I am a Egyptian man and I think women should be respected if we want them to have respect for us. A woman is not my property.I do want a family one day.
I think man wants iteligent women to they can tok and make plans together mayby laugh together not obej some caine waife dother I think she miss understand avrything
@@TheNiqabGirl Believe me all people want calm in home and be littel pamper if you love eatch ather I think this go natural but it not the same to be obey all he wants all I see relation he is obey all she wants you should left part of you independent I think like that
I respect your opinion and support that statement, 143 Music. Respect should be mutual between husband and wife and not an ownership of each person, if the love and respect are there, a wife would never be treated like a servant or property she will be loved and protected by her husband and she will anticipate caring for him and trusting him with her whole heart and she will be his absolute joy.
I honestly think that checking anyone’s phone doesn’t make anyone a man! What makes someone a man is being honest, responsible, hardworking, supportive, understanding, loving, emotional..Basically the same things that make up a good woman. Respect, either way, is earned. If it needs to be requested, it can’t be called respect.
Well your words are very true! 💗💗💗I agree 👍😊.. You know, I just described how it is in Egypt! I didn't say that their ways are perfect!!! Many things in Egypt I personally disagree with but what can we do? It's the country behaviour and if someone choose this country so should be ready on its behaviour 😊
I'm very thankful for your videos! I'm engaged with an Egyptian and that's a fact that if you're decided to marry him, you MUST become an Egyptian wife, even if you're from another culture. It may seen weird for the wester culture and I'm having difficulties to adapt myself since I was raised in a Brazilian family. I grow up seeing my mother taking decisions, my father always cooked after work and did housework just like her, and they always gave us much freewill on decisions. It's hard, but also shows the purity of your love for that person. Again, thank you so much sister !
@Danielle Soares Oh yea you are Absolutely correct in this 😊 I love how you are open minded and actually understand the point. Many women from Europe are unable to understand it, it's really difficult but once you get used to all is fine...just the start might seem hard. But I believe for you it will be super easy.. Welcome to Egypt 😁❤️ btw thank you for your nice words and if you have some questions or topic what you want me to speak about. Hit me anytime, I will make video especially just for you ❤️❤️❤️
@Sandy Cheeks Hello, Sandy I'm thankful for your care, i know you had the best intentions on writing about it. I just want to explain i don't have a green card myself, I'm born Brazilian and have always been living here... And his family has money enough to live abroad for years (as they did) and he never asked for living here or hide the reality of Egypt, what he has said so far is about his desire that we live in Saudi Arabia, but never mentioned living here or immigrating to a wester county. I have been talking with his family, her mother, niece and everyone knows I'm not muslim and i don't pretend to convert... Still they don't hide anything from me about the poverty in his country, the family issued or the religion obligations. About the Muslimah i have never heard about it rsrsrs me met on a language exchange as I'm studying linguistics. But i appreciate everything you said and I'll put in consideration .
thank you for this your great understanding.. I am happy you see it the same way as I do. Btw have you already read my book? amzn.to/39sQArg I am sure you will enjoy it as much as this video :]
Life in Europe used to be like this, but now the woman are educated and are able to support themselves. No way would an educated woman put up with this, days of control are over. Of course a father guides.
well Egypt is example that it is not over and it is not bad....it depends from which view you will look at it...but arabian women are the most wanted wives in the world even by european men...maybe it is worth to think why it is like this?
@@TheNiqabGirl I have asked around, and arab women/wives are definitely absolutely not sought after, many are on a match making list in Europe. Sadly most of Arab men seek the typical blonde hair,blue eyed women or a passport to get out. I very much do not understand why you think Arab women are sort after? As I said earlier women are educated now, having professions, their homes are still very m8ch homes, we have things like dishwashers and various other labour saving devices,and with 2 incomes it's easily affordable to pay for a cleaner leaving good quality time to enjoy family time,and couple time.
thank you dear, so happy you see it the same way and you can confirm my words. it will help other women, I am sure of that. theniqabgirl.com/2022/01/22/let-me-help-you/
This happened with me personally a 70 years old Italian woman and her son came to city hall where I work and asked about apiece of land which supposed to be a village on the sea in Matrouh she told me that her Egyptian husband want her to pay in this project so she came to make sure if its true project or not specially her husband just disappeared and don't answer her calls.. she showed me the marriage contract It was aprinted paper with no value and I told her it's not a legal contract or registered any where. And its good that you came and asked about the project which is fake . But I blamed her why she didn't ask the embassy before got married. This is a big mistake I tell you this story to show how scammers hunt their victims
Thank you for this story...I am sure will help a lot of women. And this story is still with a good end...but I have read and listen and saw soo tragic stories, you have no idea....a lot of women end absolutely broke, literally on the street 😔 and as you mentioned embassies they have a lot of work with this also but they do not provide the information before to avoid such cases. And that's why I wrote the book. To open eye the foreigner women. And to learn! Even my book has very hard title it's for a good reason 🙂
Respecting his culture and tradition and willingness to adjust and if he does the same too towards you, coz of the strong foundation of Love... would make the relationship work.
Thanks for the information you shared. I have a question, did your husband try to or ask for your permission to get a second wife during those 4 years of waiting? I'm currently dating an Egyptian and he once told that he would ask for my permission incase I don't get children. Since then I don't really feel comfortable with him.
@Opium Olempea hello dear, yes actually to be honest we discussed the point. well it is kind of complicated situation. look i dont know what about your egyptian man but my husband is the only son and if he does not get children so his heritage will finish. honestly firstly of course i was angry and sad etc. but you know i have only brother :D :D as well and i though about it if my brother was in the same situation, married woman who could not give him child so our heritage will finish as well. so it is sad from this point. and in case of my husband i belive it is even harder because of his family. I mean egyptian love kids so much so they push on him all the time. anyway dear, honestly to save heritage my husband must have a son. and we have a daughter at the end so indeed I am still in the same position. but do you know what? Before i get my daughter one day I stop be afraid from this point because it is in God's hand and whatever should happen will happen anyway. so why should i be stressed from it now? you know what i mean dear? God knows what I can bear and what not. and if he puts me to difficult situation of course he will have even solution for me. I wanna say at the end this point really ups to your personal belief and relationship with God. Imagine I saw families here, have plenty of children, money, happiness and the man at the end marry another woman as well....this is really a faith. I hope I little bit helped you with my answer. if you have any other question. of course go on, ask me anything you want.
@@TheNiqabGirl the Egyptian guy I’m talking to is a world traveler, already divorced so he’s not looking for marriage and has no kids. He hasn’t said if he ever wants kids, but I know I don’t. So if he doesn’t either... well I still I can’t be with him. He’s not a Christian. 😣😣 why’s this always so complicated. I don’t connect with any American men at all.
Can I ask you ,,is he Muslim?,, Also you should know the reason why he divorced and why he has no kids 🙄 cuz it's strange here If one is already married and has no kids so probably there was a problem to have kids ... But if he is not looking for marriage that's make things more strange ... Really take care dear ❤️
Well, if you want to have more work, it would be a pleasure for your husband to help you out. Lol! There are many businesses! Do you like farming and keeping animals? It's a common business in Egypt, your husband can hire for this job and share profits with you. If your needs will be fulfilled, why would you work?
😃😃😃 really feel so ? I don't know to be honest ..there will be more videos from this place still in sha Allah...but idk if I will make another video on this topic but who knows ...only God 😉🇪🇬♥️
I am a Christian women, and I believe that a women should be respectful and loving and obedient to her husband, but if my husband ever asks me to do something God does not want me to do, I will not do it. Jesus is the king of kings and Lord of Lords. I know of too many men who forget they are not above God. Or they think they are doing God's will when they are not. I left my husband, because he had many wives, but not just many wives, wives that are sisters, and that goes against the true word of God. My ex husband does not trust in the bible. I do, and it says our life style was abomination and unclean. I loved him, and I miss him, but I am free, and I will not be a slave to sin again.
Thank you dear for your comment . I believe the two people should be from the same religion and even the same level of religion to make the relationship works. Of course what happened with you is very hard and you are very strong woman you left this situation and can make your life move on ❤️ you have all my support dear
Like wat usaid how if ur Egyptian husband and u were not mke a baby but him he wants a baby is he leaves u?? Or he marry another woman to have a. Baby??? Hows a situation of being first wife if u were no baby ? The he find another woman to marry??
Exactly dear ..he has 2 options: divorce you or.keep you and marry another woman ..well there is even third one to sacrifice for you and stay with you without baby ..but it's so rare ... And what is the position of first one ? Thats a good questions but complicated one ..I will make video about it better
Yea that's true ..I absolutely agree but you know well Egypt is not always the same as Islam ..and Egyptian don't do all the time the same as Islam tell us . This is the sad truth
@@TheNiqabGirl you're right but at the same time they are not demons as you described us in video beating women and forcing them to always stay home this is not right but cleaning house and cooking is her duty as my duty is working and earning money each has his responsibilities
Probably you missunderstood me ..I didn't speak about EgyptianS as demons, neither beating ...and yes you r right each of us has a duty but problem is that foreigner women always must change on Egyptian way while the Egyptian men stay the same, unchanged...that's not fair... Don't you think ?
I have seen many Egyptian or other Arabian wives who clearly rule the house. I would say most Egyptian wives surely do say their opinion loudly and usually get what they want. Most of them are also highly educated.
@Raya well you are right they rule the house ..but we must say as well just in the house 🏠. Outside the home is leader the man. Well, education is very very arguable. Let's say Egyptian university is on level of European high school..and I see many Egyptian women who has university, yet in the real life they are not educated at all... Education in Egypt is a real problem in common. However I loved your comment ❤️keep in touch
well a wahabi girl like you will never have well educated friends and that doesn't mean that our universities are bad it means you are not intelligent enough to meet smart people @@TheNiqabGirl
@@eliyonmilo9297I was willing to listen to her but compare universities like Alexandria to European high school?!? Sis lost me there, I’m offended and I’m not Egyptian.
I'm asian and I met an Egyptian man through chat because my cousin gave my Facebook name to him. He asked me to be his girlfriend and asked if I wanted to come with him. I noticed while chatting that he really wants someone who can follow orders. It hasn't been 24 hours since we chatted but I can feel he is dominant. I don't mind though since I'm an obedient type of woman. I just don't know If I should continue talking to him and bet my life with him.
oh dear , no way, those type of man are really bad after marriage, even if you are obedient woman you can have nice and soft man, who will treat you as princess
look if you want to go to deatils in your story, you can always book a call with me here theniqabgirl.com/2022/01/22/let-me-help-you/ i will be more than happy to explain you everything step by step
I met an Egyptian Man online 11 months ago he is 45 he has never been married and doesn’t have children I am 55 he has ask me to marry him he has shared his life his past relationships we have constant communication his feelings seem so sincere he is not rich but is able to do what he wants I did meet him on On Line Dating I’m going to Egypt in January he has asked me to live there but my life is here my family is seeing this only as a Green Card. I would Love your thoughts because it is a huge step and we have spoke of my Daughters and Mother’s concern
sorry for late answer...however, this is a very complicated...if you and he were younger i would tell you dont do it..but he is 45 but still can be scammer but does not have to be. it also depends does he has job? does he has his own flat? does he still depends on his parents? from which part of egypt he is exactly? does he speak english fluently? I do not know if you wanna discuss all of this in public, so you can write me email better...however if you go to egypt at january, go there firstly just for a visit and look how he will treat you and if you will like the life in egypt. because not all foreigners are able to afford it dear...just be carefull
Exactly true Egyptian man treat like this.. I'm married Egyptian man for 5years now... For the firts I'm together with him.. It's hard because I can't understand why...don't do this.. Don't act like this.. I swear it's hardship things with him... But more and more years with him... I understand his point as a husband... Important thing with relationship with Egyptian husband.. Respect listen what he say... If you don't agree... He say tell me what you wanna say something...so me and my husband open each other.. For the better way....especially I'm pilipina its very different culture where I grow up...he didn't allowed me to go alone he don't want me to go travel alone.. Even I ask him that he stay here for work and I go to Egypt to stay there he don't want me allowed... He want me always becide with him.... Also I notice with him... When it's come the things.. For me.. He don't want me spend money.. He say always with me.. It's my responsibility...so that why everything I want or I need.. If I ask him.. He give me...❤️❤️
wow very beautiful indeed. it is exactly as you said..at the first it can seem hard, diffirent but when you get used you will see things from opposite site. It is a real love and care which your husband provides you. and i am so happy you had the patience to understand this at the end....I wish you are always happy with your husband
@@mayannsalvana4149 it's depend what you want...i ask him for something especially if I like something... Like clothes bag.. Actually I'm not wife demand always to my husband...especially when it's expensive things.... I choose the things can afford... My husband...😊😊It's important he treat me like a princess and most important respect.. As a wife
@iman mosmar ofcourse not all...it ups how he grow up, on his education, family and so on.. about this I already spoke many time especially in my book...that's why choosing a partner is the most important decisions in your life ... Because when it's wrong, life goes blue ..❤️
I am struggling now too much with my relationship with an Egyptian married man😔🥺 we see and love each other.. He said he don't have a good relationship with he's wife 4years ago until now.. And he have a lit of problem, he can't leave or divorce her because of the kids🥺 he is educated man.. I love him and i feel also he love me too.. I need someone i can talk to and need some advices so badly😢💔💔💔
Firstly I can't understand why are you in relationship with a married man ? Don't you feel sorry for his wife ? Imagine something like this would happen to you .. Secondly he can divorce her but he doesn't want so. From your words I would say he is searching about another wife ..so if you are fine with polygamy that's ok ..
girl he will never leave his wife dont accept this u deserce to be number 1 u do what makes u happy buti could never hope u can be happy what ever u deicide x
Don't belive him , that he can't divorce his wife . He can make it even by words only 3x he should say to the wife and they finished.. and he can send money to them... but if he doesn't want to do it means his playing to you. he wants another wife only.. Don't believe him.
Well in Islam woman must obey her husband ..and so in Egyptian culture.. it's not slavery.. because slave has no right but Woman in Islam and Egypt has a rights!
@mohammed bright I was joking, you can read my comment up ...of course husband should be respected, because he is your way to paradise. But Honestly with the respect to the manager 🤣that's something different..if I find I am more clever them the manager than it would be extra hard for me to respect him ...but I have problem with this and I know it's wrong..but the same point as with polygamy - we grew up so ...so it's hard to change this model of thinking 🤗
good but i believe that women needs the same respect it needs to be equal.. Men and women equal.. We don't have to educate women what to do with their husbands.. If so then we also have to educate men and what to do with their wives..
I’m an Australian dating an Egyptian man. I feel like a lot of your points are quite valid. I consider myself to be respectful, but he is overall quite respectful too. I was wondering what you thought about an engyptian man flirting with other women? We have had some issues in our relationship with him flirting, taking girls out for “coffee” and not telling me.. texting girls flirting messages.. he says that I’m the “most jealous” girl he has been with, but I rarely bring it up anymore.. Am I on the path to doom with him? I’m wondering if it’s normal for Egyptian men to emotionally cheat. I’m not saying that it’s okay in any culture or religion. I’m just wondering how common or looked down upon it is in Egypt?
@Harriet O'Hara hello dear ❤️ thank you for this beautiful question. I will try to answer it as possible as I can. I believe almost all Egyptian men are kind of flirty..they are very ,,warm,, people and love to have a lot of friends etc. But! And now it depends on his religion and family he came from. - as long as he is Muslim, (and don't believe him if he tells you, he is modern Muslim) he should NOT taking girls for a coffee or texting them and hide it in front of you. I believe if his intentions were clear, he would tell you about them 😉or take you on the coffee with them. but if he does it secretly, so then better run away from it . I hope it will help you little bit. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask anytime. I am here for you ❤️
I am married to an Egyptian man since many years and can tell you that taking girls out for coffee without telling you is not normal in his culture. He actually shows that he is not sincere with you and looks for "better" options. These flirty and overly open guys are not good to marry; paradoxically these guys will eventually marry a very conservative woman to have kids with, not a foreigner. Sorry to not tell you more positive things, but what you describe raises red flags.
This is a big no ! He cannot do that. I was talking to an Egyptian man & he was flirty with women that's a big reason I will not be with him when there are many men that want to be with me so much appreciated .don't let him cheat .I could see the Egyptian guy cheating on me if I was to be with him big red flags
Salam sis watching your video makes my tears fall saying you cannot conceive a child but alhamdullilah you have now.. what is the reason why dr says you cannot have a child can u share it with me? Im same in your situation
Well there would not be problem travel around the world with Ur egy husband but if you don't want children then you are right your marriage would never work and you would suffer very much
@@TheNiqabGirl It's okay as long as the husband can fulfil their needs and treat them fairly! Some Muslim women don't like to feel so much controlled so being a second wife will give them more space to handle their own lives as long as these practices don't go against Islam. Jealousy exists, but if the husband wants to marry another woman, he Islamically can! Capability is required though! Marrying more than one wife is conditional! Not all men can successfully do it!
@mohammed Bright Yes I absolutely agree with what you told. But there is one problem .. foreigner or non Muslim women ( even of they convert to Islam lately) they grew up different way .. and it's very hard for most of us to accept this condition. Because we grew up to see each other equal or we see men actually less then women. So if someone teach you this since you were kid then it's so hard for most of the woman to learn again the exact opposite. And it's even more harder to accept polygamy. Even if it's reasonable. The equality - made a big mess in the world .. I know for you as a man it might be hard to understand, but trust me for the women feelings it's not easy at all and especially when you grow up in absolutely different conditions and rules
oh, no I dont love but my mission is very clear, I came to egypt to learn about everything here, culture , mentality , traditions to be able to help other women here in need
My Egyptian zougi and ana have 2 boys( 6 and 10). I m the one who beg him and fighted with him about getting a 3rd child and we( mostly i) tried for few years. He made it clear that he don't want to the point that now he don't even want intimacy with me...
@Tata's Life nope, thats not correct... you have your rights with Egyptian man and one of it, its intimacy.. it is your right and his duty and vica verce ... about baby can be more complicated - it should be mutual agreement between partners..but let me tell you secret: many egyptain women are tricking this point and getting pregnant and saying it was God miracle but I don't see it fair towards the man
So happy for you that you managed to get pregnant! And honestly, respectful wife, who would make him feel like a real man, that's what many men, secretly wish for, just doesn't have the courage to ask for anymore ;).
Thank you dear 🥰 yea my daughter is real gift from God 🙏 in my life... Well I guess all men wish it 😂but I also believe all men should give respect back to us women ...
well as you already mentioned... if a men have a rules how to treat women so then even women must have a rules how to treat a men :D in this point it is justice
@@TheNiqabGirl You are not his property and he is not your property try be happy with your self ferst playse anather way will not be happy in merried you will only try make happy avryone else and at the and no body will be happy
I appreciate the information you're providing. It seems the first few years were difficult for you in Egypt. I'm happy you were able to have a child. I am curious about the issues of a woman or man not being able to have children for medical reasons. Adoption is an option in the United States for couples who cannot conceive. Is adoption an option in Egypt? There are so many children who need families to adopt them, especially orphans. Sometimes things happen where a man or woman is unable to have children. It seems sad to think a woman cannot find a husband because she is unable to have a child. Actually I think it is unfair really. That doesn't mean she will not make a good wife because she can't conceive. Perhaps she would be even more loving to her husband and the same would apply to a man, he would love his wife more because he can't give her babies. However what you have said Egypt is different. Many blessings to you and thank you for the content.
Thank you dear..yea ofcourse first year were difficult...I guess if any person decide to change his life and faith! And move to absolutely different country..so no matter how much he loves the place but he must suffer... everything is new and you have to learn. And as I already told before, the best learning is from your own mistakes 😁👍 thanks God for everything. And adoption yea it's possible in Egypt but it's not that easy...and trust me I was thinking about this. Actually since I was kid I always wanted to do it. You r right here is so many children wants a love and care. But maybe this could be good topic for another video because it's so complicated that I cannot answer you just in one comment ,,why I didn't do it at the end,, 😁 I promise I will make video about it soon ...thank you dear for your great comment and support ♥️
Thank you for sharing about Egyptian man..now i have a idea how to handle my boyfriend Egyptian. Were just started 2months only.. And im deeply inlove with him.. And i don't have any idea about him..just what i see for him is being a good person and nice..he tell what he likes and he don't like.. I hope my commitment to him..getting stronger... Thank you again🥰🥰🥰
I already mentioned it many times...I am originally from Czech and live in Egypt for 10 years..and know egypt for 20 years ...why do you want to know matrimony sites? Do u want to marry Egyptian man ?
not heard response from your side yet regarding authentic matrimony sites ?i heard that offices are every where corner of the streets ,i dont know its truth or not ?
This is called subjugation. If someone wants to control the other person in any way, this is not love, that is abuse. Punishment in the way of being passive-aggressive or treating you badly or behaving badly is still abuse. Free will is love. You need to be able to trust the other person that they will respect you, not to force the other person to do your will. That is what communication and compromise is for. By the way, I have dated two Arabs. I am currently dating an Egyptian. Yes, the culture is different. Yes, you should expect different things. But don't compromise on who you are as a person.
Well thanks to your comment and your opinion...I understand very well what you wanna say but I cannot agree...this is not abuse because women here are actually happy ... It would look different if it's abuse and so bad as you mentioned 😉
@@TheNiqabGirl I saw you crying because your husband might marry another woman because you thought you could not have children. If he only values you for one thing or you think you might be rubbish if you cannot have children, that is not good. There are all kinds of abuse, not just physical. Mental, verbal, and emotional.
Well okay good point..so let's think about it different way. What the man should do in your opinion if he wants to have a kid but the woman is not able????
First, I want to say congratulations on having your baby and being blessed with motherhood! Alhamdulillah for everything God blesses us with. :) Second, You are absolutely right when you say most Egyptian men want to have children. Having a family is everything in this culture and it's important for foreigner women to be aware of how crucial and fate determining having children really is here. Often times I have seen women here get with a man who claims he doesn't want to have kids but he was actually scamming her to get money and visa so of course he is going to tell her anything she wants to hear so he can get what he wants!. 9 times out of 10 when an Arab man from ANY country says he doesn't want kids, he is either lying cuz he isn't taking the relationship seriously or he has more sinister plans. I have a friend who was a victim of a scammer and she brought him to her country, he claimed he didn't want children but she unexpectedly fell pregnant. After he got his residency visa he abandoned both her and the child then married an Egyptian woman and had a baby with her. When i was dating before i met my husband i stayed away from any man who said he didn't want children because i know exactly what that really means. Of course there are exceptions like u said lol but its 1 in million. Spot on! Other points of your discussion I have had both similar and different experiences with. I have met men here who as you say speak about every aspect of their wife's life, clothing, phone, career, etc but i have also met many who do not. My husband has never once gone through my phone. I also wear whatever I want and he has never tried to advise me in anything. I lived here many years alone before we even met so I was already aware of what to wear if for whatever reason we will be in a conservative area, which has happened only 1 time in our 3 year marriage and in that event we were travelling to a village to meet a distant relative of his so i wore a hijab and long sleeves. He did not even have to suggest I do that, I already knew. I also do not have to announce every time I want to go out, i do not have to check in, and I do not have account for any money I spend. I do not even have to ask permission for anything. There are many men i have met that are like my husband whom actually frown upon the practice of being the over dominating male with a complex of superiority. My husband and others like him also frowns upon the concept that women have to obey their husbands to the extent she is meerly a child. I honestly cannot even think of one example where my husband has demanded anything of me and expected me to agree or do it without complaint if i should have one. A decent man, no matter his race, country of origin, or religion, will not expect his wife to do something to which he knows it sincerely bothers her, inconveniences her, or she disagrees with. Like for example, a husband invites his whole family over for dinner. He tells his wife ok go start cooking and preparing everything for tonight. She tells him she's feeling tired and doesn't have the energy to do a big meal on no notice. He makes a fuss and she reluctantly goes to start cooking. Ok, this would never happen with my husband because he would have taken the time to sit with me and decide which time in the week is suitable on my end. My husband is someone who had never made me feel anything less than an equal partner in our marriage. We both have equally important responsibilities. He works and pays the bills and i cook, clean, and take care of our child. I could work if i want to. My husband is not controlling and wouldn't mind if i wanted to have a job. But i dont lol cuz i absolutely despise working and i prefer to stay home. There are many men like my husband here in Egypt. I know several in my circle of friends and in my Egyptian family. My husband's father was the same as well. He never stopped his wife from working, she was a school administrator. He also never controlled what she wore, she was always wearing the latest French fashion which consisted of heels and a short, form fitting dress. She did not wear hijab until she chose to do so over age 40. This country is so vast and complex with different levels of culture and class to the point where it's common that individual expats will have an entirely different experience and outlook on Egypt than each other. This is because traditional, cultural, and behavioural norms vary from city to city, neighbourhood to neighbourhood, and family to family. I have met both good and bad Egyptian men here when I was single. Some were absolutely misogynistic and others, like my husband, were more liberal minded and adopted a slightly more westernized lifestyle. I speak from experience when I say the culture clash is less prominent when your husband, bf, fiance and his family are those who are highly educated, live in a nice neighbourhood, and well travelled and experienced with western culture and individuals. The area he and his family are from will have a significant impact on treatment and position of women, self determination, education quality, and even interpretation of Islam. When you are meeting an Egyptian man from a less privileged background, and you haven't experienced other aspects of Egypt and it's people, then chances are the Egypt you see with them alongside you will be very different and rather one sided. This is just what I personally experienced. Loved the video! Thanks for reading my crazy long comment! It's so great that you are raising awareness of aspects of life here in Egypt! Keep it up!❤
Thank you dear! I was afraid little bit to speak about my personal experience 😁 cuz I don't wanna hurt anyone but in the same time I wanna say my opinion ....so I had to find a middle way but it's really hard 😅. Well yea thanks God for everything as you told and thank you again... And now to your comment As I told in my previous podcast, people in Cairo as capital city VS people from Alexandria...it's really so different...I guess in every capital city people are more open minded and modern... but this is not in Alex. However I still agree with you. Maybe I didn't tell it clear in the video. But I didn't want to say that every man will control the woman. No. I wanted to say that if the man is like this and he does it so he has the right actually...and that's most of the foreign women do not want to understand or simply they do not know it. I will give u example. If I marry from my country and he check my mobile so he has no right at all! I could even call a police in this time. But if egy man check ur mobile so what woman will do ??? Nothing 🤣 because it's his right here. So I guess the best option is the women must be careful who they marry! It's the most important decisions in your life actually! Because if you marry a bad man so life will turn to hell. I hope u understand what I mean 😀 and sorry I wasn't clear enough in the video ♥️♥️♥️♥️🇪🇬love you dear
@@TheNiqabGirl i totally agree and i tell ppl this all the time that come to Egypt...be careful who u marry! Lol you wouldn't believe the list of topics i had to discuss prior to marriage. After all my experiences here, both good and bad, it was crucial to go over so many different points because I did not want to find myself in an unpleasant situation or be with a giant misogynistic man baby controlling every aspect of my life. Finding a suitable partner for myself in Egypt was not only about chemistry and sparks, but also asking a series of questions and possible scenarios in order to determine if it was going to be a fulfilling union or one i would not adapt to. Thank God everything worked out, even after some awful experiences in my early years here. :)
My ex was Syrian. I treated him like crap till he left. I did t trust him though so. I dated a few Arabs and they seemed nice they were in love with me but idk I didn’t like them like that. I don’t like men who throw themselves at women or aren’t very smart. But my Italian ex was the best. He was the most romantic loving kind and beautiful man 😍
@@TheNiqabGirl he wasn’t the perfect guy. I suspected he was cheating. But he suspected the same of me. I just don’t like liars and he wasn’t always honest. So things had to end.
@@TheNiqabGirl nah sister you took it miss . I told that. is it possible to find a good girl in Egypt as a foreigner .( I'm a foreigner to them ) what can I do that. can you help me .. that was I said sis
I am confused in other videos I see the advantages of dating an Arab or Egyptian man and all women say that they are the best very romantic and protective men. but now when observing you,And listening to your opinions that can even hit you because what a disappointment I see that the woman is mistreated in her dignity and also her clothing is not comfortable, they are very covered, and if a man Hit a lady then they are not a good option as husbands, a shame because I thought they were good because of so many girls who speak well of them.
Well it's big difference between Arab and Egyptians and take care because Egyptian people hate when someone call them Arab! And indeed they are very romantic and good fathers ...but I spoke about their rights..what they can do. Doesn't mean they have to or they will. But I wanted to touch even the worst point to prepare the other women on this that it can happen and already happened to many women. When it happens many women then doesn't understand why or how, so that's what k wanted to make clear. For example if I compare european mám vs Egyptian men .. I would always choose Egyptian even with bad habits..
The problem is not that he is the Man so u have to obey and you fear that he might get another woman since u are not usefull anymore, which already is something so mean (and i felt so sad the moment you said it) since science have fixed it with assisted reproductive tecnology. The problem is that those who you call Man are most likely barely educated people that think they are Man but actually are victims of the environment they Live in and get married Just to calm their sexual needs and end up having no idea about what is a family since (as u said) they will tell u how to dress and behaviour while u are with them: this is Just insane cause most of them have just a sort of idea of the women but no clue about inner problems and psichology. The time when any women will speak openly about house problems without fearing death or lynching or bad words in their families, only in this time the situation will be better because men realized a better behaviour. No surprise why a lot of women the moment they go abroad will never come back, unless its because of their family: cause its not their choice to get married, most likely. For other than that i wish really the best for you and any egyptian girl: you are strong and for that you really deserve the best. 🌹🌹🌹
Who told you that Egyptians are not clean? I think you do not know about Egyptians well. If your Egyptian man is not clean, it is your problem but it does not mean all Egyptians are the same. Not all Egyptian check wive's phones as you said, your problem is you judge all Egyptians are the same, it is not true. Maybe your husband is a farmer I mean those people from the south of Egypt.
Oh not like that at all ...I don't judge all Egyptian man the same way . I always bring bad and good side ..you can check my newest video about Egyptian man, I spoke about them so beautiful way. Trust me .. And nope, ms husband is not farmer 🤣 I grow up with Egyptian people indeed so trust me I know Egypt well and I would never marry farmer man or man from low class . However about clean places and people I will disagree with you ..if I compare with Europe so it's simply incomparable..sorry but it is how it is .. my opinion as from European woman.
Now you judged People working in farming and those who are from the south for not being clean, what makes you better than them? You should stop having double standards
@@TheNiqabGirl wow I appreciate the fast reply, not any extensive experience, the ones I have met seemed very nice but I am a business woman and am used to making a lot of the financial decisions in a relationship and I wouldn’t enjoy a man who wanted me to quit working and have him be in charge of the money. And the expecting children thing made me really sad cause I have a lot of infertility in my family and all of their husbands stayed with them and decided to adopt or decided that they weren’t meant to have children. Do you still live in Egypt? Sorry if you said it in the video and I missed it
Yea I live in Egypt and will live here forever dear ..so more content is coming ..even more personal one .. You are so wise, keep it .. Really adoption is not for Egyptians at all ... Egypt is not for everyone honestly ..a lot of sacrificed must be made . And if you already have built up your life, I think you find better 😊🥰❤️
@@animalover9000, You can be a second wife. xD! Being a second wife helps you have more freedom to do what you like as long as it's not against Islam. Actually, most men who like to marry another wife will consider you a great deal since many of them prefer women who are not interested in having children!
@@TheNiqabGirl Egyptians are Arabs? Do you know when you enter a channel of an Arab woman that the topic of the video was the advantages of dating an Arab man, and she said only good things, She says that Arab men love their mother very much and that their wife will treat her like a queen and never beat them and dominate them too much, and women who made comments to her about dating With your Arab men and Egyptian men they said it was true, but now when I see your video I don't know who is telling the truth because you say that they can hit you and that is very bad. and the other drawback is that they can have more than one wife and that is already perversion. I believe in loyalty and monogamy, because God created a single Eve has not created many women for Adam.
I am Egyptian and i would to tell you the Egyptians only want to live peacefully and they fear much problems so they act the way they act that may be strange to you so i insist on marrying an Egyptian woman that can understand my style of life .
Respect and love your man unconditionally. Both ways should do have give and take in a relationship. Understanding every mood and flaws, everything about your man and so as he is with you. Accept everything about him and don't look nor compare him with other men. #IlovemyEgytianman
I am married to an Egyptian man and is very similar to latin american culture. All latin countries men are the same. I guess you only speaking about European and white people yes they are differen.
This is terrible Thanks for making the video and explaining how Egyptian boys are raised to think they should control their wives because it will help to stop people from marrying Egypt’s men. I like the more modern version of women who study and grow up from learning and have experience. And I see many many Egyptian guys get married as boys- not Men at all. The other issue is girls are brought up to believe THEY HAVE ONE DAY as Arousa (bride) and after that wedding day - nothing is for women’s happiness. My Egyptian husband can respect me and I will show him respect. If I take care of him when he’s sick then he should do the same. If they have love 💗
@karen Sitto you are very right about your words ..many people marry here when they are not mentally ready for it BUT there is one problem with the Aroosa ..I see the girls grow up since day 1 in this earth 😁 that their all life is supposed to be just bride, but what's more shocking they don't mind, they accept and look forward to it .. sometimes I see it's kind of comfortable for them, maybe about laziness because they don't need to use their minds, study or learn new stuffs etc . However not all are like this ..in Cairo or even sometimes here in Alex we have very independent and rich woman who are into career more than into marriage ..but statistically it's still kind of rare 😁
@@TheNiqabGirl Thanks for your reply. I truly respect all peoples culture and I just hope that women marry egyptian men for the right reasons. Or they will have a nightmare to handle. And I noticed you have different sub sets of thinking inside the culture. Being that my husband is Bedouin I can appreciate all the different ways of living life. I will be in Egypt in three weeks Inshallah!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I dont know lathing or cry sad for you Im happy that my egyptian man have open maind I think more mans want iteligent women that obey women some day you will get this .In Europe much mans dont want have childrens so came here.
No it's not like this... My husband is very open minded and we are very happy together. And I agree in Europe men don't want children but in Egypt sorry but every men want...you should know that if you r here. Egyptians are so proud of their children! It's the biggest love in their life ....and it's not about education....it's the culture here like this
@@TheNiqabGirl Is nothing wrong to want have children and I did not thinking is low educatio but here is like this if you cant have childrens but you very want just try adopt child becouse is many lonly childrens in the world .I heard one time in program women who couldyn born child say that her mam say that mayby God dont make you born a child to you could adopt same lonly child to make this child happy that all.No Im not in Egypt
Am Somalian and am so in love with Arab girls. Especially Egyptians. I wish I could live there in Egypt. I would have marry one Egyptian and be very obedient to her. I really love Arab girls. They so attractive and beautiful ❤️
It's okay 😊 you didn't know me. But trust me when I say I love Egypt more then anything else in this world. I just wish to teach foreigners about Egypt. That's my mission 😉
Give Him a money ??? Then he will not be considered as a man here ... Scammers try to do this with foreigners but a true good egy man will never say so
But when I refused to give him money he said he was only joking!! ? Them asked me a few months later again and I still said no and when I told him a real man doesn’t ask women money he got angry and told me off and accused me of being disrespectful and didn’t talk to me for a month.then said he was o my tearing me to see if I really cared about him or not. Now I’m not talking to him at all and don’t want go back to Egypt for him while he tells me he is the king and best man in Egypt and how everyone respects and listens to him what he says .
Hello dear ...he is definitely not good man and player...he wasn't joking about the 💰 he really wants it ...he only says it was joke cuz he wants you to trust him ... And if he has so high self-confidence so then from my view of point he is a mum's boy ..I mean spoilt one ! Go away from him ...forget about him ..he will not bring you happiness at all .
@@lindarodrigues2195 if it wasn’t fir me having to come back to Australia quickly and then borders closed in Australia I would have gone back to Egypt but while I’ve been here he has shown me his true colors.
@@TheNiqabGirl So we should be RELIEVED that he can only have 4 wives, not 5? Hahaha Oh please! How absurd. Any man should only marry ONE woman. Period. The rest of civilized world knows this.
Ok he is not.the king but in Egypt wife treat her husband as he is her King 😉 Plus God made Adam Frist and then made woman from Adam so we are not the same dear...there will be always difference between men and women
Assalam waleicum sister. I am 35 years old and I am Muslim for 15 years. I can't not have kids because i have 3 chronic health problems. I accept it normally, because it's Allah's will. I am alone and I am ok. One thing that is very bad and a sin is when Muslim men and his family don't accept a woman that can't have kids, because it's God's will, so means they don't trust God, they don't accept his will. How can you be a good Muslim if u don't trust his decisions?! I've meet a guy that couldn't have kids either and his wife left him. He was heartbroken for fer behavior. So don't be sad, It's Allah's will. He have other plans for you. And you can raise adopted kids. Father and mother is who raise a child There are too much people having kids and not even caring about if they eat........ So ❤️❤️❤️❤️ May Allah bless and protect you and your family 🙏
Wa aleikom Salam, Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your honesty and feel with your story. And I agree with you in every word you said . I believe Allah test everyone upon what we are able to bear. Well but he can even reward us back for our good deeds. I mean look at me...doctors told I will never have kids and by time and Allah will I have two children now. Back then I remember one sheikh told me ,,dua,, changes everything and whatever we ask from Allah, Allah is ashamed if he doesn't give it to us. The matter is just right timing and if it's good for us ! If it's good for our life we will definitely have it and if it's bad so Allah will give us some things better. Isn't that beautiful? I mean it's amazing you found peace within yourself but in the same time don't lose hope ..because Allah can change everything In one second 🙏 ❤️ just ask for it and I will pray for you that all your wishes will be fulfilled..again thank you so much
well i told it in the video because egyptian beauty standards are white with blue eyes and blond... so most of egyptian does not like black women..but i dont say its impossible, every rule has its exception
Actually Egyptian men are very attracted to black women, but rarely marry them bc of culture, familial racism, as well as black women being harder to control
I liked an Egyptian man. I don't like him anymore after watching your videos.:)))) I can't live like this. thanks for the info. I'd rather stay in America anyway
@lu Lu oh so sorry to hear that but I am happy for you that you realized it now before it's too late ..Egypt and Egyptian man is not for everyone to be honest.. Wish you good luck dear in anything you wish in your life 💕
@@TheNiqabGirl I don't believe in letting husbands have control and rule over wives. I'm no one door mat. Just my opinion. Happy for you about the baby. 😊
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I am a Egyptian man and I think women should be respected if we want them to have respect for us. A woman is not my property.I do want a family one day.
Wow nicely said and I totally agree...but unfortunately not all people think the way you do
I think man wants iteligent women to they can tok and make plans together mayby laugh together not obej some caine waife dother I think she miss understand avrything
Well maybe but I believe every man wants calm in his home, and that wife care about him and pamper him 🙂
@@TheNiqabGirl Believe me all people want calm in home and be littel pamper if you love eatch ather I think this go natural but it not the same to be obey all he wants all I see relation he is obey all she wants you should left part of you independent I think like that
I respect your opinion and support that statement, 143 Music. Respect should be mutual between husband and wife and not an ownership of each person, if the love and respect are there, a wife would never be treated like a servant or property she will be loved and protected by her husband and she will anticipate caring for him and trusting him with her whole heart and she will be his absolute joy.
I honestly think that checking anyone’s phone doesn’t make anyone a man! What makes someone a man is being honest, responsible, hardworking, supportive, understanding, loving, emotional..Basically the same things that make up a good woman. Respect, either way, is earned. If it needs to be requested, it can’t be called respect.
Well your words are very true! 💗💗💗I agree 👍😊..
You know, I just described how it is in Egypt! I didn't say that their ways are perfect!!! Many things in Egypt I personally disagree with but what can we do? It's the country behaviour and if someone choose this country so should be ready on its behaviour 😊
My husband has never ever checked my phone nor I his.
You are not a man so you don't know any thing about how guy can be a man!!!
and man's don't about what you think
I'm very thankful for your videos! I'm engaged with an Egyptian and that's a fact that if you're decided to marry him, you MUST become an Egyptian wife, even if you're from another culture. It may seen weird for the wester culture and I'm having difficulties to adapt myself since I was raised in a Brazilian family. I grow up seeing my mother taking decisions, my father always cooked after work and did housework just like her, and they always gave us much freewill on decisions. It's hard, but also shows the purity of your love for that person. Again, thank you so much sister !
@Danielle Soares Oh yea you are Absolutely correct in this 😊 I love how you are open minded and actually understand the point.
Many women from Europe are unable to understand it, it's really difficult but once you get used to all is fine...just the start might seem hard.
But I believe for you it will be super easy..
Welcome to Egypt 😁❤️ btw thank you for your nice words and if you have some questions or topic what you want me to speak about. Hit me anytime, I will make video especially just for you ❤️❤️❤️
It is indeed very difficult! Good luck in your marriage!
@Sandy Cheeks Exactly. Male dominance has already corrupted the planet.
@Sandy Cheeks Hello, Sandy I'm thankful for your care, i know you had the best intentions on writing about it. I just want to explain i don't have a green card myself, I'm born Brazilian and have always been living here... And his family has money enough to live abroad for years (as they did) and he never asked for living here or hide the reality of Egypt, what he has said so far is about his desire that we live in Saudi Arabia, but never mentioned living here or immigrating to a wester county. I have been talking with his family, her mother, niece and everyone knows I'm not muslim and i don't pretend to convert... Still they don't hide anything from me about the poverty in his country, the family issued or the religion obligations. About the Muslimah i have never heard about it rsrsrs me met on a language exchange as I'm studying linguistics. But i appreciate everything you said and I'll put in consideration .
Hi
You absolutely 100% correct about everything you mentioned it’s a culture you must understand before you get into it .
thank you for this your great understanding.. I am happy you see it the same way as I do.
Btw have you already read my book? amzn.to/39sQArg
I am sure you will enjoy it as much as this video :]
Life in Europe used to be like this, but now the woman are educated and are able to support themselves. No way would an educated woman put up with this, days of control are over. Of course a father guides.
well Egypt is example that it is not over and it is not bad....it depends from which view you will look at it...but arabian women are the most wanted wives in the world even by european men...maybe it is worth to think why it is like this?
@@TheNiqabGirl Its quite simple control, be under no illusion of grandeur. Fillipinos, Thailand are top of their list, women 30 years their junior
@@TheNiqabGirl I have asked around, and arab women/wives are definitely absolutely not sought after, many are on a match making list in Europe. Sadly most of Arab men seek the typical blonde hair,blue eyed women or a passport to get out. I very much do not understand why you think Arab women are sort after? As I said earlier women are educated now, having professions, their homes are still very m8ch homes, we have things like dishwashers and various other labour saving devices,and with 2 incomes it's easily affordable to pay for a cleaner leaving good quality time to enjoy family time,and couple time.
Your videos are very informative. I love your channel
so happy you like my channel dear
100% True from my own experience, My Dear. I am married to an Egyptian man and I can say the same. Thank you for the video! Love to watch your channel
thank you dear, so happy you see it the same way and you can confirm my words. it will help other women, I am sure of that.
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both should listen and respect each other 😊😊
That's true 👍 I could say it this way also 😂😂😂♥️🇪🇬
Respect come both way .
indeed but i believe each of us can understand respect kind of different way
This happened with me personally
a 70 years old Italian woman and her son came to city hall where I work and asked about apiece of land which supposed to be a village on the sea in Matrouh she told me that her Egyptian husband want her to pay in this project so she came to make sure if its true project or not specially her husband just disappeared and don't answer her calls.. she showed me the marriage contract It was aprinted paper with no value and I told her it's not a legal contract or registered any where. And its good that you came and asked about the project which is fake .
But I blamed her why she didn't ask the embassy before got married.
This is a big mistake
I tell you this story to show how scammers hunt their victims
Thank you for this story...I am sure will help a lot of women.
And this story is still with a good end...but I have read and listen and saw soo tragic stories, you have no idea....a lot of women end absolutely broke, literally on the street 😔 and as you mentioned embassies they have a lot of work with this also but they do not provide the information before to avoid such cases.
And that's why I wrote the book. To open eye the foreigner women. And to learn! Even my book has very hard title it's for a good reason 🙂
This video hits tight on my face because we just broke up..
so sorry to hear that
Respecting his culture and tradition and willingness to adjust and if he does the same too towards you, coz of the strong foundation of Love... would make the relationship work.
indeed you are right, but i belive its really hard especially for men...and we are humans so we make mistakes all the time ..
MashaAllah, I’m so happy for you ! ❤️
Thank you so much 🥰
hi..i want an Egyptian friend
. can we be friends?
Thanks for the information you shared. I have a question, did your husband try to or ask for your permission to get a second wife during those 4 years of waiting?
I'm currently dating an Egyptian and he once told that he would ask for my permission incase I don't get children. Since then I don't really feel comfortable with him.
@Opium Olempea hello dear, yes actually to be honest we discussed the point. well it is kind of complicated situation. look i dont know what about your egyptian man but my husband is the only son and if he does not get children so his heritage will finish. honestly firstly of course i was angry and sad etc. but you know i have only brother :D :D as well and i though about it if my brother was in the same situation, married woman who could not give him child so our heritage will finish as well. so it is sad from this point.
and in case of my husband i belive it is even harder because of his family. I mean egyptian love kids so much so they push on him all the time. anyway dear, honestly to save heritage my husband must have a son. and we have a daughter at the end so indeed I am still in the same position. but do you know what? Before i get my daughter one day I stop be afraid from this point because it is in God's hand and whatever should happen will happen anyway. so why should i be stressed from it now? you know what i mean dear? God knows what I can bear and what not. and if he puts me to difficult situation of course he will have even solution for me. I wanna say at the end this point really ups to your personal belief and relationship with God.
Imagine I saw families here, have plenty of children, money, happiness and the man at the end marry another woman as well....this is really a faith. I hope I little bit helped you with my answer. if you have any other question. of course go on, ask me anything you want.
I really like listening to you! I learned a lot as always!
Wow thank you dear..so happy for it ♥️
Thanks for sharing (: It so cool you use a burka (:
Thank you .. I really love my niqab 💖
A woman’s job is not just being a baby making machine, you have so much more to offer!!! Don’t let men and society tell you otherwise.
Yea of course I agree with you 💓 there is much more behind the seems even here in Egypt ..I just was speaking about the basics ..
@@TheNiqabGirl the Egyptian guy I’m talking to is a world traveler, already divorced so he’s not looking for marriage and has no kids. He hasn’t said if he ever wants kids, but I know I don’t. So if he doesn’t either... well I still I can’t be with him. He’s not a Christian. 😣😣 why’s this always so complicated. I don’t connect with any American men at all.
Can I ask you ,,is he Muslim?,,
Also you should know the reason why he divorced and why he has no kids 🙄 cuz it's strange here If one is already married and has no kids so probably there was a problem to have kids ...
But if he is not looking for marriage that's make things more strange ...
Really take care dear ❤️
Well, if you want to have more work, it would be a pleasure for your husband to help you out. Lol! There are many businesses! Do you like farming and keeping animals? It's a common business in Egypt, your husband can hire for this job and share profits with you. If your needs will be fulfilled, why would you work?
you have an amazing story to share...
Thank you so much ..you made my day ❤️❤️❤️🇪🇬
Absolutely agree with every word you said
thank you
Where are you from?
originally from czech republic
Hello. I want to ask , is Egypt identity card show marital status , sis?
Cause egyptian guy approach me and i want him to prove he is single or not.
Hello,
Unfortunately does not have to ..person can decide if he wants to have his marital status written in is ID or not ..
@@TheNiqabGirl thank you sis❤️
You welcome dear
Maşhallah another great video sister. ❤️ Good tips. Will there be another one? It feels like there's going to be a part 2?
😃😃😃 really feel so ? I don't know to be honest ..there will be more videos from this place still in sha Allah...but idk if I will make another video on this topic but who knows ...only God 😉🇪🇬♥️
Anyway I am so happy you like it sis 🥰💗💖 with your support I am looking forward more and more on every video I make
I am a Christian women, and I believe that a women should be respectful and loving and obedient to her husband, but if my husband ever asks me to do something God does not want me to do, I will not do it. Jesus is the king of kings and Lord of Lords.
I know of too many men who forget they are not above God. Or they think they are doing God's will when they are not.
I left my husband, because he had many wives, but not just many wives, wives that are sisters, and that goes against the true word of God.
My ex husband does not trust in the bible. I do, and it says our life style was abomination and unclean.
I loved him, and I miss him, but I am free, and I will not be a slave to sin again.
Thank you dear for your comment . I believe the two people should be from the same religion and even the same level of religion to make the relationship works. Of course what happened with you is very hard and you are very strong woman you left this situation and can make your life move on ❤️ you have all my support dear
Like wat usaid how if ur Egyptian husband and u were not mke a baby but him he wants a baby is he leaves u?? Or he marry another woman to have a. Baby??? Hows a situation of being first wife if u were no baby ? The he find another woman to marry??
Exactly dear ..he has 2 options: divorce you or.keep you and marry another woman ..well there is even third one to sacrifice for you and stay with you without baby ..but it's so rare ...
And what is the position of first one ? Thats a good questions but complicated one ..I will make video about it better
Iam Egyptian and we as Muslims in general consider women queens and we try to treat them best and satisfy them and this is what islam tells us
Yea that's true ..I absolutely agree but you know well Egypt is not always the same as Islam ..and Egyptian don't do all the time the same as Islam tell us . This is the sad truth
@@TheNiqabGirl you're right but at the same time they are not demons as you described us in video beating women and forcing them to always stay home this is not right but cleaning house and cooking is her duty as my duty is working and earning money each has his responsibilities
Probably you missunderstood me ..I didn't speak about EgyptianS as demons, neither beating ...and yes you r right each of us has a duty but problem is that foreigner women always must change on Egyptian way while the Egyptian men stay the same, unchanged...that's not fair... Don't you think ?
@@TheNiqabGirl depends on what you mean by Egyptian and foreign way
Excellent that's a long and complicated answer and that's what I try to show on my TH-cam ..the differences 😉😉😉
I am a New subscriber here watching from Jubail Saudi Arabia originally from Cagayan De Oro City Mindanao Philippines Godbless...
Nice to meet you 😊 welcome in our small Egyptian family ❤️
I have seen many Egyptian or other Arabian wives who clearly rule the house. I would say most Egyptian wives surely do say their opinion loudly and usually get what they want. Most of them are also highly educated.
@Raya well you are right they rule the house ..but we must say as well just in the house 🏠. Outside the home is leader the man.
Well, education is very very arguable. Let's say Egyptian university is on level of European high school..and I see many Egyptian women who has university, yet in the real life they are not educated at all... Education in Egypt is a real problem in common.
However I loved your comment ❤️keep in touch
well a wahabi girl like you will never have well educated friends and that doesn't mean that our universities are bad it means you are not intelligent enough to meet smart people @@TheNiqabGirl
she is a wahabi don't take her so seriously
@@eliyonmilo9297I was willing to listen to her but compare universities like Alexandria to European high school?!? Sis lost me there, I’m offended and I’m not Egyptian.
Im dating one and omg these are so Accurate and we’re not married yet-
thank you, happy you see it
Get well soon!
Thank you dear...I am already fine
I'm asian and I met an Egyptian man through chat because my cousin gave my Facebook name to him. He asked me to be his girlfriend and asked if I wanted to come with him. I noticed while chatting that he really wants someone who can follow orders. It hasn't been 24 hours since we chatted but I can feel he is dominant. I don't mind though since I'm an obedient type of woman. I just don't know If I should continue talking to him and bet my life with him.
Wtf
oh dear , no way, those type of man are really bad after marriage, even if you are obedient woman you can have nice and soft man, who will treat you as princess
look if you want to go to deatils in your story, you can always book a call with me here theniqabgirl.com/2022/01/22/let-me-help-you/
i will be more than happy to explain you everything step by step
I met an Egyptian Man online 11 months ago he is 45 he has never been married and doesn’t have children I am 55 he has ask me to marry him he has shared his life his past relationships we have constant communication his feelings seem so sincere he is not rich but is able to do what he wants I did meet him on On Line Dating I’m going to Egypt in January he has asked me to live there but my life is here my family is seeing this only as a Green Card. I would Love your thoughts because it is a huge step and we have spoke of my Daughters and Mother’s concern
sorry for late answer...however, this is a very complicated...if you and he were younger i would tell you dont do it..but he is 45 but still can be scammer but does not have to be. it also depends does he has job? does he has his own flat? does he still depends on his parents? from which part of egypt he is exactly? does he speak english fluently? I do not know if you wanna discuss all of this in public, so you can write me email better...however if you go to egypt at january, go there firstly just for a visit and look how he will treat you and if you will like the life in egypt. because not all foreigners are able to afford it dear...just be carefull
Egypt men scammers alot
Exactly true Egyptian man treat like this.. I'm married Egyptian man for 5years now... For the firts I'm together with him.. It's hard because I can't understand why...don't do this.. Don't act like this.. I swear it's hardship things with him... But more and more years with him... I understand his point as a husband... Important thing with relationship with Egyptian husband.. Respect listen what he say... If you don't agree... He say tell me what you wanna say something...so me and my husband open each other.. For the better way....especially I'm pilipina its very different culture where I grow up...he didn't allowed me to go alone he don't want me to go travel alone.. Even I ask him that he stay here for work and I go to Egypt to stay there he don't want me allowed... He want me always becide with him.... Also I notice with him... When it's come the things.. For me.. He don't want me spend money.. He say always with me.. It's my responsibility...so that why everything I want or I need.. If I ask him.. He give me...❤️❤️
wow very beautiful indeed. it is exactly as you said..at the first it can seem hard, diffirent but when you get used you will see things from opposite site. It is a real love and care which your husband provides you. and i am so happy you had the patience to understand this at the end....I wish you are always happy with your husband
I don't think so. Not all Egyptian man are like that. Giving what you want.
@@mayannsalvana4149 it's depend what you want...i ask him for something especially if I like something... Like clothes bag.. Actually I'm not wife demand always to my husband...especially when it's expensive things.... I choose the things can afford... My husband...😊😊It's important he treat me like a princess and most important respect.. As a wife
@iman mosmar ofcourse not all...it ups how he grow up, on his education, family and so on.. about this I already spoke many time especially in my book...that's why choosing a partner is the most important decisions in your life ... Because when it's wrong, life goes blue ..❤️
@ria Ahmed but I guess egyptians in common like to spoilt and pamper the wives.. they took us as babies 😊 which is nice ❤️
I am struggling now too much with my relationship with an Egyptian married man😔🥺 we see and love each other.. He said he don't have a good relationship with he's wife 4years ago until now.. And he have a lit of problem, he can't leave or divorce her because of the kids🥺 he is educated man.. I love him and i feel also he love me too.. I need someone i can talk to and need some advices so badly😢💔💔💔
Firstly I can't understand why are you in relationship with a married man ? Don't you feel sorry for his wife ? Imagine something like this would happen to you ..
Secondly he can divorce her but he doesn't want so. From your words I would say he is searching about another wife ..so if you are fine with polygamy that's ok ..
Send me your watsapp i will talk to you and give u some advice..coz i am an ex wife of an egyptian man..or even your fb so we can talk to each other
girl he will never leave his wife dont accept this u deserce to be number 1 u do what makes u happy buti could never hope u can be happy what ever u deicide x
@linda blakeman I agree with you
Don't belive him , that he can't divorce his wife . He can make it even by words only 3x he should say to the wife and they finished.. and he can send money to them... but if he doesn't want to do it means his playing to you. he wants another wife only.. Don't believe him.
Great job
Thank you so much...happy Eid
😭😭😭 I fell so sad and cry while u said that u can't provide a baby but u keep on faith. Loveu❤️
You have a soft heart dear 💗 thank you for your support but I didn't mean to make you cry at all ..now I will cry as well 😭😭😭 ❤️keep in touch
@@TheNiqabGirl I love you, you did great , love from Indonesia my sister ❤️
Obey someone and doing whatever this person tell you to do is not about respect. It is called slavery.
Well in Islam woman must obey her husband ..and so in Egyptian culture.. it's not slavery.. because slave has no right but Woman in Islam and Egypt has a rights!
If you obey your manager at work, do you consider this slavery also?
@mohammed bright yes I do 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TheNiqabGirl Why do many women turn a blind eye to this crystal clear part? Lol!
@mohammed bright I was joking, you can read my comment up ...of course husband should be respected, because he is your way to paradise.
But Honestly with the respect to the manager 🤣that's something different..if I find I am more clever them the manager than it would be extra hard for me to respect him ...but I have problem with this and I know it's wrong..but the same point as with polygamy - we grew up so ...so it's hard to change this model of thinking 🤗
جزاكم الله خيرا
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good but i believe that women needs the same respect it needs to be equal.. Men and women equal.. We don't have to educate women what to do with their husbands.. If so then we also have to educate men and what to do with their wives..
yea i definitely agree .. and no worry i guess in egypt they educate both gender how to treat each other
May Allah make you happy sister💚💚💚
alhamdulillah beautiful video my dear beloved sissy
Thank you dear ♥️
@@TheNiqabGirl afwan dear miss you always
Well done
Thanks
u have such a realuxing voice seem like a good woman x
Oh thank you dear 💖 Nobody ever told me this about voice..you are the first one ❤️
I’m an Australian dating an Egyptian man. I feel like a lot of your points are quite valid. I consider myself to be respectful, but he is overall quite respectful too.
I was wondering what you thought about an engyptian man flirting with other women?
We have had some issues in our relationship with him flirting, taking girls out for “coffee” and not telling me.. texting girls flirting messages..
he says that I’m the “most jealous” girl he has been with, but I rarely bring it up anymore..
Am I on the path to doom with him? I’m wondering if it’s normal for Egyptian men to emotionally cheat. I’m not saying that it’s okay in any culture or religion. I’m just wondering how common or looked down upon it is in Egypt?
@Harriet O'Hara hello dear ❤️ thank you for this beautiful question. I will try to answer it as possible as I can.
I believe almost all Egyptian men are kind of flirty..they are very ,,warm,, people and love to have a lot of friends etc. But! And now it depends on his religion and family he came from. - as long as he is Muslim, (and don't believe him if he tells you, he is modern Muslim) he should NOT taking girls for a coffee or texting them and hide it in front of you. I believe if his intentions were clear, he would tell you about them 😉or take you on the coffee with them. but if he does it secretly, so then better run away from it .
I hope it will help you little bit. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask anytime. I am here for you ❤️
I am married to an Egyptian man since many years and can tell you that taking girls out for coffee without telling you is not normal in his culture. He actually shows that he is not sincere with you and looks for "better" options.
These flirty and overly open guys are not good to marry; paradoxically these guys will eventually marry a very conservative woman to have kids with, not a foreigner. Sorry to not tell you more positive things, but what you describe raises red flags.
@Sandy Cheeks that's right , it's not acceptable in our culture to go out with other girls or even invite a girl to coffee
This is a big no ! He cannot do that. I was talking to an Egyptian man & he was flirty with women that's a big reason I will not be with him when there are many men that want to be with me so much appreciated .don't let him cheat .I could see the Egyptian guy cheating on me if I was to be with him big red flags
I'm agreed with u
Thank you ..so happy for that
Salam sis watching your video makes my tears fall saying you cannot conceive a child but alhamdullilah you have now.. what is the reason why dr says you cannot have a child can u share it with me? Im same in your situation
Yea I don’t wanna have children. So marrying an Egyptian is not gonna work. I wanna travel with my husband and see the world.
Well there would not be problem travel around the world with Ur egy husband but if you don't want children then you are right your marriage would never work and you would suffer very much
Not true. We Muslims can marry up to 4 wives! Many men will consider you a great deal to be a second wife!
@mohammed bright yea and do you think she desires to be a second wife?! No woman does Indeed ...
@@TheNiqabGirl It's okay as long as the husband can fulfil their needs and treat them fairly! Some Muslim women don't like to feel so much controlled so being a second wife will give them more space to handle their own lives as long as these practices don't go against Islam. Jealousy exists, but if the husband wants to marry another woman, he Islamically can! Capability is required though! Marrying more than one wife is conditional! Not all men can successfully do it!
@mohammed Bright Yes I absolutely agree with what you told. But there is one problem .. foreigner or non Muslim women ( even of they convert to Islam lately) they grew up different way .. and it's very hard for most of us to accept this condition. Because we grew up to see each other equal or we see men actually less then women. So if someone teach you this since you were kid then it's so hard for most of the woman to learn again the exact opposite. And it's even more harder to accept polygamy. Even if it's reasonable. The equality - made a big mess in the world ..
I know for you as a man it might be hard to understand, but trust me for the women feelings it's not easy at all and especially when you grow up in absolutely different conditions and rules
The oppressed stay oppressed. You have to love all of those traditional values. ❤
oh, no I dont love but my mission is very clear, I came to egypt to learn about everything here, culture , mentality , traditions to be able to help other women here in need
My Egyptian zougi and ana have 2 boys( 6 and 10). I m the one who beg him and fighted with him about getting a 3rd child and we( mostly i) tried for few years. He made it clear that he don't want to the point that now he don't even want intimacy with me...
@Tata's Life nope, thats not correct... you have your rights with Egyptian man and one of it, its intimacy.. it is your right and his duty and vica verce ...
about baby can be more complicated - it should be mutual agreement between partners..but let me tell you secret: many egyptain women are tricking this point and getting pregnant and saying it was God miracle but I don't see it fair towards the man
So happy for you that you managed to get pregnant! And honestly, respectful wife, who would make him feel like a real man, that's what many men, secretly wish for, just doesn't have the courage to ask for anymore ;).
Thank you dear 🥰 yea my daughter is real gift from God 🙏 in my life...
Well I guess all men wish it 😂but I also believe all men should give respect back to us women ...
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lol i rather not wanted as a wife.. i rather be loved as who i am not wanted cos i do what men wants me to do...
well as you already mentioned... if a men have a rules how to treat women so then even women must have a rules how to treat a men :D in this point it is justice
@@TheNiqabGirl You are not his property and he is not your property try be happy with your self ferst playse anather way will not be happy in merried you will only try make happy avryone else and at the and no body will be happy
Wow yea that's so clever and wise indeed..thank you dear ♥️
Im so sorry for you. This is god Desire you have to accepted with grace ♥️ don't worry he will reward you ♥️♥️♥️
@guess it's me
It's okay I accepted my faith whatever it is 😊 alhamdulillah for everything ❤️❤️❤️
@@TheNiqabGirl El hamdu li ellah.. Wish you all the best
I appreciate the information you're providing. It seems the first few years were difficult for you in Egypt. I'm happy you were able to have a child. I am curious about the issues of a woman or man not being able to have children for medical reasons. Adoption is an option in the United States for couples who cannot conceive. Is adoption an option in Egypt? There are so many children who need families to adopt them, especially orphans. Sometimes things happen where a man or woman is unable to have children. It seems sad to think a woman cannot find a husband because she is unable to have a child. Actually I think it is unfair really. That doesn't mean she will not make a good wife because she can't conceive. Perhaps she would be even more loving to her husband and the same would apply to a man, he would love his wife more because he can't give her babies. However what you have said Egypt is different. Many blessings to you and thank you for the content.
Thank you dear..yea ofcourse first year were difficult...I guess if any person decide to change his life and faith! And move to absolutely different country..so no matter how much he loves the place but he must suffer... everything is new and you have to learn. And as I already told before, the best learning is from your own mistakes 😁👍
thanks God for everything.
And adoption yea it's possible in Egypt but it's not that easy...and trust me I was thinking about this. Actually since I was kid I always wanted to do it. You r right here is so many children wants a love and care. But maybe this could be good topic for another video because it's so complicated that I cannot answer you just in one comment ,,why I didn't do it at the end,, 😁
I promise I will make video about it soon ...thank you dear for your great comment and support ♥️
Yes adoption is available in Egypt for only Egyption single or for the couples who one of them is Egyption
If you need extra info I can provide you
Yes it would be very nice from you please contact me on my FB or my email ancientegypt2016@gmail.com ..I would love to discuss it with you
Thank you for sharing about Egyptian man..now i have a idea how to handle my boyfriend Egyptian. Were just started 2months only..
And im deeply inlove with him..
And i don't have any idea about him..just what i see for him is being a good person and nice..he tell what he likes and he don't like..
I hope my commitment to him..getting stronger...
Thank you again🥰🥰🥰
Best of luck! just take care dear ...:]
We need more Real Women like you in America! We are sick of all this Feminist in America, God Bless.
Oh thank you indeed
Great video 👍
Glad you enjoyed it
Love from bangladesh
thank you, greetings from egypt
Nice
Thanks a lot
niqab girl are u egyptian?
No I am not
@@TheNiqabGirl then which country u belong and are there any matrimony sites or offices u know of in egypt ?
I already mentioned it many times...I am originally from Czech and live in Egypt for 10 years..and know egypt for 20 years ...why do you want to know matrimony sites? Do u want to marry Egyptian man ?
@@TheNiqabGirl yes sister !whats your guidance on it?how is egyptian man?do u have any authentic religiuos people sites for matrimony?
not heard response from your side yet regarding authentic matrimony sites ?i heard that offices are every where corner of the streets ,i dont know its truth or not ?
This is called subjugation. If someone wants to control the other person in any way, this is not love, that is abuse. Punishment in the way of being passive-aggressive or treating you badly or behaving badly is still abuse. Free will is love. You need to be able to trust the other person that they will respect you, not to force the other person to do your will. That is what communication and compromise is for. By the way, I have dated two Arabs. I am currently dating an Egyptian.
Yes, the culture is different. Yes, you should expect different things. But don't compromise on who you are as a person.
Well thanks to your comment and your opinion...I understand very well what you wanna say but I cannot agree...this is not abuse because women here are actually happy ... It would look different if it's abuse and so bad as you mentioned 😉
@@TheNiqabGirl I saw you crying because your husband might marry another woman because you thought you could not have children. If he only values you for one thing or you think you might be rubbish if you cannot have children, that is not good. There are all kinds of abuse, not just physical. Mental, verbal, and emotional.
Well okay good point..so let's think about it different way. What the man should do in your opinion if he wants to have a kid but the woman is not able????
@@TheNiqabGirl there are lots of options, fertility treatments, IVF, and adoption for instance.
Totally agree with what you wrote, especially about Trust, Communication and Compromise.
congratulations
الف مبروووك
Thank you
Alf Alf Mabrook. all the best. I really surprised about how efficiently you described the Egyptian culture effectively. I am Egyptian.
Thank you! It's nice to hear it from Egyptian ♥️🇪🇬I really love this country ...stay in touch
So is it normal for all Egyptian guys to demand Facebook passwords and not allow out of house?
I didn't say all men do it...some men don't have the need do it...but it depends on each character....but if he does it so it's his right
Can you help me to go there? Please. I have an Egyptian boyfriend
@@threnaxyle9596 again..which kind of help do you need?? You can write me email and let's discuss it privately
First, I want to say congratulations on having your baby and being blessed with motherhood! Alhamdulillah for everything God blesses us with. :)
Second, You are absolutely right when you say most Egyptian men want to have children. Having a family is everything in this culture and it's important for foreigner women to be aware of how crucial and fate determining having children really is here. Often times I have seen women here get with a man who claims he doesn't want to have kids but he was actually scamming her to get money and visa so of course he is going to tell her anything she wants to hear so he can get what he wants!. 9 times out of 10 when an Arab man from ANY country says he doesn't want kids, he is either lying cuz he isn't taking the relationship seriously or he has more sinister plans. I have a friend who was a victim of a scammer and she brought him to her country, he claimed he didn't want children but she unexpectedly fell pregnant. After he got his residency visa he abandoned both her and the child then married an Egyptian woman and had a baby with her. When i was dating before i met my husband i stayed away from any man who said he didn't want children because i know exactly what that really means. Of course there are exceptions like u said lol but its 1 in million. Spot on!
Other points of your discussion I have had both similar and different experiences with. I have met men here who as you say speak about every aspect of their wife's life, clothing, phone, career, etc but i have also met many who do not. My husband has never once gone through my phone. I also wear whatever I want and he has never tried to advise me in anything. I lived here many years alone before we even met so I was already aware of what to wear if for whatever reason we will be in a conservative area, which has happened only 1 time in our 3 year marriage and in that event we were travelling to a village to meet a distant relative of his so i wore a hijab and long sleeves. He did not even have to suggest I do that, I already knew. I also do not have to announce every time I want to go out, i do not have to check in, and I do not have account for any money I spend. I do not even have to ask permission for anything. There are many men i have met that are like my husband whom actually frown upon the practice of being the over dominating male with a complex of superiority. My husband and others like him also frowns upon the concept that women have to obey their husbands to the extent she is meerly a child. I honestly cannot even think of one example where my husband has demanded anything of me and expected me to agree or do it without complaint if i should have one. A decent man, no matter his race, country of origin, or religion, will not expect his wife to do something to which he knows it sincerely bothers her, inconveniences her, or she disagrees with. Like for example, a husband invites his whole family over for dinner. He tells his wife ok go start cooking and preparing everything for tonight. She tells him she's feeling tired and doesn't have the energy to do a big meal on no notice. He makes a fuss and she reluctantly goes to start cooking. Ok, this would never happen with my husband because he would have taken the time to sit with me and decide which time in the week is suitable on my end. My husband is someone who had never made me feel anything less than an equal partner in our marriage. We both have equally important responsibilities. He works and pays the bills and i cook, clean, and take care of our child. I could work if i want to. My husband is not controlling and wouldn't mind if i wanted to have a job. But i dont lol cuz i absolutely despise working and i prefer to stay home.
There are many men like my husband here in Egypt. I know several in my circle of friends and in my Egyptian family. My husband's father was the same as well. He never stopped his wife from working, she was a school administrator. He also never controlled what she wore, she was always wearing the latest French fashion which consisted of heels and a short, form fitting dress. She did not wear hijab until she chose to do so over age 40.
This country is so vast and complex with different levels of culture and class to the point where it's common that individual expats will have an entirely different experience and outlook on Egypt than each other. This is because traditional, cultural, and behavioural norms vary from city to city, neighbourhood to neighbourhood, and family to family.
I have met both good and bad Egyptian men here when I was single. Some were absolutely misogynistic and others, like my husband, were more liberal minded and adopted a slightly more westernized lifestyle. I speak from experience when I say the culture clash is less prominent when your husband, bf, fiance and his family are those who are highly educated, live in a nice neighbourhood, and well travelled and experienced with western culture and individuals. The area he and his family are from will have a significant impact on treatment and position of women, self determination, education quality, and even interpretation of Islam. When you are meeting an Egyptian man from a less privileged background, and you haven't experienced other aspects of Egypt and it's people, then chances are the Egypt you see with them alongside you will be very different and rather one sided. This is just what I personally experienced.
Loved the video! Thanks for reading my crazy long comment! It's so great that you are raising awareness of aspects of life here in Egypt! Keep it up!❤
Thank you dear! I was afraid little bit to speak about my personal experience 😁 cuz I don't wanna hurt anyone but in the same time I wanna say my opinion ....so I had to find a middle way but it's really hard 😅.
Well yea thanks God for everything as you told and thank you again...
And now to your comment
As I told in my previous podcast, people in Cairo as capital city VS people from Alexandria...it's really so different...I guess in every capital city people are more open minded and modern... but this is not in Alex.
However I still agree with you. Maybe I didn't tell it clear in the video. But I didn't want to say that every man will control the woman. No. I wanted to say that if the man is like this and he does it so he has the right actually...and that's most of the foreign women do not want to understand or simply they do not know it.
I will give u example. If I marry from my country and he check my mobile so he has no right at all! I could even call a police in this time. But if egy man check ur mobile so what woman will do ??? Nothing 🤣 because it's his right here. So I guess the best option is the women must be careful who they marry! It's the most important decisions in your life actually! Because if you marry a bad man so life will turn to hell.
I hope u understand what I mean 😀 and sorry I wasn't clear enough in the video ♥️♥️♥️♥️🇪🇬love you dear
@@TheNiqabGirl i totally agree and i tell ppl this all the time that come to Egypt...be careful who u marry! Lol you wouldn't believe the list of topics i had to discuss prior to marriage. After all my experiences here, both good and bad, it was crucial to go over so many different points because I did not want to find myself in an unpleasant situation or be with a giant misogynistic man baby controlling every aspect of my life. Finding a suitable partner for myself in Egypt was not only about chemistry and sparks, but also asking a series of questions and possible scenarios in order to determine if it was going to be a fulfilling union or one i would not adapt to. Thank God everything worked out, even after some awful experiences in my early years here. :)
My ex was Syrian. I treated him like crap till he left. I did t trust him though so. I dated a few Arabs and they seemed nice they were in love with me but idk I didn’t like them like that. I don’t like men who throw themselves at women or aren’t very smart. But my Italian ex was the best. He was the most romantic loving kind and beautiful man 😍
hello dear, thank you for your comment.. may i ask you why did you treated him like a crap? just wanna understand what he did to you bad?
@@TheNiqabGirl he wasn’t the perfect guy. I suspected he was cheating. But he suspected the same of me. I just don’t like liars and he wasn’t always honest. So things had to end.
@@nawal10 oh I understand now 🙂wish you good luck anyway with other boys
Where are you from?
@@alaatarek9463 Egyptian Brazilian
You are beautiful♥️
Thank you so much sister 🥰
I'm an Indian Muslim boy I hope inshallah I will Marry an Egyptian good girl
Good luck with that
@@TheNiqabGirl is it possible to find a good girl in Egypt as a foreign Muslim . ? What can I do for that.. please reply
@@Underworld121 you just told you wanna marry Egyptian woman! And now foreign Muslim ..so think firstly what do you really want ..
@@TheNiqabGirl nah sister you took it miss . I told that. is it possible to find a good girl in Egypt as a foreigner .( I'm a foreigner to them ) what can I do that. can you help me .. that was I said sis
@@TheNiqabGirl please reply
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You sound Turkish
🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh no , I am not turkish ..I am originally from Czech Republic
Why should we act like egyptian or not egyptian ?very strange logic .they also know we are not egyptian
Well if my yt channel is about Egypt then I call it so for better understanding 😉
I am confused in other videos I see the advantages of dating an Arab or Egyptian man and all women say that they are the best very romantic and protective men. but now when observing you,And listening to your opinions that can even hit you because what a disappointment I see that the woman is mistreated in her dignity and also her clothing is not comfortable, they are very covered, and if a man Hit a lady then they are not a good option as husbands, a shame because I thought they were good because of so many girls who speak well of them.
Well it's big difference between Arab and Egyptians and take care because Egyptian people hate when someone call them Arab! And indeed they are very romantic and good fathers ...but I spoke about their rights..what they can do. Doesn't mean they have to or they will. But I wanted to touch even the worst point to prepare the other women on this that it can happen and already happened to many women.
When it happens many women then doesn't understand why or how, so that's what k wanted to make clear.
For example if I compare european mám vs Egyptian men .. I would always choose Egyptian even with bad habits..
The problem is not that he is the Man so u have to obey and you fear that he might get another woman since u are not usefull anymore, which already is something so mean (and i felt so sad the moment you said it) since science have fixed it with assisted reproductive tecnology. The problem is that those who you call Man are most likely barely educated people that think they are Man but actually are victims of the environment they Live in and get married Just to calm their sexual needs and end up having no idea about what is a family since (as u said) they will tell u how to dress and behaviour while u are with them: this is Just insane cause most of them have just a sort of idea of the women but no clue about inner problems and psichology. The time when any women will speak openly about house problems without fearing death or lynching or bad words in their families, only in this time the situation will be better because men realized a better behaviour. No surprise why a lot of women the moment they go abroad will never come back, unless its because of their family: cause its not their choice to get married, most likely. For other than that i wish really the best for you and any egyptian girl: you are strong and for that you really deserve the best. 🌹🌹🌹
Who told you that Egyptians are not clean? I think you do not know about Egyptians well. If your Egyptian man is not clean, it is your problem but it does not mean all Egyptians are the same. Not all Egyptian check wive's phones as you said, your problem is you judge all Egyptians are the same, it is not true. Maybe your husband is a farmer I mean those people from the south of Egypt.
Oh not like that at all ...I don't judge all Egyptian man the same way . I always bring bad and good side ..you can check my newest video about Egyptian man, I spoke about them so beautiful way. Trust me ..
And nope, ms husband is not farmer 🤣 I grow up with Egyptian people indeed so trust me I know Egypt well and I would never marry farmer man or man from low class . However about clean places and people I will disagree with you ..if I compare with Europe so it's simply incomparable..sorry but it is how it is .. my opinion as from European woman.
Now you judged People working in farming and those who are from the south for not being clean, what makes you better than them? You should stop having double standards
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Maybe its the religion not the egyptian
No it's not ..I can assure you about this
I agreed with more of this than I thought I would but wow I have never been so happy and content with American men lol
So happy for you ..thank you for watching my video..do you have any experience with Egyptian man ? 😊Just curious
@@TheNiqabGirl wow I appreciate the fast reply, not any extensive experience, the ones I have met seemed very nice but I am a business woman and am used to making a lot of the financial decisions in a relationship and I wouldn’t enjoy a man who wanted me to quit working and have him be in charge of the money. And the expecting children thing made me really sad cause I have a lot of infertility in my family and all of their husbands stayed with them and decided to adopt or decided that they weren’t meant to have children.
Do you still live in Egypt? Sorry if you said it in the video and I missed it
Yea I live in Egypt and will live here forever dear ..so more content is coming ..even more personal one ..
You are so wise, keep it ..
Really adoption is not for Egyptians at all ... Egypt is not for everyone honestly ..a lot of sacrificed must be made . And if you already have built up your life, I think you find better 😊🥰❤️
@@animalover9000, You can be a second wife. xD! Being a second wife helps you have more freedom to do what you like as long as it's not against Islam. Actually, most men who like to marry another wife will consider you a great deal since many of them prefer women who are not interested in having children!
@@TheNiqabGirl Egyptians are Arabs? Do you know when you enter a channel of an Arab woman that the topic of the video was the advantages of dating an Arab man, and she said only good things, She says that Arab men love their mother very much and that their wife will treat her like a queen and never beat them and dominate them too much, and women who made comments to her about dating With your Arab men and Egyptian men they said it was true, but now when I see your video I don't know who is telling the truth because you say that they can hit you and that is very bad. and the other drawback is that they can have more than one wife and that is already perversion. I believe in loyalty and monogamy, because God created a single Eve has not created many women for Adam.
I am Egyptian and i would to tell you the Egyptians only want to live peacefully and they fear much problems so they act the way they act that may be strange to you so i insist on marrying an Egyptian woman that can understand my style of life .
i believe thats very wise.. however Allah prepared different ways and tests to each of us.
Yah, that's great idea .. because egyptian woman can accept if egyptian Man is always making lie or some are accepting polygamy..
قول يا كلاون قول
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It's not a red flag, it's a red bill board. Anyone who justify this behaviour is purely conditioned
🤣🤣🤣red bill board , well maybe yes 😁
This is so sad. You even admitted that it makes you sad. I am sorry.
yes thats very true , its sad and makes me sad, but it is what it is
Respect and love your man unconditionally. Both ways should do have give and take in a relationship. Understanding every mood and flaws, everything about your man and so as he is with you. Accept everything about him and don't look nor compare him with other men. #IlovemyEgytianman
That's very beautiful answer indeed ♥️♥️♥️thank you for comment dear ❤️
@@TheNiqabGirl you are most welcome my dear. Barak Allah Feeki! 💚
@@nestlebabefabian6971 stay in touch dear..always will love hear a comment from you ♥️
It should be conditional. Otherwise that means you will take any type of treatment. Then you make him your God. No good
I am married to an Egyptian man and is very similar to latin american culture. All latin countries men are the same. I guess you only speaking about European and white people yes they are differen.
Oh yes I believe so, I met few Latin ladies here in Egypt and I can confirm your words...you are very similar to each other indeed
This is terrible
Thanks for making the video and explaining how Egyptian boys are raised to think they should control their wives because it will help to stop people from marrying Egypt’s men.
I like the more modern version of women who study and grow up from learning and have experience. And I see many many Egyptian guys get married as boys- not Men at all.
The other issue is girls are brought up to believe THEY HAVE ONE DAY as Arousa (bride) and after that wedding day - nothing is for women’s happiness.
My Egyptian husband can respect me and I will show him respect. If I take care of him when he’s sick then he should do the same. If they have love 💗
@karen Sitto you are very right about your words ..many people marry here when they are not mentally ready for it BUT there is one problem with the Aroosa ..I see the girls grow up since day 1 in this earth 😁 that their all life is supposed to be just bride, but what's more shocking they don't mind, they accept and look forward to it .. sometimes I see it's kind of comfortable for them, maybe about laziness because they don't need to use their minds, study or learn new stuffs etc .
However not all are like this ..in Cairo or even sometimes here in Alex we have very independent and rich woman who are into career more than into marriage ..but statistically it's still kind of rare 😁
@@TheNiqabGirl Thanks for your reply. I truly respect all peoples culture and I just hope that women marry egyptian men for the right reasons. Or they will have a nightmare to handle. And I noticed you have different sub sets of thinking inside the culture. Being that my husband is Bedouin I can appreciate all the different ways of living life. I will be in Egypt in three weeks Inshallah!
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇪🇬thank you dear... happy you found my channel
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I dont know lathing or cry sad for you Im happy that my egyptian man have open maind I think more mans want iteligent women that obey women some day you will get this .In Europe much mans dont want have childrens so came here.
No it's not like this... My husband is very open minded and we are very happy together.
And I agree in Europe men don't want children but in Egypt sorry but every men want...you should know that if you r here. Egyptians are so proud of their children! It's the biggest love in their life ....and it's not about education....it's the culture here like this
@@TheNiqabGirl Is nothing wrong to want have children and I did not thinking is low educatio but here is like this if you cant have childrens but you very want just try adopt child becouse is many lonly childrens in the world .I heard one time in program women who couldyn born child say that her mam say that mayby God dont make you born a child to you could adopt same lonly child to make this child happy that all.No Im not in Egypt
Well this is my dream honestly dear..but also it's not that easy.. adoption in Egypt is not that acceptable by egy people... It's very complicated
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Am Somalian and am so in love with Arab girls. Especially Egyptians. I wish I could live there in Egypt. I would have marry one Egyptian and be very obedient to her. I really love Arab girls. They so attractive and beautiful ❤️
Good luck
You visited my country in summer Marsa Matrouh and I think you saw how women are feeling good with their husbands
I didn't visit, I live in Egypt....and yes I always say egy men are the best men 😉 but foreigner women must learn egy traditions and behaviours...
@@TheNiqabGirl You are welcomed 🌹
I apologise if I missunderstanding you
It's okay 😊 you didn't know me. But trust me when I say I love Egypt more then anything else in this world. I just wish to teach foreigners about Egypt. That's my mission 😉
What if Egyptian husband wants work, give him some money, cook clean andlisten to what he says
Give Him a money ??? Then he will not be considered as a man here ...
Scammers try to do this with foreigners but a true good egy man will never say so
But when I refused to give him money he said he was only joking!! ? Them asked me a few months later again and I still said no and when I told him a real man doesn’t ask women money he got angry and told me off and accused me of being disrespectful and didn’t talk to me for a month.then said he was o my tearing me to see if I really cared about him or not. Now I’m not talking to him at all and don’t want go back to Egypt for him while he tells me he is the king and best man in Egypt and how everyone respects and listens to him what he says .
Hello dear ...he is definitely not good man and player...he wasn't joking about the 💰 he really wants it ...he only says it was joke cuz he wants you to trust him ...
And if he has so high self-confidence so then from my view of point he is a mum's boy ..I mean spoilt one ! Go away from him ...forget about him ..he will not bring you happiness at all .
Tania you dodged a bullet here. This dude screams narcissist.
@@lindarodrigues2195 if it wasn’t fir me having to come back to Australia quickly and then borders closed in Australia I would have gone back to Egypt but while I’ve been here he has shown me his true colors.
Don't they marry like 5 wives at a time it is a law no thanks 🤦🏾
no no doesn't have to be ..it's choice of every man if to marry 1 or up to 4 ! Never 5 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheNiqabGirl So we should be RELIEVED that he can only have 4 wives, not 5? Hahaha Oh please! How absurd. Any man should only marry ONE woman. Period. The rest of civilized world knows this.
His not a king god made women and men are same
Ok he is not.the king but in Egypt wife treat her husband as he is her King 😉
Plus God made Adam Frist and then made woman from Adam so we are not the same dear...there will be always difference between men and women
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thank you
I have an Egyptian girlfriend, we want to marry
Wow that's amazing. Wish u good luck
Assalam waleicum sister.
I am 35 years old and I am Muslim for 15 years.
I can't not have kids because i have 3 chronic health problems.
I accept it normally, because it's Allah's will.
I am alone and I am ok.
One thing that is very bad and a sin is when Muslim men and his family don't accept a woman that can't have kids, because it's God's will, so means they don't trust God, they don't accept his will. How can you be a good Muslim if u don't trust his decisions?!
I've meet a guy that couldn't have kids either and his wife left him. He was heartbroken for fer behavior.
So don't be sad, It's Allah's will.
He have other plans for you. And you can raise adopted kids.
Father and mother is who raise a child
There are too much people having kids and not even caring about if they eat........
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May Allah bless and protect you and your family 🙏
Wa aleikom Salam,
Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your honesty and feel with your story.
And I agree with you in every word you said . I believe Allah test everyone upon what we are able to bear.
Well but he can even reward us back for our good deeds.
I mean look at me...doctors told I will never have kids and by time and Allah will I have two children now.
Back then I remember one sheikh told me ,,dua,, changes everything and whatever we ask from Allah, Allah is ashamed if he doesn't give it to us. The matter is just right timing and if it's good for us ! If it's good for our life we will definitely have it and if it's bad so Allah will give us some things better.
Isn't that beautiful?
I mean it's amazing you found peace within yourself but in the same time don't lose hope ..because Allah can change everything In one second 🙏 ❤️ just ask for it and I will pray for you that all your wishes will be fulfilled..again thank you so much
why you consider this something good ?, it sound opressive and depressing
Have I told I consider it good ? I just described the truth, how it is really In Egypt
Why can't black have a relationship with Egyptian girls ????
well i told it in the video because egyptian beauty standards are white with blue eyes and blond... so most of egyptian does not like black women..but i dont say its impossible, every rule has its exception
Actually Egyptian men are very attracted to black women, but rarely marry them bc of culture, familial racism, as well as black women being harder to control
I liked an Egyptian man. I don't like him anymore after watching your videos.:)))) I can't live like this. thanks for the info. I'd rather stay in America anyway
@lu Lu oh so sorry to hear that but I am happy for you that you realized it now before it's too late ..Egypt and Egyptian man is not for everyone to be honest..
Wish you good luck dear in anything you wish in your life 💕
@@TheNiqabGirl you too! thank you!
@lu lu I am honored ❤️ always will look forward to your comments dear
I am a Pakistani u like Pakistani man
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Why madam
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This is horrible advice. You're adorable though. 💕
In what way is it horrible advice? and thank you in the same time :D
@@TheNiqabGirl I don't believe in letting husbands have control and rule over wives. I'm no one door mat. Just my opinion. Happy for you about the baby. 😊
يا ست اتق الله ، انتي كدا مبتساعديش حد على فكرة
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