much in harmony with our surroundings as possible ! 💚
Ah Auckland the kiwis there are up em selves lol,South island iz way better wellington iz good too.I hope my country and people hold true to our values kind and loving and welcoming n helpful,NZ iz a beautiful country scenery wise and isolated,But every place comes with it'z bad,Should get some kayaks and go coastal kayaking find a nice spot and camp up on a isolated beach it'z magic,Heapz of fishing n hunting so you can live off the land,Hope you are enjoying NZ
Don`t worry, if you will traveling thru another parts of NZ, you'll surprised. Auckland, forget it. I was 6 times in NZ, I swooped my camper van and as soon as possible driving away. In my eyes, NZ is the most beautiful country of the world. Enjoy your stay in NZ.
Thank you Fritz! We have indeed been to so many breathtaking places already! NZ is truly something special! 😊
I'm really pleased to read it. Have fun and good luck in NZ.😃
Am planning on coming there for a month or 2 weeks. Any tip please?