This really hit home. My husband started lecturing my 21 year old daughter when she had the rare occasion to visit for dinner over summer break. He was so pushy and long winded with his agenda about butter and saturated fats. He was so dogmatic to her (she’s a nutrition major) and told her she needs to learn how to debate. She left immediately after dinner because she said he was picking a fight and he does this every time she visits. I approached him after she left and he flipped out actually telling me he handled her well and called my 15 year old into the room screaming at her to choose who started the fight. She was hysterical crying, and said she didn’t want to choose sides. Then he called my daughter that had left yelling at her to say who started the argument, she told him it was him. This was 3 weeks ago, no apology, no remorse and I specifically asked him the day after it happened to make things right with my girls, I guess it’s not important to him, so he pretends it never happened. Theirs always a period of withdrawal and silence for punishment if I ever bring up anything he might be at fault for. This is a horrible marriage.
That's called narcissism.... read up on it / or youtube it... the cycles are soooooo predictable it actually becomes hilarious.. This is not to downplay the hurt you and your girls have gone through but it helps to know what you're up against... All the best
This is the type of behavior I’ve experienced too. I’ll try to bring things up to help him see the wrong and inevitably get bulldozed. Everything is then my fault even though I know it’s not true.
that works if they are not just saying they are a Christian. Mine used to scream at me when I tried to tell him nicely that he was perhaps wrong that I was not being a submissive wife. And then proceed to tell the children that I was f'in crazy. exact words.
You have just described exactly what I am going through. Struggling as now my child has taken his side even though he abused her and sadly I was too afraid and blinded to not do anything about it. The guilt that I feel is beyond words and I struggle to understand how to get past this period I continue to stay in prayer I continue to ask the Lord for help and I feel broken used and worthless I know that I'm not and I know that He has a plan Thank you for all your who I am grateful for your words and interventions. #nolongerstrugglinginoklahoma
Hi Leslie. I wish I could have been stronger when my kids were still in the home(they are adults now). My two sons are his step kids. He was very cruel and CPS was called and he to this day blames my then 13 year old. I wish I would had found you then. I'm trying to leave well still. Thank you.
I have a child from a previous relationship. My husband came into our lives when he was 12. He has been verbally and emotionally abusive to my son and when I stand up for him, he is verbally and emotionally abusive to me. Even after talking to my husband in a good manner, he has not changed and it got worse. My son is 22 now and went through a period of depression and came home. He also lost his job during COVID. My husband made things so unbearable. He started acting out, going out partying on his own, fighting and nagging at home and eventually kicked my son out.
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This really hit home. My husband started lecturing my 21 year old daughter when she had the rare occasion to visit for dinner over summer break. He was so pushy and long winded with his agenda about butter and saturated fats. He was so dogmatic to her (she’s a nutrition major) and told her she needs to learn how to debate. She left immediately after dinner because she said he was picking a fight and he does this every time she visits. I approached him after she left and he flipped out actually telling me he handled her well and called my 15 year old into the room screaming at her to choose who started the fight. She was hysterical crying, and said she didn’t want to choose sides. Then he called my daughter that had left yelling at her to say who started the argument, she told him it was him. This was 3 weeks ago, no apology, no remorse and I specifically asked him the day after it happened to make things right with my girls, I guess it’s not important to him, so he pretends it never happened. Theirs always a period of withdrawal and silence for punishment if I ever bring up anything he might be at fault for. This is a horrible marriage.
im afraid it epidemic and they are all reading the same book!
That's called narcissism.... read up on it / or youtube it... the cycles are soooooo predictable it actually becomes hilarious.. This is not to downplay the hurt you and your girls have gone through but it helps to know what you're up against...
All the best
I am so sorry ☹️. Your poor daughter will never want to come home
U deserve better.....
This is the type of behavior I’ve experienced too. I’ll try to bring things up to help him see the wrong and inevitably get bulldozed. Everything is then my fault even though I know it’s not true.
that works if they are not just saying they are a Christian. Mine used to scream at me when I tried to tell him nicely that he was perhaps wrong that I was not being a submissive wife. And then proceed to tell the children that I was f'in crazy. exact words.
thanks maureen, mine always blamed me for every. little.thing.
my estranged husband blamed me for everything the kids did...smudges on the wall, stains on the carpet, lost glasses....
@@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic I know exactly what you are going through..same story
You have just described exactly what I am going through. Struggling as now my child has taken his side even though he abused her and sadly I was too afraid and blinded to not do anything about it. The guilt that I feel is beyond words and I struggle to understand how to get past this period I continue to stay in prayer I continue to ask the Lord for help and I feel broken used and worthless I know that I'm not and I know that He has a plan Thank you for all your who I am grateful for your words and interventions. #nolongerstrugglinginoklahoma
Hi Leslie. I wish I could have been stronger when my kids were still in the home(they are adults now). My two sons are his step kids. He was very cruel and CPS was called and he to this day blames my then 13 year old. I wish I would had found you then. I'm trying to leave well still. Thank you.
I have a child from a previous relationship. My husband came into our lives when he was 12. He has been verbally and emotionally abusive to my son and when I stand up for him, he is verbally and emotionally abusive to me. Even after talking to my husband in a good manner, he has not changed and it got worse. My son is 22 now and went through a period of depression and came home. He also lost his job during COVID. My husband made things so unbearable. He started acting out, going out partying on his own, fighting and nagging at home and eventually kicked my son out.
Great one!!!
R Felix my sista from another mista!🥰