@@oliviachetcuti225 it means.........leave out the word... like ...(.inappropriately ). Not ...... Like I think like it must be difficult like . Instead say ... I think it must be difficult ....to ....or I beleive it is difficult ....... or how difficult it must have been to ...... LIKE has become a sloppy repetitive downgrade of precise description .
I listened to her explain it all on a podcast and it did make sense. She thought it was insane too but he really did convince her it was real, on paper it sounds ridiculous but when she tells the whole story you do understand how he managed to trick her. Its so crazy
@@tommyluke5952He was a pioneering surgeon so I would be believe it with all his awards and accomplishments would be plausible that people in top places would have a interest in life saving treatments
@@dollymadeson2151 He was no ordinary doctor , He was a pioneering top surgeon and even fooled people at the top so I can see how important people could potentially come to the wedding . If he was a ordinary doctor I would laugh but the level at which he was at it’s believable
But I think him telling her the pope was marrying them, all the presidents and other dignitaries of the world were going to be in attendance, that would have been a major red flag.
Not just that the pope was attending but officiating the wedding, since when has a pope ever did that? Ridiculous she believed that! The only time all of those dignitaries and presidents get together is when royalty is getting married!
I know, right?! I have visited the vatican. You feel and understand how huge and important the pope is once you visit the vatican. Once he mentioned the pope, I knew it was a lie. Presidents, queens, kings and high dignitaries have a difficult time meeting the pope. It takes years to get an appointment with the pope. Leave alone getting him to agree to marry you. And then you are not even catholic. And then you just managed to arrange all that with the pope in a matter of hours?! Common now! 🤔🥴
He so definitely is. Check out Sam Vaknin here on TH-cam he's an expert on Narcissists/Psychopaths/Borderlines. He has helped to change my life after being involved with a lying, cheating, future faking Narcissist.
I can’t believe this beautiful woman has been through so much. I went through something similar on a much smaller scale. It makes me feel stronger seeing such a well rounded woman come through with her head held high.
Oh please. She didn’t even look into his life because if she did she would have seen he was still married. She didn’t do any homework because she enjoyed his lifestyle and all the trips and she believed what she wanted. It takes no skill to realize the pope doesn’t married non Catholics especially one that’s been divorced twice. She’s crazy.
Im in medical field. You cant believe how many Psycopathic Surgeons exist. With patience they put smiles on there faces but to there employees they are more than Devils. Ive seen it in different hospitals ive worked in and now i ve quite my job which i did love but because of Psycopaths i ve let it go😢
I wonder why this is. Maybe they enjoy the power they have over life/death? I know. My close relative is one of those psychopaths you are talking about. I must say he’s a very good doctor though. A paradox.
Yes you are very rigth i have This experience with a surgeons i meet online ,yes surgeons is the profession with more narcissist,militar,,actores , managers...they are 👹 in human flesh.
Anyone who gets 4 dresses made and pays 50k out of their own money WITHOUT SEEING THE HOUSE IN BARCELONA… is DELUSIONAL AND NEEDS TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!
Red flags everywhere, typical signs of a narcissist, they will say anything to get their way and what they want and clearly he took advantage of that, I hope she can learn from this mistake 🤔
He thought Benita would be too embarrassed to say anything. He was SO wrong! Great for you Benita! She’s a beautiful woman inside and out. Bless your heart Benita.
I went out with a man who told me that he was a docter,I soon found out that he lied he took a friend of mine out as well since I got older experience taught me what these con merchants are really like.
I worked in surgery for 30 years. In Australia and NZ. I never ever saw such behavior. If there was a hint of such behavior it would be dealt with by the manager. Everyone was respectful of each other. Concentration was on the patient on the table. the table.
"I was intrigued by him...I think everybody was..." but not everyone quit their job, yanked their young child, who had lost her dad, out of school, and believed the Pope was going to perform her wedding...The lack of maturity and intelligence and common sense in this woman is astounding...
She was crazy desperate. How is she a journalist. Cmon she couldn’t even confirm the reservation 🙄👎 Since when does the Pope marry someone divorced . Hasn’t she heard of Henry Tudor. She’s so absurd.
What an awesome woman with so much character to come forth and tell her story, as heartbreaking and I'm sure embarrassing as it was! she'll come back so much stronger now!
Doctors think there is no end of themselves and a vast majority of them are inflated with arrogance!perhaps one in a million is service minded and a lot are money minded!
You are very right. I can say i met really good Surgeons. Very competent and very human and what i noticed were most of the Psychopaths were insecure and not good Surgeon. We would say that they were gifted in books but not in the Operation Field.
People who hold a medical degree who then crosd trained as surgeons and are, unlike the person in question, are decent, caring, and highly skilled and intelligent people who utilize their attriubutes in the service to average people like you and me!
@@garryharriman7349 A study done in 2017 found that medical professionals in general rate higher on the psychopathic traits: "exhibited higher PPI-R total score, self-centered impulsivity (SCI) factor score, Machiavellian egocentricity, social influence, and fearlessness content scale scores. Logistic regression showed that SCI score was a significant predictor for the likelihood of expressing interest toward a surgical career". I am not biased, just stating the facts reported over the years
@@garryharriman7349 I know several medical professionals personally and have observed those traits in them. Like I wrote in the original comment, dealing with blood and death on a regular basis must take a certain natural level of callousness. I wonder how pathologists score 🤔 they must be off the charts. And yes, it is scary and we must be very careful trusting our health providers. In my life I met 1 (!) good sensitive doctor who was patient and listened attentively. Most have a "I am a doctor and you will listen to what I tell you to do" stance and give you half-educated advice. Not to mention that many doctors go into the field for money and prestige, which is also a fact
@@LoveHealsAndProtects Indeed, we are subservient to such people and the unequal power dynamics at play. Most make better scientists than they do empathic medical practitioners.
"Flirted with both women and men..." Big red flag that most people would dismiss. If you see it, don't dismiss it as the person charming & 'nice'. It is the sign of a highly manipulative individual who has no conscience.
There cannot be many really good plastic surgeons about . You only have to look at the faces of the celebrities who pay top dollar and look how they end up looking. Its not a good advertisement. Plastic Is a good term for them .
I believe Gabor Mate' talks about great % of actors, politicians & doctors who are narcissist &/or bipolar. These occupations provide the platform to be anyone they want. Although they have this grandiose view of themselves while coming across as humble. The rest of us dont behave this way so we cant fathom that a person would go to such great lengths to manipulate another person. We hv a hard time lying about the tinest detail. How could someone lie about their entire life?
Why actors? I can see politicians, lawyers, physicians, psychologists, surgeons, clergy, and basically people in positions that require them to be in high control positions. But, an actor merely reads and acts out a script.
Who are the real victims here? The patients, doctors who tried to stop Paola, his wife and children, her trusting friends who lost thousands on the b/s fairy tale. Benita jumped at that shiny bait and swallowed it hook, line and sinker! She knowingly jeopardized and traded her integrity, career and reputation for the glitter of gold; violated terms of her contract with an employer who trusted her; left her daughter with whomever while jet-setting all over the world and thoroughly enjoying thousands of dollars being spent on her by Paola. Benita is continuing to line her pockets and boost her new-found "celebrity" status via her con man, thru interviews, tv shows, etc, that stem from her bad decisions and basic stupidity.
@@supremlyfoxylass Rightfully so! Remember, she quit her job for this monster. She has to get an income somehow to support herself and her daughter. She deserves every single cent. Bravo to her for exposing this monster and getting him disgraced. She sparked the investigation which led to the end of his career. Otherwise, he would have continued killing people. Let him get a taste of his own medicine now not having a job. 🤷🏽♂
@@keturaequalizer it wasn’t because of her that he’s been stopped. It’s because of the investigation done by the reporter in Sweden and the 4 doctors that worked with him at the institute in Sweden. Her daughter gets SS from her father . Paolo didn’t tell her to quit her job . Who would move to another country without speaking a word of the language knowing he’d be traveling much less allow a boyfriend to enroll your child in a school you know nothing about.? 7 years later she’s still cashing in on her stupidity..
@@supremlyfoxylass You are right. Karolinska Institute had already started an investigation on him prior to her coming out with the story. But her story re-enforced his deceit which made the world look. When you get engaged to a man and the wedding is being planned, he tells you that he has bought a house for you to live in, in this case Barcelona, its just common sense to quit your job since you know you are re-locating. I did the same. I met my husband in my country when he was an expatriate there. We got married and when his contract ended, I quit my job and we moved to his country. I knew nobody there, and I couldn`t speak the language. I learned all this in time. Its called taking a leap of faith. People from different backgrounds meet everyday all across the world and they get married. She trusted the wrong person. What he did was cruel considering he knew she had a daughter. He now can feel how she felt as he lost his job. Its even worse for him coz no one will ever hire him ever again as everyone knows what he did. Let her cash in whatever she can. Everybody cashes in on whatever they can nowadays. I know she opened the eyes of alot of women to be vigilant.
Why? She will do it when she has nothing else to say and not more money to get from this. Who are you to tell anybody to get over it. Is not your life and is not your story.
Im glad she fixed her eyebrows she looks a lot better, also ladies put their standards way too high and daydream too much on fairy tale type of fantasies, instead of just focusing on a good hearted guy.
The question is being asked and no one is doing it? Who produced those plastic tracheas with stem cells for him?? Who has tested whether it lives on the plastic or like the case of the Russian women where they send a series of all bad windpipes and no one investigates it?? Well, that's not what Paolo himself did in the evening!
Sadly, humanity these days, has gone out the window for some. It’s not the 1950’s anymore. Honesty & integrity is a challenge to find, you can almost count those who have it, on your one hand.
This is one of the best Docu i ever watched on Netflix..Unfortunately the con man never spent time in jail..most of this innocent is used as a lab rat😢😢😢
But the people who are taken in by love bombing have to be either deluded or a narcissist themselves. I mean nobody is that special. I would never take a man seriously who played all his cards at once, he too is either deluded or out for everything he can get.
The trouble is these women want money because they can not earn it. So they knowingly go into these relationships knowing that the end is lined with gold regardless of the outcome. And Ofcourse we know that most of these loser women are broke and this is a way to get money because there is no other way . Why has this report not mentioned how much money she received after all was said and done and what was her net worth when she met the guy??!!!
So many of these "groundbreaking" surgeons let their egos run wild. Surgeons in general can be arrogant, and "super surgeons" often believe they're gods.
Fell for the successful man with very high status, extremely powerful and a lifestyle. She wanted to see the house first, men always want to see the girlfriends house first also right?! - Another woman looking to marry the lifestyle.
Gold diggers and social climbers akways ignore the obvious. Why would a hugly successful surgen want a below average looking divorced mother. They wouldnt. He had many options ...
Think of ALL the people who he fooled - other doctors and patients and the whole medical establishment - educated and scientific people This poor woman was caught in a web and she was NOT alone and he should definitely be locked up
That's a true pyschopath! They believe their narrative. Hence they sooo 'believable'. Been there lost everything had to rebuild my life . When you close up you don't see what others see.
It sounds like she idiolized him, which isnt love anyway. im sure if he was in a low paid run of the mill job she would never have even noticed him. Americans generally dont understand the common sense of recognising a person that is too sweet to be wholesome. She and other fools gave him God like qualities. He behaved as if he were God and of course such people wouldnt get anywhere without fools keeping him on his pedestal.
This woman, fell for a con artist when her husband was dying from cancer. She would not even spend final days with the father of her daughter…what can I say…karma
She date this con artist few months after her second marriage 😢! Now she said she is the victim 😂. That is what happens to the greedy woman. Only thing we all felt bad about those poor families whose had die.
This is a gold digger who was outsmarted by a clever surgeon. The anger she displayed throughout the documentary is not because Paolo killed innocent people but because she was used and dumped. If she had done her job without putting her interests first, I'm sure many lives could have been saved.
Oh please. Where is her accountability? She just ignored everything. She was a journalist too? This is the example of a woman ignoring red flags who then cries victim.
She is talking out both sides of her mouth, he told her he was not diivorced, but somehow they were going to get married. He was a rich play boy and she was playing him, listen close and you can hear her lies. If he told you he was separated but not divorced how could you two get married? She a liar, a highly trained operative used to bring this man down, and play victim. You can't be an investivatigative journalist with the resources of NBC behind you, and can't get to the bottom of if your bofyfriend is married or not. Don't believe the hype, this is a smear campaign. Obviously he was working on people at the end of their rope, to help advance science, every thing she is saying about him is the sick and twisted ie.
Trouble is we don't always believe the badness in people when we ourselves wouldn't behave that way.
Exactly. You don’t think it’s possible.
Could I please beg for a better and at least articulate presenter.......like....kina like ... kina go .... dear God . ...
@@janetanstis4236I wish I knew what your comment meant.
@@oliviachetcuti225 it means.........leave out the word... like ...(.inappropriately ). Not ...... Like I think like it must be difficult like . Instead say ... I think it must be difficult ....to ....or I beleive it is difficult ....... or how difficult it must have been to ...... LIKE has become a sloppy repetitive downgrade of precise description .
Spot on.
She said there were no big red flags before the wedding…but him saying the Pope was going to attend wasnt one of those?? 😅😂
I listened to her explain it all on a podcast and it did make sense. She thought it was insane too but he really did convince her it was real, on paper it sounds ridiculous but when she tells the whole story you do understand how he managed to trick her. Its so crazy
For me it was the mention of Putin that sent me.
Don’t think a doctor is important enough for Putin that he would want to attend their wedding ..
@@tommyluke5952He was a pioneering surgeon so I would be believe it with all his awards and accomplishments would be plausible that people in top places would have a interest in life saving treatments
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@dollymadeson2151 He was no ordinary doctor , He was a pioneering top surgeon and even fooled people at the top so I can see how important people could potentially come to the wedding . If he was a ordinary doctor I would laugh but the level at which he was at it’s believable
But I think him telling her the pope was marrying them, all the presidents and other dignitaries of the world were going to be in attendance, that would have been a major red flag.
😂
Not just that the pope was attending but officiating the wedding, since when has a pope ever did that? Ridiculous she believed that! The only time all of those dignitaries and presidents get together is when royalty is getting married!
He invited one of the patient's family after he killed him 😮
I know, right?! I have visited the vatican. You feel and understand how huge and important the pope is once you visit the vatican. Once he mentioned the pope, I knew it was a lie. Presidents, queens, kings and high dignitaries have a difficult time meeting the pope. It takes years to get an appointment with the pope. Leave alone getting him to agree to marry you. And then you are not even catholic. And then you just managed to arrange all that with the pope in a matter of hours?! Common now! 🤔🥴
Celebrities have doctors, so it isnt far fetched that they might have a cutting edge surgeon.
There's a series of documentaries about him. He's clearly a psychopath
He so definitely is. Check out Sam Vaknin here on TH-cam he's an expert on Narcissists/Psychopaths/Borderlines. He has helped to change my life after being involved with a lying, cheating, future faking Narcissist.
Just watched the documentary on Netflix. He knew what he was doing the entire time. He deserves to rot in a cell for the rest of his life. Pure evil
Fortunately she didn’t give him a lot of money ….
Hopefully
What’s is the documentary name ? Thanks
@@lupitaortizcouoh3464bad surgeon: love under the knife on Netflix
@@lupitaortizcouoh3464
Bad surgeon - Love under the knife
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And she loved his way of life and all the trips and gifts and wanted the attention.
I can’t believe this beautiful woman has been through so much. I went through something similar on a much smaller scale. It makes me feel stronger seeing such a well rounded woman come through with her head held high.
Oh please. She didn’t even look into his life because if she did she would have seen he was still married. She didn’t do any homework because she enjoyed his lifestyle and all the trips and she believed what she wanted. It takes no skill to realize the pope doesn’t married non Catholics especially one that’s been divorced twice. She’s crazy.
When something looks good to be true, it has the most red flags. I hope this creep gets thrown in jail soon.
Im in medical field. You cant believe how many Psycopathic Surgeons exist. With patience they put smiles on there faces but to there employees they are more than Devils. Ive seen it in different hospitals ive worked in and now i ve quite my job which i did love but because of Psycopaths i ve let it go😢
They say one of the professions that psychopaths are attracted to is ... A "surgeon”
I wonder why this is. Maybe they enjoy the power they have over life/death? I know. My close relative is one of those psychopaths you are talking about. I must say he’s a very good doctor though. A paradox.
Hi Becky, sad to hear that, quitting for a physcho, hopefully you will find some other way to keep your profession.
Yes you are very rigth i have This experience with a surgeons i meet online ,yes surgeons is the profession with more narcissist,militar,,actores , managers...they are 👹 in human flesh.
Your 1000% right I do also and have noticed the same thing
Anyone who gets 4 dresses made and pays 50k out of their own money WITHOUT SEEING THE HOUSE IN BARCELONA… is DELUSIONAL AND NEEDS TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!
Red flags everywhere, typical signs of a narcissist, they will say anything to get their way and what they want and clearly he took advantage of that, I hope she can learn from this mistake 🤔
No one should ever be compared to God. NOT EVER!
God is a work of fiction
@@brianswathey In your mind. Don’t expect to get into Heaven if you believe this nonsense. Good Luck to you.
Yikes
He thought Benita would be too embarrassed to say anything. He was SO wrong! Great for you Benita! She’s a beautiful woman inside and out. Bless your heart Benita.
I went out with a man who told me that he was a docter,I soon found out that he lied he took a friend of mine out as well since I got older experience taught me what these con merchants are really like.
I worked in surgery for 30 years. In Australia and NZ. I never ever saw such behavior. If there was a hint of such behavior it would be dealt with by the manager. Everyone was respectful of each other. Concentration was on the patient on the table.
the table.
She seemed to set aside her common sense and got really caught up in a story she would have normally recognized as a con
If he wasn't a big deal she wouldn't have given him a second glance, she wanted what she thought he could offer, prestige and money.
Not initially. He was a renowned surgeon.
Sadly she shoulda thought he was out of her league…..when someone falls in love too quickly--- be careful.
I agree he told some very outrageous lies as well the red flags were there
totally agree @@rosejacobs8529
Sounds like the majority of Narcissists. The only difference is the scale of influence that they are able to engender. Lucky escape.
At least she is alive , what about the patients who’ve already died and their families ???
"I was intrigued by him...I think everybody was..." but not everyone quit their job, yanked their young child, who had lost her dad, out of school, and believed the Pope was going to perform her wedding...The lack of maturity and intelligence and common sense in this woman is astounding...
Well here we have Mr. Perfect. Knows IT ALL.
Yea.
I’m sorry sir, you are a human being. Get over self asap.
When you are in love … this can happen!
That happens when you’re being manipulated and love bombed. Your reality is distorted. She’s really not the one to blame here.
She’s desperate and gullible
sometimes you just want it to work so bad!
Yeah, they always have a quick answer to everything. He's an extreme case but such monsters are everywhere now.
It’s actually called Vulnerable Narcissist
I had a similar experience..typical Narcissist…you’ve had a lucky escape lady!
He’s a typical psychopath
She was crazy desperate. How is she a journalist. Cmon she couldn’t even confirm the reservation 🙄👎 Since when does the Pope marry someone divorced . Hasn’t she heard of Henry Tudor. She’s so absurd.
What an awesome woman with so much character to come forth and tell her story, as heartbreaking and I'm sure embarrassing as it was! she'll come back so much stronger now!
Doctors have always creeped me out. I would certainly never marry one.
Doctors think there is no end of themselves and a vast majority of them are inflated with arrogance!perhaps one in a million is service minded and a lot are money minded!
But they have lots of money and prestige, which is what women are attracted to
@@brianswathey As if broke losers don't turn out to be narcissists, psychopaths and abusers.
Some surgeons esp orthopedic surgeons are so arrogant because they think they're the best.
There are pathological liars and they appear so nice and deceive lots of people, especially, women.
Watched this, and he is one evil sick man. To let his patient suffer how they did was evil and so sick. God live the victims.
She probably doesn't know the interviewer, lisa snowdon actually dated George Clooney!
You are very right. I can say i met really good Surgeons. Very competent and very human and what i noticed were most of the Psychopaths were insecure and not good Surgeon. We would say that they were gifted in books but not in the Operation Field.
I heard the story on , I think it was Wondery - a podcast. Fascinating. Looks like another doctor convinced her to mess with her face.
Watched it on Netflix. Chilling. Crazy!!
Statistically surgeons are known to be psychopaths. Who else could cut a human being without freaking out?
People who hold a medical degree who then crosd trained as surgeons and are, unlike the person in question, are decent, caring, and highly skilled and intelligent people who utilize their attriubutes in the service to average people like you and me!
@@garryharriman7349 A study done in 2017 found that medical professionals in general rate higher on the psychopathic traits: "exhibited higher PPI-R total score, self-centered impulsivity (SCI) factor score, Machiavellian egocentricity, social influence, and fearlessness content scale scores. Logistic regression showed that SCI score was a significant predictor for the likelihood of expressing interest toward a surgical career". I am not biased, just stating the facts reported over the years
@@LoveHealsAndProtects Wow! That is exteremy facinating and alarming at the same time!
@@garryharriman7349 I know several medical professionals personally and have observed those traits in them. Like I wrote in the original comment, dealing with blood and death on a regular basis must take a certain natural level of callousness. I wonder how pathologists score 🤔 they must be off the charts. And yes, it is scary and we must be very careful trusting our health providers. In my life I met 1 (!) good sensitive doctor who was patient and listened attentively. Most have a "I am a doctor and you will listen to what I tell you to do" stance and give you half-educated advice. Not to mention that many doctors go into the field for money and prestige, which is also a fact
@@LoveHealsAndProtects Indeed, we are subservient to such people and the unequal power dynamics at play. Most make better scientists than they do empathic medical practitioners.
Didn’t Lisa date George clooney ? Off topic I know
Investigate journalist.. Take away her credentials
"Flirted with both women and men..." Big red flag that most people would dismiss. If you see it, don't dismiss it as the person charming & 'nice'. It is the sign of a highly manipulative individual who has no conscience.
There cannot be many really good plastic surgeons about . You only have to look at the faces of the celebrities who pay top dollar and look how they end up looking. Its not a good advertisement. Plastic Is a good term for them .
People believe in experts way too much.
'Experts'... Expert narcissists.
So sad to hear
If something seems too good to be true, it is. I know, I had a man for 5 years and he was not who he made out he was.
Bingo…..too good to be true.
This seems to be a common theme.
Sounds like my story... How do I contact " This Morning"?
I wonder if she knows that her interviewer dated George Clooney!
Yes…good point
Why does it matter?
Haha facts!!!! Id say lisa probably smirked inside lisa dated him for a long time
@@frenchtoast7742it’s a light hearted comment. What are the chances she’s saying all this about George Clooney to his ex gf!?
So what?
A lot of surgeons are monsters. Women’s obs & gynae is the worst.
you do have to question the interest male surgeons would have in gynae, it is kinda weird
@@usernameheda
Yes I didn't think of it like this
It is frightening. Sometimes you have to work through these things the hard way
Ironically, when you even begin mention of a female alternative, you're seen as sexist@@usernameheda
@@usernamehedait’s not weird. But since there’s a risk, only allowing female obgyns would be safer.
I hope her & the daughter are doing well. She deserves some peace.
This man certainly is very dangerous and I hope he will never be allowed to practice again!!!
I believe Gabor Mate' talks about great % of actors, politicians & doctors who are narcissist &/or bipolar. These occupations provide the platform to be anyone they want. Although they have this grandiose view of themselves while coming across as humble.
The rest of us dont behave this way so we cant fathom that a person would go to such great lengths to manipulate another person. We hv a hard time lying about the tinest detail. How could someone lie about their entire life?
Why actors? I can see politicians, lawyers, physicians, psychologists, surgeons, clergy, and basically people in positions that require them to be in high control positions. But, an actor merely reads and acts out a script.
Classic psychopath.
She pulled her daughter out of school for him.........🙁
Yes because she was lied to
Who are the real victims here? The patients, doctors who tried to stop Paola, his wife and children, her trusting friends who lost thousands on the b/s fairy tale. Benita jumped at that shiny bait and swallowed it hook, line and sinker! She knowingly jeopardized and traded her integrity, career and reputation for the glitter of gold; violated terms of her contract with an employer who trusted her; left her daughter with whomever while jet-setting all over the world and thoroughly enjoying thousands of dollars being spent on her by Paola. Benita is continuing to line her pockets and boost her new-found "celebrity" status via her con man, thru interviews, tv shows, etc, that stem from her bad decisions and basic stupidity.
Well said,she makes me sick . 10 years later she’s still making money off the relationship
@@supremlyfoxylass Rightfully so! Remember, she quit her job for this monster. She has to get an income somehow to support herself and her daughter. She deserves every single cent. Bravo to her for exposing this monster and getting him disgraced. She sparked the investigation which led to the end of his career. Otherwise, he would have continued killing people. Let him get a taste of his own medicine now not having a job. 🤷🏽♂
@@keturaequalizer it wasn’t because of her that he’s been stopped. It’s because of the investigation done by the reporter in Sweden and the 4 doctors that worked with him at the institute in Sweden. Her daughter gets SS from her father . Paolo didn’t tell her to quit her job . Who would move to another country without speaking a word of the language knowing he’d be traveling much less allow a boyfriend to enroll your child in a school you know nothing about.? 7 years later she’s still cashing in on her stupidity..
@@supremlyfoxylass You are right. Karolinska Institute had already started an investigation on him prior to her coming out with the story. But her story re-enforced his deceit which made the world look.
When you get engaged to a man and the wedding is being planned, he tells you that he has bought a house for you to live in, in this case Barcelona, its just common sense to quit your job since you know you are re-locating. I did the same. I met my husband in my country when he was an expatriate there. We got married and when his contract ended, I quit my job and we moved to his country. I knew nobody there, and I couldn`t speak the language. I learned all this in time.
Its called taking a leap of faith. People from different backgrounds meet everyday all across the world and they get married. She trusted the wrong person. What he did was cruel considering he knew she had a daughter. He now can feel how she felt as he lost his job. Its even worse for him coz no one will ever hire him ever again as everyone knows what he did. Let her cash in whatever she can. Everybody cashes in on whatever they can nowadays. I know she opened the eyes of alot of women to be vigilant.
She’s a gold digger
She needs to get over it
Why? She will do it when she has nothing else to say and not more money to get from this. Who are you to tell anybody to get over it. Is not your life and is not your story.
Im glad she fixed her eyebrows she looks a lot better, also ladies put their standards way too high and daydream too much on fairy tale type of fantasies, instead of just focusing on a good hearted guy.
The question is being asked and no one is doing it? Who produced those plastic tracheas with stem cells for him?? Who has tested whether it lives on the plastic or like the case of the Russian women where they send a series of all bad windpipes and no one investigates it?? Well, that's not what Paolo himself did in the evening!
The man is a serial killer
Hiding in plain sight
She knew, but she tolerated it for as long as she could because of money.
I don’t think so darling
For a smart woman...She behaved really silly by beleaving him.
Every picture she took with him she looked prideful and smug. I dont feel a bit sorry for her and have no doubt she knew he was married.
Biggest mistake is that women don’t want to bother to get to know the man very well. At first the look so nice! Slowly they start the true colors!
Sadly, humanity these days, has gone out the window for some. It’s not the 1950’s anymore. Honesty & integrity is a challenge to find, you can almost count those who have it, on your one hand.
Absolutely!
Well said 👏👏👏
That was wild!
This is one of the best Docu i ever watched on Netflix..Unfortunately the con man never spent time in jail..most of this innocent is used as a lab rat😢😢😢
Funny how the real people look nothing what you imagine 😢
They are called narcissist, when everything is perfect at the beginning, love bombing, etc
But the people who are taken in by love bombing have to be either deluded or a narcissist themselves. I mean nobody is that special. I would never take a man seriously who played all his cards at once, he too is either deluded or out for everything he can get.
I hope Benita keeps speaking out- she is so strong
What did he want from her....... she got world trips.
Wow 😮
Unfortunately surgeons tend to think they are gods due to the jobs they do. Not surprised.
There are no "Super Human's" .. your language is a give away .. Vanity , duped, flirt, teenager? Nope .. not the whole world.
The trouble is these women want money because they can not earn it. So they knowingly go into these relationships knowing that the end is lined with gold regardless of the outcome. And Ofcourse we know that most of these loser women are broke and this is a way to get money because there is no other way . Why has this report not mentioned how much money she received after all was said and done and what was her net worth when she met the guy??!!!
Are you broke? You sound very bitter.
Gosh I thought the 2 idiots I married were bad😮😮😮😮
No there are plenty out there for everyone a million times over!
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I’m kinda picking up that she was the trophy wife and when things went south she turned on him.
What was she supposed to do?
So many of these "groundbreaking" surgeons let their egos run wild. Surgeons in general can be arrogant, and "super surgeons" often believe they're gods.
Fell for the successful man with very high status, extremely powerful and a lifestyle. She wanted to see the house first, men always want to see the girlfriends house first also right?! - Another woman looking to marry the lifestyle.
He literally had a whole family at that house😭 her intuition was right at that moment but he derailed her.
She was successful herself…good gawd, let’s not victim shame let’s instead hold the abuser accountable.
People don't change into a monster they've always been like that some people are poor judge of character and make poor life choices
When something too good to be true, it's not true at all.
This lady!! Really feel for her
You pull your daughter that was dying from brain cancer out of difficult to get into private school. There are many holes in your story lady
Narc
We have all been duped.
We learn.
Gold diggers and social climbers akways ignore the obvious. Why would a hugly successful surgen want a below average looking divorced mother. They wouldnt. He had many options ...
Exactly she has a giant mouth and he probably wanted quiet
She is beautiful
Think of ALL the people who he fooled - other doctors and patients and the whole medical establishment - educated and scientific people
This poor woman was caught in a web and she was NOT alone and he should definitely be locked up
That's a true pyschopath! They believe their narrative. Hence they sooo 'believable'. Been there lost everything had to rebuild my life . When you close up you don't see what others see.
It sounds like she idiolized him, which isnt love anyway. im sure if he was in a low paid run of the mill job she would never have even noticed him. Americans generally dont understand the common sense of recognising a person that is too sweet to be wholesome. She and other fools gave him God like qualities. He behaved as if he were God and of course such people wouldnt get anywhere without fools keeping him on his pedestal.
Red flags for me since he treats her so nicely and smoothly but still available 😂
She has had so much cosmetic surgery she looks like don jrs girlfriend.
How did she get into the house???
What happened to her daughter through this
Did he give her that horrible plastic surgery?
She looks pretty good to me…..not too artificial….
She had lucky escape 😅
There are many cone artists fishing for their next victim. Some people are blinded more easily than others, it's a human nature.
This woman, fell for a con artist when her husband was dying from cancer. She would not even spend final days with the father of her daughter…what can I say…karma
She date this con artist few months after her second marriage 😢! Now she said she is the victim 😂. That is what happens to the greedy woman. Only thing we all felt bad about those poor families whose had die.
I have met a few doctors, and I feel sorry for their wives, they have got such an inflated ego.
He’s a true definition of a narcissist!
She got played by a fellow narcissist. Feel sorry for the people that died, and their families - not her Super Ego.
Her ego….and not the narcissistic psychopath who killed people…
The "ONLY" individuals taking any risk were the Patients!
Poor women.
Question the first word that came to mind was narcissist and i see it used a lot in the comments but was he also a psychopath? Are they synonymous?
Guy sounds and looks self absorbed. They like to be worshipped. There is a few of them around.
He knew how to use people
Another gold digger not getting her way. 😂
This is a gold digger who was outsmarted by a clever surgeon. The anger she displayed throughout the documentary is not because Paolo killed innocent people but because she was used and dumped. If she had done her job without putting her interests first, I'm sure many lives could have been saved.
Sorry, but after seeing BAD SURGEON” even I saw the red flags from get!
Oh please. Where is her accountability? She just ignored everything. She was a journalist too? This is the example of a woman ignoring red flags who then cries victim.
You’re victim blaming
She is talking out both sides of her mouth, he told her he was not diivorced, but somehow they were going to get married. He was a rich play boy and she was playing him, listen close and you can hear her lies. If he told you he was separated but not divorced how could you two get married? She a liar, a highly trained operative used to bring this man down, and play victim. You can't be an investivatigative journalist with the resources of NBC behind you, and can't get to the bottom of if your bofyfriend is married or not. Don't believe the hype, this is a smear campaign. Obviously he was working on people at the end of their rope, to help advance science, every thing she is saying about him is the sick and twisted ie.