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Exactly. Notice she says he was very attractive. She does the same thing to every guy she is not attracted to. I had a bitch leave me int he movie theater so never feel sorry for these women.
He misjudged you on the app filters are a MF. Once he saw her he did what most of us would do when lied to. Nobody’s exempt women do it to simps everyday.
@@tenitarichards3203 listen, you do you! If you feel more empowered by holding a door open, then go for it. Don’t make this about me. I just explained the difference. Good day.
@@pimpmyride7278 baby this wasn’t about you. This was about the ignorance of some men out here. Now, if you feel like it applies to you than that would be on you, and I hope you have a better day.
I legit met a chick off a site and when I saw her I was not attracted and I just bounced and left her there. She didn’t look like her pics and she was covered in glitter. Hard Pass.
Come on now! She was clearly using filters for her size and face. She figured she could wow him with her personality and her degree. Not gonna happen, he wasn't falling for the okey doke lol!
@@amyjusttarot1115 Yeah those are nearly pictures from years ago! That might be the lockdown weight a lot of women put on when we couldn't go nowhere and have been struggling to get it off🤷♂
You don't have to be interested, but no need to act like a child and communicate like an adult ... have the respect to talk to her and let her know you are not interested
Women might not have to deal with instadating if they wasnt always trying to fool us in the pictures. Also bro, even video calls only help but so much. I met a chick that did her make up to look exactly like who she was catfishing as.
Key word the first girl said: “I met a nice attractive man”. She only stuck around because she knew she was out of his league and hoped he would at least give her a chance. But If it was a “cornball” guy she deemed unattractive, she would’ve pulled off. That’s how it goes ma’am.
Your young enough to be my child but for the love of God this younger crew needs help I really want to help them sad to say I’m old school and grateful ❤😂
That’s crazy I’m a 80’s baby we don’t operate like that all my dates are normally 1 to 4 hours long I never been dubbed on a date or I was the catfish 😮
Same!! This generation just move different glad we didn't have to go through this. Idk if u heard this Eminem verse he rapped: "I rather be 50 yr old me than 20 yr old you!" It was from his killshot album! 😂😂😂
A lot of women look completely different in person compared to their photos. They hide many things in their posts that are revealed in person. Some things are non-negotiable that you can only find out seeing/meeting that person.
Wow , Jr is 40 years old , he looks very 😊 good to be fourty , not that 40 is old , but you can tell he has taken great care of himself 🙌 and that's what's up 🙏
Today people are very rude. There is no shame in people dating game. When men and women don’t teach their younger people how to communicate and show the art of being a lady or gentleman the outcome is arrogant, selfish, mean and ignorant behavior.
She wasted his time too. So much so that it wasn't worth his time to speak. She probably has filters on her page and showed up looking like someone completely different. Then she says "I have like crazy high standards but like that was the like the bare minimum". Well, same thing applies to him. Also, this is just her side of the story. We have not heard from his side.
I never heard of that term, instant dating, until now, honestly if anyone ever suggested that option to me, that would be the end of the conversation. That's crazy.
Instant dating is not new. The only difference was back in the day people met up at a designated location. The people would talk for five minutes if they didn’t feel each other they moved to the next person in the room
The first lady who went on that date with the guy should've seen the signs of the guy not liking what he saw. She probably dodged a bad situation by him not liking her.
Ok Dexter Jackson! Lol! Girls like this want something real but everything about her is fake! She catfished that dude! Look at the video thumbnail and both are her! They don't look the same do they? Two words: catfish artist!
He Did Nothing Wrong She Didn’t Dodge Anything.. Why Try To Paint The Man As Some Type Of Bad Guy.. Lol.. She Did That To Herself Sure She Got Her Feelings Hurt That Sucks But It’s Her Fault..
😂😂..she is so delusional..she keeps saying her car , and overrated herself..😂😂😂BOOm the the dude is a bad guy ....I love that dude he represented men so well
He saw her WITHOUT the filters and without the waist trainer and said HELL NAW...she don't look nothing like she did in her pics....come on my G. I APPLAUD this man. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥💯
He was purposely rejecting her from the time he pulled up and saw her in the car but her ego wouldn't recieve the message so she was butt hurt about it. I don't think he had to be blatantly rude about the whole thing but the world doesn't owe you understanding. Some people lack couth and are deliberately crass 💁🏾♂️. They both came off socially awkward in this story to me...
I thought the same, but the woman at 06:34 explained what instant dating was - if you dont like the person, you ignore them. He told her that he was going to do an instant date, so this was par for the course. I'm far too old (nearly 40) and have been with my wife for nearly 26 years, so this all sounds crazy to me, but he played by the rules.
😂😂😂😂😂 Yoooooooo u do not have da right or any understanding of the situation to say oh he's wrong however let's all give our opinions there's nothing wrong with that opinions r the same as an asshole everyone on da planet has 1 no1 in this world 🌎 😉 or any sane mind individual would waste months of there life and travel to u and break out in an uncontrollable and insane laughter unless she deceived him like 90 % of these women with these damn lying ass photo filters 😂😂😂😂😂 they b erasing all the bumps on face , slim the picture , make them selves 3 shades lighter, bro probably walked back and forth past her 40x like yoooooooo he probably walked to bathroom 🚻 hid in the corner peeking called her phone heard seen her look at and or answered niggah said WTF HELL NO then walked right past her feeling for shit as if he were blind smooth out da door 💯 % all facts 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I've been got like that 4x and that's exactly what I did all 4x my brothers
She can't even be certain that he recognized her because she DID NOT SPEAK TO HIM. She didn't even ask if he was the person she was looking for. What if that dude wears glasses. She walked by him knowing it was him. She's the rude one.
Why do they have a problem with that.... its obvious that the person that get rejected was cat fishing n don't look like their pictures what they want the non cat fisher to do talk to them?!?🤨 😂😂😂
This sounds like a case of false angles. She is not ugly by any means, but her girth is measured with a rope. If you are going to be on dating apps, show what you really look like. It's deception when you don't. And this man was respectful enough to not blatantly hurt her feelings. I salute him. He could have done some damage, but he chose to be polite.
I remember back in the day they had speed dating over the phone . You meet her girls they never look like their photos or what they describe to you . Right away i would say I’m not interested. They would plead with me to tell them why I’m not interested . Once I tell them they cry over I hurt their feelings. The best approach is to walk away
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Jrwisdom, she catfished him! Plain and simple! She dont look the same as her pictures
Funny thing is women do the same thing when they don't Find a man attractive
Facts
I AGREE 👍💯
Or run his pockets
It's only a problem when it happens to them. 😅😅😅😅😅
Facts but they cry and complain when we do it to them…
He didn't like what he saw. It's that simple. And the funny part is the woman thought she did something because she left. He wanted her to leave.
😂
He didn’t like her looks he didn’t have to do her that way either nice don’t cost anything but he don’t owe her anything either 🤷🏿♂️
😮women do that all the time. He didnt like her look
That was so rude of him. A respectful man would at least buy her drink. Just never get back with her on line.
@@Darlene528men don't waste time with women they're not feeling.
Come on ya’ll, there are nicer ways to let people down without being the rudest a**hole out here❣️.
Women have been doing this to men for decades...
She went after the hot guy that every other girl was going after online and she got rejected. Its probably better for her.
Exactly. Notice she says he was very attractive. She does the same thing to every guy she is not attracted to. I had a bitch leave me int he movie theater so never feel sorry for these women.
Sis is a thickems; Cuz didn’t want her.. It happens
Her pictures were probably 40lbs lighter, then reality.
Watch the vid again they show 1 pic of her and yes she looks thinner in them and she was using filters as well. 😅
He misjudged you on the app filters are a MF. Once he saw her he did what most of us would do when lied to. Nobody’s exempt women do it to simps everyday.
There was one filtered pic. The rest were some mild makeup pics.
She's attractive tho😘
Literally my exact thoughts… cat fishes she prolly used older pics also
@@ericgalarza4732 To you. To me she a one nighter.
@@ericgalarza4732nah look at her actual page
Many guys get treated like this 24 hours aday, 7 days a weak, 30 to 31 days a month, 12 months a year. 10 years a decade. It goes on and on!
Not once did I hear her say she went over and called his name? But she went outside to send a message...🙃 ridiculous..
Yeah maybe he didn’t recognize her
I thought she supposed to make the move is it seems so with this app.
Women think they are the only one who can do the rejecting
Exactly. They can dish it but can’t take it.
Sure you right. That is why I laugh when it happens to them and they cry about it.
I don’t believe he closed the door in her face. He just didn’t hold it open. There is a difference.
You know how women Exaggerate things and make it more than what it wasn't.
😂😂😂😂
Stop it…there was still a person behind him walking in. Why be ignorant and they did nothing to you off the jump?
@@tenitarichards3203 listen, you do you! If you feel more empowered by holding a door open, then go for it. Don’t make this about me. I just explained the difference. Good day.
@@pimpmyride7278 baby this wasn’t about you. This was about the ignorance of some men out here. Now, if you feel like it applies to you than that would be on you, and I hope you have a better day.
I legit met a chick off a site and when I saw her I was not attracted and I just bounced and left her there. She didn’t look like her pics and she was covered in glitter. Hard Pass.
Not the glitter ✨ 🤦🏾♂️
Good job bruh. I have stayed before when I was not attracted to a woman and they had the nerve to act like they were not interested in me LOL.
😂😂😂😂
Covered in glitter 🤣😭😭
Treat others the way you want to be treated. You could still be polite and human, ppl have feelings. What you did could be hurtful
Come on now! She was clearly using filters for her size and face. She figured she could wow him with her personality and her degree. Not gonna happen, he wasn't falling for the okey doke lol!
Yea she's hefty
Smh
You got that right she wrong for that and needs to take accountability. Sitting down in the car looking much bigger than them pictures!!!😮
Exactly 👏🏾
@@amyjusttarot1115 Yeah those are nearly pictures from years ago! That might be the lockdown weight a lot of women put on when we couldn't go nowhere and have been struggling to get it off🤷♂
Dude fell for the old pics trick😂😂
Exactly
😂
Why are blk men asked to lower their standards? If he don't want a big girl he shouldn't be shamed into dating one🤔
I agree 😂
True
She didn't look like her pictures
How
@@baconeggcheesepodcast9390 filters duh
She didn't ..in real life she looks much heavier
If she caught buddy at 2am he would of been on different timing 😂😂😂
Give me your phone, you’re grounded 😂😂😂😂
Exactly lol
As he should. She a one nighter at best. She also had that bullring which says she is a feminist.
😂😂😂
I think she catfished him.
More like fatfished him
That’s what I said
Beloved you weren't what he was looking for 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️. It is what it is 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️. Move on..
You don't have to be interested, but no need to act like a child and communicate like an adult ... have the respect to talk to her and let her know you are not interested
I can bet the filters threw the brother off
Look Like She Had Old Pics Of When She Had A Shape Too.. What A Clown.. Pic From 10 Years Ago..
You're not wrong for leaving,that man wanted you to leave.
She looks NOTHING like her photos.
It's called instant dating for a reason.
Honestly she did look different from in person
FACTS 💯
I think so she look like a Big Mac in a car
Yeah she big as fuck
@@TONY-fw6bk100% looks like a different person , catfished with holder pics
Wait how
BS they will show up 80 lbs heavier then they pic…. Bro said fk that
Like he should why lead her on trying to be nice 😂
Facts
We need to hear his side of the story
He doesn’t want a fat girl. So what. He declined you and didn’t want to buy you a drink. It happens. Deal
She got next'd 😂😂🤷🏾.
Women might not have to deal with instadating if they wasnt always trying to fool us in the pictures. Also bro, even video calls only help but so much. I met a chick that did her make up to look exactly like who she was catfishing as.
Makeup and wigs are a nice cover up to hide the ugliest.
She clearly uses app filters like most women so their entire appearance is a lie.
😂😂😂...I love it when guys turn the ball around
It's cowardly male or female to completely ignore someone and not speak to them at all on a date
The male was disappointed seeing her in real life
Lol true but he could have just had the one date it's only coffee 😂
@@emperorcesar8208 He could've still at least acknowledged her
Found the white knight. 🤡
@jimmyjenkins2628 no he shouldn't and nor would she. Moral of the story STOP USING FILTERS
7:49 sounds like what women been doing for years
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He didn't like 🤷🏾♂️
She big bro
😂😂😂😂
These dudes built different NFG
😂😂😂😂
I'm thinking he felt like he was being catfished because of her size.
That stank nose ring 👃 💍 🤢
He treated her like she's probably treated other guys. Karma has no exemptions. That should humble her, but I seriously doubt it will.
Right, everyone is not going to find you attractive.
FACTS
Dude looked at her and said nah LOL. They are so arrogant, they think people aren't allowed to reject them.
InstaDate sounds like a REMAKE of MEAN GIRLS Movie for this Generation
Matthew 24:12
“And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.”
Key word the first girl said: “I met a nice attractive man”.
She only stuck around because she knew she was out of his league and hoped he would at least give her a chance. But If it was a “cornball” guy she deemed unattractive, she would’ve pulled off. That’s how it goes ma’am.
He was waiting for her to come and sit down and she never did 😆 or maybe he was thinking, please don't come and sit next to me. 😂
Your young enough to be my child but for the love of God this younger crew needs help I really want to help them sad to say I’m old school and grateful ❤😂
She didn’t have any full body pictures on her profile just head shots with filters on them
That’s crazy I’m a 80’s baby we don’t operate like that all my dates are normally 1 to 4 hours long I never been dubbed on a date or I was the catfish 😮
Same!! This generation just move different glad we didn't have to go through this. Idk if u heard this Eminem verse he rapped: "I rather be 50 yr old me than 20 yr old you!" It was from his killshot album! 😂😂😂
A lot of women look completely different in person compared to their photos.
They hide many things in their posts that are revealed in person. Some things are non-negotiable that you can only find out seeing/meeting that person.
That's smash or pass on steroids😂😂😂😂
You're not an "old head," J.R.... You're a *_Geriatric Millennial_* (legit LinkedIn term).
Finally something that describes me
Also a MODERN MUMMY is applicable....lol
Its alot of cap on apps. A bunch of cute faces, bodies like whoa! R.I.P black Rob
I’m the guy she talking about, she catfished me so I ignored her
I wouldn’t have necessarily done it like that…but this is FUNNY AS HELL!!!
Wow , Jr is 40 years old , he looks very 😊 good to be fourty , not that 40 is old , but you can tell he has taken great care of himself 🙌 and that's what's up 🙏
No way dude at least 27-33 Easy
Yes he could have played it off even though he didnt like what he saw😅
@@LXTTR-Xhe said in this video he’s a old head at 40
He doesn't want you
I did this a lot when in my 20s I waited in my car to see if this girl was big or not if I’m talking to girls online back in the early 2000s
Today people are very rude. There is no shame in people dating game. When men and women don’t teach their younger people how to communicate and show the art of being a lady or gentleman the outcome is arrogant, selfish, mean and ignorant behavior.
Mean while Am eating By My self while watching...this Video Says a lot thanks for this Important information
She wasted his time too. So much so that it wasn't worth his time to speak. She probably has filters on her page and showed up looking like someone completely different. Then she says "I have like crazy high standards but like that was the like the bare minimum". Well, same thing applies to him. Also, this is just her side of the story. We have not heard from his side.
Bruh, she is a BBW. She's big, that what the first B stands for. She Jill Scott size lol
Them filters are the equivalent to cat fishing
Bro! I thought you were 28yo!
Keep it moving lady. How you not walk up to the guy and even say hello, but you can get on an app and text this person. Yeah keep it pushing.
I never heard of that term, instant dating, until now, honestly if anyone ever suggested that option to me, that would be the end of the conversation. That's crazy.
Was About to call him Adorable and caught herself mid sentence self centered n ego driven n bipolar smdh Somebody light some sage ............
Instant dating is not new. The only difference was back in the day people met up at a designated location. The people would talk for five minutes if they didn’t feel each other they moved to the next person in the room
That's speed dating. Not the same
@@JRWisdomfacts
It's crazy I'm 34 and have never been on a date and still smash plenty of fish
Bumble? They talk to you first? Man I'll be waiting forever! 😂
To the wimin SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 😂😂😂😂
This has been happening to average and below average dudes decades before the term "instant dating".
The first lady who went on that date with the guy should've seen the signs of the guy not liking what he saw. She probably dodged a bad situation by him not liking her.
Ok Dexter Jackson! Lol! Girls like this want something real but everything about her is fake! She catfished that dude! Look at the video thumbnail and both are her! They don't look the same do they? Two words: catfish artist!
He Did Nothing Wrong She Didn’t Dodge Anything.. Why Try To Paint The Man As Some Type Of Bad Guy.. Lol.. She Did That To Herself Sure She Got Her Feelings Hurt That Sucks But It’s Her Fault..
I'm old school,so for me, it's already a problem when the woman reaches out to the man. I would NEVER, EVER do that!!!! To each his own. IJS
He didn’t like what he seen or thought she didn’t match the pic!😂😂😂
Remember peeps men curve women in what.....SILENCE
She’s close to 280 pounds. Who’s going to tell her the truth. The brother wanted a fit and friendly woman…….
He didn’t like what he saw.
😂😂..she is so delusional..she keeps saying her car , and overrated herself..😂😂😂BOOm the the dude is a bad guy ....I love that dude he represented men so well
He DEFINITELY wasn't interested, so he let her take ALL the initiative and actions. No sweat off his brow at all 😂😂😂
He saw her WITHOUT the filters and without the waist trainer and said HELL NAW...she don't look nothing like she did in her pics....come on my G. I APPLAUD this man. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥💯
He was purposely rejecting her from the time he pulled up and saw her in the car but her ego wouldn't recieve the message so she was butt hurt about it. I don't think he had to be blatantly rude about the whole thing but the world doesn't owe you understanding. Some people lack couth and are deliberately crass 💁🏾♂️. They both came off socially awkward in this story to me...
W comment brody ✊🏽😏.
Its spelled *couth btw.
@@philosophy20 appreciate it, bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾. I will make the change.
I thought the same, but the woman at 06:34 explained what instant dating was - if you dont like the person, you ignore them. He told her that he was going to do an instant date, so this was par for the course. I'm far too old (nearly 40) and have been with my wife for nearly 26 years, so this all sounds crazy to me, but he played by the rules.
Cheers to bro 🎉!!!!!
Dude must of look at her and said to himself nah she aint it bro😬😳🤷🏿🤦🏿🫣🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Yoooooooo u do not have da right or any understanding of the situation to say oh he's wrong however let's all give our opinions there's nothing wrong with that opinions r the same as an asshole everyone on da planet has 1 no1 in this world 🌎 😉 or any sane mind individual would waste months of there life and travel to u and break out in an uncontrollable and insane laughter unless she deceived him like 90 % of these women with these damn lying ass photo filters 😂😂😂😂😂 they b erasing all the bumps on face , slim the picture , make them selves 3 shades lighter, bro probably walked back and forth past her 40x like yoooooooo he probably walked to bathroom 🚻 hid in the corner peeking called her phone heard seen her look at and or answered niggah said WTF HELL NO then walked right past her feeling for shit as if he were blind smooth out da door
💯 % all facts
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I've been got like that 4x and that's exactly what I did all 4x my brothers
No she is big. Females be posting older pictures when their bodies was in better shape.
She can't even be certain that he recognized her because she DID NOT SPEAK TO HIM.
She didn't even ask if he was the person she was looking for.
What if that dude wears glasses.
She walked by him knowing it was him.
She's the rude one.
I love this! Ladies need to do more . #getyourpassport
PSA if you use just regular pictures without Filters you will get more honest results.
This guy was extremely rude. No one deserves to be treated like this. If he wasn't interested, he should have told her.
She is distraught over his ignorance. Sometimes we gotta take a sad “L” and move on…it was a blessing in disguise…
She said he was a pretty man so he could have has a disease. God was protecting her.
It was a blessing for him! Why the hell she looks like ZERO of her pics?!
He probably didn't recognize her without the glamorous feature the cameras do to your face.
Why do they have a problem with that.... its obvious that the person that get rejected was cat fishing n don't look like their pictures what they want the non cat fisher to do talk to them?!?🤨 😂😂😂
I agree with everything you just said
Dude hit her with the Kevin Hart "I see you, see me, seeing you"😂
I strongly agree, women think they are only one who do can do the rejecting
Yoooo !! Watch this nose ring 💍 !! I’m telling you she got
A nose piercing run !! They all nuts 🔩 !! Trust me !! 😮
I'm loving the new vibe
This sounds like a case of false angles. She is not ugly by any means, but her girth is measured with a rope. If you are going to be on dating apps, show what you really look like. It's deception when you don't. And this man was respectful enough to not blatantly hurt her feelings. I salute him. He could have done some damage, but he chose to be polite.
You call not speaking and allowing a door to close in a woman’s face polite😳?! Damn you MFs got a lot to learn about chivalry 😂
@tenitarichards3203 He could have went in, but did not. He did not want to. It's a tough pill to swallow.
@@micmaliss Very true indeed.
I remember back in the day they had speed dating over the phone . You meet her girls they never look like their photos or what they describe to you . Right away i would say I’m not interested. They would plead with me to tell them why I’m not interested . Once I tell them they cry over I hurt their feelings. The best approach is to walk away
Failed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂He didn’t want you
You weren't wrong for leaving,but in his eyes, you were never there.
He didn't like her, he was playing it off.Come on bro! I've done the same thing in the past.