How to Deal with Toxic Parents - Difficult Parents - Monica Gupta

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  • @flavourfeasts5434
    @flavourfeasts5434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2504

    I use to cry always because of my parents sometimes parents didn't know that they are the reason why their child is going in depression

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      जी

    • @riyaasinghh8
      @riyaasinghh8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      Exactly I can't to share with them that they are the biggest reason of my anxiety and depression 🥺

    • @AnabiaAiraa
      @AnabiaAiraa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Its true

    • @glimpseofpriya8181
      @glimpseofpriya8181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      True

    • @asthachaudhary2509
      @asthachaudhary2509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Same is happening with me..

  • @aryatales1723
    @aryatales1723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +825

    It's very beautiful to think that our next generation is going to be a great parent who will never let their kids cry in a Locked room.❤️

  • @shifanazim6058
    @shifanazim6058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4188

    Let's make a promise that when we become parents we won't treat our children like our parents 🤗

  • @Iamyogitajoshi
    @Iamyogitajoshi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2087

    I'm in 11th just wanted to complete my 12th as soon as possible and clear the entrace exam for mns and than never come back to home ..than I'll be independent I would not be depended on my so called dad.

  • @vandita6158
    @vandita6158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    We all depressed kids are here . May god bless us with strength and courage to deal with these kinda negative parents. ❤️

  • @Justlostinmyworld
    @Justlostinmyworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    My father is all time on angry moood... I really got depressed when he uselessly fight with everyone with literally no reason

  • @sunnybari8930
    @sunnybari8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    By reading the comments I realised that I am not the only one who has toxic parents.

  • @BharatJadhav-tz2vk
    @BharatJadhav-tz2vk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    My father's angered issues has given me miserable childhood and now stressful life for eternity

  • @inderjeetkaur0712
    @inderjeetkaur0712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    The worst thing is I AM A GIRL. This is a main issue they do not allow me to go anywhere.. Always want me to be in home.

  • @nandanigurung546
    @nandanigurung546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    A message to all the teenagers “ u can do it”
    “ don’t give up “

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks nandani Gurung 🙏🏻🙂

  • @kirannishad9802
    @kirannishad9802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    Yeah exactly... daily routine
    I try my best everyday to avoid talking with them

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Thanks Kiran Nishad 🙏🏻🙂

    • @curlyvlogs4604
      @curlyvlogs4604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I'm just done😭

    • @sanjuktasamanta2746
      @sanjuktasamanta2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Meet to..😊😊

    • @starfish883
      @starfish883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@MonicaGupta mam how can I share my feelings please i don't have friends now I don't have anyone to share my personal things

  • @tanusengar911
    @tanusengar911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    The way she asked " kaise h aap log?" 😢 , I felt that she's asking personally 😞,no one asked it before 🙂

  • @Imperf5ctharmony
    @Imperf5ctharmony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    If I have Mom Like You,I Will Definitely change my life easily and Win my goals .

  • @bushrakhan8464
    @bushrakhan8464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +612

    How understanding is she ..... literally I am crying while watching this ...I had thought that there is no one who understands me nd i started thinking that I'm wron ....Thnkq very much ❤️

  • @rythamsharma1549
    @rythamsharma1549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    I cried just listening what u sain in 1 minute 😔that's totally relatable to me even much more but .... 🤷‍♀️🙍

  • @Sanjana-pp1ps
    @Sanjana-pp1ps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    This is the best warmest comment section. Love you all who are suffering, we're all together ❤

  • @raveenabhandari21
    @raveenabhandari21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Reading all the comments literally we went through alot,Yes toxic parents'exists.Being with toxic parents' feels like having suicidal thoughts all the time.......

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ur last line hit me 🤦‍♀️

  • @so-nali
    @so-nali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    Omg we all feel the same wayy 😭 I really wanna move out as fast as I can

  • @harishankarlal9575
    @harishankarlal9575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Mine is actually a depressed life. I always wanted to meet more people and make friends. But whenever i met someone, i will suddenly get insulted in mind, that ma fathers words are running in my head. That sucks

  • @ashishyadav-rm8jj
    @ashishyadav-rm8jj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Only lucky people get loving parents.. I will definitely become a loving parent.

  • @sonalii_k
    @sonalii_k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    Hi maam, but this is not only for teen agers, but for adults also.... sometime it's getting too much....so much toxicity.....when your own family members are toxic where to go ? Specially mother, why some mothers think they have given life to us and we are grateful for this, but does that mean we don't have any rights in our own life...

  • @heh564
    @heh564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    In a nutshell you just have to maintain distance from your parents, focus on yourself and your goals, fill yourself with positivity and accept your fate, being depressed is too expensive to make them realise that they did something wrong, whatever they do or say you just have to keep your mouth shut or answer politely they will stop it one day by realising themselves that they did something wrong and that will make them regret about every single abuse (mentally or physically) they did.

  • @user-Zora709
    @user-Zora709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Toxic relationship is like a cancer jo beecho beech khatam kar deta hai

  • @MsMadhu456
    @MsMadhu456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    U r like a mother to the motherless or who don't have someone to teach right or wrong😊
    I get a motherly feeling from ur advice as I have lost my mom
    Thank you so much for everything ❣️

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thanks a lot

    • @MsMadhu456
      @MsMadhu456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️❤️🌸🌸

  • @rupaliphotostudio438
    @rupaliphotostudio438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Let's promise that when we become parents we will not repeat that past

  • @geethachepuri7308
    @geethachepuri7308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    They count every penny they spend on me.
    I feel guilty while eating.
    They never speak to me properly. They are so rude 🥺

  • @ppoooojjjaaaaa
    @ppoooojjjaaaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Just being in a completely dark room alone every day separated from all but thn alsoo koi naa koi reason s ladne ana hi hai inko🙂💔 they don't understand I'm depressed upr se mujhko anxiety deke jaate h or sans nhi ati mujhe fir bhi ake ladte h meri anxiety mei today just asked for new session books they just said I'M A GIRL ND BEING A "BOOJH" in the family💔🙂 my mother just calls me a slut just bcz i always use phone.. how can they even be parents???

  • @Karm206
    @Karm206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I will be a Caring and understanding mother to my future child❤️

  • @prarthana5709
    @prarthana5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    They always want to customize my life according to them...😢😢😢

  • @ashmitakalita8433
    @ashmitakalita8433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I'm a student of the 10th standard. Today I was having online classes at 7:30 am. which I didn't know nor did the teacher give any information about it in the class yesterday at school. My school classes start at 9:00 am. So I woke up a little late. I didn't even get up from the bed and my toxic and egoist parents started taunting me that I won't be able to be successful in my life. I told them that I didn't know about it but they started using dirty words on me. I really hurt so to entertain myself I type on youtube about how to handle these types of parents. And I watched your channel. Thank you, mam. I'll try my best to handle such types of narrow-minded parents of mine. Thank you.

  • @veroleenakashyap5470
    @veroleenakashyap5470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I think my father don't love me anymore . After my stepbrother is born he doesn't love me as he loved me before if I do a small wrong thing he shouts at me . He doesn't think about my happiness , he never allow me to go outside and hangout with my friends . Sometimes I feel I just leave this house and go somewhere else .

    • @roshani7067
      @roshani7067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry...have patience..make them understand

    • @DikshaSingla-j2u
      @DikshaSingla-j2u 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have patience... And practice meditation...

  • @dr.asharma4715
    @dr.asharma4715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Parents are thinking according to society
    Don't care abt child's feeling

  • @AbhishekSingh-vn6ko
    @AbhishekSingh-vn6ko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    This video is not just for we teenager it's also for parents as well

  • @fit_lifedhanashree
    @fit_lifedhanashree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I m 30+ still watching this.. All this happens even if u r financially independent, happy married life

    • @meenakshijasht7232
      @meenakshijasht7232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      career bnae meri mrzi ka ...bahu lae meri mrzi ki ...or bahu meri seva kre bsss

  • @aditidey5155
    @aditidey5155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Why are you so late? I finally found a guide. No one explained the situation in such loving way. The main problem is with toxic parents you tend to inherit their toxicity unknowingly. And without knowledge you become just like them and then your goals slips away🙂 that is what's happening with me please help!!!!!! How not to inherit the toxic traits of toxic parents. And also they were toxic since childhood. I realised it during my teenage years. I don't want them near. I want to completely seperate my life and start new as if no one was there.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      आप कितने साल की हैं और क्या करती हैं?

    • @aditidey5155
      @aditidey5155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@MonicaGupta I am 20 years old. Right now I'm in my 3rd year of honours degree. Before COVID I used to do tutions. But now I've lost them due to COVID

  • @ravirajnage2284
    @ravirajnage2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    When toxicity increases so much that I stop feeling anything due to control on me emotionally, my life ,they way should I feel ,I been through toomuch I am in early 20 ,lost my 2 years wasted alot of time,parent just give u a hard time when they don't get what they want from u ,its toxic

  • @InspiritualShorts
    @InspiritualShorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mam maene sab try karke dekh liya..
    aur ab maan liya ki chup chap rahne
    aur selfish hokar apne goal ko pura krne me hi fayda hai.🙏

  • @Karm206
    @Karm206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    I can't share anything with my parents.. They give me double depression 😂😂

  • @radhikaradhika3497
    @radhikaradhika3497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Mere 95 percent ate h lekin phir bhi meri mummy mujhe se khush nhi h 😏 i dont know mai unhe purre 2 saal se smjha rhi hu . Lekin thanku so much mam ab mujhe solution mil gya h thanku so much .....🙏 Mane unko apki video dikhai to apki bhi burai karne lagaye, 😣🤨😏 anyway thanku so much ...........,........ ☺️

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      कोई बात नही.. आप बस मेहनत करती रहिए.. जुटी रहिए.. कुछ बन कर दिखाईए... बहुत सारी शुभकामनाएं !!

  • @gouravdidwania1070
    @gouravdidwania1070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I'm a working man. I just started working a few months back. It's my first job. I do my work plus help my family with all sort of works daily. And I get tired after working all day long and so I couldn't work out. Today my father called me SWINE for not working out and that I eat at home all day. This is just a small piece of what I hear all day. I'm helpless in the COVID situation and so I've to work from home otherwise I wouldn't have stayed here a single day more.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      कोई बात नही.. आपके पिता है अगर कुछ बोल भी दिया तो महसूस मत कीजिए.. हो सकता है उन्हें भी किसी बात की कोई टेंशन हो और गुस्सा आप पर निकल गया हो... आप समझदार हैं... आप समझने की कोशिश कीजिए उन्हें...

  • @SonuSingh-hk4um
    @SonuSingh-hk4um 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My parents want me to get married so that they can get a maid as my wife, but I'm against them. It have been 3 years I didn't talked with my parents openly

  • @jtime5041
    @jtime5041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Well I was literally crying while watching this vedio. I just run to the bathroom so that no one can see me crying otherwise mammy dekhti to aur chillana Suri Suri deti bina vaja.🙃

  • @tamanna2901
    @tamanna2901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    So nice to see this video. I have spent 21 years dealing with such toxicity and I naturally applied these points in my life.. setting career goals, maintaining a distance from her and at the same time tried to communicate with her what she thinks, what she wants and all. balancing proper communication and maintaining a distance is the only key to deal with such parents. Decide wisely, when you should talk and where to avoid an argument.

  • @reemachaudhari2537
    @reemachaudhari2537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I don't know what is wrong with me but there is this voice Inside my head who keeps on talking like my mother. It always criticises me for saying anything against my mom . Some months ago it wasn't there and i didn't know how it came . Plus i can relate to all of the signs

  • @pujamondal4257
    @pujamondal4257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Thank you so much ma'am.. feeling so bad that I have to search about these things..💔

  • @vijayamohan467
    @vijayamohan467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I m so depressed by my parents there are not give me freedom and always see me as a doubtful mind.... I love my parents❤ but they r not love me 😭😭I want to share all the happy and sadness to my parents but they r not spend a time for me.... And always torturing me 😭and make me cry every day.... But i also I wait for them one day they will realize my love ❤and patience

  • @vidhinabansod3973
    @vidhinabansod3973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I'm just crying while watching this
    And the starting of video 😭😭😭
    U make me feel how unlucky I am😭😭😭😭

  • @iexist1693
    @iexist1693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I haven't spoken to my father since 6 months and ignore him, but he didn't care

  • @shubhanshigupta5575
    @shubhanshigupta5575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was literally crying throughout the video but at the end i stopped crying..thanku mam..

  • @samazhar6067
    @samazhar6067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Not even with teenagers, also with over 30 :/
    Well, thank you so much, mam! for such a valuable advises

  • @amishagupta5586
    @amishagupta5586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I can't talk to my mom because she also can't understand my feelings ....😭 She support husband not me.

  • @anonymousperson8244
    @anonymousperson8244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Big hug to you.❤️🥺 I am not a teenager anyone. However, the verbal abuse and toxic behaviour on my mother's part continues.... My only concern is that I might end up becoming like her in future as I have grown up seeing all this. Day's are difficult to pass.. Hoping to land a good career and stay away from home.

  • @abiroojaan1091
    @abiroojaan1091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am 15..but i wish I could have mother like you... My parents are both shit

  • @SimpleRaag
    @SimpleRaag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am literally crying while watching this video. I am also going through the same phase .... I just want to become independent..... Thankyou ma'am for this video.. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @drashtipatel7745
    @drashtipatel7745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Thank for talking about this topic mostly people are not even aware about this thing

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks Drashti Patel 🙏🏻🙂

    • @anushmitaa05
      @anushmitaa05 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MonicaGupta thanks really 🙏 for helping

  • @shefalibajaj7993
    @shefalibajaj7993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I am 14 only and literally no one in my life to whom I can share my feelings 😭

  • @trickyworld2881
    @trickyworld2881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Instead of students this videos should be shared with all those parents 🥺🙏 because even they are not ready to listen our words , hope they listen you through this video 🙏

  • @SillyMidOnn
    @SillyMidOnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I just don't want to end up being a father like my father. That's it.

  • @pragyasingh1486
    @pragyasingh1486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Ma'am this was a great session. Every word of yours is so true and accurate. I started crying in first 5 mins but this really helped a lot. And ab se I am gonna focus on my studies and treat parents with respect. Thank you ma'am.

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so welcome

  • @世代-i3e
    @世代-i3e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The only thing I want in my life is parents who knows my feeling,who can support at my hard times,who motivate me,who can change me
    Though I will never get those types of parents I ain't going to complain I am going to teach everything I didn't get so that my kid never have this type of feelings

  • @swetaroy8163
    @swetaroy8163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    When she said that your parents criticize you in front of your friend....
    I be like:👁️👄👁️..... How did she know that!!!!

  • @yogitameera
    @yogitameera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Your kids are blessed ma'am

  • @ishitasahoo6572
    @ishitasahoo6572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Thank you so much ma'am!! This was very helpful. My parents always belittle me and call me names. They criticize me so much and brought my self-esteem down. But I know I'm capable of dealing with them. Thank you so much.

  • @ayansheikh169
    @ayansheikh169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I'm A Boy But My Parents doesn't Let Me Go Outside The House 😖
    And I Don't Have Any Freind 😓
    Mostly My Parents Saying Me Be Like Your Cousin's 😦😟

  • @wise_man6969
    @wise_man6969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    When my parents make me cry hard and say curse words I always keep my mind calm by saying "they're your parents, they always be there and think about your welfare so don't take them too seriously at such particular moment though they always taunt me or criticize me. I always think that they're preparing me for lifelong learning of how to encounter such negative people in society

    • @wise_man6969
      @wise_man6969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Any grammatical error is appreciated 😌 I just got lost in expressing my emotions 😁. Cheers ✨✨

    • @asmigujar7522
      @asmigujar7522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are stong minded god bless you me too do the same in such situations 🙂❤️

  • @adityarajvaidya927
    @adityarajvaidya927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am a 27 year old in 2022 and facing all the same..from childhood abuse to being an adult. My parents find reasons to fight with me..daily before and after my office 💔

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      पर अब आप समझदार हैं... आप उनसे खुल कर बात कर सकते हैं ??

  • @fardeen1268
    @fardeen1268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Never let us follow the passion
    Never let u live independently
    Just getting marks makes his carrier
    And always compare with someone
    At the end
    you will be a LOOSER

  • @SUSMITADAS-pc6tn
    @SUSMITADAS-pc6tn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I m a doctor now pg first year,my father still insults me in front of his friends,my cousins etc.He asks for my medical opinion for different people,the people listen to me bt my father says she doesn’t know anything.Whenever I speak he always has to disagree with it ,he never tries to listen to me.I hv never asked him for any favour ,he still bad mouths me,how I look , how I stand, how I walk ,there is just no end.

  • @nabanitamukherjee83078
    @nabanitamukherjee83078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My mother is always rude to me and I am completed my graduation nd I'm doing CMA now i'm totally dedicated my career nd she know that I love someone...nd I shared with her about him..bt nowadays she's always criticised me nd giving thread to that I'm telling your dad ..nd she don't want my happiness..whose I love he's also doing CA ...bt my mother mentality is not good...I don't like this kind of thinking...just because he is non-Bengali nd I'm bengali...what to do..I don't know nd he loves my brother more than me...

  • @kaushallohiya3175
    @kaushallohiya3175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mam I’m feeling so lucky that i got u. After watching your video i felt very relaxed that its not all my fault. I’m going through so much torture

  • @deepshikhadebnath8468
    @deepshikhadebnath8468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Mam .. idk why all this points are so damn relatable with with me ..
    I will try to maintain all this points .. nd move forward ..
    Lots of love from Kolkata ❤️✨

  • @sadhanaawasthi837
    @sadhanaawasthi837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am not teenager anymore... I am 28.. but suffering from these toxic things...

  • @ambikamirabose142
    @ambikamirabose142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I m a 11 standard student. I m suffering from last 5 years to yet now.. I know everything about them still I unable to do anything. I want to clear my studies only . to be worthy and independent soon 🙂

  • @Jsarmy-n8g
    @Jsarmy-n8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    your kids are really lucky to have u as a mother 💜😞😞

  • @mohammedarshaan1760
    @mohammedarshaan1760 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was feeling hopeless but this videos really helps me "FACE EVERYTHING AND RISE"

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  ปีที่แล้ว

      बहुत बढ़िया... ढेर सारी शुभकामनाएं!

  • @YKR3
    @YKR3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We all have been through a lot , We Will make it in this world for sure 🔥

  • @ayushikriti8797
    @ayushikriti8797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    🥺🥺 I have no freedom to going out with friends..

  • @shriyasahu663
    @shriyasahu663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    The takeaway from this video.
    Have faith in yourself .
    Don't lose your confidence.
    Find your purpose
    Engage in creative activities
    Work on yourself.
    Maintain healthy lifestyle- proper diet adequate sleep and daily exercise.
    Set goals for yourself and work day and night for it.

  • @seemrankumari1314
    @seemrankumari1314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I knew this things but still trying to manage and standing up for myself 🙃

  • @preetiyadav1148
    @preetiyadav1148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Here I am crying badly and watching this video to find a little hope to get out of depression 😓

  • @upasnagupta2522
    @upasnagupta2522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Till now I was feeling this I'm the only one who is done with toxic family ...but comments me sb dekhne k bad, now m feeling it's ok to have this issue. I feel like dying bcz of such ppl, I list my personality n confidence.

  • @saniyasoge2001
    @saniyasoge2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sbse achi cheez mam ne boli ki lets be independent lets work on carrer and dont lose your respect toward your parents ...lets not lose ourselve in the process of hating them

  • @imranfarhad8211
    @imranfarhad8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My parents taught me a lot about what not to do in life to be happy

  • @atharva-upclosingnature2423
    @atharva-upclosingnature2423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    mere saath to abhi lockdown me har roj ho raha hai, and normally week me ek baar.
    I am 16, mujhe apne summer vacations bohot acche se use karne the, Gardening, Being with nature, doing something good for stay animals, thinking positive of my future and many many things, but mere parents hamesha mere peir khich lete hai.
    Always they think pessimistic.

  • @diyadew7340
    @diyadew7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys we will face this and hope all of us will get bright future

  • @allazy8983
    @allazy8983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    she asked the children to introspect themselve. Now in my case I used to study at night and they used to say that you should get up early. Now I'm in college and my day starts at 3 am morning and now they say as I quote "to kar kya liya tune jaldi uth ke" and they themselve get up at 10 in morning.
    I seriously need help plss I need help

  • @thequietkid7478
    @thequietkid7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you
    It changed something..
    I really wish I had a mom like you

  • @anchalrai535
    @anchalrai535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ma'am you were speaking my heart.
    I am even crying while typing this.
    Thankyou for giving a hope.🙏❤

    • @MonicaGupta
      @MonicaGupta  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Anchal Rai 🙏🏻🙂

  • @glimpseofpriya8181
    @glimpseofpriya8181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I wish I had a mother like u ❤️🤞🏻🤗

  • @urmyduttachowdhury9753
    @urmyduttachowdhury9753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My parents never talk to me rudely. But they treat me like an object. As if I should not have an opinion. I have to always go as per their terms and conditions. They are completely unaware of the fact that they are the cause of my depression. If I raise my voice they will start doing emotional blackmail. I'm 28yrs old, financially independent i also go through all these things

  • @antimatter5433
    @antimatter5433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Due to my parents , I have no friends
    😔😔😔😔😔 , not allowing me to go outside..... its makes me introvert...

  • @Mimamsa-n3z
    @Mimamsa-n3z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Worst is when they are toxic plus manipulative . For instance , you feel like they have changed but its temporary . This keeps hurting you again and again .

  • @officework3069
    @officework3069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I think I am losing my love for my parents

  • @piyushwords462
    @piyushwords462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Nowdays we students use to talk with counsellor's not parents😣

  • @IS-om4yv
    @IS-om4yv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    For girls your talks are not applicable toxic
    Parent treat them differently

  • @KhiggaHu
    @KhiggaHu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma'am Said Right. Or Ajj meri Willpower Bhut Strong hai

  • @ChetanDiary
    @ChetanDiary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Apki awaaj meri mummy jaisi hai. Kaas wo hoti. I feel emotional listening to you. My father never asked me how I am, he always impose his decision on me even when I am 30 yr old. He gets angry on my denial of anything he says. He takes revenge for everything

  • @SkRaja-xh3jd
    @SkRaja-xh3jd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bohot se logo ne parents ka significance bataye par aap ne solutions bhi bataya thank you.

  • @thejaswinishankar6352
    @thejaswinishankar6352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Right... This generation I'm seeing majority children's stay away from parents...