Sometimes not being nice is the kindest thing you can do. Never take away a persons opportunity for learning from their mistakes. Rescuing someone else because you are afraid of feeling pain is a very dangerous action.
You have pulled so many of us out of darkness when it matters most. Please consider creating a recurring monthly subscription on something like Patreon or similar. I'm sure many of us wouldn't mind donating on a recurring basis. I personally find it easier than joining the community or remembering to donate per-video. And most importantly, don't stop this work! It's been incredibly helpful to myself and helps me (help others) navigate on their journey. I feel a deep sense of understanding and reason after learning from your teachings. It's an amazing feeling and can't thank you enough. Your content helps connect the dots between the larger patterns of anxiety, uncertainty, conflict, and is a guiding light when things seem overly negative. Your work has opened my eyes to the reality of everyone experiencing their own battles, their own traumas (that often go unresolved). Awareness is the first step, and your work helps nudge everyone towards exactly that. Thank you!!!
Agree. I would provide $ thru patreon. Don't want to do it on TH-cam. Thx for your great work which is always tempered by your personal self reflections.
You dance on eggshells with so much grace! I too have been struggling to communicate unwanted truths without causing energetic harm. Thanks for doing what you do man. I know its not easy.
I feel like the transits are really so revealing at this time. Those who are plugged in to the divine seem to be more frustrated with those that are still operating out of cognitive dissonance and are projecting their nonsense out into the world. That is my experience at this time. Libra shadow coming out for sure. I can say I have had so many revelations on the type of relationships I have attracted all of my life and my role in others lives that have been detrimental in some way. It’s humbling. I am so happy to be divinely single at this time and friendless. Universe seems to be carving out a whole new operating system for me and us as a collective
I feel you! I went through these lessons and luckily had some big transits a few years ago that shifted over the past few years of letting go of these patterns within relationships both romantic and friendships. I truly wish you find some mutually supportive relationships. I have just a small circle in my life. But I will give my heart and soul to those I love. I just have to remember to be selective and people need to build trust and respect and see that it's mutually reciprocal. If I see the old patterns unfold I can move forward as I know I have certain folks that come in needing and also taking and I know myself enough to learn to not keep doing that to myself. I have so much more peace in my heart with my personal life.
In my world genuine politeness is equal being tactful. True politeness is a skill and is everything but superficial. Being polite is an higher octave of being human.
I apologize if this comes across as rude, but I don't think what you're expressing in the above comment is the clearest use of language. We have two words because they are not equal, they are similar, but there is a different nuance to each. Or why have two different words? What is polite in one society or situation is different in another, some places you say good morning but in the library you stay silent. A good person may not know the rules in the library, in a new social group or in a new country; and so be impolite, but they are not a lower octave of human for it. In the USA it's not polite to put your hands on the table while eating, in other places it's rude to put your hands under the table- in this situation politeness seems superficial. Someone with tact knows the rules and can move with fluidity in society, but that doesn't mean they are a kinder person. Someone who uses foul language, chews with his mouth open and blows his nose in your personal space might loan you money or assist you during an emergency, even risking personal injury. I thought this is why the expression, "From the mouths of babes," came about; because young children sometimes lack tact and speak the truths that an adult was afraid to even think. I may be mistaken on the definitions, but if we were having a conversation we could agree about something and end up arguing because we wouldn't understand each other. I think of polite language as something many smooth talkers with bad intentions take advantage of. I agree that tact is a skill anyone can develop, but think people with bad intentions are often motivated to do so. or so it seems to me.
👏 bravo on expressions of the shadow Timothy. Loved your words on politeness, some good quote worthy statements there. On another note, as to your last video, people often forget that sometimes just holding space for somebody is how you truly support them without pushing the ego onto their expressions. As a fellow pioneer, we often are forgotten by the other while we endlessly support the other. I admire your truth telling, as off putting as it can be to some, and even me on some counts, but it's not personal and people forget that. Never stop speaking up, as a prior survivor of trauma I applaud your bravery my astro brother. I too push against the tide so people can ride the waves safer. Hope to make the next live, I felt that eclipse and went inward. I'm Aries Venus, Mars, Asteroid Lilith, Eris & Pallas. The Pallas RX in ♐ coming up in 2 days is going to co-mingle those Aries energies in the way we think and use higher knowledge. Would love to hear you speak on that energy some time. Blessings and hugs during this releasing of toxic codependency and self sacrifice. May more humans feel inspired to walk with their authentic truths. They don't call us evolutionary astrologers for nothing. -Ellie PS If I remember correctly you're ♈ Mars too. My Aries house cusp is in my 11th house as well. Been working with the community a lot these days and I feel ya! Teaching people through my own experience how to blaze new paths and not get stuck in expectations of how we relate to others. I digress...
17:53 Politeness is essential and necessary; it is not related to a lack of honesty or intelligence. It is actually necessary while connected to intelligence because creates respect. In society, particularly among strangers, politeness is undeniably crucial. However, among friends, it is possible to be direct while still maintaining politeness. Currently, I find myself in a country where people are consistently rude and aggressive, and it feels like living in a state of constant torment. I used to live in a country where people prioritized politeness, and it made a tremendous difference. I felt no anger and enjoyed walking among others because everyone showed respect. Here, I am compelled to isolate myself because every time I step outside, I am overwhelmed by disgust, repulsion, and unbearable behavior exhibited by the people. Unfortunately, this situation has a detrimental effect on my health and the well-being of others as well. Rudeness is truly wreaking havoc in the world.
We live in a world of polarity. Maybe Rudeness the opposite of Politeness is what you need to own within yourself. The movie Everything All At Once showcase perfectly the multidimensionality of Soul. We are both Everything & Nothing. Flip Politeness into good girl gone "bad" aka authentic nature. Experiencing both extremes is the path to the "middle ground" (song by Adam Levine).
@qamarunnissamortlock118 So, I'm being forced to be rude, and you suggest I do that even though that is not what I want? That totally invalidates the philosophy that you get back what you put out. I suppose if I go rogue, then that law will apply. There's no logic in that thinking.
Thanks so much for sharing your astrological insights ad free. I think people are defining politeness differently, and that is why some of the comments are not understanding your perspective on this. These words are emotionally loaded and trigger people in different ways. Much of what is considered polite is toxic positivity or inauthentic platitudes, often used for manipulation and coercion, or associated with the fake smile and vacant eyes of retail workers and restaurant servers forced to be extroverted and conform. The same can be said of the word rude. You can hurt someone's self esteem in a polite way using proper language; and you can compliment someone so enthusiastically that you use the f word or other cusses and it's considered rude. Or, you can step on someone's foot and not apologize and that's considered rude. Obviously, the first is rude but kind, and the second is rude but unkind. I'm with you on Asheville and politeness. Not only is politeness sometimes unkind, it's often unnecessary and adds business to our communication, and most of us could do with more silence and clearer communication. The rules of polite society can be unclear to those who had less wealth when growing up, creating unfair challenges to those who already suffered from poverty during childhood.
Hope is a discipline, not disillusionment. It is why I was personally disconnected from the last video, though I celebrate and understand your tactical expression of your experiences and expertise. Hope is active work, so that people can feel liberated in Harsh truth, supported in Harsh Truth. I appreciate the realities you provided about understanding one’s own concept of commitment, openness, truth, love, and partnership/relationship. That can be a difficult harsh truth when it requires shedding those who not only live differently, but can’t live congruently. As always, 🌻✨
Yes, let's have a real conversation about 'politeness'. In a world where people are looking down at their cell phones while walking straight into another, I would say that the conduit to the truth of human co-existence is no longer hiding behind 'nice'. Most of humanity is clueless. I was programmed to be polite to my partner when he humiliated me in public with contempt numerous times and then later profess his love for me. It was a perfect storm that created a trauma bond that now makes me doubt every cell in my brain that wanted to slam into him with words he could never forget. People who preach and expect 'polite' have to listen again and again to Timothy's words.
Thank you for having the courage to speak like this - your messages help me tremendously - I've lost my pallet for the baby food one finds so much of out there.
Avoiding your own shadow work is a recipe for disaster ❤ Wow the synchronicity of the latter part. I had this conversation with my son yesterday about being himself ❤
This is the first video I’ve watched of your’s. Hot diggity damn, sir - I appreciate what you’re bringing to the table. Gimme more of dat realness. I’m here for it 🙌🏻
Timothy! You are my evolutionary astrology guru. All of this is what I have been ruminating on for the last couple of weeks but couldn't articulate in such a way you can. Thank you for being the truth on all things astrology. I feel so lucky to be able to turn to you for guidance at all corners 🙏🏼✨✨
I'm really glad I found you, I think your perspective and honesty is very important, and as a man I find your perspective very refreshing because there can be a male female bias and the male perspective requires a well spoken advocate.. Thank you ❤🙏🦋✨🌞🌜
Thank you so much for saying this, I needed to hear it. Libra transits will often bring up codepedency issues in my husband. And I really dislike and have trouble when he is in that energy and obviously it is gets directed towards me. I am a very free person in relationships and tied strongly to my sense of self so this definitely creates tension between us because he is very partnership oriented. Anyway this energy was coming up for us again lately.
11.07 Yes! Thank you for this message. Seeing life through an evolutionary perspective have changed the “game” for me. Born 1958 and an elder now I can really feel your deep sincere care in this “get real shadow work”. Profound energy makes my heart beat and as a fiery asc Airies with sun in Pisces and a whole lot more going on as Pluto hits my natal Venus at 2 degrees Aquarious… well 😅 I enjoy listening to you - makes me brave and willing to evolve even more. Brutal love is the key to your self and you become a better partner. Thank you again 💪🌱❤️
I really like your style...I oriwnt in the same direction ...especially about the direction of the human species... And..other living co inhabitants of our planet .
Becoming our own best friend, then maintain such friendly protocoles with others, taking time to know self and other before mingling energies and parasitical programs that often creates conflicts, projections, accusation. Free end ship is a higher form of LOVE as it shows CARE without wanting to “control”, manipulate as soo many couples do to eachother in the name of love… free end ship is detached from the outcome, does not accuse the other of triggers felt, unresolved trauma, neglect, unrecognized insecurities, rather reflects and searches for the wound that needs to be healed, elevated, acknowledged, matured. I Appreciate your unique creative style and in sight Timothy
really appreciate you and your raw insight. hearing you speak about the hate u receive reminds me of this quote "the loneliest people are the ones who always spoke the truth" - (kings of convenience) this vid is so important, thank u for speaking about love in this way.. the codependent dynamic is everywhere n so necessary to bring this to attention
that was perfect. I cancelled catchups ,realising they were not in alighnment , I was pushing forward through the urge to be nice. it was like death charges were detonating through the wormholes of eveything. So much so I rang my libran friebd to say " guess what I just AXED ...how light i feel now" it was so hard I actually physically dropped to the floor ,,,knowing with this eclipse I would have a clear slate . Then I made warm lentils ...found a blanket ,,,,ahhhhh Rasalilahealing...now I shall see this. Grinning through my lentils much ....he he. Your awesome. So much gratitude, WHAT A PERFECT ARTICULATION oF HOW IT BEEZE!
I appreciate your honesty and realness! Thanks for telling it like it is. This is exactly where I am, and what I’m working through, it’s great confirmation that I’m in the right place at the right time and I’m so supported by the astrology in this… Thanks muchly 🙏🏻
Love this because I've been on the painful end of the shadow sides of Sagittarius, Pisces & Libra. Have loved, been very close to yet also burned by these 3 signs more than any others. I appreciate the mentioning of codependency & deception in relationship with the moon in Libra. I share that savior complex as well. Thank you for tackling the shadow side of astrology!
WOW... So real Rasa... Loved to feel the fire.... Really is what I find myself in.... Grateful for you... Rock on Brother... Thanks... Such a breath of fresh air...
I am so grateful for you and coyote star for evolution astrology. I am blessed for you to be on this earth, sharing your wisdom, and all different aspects of life. That is unfolding. Blessings always and thank you for your vulnerability. Deep wisdom.
Holy Mother!!! I wish you were my friend!!!..that would be fun😍 Love your way and the knots it unravels and Happy Eclipse season to All ❤many many thanks
I will admit that I look up to you as someone I hope to speak as clearly like, or even half as clearly. I wish I could do accurate readings so I would return the favor. I hate the way it feels when people pull on your strings for more info, so I just don’t want to bother you. I’m a Sag, but everyone always treated me like I was an over emotional faker or something. Lately I’m drawn to ritual work and doing a practice dying meditation (step through a door say “I die now”). It’s remarkable for grief. 😅
He strikes again! Man, I find it crazy and yet not surprising at all, that you would receive such backlash from your previous video on stages of spiritual evolution but you said it yourself, Those in lower stages are going to look at us like we’re insane! thank you for your courage and dedication to bring some actual astrology to the game. Don’t stop brother you’re doing great!
Good reflections on the nature of relationships, Timothy! There's a lot of realism there! Thank you! I've always used Placidus, and in Placidus I also have Neptune in my 7th (I've always thought that that's why I've been so idealistic in love... not easy...) But lately I've been attempting to use Whole Sign House System, and in this my Neptune is in the 8th - which is suddenly making a lot more sense to me!
THANKYOU for your work. I was in codependent relationstips all my adult life, broke free 4 Years ago to experience Freedom and self Exploration and have been having beautiful open partnerships until this year as I’m surprisingly long for outspoken commitment whatever that means in unique relations. What you speak of is exactly what is activated in my life now (duh) as i am releasing my partnerships to really recenter And question my motivations and understanding of freedom and commitment (and compromise/sacrifice?). Going into celibacy until I have recalibrated and I’m being present in what how why and who. I don’t want to escape, I’m ready to commit to myself and see what it means to commit with others!!!
Backdrop - Saturn has the heaviest hand in my creation. I am scarred by the path of one who owns truth and speaks it. Thanks to saturn in my mind, I get away with nothing, evey part of me is exposed and I am not allowed to turn away or play pretend. Forced to turn inward, over and over and over, until I am able to see. However long that takes... And what a fucking gift! It took me a very long to realize how powerfully resilient this arduous process has made me. Because this world thrives on denial and self neglect. I will gladly toil up my mountain in place of watching the bullshit parade. This has got to be why I feel so gratified listening to you speak. As if truth is the nutrient I am starving for and it is a rare thing to find. And like to preparing food, sometimes I want to taste something I did not create for myself. Thanks 🎉
Oh, I have venus in the twelfth too. It's been hard to find an astrologer who can say much more than 'it's a mystery' over the years, while I've been toiling through every extreme relationship scenario anyone could imagine! I also have a north node scorpio, and have read one of the wolf - green books on pluto, many years ago. I'm very pleased to hear you, at every major transit. And trust you. Thanks Tim.
Thank you from the bottom of my soul….keeping it so real that we can’t run from ourselves..like this world programmes us perfectly then fucking boom…, badass standalone voice of truth, reason the illogical matrix. ❤
Rock 'n' roll🎉 north node in Libra here in the 12th house. Fortunately, my Venus, sun, Neptune and sun in Scorpio is in love with what you're saying. If I listen to my libra rising, I'd be quaking in my boots right now. Darkness is no stranger and it's been a dark winter.
Love your energy, you tell it like it is. Or more likely, as it should be. I think politeness has a time and place, but today no one knows how to actually feel an emotion so it all comes off as fake and robotic.
Thank you thank you thank you!!! I've been told I'm the queen of Doom and Gloom because I do not do the fluffy hopium astrology I tell my clients directly what to prepare for and what could be coming both good and bad
Yes Timothy. Yes and. There are also beautiful and valuable astrologers out there in the YT community . Nightlight Astrology with Adam Elenbaas, Raising Vibrations with Simon, coyote star Astrology with Alex… grateful for all the complementary valuable incisive insights and teachings that are out there ✨👌🏽
I love your honesty and introspection. A breath of fresh air. Alas, I share your issue - broken wing, savior complex. Will be interested to learn how one evolves past it, or heals it so it can be let go of.
I appreciate you making this video, I want to comment on your view regarding politeness - the intent if it is true; to say please & thank you carries a higher vibrational pattern & increases overall harmony, than not saying it, this is only true if one’s intent is to truly be real with pleading or saying please & being grateful or saying thanks, if the speakers intent is not true than this is where I agree with you-using those words can be harmful to the authenticity of a situation if the speaker is not truly thankful or pleading when they say please or thank you - sadly a lot of peeps & situations do involve a good deal of pleases & thank you’s that are not genuine not because the use of them is unauthentic but because they as you say have been conditioned to do so & so out of a desire to confirm & or get what they want-people often say these things but when someone is really thankful or pleading the energetic vibration is quite good & High in its Nature as they helps complement the overall Love or life perpetuating energy through choosing to use words that enhance that particular good flavor or pattern of 411- it’s good to see you & I look forward for more - Thank You & Good Inerchi To All 🙏
Whoop! 🙌As a Libra Rising, as well as Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto in Libra and Chiron in my 7th, in the midst of a chaotic divorce from a NPD individual, this message speaks to my soul. 💛 Thank you! 🙏🏻
I too have Venus in the 12th house. It's hard, so I feel for you brother. I think these difficult things have a huge potential for growth, the struggle for understanding a key in itself. Bloody Venus is shadowy too sometimes.
Thank you. So mucho 🌱🙏🌱I highly appreciate your approach 🙏🌱🧚🏼♀️ i hâte toxic positivity it is damaging I deeply appreciate the respect of complexity . It’s challenging. Just as you are in your recent posts I appreciate so much your confrontational approach 👍👍👍👍
After engaging myself in someway of earning more income and stop depending on the government I voted. My family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.
Thank you for being real and not a toxic positivist.
I noticed your use of the concept of toxic positivity after writing my text. I totally agree 🙏🙏
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Sometimes not being nice is the kindest thing you can do. Never take away a persons opportunity for learning from their mistakes. Rescuing someone else because you are afraid of feeling pain is a very dangerous action.
Yes
I'm learning that sometimes being too nice to others is being unkind to yourself.
Agree 💯% thank you, riders ⬆️.
Nice is not always right. And right is not always nice.....
You have pulled so many of us out of darkness when it matters most.
Please consider creating a recurring monthly subscription on something like Patreon or similar. I'm sure many of us wouldn't mind donating on a recurring basis. I personally find it easier than joining the community or remembering to donate per-video.
And most importantly, don't stop this work! It's been incredibly helpful to myself and helps me (help others) navigate on their journey.
I feel a deep sense of understanding and reason after learning from your teachings. It's an amazing feeling and can't thank you enough.
Your content helps connect the dots between the larger patterns of anxiety, uncertainty, conflict, and is a guiding light when things seem overly negative.
Your work has opened my eyes to the reality of everyone experiencing their own battles, their own traumas (that often go unresolved).
Awareness is the first step, and your work helps nudge everyone towards exactly that.
Thank you!!!
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They have a website and links in their bio for that. You can join a community.
@@Elena-Studiothey? Timothy is a they?
Agree. I would provide $ thru patreon. Don't want to do it on TH-cam. Thx for your great work which is always tempered by your personal self reflections.
Timothy is a he / him and also an individual, not a company or team 😁@@rocky1raquel
You dance on eggshells with so much grace! I too have been struggling to communicate unwanted truths without causing energetic harm. Thanks for doing what you do man. I know its not easy.
You get a tremendous amount of flack when you are directly over the target. Haters hate when truth is spoken.
Thank You for this wonderful reading.❤
Amazing! Like pages from my diary. Just remember one thing "Say what you mean, mean what uou say, dont say it mean" 😉
I feel like the transits are really so revealing at this time. Those who are plugged in to the divine seem to be more frustrated with those that are still operating out of cognitive dissonance and are projecting their nonsense out into the world. That is my experience at this time. Libra shadow coming out for sure. I can say I have had so many revelations on the type of relationships I have attracted all of my life and my role in others lives that have been detrimental in some way. It’s humbling. I am so happy to be divinely single at this time and friendless. Universe seems to be carving out a whole new operating system for me and us as a collective
I feel you! I went through these lessons and luckily had some big transits a few years ago that shifted over the past few years of letting go of these patterns within relationships both romantic and friendships. I truly wish you find some mutually supportive relationships. I have just a small circle in my life. But I will give my heart and soul to those I love. I just have to remember to be selective and people need to build trust and respect and see that it's mutually reciprocal. If I see the old patterns unfold I can move forward as I know I have certain folks that come in needing and also taking and I know myself enough to learn to not keep doing that to myself. I have so much more peace in my heart with my personal life.
In my world genuine politeness is equal being tactful. True politeness is a skill and is everything but superficial. Being polite is an higher octave of being human.
I apologize if this comes across as rude, but I don't think what you're expressing in the above comment is the clearest use of language. We have two words because they are not equal, they are similar, but there is a different nuance to each.
Or why have two different words? What is polite in one society or situation is different in another, some places you say good morning but in the library you stay silent. A good person may not know the rules in the library, in a new social group or in a new country; and so be impolite, but they are not a lower octave of human for it. In the USA it's not polite to put your hands on the table while eating, in other places it's rude to put your hands under the table- in this situation politeness seems superficial. Someone with tact knows the rules and can move with fluidity in society, but that doesn't mean they are a kinder person. Someone who uses foul language, chews with his mouth open and blows his nose in your personal space might loan you money or assist you during an emergency, even risking personal injury.
I thought this is why the expression, "From the mouths of babes," came about; because young children sometimes lack tact and speak the truths that an adult was afraid to even think. I may be mistaken on the definitions, but if we were having a conversation we could agree about something and end up arguing because we wouldn't understand each other. I think of polite language as something many smooth talkers with bad intentions take advantage of. I agree that tact is a skill anyone can develop, but think people with bad intentions are often motivated to do so.
or so it seems to me.
👏 bravo on expressions of the shadow Timothy. Loved your words on politeness, some good quote worthy statements there. On another note, as to your last video, people often forget that sometimes just holding space for somebody is how you truly support them without pushing the ego onto their expressions. As a fellow pioneer, we often are forgotten by the other while we endlessly support the other. I admire your truth telling, as off putting as it can be to some, and even me on some counts, but it's not personal and people forget that. Never stop speaking up, as a prior survivor of trauma I applaud your bravery my astro brother. I too push against the tide so people can ride the waves safer. Hope to make the next live, I felt that eclipse and went inward. I'm Aries Venus, Mars, Asteroid Lilith, Eris & Pallas. The Pallas RX in ♐ coming up in 2 days is going to co-mingle those Aries energies in the way we think and use higher knowledge. Would love to hear you speak on that energy some time. Blessings and hugs during this releasing of toxic codependency and self sacrifice. May more humans feel inspired to walk with their authentic truths. They don't call us evolutionary astrologers for nothing. -Ellie PS
If I remember correctly you're ♈ Mars too. My Aries house cusp is in my 11th house as well. Been working with the community a lot these days and I feel ya! Teaching people through my own experience how to blaze new paths and not get stuck in expectations of how we relate to others. I digress...
17:53 Politeness is essential and necessary; it is not related to a lack of honesty or intelligence. It is actually necessary while connected to intelligence because creates respect. In society, particularly among strangers, politeness is undeniably crucial. However, among friends, it is possible to be direct while still maintaining politeness. Currently, I find myself in a country where people are consistently rude and aggressive, and it feels like living in a state of constant torment. I used to live in a country where people prioritized politeness, and it made a tremendous difference. I felt no anger and enjoyed walking among others because everyone showed respect. Here, I am compelled to isolate myself because every time I step outside, I am overwhelmed by disgust, repulsion, and unbearable behavior exhibited by the people. Unfortunately, this situation has a detrimental effect on my health and the well-being of others as well. Rudeness is truly wreaking havoc in the world.
I want to move to the polite country. Where is it? I experience the nastiness here.
We live in a world of polarity. Maybe Rudeness the opposite of Politeness is what you need to own within yourself. The movie Everything All At Once showcase perfectly the multidimensionality of Soul. We are both Everything & Nothing. Flip Politeness into good girl gone "bad" aka authentic nature. Experiencing both extremes is the path to the "middle ground" (song by Adam Levine).
@qamarunnissamortlock118
So, I'm being forced to be rude, and you suggest I do that even though that is not what I want? That totally invalidates the philosophy that you get back what you put out. I suppose if I go rogue, then that law will apply. There's no logic in that thinking.
Yep 12th house Venus ! Tough one 😅
@@qamarunnissamortlock118 I'm not authentic if I " go bad". Also who decides what's authentic vs what is not?
Thanks!
Thanks so much for sharing your astrological insights ad free.
I think people are defining politeness differently, and that is why some of the comments are not understanding your perspective on this. These words are emotionally loaded and trigger people in different ways. Much of what is considered polite is toxic positivity or inauthentic platitudes, often used for manipulation and coercion, or associated with the fake smile and vacant eyes of retail workers and restaurant servers forced to be extroverted and conform. The same can be said of the word rude. You can hurt someone's self esteem in a polite way using proper language; and you can compliment someone so enthusiastically that you use the f word or other cusses and it's considered rude. Or, you can step on someone's foot and not apologize and that's considered rude. Obviously, the first is rude but kind, and the second is rude but unkind. I'm with you on Asheville and politeness. Not only is politeness sometimes unkind, it's often unnecessary and adds business to our communication, and most of us could do with more silence and clearer communication. The rules of polite society can be unclear to those who had less wealth when growing up, creating unfair challenges to those who already suffered from poverty during childhood.
Hope is a discipline, not disillusionment. It is why I was personally disconnected from the last video, though I celebrate and understand your tactical expression of your experiences and expertise.
Hope is active work, so that people can feel liberated in Harsh truth, supported in Harsh Truth.
I appreciate the realities you provided about understanding one’s own concept of commitment, openness, truth, love, and partnership/relationship. That can be a difficult harsh truth when it requires shedding those who not only live differently, but can’t live congruently. As always, 🌻✨
Peace be with you, Timothy!
I just love how you always point the finger to the wound.
you are so right and your message is so necessary…
Keep on going !!!
Yes, let's have a real conversation about 'politeness'. In a world where people are looking down at their cell phones while walking straight into another, I would say that the conduit to the truth of human co-existence is no longer hiding behind 'nice'. Most of humanity is clueless. I was programmed to be polite to my partner when he humiliated me in public with contempt numerous times and then later profess his love for me. It was a perfect storm that created a trauma bond that now makes me doubt every cell in my brain that wanted to slam into him with words he could never forget. People who preach and expect 'polite' have to listen again and again to Timothy's words.
TH-cam is FINALLY recommending me your videos again, thank goodness
Thank you, Timothy!
Needing this. Thank you.
It's getting very real. Thanks, Timothy.
Thank you. I love your 'real' and authentic perspective. ♀♂♈♎❣
the last 30 seconds is all I needed to hear. Thanks Timothy 🙌🏽
Thank you for having the courage to speak like this - your messages help me tremendously - I've lost my pallet for the baby food one finds so much of out there.
thank you for being, Timothy! your teachings have helped all of us to cope in these topsy-turvy times! man, i love that word. BE BLESSED Y'ALL!
Avoiding your own shadow work is a recipe for disaster ❤ Wow the synchronicity of the latter part. I had this conversation with my son yesterday about being himself ❤
Wow. You went in for bullseye! Nice. Truth. Thankful hugs
From a libra south node and Venus in Pisces this was the medicine I needed thank you x
As a Sun in Libra, politeness has not gotten me anywhere I want. Time to try something else.
Truth Bombs peeps…….swish swallow spit. Time to choose *you and why you’re here now! Onward y’all!
This is the first video I’ve watched of your’s.
Hot diggity damn, sir - I appreciate what you’re bringing to the table.
Gimme more of dat realness.
I’m here for it 🙌🏻
Timothy! You are my evolutionary astrology guru. All of this is what I have been ruminating on for the last couple of weeks but couldn't articulate in such a way you can. Thank you for being the truth on all things astrology. I feel so lucky to be able to turn to you for guidance at all corners 🙏🏼✨✨
I'm really glad I found you, I think your perspective and honesty is very important, and as a man I find your perspective very refreshing because there can be a male female bias and the male perspective requires a well spoken advocate.. Thank you ❤🙏🦋✨🌞🌜
Thank you so much for saying this, I needed to hear it. Libra transits will often bring up codepedency issues in my husband. And I really dislike and have trouble when he is in that energy and obviously it is gets directed towards me. I am a very free person in relationships and tied strongly to my sense of self so this definitely creates tension between us because he is very partnership oriented. Anyway this energy was coming up for us again lately.
Authentic Astrology !
Our Aries / Libra axis is now lit up..
Lol
Saying it boldly !!!!
you better preach that truth Timothy! Finally, someone who isn't a bullshitter ❤
Thank you for sharing your hard earned knowledge on here 🙏🏾✨🖤💫🌌🌒 you are so loved and appreciated!
I love your honesty. Bless you.
11.07 Yes! Thank you for this message. Seeing life through an evolutionary perspective have changed the “game” for me. Born 1958 and an elder now I can really feel your deep sincere care in this “get real shadow work”. Profound energy makes my heart beat and as a fiery asc Airies with sun in Pisces and a whole lot more going on as Pluto hits my natal Venus at 2 degrees Aquarious… well 😅 I enjoy listening to you - makes me brave and willing to evolve even more. Brutal love is the key to your self and you become a better partner. Thank you again 💪🌱❤️
you are so 'in your face' love it! I look forward to more honesty specially at the highest level where there is little.
YES! Timothy, you are my hero. I admire your work so dearly. Thank you for your service
Top vid, always insightful, meaningful and relative, i didn't realise the nodes were so pivotal, cheers for sharing, you definitely resonate with me ♊
Ur always hitting on them fluffies Timmy, and so U shud.
Love ya Tim
I really like your style...I oriwnt in the same direction ...especially about the direction of the human species... And..other living co inhabitants of our planet .
The non-existence of the sparkles made this divine message perfectly timed and absolutely spot on. Thank you thank you thank you… gratitude always 🕊️
Wow, thank you for passing on these teachings with incredible clarity! Good luck to you, too! And to all.
Becoming our own best friend, then maintain such friendly protocoles with others, taking time to know self and other before mingling energies and parasitical programs that often creates conflicts, projections, accusation. Free end ship is a higher form of LOVE as it shows CARE without wanting to “control”, manipulate as soo many couples do to eachother in the name of love… free end ship is detached from the outcome, does not accuse the other of triggers felt, unresolved trauma, neglect, unrecognized insecurities, rather reflects and searches for the wound that needs to be healed, elevated, acknowledged, matured. I Appreciate your unique creative style and in sight Timothy
I love your message and the way you deliver! Thankyou
really appreciate you and your raw insight.
hearing you speak about the hate u receive reminds me of this quote "the loneliest people are the ones who always spoke the truth" - (kings of convenience)
this vid is so important, thank u for speaking about love in this way.. the codependent dynamic is everywhere n so necessary to bring this to attention
that was perfect. I cancelled catchups ,realising they were not in alighnment , I was pushing forward through the urge to be nice. it was like death charges were detonating through the wormholes of eveything. So much so I rang my libran friebd to say " guess what I just AXED ...how light i feel now" it was so hard I actually physically dropped to the floor ,,,knowing with this eclipse I would have a clear slate . Then I made warm lentils ...found a blanket ,,,,ahhhhh Rasalilahealing...now I shall see this. Grinning through my lentils much ....he he. Your awesome. So much gratitude, WHAT A PERFECT ARTICULATION oF HOW IT BEEZE!
Thank you so much Timothy for the uncomfortable questions you openly ask (that I'm asking myself all day every day as well).
Always gonna support you!
I appreciate your honesty and realness! Thanks for telling it like it is.
This is exactly where I am, and what I’m working through, it’s great confirmation that I’m in the right place at the right time and I’m so supported by the astrology in this…
Thanks muchly 🙏🏻
Love this because I've been on the painful end of the shadow sides of Sagittarius, Pisces & Libra. Have loved, been very close to yet also burned by these 3 signs more than any others. I appreciate the mentioning of codependency & deception in relationship with the moon in Libra. I share that savior complex as well. Thank you for tackling the shadow side of astrology!
Omg!! I love Rasa! Always authentic honest and to the point! I love his delivery and truth bombs 🔥🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖
I love ❤your approach and honesty, and you as a intelligent and straightforward spirit 🥰‼️‼️
WOW... So real Rasa... Loved to feel the fire.... Really is what I find myself in.... Grateful for you... Rock on Brother... Thanks... Such a breath of fresh air...
Powerful!!!❤❤❤
I am so grateful for you and coyote star for evolution astrology. I am blessed for you to be on this earth, sharing your wisdom, and all different aspects of life. That is unfolding. Blessings always and thank you for your vulnerability. Deep wisdom.
Thank you, always!! 1st 0.00-2:45 of this 👌👌👌
Holy Mother!!!
I wish you were my friend!!!..that would be fun😍
Love your way and the knots it unravels and Happy Eclipse season to All ❤many many thanks
Wow ,at 67 I wish you were around many years ago .
Thank you for being you !
I will admit that I look up to you as someone I hope to speak as clearly like, or even half as clearly. I wish I could do accurate readings so I would return the favor. I hate the way it feels when people pull on your strings for more info, so I just don’t want to bother you. I’m a Sag, but everyone always treated me like I was an over emotional faker or something. Lately I’m drawn to ritual work and doing a practice dying meditation (step through a door say “I die now”). It’s remarkable for grief. 😅
He strikes again!
Man, I find it crazy and yet not surprising at all, that you would receive such backlash from your previous video on stages of spiritual evolution but you said it yourself, Those in lower stages are going to look at us like we’re insane!
thank you for your courage and dedication to bring some actual astrology to the game.
Don’t stop brother you’re doing great!
Good reflections on the nature of relationships, Timothy! There's a lot of realism there! Thank you!
I've always used Placidus, and in Placidus I also have Neptune in my 7th (I've always thought that that's why I've been so idealistic in love... not easy...)
But lately I've been attempting to use Whole Sign House System, and in this my Neptune is in the 8th - which is suddenly making a lot more sense to me!
I appreciate your honesty very much. You speaking truth is always helpful and refreshing!
2:29 wow your intro is 🔥 fire
Thanks
Love your honesty. And how you use your voice. Thank you.
Thank you. I just subscribed from my new channel. I appreciate you & your realness 🌷 gratitude
THANKYOU for your work. I was in codependent relationstips all my adult life, broke free 4 Years ago to experience Freedom and self Exploration and have been having beautiful open partnerships until this year as I’m surprisingly long for outspoken commitment whatever that means in unique relations. What you speak of is exactly what is activated in my life now (duh) as i am releasing my partnerships to really recenter And question my motivations and understanding of freedom and commitment (and compromise/sacrifice?). Going into celibacy until I have recalibrated and I’m being present in what how why and who. I don’t want to escape, I’m ready to commit to myself and see what it means to commit with others!!!
Backdrop - Saturn has the heaviest hand in my creation. I am scarred by the path of one who owns truth and speaks it. Thanks to saturn in my mind, I get away with nothing, evey part of me is exposed and I am not allowed to turn away or play pretend. Forced to turn inward, over and over and over, until I am able to see. However long that takes... And what a fucking gift! It took me a very long to realize how powerfully resilient this arduous process has made me. Because this world thrives on denial and self neglect. I will gladly toil up my mountain in place of watching the bullshit parade.
This has got to be why I feel so gratified listening to you speak. As if truth is the nutrient I am starving for and it is a rare thing to find. And like to preparing food, sometimes I want to taste something I did not create for myself.
Thanks 🎉
l like everything l heard but then you have those coolest shades l Love! Tysm.
Thank you Timothy. Spot on. I love your honesty and reflections....✨
Oh, I have venus in the twelfth too. It's been hard to find an astrologer who can say much more than 'it's a mystery' over the years, while I've been toiling through every extreme relationship scenario anyone could imagine! I also have a north node scorpio, and have read one of the wolf - green books on pluto, many years ago.
I'm very pleased to hear you, at every major transit. And trust you. Thanks Tim.
Thank you from the bottom of my soul….keeping it so real that we can’t run from ourselves..like this world programmes us perfectly then fucking boom…, badass standalone voice of truth, reason the illogical matrix. ❤
This one was particularly brilliant! Thanks Timmothy!! 😸
Yeah, loved it, thank you
Rock 'n' roll🎉 north node in Libra here in the 12th house. Fortunately, my Venus, sun, Neptune and sun in Scorpio is in love with what you're saying. If I listen to my libra rising, I'd be quaking in my boots right now. Darkness is no stranger and it's been a dark winter.
We are not here to be everyone's best friend. 🔥
Love your energy, you tell it like it is. Or more likely, as it should be.
I think politeness has a time and place, but today no one knows how to actually feel an emotion so it all comes off as fake and robotic.
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So much love from Sweden 🇸🇪and me to all of you 🌏🌞❤️☀️✨and specially to you Rasalila Healing ❤️🩹 🦋💃🏻🐣🌞♊️
This is so very spot on!!!
Thank you for sharing your truth! I enjoy your biweekly astrology forecasts.
Thank you thank you thank you!!! I've been told I'm the queen of Doom and Gloom because I do not do the fluffy hopium astrology I tell my clients directly what to prepare for and what could be coming both good and bad
Grazie.
'Let your ambition be the achievement on earth of a heavenly civilisation' [Bahai writings]
Exactly what was needed to hear - thank you!
Yes Timothy. Yes and. There are also beautiful and valuable astrologers out there in the YT community . Nightlight Astrology with Adam Elenbaas, Raising Vibrations with Simon, coyote star Astrology with Alex… grateful for all the complementary valuable incisive insights and teachings that are out there ✨👌🏽
This reading rocks!!! Thank you from a Sun and stellium in Libra with natal Chiron in Aries!!!
thank you!!!!!!!
I love your honesty and introspection. A breath of fresh air. Alas, I share your issue - broken wing, savior complex. Will be interested to learn how one evolves past it, or heals it so it can be let go of.
I appreciate you, speaking straight.
Thank You Thimothy Always Helpful.❤❤❤love your take on Astrology !!
You the real deal ❤
I appreciate you making this video, I want to comment on your view regarding politeness - the intent if it is true; to say please & thank you carries a higher vibrational pattern & increases overall harmony, than not saying it, this is only true if one’s intent is to truly be real with pleading or saying please & being grateful or saying thanks, if the speakers intent is not true than this is where I agree with you-using those words can be harmful to the authenticity of a situation if the speaker is not truly thankful or pleading when they say please or thank you - sadly a lot of peeps & situations do involve a good deal of pleases & thank you’s that are not genuine not because the use of them is unauthentic but because they as you say have been conditioned to do so & so out of a desire to confirm & or get what they want-people often say these things but when someone is really thankful or pleading the energetic vibration is quite good & High in its Nature as they helps complement the overall Love or life perpetuating energy through choosing to use words that enhance that particular good flavor or pattern of 411- it’s good to see you & I look forward for more - Thank You & Good Inerchi To All 🙏
Whoop! 🙌As a Libra Rising, as well as Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto in Libra and Chiron in my 7th, in the midst of a chaotic divorce from a NPD individual, this message speaks to my soul. 💛 Thank you! 🙏🏻
I too have Venus in the 12th house. It's hard, so I feel for you brother. I think these difficult things have a huge potential for growth, the struggle for understanding a key in itself. Bloody Venus is shadowy too sometimes.
Thank you.
So mucho 🌱🙏🌱I highly appreciate your approach 🙏🌱🧚🏼♀️ i hâte toxic positivity it is damaging
I deeply appreciate the respect of complexity .
It’s challenging. Just as you are in your recent posts
I appreciate so much your confrontational approach 👍👍👍👍
Thank you I totally agree with you !
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