I’ve never understood how people can judge someone by their skin tone. I was bullied due to my pale skin that would NEVER tan despite living in the desert. I was either a pale red head, or a burned/peeling red head. In regards to people in my life, I hung out with people who shared interests. Skin/preference/ethnicity never even pops into my head. We all live our lives and others live theirs. If we happen to cross paths then we are only better for it. That’s what I grew up believing and will continue to believe.
I subscribe to your way of thinking also. I'm 64 now but even in my younger dating years, when racism was much worse, I couldn't understand why others had such strong attitudes when I dated outside of my own race. And I've dated several different races too. My criteria was how they treated me and others, not a skin tone.
So you don't know anything about organ transplants, that's fine. Better pray your kids don't need a kidney though, because the chances yours will be a match are damn near negative
I happen to understand that violence and hitting someone is not something that should be done, but it also seems that the MIL was not ever going to straighten out. I can't believe that the FIL actually deserved charges being filed against him, but MIL was one of those people who kept pushing, and pushing and pushing, and the truth is that verbal and emotional about is every bit as harmful and should be considered every bit as vile and unacceptable as physical abuse, and MIL would not stop. It seems that everyone was trying to do what they could to deescalate the situation, rein MIL in, limit her ability to continue to hurt OP, but it wasn't working. In a personal way what really should have happened long before the wedding and the situation escalating to FIL slapping MIL is she should not have been allowed to attend the wedding. She is an extremely toxic witch, and she really needs to be having restraining orders filed, divorce papers serviced and her kicked out of the family and cut off with no family. She is never going to learn and all that is actually going to happen if her husband, kids, and everyone continues to think of her as a human being that is capable of learning or being redeemed is that she is going to continue to pull this toxic shit and eventually go way too far at some point with the wrong person. There are some people who are too vile to actually be living in this society and she is one of them. She is a disgusting waste of skin and the sooner the decent people around her recognize that fact and cut her totally out of their lives the better.
The reason the father in law slapped the mother in law was he had reached a breaking point, he had probably been trying to correct the mother in laws racist backwards views for ages and reached his limit when the thought of her racism ruining the daughters wedding crossed his mind. The idea of a full blown fight triggered by the MIL's words and actions broke the seal on his pent up emotions and he did the only thing he could to prevent a worse outcome. I'm not defending physical assault but when compared to other posdible outcomes such as the wedding being called off, the OP breaking up with her boyfriend, the cost of cancelling the wedding or even the separation of the 2 families as the husband's family may not look to kindly towards the mothers blatant racism, i think the slap shock reaction was probably the least worst solution. Nowhere near the best but at definitely not the worst solution.
Merry Christmas I love listening to you read these crazy stories but I've been there done that I'm black and my husband is white I didn't invite any of my husband's side of the family to my wedding and that was that because I knew the one that was prejudice so to avoid any consequences I decided not to so we got married at the Justice and I didn't invite any of his family and we live on the east coast and majority of his family live on the West so I only said maybe once or twice a year and that's just fine with me I fell in love and I think we doing pretty okay we've been married for 23 years I have no time for toxic and poison mind of other people's merry Christmas and I hope you have a wonderful and happy New Year and life 🤔☹️🙏❤
This is one of those stories I feel like I'm being hand held to hate some, love others. No. This family, this father, was perfectly fine with rcist Mag before OP showed up. Why did dad marry a racist, hm? Like the hand held story of the political candidate husband cheating with OPs aunt. We were supposed to not notice OP and mom were going to dupe the voters to not see the demented family they were. If it weren't for husband dying, I had a feeling they were going to give him a free pass. All demented, not just Mag.
Sadly, sometimes love blinds you to the obvious red flags until it's too late. love is like wearing rose-colored sunglasses, all the flags look the same color so you can't tell apart green and red flags apart... they're just all pink. Picture that you're an white boy dating a white girl, right? You wouldn't notice that the parties your girlfriend keeps on bringing you to is consisted of only white people, especially if the area you live is populated with mostly white people. You're used to being around others like yourself even though you're not racist and is perfectly okay hanging out with people who aren't like yourself. so you literally never think about that part. But when you find out that she and her father are racist? blam, all those seemingly innocent parties now doesn't seem so innocent anymore in hindsight. That's how easy it is to overlook red flags, especially if you live in an area where the topic of racism isn't likely to be brought up due to demographics living in the area. people say that you should always discuss the topics of wanting kids or not, religious, etc during the dating process. I think we should definitely add on the race talk too, just to make sure we all don't accidently date racists.
@@C.Church you have a point. but the animation that came with the story made me think that she was the only black person that had been introduced to that family as litterally everyone else was white. Which made me think that's the reason why nobody noticed that she was a racist on top of being an overall unpleasant person. Their thought process was proably that she was being an asshole AGAIN and that it had nothing to do with race... until the witch made it perfectly clear that it was in fact about race, and not just her being an total witch as usual.
Commenter 2 from last update: We know its you Mag the Mad. You point out she is financially dependent on her husband, when she refuses to get a job. She gets slapped at her daughters wedding for publicly being racist, she is like that because she did it to herself. The slapping action was a mistake, yes, but her not wanting to get a job is not anyone elses problem except hers and her husband.
He slapped her BC she was risking their livelihood 💯❗‼️ the person she's insulting is the daughter of the man that just bought his company.....duh🙄 nothing wrong with husband handling his business and it got her in line, she can leave if she wants to. Maybe he'll keep his job without her 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏾
Honest Father in law did good. I mean mother in law was bad seriously bad she was basically a racist and bad. She was evil and u shouldn't act just because of his slap. The mother in law needed to some sort of punishment. I don't think he's abusive to her it was his first time slapping her. Should just ignore her even if she oneday finds out ur father is rich. Because honest him being having too much stress on can do that and thanks to mother in law acting up being bad n her not working breaks him Commenter 2. Seems like a idiot I mean come on mother in law was bad racist and basically puts stress on her husband while he works she causes trouble for him so of course we won't care he had stress
Why are we supposed to give that weak husband a free pass for marrying and reproducing with a person like that? He is no hero. No "Boo hoo beleaguered husband at the mercy of a wicked woman who trapped him out of nowhere". Someone like that doesn't hide it as we saw in public examples, so he knew.
@@C.Church yet my guess they we in love but over time she grew worse n maybe he stuck out for his kids or thought she could change who fucking knows but she did truly deserve the slap he hasn't abuse her in his entire life n only slapped her once and that's when she truly deserved in don't tell me u never met someone who deserved a slap for their bad actions
@C.Church I aint changing anything. The son n daughter even said it they would of slapped her too does that mean their at fault for letting it fester ?
@@black-wizard-zeref Bro I'm not talking about the slap. He could have said something years ago. That's my point. He was fine with it all until OP came along. It was too late though. Imagine if he straightened her out years ago, OP might have had a good time with her from the start, never this issue. This is part of partnership.
the 2nd ending commenter is a real vile, too. straight up twisting, adding and lieing about the infos we got out from this story, to make a cheap "domestic violence" claim. topped of with "what if" bullshit and imaginery of violence, which there were 0 hints for. Defending a person who doesn't even work to help their financial problems. This person is as disgusting as the MIL of this story!
To comment on that last comment. I'm going to assume this person is a survivor of a terrible case of DV or this person has never had a real conflict in their life. While I can not in good conscience condone Mag's husband's actions, I applaud it. Again don't approve it but that was an act of passion and in that man's frustration with life he did not... could not allow even his wife the mother of his daughter to ruin his daughter's day.
Comment 2: You should all be suporting Mad MiL as she is woman, hear her roar, no accountability and all that other feminist bollocks. Yeah, no... Even Ice Hockey has 2 minutes for instigating.
"RACISM IS VIOLENCE ". "WORDS CAN HIT AS HARD AS A FIST" " A CLOSED MOUTH IS A HARMLESS MOUTH" "PLAY STUPID GAMES WIN STUPID PRIZES" "GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR" lastly " DON'T DISH IT OUT IF YOU CAN'T TAKE IT"‼️That lesson was bought and paid for in CASH"‼️‼️‼️
The problem I have with the 2 comment was that everyone laughed when he slapped her. No one laughed. Not one single person so you only heard what you wanted to hear. No one thought it was funny and no one thought it was ok. So where that garbage you were spewing came from is beyond me
While slapping her was not right, and his extreme stress level is certainly a factor in his impatience, it does not excuse the slap, I do not believe he is an abuser as a few suggested, because he in fact did apologize and admit it was wrong ( and yes I know many abusers do that) it was a first time and he immediately joined his wife in couples therapy to resolve the problem, most real abusers refuse to do that don't they?...his wife seems less remorseful about her ongoing, long standing, aggressive behavior that is just as abusive,.... seems like there is more than one issue for the therapist to guide them to address...
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pops slapped some sense into her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Congratulations on your engagement OP. Hope things gets better with mother in-law.
I’ve never understood how people can judge someone by their skin tone. I was bullied due to my pale skin that would NEVER tan despite living in the desert. I was either a pale red head, or a burned/peeling red head. In regards to people in my life, I hung out with people who shared interests. Skin/preference/ethnicity never even pops into my head. We all live our lives and others live theirs. If we happen to cross paths then we are only better for it. That’s what I grew up believing and will continue to believe.
I subscribe to your way of thinking also. I'm 64 now but even in my younger dating years, when racism was much worse, I couldn't understand why others had such strong attitudes when I dated outside of my own race. And I've dated several different races too. My criteria was how they treated me and others, not a skin tone.
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A little of sun every morning is good U don't to a sun tan
So you don't know anything about organ transplants, that's fine. Better pray your kids don't need a kidney though, because the chances yours will be a match are damn near negative
@@lithuaniaball I’m think you commented on the wrong comment, as this short thread has nothing regarding organ donation/transplants.
Maybe OP's MIL will see this as a wake up call. MIL and FIL attending marriage counseling is a good sign.
I happen to understand that violence and hitting someone is not something that should be done, but it also seems that the MIL was not ever going to straighten out. I can't believe that the FIL actually deserved charges being filed against him, but MIL was one of those people who kept pushing, and pushing and pushing, and the truth is that verbal and emotional about is every bit as harmful and should be considered every bit as vile and unacceptable as physical abuse, and MIL would not stop. It seems that everyone was trying to do what they could to deescalate the situation, rein MIL in, limit her ability to continue to hurt OP, but it wasn't working. In a personal way what really should have happened long before the wedding and the situation escalating to FIL slapping MIL is she should not have been allowed to attend the wedding. She is an extremely toxic witch, and she really needs to be having restraining orders filed, divorce papers serviced and her kicked out of the family and cut off with no family. She is never going to learn and all that is actually going to happen if her husband, kids, and everyone continues to think of her as a human being that is capable of learning or being redeemed is that she is going to continue to pull this toxic shit and eventually go way too far at some point with the wrong person. There are some people who are too vile to actually be living in this society and she is one of them. She is a disgusting waste of skin and the sooner the decent people around her recognize that fact and cut her totally out of their lives the better.
The reason the father in law slapped the mother in law was he had reached a breaking point, he had probably been trying to correct the mother in laws racist backwards views for ages and reached his limit when the thought of her racism ruining the daughters wedding crossed his mind. The idea of a full blown fight triggered by the MIL's words and actions broke the seal on his pent up emotions and he did the only thing he could to prevent a worse outcome. I'm not defending physical assault but when compared to other posdible outcomes such as the wedding being called off, the OP breaking up with her boyfriend, the cost of cancelling the wedding or even the separation of the 2 families as the husband's family may not look to kindly towards the mothers blatant racism, i think the slap shock reaction was probably the least worst solution. Nowhere near the best but at definitely not the worst solution.
The last comment was upset because she’s probably the same kind of person that the mother-in-law was evil witch birds of the feather flop together
Congratulations on the engagement my dear?!❤❤
“He shouldn’t have slapped her!” I disagree.
I think this was a guy worried about losing his kids, and has put up with her garbage for years. What she did was his breaking point.
To OP, YAY!!!! Good luck and God bless you.
That say stuff like that but never had a person act like that in front of them
Merry Christmas I love listening to you read these crazy stories but I've been there done that I'm black and my husband is white I didn't invite any of my husband's side of the family to my wedding and that was that because I knew the one that was prejudice so to avoid any consequences I decided not to so we got married at the Justice and I didn't invite any of his family and we live on the east coast and majority of his family live on the West so I only said maybe once or twice a year and that's just fine with me I fell in love and I think we doing pretty okay we've been married for 23 years I have no time for toxic and poison mind of other people's merry Christmas and I hope you have a wonderful and happy New Year and life 🤔☹️🙏❤
This is one of those stories I feel like I'm being hand held to hate some, love others. No. This family, this father, was perfectly fine with rcist Mag before OP showed up. Why did dad marry a racist, hm? Like the hand held story of the political candidate husband cheating with OPs aunt. We were supposed to not notice OP and mom were going to dupe the voters to not see the demented family they were. If it weren't for husband dying, I had a feeling they were going to give him a free pass.
All demented, not just Mag.
Sadly, sometimes love blinds you to the obvious red flags until it's too late. love is like wearing rose-colored sunglasses, all the flags look the same color so you can't tell apart green and red flags apart... they're just all pink.
Picture that you're an white boy dating a white girl, right? You wouldn't notice that the parties your girlfriend keeps on bringing you to is consisted of only white people, especially if the area you live is populated with mostly white people. You're used to being around others like yourself even though you're not racist and is perfectly okay hanging out with people who aren't like yourself. so you literally never think about that part. But when you find out that she and her father are racist? blam, all those seemingly innocent parties now doesn't seem so innocent anymore in hindsight. That's how easy it is to overlook red flags, especially if you live in an area where the topic of racism isn't likely to be brought up due to demographics living in the area.
people say that you should always discuss the topics of wanting kids or not, religious, etc during the dating process. I think we should definitely add on the race talk too, just to make sure we all don't accidently date racists.
@@AuroraMoon2000 I would agree, except this lady was brazen about her opinions. It wasn't like rrickle-in, a micro-aggression type thing.
@@C.Church you have a point. but the animation that came with the story made me think that she was the only black person that had been introduced to that family as litterally everyone else was white.
Which made me think that's the reason why nobody noticed that she was a racist on top of being an overall unpleasant person. Their thought process was proably that she was being an asshole AGAIN and that it had nothing to do with race... until the witch made it perfectly clear that it was in fact about race, and not just her being an total witch as usual.
Thank you
MIL got someone or thing bugged
Merry Christmas or Happy Hanukkah and Happy New Year ❄ ☃ 🎊 🎎 🎉 🎄
Why was he even with this monster? For his children? Still embarrassing asf on his part.
Commenter 2 from last update: We know its you Mag the Mad. You point out she is financially dependent on her husband, when she refuses to get a job. She gets slapped at her daughters wedding for publicly being racist, she is like that because she did it to herself. The slapping action was a mistake, yes, but her not wanting to get a job is not anyone elses problem except hers and her husband.
xD, the last controversial comment might be MIL trying to garner some sympathy.
He slapped her BC she was risking their livelihood 💯❗‼️ the person she's insulting is the daughter of the man that just bought his company.....duh🙄 nothing wrong with husband handling his business and it got her in line, she can leave if she wants to. Maybe he'll keep his job without her 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏾
Honest Father in law did good. I mean mother in law was bad seriously bad she was basically a racist and bad. She was evil and u shouldn't act just because of his slap. The mother in law needed to some sort of punishment. I don't think he's abusive to her it was his first time slapping her.
Should just ignore her even if she oneday finds out ur father is rich. Because honest him being having too much stress on can do that and thanks to mother in law acting up being bad n her not working breaks him
Commenter 2. Seems like a idiot I mean come on mother in law was bad racist and basically puts stress on her husband while he works she causes trouble for him so of course we won't care he had stress
Why are we supposed to give that weak husband a free pass for marrying and reproducing with a person like that? He is no hero. No "Boo hoo beleaguered husband at the mercy of a wicked woman who trapped him out of nowhere". Someone like that doesn't hide it as we saw in public examples, so he knew.
@@C.Church yet my guess they we in love but over time she grew worse n maybe he stuck out for his kids or thought she could change who fucking knows but she did truly deserve the slap he hasn't abuse her in his entire life n only slapped her once and that's when she truly deserved in don't tell me u never met someone who deserved a slap for their bad actions
@@black-wizard-zeref You're changing the subject. The dad allowed it to fester for years. He is as bad.
@C.Church I aint changing anything. The son n daughter even said it they would of slapped her too does that mean their at fault for letting it fester ?
@@black-wizard-zeref Bro I'm not talking about the slap. He could have said something years ago. That's my point. He was fine with it all until OP came along. It was too late though. Imagine if he straightened her out years ago, OP might have had a good time with her from the start, never this issue. This is part of partnership.
the 2nd ending commenter is a real vile, too.
straight up twisting, adding and lieing about the infos we got out from this story, to make a cheap "domestic violence" claim.
topped of with "what if" bullshit and imaginery of violence, which there were 0 hints for.
Defending a person who doesn't even work to help their financial problems.
This person is as disgusting as the MIL of this story!
Im white i had a black dr he was a great person
To comment on that last comment. I'm going to assume this person is a survivor of a terrible case of DV or this person has never had a real conflict in their life.
While I can not in good conscience condone Mag's husband's actions, I applaud it. Again don't approve it but that was an act of passion and in that man's frustration with life he did not... could not allow even his wife the mother of his daughter to ruin his daughter's day.
Personally, I would've told her we needed time apart, and she needed to stay elsewhere for the time being heavily implying divorce.
He didn’t hit her with his fist
Her actions got her, she got what she gave. Sometimes people do get what they deserve
Comment 2: You should all be suporting Mad MiL as she is woman, hear her roar, no accountability and all that other feminist bollocks.
Yeah, no... Even Ice Hockey has 2 minutes for instigating.
Hey peeps
This is an OLD story from you....... I don't remember from when, but I DO remember it
"RACISM IS VIOLENCE ". "WORDS CAN HIT AS HARD AS A FIST" " A CLOSED MOUTH IS A HARMLESS MOUTH" "PLAY STUPID GAMES WIN STUPID PRIZES" "GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR" lastly " DON'T DISH IT OUT IF YOU CAN'T TAKE IT"‼️That lesson was bought and paid for in CASH"‼️‼️‼️
The problem I have with the 2 comment was that everyone laughed when he slapped her. No one laughed. Not one single person so you only heard what you wanted to hear. No one thought it was funny and no one thought it was ok. So where that garbage you were spewing came from is beyond me
the last comment is from a racist.
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If she shows up at next meeting just tell her to leave if necessary get a restraining order against her
While slapping her was not right, and his extreme stress level is certainly a factor in his impatience, it does not excuse the slap, I do not believe he is an abuser as a few suggested, because he in fact did apologize and admit it was wrong ( and yes I know many abusers do that) it was a first time and he immediately joined his wife in couples therapy to resolve the problem, most real abusers refuse to do that don't they?...his wife seems less remorseful about her ongoing, long standing, aggressive behavior that is just as abusive,.... seems like there is more than one issue for the therapist to guide them to address...
Is this a far eastern tale.
Commenter No 2 talks 23: bullcrap
Here we go with the racist trope again...gonna run out of this topic soon?
as long as there's racism...doubtful
Tell the racist to stop and you won’t hear it anymore