vlog: my first tattoo in memory of my dad

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  • @GretchenGeraghty7
    @GretchenGeraghty7  5 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    wow, sobbing as I just posted this video. it’s crazy how grief like this hits you, sometimes I feel lucky to have had THE best dad for 22 years of my life, and other times I feel extremely sad/ angry about how unfair it was to lose him. sorry if this video is all over the place, or I’m v emotional about AT&T lol, I’m sure you can all see where my emotions are really coming from💛

    • @emily845
      @emily845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry that you are going through all this confusing emotional and difficult time. My condolences to you and your family as I know this never gets easier as time goes on. We’re all here rooting for you!!

    • @allisonclark785
      @allisonclark785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry your sad Gretchen 😢❤️

    • @TheMisteryvampire
      @TheMisteryvampire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gretchen Geraghty just lost my mom at 20. I feel you on this

    • @bex-wb8ys
      @bex-wb8ys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you are so loved Gretchen. Never forget that! I cannot imagine what it’s been like losing your dad but know that you are strong and that he loves you so very much 💗

    • @dakotahope5700
      @dakotahope5700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know exactly what ur going through. Lost my dad three years ago to cancer. He fought hard for 9 months. I still deal with the grief today.. three years later. Everyone says it gets easier but it doesn’t

  • @emily845
    @emily845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Not even gonna lie to you, you are the only TH-camr that I can watch the whole video through without skipping through the video at all. That’s just how much I love you ❤️

  • @karacompean8061
    @karacompean8061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Wow crying! I lost my dad last year and tomorrow is his first birthday without him here, needless to say its been a hard day and tomorrow will be even harder! Its important to remind yourself of all of the happy times youve had together but to also grieve because WE ARE HUMAN. Hang in there Gretchen

    • @jenniferthirteen
      @jenniferthirteen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss! Hope you get to have a happy celebration in his memory.

    • @MsStephnicole
      @MsStephnicole 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope you're doing okay! Stay strong!

  • @kylieaaliyah
    @kylieaaliyah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    this hit so close to home. I lost my dad last year in June to cancer... and I'm 22 as well. I've been watching you for 2 years now and when I heard about your dad, I was so upset that someone so inspiring with such a good soul had to go through the same thing I did. I hope you and your family are doing okay

  • @carlisleemily
    @carlisleemily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    max is such a little ray of sunshine just like you ahhh i love you guys together you compliment each other so well!! absolutely in love with your tattoos, your dad is so proud of you all. love you gretchen!!

  • @emily845
    @emily845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Also last thing I swear!! Please never apologize for a long video because in my opinion those are the best cause it’s kinda like we’re just hanging out and chatting for little afternoon. Absolutely my fav 🥰🥰

  • @felicitydoeding436
    @felicitydoeding436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I lost my dad 3 months ago to cancer, I’m 24. I watched your video about you loosing your father right before I lost mine. Your video was one of the only times I felt like someone knew what I was going through. Couple weeks before he passed I had him write the number 4 out and I got it tattoo on the left side of my left rest, it was my nickname from him because I was the fourth child. Thank you for sharing your story for people like me who need to know they aren’t alone during such a hard time. So much love to you. ❤️

  • @abbydonohue4269
    @abbydonohue4269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    19:20 max looking at u while u were tearing up to make sure u were ok. he is the sweetest

  • @laurengracewygal1095
    @laurengracewygal1095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    45 minutes of real, raw Gretchen??
    we don’t deserve you 🥺🖤😭

  • @Luke-tt7wx
    @Luke-tt7wx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    this is so beautiful. Gretchen, I hope you know your dad is looking down on you and is so proud of you. All that you are and have accomplished so far is amazing!! You’re such a wonderful young woman!!! love you

  • @Claire29025
    @Claire29025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    what a special way to honor your dad

  • @carrierothamel6805
    @carrierothamel6805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Gretchen....I am 65 yrs young and I have lost 2 younger brothers and both of my parents....my youngest brother died in a swimming accident when I was 21 yrs old ...my father died when I was 36 yrs old...my mother when I was 44 yrs old and my brother just younger than I am when I was 51 yrs old......and any given day over all of these years something here or there has triggered a memory that caused a hiccup in my day....I have learned to treasure them...for a moment or more that person is alive in my mind again.....it does get easier over time....but I am grateful for those moments and I cherish each and every one....I still have family,2 older brothers and scads of nieces and nephews and their families.......but the core group that I lived most of my life with are not here....I also have my boys.2 Maine Coon cats...brothers that I named Abbott and Costello so I always remember to laugh.....You are doing very well...and I hope you continue to do so, I am sure your Dad is looking down and seeing that his 3 girls are doing okay and his heart is glad for it....thanks for another good video and I am so pleased to see Lucy ,I have wondered how she is doing.....and I have seen the sweet times you have been with your mom and Teddy......take good care of yourself and those that you love.....

  • @staceyyyydev
    @staceyyyydev 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lost my mom in April of 2017. I have always wanted a tattoo in memory of her and seeing yours just makes me so emotional. Grief is weird and hits you at different times. Love you girl we are in this together💓💓

  • @emilycohen3245
    @emilycohen3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Max dancing>>>>
    Also love the tattoos so cute and meaningful 💛

  • @mgb1549
    @mgb1549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "analyze it, file it, forget it" love that quote!!

  • @oliviagold23
    @oliviagold23 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel you when you say you get upset suddenly or the grief really hits you. I lost my dad in 2017 suddenly & I still feel like it can't be real. I constantly feel upset too because losing a parent at a young age just is not right! You got this girl-- he's proud of you for smiling every day.

  • @katherinekim807
    @katherinekim807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    haven’t even watched but ik im gonna cry i love you gg and ik ur dads in heaven looking down on you, so so proud of you and lucy ❤️❤️

  • @cailinklingman7654
    @cailinklingman7654 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you always seem to stay positive no matter what you go through. Or how your day is. You always seem to stay on top. In the world we live in today that is so important!

  • @courtneynicolesolem9712
    @courtneynicolesolem9712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Literally love how happy you sound while Max is dancing.💞💞💞 I was one who had a long distance relationship for a short amount of time and all I wanted to say is.. keep yourself busy.. it gets tough. And some days are worse than ever! You will get through it and your relationship will be so much stronger after. Just had our three year anniversary and now we’re welcoming a baby girl in November.

  • @lulumelodie6532
    @lulumelodie6532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    therapy is so so great Gretchen!!! There is so much stigma around it, but I HIGHLY reccommend it!!

  • @sarahgiblin9921
    @sarahgiblin9921 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so beautiful. Showing every side of your grief I’m sure isn’t easy, you’re an inspiration for everyone who watches your videos. Thinking of you 💛

  • @Ash2121Mass
    @Ash2121Mass 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Use dial anti-bacterial soap when cleaning the area (no others), then use aquaphor to moisturize it and help heal it not A&D ointment 😊

  • @emily845
    @emily845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes!!! Long vlogs for the win!!! Saw the tattoos on Lucy’s insta and loved them… you are one of the most inspiring people in the world and cannot wait to (hopefully!!!!) meet you one day!!

  • @annaradican2874
    @annaradican2874 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love you GG!! you have handled this situation so well and are so brave. also make sure you don’t pick at it when it’s peeling!! it’ll look really ugly/bad when it’s peeling but do not pick it because it will fade if you do! i love that you guys did this ❤️ this means so much to him and he’s so happy looking down at you guys. lots of love to the geraghty girls

  • @karaskevis9500
    @karaskevis9500 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much love for this!!! I lost my dad when I was 5 years old, so it's been 14 years without him and it never gets easy. But everything happens for a reason and I know they are looking down on us. I am stronger because of it and you are too!! Keep your head held high.

  • @bekahhooper9852
    @bekahhooper9852 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gretchen i just want to say i am so so sorry for the loss of your dad. I lost my dad unexpectedly also when i turned 30. It was a big shock to have a dad with no issues and then boom he is gone. I just want to say to take all the time you need to grieve, you will never forget but your pain will get a little easier and i know your dad is so super proud of you!

  • @marissasun77
    @marissasun77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love that even in times of sadness, you do something out of love. It looks beautiful!

  • @TheTaylorfit
    @TheTaylorfit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending you so much love Gretchen, I lost my dad suddenly when I was 15. On the 8th anniversary of his passing I got his signature “xxoo” he would write on all of my birthday cards tattooed on my wrist in his handwriting. ❤️

  • @Luke-tt7wx
    @Luke-tt7wx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aw max looking at you and listening at 19:20 is so cute and special!!

  • @erinjackson1185
    @erinjackson1185 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you so much Gretchen, I lost my dad very suddenly in May of this year and it still so crazy to say that out loud. Thank you for being you and for making these videos about your experience losing your dad as well. It helps a lot. I can’t wait to be Able to get a tattoo in my dads memory as well💗

  • @janaeskaggs3395
    @janaeskaggs3395 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    rewatching your vids and you talk about how your dad left a note in your oatmeal container and max did this recently too!! my heart

  • @kristinnickoles6047
    @kristinnickoles6047 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forever here for you Gretchen!! Praying for you and your family always!!!

  • @haleyfry8186
    @haleyfry8186 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Gretchen!!! I’m getting a tattoo for my grandfather who recently passed away also. My mom, brother, and uncle are all getting it with me! Love your tattoos. Stay strong. He’s watching over you!

  • @kathleenharrison5023
    @kathleenharrison5023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was so nice to see you, Lucy, and your mom all together! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ginabowennn
    @ginabowennn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    long gretchen vlogs are the best gretchen vlogs, also love your tattoos so much

  • @CoralBlueNmbrFive
    @CoralBlueNmbrFive 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been watching you for so so long, and you really continue to be such a humble and amazing young woman. I also love all of the tattoos that the three of you got. 💖💖

  • @sparklepink5891
    @sparklepink5891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Max is definitely getting used to being in front of camera 😂😂😂

  • @LizzyFitzpatrick
    @LizzyFitzpatrick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    gretchen I am not ready to cry at one of your videos again 🥺

  • @mgb1549
    @mgb1549 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    honestly hope i find someone as goofy, loving, supportive, lulu loving cutie like max!!

  • @megghendersonnx9961
    @megghendersonnx9961 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this!! I loveeeee small and meaningful tattoos and is such a great memory of your dad!

  • @baileeclemmer49
    @baileeclemmer49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom suddenly passed away in December. It’s so incredibly hard Gretchen I’m so sorry you know this feeling too. My heart is with you

  • @sydneywood1042
    @sydneywood1042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry I love u and stay strong! He’s so proud of you 💞💞💞

  • @carlisleemily
    @carlisleemily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    put sunscreen on your tattoos in the summer so they dont fade!!!! i just got to that part where you ask for suggestions lol im sure i will be crying by the end of this vid

  • @JuliaKristine
    @JuliaKristine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yep I’m definitely crying 😭

  • @juliajohnson8576
    @juliajohnson8576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing and so meaningful I love it! I lost my best friend to a drunk driver 4 years ago and he was always at the beach the beach was his second home and where his ashes were spread so I’m getting a beach wave on the side of my wrist with his initials at the end of the wave! I get to get it next Wednesday and it’s so exciting I’ve been looking forward to it for years but I turn 18 next week (: love you’re tattoos and how meaningful they are too you ❤️❤️

  • @jessicadam__
    @jessicadam__ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    also really enjoying max's dance moves

  • @brycelong783
    @brycelong783 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of how strong you are! I know how it feels to lose a dad, heartbreaking but it really shows how strong you really are. Love you!
    Also where are your leggings from that are shown while getting your beautiful tattoos? With the cute little cutouts!

  • @bonniemae1397
    @bonniemae1397 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    your tattoos are so special. we are all here for you❤️ sending you and your family so much love always❤️

  • @KatelynMariee
    @KatelynMariee 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful Gretchen. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad a few years ago and I love my tattoo for him.

  • @GenZGrandma
    @GenZGrandma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    that is sooo sweet that he wrote you notes! such a perfect tattoo so simple but classy! also u at the gym was so motivational! 💖💖💖 OMG the quality of those screens of the iphones u showed was insanely noticeable besides the camera! (also im a new youtuber if anyone is reading this lol! )

  • @Becci_J
    @Becci_J 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can totally relate with you when it comes to those waves of emotions after you lost someone. I'm 22 years old too and I lost my mom to cancer 6 months ago. You feel like nobody understands what you're going through and how to handle it. It was especially heart for me to go through a break-up at the same time, because he didn't support me and my feelings at all. You are really lucky to have a boyfriend like Max and I hope I'll find a guy like him in the future, too. I wanted to post this to show you that you're not the only one in a situation like this and that I get you 100%. It doesn't matter where you are in the world, I'm from Germany and you are American, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to stuff like this. I hope that it gets less hurtful eventually...

  • @whitleycross5788
    @whitleycross5788 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gretchen, where did you get your hoops?? I am in love with them!

  • @kpredd13
    @kpredd13 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do sugar in the Raw. Its real sugar, basically like courser brown sugar. My fave, I dont do just regular white sugar, too fine and dissolves too quickly.

  • @Acla246
    @Acla246 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're so strong gretchen!!! love the tattoos!!!

  • @abbyg4498
    @abbyg4498 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    45 MINUTES GRETCHEN THANK YOU ❤️

  • @karinal4149
    @karinal4149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Max’s dancing made my day lol

  • @samanthacsuarez
    @samanthacsuarez 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the sweetest thing!! Sending you lots of love 💕💕💕

  • @nava2626
    @nava2626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    DONT GET A NEW PHONE! A new one will probably be announced tomorrow at the Apple special event!!

    • @nava2626
      @nava2626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol just watched the end 😂

    • @gracesaum
      @gracesaum 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nava iPhone isn’t making new phones for a few years...

    • @alyssa4157
      @alyssa4157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@gracesaum um what they literally just had the keynote to announce the iPhone 11 yesterday, idk where you get your info from

    • @ashlan682
      @ashlan682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      grace saum the video just came out for the new iPhone

    • @nava2626
      @nava2626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      grace saum lmao

  • @carizahn2128
    @carizahn2128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m literally going to get a tattoo tomorrow so it’s so cool that you posted this!!

  • @jill5006
    @jill5006 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    your work out looked so fun!

  • @KrystalLeung2
    @KrystalLeung2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Gretchen! xoxox sending so much love to you, love the tats!!! so special, I know your dad is looking down on you and seeing all of your achievements. much love

  • @katecurran1793
    @katecurran1793 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    im so sorry for your loss

  • @lovelylauren-mb3vf
    @lovelylauren-mb3vf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video so much. I want to do a similar simple tattoo for my parents! Did it hurt more on the wrist or on the ankle?

  • @kendallwillis327
    @kendallwillis327 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    lmaooo Max's millie rock finna kill everybody in there with his long arms hahaha and he was singing the greens, beans, potatoes, ham, yams, YOU NAAAAME IT song hahahaha from thanksgiving

  • @kenziemariesmith4641
    @kenziemariesmith4641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE YOU GRETCHEN STAY STRONG GIRLIE

  • @Jessica-ee3rv
    @Jessica-ee3rv 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So so strong sweet sweet angel . You are so strong and I love that . Love you sister

  • @michaelaburr1720
    @michaelaburr1720 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    oooo you were at the providence place mall! I was there this week, it would've been so cool to see ya! also love the tattoos, they're so dainty and simple but have so much meaning

  • @jenniemoe3603
    @jenniemoe3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE the tattoos❤️ so meaningful and pretty!

  • @lillyodriscoll701
    @lillyodriscoll701 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so cute and wholesome, much love gretchen 🥰🥰

  • @HumbleGloryPod
    @HumbleGloryPod 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just got so excited seeing you in my hometown Providence!

  • @vollmerfamilyct235
    @vollmerfamilyct235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you ssooooooo much!!! This was so beautiful in so many ways

  • @kellcoe7917
    @kellcoe7917 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the tattoos! Love the big hoops! They look so good on you!

  • @sadieburchard1881
    @sadieburchard1881 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg literally crying rn i was gonna get my dads handwriting in xo too 😩 love this and you and i think now i’ll finally give in and get it :)

  • @kategibson4276
    @kategibson4276 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw I just watched the vlog where you pulled out this note from your dad 🥺❤️

  • @samlaflash3628
    @samlaflash3628 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gretchen!!! I’m moving to Albany for grad school and was wondering if you had any city reccs (where to live, shop, explore, etc.) since I’ve been in Massachusetts my whole life! This’ll be totally new for me and I know no one up there so figured I’d reach out! 💛

  • @JuliaBergdoll
    @JuliaBergdoll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got my first tattoo at stingray and they did a HORRIBLE job and treated me like shit. I have a lot of tattoos from another place in Harvard square now but never ever will go back to stingray. when you said you were there I got so stressed for you but I'm glad you had a good experience :)

  • @blakecampbell563
    @blakecampbell563 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where are your shoes from? Love them !

  • @madisonherries7802
    @madisonherries7802 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s so proud of you!

  • @gracesaum
    @gracesaum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can skip your backup by downloading google photos on your phone and putting all your pictures there. I never backup anymore

  • @kellynjshorem6081
    @kellynjshorem6081 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Perfect and classy just like you! 💕

  • @Hereismytwocents2011
    @Hereismytwocents2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Please tell me Max wasn’t using Sweet N Low? That stuff is terrible for him!

  • @erinc77
    @erinc77 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Max dancing I can’t omg

  • @Pick6124
    @Pick6124 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmao Lucy “oh I’m hyped” *shows donut box* 😂❤️ ah I love her

  • @ivanacelinakraljevic9217
    @ivanacelinakraljevic9217 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love everything about this!!

  • @tanikanorton3141
    @tanikanorton3141 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a strong girl! love you

  • @demiselenafan54
    @demiselenafan54 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I live in Providence and I'm so sad I didn't know you were here! Wish I could've met you... ironically was at the mall the day before you haha.. also a bit of advice with the splenda and stevia from a former baking and pastry student, they are both artificial sweeteners and used to be illegal because they weren't regulated by the FDA. It isn't good for you because most of it is actually indigestible. In my opinion, real sugar is actually more natural and better for you than the fake stuff! Hope that helps a little! Love you!

  • @josiahmanigault920
    @josiahmanigault920 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always praying for you and your family!

  • @maggieboedi3263
    @maggieboedi3263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dad recently passed away as well and I’m getting a tattoo soon in memory of him. I love this 💛

  • @caseymilton442
    @caseymilton442 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Wait did you already have the tatto when you did your skin care routine at like 7 minutes???

    • @GretchenGeraghty7
      @GretchenGeraghty7  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Casey Milton haha I knew some of you would catch that! guess who didn’t click record when she washed her face before her tattoo?! lol me, so then I just showed it again afterwards :)

    • @akayshalove7174
      @akayshalove7174 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Casey Milton I saw that also .. just taught I was confused or seeing double

  • @mgb1549
    @mgb1549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    also love the tattoos

  • @taylorbranson646
    @taylorbranson646 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I should be typing my essay that’s due tonight but instead I’m watching this. Best part of the day!

  • @lightscamerasashley.
    @lightscamerasashley. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so sweet Gretchen 💗

  • @alexisbeard527
    @alexisbeard527 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    where is your small bracelet from? I love how dainty it is

  • @Yelenahallum
    @Yelenahallum 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww Gretchen this made me tear up! We love you pretty lady ❤️❤️❤️ love the tattoo!

  • @cailynkelley8964
    @cailynkelley8964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i got my piecings at stingray! love it there

  • @briannampnelson
    @briannampnelson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What sneakers are you wearing when you got your tattoo??

  • @littlegoofygoobers
    @littlegoofygoobers 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Al Forno is... so good.

  • @eserge93
    @eserge93 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those hoops look so good on you!!

  • @brynndougherty9882
    @brynndougherty9882 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok I love Max so much 😂😂

  • @MeghanConsadene
    @MeghanConsadene 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    max in the background from 18:30-21:00 is soooo funny ahahah his lil head