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I would add that a mentally weak person would deflect or gaslight in a conversation by saying something like, "Most people would respond to this situation by doing/saying XYZ negative thing, but I would NEVER respond by doing XYZ", & then continue to filibuster in great length without ever actually addressing the thing that they are being called out on.
Yes , but do not over think or take life too seriously more too lightly ...Do not overdo things and instead take a balanced harmonious approach to life ...
The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich " . These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.
It is remarkable how much long term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.
The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck, especially with the current economic crisis around the world.
Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others. As an investor, you should've known that by now that nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally I had to reach out to a stock expert for guidance which is how I was able to grow my account close to $35k, withdraw my profit right before the correction and now I'm buying again.
praying? What the hell is that going to do for you? You need to actively work on you. Put yourself in stressful, triggering situations until you figure out how to not let it get to you and then keep doing it until you figure out how to EXCEL in that type of environment.
Love this channel! If shoppers are pushy and rude in a crowded grocery store, of course, I won't say anything to them about it unless I'm assaulted accidently or otherwise. Not standing up for yourself and walking away doesn’t necessarily mean you’re weak; it takes strength to ignore people’s bad behavior. Instead of arguing, which can make things worse, I'll start looking for other stores to do my shopping or quieter times to shop at the same "rude store.” Don't want to start an argument or be involved with one, since that's a sign of a low value man. Best to walk away, but watch your back. Then forget about it after a few minutes.
1) You internalize any negative statements other people make thye define who your are n how you feel you can't standupgor yourself negative experience rrebt free on head 2) it's never your fault 3) you worry all the freaking time overthiking everything lack of belief 4) past haunts you 5)you consume mental junk food 6)your are passive aggressive and a sore looser haven't mature yet 7)a self design cage where all the hurt can get in but you can't get out 8) you are dependent on other for happiness approval unable to say no to others 9) you default to its not gonni work out 10)you can't motivate yourself to do what you should be doing 11) you breakdown under pressure 12) hard time making decisions Confused 13) you use humor or escapism to avoid problems 14) overreact to shit negative stuff you label before you meet them
This right here is why I subscribed to this channel. True honesty, makes perfect sense, and straight to the point. I will always see this channel as a beacon of hope to help the world be a better place. Thank you ALUX, for all that your doing to be the voice we all may not want, but we all really need.
FLIP! This video is AMAZING! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾❣I love the "cold shower" intervention that this Sunday motivation video provides! There is one person that I would LOVE to share this with, unfortunately, they are so 'mentally weak' they will 100% do everything in the video that you point out - especially the bonus! 😅💯
Sadly a few of these hit home for me. I don't apologize well, my wife over apologizes. I can't tell myself "No" to things that hinder or outright prevent my success. When I'm stressed or lonely I need to escape. And creating lasting, changing habits eludes me.
I’m at the 0:21 mark so I’ve yet to dive in. I will say based on the thumbnail & Quick Look at a couple of future topics within this video. Let me tell you as a person who used to be mentally weak PLEASE be willing to admit it. After that. Therapy. Get your mental health in check. This helped my mental health strength by leaps & bounds. Also no I’m not saying I’m mentally superior, because I’m not. I still struggle with many things, if not all, in the video. What’s changed is my reaction to what I’m thinking AND not allowing myself to stay in a negative feedback loop.
Is it me or there are some points that I feel were somewhat true in my case . Not to the a great degree but I feel I have observed myself acting in this manner in the past .
It is not my friends but me, I believe mental weakness is a test and if you don't overcome it ,it will not go away. Now I don't waist time if I feel that I am offend, I attend to the matter right away. Offence is poisonous , it hurts the keeper.
Hmm, listening to this now and I have like 50% overlap with this (and not always with everything said on those points). And now I wonder - am I mentally weak? I am trying to change, but damn, it is hard.
I would probably have said Yes to many of these back in the day. Now many are No. I think it is confidence, experience and getting away from negative people into environments that encurage positivity and mving forward. Thank you for putting this all down Alux. Good to have somethng to compare my own position today with. A case of used to be - in many instances - but not so much now.
Strangely enough, if you have ever experienced narcissistic abuse or abuse from any other cluster B personality. A lot of those points will apply to you.
Flip. I try to make my life an example of growth and integrity. And still… OMG This describes the one I love. And worse they’re in a position to give advice to others. One thing more is that they are easily manipulated.
Thanks for the video. I am sure I will do good in business and will dedicate all my life to it and never retire and look how far i have come. I will work on buisness only. I will never let any distraction hold me back
Unfortunately you described my dad to a “T”. On a good note, I can see what his issue is now. I’m not sure if I should send him this video, or just keep it to myself so he doesn’t get upset.
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Bad apology #5: Blame the misunderstanding on a missed communication with HR and you'll have "your people" look into the matter. This is a current favorite of the WOKE Neo-Marxists. I, for one, only apologize if I truly feel guilty about the matter, otherwise, don't expect me to sooth your hurt feelings.
If people don't understand your priority even after telling them about your priority then it's better to keep distance from them. Thank you Alux your video genuinely makes me better person..
Everyone needs to take those online classes in “ different types of abuse”…..any type of abuse should be punished by law…..🤷🏻♀️I EXPECT PEOPLE TO NOT ABUSE ME …OTHERWISE I WILL SEE YOU IN COURT .
#5 where you talk about TikTok and you are what you consume. I have noticed when I upload videos talking about how America has become the dumbest country in the world, and they fight over stupid things like a football team, and then they talk nonsense and act like 15-year-olds from high school. I tell them they have TikTok brain where they cannot stay focused for more than 90 seconds literally the videos I make are so great and to the point nobody listens to a word that I talk about in it and they will send laughter reactions making fun of me, but in the video I actually talk about where people have TikTok brain and cannot stay focused acting like 15 year olds And that’s because they spend hours after hours of their time watching TikTok rather than read a damn book Then they complain that they’re at a dead end job, or they complain that they got laid off from their job or just overall complain in general because they have TikTok brain. It took me years to get this character, but when it comes to doing my own thing, whether I get good comments or bad comments, I read them, but I still maintain a detached attitude about them, and I no longer seek other people for approval. I’m even the same way when it comes to getting a job I actually just had an interview for bartending and I had that attitude where I just don’t give a fuck I still dress professionally my hair is brushed evenly I maintain eye contact , but I am not a sappy weakling who has that attitude as in please I need this job or I will kiss your ass and do everything it takes. No, I will listen answer questions and say if I need time, I will need to think about it for a second to answer the question and then they will say to me out of all the applicants why should I hire you and my answer is I’m dependable and do what it takes to strive, and I was so tempted to say, are you sure you have other applicants? We’re in a time where nobody wants to work literally I am like a mafia character where I show a little emotions. Speak only one I need to and I demand loyalty and my other 50% especially when it comes to dating and when I don’t get it, I am quick to cut ties. For the part of being overly emotional and say that people left a video because we get called out on things that’s not me. If I’m called out on some thing, I will read it as many times as I need to to get the emotions out of the way, so I can analyze what they are saying and then respond to it. However, if I’m being called out by a person who has the grammar of a 13-year-old I just don’t bother reading it because it’s not worth my time. The last part where you talk about the four apologies, saying that they try to flip it to you. My response was “all the time.” Flip
Blaming yourself for every little thing. You stop grooming yourself because it doesn't matter to you now. You give too much to work because you want to make unimportant people happy for you. When someone lokey insults you you ignore and act as if nothing happens. You even forgive them. And try not to bring up the same topic. You help everyone when you expect help they don't help you. Now you blame yourself. Again you help the same person. You think you are not made for the corporate world.
“You over-react to $h!? You’re triggered by this video and you probably already left🤣 “We tell you the truth and you act like we slapped your mother🤣” Love this! Literally laughed out loud🤣
92% of this describes my ex to a T. He was a narcissist but I didn't realize it for the first year. He was always so kind and thoughtful. Until that slowly stopped. He has such potential and incredibly intelligent, but the emotional IQ of a sixth grader. You can't help someone who hates themselves...Happy to say none of this describes me :) This was so therapeutic!!! You helped fill in what certain behavours meant. Thank you!!
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Hello Aluxers, what would you add to the list?
Here are the signs you're mentally strong: th-cam.com/video/9NyhTVhbEus/w-d-xo.html
If you're serious about change, Get the app: www.alux.com/app
💐
I would add that a mentally weak person would deflect or gaslight in a conversation by saying something like, "Most people would respond to this situation by doing/saying XYZ negative thing, but I would NEVER respond by doing XYZ", & then continue to filibuster in great length without ever actually addressing the thing that they are being called out on.
Yes , but do not over think or take life too seriously more too lightly ...Do not overdo things and instead take a balanced harmonious approach to life ...
#peacealux hey that bonus is the detail of gaslighting #imo
Ironic. An AI computer voice is talking to people about mental and emotional intelligence.😂
The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich " . These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.
Money invested is far better than money saved , when you invest it gives you the opportunity to increase your financial worth.
It is remarkable how much long term
advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid,
instead of trying to be very intelligent.
The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck, especially with the current economic crisis around the world.
Many individuals report success in investing in stocks,fx, yet I continue to struggle.Can somebody help me out or advise me on what to do?
Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others. As an investor, you should've known that by now that nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally I had to reach out to a stock expert for guidance which is how I was able to grow my account close to $35k, withdraw my profit right before the correction and now I'm buying again.
My God this is me. I'm praying for growth because I don't want to be like this anymore
With awareness and action I trust you will find it 🙏🏾
praying? What the hell is that going to do for you? You need to actively work on you. Put yourself in stressful, triggering situations until you figure out how to not let it get to you and then keep doing it until you figure out how to EXCEL in that type of environment.
@@charlespancamo9771Prayer changes things 🙏🇺🇲
Love this channel! If shoppers are pushy and rude in a crowded grocery store, of course, I won't say anything to them about it unless I'm assaulted accidently or otherwise. Not standing up for yourself and walking away doesn’t necessarily mean you’re weak; it takes strength to ignore people’s bad behavior. Instead of arguing, which can make things worse, I'll start looking for other stores to do my shopping or quieter times to shop at the same "rude store.” Don't want to start an argument or be involved with one, since that's a sign of a low value man. Best to walk away, but watch your back. Then forget about it after a few minutes.
Agree 100%. Pick you battles.
@@stevenporter863 Exactly!
I count to 10 before I react. It usually defuses most situations.
Narcissistic people will definitely flip it onto you. You call them out and they'll expect YOU to apologize.
I used to display these traits, but with practice and determination, I have solved most of them.
1) You internalize any negative statements other people make thye define who your are n how you feel you can't standupgor yourself negative experience rrebt free on head
2) it's never your fault
3) you worry all the freaking time overthiking everything lack of belief
4) past haunts you
5)you consume mental junk food
6)your are passive aggressive and a sore looser haven't mature yet
7)a self design cage where all the hurt can get in but you can't get out
8) you are dependent on other for happiness approval unable to say no to others
9) you default to its not gonni work out
10)you can't motivate yourself to do what you should be doing
11) you breakdown under pressure
12) hard time making decisions Confused
13) you use humor or escapism to avoid problems
14) overreact to shit negative stuff you label before you meet them
Thank you! I happen to agree with all of these. Maybe there's a list of "15 Signs You’re Mentally Strong?
@@dolittle6781 I am starting new business dono how to handle customer I am figuring it out it's 50 : 50
You realize, this is in the description already....
This right here is why I subscribed to this channel. True honesty, makes perfect sense, and straight to the point. I will always see this channel as a beacon of hope to help the world be a better place. Thank you ALUX, for all that your doing to be the voice we all may not want, but we all really need.
This was an impressive listen. Hope those who need this take notes.
FLIP! This video is AMAZING! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾❣I love the "cold shower" intervention that this Sunday motivation video provides! There is one person that I would LOVE to share this with, unfortunately, they are so 'mentally weak' they will 100% do everything in the video that you point out - especially the bonus! 😅💯
Sadly a few of these hit home for me. I don't apologize well, my wife over apologizes. I can't tell myself "No" to things that hinder or outright prevent my success. When I'm stressed or lonely I need to escape. And creating lasting, changing habits eludes me.
I’m at the 0:21 mark so I’ve yet to dive in. I will say based on the thumbnail & Quick Look at a couple of future topics within this video. Let me tell you as a person who used to be mentally weak PLEASE be willing to admit it. After that. Therapy. Get your mental health in check. This helped my mental health strength by leaps & bounds.
Also no I’m not saying I’m mentally superior, because I’m not. I still struggle with many things, if not all, in the video. What’s changed is my reaction to what I’m thinking AND not allowing myself to stay in a negative feedback loop.
Is it me or there are some points that I feel were somewhat true in my case .
Not to the a great degree but I feel I have observed myself acting in this manner in the past .
alux really calling me out with this one i need to change
It is not my friends but me, I believe mental weakness is a test and if you don't overcome it ,it will not go away. Now I don't waist time if I feel that I am offend, I attend to the matter right away. Offence is poisonous , it hurts the keeper.
Is there any advice how to fix some of those?
Hmm, listening to this now and I have like 50% overlap with this (and not always with everything said on those points). And now I wonder - am I mentally weak? I am trying to change, but damn, it is hard.
I would probably have said Yes to many of these back in the day. Now many are No. I think it is confidence, experience and getting away from negative people into environments that encurage positivity and mving forward.
Thank you for putting this all down Alux. Good to have somethng to compare my own position today with.
A case of used to be - in many instances - but not so much now.
One of the few channels I’m subscribed to that post information beneficial to my growth as a person
Strangely enough, if you have ever experienced narcissistic abuse or abuse from any other cluster B personality. A lot of those points will apply to you.
Flip.
I try to make my life an example of growth and integrity.
And still…
OMG This describes the one I love. And worse they’re in a position to give advice to others.
One thing more is that they are easily manipulated.
Thanks for the video. I am sure I will do good in business and will dedicate all my life to it and never retire and look how far i have come. I will work on buisness only. I will never let any distraction hold me back
Watch the full video don't read the list in the comment section..
Don't need to. It's already mentioned in the video's notes
Oh, fo' sho'. 11:16
I came here for that🥲
I have just one.... Procrastination... I'm going to change it with discipline ❤
Unfortunately you described my dad to a “T”. On a good note, I can see what his issue is now. I’m not sure if I should send him this video, or just keep it to myself so he doesn’t get upset.
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Yep, been called a loser all my life. Even though I'm wealthy now, I still feel like a loser.
Oh wow! This hit way too close to home! I need to take these things to heart and make some changes.
Oh Lord God 🙏 help me grow mentally mature
Thank you so much for this video, It's a serious wake-up call that I truly need, I admit it, God bless!!!
could relate to this a lot, I'm fixing this
Can’t relate to this one. Thank God 🙌🏾
The Alux Lady went really hard on number 5. It was like she had someone in mind. Great content as usual.
Now I understand why my "old school" parents practiced tough love!
Alux has helped me become a better woman. I love your content
Bad apology #5: Blame the misunderstanding on a missed communication with HR and you'll have "your people" look into the matter. This is a current favorite of the WOKE Neo-Marxists.
I, for one, only apologize if I truly feel guilty about the matter, otherwise, don't expect me to sooth your hurt feelings.
13:05
Contrary to society: being offended is not a skill!
I am definitely not mentally weak ❤❤❤thanks for this amazing video Alux❤
My question is, how do you come up with this list?
With a brain genius.
The same way u came up with this comment 😂
Damn it Alux. This video really hit hard. I'm making some adjustments in my life. Thank you Alux Lady.
I am all these things. I want to change..
This particular one hits differently
If people don't understand your priority even after telling them about your priority then it's better to keep distance from them.
Thank you Alux your video genuinely makes me better person..
Thank you for unloading this video. Ive been flipped on alot.Done with it also why i have a small circle of friends.
Love this channel!
Unfortunately I can relate with so much in this video 😢.
What can i do to be better?
Everyone needs to take those online classes in “ different types of abuse”…..any type of abuse should be punished by law…..🤷🏻♀️I EXPECT PEOPLE TO NOT ABUSE ME …OTHERWISE I WILL SEE YOU IN COURT .
I guess I’m some areas I’m weak
Minded I need to work on that
Thank you Alux team, you are awesome. Flip!
❤❤❤thanks for uploading this awesome video ❤I will share tomorrow as I went over my daily shares on my community ❤tuning in from New 😂city
Well, at the very least I don't suffer from all of these ...
I'm, hopefully getting better.
Attack me why don't ya? Tell me why I've been degrading with time.. everything on this list is me
Thanks for this video
Thank you My dear friend
#5 where you talk about TikTok and you are what you consume. I have noticed when I upload videos talking about how America has become the dumbest country in the world, and they fight over stupid things like a football team, and then they talk nonsense and act like 15-year-olds from high school. I tell them they have TikTok brain where they cannot stay focused for more than 90 seconds literally the videos I make are so great and to the point nobody listens to a word that I talk about in it and they will send laughter reactions making fun of me, but in the video I actually talk about where people have TikTok brain and cannot stay focused acting like 15 year olds And that’s because they spend hours after hours of their time watching TikTok rather than read a damn book Then they complain that they’re at a dead end job, or they complain that they got laid off from their job or just overall complain in general because they have TikTok brain.
It took me years to get this character, but when it comes to doing my own thing, whether I get good comments or bad comments, I read them, but I still maintain a detached attitude about them, and I no longer seek other people for approval. I’m even the same way when it comes to getting a job I actually just had an interview for bartending and I had that attitude where I just don’t give a fuck I still dress professionally my hair is brushed evenly I maintain eye contact , but I am not a sappy weakling who has that attitude as in please I need this job or I will kiss your ass and do everything it takes. No, I will listen answer questions and say if I need time, I will need to think about it for a second to answer the question and then they will say to me out of all the applicants why should I hire you and my answer is I’m dependable and do what it takes to strive, and I was so tempted to say, are you sure you have other applicants? We’re in a time where nobody wants to work literally I am like a mafia character where I show a little emotions. Speak only one I need to and I demand loyalty and my other 50% especially when it comes to dating and when I don’t get it, I am quick to cut ties.
For the part of being overly emotional and say that people left a video because we get called out on things that’s not me. If I’m called out on some thing, I will read it as many times as I need to to get the emotions out of the way, so I can analyze what they are saying and then respond to it. However, if I’m being called out by a person who has the grammar of a 13-year-old I just don’t bother reading it because it’s not worth my time.
The last part where you talk about the four apologies, saying that they try to flip it to you. My response was “all the time.” Flip
Dang, alot of this hits me. I thought everything around me is wrong.
Blaming yourself for every little thing.
You stop grooming yourself because it doesn't matter to you now.
You give too much to work because you want to make unimportant people happy for you.
When someone lokey insults you you ignore and act as if nothing happens. You even forgive them. And try not to bring up the same topic.
You help everyone when you expect help they don't help you. Now you blame yourself. Again you help the same person.
You think you are not made for the corporate world.
“You over-react to $h!? You’re triggered by this video and you probably already left🤣
“We tell you the truth and you act like we slapped your mother🤣”
Love this! Literally laughed out loud🤣
Thank you my friend take care
The topic pushed me instantly 😂😎
SLIP! I enjoy these videos and the app! I’m about to be subscribe to the app for two years on the 13th.
🌱FLIP
But for my Growth I will never miss the arrow of strong mentally people again..
In some areas am weak?
Thank you!
First intro and I understand it describes me. Every info in my character outline. 🙂 i have vit D deficiency also
She did ❤
Wow! This is a good video. Good to know the bad, now you can go grow!
I still have alot of working on me to do at least im a honest simp
narrator says those who do not watch 15 videos in alux channel daily and share them are mentally weak
You must work with THE PUBLIC! #FLIP
Damn it that 1st one 😕
Yes I agree with video all way thanks you for this Karen forestparkga 😮😮😮😮
thank you very much
“Flip”
"FLIP"
This video is only Half Accurate… Some of these points are just misleading and incorrect…
92% of this describes my ex to a T. He was a narcissist but I didn't realize it for the first year. He was always so kind and thoughtful. Until that slowly stopped. He has such potential and incredibly intelligent, but the emotional IQ of a sixth grader. You can't help someone who hates themselves...Happy to say none of this describes me :) This was so therapeutic!!! You helped fill in what certain behavours meant. Thank you!!
This channel is a cheat code
The first 4 or 5 points were me.
Unity software 😮
FLIP Just Highly Relatable❤
Im definitely a humor as a shield person. I was the class clown
I'm in a bad spot and I did get some weirdly specifically points.
Great video.
I went yolo on the stock video and put it all on Unity . Damn.
Flip thanks again for wonderful video ❤
I’m definitely the Bull.. and surrounded by idiots
Flip!
Flip.
I would be angry if I did not relate so much😢😢😢
Damn. All of this is me. But oh well. Not my fault.
Here you again...
Don't blame others for the outcome of your life. Its your life not theirs.
ALUX is officially the G. O. A. T. in the personal development world. Now bow down and kiss that ring.. ALUX 4 LIFE. 👍💪💯
good Sunday morning alux lady
Brutal, it's s wake up call. Flip
I need a lot of vitamin D supplements
I love this content!
Hi Alux!
What the hell, ALUX?!?!!
i thought we were cool, man...?
Flip
You read b/w the lines even when there's nothing written in b/w the lines. 😂. Omg! You caught me offguard @alux.
FLIP! All too often!