This is unfortunate circumstance that happened to this man. Adults need to take responsibility for their actions. The fact that a city agency staff did fraudulent behaviors is a major concern.
I’m glad where I live if the parents weren’t married when child was born or if affidavit of paternity wasn’t signed…the man will not be listed on BC until paternity is established. The mother can’t receive CS or cash assistance from said dad until it happens.
@juliadaniels5426 she's saying BC as in birth certificate. Basically paternity has to be established b4 any support can be received is what she's saying.
@feefee2 I know it sucks here in California. All they need is your signature on the BC. Then you're done, even if you prove through DNA you're not the father. Then if they don't know who the father is. The Cali courts can subpoena you to come for a DNA test. If you don't show up they can legally make you the father without DNA. The majority of women in Cali really don't want it changed. They benefit from it to much at fathers expense
He is 1,000% correct about the separation of powers, I brought it up in my hearing and they said that was a federal statute whereas CS is based on state law😩 8-10 more years
And that is where you have them, the supremacy clause supersede state laws because lower courts need to abide by the constitution and the federal standard. They can claim state case all they want, federal supersede state. Now, of course it’s not that cut and dry, this is an over generalization.
My coworkers cousin met a girl and used my coworkers name. When she got pregnant she put my coworker on child support. It took him 3 years to clear it up!! They garnished his check the whole time. He never even met the girl 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I live in Florida and I truly believe the system here was intentionally holding the money from the mother of my kids just so the state could collect interest off the money I'd paid out. There was multiple times in 2007 i would get phone calls from the mothers of both of my kids saying where is my money? I'd always hang up on them and tell them you need to contact child support as it was taken out of my check.
I agree it should be civil to an extent but at some point it should be criminal if they never do anything and a parent runs then ya you should be arrested and forced to work until you start paying consistently, but if you’re trying and just aren’t made of money then they shouldn’t suspend ur license and shit bc if they suspended ur license then that just limits you and makes it almost impossible to pay bc now not only are you broke but you can’t drive to work or drive to do side jobs to make extra money, and by suspending it you took money from my kid bc after all the fees to get it back it’s around $120-$140 at the most
Prima Face essentially means On its face or taken at face value. It's crazy to see women in the comments bashing this man not even hearing his story. If it happened to your son/brother/father/cousin/uncle you wouldn't feel the same🎯
Right. I know him and the chick he’s talking about. He is 100% telling the truth about her. She’s from the Eastside. She’s past fowl. He’s a good dude for not putting her on blast. I haven’t decided if I will or not. Since she got no penalty for doing him dirty the world should know her full name. She’s got a bunch of kids by a few dudes. She’s a messy ass ****.
It’s impossible to represent yourself. If he’s a trustee, he better invoke his right to equitable subrogation. And we got to stop talking about deadbeat fathers who don’t take care of their children versus stand-up men who are being railroaded by the system
Still not understanding what is going on. You cannot tell someone what to do. Period. This is not about ethics. You or me having a child means nothing in eyes of law. Period. This is about laws.
I work for a government agency in California, and if mom applies for cash assistance from the state, a child support case gets opened. The state doesn’t not want to pay BUT they will and IF dad’s wages get garnished, that money is used to pay the state and mom gets $50. ALSO when your kids get SSI income, the state will deduct from parents retirement income to pay back the state for the child’s SSI
This is exactly what happened to me. When my son was born we used all the govt. benefits. Me not knowing was ok with it. Years later we separated, but I still watched and took care of my son. Well later CS came knocking at my door saying I owed this much to the state and that they were gonna start garnishing my wages. It was like a shakedown. I fought back and I had my son’s mother agree that I take care of my child. So they make me pay a tiny amount. But man that’s all they care about is getting their funds back. Had I known, I would have never signed up for their benefits
This is sad. That woman need to be in prison for fraud. She turned this man's life upside down. I hope everything turns out in his favor and his case sets a precedence.
That case he referred to Blessing Vs Freestone was not about these women suing the state for withholding payments. The reason they tried to sue the state was because the mothers felt like the state was not doing sufficiently trying to locate absent father to enforce child support.
⚠️ 📢 🚨 with child support, there should be accountability and oversight on the mother 👩... just like you have to give monthly 📅 the mothers should have to report directly book keeping, receipts and actual paper 📃 documentation on how that money each and every dime money 💰 went to that child. Every Damn month... no oversight and accountability they have.... this needs to change and they need to report to the courts monthly with these documents 📃 🙏 🤲 ⚠️ 📢 🚨
May I add to the subject who gave if anybody is child support agency your Social Security number for them to do all of that just saying it in general because that’s what’s happening. A lot of women go to take your Social Security. Bring it to Child Support collection agency and they start delivering everything. On the back of everybody’s Social Security card it states you are not the owner of the number we gave you. If anyone uses that number with your name on it other than you they will get in trouble. Well how come Child Support agency didn’t get in trouble. Bottom line knowledge is power and this gentleman is talking very highly about what he saying is true very very true every word cause I’ve gone through the same thing and I’m gonna finish it off this year in 2024 and I would like to get reimbursed with interest the way they did to us. We should do to them because separation of powers if you don’t know your rights you have no rights learn the law is very simple.
If you go back and listen to the interview in the beginning, she says, so this is your baby right? So without even letting the story come out she was already tried to give him a baby. This is why the women's content is so off. The only hear what they want to hear and not listen to the information.
The thing that irritated the hell out of me is when after this man told this horrific story with child support enforcement Angela Yee fixed her mouth and asked him, "so did you establish a relationship with the child? Was that supposed to be a serious question? I mean come on, did you even listen to anything this man was saying? There are millions of stories like this story out there, but one of the biggest problems with the child support system is that it is completely fragmented across states to the point where a friend of mine who was in the military with me had four separate cases for 1 child across 4 different states, and that was because every state that he had been stationed in up to that point wanted to get their cut. This is the problem with the child support system in a nutshell, it's pretty much a racketeering ring at this point.
In a way he’s right the way he’s making it seem. It’s incorrect though he’s making it seem like you actually volunteer signed some document for Child Support. No that’s not true that’s incorrect. What happens is if there’s a birth certificate and you sign it as the father that he’s meaning that that’s voluntary, but no Man knows that and if you’re married to this woman and she divorces you, you’re automatically gonna go on Child Support that’s literally part of the divorce so technically he’s right, but I do not know how in this modern time this system still exist
But she lied from the beginning stating you were the father. Why do we always protect these women that set out to destroy us, even from the age of 12. This is why these types of women will never have any accountability.
“Participation by a state in the IV-D program is voluntary”. Wehunt v. Ledbetter, 875 F.2d 1558, 1563 (11th Cir. 1989). “Title IV-D was not intended to benefit individual children and custodial parents, and therefore it does not constitute a federal right. Far from creating an individual entitlement to services. Thus, the Secretary must look to the aggregate services provided by the State, not to whether the needs of any particular person have been satisfied. Blessing v. Freestone, 520 U.S. 329, 333 (1997).
13:45 The black woman would tare us black men down very quickly, that’s why CS was invented, but why are we so not willing to return the tare down, instead we always look to protect their feelings.
They need to get rid of child support in general. If you have full custody then you have full responsibility because if I got my kids, I don’t need the help.
One lawyer said something like the courts and the government in some of these states be looking to make money from child support. For example, let’s say you and baby mama got something worked out with the father .Then mama applies for government assistance. But later Uncle Sam finds out baby mama getting money from the father. Uncle Sam says we’ll cut you off from assistance unless they get a cut of that child support money. Baby mama is then pressured to use the legal route against the father and obviously destroying the relationship. The state and the prosecutors now go after the father for more money. Baby daddy getting garnished so big he couldn’t even afford a studio in the hood even if making a six figure salary!
I USED TO BE IN THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM AND LET ME TELL YOU MOST OF THESE KIDS ARE IN THE SYSTEM BECAUSE OF THERE MOTHERS AND THESE WOMAN PAY NO CHILD SUPPORT THE SYSTEM FEEDS THE CHILDREN CLOTHE THEM AND TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN WHILE THE MOTHER GETS TO REPEAT THE SAME CYCLE THEY LOOSE THEY KIDS AND HAVE MORE AND ARE NOT HELP RESPONSIBLE FOR PAYING FOR THEM
Child Support should be taken after taxes not before and women should pay taxes on that extra income. LA system is flawed, I been in my daughter's life since day 1 and after 9 years we went to court and the judge wouldn't grant me 50% and my daughter isn't happy with her mom.
That’s crazy I keep telling everybody child support is a scam and this guy goes through that stuff and I feel his pain and I’ve been on child support since 2009 I just got off 2024. I lived in a in different state and she had my kids live with different people for four or five years and they still let her collect and I try to fight it and they did not want to hear it.
You should only be able to receive child support if you were married....... if u have a child and can't afford the child, give the child to the father....... if you know who he is.......😮😢😮😅😮😢😮
These court systems use these women to weaponize these children against men. On top of that, they get away with contempt to court and many other violations with impunity... my god, my heart bleeds for for people, especially our children...
THE ISSUE IS THE SYSTEM DONT CARE THAT THE WOMAN ARE VENDICTIVE AND PUT MENS LIVES AT RISK SOMETIMES WHEN THEY TRY TO SEE THEY KIDS WE ALL HAVE SEEN THIS
A lot of men should take paternity tests after the baby is born or find out later on & have to suffer. The men who run and get on child support and take the test should not complain when they don’t take or help with the child.
Women are afforded child support even when paternity tests show the man is not the father, as a woman you attempting to push this back onto men and deflect fault from women is sad, not to mention you being a woman and not having knowledge of this.
@@TKNLordiceman826first of all I’m saying men should get paternity tests asap so they don’t have to go through what he went through, as soon as they find out they are being considered the father. No man should be forced to pay child support if the kid isn’t his. You being a man should feel a way. Don’t check me if you didn’t understand what I wrote.
@@reginaminni6005 and what I am saying is paternity testing results DO NOT MATTER IN AMERICA because there are ZERO in place or bound to be written laws that state a woman cannot seek benefits from the state or put a man on child support without proof. 33% of all Child Support cases show the man alleged to be the father is not the biological fathers, these studies were executed by the CDC as well as Planned Parenthood. 38% of all Child Support cases show women wait until after the Child is born to divulge information to the alleged father that he may be the father, which means there are women carrying children for 8+ months, having the child, seeking benefits from the state, getting them THEN putting men on child support before telling them they may have a child.
@@reginaminni6005 My entire point was/is the laws are not in place for men, we have zero protection on this matter. Men who impregnate women and they are not married receive no rights to the child, yes you read that correctly and feel free to look this up in your own state, if a Man is unmarried, impregnates a woman he has NO RIGHTS to the child, he has to go through a process in your state entitled "Legitimation" in order to earn rights to the child. Most men do not know this because most men are not taught this, I totally understood what you wrote, I replied to let you know DNA testing DOES NOT MATTER and I can give you links of cases over the past 2 decades where men whom have been proven to NOT BE the father, are still forced by a judge to pay child support for a kid that is not his and proven to not be his.
@@TKNLordiceman826where I live, if theres no marriage, the father has to either waive his right to a paternity test or take 1 before he can be put on child support or on a birth certificate. I know it varies by state and more states need to implement that!
Bitter parents aside (because its not about the welfare of the children for them) Can we all agree that child support is fucked up the way that it is structured.
The name of his book would lead you to believe you can avoid paying child support on legitimate cases. Don't try this at home kids lol. And FYI - every state has different laws.
No what it does is show you need to be your own advocate rather than sitting back whining and bitching. Use the laws just like he did. It inmates in prison that read law books and got themselves released. He isnt the only one that have won their cases.
They should have lawyers sit in on interviews like this to provide more context and validity. Somebody can just cite random laws and codes and sound informed.
You sound dumb. Too many of us have gotten our passports and licenses back due to this man. I’m reading these comments in disgust at how little about the law many of you know and then put foolish comments like this up. If people knew about the Supremacy Clause not one goddamn parent, male or female would have SOLE custody of any child. Read and learn the Constitution and your rights. Then post a comment. I bet it will not look like the one that you posted here!!
Clicked immediately as soon as I I saw the description. It's highway robbery! Now, he has a relationship with the kid is kind of weird to me. Especially since he never had a relationship with him before that. Hm. Kudos to him, though.
Facts. Pay child support like clock work. Haven’t seen my kids since before the divorce. Spent money on attorneys and she never complied with the custody order since 2019. And each time the judge simply says you gotta let him see the kids. Fuck the courts.
@@dex68211 and that can be challenged as well my friend because most times they leave out information or don’t follow their own process or in some cases even bully the parent into signing. It can all be challenged.
True but we do it to ourselves also. We choose the wrong type of women to have kids with. I do not have CS issues at all but I know a lot of men that do. I make my son watch things like this to let him know these chicks are treacherous
@@chinaarlene7035 It’s okay for them if a WW takes them to court. They believe their Black children and child’s mother deserves nothing. BW really need to think twice before having children with them.
He didn't sue her ? She volunteered his name, something weird in this account. Gimme some? He weird ,though dont want to say ish about mom. The Orange suit makes me not trust the whole story.
He is not the father. He just didnt want to make it about her lying. She was a kid too when she had the child so maybe she really didnt know. @@harxmoond
It really does. It's hard to believe he didn't know anything about a child support case for the 1st 7 years of the child's life. No phone calls or letters in the mail for 7 years. I call 🧢
@drob691 that's why I'm confused... you had no idea there was a pending child support case? AND how did she get your information to file? She needs your address and where you work... so how did 7 years go by and you don't hear anything and then boom you get garnished??? I'm mad because Angela Yee knows better to sit here and skate around questions and not ask the correct follow up questions
Well clearly you're accidentally lying, because this child was not his child. And there has been an abundance of cases across time & the country of men on child support accidentally with no bio child or a lie about it being his child. And most States stance on the subject is that once the Judge signs off and the case starts its for the duration. Please read more, child support was started by the US Gov to recoup funds from programs such as WIC, Welfare, Subsidized Housing & etc. You can even be ordered to pay support for an adopted child as well!
@@chinaarlene7035everybody in here complaining may not have kids and furthermore they are people paying for a child that is not there's. But some of yall will continue to defend BS
I know multiple ppl that have raised kids that weren’t theres, that they thought it was their kid then they found out it’s not their kid and they still chose to raise it
That’s a good question. Thats has happened. A man taking care of a child that he thinks is his but it’s someone else’s….. he said the child wasn’t his…
This is unfortunate circumstance that happened to this man. Adults need to take responsibility for their actions. The fact that a city agency staff did fraudulent behaviors is a major concern.
This interview is 🔥🔥
I’m glad where I live if the parents weren’t married when child was born or if affidavit of paternity wasn’t signed…the man will not be listed on BC until paternity is established. The mother can’t receive CS or cash assistance from said dad until it happens.
Same where I live. They need 2 make this everywhere!
A parent that has custody has a right to go back 12 yrs on the back child support.
@juliadaniels5426 she's saying BC as in birth certificate. Basically paternity has to be established b4 any support can be received is what she's saying.
@feefee2 I know it sucks here in California. All they need is your signature on the BC. Then you're done, even if you prove through DNA you're not the father. Then if they don't know who the father is. The Cali courts can subpoena you to come for a DNA test. If you don't show up they can legally make you the father without DNA. The majority of women in Cali really don't want it changed. They benefit from it to much at fathers expense
What state is this
He needs to hold that women accountable. The only reason they came after him is because she gave the county his name as the father to get welfare.
Facts
Good point. But how exactly should he hold her accountable?
1) The next time you interview someone read their book.
2) Don't ask a black man if they worked off the books so the IRS can jam him up
Angela Yee
Great and very informative interview
Good job
I hope someone steps up and represents this man💯
10:20 No. Child support should be banned in any state where
abortion is legal. Which includes California and New York.
He is 1,000% correct about the separation of powers, I brought it up in my hearing and they said that was a federal statute whereas CS is based on state law😩 8-10 more years
What does that mean?
@@13579hee basically it's unconstitutional
And that is where you have them, the supremacy clause supersede state laws because lower courts need to abide by the constitution and the federal standard. They can claim state case all they want, federal supersede state. Now, of course it’s not that cut and dry, this is an over generalization.
Nigga that's good news! That's your out!!
My coworkers cousin met a girl and used my coworkers name. When she got pregnant she put my coworker on child support. It took him 3 years to clear it up!! They garnished his check the whole time. He never even met the girl 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Oh hell naw me and that coworker would have to fight
Owff. He should have been fought that. Got me Fcked up
I live in Florida and I truly believe the system here was intentionally holding the money from the mother of my kids just so the state could collect interest off the money I'd paid out. There was multiple times in 2007 i would get phone calls from the mothers of both of my kids saying where is my money? I'd always hang up on them and tell them you need to contact child support as it was taken out of my check.
Florida is the worst
Glad to see you doing you home girl
Child support should be a civil lawsuit with the custodial parent petitioning the court for the non-custodial parent to pay.
I agree it should be civil to an extent but at some point it should be criminal if they never do anything and a parent runs then ya you should be arrested and forced to work until you start paying consistently, but if you’re trying and just aren’t made of money then they shouldn’t suspend ur license and shit bc if they suspended ur license then that just limits you and makes it almost impossible to pay bc now not only are you broke but you can’t drive to work or drive to do side jobs to make extra money, and by suspending it you took money from my kid bc after all the fees to get it back it’s around $120-$140 at the most
If it's just civil then there's really no consequences to make the parent pay.
@@wyattperkins7478parents shouldn't be forced to do anything. We love to run to the government to solve every problem
I asked a guy once who was complaining about child support if it was just cheaper to buy a condom 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Actually, cs should be banned in any state where abortion is legal.
Prima Face essentially means On its face or taken at face value. It's crazy to see women in the comments bashing this man not even hearing his story. If it happened to your son/brother/father/cousin/uncle you wouldn't feel the same🎯
Right. I know him and the chick he’s talking about. He is 100% telling the truth about her. She’s from the Eastside. She’s past fowl. He’s a good dude for not putting her on blast. I haven’t decided if I will or not. Since she got no penalty for doing him dirty the world should know her full name. She’s got a bunch of kids by a few dudes. She’s a messy ass ****.
Nah. You're wrong. They definitely would still throw any male family member under the bus.
@@marcusbennette8454I didn't believe this, but I legitimately now know it to be true and based in reality and history/experience/majority etc.
There should be mandatory DNA tests on all births before anyone is put on child support.
Facts
Great interview, full of useful information, someone needs to stand up to these illegal judicial systems
Great Interview
It’s impossible to represent yourself. If he’s a trustee, he better invoke his right to equitable subrogation. And we got to stop talking about deadbeat fathers who don’t take care of their children versus stand-up men who are being railroaded by the system
Still not understanding what is going on. You cannot tell someone what to do. Period. This is not about ethics. You or me having a child means nothing in eyes of law. Period. This is about laws.
Interesting interview 👍
I work for a government agency in California, and if mom applies for cash assistance from the state, a child support case gets opened. The state doesn’t not want to pay BUT they will and IF dad’s wages get garnished, that money is used to pay the state and mom gets $50. ALSO when your kids get SSI income, the state will deduct from parents retirement income to pay back the state for the child’s SSI
This is exactly what happened to me. When my son was born we used all the govt. benefits. Me not knowing was ok with it. Years later we separated, but I still watched and took care of my son. Well later CS came knocking at my door saying I owed this much to the state and that they were gonna start garnishing my wages. It was like a shakedown. I fought back and I had my son’s mother agree that I take care of my child. So they make me pay a tiny amount. But man that’s all they care about is getting their funds back. Had I known, I would have never signed up for their benefits
LA county did the same thing to me. They didn’t subpoena me it’s been a fraud system.
How tf do they compound interest on fumds that wasn't borrowed.. How?
This is sad. That woman need to be in prison for fraud. She turned this man's life upside down. I hope everything turns out in his favor and his case sets a precedence.
Precedents will be set with this federal case.
Help fathers in Illinois start a class action suit.
That case he referred to Blessing Vs Freestone was not about these women suing the state for withholding payments. The reason they tried to sue the state was because the mothers felt like the state was not doing sufficiently trying to locate absent father to enforce child support.
⚠️ 📢 🚨 with child support, there should be accountability and oversight on the mother 👩... just like you have to give monthly 📅 the mothers should have to report directly book keeping, receipts and actual paper 📃 documentation on how that money each and every dime money 💰 went to that child. Every Damn month... no oversight and accountability they have.... this needs to change and they need to report to the courts monthly with these documents 📃 🙏 🤲 ⚠️ 📢 🚨
Nahhh.
🙄🤦🏽♀️
Most of the time child support is a reimbursement for only a fraction of what the custodial parent has already shelled out for the child.
Good shit
Stories like this are the reason why The Red Pill Movement exists, to inform men.
Child Support is stupid. Unless someone completely reneged on being a parent, child support shouldn't exist 💯
May I add to the subject who gave if anybody is child support agency your Social Security number for them to do all of that just saying it in general because that’s what’s happening. A lot of women go to take your Social Security. Bring it to Child Support collection agency and they start delivering everything. On the back of everybody’s Social Security card it states you are not the owner of the number we gave you. If anyone uses that number with your name on it other than you they will get in trouble. Well how come Child Support agency didn’t get in trouble. Bottom line knowledge is power and this gentleman is talking very highly about what he saying is true very very true every word cause I’ve gone through the same thing and I’m gonna finish it off this year in 2024 and I would like to get reimbursed with interest the way they did to us. We should do to them because separation of powers if you don’t know your rights you have no rights learn the law is very simple.
Update?
💯 congratulations on your case and on this interview!
Nevertheless, A Dead Beat Is Dead Meat like Ungambino would say , free Ungambino S.M.M.
No lie, Ye earned my respect with this interview. A lot of women wouldnt have taken this interview based on biases alone.
If you go back and listen to the interview in the beginning, she says, so this is your baby right? So without even letting the story come out she was already tried to give him a baby. This is why the women's content is so off. The only hear what they want to hear and not listen to the information.
Mines too. Great job in this interview.
Love the interview
Guilty until proven innocent....Got it!!!!
The thing that irritated the hell out of me is when after this man told this horrific story with child support enforcement Angela Yee fixed her mouth and asked him, "so did you establish a relationship with the child?
Was that supposed to be a serious question? I mean come on, did you even listen to anything this man was saying?
There are millions of stories like this story out there, but one of the biggest problems with the child support system is that it is completely fragmented across states to the point where a friend of mine who was in the military with me had four separate cases for 1 child across 4 different states, and that was because every state that he had been stationed in up to that point wanted to get their cut.
This is the problem with the child support system in a nutshell, it's pretty much a racketeering ring at this point.
Exactly it's like she isn't really listening to his situation and doesn't even know what to ask him
In a way he’s right the way he’s making it seem. It’s incorrect though he’s making it seem like you actually volunteer signed some document for Child Support. No that’s not true that’s incorrect. What happens is if there’s a birth certificate and you sign it as the father that he’s meaning that that’s voluntary, but no Man knows that and if you’re married to this woman and she divorces you, you’re automatically gonna go on Child Support that’s literally part of the divorce so technically he’s right, but I do not know how in this modern time this system still exist
If you could get a lawyer….. no lawyer would took this case because it will affect their standing with family circuit judges
But she lied from the beginning stating you were the father. Why do we always protect these women that set out to destroy us, even from the age of 12. This is why these types of women will never have any accountability.
That orange suit is wild.
It’s bright but I think it looks 🔥
It’s giving “Orange is the New Black”😂😂😂😂
@@Fridge2854😂😂😂😂😂
One word “Bright “
He prison ready😅😅
“Participation by a state in the IV-D program is voluntary”. Wehunt v. Ledbetter, 875 F.2d 1558, 1563 (11th Cir. 1989).
“Title IV-D was not intended to benefit individual children and custodial parents, and therefore it does not constitute a federal right. Far from creating an individual entitlement to services. Thus, the Secretary must look to the aggregate services provided by the State, not to whether the needs of any particular person have been satisfied. Blessing v. Freestone, 520 U.S. 329, 333 (1997).
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯💯🤘🏿 0:31
This is wild.
13:45 The black woman would tare us black men down very quickly, that’s why CS was invented, but why are we so not willing to return the tare down, instead we always look to protect their feelings.
Good brother
She was actually giving him a heads up, i hope he knows that
They need to get rid of child support in general. If you have full custody then you have full responsibility because if I got my kids, I don’t need the help.
What if it's sent to your credit report?
One lawyer said something like the courts and the government in some of these states be looking to make money from child support. For example, let’s say you and baby mama got something worked out with the father .Then mama applies for government assistance. But later Uncle Sam finds out baby mama getting money from the father. Uncle Sam says we’ll cut you off from assistance unless they get a cut of that child support money. Baby mama is then pressured to use the legal route against the father and obviously destroying the relationship. The state and the prosecutors now go after the father for more money. Baby daddy getting garnished so big he couldn’t even afford a studio in the hood even if making a six figure salary!
Yes the State receive at the very least 16% of Child Support, this is outside all court proceedings etc
This is a special situation.. ,but for fathers that know they have children out here not doing the bare minimum is the problem.
You’re completely missing it
@richarthdgonzalez6583 this
I’m glad TJ won his case as it was totally unfair and fraud.
Never give her extra money, pay it all though child support & you'll get credit don't be a fool
Does he have a gofundme, i want to donate. Iron sharpens iron
This should have more views and likes than this.
Way more views and likes. I agree!
Whne it comes to this topic many don't want to hear that truth
My boy TJ!!
They do that to everyone …. They get a check from the government
Go Public and ask for financial support for this legal battle.
That child support system is messed up and his story is crazy glad it worked out for him.
That blue 🔵 eye liner is a no no , Looking crazy...🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐😢😢😢
I USED TO BE IN THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM AND LET ME TELL YOU MOST OF THESE KIDS ARE IN THE SYSTEM BECAUSE OF THERE MOTHERS AND THESE WOMAN PAY NO CHILD SUPPORT THE SYSTEM FEEDS THE CHILDREN CLOTHE THEM AND TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN WHILE THE MOTHER GETS TO REPEAT THE SAME CYCLE THEY LOOSE THEY KIDS AND HAVE MORE AND ARE NOT HELP RESPONSIBLE FOR PAYING FOR THEM
My Non Custodial parent was named the parent by default. Failure to appear three times, the judge ruled the non custodial to be the parent
Due to claims by? Is he the father in life not just by "law" or "legally"?
Sounds like they waited for someone to retire to admit the fraud.
It’s fraudulent system it don’t work it’s harm so many people it needs to be reformed
“When you gonna give me some” WAT LOL
Child Support should be taken after taxes not before and women should pay taxes on that extra income.
LA system is flawed, I been in my daughter's life since day 1 and after 9 years we went to court and the judge wouldn't grant me 50% and my daughter isn't happy with her mom.
That’s crazy I keep telling everybody child support is a scam and this guy goes through that stuff and I feel his pain and I’ve been on child support since 2009 I just got off 2024. I lived in a in different state and she had my kids live with different people for four or five years and they still let her collect and I try to fight it and they did not want to hear it.
You should only be able to receive child support if you were married....... if u have a child and can't afford the child, give the child to the father....... if you know who he is.......😮😢😮😅😮😢😮
These court systems use these women to weaponize these children against men. On top of that, they get away with contempt to court and many other violations with impunity... my god, my heart bleeds for for people, especially our children...
to sue no injury
Child support being fraud is something you will never hear a parent with full custody say
Thats completely wrong. Our second episode is with a parent w full custody.
@@onecreditguy1812 what video that you posted is? You have one video up from 2 years ago
@@onecreditguy1812 That's getting child support or paying child support
@@annzeeg4217 PAYING CHILD SUPPORT.
@@onecreditguy1812 Then you need a new lawyer
THE ISSUE IS THE SYSTEM DONT CARE THAT THE WOMAN ARE VENDICTIVE AND PUT MENS LIVES AT RISK SOMETIMES WHEN THEY TRY TO SEE THEY KIDS WE ALL HAVE SEEN THIS
A lot of men should take paternity tests after the baby is born or find out later on & have to suffer. The men who run and get on child support and take the test should not complain when they don’t take or help with the child.
Women are afforded child support even when paternity tests show the man is not the father, as a woman you attempting to push this back onto men and deflect fault from women is sad, not to mention you being a woman and not having knowledge of this.
@@TKNLordiceman826first of all I’m saying men should get paternity tests asap so they don’t have to go through what he went through, as soon as they find out they are being considered the father. No man should be forced to pay child support if the kid isn’t his. You being a man should feel a way. Don’t check me if you didn’t understand what I wrote.
@@reginaminni6005 and what I am saying is paternity testing results DO NOT MATTER IN AMERICA because there are ZERO in place or bound to be written laws that state a woman cannot seek benefits from the state or put a man on child support without proof.
33% of all Child Support cases show the man alleged to be the father is not the biological fathers, these studies were executed by the CDC as well as Planned Parenthood.
38% of all Child Support cases show women wait until after the Child is born to divulge information to the alleged father that he may be the father, which means there are women carrying children for 8+ months, having the child, seeking benefits from the state, getting them THEN putting men on child support before telling them they may have a child.
@@reginaminni6005 My entire point was/is the laws are not in place for men, we have zero protection on this matter.
Men who impregnate women and they are not married receive no rights to the child, yes you read that correctly and feel free to look this up in your own state, if a Man is unmarried, impregnates a woman he has NO RIGHTS to the child, he has to go through a process in your state entitled "Legitimation" in order to earn rights to the child.
Most men do not know this because most men are not taught this, I totally understood what you wrote, I replied to let you know DNA testing DOES NOT MATTER and I can give you links of cases over the past 2 decades where men whom have been proven to NOT BE the father, are still forced by a judge to pay child support for a kid that is not his and proven to not be his.
@@TKNLordiceman826where I live, if theres no marriage, the father has to either waive his right to a paternity test or take 1 before he can be put on child support or on a birth certificate. I know it varies by state and more states need to implement that!
The men on podcast & in women comments degrading them instead of using that energy to boost this!
If you are getting government assistance don’t think they not coming for their money in other ways
How is the woman not responsible cos that’s where it started.
Hard to watch when Angela Yee haven’t done her homework smh .
100 % he call up any good lawyer and explain his case and they will take the case for sure on if they win they will get a percentage
They can't. The lawyers, BAR, Child Support Agency all work together. It would be a conflict of interest.
Bitter parents aside (because its not about the welfare of the children for them) Can we all agree that child support is fucked up the way that it is structured.
The name of his book would lead you to believe you can avoid paying child support on legitimate cases. Don't try this at home kids lol. And FYI - every state has different laws.
No what it does is show you need to be your own advocate rather than sitting back whining and bitching. Use the laws just like he did. It inmates in prison that read law books and got themselves released. He isnt the only one that have won their cases.
They should have lawyers sit in on interviews like this to provide more context and validity. Somebody can just cite random laws and codes and sound informed.
You're just dumb.
You sound dumb. Too many of us have gotten our passports and licenses back due to this man. I’m reading these comments in disgust at how little about the law many of you know and then put foolish comments like this up. If people knew about the Supremacy Clause not one goddamn parent, male or female would have SOLE custody of any child. Read and learn the Constitution and your rights. Then post a comment. I bet it will not look like the one that you posted here!!
Or you can just go look up the laws and cases.
She needs to go to jail too
Maybe she do, but she was a pond like he said. The government
Clicked immediately as soon as I I saw the description. It's highway robbery!
Now, he has a relationship with the kid is kind of weird to me. Especially since he never had a relationship with him before that. Hm. Kudos to him, though.
Sh*! Might as well. He was providing for him smdh. This crazy wild. Clearly the mother won't seek out the real father probably
Not to mention, non custodial parents don't receive Due Process.
Facts. Pay child support like clock work. Haven’t seen my kids since before the divorce. Spent money on attorneys and she never complied with the custody order since 2019. And each time the judge simply says you gotta let him see the kids.
Fuck the courts.
It’s a violation of your constitutional rights. Learn the law. Also learn the difference between legal and lawful.
@@BLUDDSPORT1 you gave up your constitutional rights when you signed the VDOP.
@@dex68211 and that can be challenged as well my friend because most times they leave out information or don’t follow their own process or in some cases even bully the parent into signing. It can all be challenged.
His story could be fraud but the system of child support is not. not a perfect system but not a fraud.
Elaborate
I asked a guy once who was complaining about child support if it was just cheaper to buy a condom 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂
It’s the law you might not like it but it is true
❤HB 01/03...
I notice there isn’t a lot of women commenting on this video 😂
I am 😂
@@chinaarlene7035 Which furthers proves my point 😂🤣
@@IssacEinstein you literally don't have a point. This is why you're on child support.
@@chinaarlene7035you did prove his point. Your the only one in the comments trolling.😅
I asked a guy once who was complaining about child support if it was just cheaper to buy a condom 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Wow that's so Krazy how the BLACK women do us men smmfh
True but we do it to ourselves also. We choose the wrong type of women to have kids with. I do not have CS issues at all but I know a lot of men that do. I make my son watch things like this to let him know these chicks are treacherous
WW tear yall up in child support.
@@chinaarlene7035 It’s okay for them if a WW takes them to court. They believe their Black children and child’s mother deserves nothing. BW really need to think twice before having children with them.
I ignore them like the plague.
I asked a guy once who was complaining about child support if it was just cheaper to buy a condom 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Most men arent having to pay chilf support because of a situation like his
Me and Chelsea have 1 daughter together also,but thankfully it's not the same Chelsea. I don't want the bacteria
13:59 Why tf would u want a relationship with a child that's not yours??! 🙄
Some women put you on child support just you don’t want to be with her anymore
Hold on… when did he do a paternity test??? I was confused by this story, it was a lot of talking in circles.
He never and if you don't if you don't respond to child support automatically consider you the father
There was no penetration
@@maryb6102 that’s what the law suit is for because they never did that and he never had anything to respond to and he would have been 12
There’s nothing to do the test on bc the mom wouldn’t allow it and he was 12 and they didn’t do anything right so he had no idea “court” even happened
He never penetrated the lady. Im pretty sure penetration is how babies are created
Thats crazy i got put on child support without any dna test or proof i was the father
the bigger story is woman lying on innocent men it should be criminal
No child needs 2200 a month! Child support reform is needed and there should be a cap on what’s paid. Shouldn’t matter how much a person makes
He didn't sue her ?
She volunteered his name, something weird in this account.
Gimme some? He weird ,though dont want to say ish about mom.
The Orange suit makes me not trust the whole story.
I think he's the father but trying to get out of it. Regardless I hope he wins his case. They messed up big time.
He is not the father. He just didnt want to make it about her lying. She was a kid too when she had the child so maybe she really didnt know.
@@harxmoond
Eastside Watts in the building!!! 🤜🏽🐩
His story sounds confusing
It really does. It's hard to believe he didn't know anything about a child support case for the 1st 7 years of the child's life. No phone calls or letters in the mail for 7 years. I call 🧢
@drob691 that's why I'm confused... you had no idea there was a pending child support case? AND how did she get your information to file? She needs your address and where you work... so how did 7 years go by and you don't hear anything and then boom you get garnished??? I'm mad because Angela Yee knows better to sit here and skate around questions and not ask the correct follow up questions
They didn’t start the case until 7 years later. But it is confusing. It appears as if he didn’t take it serious until it was too late.
I asked a guy once who was complaining about child support if it was just cheaper to buy a condom 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@@antonyjones1912all the stars when he was 12 years old
You can stop child support by not having a child! Kids are not cheap especially if you want to give them the best quality of life.
Lol not the point of this video
This kid wasn’t his. So your comment makes no sense
Well clearly you're accidentally lying, because this child was not his child. And there has been an abundance of cases across time & the country of men on child support accidentally with no bio child or a lie about it being his child. And most States stance on the subject is that once the Judge signs off and the case starts its for the duration. Please read more, child support was started by the US Gov to recoup funds from programs such as WIC, Welfare, Subsidized Housing & etc. You can even be ordered to pay support for an adopted child as well!
@@NasMom220 the comment was for the rest of the complainers in the comments with kids they don't want to pay for.
@@chinaarlene7035everybody in here complaining may not have kids and furthermore they are people paying for a child that is not there's. But some of yall will continue to defend BS
Angela questions are horrible..... Did he take care of the child thats not his. 😧🙄🤦🏾♂️
I know multiple ppl that have raised kids that weren’t theres, that they thought it was their kid then they found out it’s not their kid and they still chose to raise it
Right there are so many fathers that are on child support for kids that aren't even there's.
That’s a good question. Thats has happened. A man taking care of a child that he thinks is his but it’s someone else’s….. he said the child wasn’t his…
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